5 Hints Your Friendship Is Turning Into Love

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  • čas přidán 23. 10. 2022
  • Are you starting to catch feelings for your friend? If so, how can you tell where it’s going to lead? Friendships can be complicated, especially when there is potential for it to develop into something more. To help you self-reflect and bring a little more clarity to this topic, today we’ll be talking about the hints that your friendship is becoming romantic.
    We also made an opposite video - the signs they only see you as a friend, not lover: • 8 Signs You're Just a ...
    Writer: Monique Zizzo
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO:Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: Krisha Que ( / macchiusmoriatostudios07 )
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References
    Banes, K. (2017, April 27). 15 Signs Your Friendship With That Man is Turning into a Romance. FamilyToday.
    www.familytoday.com/relationships/15-signs-your-friendship-with-that-man-is-turning-into-a-romance/
    Cook, M. (2018, July 20). 7 signs your friend is in love with you. Insider.
    www.insider.com/signs-your-friend-wants-to-be-more-2018-7#they-take-an-interest-in-things-you-like-3
    Pace, R. (2021, November 12). 15 Signs of Friendship Turning Into Love. Marriage Advice - Expert Marriage Tips & Advice.
    www.marriage.com/advice/love/signs-a-friendship-is-turning-into-love/
    Tayloe, D. (2021, March 9). 10 Signs A Friendship Is Turning Into Love. Power of Positivity: Positive Thinking & Attitude.
    www.powerofpositivity.com/friendship-turning-into-love/?fbclid=IwAR1eNamyRvPwJwjh8ZQ1E82Wqlvecz6iMiFJ1U_2Z8H0FCU229PlLi8qGyw
    Williams, E. (2021, June 2). Signs That Your Friendship Is Turning Into Something More. Curious Mind Magazine.
    www.curiousmindmagazine.com/signs-that-your-friendship-is-turning-into-something-more/

Komentáře • 970

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před rokem +781

    Have you fallen in love with your friends before? How did it go?

    • @Raineirplayz
      @Raineirplayz Před rokem +75

      I Have No Friends

    • @multi_otaku6867
      @multi_otaku6867 Před rokem +53

      yes I have, I confessed to them and they felt the same way but we ended up not doing anything about the mutual feelings and now we're in a gray area

    • @evelingomez686
      @evelingomez686 Před rokem +24

      It was beautiful experience ❤

    • @Raineirplayz
      @Raineirplayz Před rokem +11

      @@spiderscanwalklikehuman technically its me and i saw the comment first but ok

    • @josephtplackal6013
      @josephtplackal6013 Před rokem +22

      Ya. She proposed to me . But she left me without any reason 💔🥺😕😭😩

  • @lavendertease
    @lavendertease Před rokem +4228

    When I was 17, I found out a friend in high school had a crush on me. Now, we’re 31 with 2 kids. I just wanted to share 🥰

  • @fkndeadinsd9524
    @fkndeadinsd9524 Před rokem +590

    "An unhappy marriage is most often caused not by a lack of love, but rather because of a lack of friendship" - Nietzche

  • @neillist5517
    @neillist5517 Před rokem +1015

    Getting feelings for friends is messy. It's frequently one sided. I've been friendzoned so many times I could do a TED talk.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Před rokem +61

      I came to the comment section to find comments to relate to. So, thanks...

    • @daniella4800
      @daniella4800 Před rokem +7

      😂😂😂lol

    • @darthvader0219
      @darthvader0219 Před rokem +31

      At least you’ve been friend zoned. I have not been able to get close to a woman without wanting something else. If there is no friendship to begin with, the only thing that is going to follow your rejection is total silence!

    • @neillist5517
      @neillist5517 Před rokem +5

      @@darthvader0219 I hear you brother.

    • @theunrealoreo621
      @theunrealoreo621 Před rokem +2

      Fuckin same dude

  • @quantlight
    @quantlight Před rokem +1408

    1. You notice change in body language. 0:30
    2. You get jealous of each other's past or potential partners. 1:05
    3. You are more nervous each other than usual. 1:34
    4. Your friends are starting to notice 2:13
    5. Your conversations are deeper and more frequent. 2:47
    Thanks Psych2go for never stopping.
    Edit - 1 (25/10/2022): Thanks to be here with us.
    Edit - 2 (25/10/2022): *Congratulations!!🥳🥳* Psych2go for 10 million subs.

    • @cheekinyew4417
      @cheekinyew4417 Před rokem +22

      Still waiting

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +103

      Thank you for the timestamps

    • @jacktom3799
      @jacktom3799 Před rokem

      @@cheekinyew4417 dream fans get not bitches period

    • @thegreatunknown8574
      @thegreatunknown8574 Před rokem +12

      I have all of this except number five. We kinda stopped talking due to nervousness/awkwardness.

    • @jacktom3799
      @jacktom3799 Před rokem +11

      @@thegreatunknown8574 ask her out

  • @MoyitasLife
    @MoyitasLife Před rokem +887

    My husband and I were best friends for 7 years! Coming up on our 7 year friendship anniversary we got a tattoo together. And a few months into 7 years we started dating. Now we’re married, with a kid ☺️
    It’s a great relationship with a lot of acceptance 10/10 recommend falling in love with a close friend 🤣

  • @giovannamittelstaedt9326
    @giovannamittelstaedt9326 Před rokem +183

    Falling in love with a friend can be beautiful but also really painful... specially if your friend doesn't feel the same way as you feel.
    I'm 20 and I've been in love two times in my life. Both of them were my friends and both of them didn't feel the same way for me. It's kind of a torturing thing...

