POUR MINDS Episode 283: The Read Of A Housewife FT. Van Lathan

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  • čas přidán 11. 04. 2024
  • Hey yall!!!! We got a very special guest today that isn't afraid to speak his mind to whoever... none other than Van Lathan. We discussed his start in media, his memorable TMZ rant, the price of love in todays society, if black women are prudes in the bedroom, & so much more. Grab yo drank & Pour Up Pour Crew.
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  • @tiac.2240
    @tiac.2240 Před 3 měsíci +370

    Give Ty her own episode on the couch!!!

  • @MrJeromeTrammel
    @MrJeromeTrammel Před 3 měsíci +162

    I’m NOT even half way through, and Van is speaking so much truth about patriarchy and how its impact has set us back, particularly Black people because the rules are different from us..

  • @lisavslisa101
    @lisavslisa101 Před 3 měsíci +89

    Van pays attention! He gets IT! On every aspect of life! We need more men who are as depth as he is. The way he explains his views are awesome! Kudos Pour Minds! You girls look beautiful by the way❤

  • @chocolatedreamdoll8444
    @chocolatedreamdoll8444 Před 3 měsíci +29

    Not Ty dedicating the drink to your guest's upcoming project! Pay her more right now! She snapped! We love an over achiever, it's giving she did her home work! It's giving above and beyond! Let's go Ty!

  • @denisewaterman4273
    @denisewaterman4273 Před 3 měsíci +64

    This man being respectful on both sides

  • @lenajay937
    @lenajay937 Před 3 měsíci +66

    Van is a smart man. I enjoyed hearing him speak

  • @jamiyathewriter
    @jamiyathewriter Před 3 měsíci +45

    Karaoke gotta be Lex favorite part because she always front and center 😂

  • @alawson6925
    @alawson6925 Před 3 měsíci +58

    Omg I love lex's outfit 😍 and the platforms to match the top 😍 😮😍🥰

  • @lisavslisa101
    @lisavslisa101 Před 3 měsíci +64

    Let me jus say also, Drea and Lex reeaaally make good points on subjects and issues. These women have grown spiritually with wisdom. They're a pleasure to listen to😊

  • @UnapologeticallyMe3324
    @UnapologeticallyMe3324 Před 2 měsíci +3

    @43MINS-48:40... MADE ME LOVE THIS MAN!!!!!!! DOES VAN HAVE A POD CAST? I LOVE HIS WISDOM! YALL ATE WITH THIS ONE....THANK YOU

  • @KamSylvana
    @KamSylvana Před 3 měsíci +29

    I think this is my FAVORITE episode yet!!!! Really good conversation 🎉

  • @khariah
    @khariah Před 3 měsíci +5

    Out of all the guests you all have had, I can now say he is top two and he's not two! He spoke intelligently, kindly, authentically and was never afraid to be humorous !Such a great episode.

  • @glyntaylor96
    @glyntaylor96 Před 3 měsíci +20

    Van & Drea with the karaoke is hilarious.

  • @lifeofamom1923
    @lifeofamom1923 Před 3 měsíci +15

    I love the way he spoke life into the whole studio at the end! It’s only the beginning 🤍

  • @dreaj5630
    @dreaj5630 Před 3 měsíci +20

    Thank you for having Mr. Lathan as a guest. This is about to be one of the best episodes yet!
    Ty is a GODDESS. We need a Ty episode please 😊

  • @JaJaKisses
    @JaJaKisses Před 3 měsíci +26

    Lexxxx the top and shoes combo fiiiiiiiiiiiiire

  • @erykahparker4401
    @erykahparker4401 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I’ve been watching Lex & Drea from the beginning of time, I started to feel like I was out growing the conversations on the pod but then my fav Van showed up with different perspectives & versatility in the covo 🥳

  • @drayyye
    @drayyye Před 3 měsíci +15

    That Playa Proof chant was crazy 😂😂😂😂

  • @Virg0liciousss
    @Virg0liciousss Před 3 měsíci +21

    Y’all outfits ATE DOWN this episode 😍✨

  • @2087Jai
    @2087Jai Před 3 měsíci +22

    Now it’s time to get into the beddd the bedddd ayeee
    Hell yea and watch pour minds 😂

  • @userkreme
    @userkreme Před 3 měsíci +13

    “Oh wow, what a leader!” Ok.😭

  • @shewhosucceeds
    @shewhosucceeds Před 3 měsíci +8

    Over 2 hours long?! 🙌🏽 YASSSSSS! What up pour crew & thought warriors 😉

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 Před 3 měsíci +6

    2:18:31 lol I’m hollerrrrrrinnnnnnn the way he sanding like the lil kid performing in front of all the aunties and Unc when they were little

  • @jazmelab
    @jazmelab Před 3 měsíci +3

    The way he articulated his point in response to what the dating coach said was chefs kiss!!

