What to do if you're forced to cut off your own parents

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  • čas přidán 1. 11. 2022
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Komentáře • 31

  • @RogueWife
    @RogueWife Před rokem +20

    Some people grew up with parents who were financially stable and provided everything but abused them emotionally and they can't be understood because everyone says they grew up with everything they needed. Sometimes they wish they grew up with poor parents but loving and caring.

    • @hildaalividza3461
      @hildaalividza3461 Před rokem +5

      I can relate with this on so many levels

    • @betinansi201
      @betinansi201 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thank you. Even plus physical abuse on top in some cases.

    • @muzo2024
      @muzo2024 Před 3 měsíci

      People think money equals happy family life

  • @lindagithaiga1974
    @lindagithaiga1974 Před rokem +7

    Majority of our parents didn't want to have children and were emotionally immature and mentally unprepared to raise families 😢

  • @cynthiaodera8207
    @cynthiaodera8207 Před rokem +22

    Thank you so much and GOD bless you Benjamin and Mwikali, when we grew up we were under manipulation, intimidation, control and domination from dysfunctional parents who use/used character assassination to win relatives and peers. As we have such discussions they can help generations past, present and future to detach from toxic parents and families. I personally blocked and cut off from toxic parents and family/relatives and such.

  • @kawikyamazingira6106
    @kawikyamazingira6106 Před rokem +8

    I've just opened the video, but African kids we suffer in silence. Most of us are tired of family and life burdens left right back front and center 💔💔.
    I've always talked alot about this topic 😌. I'm glad I can hear the same from champion Benjamin ☺️❤️

  • @lindagithaiga1974
    @lindagithaiga1974 Před rokem +3

    Thank you Benjamin I am breaking down in tears for you have spoken direct to me and given me free therapy 🙏

  • @tabithakasina3711
    @tabithakasina3711 Před rokem +4

    This is the only truth that will set us free.Thank you

  • @teddynkwabi4502
    @teddynkwabi4502 Před rokem +5

    This was supposed to be atleast 2 hrs long.....! The untold stories and trauma that children/offsprings go through is unparalleled. If only more people had this discussion...Smh!

  • @idowuanuoluwamipo537
    @idowuanuoluwamipo537 Před 2 dny

    This so good coming from an African, i thought i was being western and my thought of leaving home was irrational, but thank you for validating my feelings.

  • @aishamulungi1483
    @aishamulungi1483 Před rokem +2

    We serve a God of Justice and that's all that matters.I sought solace in Him and started a new community for myself and locked all the pathways to my mental well being and believe me am better and at peace.Thank you

  • @iborfaithonen2326
    @iborfaithonen2326 Před rokem +21

    Benjamin, typing will not explain, the betrayal of the two persons I call my parents especially my mom is an untold story, then I hid it so that the society will not know about it and judge me but today, I am shocked it is an epidemic seeking vaccination.

    • @amoitlaureen3878
      @amoitlaureen3878 Před rokem +2

      We share the same story

    • @Afolorunso
      @Afolorunso Před rokem +2

      Am with you 6 years ago I 'divorced ' my ex mum

    • @mercyngobi
      @mercyngobi Před rokem

      My Mom doesn't pick my calls... since 2018. We had a shortlived reunion in last year, but things got sour again... imagine after taking a loan of 2m, yet jobless and with 2 children under 2 years

    • @anniefavour4523
      @anniefavour4523 Před měsícem

      God loves you

  • @MeloXtie
    @MeloXtie Před rokem +3

    My mentor!...I love the way you connect everything to the Bible..Love from Uganda

  • @cicijane833
    @cicijane833 Před rokem +4

    Wow👏🏾👏🏾
    I really needed to hear this.
    Thank you so much for this truth sir.
    God Bless you🙏🏾

  • @kajoyi
    @kajoyi Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this session Benjamin, insightful.

  • @IconicFuture341
    @IconicFuture341 Před rokem

    I connect so deeply with that person who wrote the message. That's exactly my situation. If there was an ward for " the most suffered" some of us would have no competitor.😃

  • @anniefavour4523
    @anniefavour4523 Před měsícem +1

    That analogy that they are a second God is actually a misquote of Exodus 20:12. They are only representatives, there is only one God

  • @florenceakinyi1395
    @florenceakinyi1395 Před rokem +2

    Thanks Zulu for this l needed to hear this it has come at the right time ,l m overwhelmed.

  • @lynnshiro6984
    @lynnshiro6984 Před 11 měsíci

    Gods grace is sufficient. Hugs to all who are in these shackles. We are free

  • @dysfunctionalfam2023
    @dysfunctionalfam2023 Před rokem

    This is raw wisdom, this has saved my life

  • @lputaa
    @lputaa Před rokem +2

    Thanks God for this Man 💪🏿🖤

  • @nyamusi_bree6081
    @nyamusi_bree6081 Před rokem +1

    I'm loving this👏🙏

  • @nancymwende3748
    @nancymwende3748 Před rokem

    Thank you for this.

  • @sadrakathambi5610
    @sadrakathambi5610 Před rokem

    This GODS Ordained channel ,the timing is so perfect for me.... GOD grant Mr Zulu and Mwikali more wisdom and grace.

  • @AMUKENYA
    @AMUKENYA Před rokem +2

    Proverbs 26:2

  • @janifambera5087
    @janifambera5087 Před rokem

    @benjamin ,@mwikali very insightful kudos!