    • @kingofmemes5017
      @kingofmemes5017 Před rokem +17

      Yep. _Especially_ if you live with them :/ I ended up just being grateful I get to live with them every day as really good friends and now have lost the feelings I had. It was a lot of stress.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Před rokem +3

      @@kingofmemes5017 You should look into moving somewhere else maybe..

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Před rokem +2

      @Giovanna Mittelstaedt I just want to say.... Yes.

    • @giovannamittelstaedt9326
      @giovannamittelstaedt9326 Před rokem

      @@alexandred.4248 yes.

    • @marioskapetanakis
      @marioskapetanakis Před rokem

      Then they didn't want you in their lives.its simple as that

  • @burningmidnighturn
    @burningmidnighturn Před rokem +172

    Right on target. The best relationships I've had started as being friends.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +13

      How are your relationships now?

    • @burningmidnighturn
      @burningmidnighturn Před rokem +13

      I'm in between relationships right now. The last one (about 3 months ago) was well worth it but we just found out we were going different directions.
      Thanks for asking!!

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh Před rokem +3

      Yeah. Absolutely. And usally the only ones that can actually be called relationships tbh

  • @lilymackay5742
    @lilymackay5742 Před rokem +101

    We started off as best friends and i was so scared to lose our friendship he had to ask me out 3 times before i said yes😅
    We're engaged nowww💍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +9

      Congratulations to you both! It might be scary at first but it’s worth it

    • @peanut_butterr
      @peanut_butterr Před rokem +5

      Aww❤️❤️

  • @ClairDeLume
    @ClairDeLume Před rokem +115

    i’ve known my fiancé since i was 9 years old, and he was 10. we were childhood sweethearts. and eventually our close friendship turned into love. and now i’m 24, and getting married to him in december. i couldn’t be more happier with him, i love him so much.

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Omg childhood friends turned romance? This is my favourite trope

  • @SamCal
    @SamCal Před rokem +342

    This video made me realize that if I were to hang out more with my bff, our friendship might have evolved into romantic love. As of now it's still platonic but that could change really easily considering how my bff's feelings tend to be.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +42

      Do you know how you bff feels towards you? Have you asked?

    • @SamCal
      @SamCal Před rokem +36

      @@Psych2go It shifted from a physical long term friendship to online/distance since I moved countries 1 year ago. We were super close the last 10 months we hanged out in person and some of these previous points above I actually acted upon sometimes we hanged out (like the deeper and more meaningful conversations or the changes in body language) without realizing what were my feelings exactly. I can't speak for my friend or put words in her mouth, but I haven't asked her and certainly don't want to because she's changed and mature a lot for the better sake of her mental and emotional health (plus recovered from a 5 years long toxic relationship from her ex bf). I was not jealous of her ex by any means, and actually felt sorry for the guy since their relationship started well but started to decline slowly but horribly.
      I don't know how does she feel about me but if I had to take a guess, she'd be sure she'd like to keep being my friend and not anything else. The reason I don't want to ask it's because I'd feel stupid by saying something cheesy/corny to her and then be embarrassed afterwards, and honestly, in relation to the previous video of why Intelligent people struggle to date and the reasons for that, well, that also plays into my feelings and knowledge. She's like my perfect candidate for a partner even with all her flaws and defects, but I'm also wary of whether should I jump on the trigger and when (thanks to external factors in both of our lives).

    • @Ellies_edits
      @Ellies_edits Před rokem +3

    • @barkoictolugueneofbairtona2273
    • @ujaanbhattacharya4275
      @ujaanbhattacharya4275 Před rokem

      @@SamCal it's better if you don't ask , I did the mistake ...

  • @airamaulestia4484
    @airamaulestia4484 Před rokem +201

    I've been dating my best friend (that I've known for 2 years) for almost a week and now I notice that there were a lot of signs that I missed before she confessed to me, but I'm so happy she did!
    I'm so proud of her! She sometimes struggled to express her emotions, but look at her now! I can't wait to continue growing with her!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem

      well sad life to me my room mate is not even intrested in my old poke mon toys from the early 2000s

    • @airamaulestia4484
      @airamaulestia4484 Před rokem +23

      @@theno1stnamenolastname362 someone seems to be speaking from experience! Don't worry for us, communication is the base of our relationship and we are comfortable with ourselves; I hope you're able to find some peace of mind, good luck out there!

    • @airamaulestia4484
      @airamaulestia4484 Před rokem +8

      @@Someone3951 uff, that happens sometimes; pokemon toys are cool tho! There must be someone out there that has as good taste as you!

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh Před rokem +10

      Heck yeah i’m so happy for you two and your wonderful relationship, I confessed to my bestie too and we’ve been togheter for two years ❤ he’s my best friend and my love

    • @airamaulestia4484
      @airamaulestia4484 Před rokem +5

      @@rebecca_rh Thanks! I hope my relationship gets to be as wonderful! So far so good we are super healthy but we have a long way to go and a lot to learn but we're doing fine, we send you good vibes from here Senpai! Take care!

  • @TIPipdraws
    @TIPipdraws Před rokem +314

    I absolutely love the animation style! It's so lovely

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +21

      Thank you for your feedback! What other styles would you like to see?

    • @TIPipdraws
      @TIPipdraws Před rokem +11

      @@Psych2go I honestly really love the anime-type style! Rn it's so cute and the quality of animation is always consistently good, keep it up

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem +2

      I would like a uniqe style something cartoony and animeish ( i dont watch anime a) and like blobby ?

