5 Signs HE is not for YOU | Finding "the One"
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Timo & Marie Shely
I didn't meet my wife until I was 35 year old. I could have married much earlier in life, but I was not living in obedience to Christ. Better late than never lol
Amen
I have been single for a long while now and never have been married knowing that I wasn’t right in Christ and knew the women of my past weren’t for me….I pray the Lord blesses me with the most amazing woman who Will Love Jesus with all her heart!!!…in Jesus Name Amen!!!….. 🙏
Agree
Agree and Amen. I'm still praying for that myself to find a God fearing husband but i know also that God knows all my needs, struggles even before I ask Him. So for now i try just to live my live according to His law and listen to the Holy Spirit guidance which I still sometimes forgot.. May God bless you and your wife
Fast and pray...
" He who finds a wife finds what is good
and receives favor from the LORD. "
( Proverbs 18 : 22 NIV )
@@favinjae6255 I don’t think the NIV got the Passage wrong. Of course it is for believers like the whole biblical text.
NIV removes many, many verses.
I enjoy how your wife is listening and looking at you intently, hanging on to your every word. Non-verbal communication says everything. Great information!
Amen she is praying 🙏❤️🔥
Sir, For what it's worth... what Noah says in vs. 38 is ungodly and we know from our Bible that Noah was a Godly man. VS 40 is spoken in error as many Christians may also err. For the Books of Moses (Pentateuch/Torah) states:
2 You shall take with you of every clean animal by sevens, a male and his female; and of the animals that are not clean two, a male and his female -Genesis 7:2.
And also, for what it's worth to you, we true Christian look at this story of Noah with regards to our own salvation... we have written by the Apostle Peter:
18 For Christ also died for sins once for all, the just for the unjust, so that He might bring us to God, having been put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit; 19 in which also He went and made proclamation to the spirits now in prison, 20 who once were disobedient, when the patience of God kept waiting in the days of Noah, during the construction of the ark, in which a few, that is, eight persons, were brought safely through the water. 21 Corresponding to that, baptism now saves you-not the removal of dirt from the flesh, but an appeal to God for a good conscience-through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22 who is at the right hand of God, having gone into heaven, after angels and authorities and powers had been subjected to Him. 1 Pet 3:18-22.
May The one and only true God bless you as you seek to find him in the vast deception that Satan has created to obfuscate God's true identity. That Satan works to hide the true identity of God we can all be sure. Peace.
Me and my husband were not in the right place when we got together but God brought us into marriage and is working on us, preparing the bride, making sure He is our firm foundation before we come back together. He is doing a lot. Anyone out there reading this if you are going through separation, there is still hope, God is still working and can do all things!!! Don't give up!!! Give it all to Him, put Him first, you will see Him work like never before!!!
Im glad that you not letting your wife to teach. You guys beautiful soul of our God Jesus Lord Amen. Ex Muslim here after saw Jesus Lord Amen
I am still virgin and not married.. hope to find a Christian wife one day if God wills then i will.. waiting is hardest.. God bless you in Lord Jesus Christ name!
Same here. I'm praying too. Thankful for this video.Thanks for sharing guys. Blessings to you both.
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Me too, praying to God to provide a daughter of His, amen.
As a man, that was hard video to swallow, but I thank the Lord for opening my eyes about myself. Now I have to repent.
““He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.” ’”
Revelation 2:29 NKJV thank you for this video! ❤️🙌🏼🙏
This is sooooo good. I wish I had heard a message like this when I was young. Thank you guys for being obedient to share on a difficult topic.
yea, its really good.
Watching this again so I need to comment again 🤣 This is one of few ministry's where I can confirm what they're saying by following along in the scriptures. I'm so encouraged that there's still a remnant out there that have the upmost desire to please/obey the most high YAH! Lastly, you're also correct about kissing or touching/hand holding. While in the betrothal period your future spouse is still your sister or brother in the LORD. Any affection toward your sister or brother in the LORD in a lustful manner is forbidden. You treat them as you would any other brother or sister in LORD until you're OFFICIALLY married. This is a sign of respect and honor towards your spouse and the most high YAH! You're wife stated, "I was ready to honor if my parents said no", I was blessed by that statement because it is so rare to find individuals who believe like this! A virtuous woman is hard to find(Proverbs 31:10) and a faithful man as well(Proverbs 20:6). This video is confirmation to me. My heavenly Father spoke to me about this several weeks ago! This is Spirit and Truth at work here! Thank you for your obedience to our Father!
Amen Alex you are so tight thank you so much for your kind words. 🙏❤️
Amen
These words of wisdom i did not have when I was young...