  • @LizJones-yh8rj
    @LizJones-yh8rj Před 3 měsíci +9

    Dreya you know you could’ve kept that talking about Lex be lying when Van asked if she had coordination.. Lex be having so much grace chi😴 lol

  • @linnjone2506
    @linnjone2506 Před 3 měsíci +15

    This is a good ass interview

  • @ambergolden8343
    @ambergolden8343 Před 3 měsíci +18

    We got a guest today…we got a guest todaaaayyyyy! Happy Friday🎉❤

  • @AKAE47
    @AKAE47 Před 3 měsíci +13

    I wasn't familiar with his game but Van was dropping gems!!!!

  • @jmichelle979
    @jmichelle979 Před 3 měsíci +6

    “They want a lil wide receiver!” 😂😂😂

  • @caylaASMR
    @caylaASMR Před 3 měsíci +9

    Drea and her lip combos 😍

  • @niablee
    @niablee Před 3 měsíci +4

    Karaoke was HILARIOUSSSSS 😂😂😂

  • @Babyyoshi_
    @Babyyoshi_ Před 3 měsíci +3

    Drea had Van tongue tied trying to sing moving that thang around during karaoke 😂

  • @denisewaterman4273
    @denisewaterman4273 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Van is as humble as they get❤

  • @jevvybable
    @jevvybable Před 3 měsíci +6

    This one of them ones !!!! I’m coming back to watch this again.

  • @travellingdoctor1927
    @travellingdoctor1927 Před 3 měsíci

    Love you guys so much! Been watching for years and the growth is amazing but you’ve also always been hilarious and interesting to listen to! Big fan from London, UK!

  • @bri7917
    @bri7917 Před měsícem

    Catching up and this was such a great episode. Y’all touched on so many important topics and he was an amazing guest, loved hearing his takes ❤️

  • @sydneyferrell5993
    @sydneyferrell5993 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’m soo glad yall spoke on the episode where the woman said if you make 50k or less you shouldn’t date bc honestly I turned it off maybe 5 minutes after that conversation. That mindset stresses me tf out. Now I gotta spin the block.

  • @Jlove99126
    @Jlove99126 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This was a much needed conversation ❤❤

  • @Katja-Kitty
    @Katja-Kitty Před 3 měsíci +1

    I've never heard of this podcast, but I love listening to Van wherever he goes. I'm glad you guys cross promoted this on Insta.

  • @Howfineisjasmine
    @Howfineisjasmine Před 3 měsíci +2

    Going back to what he said. I’ve heard many times from men that usually the wife they choose isn’t necessarily the baddest b they’ve ever had or they lack in an area, but their wives qualities as a woman outweighs if they aren’t the best in some areas sexually that he’s had before. The caveat is that the man will never tell you no matter how many times you ask, cause he loves you & respects yiu

  • @rachiesimonexoxo
    @rachiesimonexoxo Před 3 měsíci +2

    This is a very good guest feature episode! Great conversation! These the guests we like lol

  • @keyannaseals4227
    @keyannaseals4227 Před 3 měsíci +3

    The production is top tier!!

  • @goodvibesonly3565
    @goodvibesonly3565 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This was SO GOOD! So so soo, good!

  • @yagirlnolly
    @yagirlnolly Před 3 měsíci +4

    This a good one!!!

  • @brittanidavis4877
    @brittanidavis4877 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Happy Friday Ladies!!🍾🥂

  • @jasmineg4499
    @jasmineg4499 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I feel like a become more of a fan every week, these interviews are too good! Keep going ladies!!!❤

  • @jetlife2thenextlife371
    @jetlife2thenextlife371 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was dope, long and well worth it

  • @d.moore95
    @d.moore95 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Another amazing episode 🫶🏾🙏🏾☝🏾💡🪨✝️

  • @kizzee2931
    @kizzee2931 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love Van. He's such a good storyteller.