    • @essence____beauty_92
      @essence____beauty_92 Před rokem +1

      Facts omg I love it 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @MutedAggression
    @MutedAggression Před 2 měsíci +5

    "Every relationship is an opportunity for learning and evolving."

  • @Therevenant-tu2ju
    @Therevenant-tu2ju Před rokem +30

    Was in a situation where i liked a friend but she was already in a relationship so i ended up dropping my feelings in favor for the friendship and to not sabotage her current relationship, we’re still friends today and I’m grateful to have her as a friend

    • @tainakishihara9827
      @tainakishihara9827 Před 5 měsíci

      I had a few friends like that. After I broke up he wanted to be with me. I said no I wanted to be friends and he left me a well.

  • @Unitato152
    @Unitato152 Před rokem +27

    I met this good friend of mine over the summer before my first year of high school and we became gaming buddies for quite some time, even shipped our characters together for fun whenever we did some friendly RPs together. It was about 4 months in that he admitted to having a small crush on me. It slightly took me by surprise, especially since it's been so long since someone ever felt that way about me. I took some time to think about it for at least 2 months until I realized I began feeling the same way about him. He was catching onto it a few times (noticing that I was wanting to talk and hang out with him more frequently) but I tried my best to hide it until I could find the right time to tell him. Soon enough, on December 14, 2019, I blurted out my feelings for him and... Well, let's just say we've been together for nearly 3-4 years now

  • @madi_stellar
    @madi_stellar Před rokem +90

    I’ve been catching feelings for my one friend. But I just got cheated on by my ex. My “friend” and I just sit next to each other any time I can, we laugh a lot together. He checks up on me, making sure that my mental health is okay and that I’m eating enough. The way he smiles at me and only acts around me makes me think he likes me. Everyone in the class thinks we’re dating, but he tells me that he’s straight.
    Also hello! Time traveler gang :3

    • @nis_bea
      @nis_bea Před rokem +6

      wow 😲

    • @Seranade_WOW
      @Seranade_WOW Před rokem +6

      Woah? How’d you do that? 4 days ago?

    • @loony9157
      @loony9157 Před rokem +4

      WHY IS YOUR MESSAGE FROM 4 DAYS AGO...

    • @smiley4341
      @smiley4341 Před rokem +7

      How is this 4 days ago this was just posted 30 sec ago💀

    • @LX31415
      @LX31415 Před rokem +3

      I am not typically the brightest bulb but how did you send a comment 4 days after the video upload?

  • @angelc286
    @angelc286 Před rokem +34

    Substitute step 5 for spending more time together with a mutual interest.
    Just hanging out more, like binge watching sitcoms together at the end of the day is one of the reasons my husband and I started dating❤ We’ve been married 14 years now.😊

    • @seekerofsouls74
      @seekerofsouls74 Před rokem +3

      I love ❤️ this idea because I absolutely love sitcoms!!!

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation Před rokem +20

    Love yourself and be honest with yourself
    You are a great person

  • @1wayroad935
    @1wayroad935 Před rokem +99

    I sometimes hate the "when friends start to notice" bit. Just because you two have chemistry together doesn't immediately mean that you are obligated to start dating.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +31

      That is true! Sometimes friendships only stay friendships and there’s nothing wrong with that

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem +6

      I gone to chemistry class once and there was this dude his name was bob then we put all those chemical stuff and this dude started looking at another person and not even focusing so i slapped him to get him back to work he should've known that

    • @1wayroad935
      @1wayroad935 Před rokem +2

      @@Someone3951 That's what he gets for looking at someone else when he already has you

    • @nombulelokhanyile945
      @nombulelokhanyile945 Před rokem

      Wow ,l had not seen it that way😐😐

  • @ZayDashAnimates
    @ZayDashAnimates Před rokem +107

    Thank you so much for each video you upload to help us understand hard relationships / friendships even if friends turn out to be toxic. Things can get rough from time to time but we learn from those toxicities and we notice more clear red flags from them. Remember to always take time to boost your energy and confidence so you can prevent people from tearing you down… thank you so much @Psych2Go and happy early 10M subscribers! ❤️

  • @chantengel
    @chantengel Před rokem +13

    I recently( actually yesterday) me and my girlfriend separated and it hit me hard since i love her so much, and I’ve been very sad since then, but watching this video and listening to your soft voice definitely just made me smile a bit and calm down and ease up. Thank you so much and also i love your videos they are so well done, much love!

  • @star-stonelegend
    @star-stonelegend Před rokem +12

    Your videos have help me understand myself and my feelings. Especially since I have developed feelings for this girl I’ve known for 14-15 months. It could be just a minor crush, but my feelings for her kept growing and I am at the point where I want to hang out with her more. I know my journey will be long weather we start as friends from square one or even more then that. But I glade I am getting the chance to know her first.

  • @aestaetic07
    @aestaetic07 Před rokem +6

    I SAW WOTAKOI IN THE THUMBNAIL AND I IMMEDIATELY CLICKED

  • @cosmicspacebub5978
    @cosmicspacebub5978 Před rokem +9

    Did have something like this. But didn’t work out that way. Was catching heavy feelings for my best friend and even told them. However, we agreed our friendship is too good to lose over a relationship. They’re seeing somebody else and I’ve just learned to accept it and move on from my feelings. It’s a slow process but I’m glad our friendship is still strong there. However, these signs will be useful for someone else in the future.

