3 reasons you should never chase women

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • There are things that separate boys from men. This is one of them. In this video, Jessica highlights 3 reasons you should never chase women.
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    00:00 - Intro
    00:43 - 2 reasons why women make you chase them
    02:40 - 3 reasons men should not chase
    02:51 - Reason 1
    03:51 - Reason 2
    06:25 - Reason 3
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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Před 2 lety +428

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

    • @LW-ny7vl
      @LW-ny7vl Před 2 lety +5

      nice, just seen this, anymore videos on this matter thanks

    • @fredrickegiebor8990
      @fredrickegiebor8990 Před 2 lety +3

      I appreciate your concerns on us men best advice so far on the internet

    • @SA80TAGE
      @SA80TAGE Před 2 lety +3

      right so all I have to do is become rich and successful so worthless gold diggers will come chasing my money (not me)... what kind of advice is that? For both men and women?

    • @augustismynight3457
      @augustismynight3457 Před 2 lety

      Another one, will, they will keep killing you guys and all you will good for is make Americans great for others and you here, it a sad day on Black Wall Street. Will they try hahah 😂🤣😂

    • @akhil_1210
      @akhil_1210 Před 2 lety +3

      I probably need an advice
      the girl I've been chasing for almost a few days...it's she who confessed to me and started a relationship...(everything was alright)in the middle she just wanna break up for no reason and when I asked her to think again,she said me to wait till she's ready to accept me again,she probably wants me to chase after her...I really don't like this,and the fact that all her feelings just dissolved into thin air... just makes me think like I've been used like a toy/dog and thrown away after she became bored of me...
      The fact that this is my first love hurts me even more..
      I really don't know what to do at this point.

  • @dennisokoi8234
    @dennisokoi8234 Před 2 lety +4744

    Make her chase you!!! How??? The answer is: Focus on your dreams/goals. This is exactly what I'm doing. No more chasing women! Thank you sister! You're my favorite on this! Love you!

    • @trapkidvoke6145
      @trapkidvoke6145 Před 2 lety +69

      Exactly my brother

    • @ofosuappiahpage1701
      @ofosuappiahpage1701 Před 2 lety +214

      I was once chasing my girlfriend and I realised I was being stupid”so I move back and she’s now chasing me!! And am also chasing my dreams for now ..

    • @jasonyoung1608
      @jasonyoung1608 Před 2 lety +19

      Lol so they what you have become if that’s it so then I’ll will her dawg if she come to
      Me after 🤣 the fact

    • @Fn7_ACTUAL
      @Fn7_ACTUAL Před 2 lety +13

      Amen to that! She's right.

    • @Fn7_ACTUAL
      @Fn7_ACTUAL Před 2 lety +13

      And always great advice

  • @Damola247
    @Damola247 Před 2 lety +5117

    "You lose money chasing women but you never lose women chasing money"

    • @JustinLeon423
      @JustinLeon423 Před 2 lety +47

      Facts my dumbass falls for everytime. I think I can give them something that they never got with all the past relationships. I could of had cash to buy a 200000 house

    • @waynesworld90
      @waynesworld90 Před 2 lety +3

      @Damola Adenola Right✊🏾

    • @MrSnow-dx1pr
      @MrSnow-dx1pr Před 2 lety +41

      I think I love my wife.

    • @elliottsmith7530
      @elliottsmith7530 Před 2 lety +3

      faaaaax.....the only aphorism u need to know on god

    • @karlen5550
      @karlen5550 Před 2 lety +86

      Yes and alot of them are a big waste of money..and most time you chase a woman at times when you finally get them your not as interested anymore she probably done do so many things to make you change your mind

  • @jordanwest43
    @jordanwest43 Před rokem +222

    I spent my 20’s chasing relationships. My last relationship were fucked me up. Depressed & not eating. I ended up getting a gig & got back chasing my goals. I’ve been traveling & working ever since. Chase your goals fellas.
    If y’all aren’t chasing each other then stop. You deserve love & effort too.

    • @jessemartinez2127
      @jessemartinez2127 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I wish you were there in the 70s. You would have been the greatest ❤️! Case closed. It's ok. Before your time. Love you Jessica.

  • @phillnelsonifeadi3307
    @phillnelsonifeadi3307 Před rokem +123

    We need women that can advice men genuinely like you do now than ever ❤️

  • @calvinthompson2590
    @calvinthompson2590 Před 2 lety +1433

    I’ve wasted years after chasing and it never hit me until I lost my dreams, I put all my effort into the relationship and all I did was to complete her goal and not mine, hope all men see this and learn, I learn the hard way.

    • @InfluencerKhiz
      @InfluencerKhiz Před 2 lety +10

      Thank you for this ❤

    • @InfluencerKhiz
      @InfluencerKhiz Před 2 lety +4

      Thank you

    • @Colonfuego
      @Colonfuego Před 2 lety +27

      I had to learn the hard way as well but glady I stop chasing and starting working on my goals

    • @kenchino0161
      @kenchino0161 Před 2 lety +14

      Never too late to get back to your goals.

    • @Josue-zm9iu
      @Josue-zm9iu Před 2 lety +1

      @jade azeem 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @omartamer1334
    @omartamer1334 Před 2 lety +437

    As a 19 years old, I really felt like you're my older sister and wanna give me some advice and life lessons. Thanks to CZcams for recommending me this.

    • @jt.8144
      @jt.8144 Před 9 měsíci

      How sad for a 19year old to be getting LIFE lessons in CZcams. I pity anyone under 40 years old nowadays. CLEARLY Lost AS WHAT WE SEE HERE.