  • @TREYJEROME
    @TREYJEROME Před 3 měsíci +4

    I’m
    So proud of drea and lex fr

  • @BN-fu3zy
    @BN-fu3zy Před 3 měsíci +1

    Proud of you guys!!!!🎀💕

  • @dluke54
    @dluke54 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Episode was 🔥

  • @niablee
    @niablee Před 3 měsíci +9

    This must’ve been filmed a minute ago ‘cause Van ain’t got his cowboy hat 😂🤠

    • @shewhosucceeds
      @shewhosucceeds Před 3 měsíci +3

      😭😭 you must be a thought warrior lol💯

    • @niablee
      @niablee Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@shewhosucceeds you already know!!!

    • @amandar8699
      @amandar8699 Před 3 měsíci

      Lol I’m a thought warrior and pour girl.. balance 🤣

  • @jessicaclay6749
    @jessicaclay6749 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Loved this episode.

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 Před 3 měsíci +1

    2:20:23 Dreaaaaaaaa lol !!!!!! 😅 I bet my co-workers think I’m crazy I’m just laughing to myself at my desk ….. I can’t help it …. Whewwwwww 😂

  • @staniemendez6586
    @staniemendez6586 Před 3 měsíci

    Sipping from the color fountain is hilarious 😂😂

  • @tanajarashon
    @tanajarashon Před 3 měsíci +1

    Lex was definitely in her interviewer bag this episode! Love it ❤

  • @ronnekahaynes5691
    @ronnekahaynes5691 Před 3 měsíci

    This my favorite episode everrrrrrrr! Like loved this ❤❤

  • @edisdizdarevic3604
    @edisdizdarevic3604 Před 3 měsíci +4

    i love the shirt lex !

  • @ravenm6985
    @ravenm6985 Před 3 měsíci +6

    It’s Lex jamming thru the Playa Proof chant & Drea jaw dropping at it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree Před 3 měsíci +1

    This one should be interesting!! I like Van's content on and off TMZ

  • @carlmane8181
    @carlmane8181 Před 3 měsíci

    “O wow! What a leader” is crazyyy! 😂😂😂

  • @user-sy9oz6tq9q
    @user-sy9oz6tq9q Před 3 měsíci

    This episode was 🔥🔥🔥🔥it was so good

  • @nsaydu
    @nsaydu Před 3 měsíci

    I clicked so damn fast!!! Absolutely love Van!!!

  • @logan9205
    @logan9205 Před 3 měsíci

    Y’all were so lit on the broken play live!

  • @amirajackson7049
    @amirajackson7049 Před 3 měsíci

    i loved this episode!! COME ON RANGEE

  • @goodpromo313
    @goodpromo313 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This episode was 🔥👏🏾

  • @shawnrichards344
    @shawnrichards344 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great show ladies...

  • @shaniadavis6158
    @shaniadavis6158 Před měsícem

    One of the best episodes 🩷🩷

  • @jack23tommy
    @jack23tommy Před 3 měsíci

    Loved the episode Ladies!! Y’all got me through my clinical rotation today ❤

  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy Před 3 měsíci +1

    Michael was such a Virgo. 😂😂 bc I do that to men who flirt with me. I just start singing acting like I can’t hear them. 😂😂

  • @honeybee591
    @honeybee591 Před 29 dny

    i literally just teared up when he said that shit about ur first lesson in life 😭

  • @natew1427
    @natew1427 Před 3 měsíci

    Amazing guest. He gave very balanced responses that both most men and women couldn't deny.

  • @ingridbourque153
    @ingridbourque153 Před 3 měsíci +3

    TGIF ❤❤❤ LOVE ME SOME LEX AND DREA. Hey Bookie's keep up the great work. 😊😊😊

  • @Thefairybrielle
    @Thefairybrielle Před 3 měsíci +1

    The way he answered The Bed question… you can tell he understands and loves black women

  • @GRANDPRIXDUVAL
    @GRANDPRIXDUVAL Před 3 měsíci

    that karaoke omg 😂😂😂

  • @krissy-jw8kj
    @krissy-jw8kj Před 3 měsíci

    I loved this episode.