  • @skitts6644
    @skitts6644 Před rokem +9

    I am very emotionally invested in the two characters featured in this video, they have my whole heart

  • @isaidimapotterhead
    @isaidimapotterhead Před rokem +7

    Can we just appreciate how this was animated? This was so great it made me wonder if the friendship I have been carefully having with someone I have known for quite a while now qualifies all these signs. That or maybe she's just super friendly. 😭

  • @tranqui_lil_ie
    @tranqui_lil_ie Před rokem +7

    Ok so...one of my friends is also my crush and sadly we don't talk often. A few months ago we talked like twice a week,but now like...once every month,and I kinda dislike this,but I'm scared about disturbing him,he told me that he's busy etc...sometimes he behave like he's my boyfriend/he has a crush on me,and this made me fell for him,but I think that he does this just because he wants to treat me well. But I appreciate the fact that a few days ago,since I have covid,he worried about how I was doing with that ❤️.
    And only two of my friends knows about this crush,one of them doesn't say anything,another one a few months ago he gave me a lot of advices to know him more but I think I'll do that reaaaaaally slowly. The next "step" is me doing a drawing for his birthday,it will be in december.
    I forgot to say that I also put him on my instagram close friends's list because I want him to "know" him more,there I post some of my "private" drawings etc...sometimes he puts like on my ig's stories,and he told me that he does that if he likes something and it makes me think that he likes my drawings! :)

  • @the_UF365
    @the_UF365 Před rokem +52

    Personally, I'm in a situation where I need to avoid most romantic relationships to keep my friends safe from getting involved in all my drama, but this video cpuld help me with warning signs.

  • @katerina.vidal.
    @katerina.vidal. Před rokem +4

    congrats on 10 million subs! ur channel is so inspirational and I watch it every day! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Duranie4Life
    @Duranie4Life Před rokem +20

    “Your friends are staring to notice” Bruh EVERYONE IN THE LITERAL WHOLE SCHOOL WHO SEE US NOTICES

  • @jennifergray6433
    @jennifergray6433 Před rokem +6

    It's been 19 years. We lost contact along the way. We reconnect last week and I have the feels. But sometimes I doubt myself, doubt what he says and I close off. I know it's been a while but whenever I hear or see him, butterflies ☺️☺️

  • @888MisterX888
    @888MisterX888 Před rokem +6

    Fell for a beautiful girl but as soon as she realized it, she completely cut off the friendship. I'm not even afraid that she doesn't love me back, but I also really love her as a friend. It breaks my heart that she built that distance, even though she might have her very own reasons. Wishing everyone who is going through similar situations that you keep going and open to new partners again! It can be frustrating and painful at the beginning because you always think of that one person, but it will eventually slowly get better from month to month.

    • @xdrazormon454
      @xdrazormon454 Před 8 měsíci

      I'm sorry you've been through this :( I've also been friends with a girl for a year. I then caught feelings for her that reasolted into rejection and blocked so now she's gone. Catching feelings for a friend is risky but eventually you can't hide it for too long and have to let it out

  • @NitwitGuitarist
    @NitwitGuitarist Před rokem +2

    I could have used this a couple months ago lmaoo
    I've known him for five years, but only started crushing on him last year.
    Saw subtle signs he liked me back, but didn't believe it..
    Yes, there was the change in body language, the jealousy, the constant checks to see if we look presentable, our mutual friends making fun of us (some even thought we were already dating) and we literally went from not talking at all to talking and calling every day.
    We've been together for five months now and I couldn't be happier :D

  • @robertnixon7447
    @robertnixon7447 Před rokem

    Always feel like this channel is watching me cause vids like this coming out at perfect times

  • @MiaMoo.
    @MiaMoo. Před rokem +12

    Absolutely love these videos. I feel like I have a crush on my boy bestie. This will really help me to have even more close friendship… possibly love!

  • @smiley4341
    @smiley4341 Před rokem +32

    I love how all the things she said doesn't happen in my life😊❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +9

      It hasn't happened yet! Will you be prepared if it does happen to you?

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem +1

      Smiley im with ya i failed in the intelligent test then the mental age i dont even do all a b and c i run away

    • @smiley4341
      @smiley4341 Před rokem +2

      @@Psych2go thanks!
      But the only problem is that girls take 5-8 steps away from me💀

    • @AmIWhatIAm
      @AmIWhatIAm Před rokem

      @@smiley4341 to tell you, most girls will not interact with boys unless they have to or need to. I'm sure it's the other way around too lol. Usually during group work.
      If you want a more natural approach, maybe you can discuss homework at school if you're still studying. I'm sure all friendships start with something that's common around the environment. For students, this is the easiest way to start a conversation.
      If you have social media, you can share some of your interests if you've added your friends.
      For me I got to talk to my crush because I posted a screenshot of the game he's playing too. (I heard them talking about it in class and I've decided to try it out bcs I like games too). The next day, he came to my place and asked if I played the game and invited me to his group chat with his friends :) We became good friends since then.

  • @rumbodeglasas2797
    @rumbodeglasas2797 Před rokem

    im very glad i stomped abravely on this chanel
    and it has become a routine to watch atleast on video to relax
    i dont even have a crush rn
    im just glad these videos exist

  • @monstercatx
    @monstercatx Před rokem

    All your videos are so cill and satisfying to listen and watch ! It's really helpful !