Raised by wolves and married one. Lost 32 years of my life in a demonic covenant trying to honor my vows to God. Unevenly yoked steals your life and relationship with God. Praise him for his mercy and forgiveness, I am free indeed and waiting upon the Lord, maybe its not to late....
Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery. (Mark 10:11-12)
Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery. (Luke 16:18)
@EmilyGreene1984 yes, I should have let him murder me..
What a beautiful message rooted in foundational truth. What perfect timing God has.
Please pray for me, I have waited so long. It feels as if there is no one out there. Please pray for me to seek God wholeheartedly -- with self-control, patience and the strength to fast and pray before the Lord so my supplications may be known. Help me to run from temptation and rebuke any thoughts of it! Thank you for sharing.
You spoke, but your wife also spoke in her quiet gentleness and love. Thank you. ❤️
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Sparrow T I would love to get to know you better you sound much like myself
Idk why but youtube's not letting me give out my email address is there a way i can contact you?
Congratulations to you both. So very happy to hear this news. You are a beautiful couple, it will be a beautiful Godly family. Yahowah bless you always 🙏❤ Shalom
This was so helpful, and affirms the lesson I learned the hard way! I am an older woman, but a baby Christian of almost 2 years. Very early in my walk with Jesus, I met a "Christian" man and he began actively pursuing me. I wish I would have know then that this is also a warning sign! I ended up in a relationship that lasted 9 months, before I broke it off. It was a horribly stressful time for me, and I should have ended it way before I did!
This guy fit 3 out of the 5 warning signs you mentioned: hypocrit, leading me away from Christ, and needy/controlling. I'm grateful for the Holy Spirit telling me to say goodbye to that man, and I have been happily single again for over a year! I have been enjoying my time with God, and studying His Word, with no one trying to pull me away from Him.
I will be much more careful in the future, if/when someone else comes along and starts taking an interest in more than friendship.
Congratulations!!! God bless your marriage and your son, hallelujah!
However, your message is on point and I can testify to those that are on the list. By God's grace, I have come out of that kind of relationship a year ago and have repented and re-committed my life to Jesus. It was a distraction, but now I'm pursuing my calling and serving the Lord. Love you both! 💗🙏🏼
May God bless you. I'm so happy to hear you are going to have a baby! 🥰
Young ladies and men, with all love, don't rush it. Let God work in your life, at all times. May His perfect will happen. ☀️❤
Thank you so much for this video! ❤ You just described a man I was about to marry at the beginning of the year but the Lord showed me I was making a mistake 😅 Thank you Lord for preserving me 😍🙏🏻
Congratulation my sister and my brother in Christ may the Lord bless you with a healthy baby boy and I think that we all would enjoy how you guys met and how the Lord brought you two together in Jesus name amen ❤️🙏🤝
How true!!!based on my personal experience.I thank God for saving me from getting married to a wrong person.I failed to understand what God was doing way back then but now the Lord continues to open my eyes to discern all of it .God himself saved me from that situation.I thank my Lord Jesus for His grace,mercy,and loving kindness always.Amen
I "accidentally" stumbled upon your video on the story of Lot and repentance and Acts 2:38. I was amazed to find another follower of christ finally speak the very core of the gospel. Thank you both for everything you share! May the lord bless you both abundantly and always remember even when we are trying to be censored and silenced, keep sharing the gospel. Matthew 24:13-15
Congratulations on the fantastic news🥳🥳 🥰🥰
I'm also a 18 year old single student from PNG 🇵🇬 and I was baptized last year on October 27, I'm enjoying my salvation and I'm thankful for this advice, I will share it with friends and family who are confused on who they should be with. I pray that the Good Lord continue to bless your marriage and your baby boy. Godbless to you both.
God Bless you Carol and thank you for spreading the word and being an example! Our Lord will reward you as you delight in Him!
Same here sister. Iam also an 18 yr old🇵🇬. Got baptised on the 01 Of December 2018.God bless you. It feels amazing to know that im not the only one here... 🖤
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Thankyou so much.
Thank u for sharing this...I really needed it!
It's better to wait on the Lord than to regret ur whole life.
Thank you so much for sharing. As a 30yo this is a poignant, touching message that goes straight to the heart and the issues... especially helpful for us single women: encouragement to remember. Thank you for the heartfelt prayer at the end also. Congrats on your little one on the way!!
These are wonderful points, especially appreciated the one of honouring the parents. The fifth commandment is so rarely talked about. Really enjoyed and will be passing this video on. May God be with you all and your ministry - and may your son be blessed, congratulations! Shalom from Northern Alberta, Canada.
Congratulations on your baby boy God bless you!
You two are amazing. God bless you both and that beautiful child on the way! Love you guys from Texas!
Congratulations!!! 🎉 A time to celebrate!!