  • @Msdeanna.angela
    @Msdeanna.angela Před 3 měsíci +1

    He said he doesn’t have a musical bone is his body and he wasn’t lying at all 😂 Lmfaoo this was a dope ass podcast.

  • @MelaniePerkins1911
    @MelaniePerkins1911 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Van is so we rounded. I love him. 😎 💯 ❤

  • @viyoolacouronne6419
    @viyoolacouronne6419 Před 3 měsíci

    15:04 I been watching tmz since high school cause I had no cable 😂I fell in love with it and Harvey messy love him love van!!

  • @viyoolacouronne6419
    @viyoolacouronne6419 Před 3 měsíci +1

    47:10 someone can say something and Lex repeat the same shttt in different words like she came up with it 😂😂😂😂I still love my Leo twin

  • @MrKrabbs252
    @MrKrabbs252 Před 3 měsíci +3

    1:05:00 You only want the good guy after life has shown you the receipts of your decisions. - Ron G.

  • @jaia846
    @jaia846 Před 3 měsíci

    I’m always on podcast(Apple), I be on here when I wanna see the cute fits, hair, and makeeeupp❤❤❤

  • @gamerschain61
    @gamerschain61 Před 3 měsíci +7

    He hit the coffin on the nail about the lady who said you need 50,000 to date and I agree 💯 I felt bad for her as well.

  • @tharealterica
    @tharealterica Před 3 měsíci +1

    1:57:00 we need to discuss Aoki Simmons and that old man

  • @freezedatakeover
    @freezedatakeover Před 2 měsíci

    I enjoyed this EP

  • @pareeshaslaughter6798
    @pareeshaslaughter6798 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Doing very well ladies ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @leejohn_bns
    @leejohn_bns Před 3 měsíci

    1:10:30 😂😂😂 "no tf you don't" 😂😂😂

  • @reinenoir3342
    @reinenoir3342 Před 3 měsíci

    Van babbling during karaoke 😭😭

  • @carleighsmith3401
    @carleighsmith3401 Před 3 měsíci

    Great episode ! That Tory Lanez and RKelly conversation was moving.

  • @angeliquefree1
    @angeliquefree1 Před 3 měsíci

    I love me a mature convo. This episode was very fruitful

  • @whatsupwithtorii
    @whatsupwithtorii Před 3 měsíci

    Shera said “ Men don’t talk about love until women talk about money.” .. that’s all imma say! lol great interview ladies 💗💗💗

  • @Frija_the_goddess
    @Frija_the_goddess Před 3 měsíci

    I was literally having this conversation with an ex of mine 2 days ago. We were talking about how I asked him to pay for my bbl which he was going to do then I told him I changed my mind and he asked why. I thought about it hard and asked him how many men marry women with BBLS? they date them and have fun with them but marry them is rare. Most men of high caliber marry natural women even if they have a lil 🍑 that aren’t “baddies” just like he said. I know a lot of high caliber fine men and none of the women they married or dated were the baddest and I literally never understood but he explained correctly. What he is saying is all facts

  • @antoniopena7306
    @antoniopena7306 Před 3 měsíci

    Lex with her vocals 😂😂😂

  • @mrssmithp
    @mrssmithp Před 3 měsíci +3

    TMZ has not been the same since Van!!!!

  • @mjjoseph4194
    @mjjoseph4194 Před 3 měsíci

    This episode was destined

  • @ThugLady
    @ThugLady Před 3 měsíci

    excellent episode and i loved hearing this man speak because he was on the nose with so much! i felt like i was watching a lecture but a good one, and i fw it! speaking as a sociologist he was hitting the mf spot

  • @ayanarosa7442
    @ayanarosa7442 Před 3 měsíci

    can’t believe i chose the song of the week LMFAOO

  • @markmason4536
    @markmason4536 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Pour Minds ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ChristalJ
    @ChristalJ Před 3 měsíci +1

    Me and Van need to be friends. He saying all my thoughts on this podcasts.
    I don’t call people ugly either unless I’m referencing their behavior / them as a person. It’s ugly to call people ugly based on looks.