  • @ShinjouOfficial
    @ShinjouOfficial Před rokem +27

    0:30 - Changes in your body.
    1:05 - get jealous of each other's potential parents.
    1:35 - nervous as usual
    2:13 - friends starting to notice~!
    2:47 - conversations more frequent and deeper.
    I like this channel so here's timestamps!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem +1

      9th well pysch is getting more time stamps then comments but this is society now.

    • @ShinjouOfficial
      @ShinjouOfficial Před rokem

      @@Someone3951 that true

  • @xBlacksStarx
    @xBlacksStarx Před rokem +3

    This was so adorable I loved this video so much haha

  • @peanut_butterr
    @peanut_butterr Před rokem

    YAY EARLY CONGRATULATIONS FOR THE 10M PSYCH2GO❤️🎊
    YOU DESERVE MANY MORE REORGANISATION!!!!
    SENDING HUGS

  • @ashiyahbliss4944
    @ashiyahbliss4944 Před rokem +1

    I freaking love the thumbnail!!!
    As an anime lover, the thumbnail is so cuteee, on point love it so much💗💗

  • @mm.moon13
    @mm.moon13 Před rokem +7

    You are almost at 10M ❤️ Congrats

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much!! We are happy that you are apart of it

  • @theatenusagi
    @theatenusagi Před rokem +17

    You guys are so close to 10 million!! Congrats!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      Yes we are! Thank you for being apart of the community

  • @Rachel-tp3or
    @Rachel-tp3or Před rokem +162

    time stamps! ~~~
    0:30 changes in body language
    1:05 you get jealous of each others past or potential partners
    1:34 you’re more nervous around each other than usual
    2:12 your friends start to notice
    2:46 your conversations are deeper and more frequent

    • @ironical-tofu6
      @ironical-tofu6 Před rokem +2

      This comment is going to have thousands of likes after a while...
      I feel it in my balls...

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +15

      Thank you so much for including it!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem

      7TH LAD

    • @Evelyn-cu5ez
      @Evelyn-cu5ez Před rokem +1

      @@ironical-tofu6 AYO😳📸

  • @lydiahiksan1232
    @lydiahiksan1232 Před rokem +2

    I'm 31 f and my best friend is a guy who is 23. We've spoken to each other everyday for the past year. It's clear we really love each other but we keep it platonic.
    We' live in the same major city.
    We are from different cultures, are different races, had a completely different upbringing, I'm an extrovert and he is an introvert, he's been in relationships and I never have been in one (I like being single and more "free" ), I'm celibate and he is sexually active, and I'm 8 years older (even tho I look 23 and he thought I was at first).
    There are soooooo many differences between us.
    I've never been so emotionally intimate with a guy before and for this long. He stopped telling me about other girls he's sleeping with about 6 months ago.
    He talks to his family about me all the time.
    I rent with my older sister and will be moving to a new apartment next year. Since I'll be living on my own next year and will be allowing him to come over it's clear we will likely become an "old married couple" who does not sleep together. I think when people are age 25 and older they're 2 adults that can make decisions for themselves.
    I've always been someone who is happy on their own but he makes me question this part of myself.

  • @wynbd
    @wynbd Před rokem

    The voice is calming that's why i always find peace with your beautiful videos♡

  • @flowersforthea
    @flowersforthea Před rokem +5

    I was kidnapped with my friend when I was 6, twice. now we're getting married in december so sometimes bad start has a happy ending, as long as you believe and work for it :D

  • @rebecca_rh
    @rebecca_rh Před rokem +8

    My boyfriend is also my bestfriend and tbh that’s just the way a relationship should be, we were best friends before getting togheter, supporting eachother and discussing about our problems, and now that we are togheter we still do. Now he’s my best friend AND my boyfriend

    • @hannahdewinter5515
      @hannahdewinter5515 Před 2 měsíci

      Was it awkward at first with the transition? It can be hard to shift the mindset of seeing someone as a friend to a romantic interest even if you have some attraction there

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh Před 2 měsíci

      @@hannahdewinter5515 I guess for some people it is but not necessarily really, for me it wasn’t hard at all nor awkward, it just happened naturally and painlessly (I guess I was lucky lol), I think it really depends on your mindset and the way you live the transition is different for everyone
      The way I felt it was like the romantic feelings appeared quietly at some point and they started growing with time, until I realized, so I made my move and it just happened,since luckily the same exact thing happened to my partner ^^

  • @Andre-zw5kl
    @Andre-zw5kl Před rokem +2

    Lots of thanks for this wonderful clip. It made me realize that my girlfriend's pal's (she is also my pal's twin sister) and I start to catch feelings to each other (and I don't really know what do do now)

  • @xZadkiel
    @xZadkiel Před rokem +1

    Just exactly what I needed rn, your the best🥰

  • @dinaagyemang336
    @dinaagyemang336 Před rokem +3

    I think he knows I like him or is starting to suspect. But I belive we have the potential, I've also noticed we copy each others gestures and find it wayy easier to maintain eye contact or just make more eye contact.

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 Před rokem +28

    It can be a big mistake to fall in love with a friend and ruin the friendship it's not worth losing a friendship

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +8

      That is something to think of. What if they feel the same way too?

    • @liamodonovan6610
      @liamodonovan6610 Před rokem +1

      @@Psych2go that could happen but that is s very rare occurrence

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem +2

      Money cant buy love but love break friendship thats way of life

    • @liamodonovan6610
      @liamodonovan6610 Před rokem +1

      @@Someone3951 i would perfer to stay friends

    • @peanut_butterr
      @peanut_butterr Před rokem

      That's true one of my valuable friendships fell apart bc that person cought feelings for me while I was obsessed with my former crush (funny ik lol) however I had to reject him he still sometimes text me and bring up unnecessary fights and stuff which is annoying🥴 we no more good friends

  • @aapjm
    @aapjm Před rokem

    10 million subs???!! omg i remember when this channel only had like a million followers and it was just like a year ago. congrats!!