Hey Tim ! I rejoice so much in what the Lord has done with you and in you these last years. You speak with wisdom and you also speak from what you have experienced which makes this exhortation even stronger. May the Lord bless you and keep you and continue to use you as he does!
I hope we will meet again soon! :)
Thank you both for your honest pearls of wisdom. I will definitely keep your words in mind. In New York City these truths need to be remembered.
God bless you and Marie. For your teaching.
New to this channel. Absolutely love it
Congratulations on the upcoming birth of your child! May the Lord bless and keep you!
Oh my goodness!! Congratulations you two! 😭😭 you’re going to be beautiful parents 💜
Beautiful testimony! May Yahshua's Name be praised! I love your shining for Him!
When my husband and me got married we were far from perfect, we were young in Christ and not had mature wise christians around us to advise on the marriage. But we loved Jesus and He helped us through our marriage even though there were difficulties. Jesus is the center of our lives after 24 years together.
Merci Timo et Mari pour cette vidéo , God bless you 👏👏👏👏 I learned a lot
Woooowww new video and wonderful name change of the channel!!!💪🏽❤️🌊🌾
Many many congratulation to both timo and Marie. God bless you abundantly.Your covenant is so beautiful.Ill pray to God for your evangelical mission and wish you happy married life and joyful life with christ.❤
This is soooo good. Amen. Praise God
Congrats on the Baby! She looks good and healthy! Great video guys 🙏😊
So glad I've found this awesome channel. God bless you guys. Shalom ❤️
this series is a great blessing. praise YAH! GOD bless you both and your new baby boy!
Thank you so much about this video! It was so needed! God bless you and please continue with these videos! ❤❤
YAY A BABY!! What a blessing!
Thank you for this and Congrats on having your first Baby!! God Bless you both and your new little one!!
I love you guys! So exciting your expecting a little baby boy. I enjoy your videos, learned much.
On side note I am recently divorced after 20 yrs. So sad, I fought hard, faithful and dedicated. Divorce is such a ugly lie that destroys families . After yrs of heartache the Lord opened my eyes and through my ex-husband decisions I understood the Lord had released me from this abuse. My children also. I'm not perfect and know what I need to change to be better. It's lonely but the Lords my husband now and plan on staying that way. My children are my priority and teaching them about Jesus love, faithfulness, kindness, goodness, he's so much more.
I agree with what your saying, people be patient and wait on the Lord..honor him with your life and you'll be blessed in this life..alot less heartache..God bless each and everyone..
My mother was similar to you after 17 yrs of marriage and 7 daughters she prayed for God to change her husband and when he said he had another woman she read where Jesus said "in cases of adultery the man/woman is free" Free indeed!!! She married as a non believer because he got her pregnant at 16 but our Godly Dad came along - a bachelor and he met her and Jesus through her testimony and we were elated when they married. There are happy endings if you trust and obey! Of her 7 daughters only one married. We have Jesus and if God brings the right man as Timo and Marie stated- we would marry. A good man is hard to find! Jesus is coming. Peace
Our singing-family website would encourage you. Daughtersofsong.com
Thank you for sharing Shelley The Lord is your husband amen and amen ☝️❤️
I went through so much pain because both of my grown children just not listening. It was so very hard for me. Their father died when they were 8 and 10 and they became more and more mischievous. It left me with PTSD when they both got into a lot of trouble in their twenties. They are ok now, married to people God supplied about six years ago with one,six and a half years with the other
This is very beautiful! Thank you so much!
ahh oh my goshh congratulations on your jubjub! I am so glad you guys decided to do a series on this. Yes God hates divorce but if someone is married and being beaten by their spouse staying is not an option but remarriage is a no-no unless the person dies or if they were a non-believer like Paul said. Also, there are times when parents are hypocrites and or have poor reasons why you shouldn't marry like "she/he is black" but God if is guiding you to be married, listen to God and not man.
Good word, brother and sister! Well done.
As a muslim. I pray God the most high bless you and your family and grant you his closeness in heavens. Amen.
CONGRATULATIONS !!!
Congratulations!!!
Y'all will be amazing mama & papa!!!
Yay God! 👶
I, The Lord Jesus as Holy Spirit speaking to you bro. I should never ready for marriage. but for Son of Man coming back soon! yes 🔥🔥🔥
Wonderful video!! Thank you!
Praise God for you both! love your Mt Sinai video! ❤❤
Congratulations to both of you💝💝💐 Jesus will guide you both to become excellent parents who look up to Him all the time in thin and thick!! AMEN 🙏 🙏
I found your vedios today from / youtube suggestions / You are blessed I can sense the peace and stillness around you. Hashem Elohim is with you.