  • @xyn5804
    @xyn5804 Před rokem +2

    I love the Wotakoi reference in the thumbnail! ❤

  • @pc1231
    @pc1231 Před rokem +4

    congrats on nearly 10 million!!! ❤❤❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      We are so close! So happy you are apart of it with us

    • @Commentingstuff
      @Commentingstuff Před rokem +1

      @@Psych2go :D

    • @pc1231
      @pc1231 Před rokem

      @@Psych2go 👍👍👍

  • @UndercoverTherapist
    @UndercoverTherapist Před rokem +14

    I think the best types of romantic relationships are the ones that started from friendships.

  • @kart01
    @kart01 Před rokem

    You’re almost at 10 million, keep it up

  • @radouanemegherbi3499
    @radouanemegherbi3499 Před rokem

    Ouch, watching this hurts. Early congratulations on 10 millions 💛✨🥳

  • @SQUIDSHANDLE
    @SQUIDSHANDLE Před rokem +7

    Thank you I have been struggling with this situation

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +3

      I’m sorry to hear that, did this video help you?

    • @SQUIDSHANDLE
      @SQUIDSHANDLE Před rokem

      @@Psych2go yes it did

  • @overeasymode
    @overeasymode Před rokem +9

    I'm not sure if relationships that start out as friends turn into lovers are the best. But I do l know that the best relationships in love are best friends.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +3

      That’s true. Sometimes friendships don’t turn into relationships but we all want to be best friends with the person we love

    • @rebecca_rh
      @rebecca_rh Před rokem

      At the end of the day, your romantic partner is also your best friend so i agree

  • @manarmohialdeen3939
    @manarmohialdeen3939 Před rokem

    Your voice is so soothing and relaxing❤

  • @adammanuel3525
    @adammanuel3525 Před 10 měsíci

    Thankyou for this video, i learned a lot. My heart broke.

  • @Seranade_WOW
    @Seranade_WOW Před rokem +40

    1. 0:30 You notice changes in body language
    2. 1:07 You get jealous of each other’s past or potential partners
    3. 1:36 You’re more nervous around each other than usual
    4. 2:14 Your friends are starting to NOTICE
    5. 2:49 Your conversations are deeper and more frequent
    Your welcome! :D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      Thank you for the timestamps!

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem

      8th :|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| sheesh

    • @Seranade_WOW
      @Seranade_WOW Před rokem

      @@Psych2go Np!

  • @TheCematrixX
    @TheCematrixX Před rokem +23

    What can you do, if you have feelings for a friend but if you know that if you tell them you'll lose them...

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +3

      Why would you lose your friend if you told them?

    • @FFRrox
      @FFRrox Před rokem

      @@Psych2go I feel that's one of the risks of having feelings for someone like a friend. Also, from my experience, sharing feelings like that for friends, let alone crushes DID NOT end well because of rejection and awkwardness. If it doesn't work out for a someone who is a friend, for me, it likely wouldn't work out if I met up someone in a social setting and confessed to them. I'm way too shy and socially awkward to be able to risk this kind of thing again

  • @maxiew
    @maxiew Před rokem +1

    omg i love the new art style!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem

      Thank you for your feedback!

  • @RunOut25
    @RunOut25 Před rokem +2

    1:36 I’m normally always nervous for whatever reason there may be, but I’m not around my friend. I know it’s the exact opposite, but I can just be calm with her. It’s pretty cool.

  • @kres_de
    @kres_de Před rokem +5

    Well this is going to be alot weirder than i expected
    also nice video

  • @Imari3
    @Imari3 Před rokem +4

    People love to ask the single friend for relationship advice. Anyway, nothing is more stressful or frustrating than getting mixed signals. Do they love me? New photos posted, so cool/pretty!! Is that the person they’re in love with? So many questions that can drive a person mad. Sometimes outright rejection is the best way to give closure to someone. When you know that you have no chance, it’s really okay to free your heart. No matter what you’ve been through, know that you’re capable of loving another person. You deserve the warm and kindness you have given to others as well. Please be gentle with yourself. (:

    • @AmIWhatIAm
      @AmIWhatIAm Před rokem +1

      Definitely. 3 years ago, I kinda knew my crush didn't like me, but because I felt very uncomfortable with how I was acting around him, how I used to think about him constantly and my grades were slipping, I just had to just confess and let that part of me shut down lol.
      The rational part of me knows that he doesn't like me, but the emotional part of me keeps doubting it. He was shocked at first when I messaged him, but then I told him the reason why I decided to confess and thanked him for being honest, my heart finally became calm. Though it is a broken friendship now, but at least we don't hold back each other anymore, we pretty much went on with our own lives.

    • @Imari3
      @Imari3 Před rokem

      @@AmIWhatIAm Thank you for sharing this with me. I think the risk of falling for a friend is that if it’s not mutual, we could make things awkward or lost the other person completely. If the relationship doesn’t last, a breakup would yield similar outcome. A lot of things are out of our control completely. When it comes to how you feel, sometimes being logical doesn’t always work. Well, that reminds me of “the heart wants what it wants”. But I think you’re really brave for confessing your feeling. No wondering ‘what if’ later on. There’s always lesson for every experience. And I think he was good for being honest with you as well. As for someone who’d been given false hope so many times, I can understand the agony of holding on to sth that will never happen. I wish you good luck in your future endeavors, in study, work, and love. Take care~

  • @thegoldenwolf3737
    @thegoldenwolf3737 Před rokem

    I am so happy that i found this channel! 😊😊😊🥺💝

  • @LambdaPsi
    @LambdaPsi Před rokem +1

    Psych2go thank you for all your videos, you know how grateful we are of your efforts. Thank you alot

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin Před rokem +11

    0:00 intro
    0:30 1. You notice change in body language.
    1:05 2. You get jealous of each other's past or potential partners.
    1:34 3. You are more nervous each other than usual.
    2:12 4. Your friends are starting to notice
    2:47 5. Your conversations are deeper and more frequent.
    3:32 outro

  • @lightningquiz7924
    @lightningquiz7924 Před rokem +3

    Is it possible for you guys to make a video on when you’re ready to be in a relationship? Not as the giver, but as the receiver

  • @benh2913
    @benh2913 Před rokem +1

    I love this channel. like these videos make me so ❤❤❤❤

  • @Maria-ek5vw
    @Maria-ek5vw Před rokem +1

    I love the animation sm!

  • @r0bin_lmao
    @r0bin_lmao Před rokem +3

    Heyy I love you! Been watching your vids for years!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      You are so sweet! What makes you continue watching our videos?

    • @r0bin_lmao
      @r0bin_lmao Před rokem

      @@Psych2go It help me feel..better I guess I’ve always had problems with my parents friends etc. so it’s kinda nice having somewhere I can turn to to help me feel better!

  • @djfrost7801
    @djfrost7801 Před rokem +6

    I confessed to my best friend, she felt the same way.

  • @Zipz-ju4ir
    @Zipz-ju4ir Před rokem

    10M subs!!!! Congrats❣

  • @sebhipolito5244
    @sebhipolito5244 Před rokem

    Looove the thumbnail!!! Makes me wanna rewatch Wotakoi!

  • @ArcadeMarx
    @ArcadeMarx Před rokem +11

    Regarding the 5th point about conversation, me and my female friend who I am in love with talked about some personal stuff recently and I told her I was in love with a girl (obviously implying her but I don't know if she figured out I was talking about her) and how I feel bad because "that girl" doesn't like me back and I remember her saying "well if she doesn't like you, others will". Also while a friend of her had told me she likes someone when i asked her directly she said "I don't know". Idk are those signs or not.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +4

      Maybe its hard for her to voice her feelings. The best is to evaluate the situation

    • @Someone3951
      @Someone3951 Před rokem +1

      Sad life we will respect you and you will be rememebered for your nice bravery one like ;\

    • @ArcadeMarx
      @ArcadeMarx Před rokem

      @@Psych2go yeah she's hard to understand. I really can't tell yet whether she actually likes someone else (like her friend told me) or if she's interested in me.

    • @matthewtan614
      @matthewtan614 Před 11 měsíci

      @@ArcadeMarx Have you made any progress with her?

  • @snailie
    @snailie Před rokem +3

    So I'm sitting here watching this video and noticing my crush is indeed showing some of those signs mentioned here when we hang out... and people around out do notice and have been teasing us... but I still can't bring myself to believe that he could possibly feel anything more than friendship for me. I know fully well that my self esteem isn't on top when it comes to this, maybe because in the past no man ever took any interest in me other than being buddies, and me being ugly on the outside and weird on the inside... oh well... if it ain't complicated, I guess it's not my life. :(

  • @void_StarXD
    @void_StarXD Před rokem +1

    Tysmm I have been waiting for this type of video tysmm

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +1

      I’m so happy you found it relatable! What did you learn from it?

    • @void_StarXD
      @void_StarXD Před rokem

      @@Psych2go I found out my bff keeps doing that things in the video do u think he really likes me? 😅💙

  • @namratabalasekar5473
    @namratabalasekar5473 Před rokem +1

    The animation and artistics of Psych2Go keep getting better!! Keep going Team!

  • @Zaiichi
    @Zaiichi Před rokem +4

    I feel like they would never like me back, ive known them since grade 2 and they havent even shown a sign they like me back :(

  • @rattersworld1016
    @rattersworld1016 Před rokem +6

    "Are you starting to catch feelings for your friend?" No, I'm watching this because it's entertaining

  • @user-zb4rq3pb4j
    @user-zb4rq3pb4j Před 11 měsíci

    seriously so trueeeee, my whole school, including the teachers, students and staff members gossip about me and shipping me with a girl named Evelyn Wang and those actions in the video are sooooo true but in the end I got rejected by my last year crush who is not Evelyn and is now her adoptive mum... Life is so weird yet so sweet~

  • @_annacamille_
    @_annacamille_ Před rokem

    I met this guy almost a year ago. At first I thought he was this big jerk but he proved me wrong when I got to know him and now he is one of my best friends. I started to catch feelings for him a few months back… I’ve never really felt like this before and it’s all just really puzzling because I thought he liked me too but he keeps giving me mixed signals so I don’t know what to think anymore. A few days ago I opened up to him about my mental health (which I’ve never really done with anyone in the past). We were hanging out on the couch and he put his arm around me and I laid my head on his chest and we interlocked our hands with each other and he slightly squeezed my hand and said “you know I really care about you right? I sort of got this thing…” and then he fumbled with his words like he didn’t know how to say what he wanted to say, “and you are like part of my family. You’ve become like a sister to me.” I feel like I got friend zoned when he said that 😭 so now everything is just really confusing lol.