I am happy you found each other ...you have all those things God promises when you follow His ways....and so happy about your pending first child...very happy for you...IJN .. 🌼🤗❤️🐑
Great advice! Spot on!!!
I love this couple... Always speaking facts!
God ALMIGHTY bless you and your new family!!! Love you all God is good 🦁👑💞🕊🤗
Thank you for the talk about about signs of a relationship of couples who are not married .
oh wonderful to see you both congrats on baby blessing in JESUS name
So powerful message for singles,,God bless you dearly.
May the Lord bless you more and more as you go through in His ministry and life as a family (with your baby...)
I've watched a couple of your videos and I'm continuing to watch until the latest one, but I have to comment first.
First, you are a wonderful couple!
You two are exactly the description of what I want in life. a godly man who will be able to guide me in life and for me to be as gentle and patient woman as Marie.
I came to the piece where you talk about respecting parents and that's why I had to stop for a while and comment because I received something personal, let's say "providence".
I don't have a good relationship with my parents. There are only three of us, but we argue as if there were 6 of us. 😄
We all have problems with anger, pride, lack of patience and so on and so forth.
It's hard for me to be submissive to people who don't appreciate it (because no matter how I turn it, I'm always the one to blame ). And I know that I shouldn't look at it that way, because what's the use of being good to those who are good to me, but it's still hard.
Also, they are not Christians, they are not born again. On paper, we are Catholics (although I no longer consider myself a Catholic, but a Christian), my mother goes to church on Sundays and that's it. They both curse a lot and there are many things that are wrong.
And I can't even say that because an argument starts right away.
And honestly, I often think , how will I meet my future husband with them. Will he run away from me when he sees what they are like.
But while I was listening to this, somehow it made sense to me. Maybe it's me. Maybe regardless of everything, I should be obedient, patient, etc. If nothing, at least I should practice for my husband 😀
And here I came to the next part, which also applied to me until recently.
In a relationship I always wanted attention, exactly that, to be constantly hugged, kissed, receiving messages, said I love you, etc.
They should constantly leting me know that I mean something to them.
I wanted to be the first and most important person in that person life.
About a year ago, I could not have imagined what I am about to say now, which is that I want God to be his first priority.
If it's not God, then I don't want to be with him at all because how will he love and guide me if God doesn't guide him?
God bless you all!!
Very good 👍 i have learned from your teaching keep it up with your good work
Congratulations on your gift from God! 👶🍼🙌
Thank you for this insight!
Congratulations on the baby. I just found your channel today. . I like it
Congratulations brother.
Love you Timo and Marie 😍 💗
congratulations!!!
🖖🏽Blessings on you and your family🖖🏽
Congratulations! 🥰👼🏻
Wow thank you for sharing , God Bless
Praise the Lord brother 🙏, Iam RAJEEV from INDIA 🇮🇳. PRAY FOR MY MARRIAGE 🙏
Thank You to both of you for sharing wisdom from GOD🥰
Praise the lord brother
Beautiful and encouraging thanks brother na sister for sharing this.
Amen and Amen. very wise advise! 🙌❤️
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Congratulations both of you..God bless you both
Congratulations 👏👏🎉🎉 Bro and Sister
new subs here! i just love how you guys loves and obey God in you marriage! 🤍 thanks for these reminders!
Amen, I've got full of Spirit to convict myself 🔥🔥🔥
I've just been prayed and fasted for too much of time with Greater Father Jesus Christ 🔥😁
~!• Awe ~ you both are adorable
Thank you so much for the advice
Congratulations on your little one
Big love & blessings
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I will stay single for the rest of my life but it is awesome, that she wares a headcovering, that shows that you fear God. One who is faithfull with little will be faithfull with much.
I've been focusing on Him for a longer time ago until today. 🔥💯 He is real healed me sometimes even i got mistaken.. But He knows our mistakes and forgiven us at His cross. We pick up our cross and follow Messiah 💯
I so love this couple you guys are beautiful and all about God 🙏
Thank you for your kind words 🙏
Congratulation to both of you.🙏Philippines here.
Congratulations 🎉
Thank you timo am currently searching for a husband this will be so helpful ❤️
All the way from Uganda 🇺🇬
May god bless you both and upcoming kid. 🙏
Congratulations to both of you may god bless you.
Thnx to lead us wid word of God.. may God bless u stay blessed
Before I finish watching the video.. I wish 🙏 u one very very beautiful baby 👶
Bless you Brother and sister
So beautiful couple 😍 may God bless you both you..🙏❤️🙏
From India.. This video is so useful ..the points u hav given r so true as per the law of god... Yes I'm looking for groom as per the way u said.. Every one should keep god as their first priority❤tat finest command should follow all
Thank you sir and ma'am. God bless you