  • @NezzoTwine
    @NezzoTwine Před rokem +6

    I have a crush on my best friend currently. However, it's a bit hard to tell whether if she likes me since we've only been communicating with each other by text in the past 5 months. I really want to confess to her but I'm too scared of getting rejected and ruining our friendship.
    Also I'm in love with this animating style.

    • @matthewtan614
      @matthewtan614 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Have you made any progress with her?

    • @NezzoTwine
      @NezzoTwine Před 11 měsíci

      @@matthewtan614 Sadly, I got friend zoned but thankfully we're both cool with it and doing great as friends

  • @claretcactus
    @claretcactus Před rokem +4

    help I'm crying the timing is just right😭 yesterday my friend out of nothing just started to act like he is my boyfriend, he leaned on me, hugged me for minutes, kissed me on the forehead and on the cheeks and tried to kiss me on the lips and I'm like what the hell is happening

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +5

      Omg! That’s adorable but how do you feel about the actions he took towards you?

    • @claretcactus
      @claretcactus Před rokem +1

      @@Psych2go I don't know, i liked him for months but i forced myself to put him in the friendzone, now i'm still trying to figure out what i feel and what to do next

    • @tranqui_lil_ie
      @tranqui_lil_ie Před rokem +1

      Aww,this reminds me of me and my friend/crush! Sometimes he behave like he's my boyfriend,like that time where he tried to warm my hands (I felt like they were gonna explode lol) with his...but I let it go because we were at the school gym,anyone could see us.

    • @claretcactus
      @claretcactus Před rokem +1

      @@tranqui_lil_ie awww, that's so cute!!^^

  • @sammessi7765
    @sammessi7765 Před rokem

    Her voice!! 😚❤️✨🤌🏻

  • @aprilrahee
    @aprilrahee Před rokem +1

    Hell! That's what I needed most right now.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem

      What did you take away from the video?

  • @bachpham5025
    @bachpham5025 Před rokem +5

    I’ve been best friend with this girl for like 8 years, ever since we met in HS. We have all of these signs especially recently when most of our inner circle friends ask if we have something more. But she’d always deny it (I was not there) and when we hang out just the 2 of us (and we do that very often) she usually says something like I’m very important to her but she just wants things to never get any further. She even tells me multiple times about her dream, her vision in like 10 years when she’d have her own family and a daughter and I’d have my own family and a son and they’d go to the same school be best friends since a very young age 🤦🏻‍♂️💀😭 I’m so confused

    • @ujaanbhattacharya4275
      @ujaanbhattacharya4275 Před rokem +1

      Probably She's not interested romantically bro , happens

    • @matthewtan614
      @matthewtan614 Před 11 měsíci

      Have you made any progress with her?

    • @bachpham5025
      @bachpham5025 Před 11 měsíci

      @@matthewtan614 I just want to leave all of this behind but since you asked… I had confessed my feelings for her not long after I made the comment. Long story short, it is what it is. I decided to take a step back and get away, keep my distance from her for some time (7 months now). Who knows what will happen in the future. Maybe I’ll find someone else or maybe we’ll have another chance…

  • @ZeroZmm
    @ZeroZmm Před rokem +5

    I've had friends where the chemistry is so undeniable that others assume we are a couple and then when they point it out, the partner denies it, thinks on it and then ghosts me..
    Something's wrong with me I just can't tell what is

  • @radyank0
    @radyank0 Před rokem

    i love listening to ur voice man

  • @diemention5208
    @diemention5208 Před rokem +1

    Adorable animation.

  • @farah_nm162
    @farah_nm162 Před rokem +4

    When singlehood hits hard, but you still watch Psych2Go crushes videos for hope🤧🤧

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Před rokem +3

    Timestamps
    1). You notice changes in body language 0:30
    2). You get jealous of each other's past or potential partners 1:05
    3). You're more nervous around each other than usual 1:34
    4). Your friends are starting to notice 2:13
    5). Your conversations are deeper and more frequent 2:47
    Hope this helps you out. Sorry this is a few hours to late I was I was stuck in traffic on my way home.

    • @juts_sama
      @juts_sama Před rokem

      Hey Barb, hope you're doing okay. I just heard about Maddie. I'm really sorry. If there's anything I can do to help. Just ask.

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n Před rokem

      @@juts_sama I don't know anyone named Maddie

    • @alinanymus6830
      @alinanymus6830 Před rokem

      @@A55a551n but I’d your name barb?

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n Před rokem +1

      @@alinanymus6830 I name is not barb

    • @alinanymus6830
      @alinanymus6830 Před rokem

      @@A55a551n oh ok That would have been really funny 😂

  • @alpha_jasperflair1097
    @alpha_jasperflair1097 Před 8 měsíci

    Me and my bf used to be the closest friends back in grade school, when we first met we both knew we would be the closest friends, cuz we always relate to each other, we always liked to talk, make jokes, sit next to each other, then one time we fought, we thought our friendship will be permanently broken, but then luckily we met each other again in high school and both us were enlightened and happy, so we started to regain our friendship again, we became best friends, then suddenly both of us confessed our feelings for each other, and it was unexpected, so yeah we’ve been dating for quite awhile now.

  • @l0_0l
    @l0_0l Před rokem +1

    i love the thumbnail art especially because i recently rewatched wotakoi: love is hard for otaku.