    • @foodetc.
      @foodetc. Před 9 měsíci

      I'm over 50 and still learn from CZcams @@jt.8144. There is definitely a lot of bunk here too but in that mess of bunk, there are nuggets of gold. This lady gives good advice and there is A LOT of good advice on CZcams. It's the world we live in; to draw from others and their experiences but in this generation, it's times 1000. You just have to separate the wheat from the chaff.

    • @g-man8023
      @g-man8023 Před 6 měsíci

      @@jt.8144 how is it a bad thing for someone to obtain advice and knowledge from CZcams? Isn't that the whole point of these channels and the internet itself? There are people who don't have a figure in their life to give them guidance or personal experience to help reflect. These types of videos aid so many ppl to feel a little less alone and lost and im grateful for this video Jessica made 💙

  • @shadowgarden6053
    @shadowgarden6053 Před rokem +34

    As a woman a man chasing me, repulses me. It makes me feel like he's desperate. It makes me cringe. Trust a man I want, will never have to chase me, if I'm into man I speak up, or if he pursues me I'll agree. But nothing makes a woman want you more, than a man working on his goals. It let's woman know your mindful about your life, and possibly those in it. It makes a woman feel safe, & secure with you. As much as I love being important to a man I love, but if his dreams, and goals aren't just as important I feel like he's weak, & is a ticking time bomb bcus in return he will be looking for me to satisfy, his lack of care for his goals, he will take until there's nothing left. Bcus he's not giving to himself. In return leaves a woman feeling drained, and him feeling like a failure.

  • @DecimalD_
    @DecimalD_ Před rokem +44

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. Just started dating this year after a 4 year hiatus and it’s been mostly a disappointing experience. I also immediately started slacking in the Gym as soon as I began dating. Going to just focus on myself for a while and keep leveling up my career.

  • @jimmyfritz8240
    @jimmyfritz8240 Před 2 lety +586

    No dating apps no social media no chasing women. Focusing on myself. Living alone doesn’t make it easy especially when get inside your head feel needy and lonely but just have to push through the mental stuff. One day at a time

    • @neo5973
      @neo5973 Před rokem +46

      Dude it’s the same with me. I’m happy being alone and focusing on my stuff but it does get challenging when you see all these couples everywhere you sometimes wonder what am I doing… but it only lasts for a couple of minutes haha then I’m back to liking myself

    • @-TheMaskedMan-
      @-TheMaskedMan- Před rokem +37

      Alone? Its time you guys start dating abroad. Brazil etc, better women in every possible way with significantly less the effort. That loneliness and depression is not healthy for us regardless of what anyone says. We have needs and we just cant get them in this country which is weird as hell.

    • @brolysmash9333
      @brolysmash9333 Před rokem +12

      Bro you’re not the only one. Focus always on yourself my King. I went tru many sh*** in life with girls I loved, and trust me, you’re doing good. Work, learn always something new, set goals, buy a house, etc.. The right person will come to ya at the right time.
      I’ve been alone for 8 years and I still am. You play games, go to bar, talk to your friends when you have the time, money is not an issue, life is beautiful, and I most importantly, I don’t focus on these so called beautiful woman from the outside but rotten on the inside. Waiting for you to break, so they can squeeze you in every sense possible. Mostly monetary.

    • @brolysmash9333
      @brolysmash9333 Před rokem

      @@neo5973 bro facts. I saw this dude having a hard time with his girl, she was being rude and disrespectful. I felt bad for him but at the same time I was like yo I’m happy I’m not living that life.
      I always say, the right person will come to ya. Just give it time. I rather whack of*** than having a chick that after giving you some pus*** start taking dominance in certain ways.

    • @lhcoco94
      @lhcoco94 Před rokem +11

      Keep pushing brother. It is all about quality over quantity, it applied for relationships and friendships. I deleted all my social media and freed myself from so much waste of energy and curated alternatives realities.

  • @bobstone8446
    @bobstone8446 Před 2 lety +360

    Jessica is a typical example of someone who has really worked on her craft. She’s so professional!
    Great work!

    • @larryshenault8107
      @larryshenault8107 Před 2 lety +3

      She is world class. Now where is the video tell black women how to conduct themselves to get black men to show them more respect, there must be a code of conduct for black women. I See so many video putting down black women concerned there additude.

    • @AbubakarSeif
      @AbubakarSeif Před 2 lety +1

      I concur.

    • @jonathanbanda2869
      @jonathanbanda2869 Před 2 lety +2

      That's true

    • @klausmakaneta6890
      @klausmakaneta6890 Před 2 lety +2

      She is a woman so she knows how they work kkkk

    • @vicdoesfitness
      @vicdoesfitness Před 2 lety

      Absolute Class!

  • @UnholyByChoice
    @UnholyByChoice Před 9 měsíci +11

    As a now 50-year-old man who has experienced the results of chasing women and from what I've seen from countless men who have chased women is, even if you hook up with them after the chase the relationship doesn't last long.

  • @gamzaify
    @gamzaify Před rokem +1

    Found this video randomly and I must admit I found you very eloquent, well put and straight to the point. You've earned a new sub

  • @amirprime44
    @amirprime44 Před 2 lety +84

    Truth be told Jess, you hit the nail on the head in this video. I always tell my gender "Chase your dreams, the women will come later" no woman wants to be with an unsuccessful man. Also she will respect you even more when she sees that you're operating on a certain frequency.
    Thanks for this piece ✌️

    • @bradiepoa3409
      @bradiepoa3409 Před rokem +1

      I've been doing this shit bit not I promise I won't do it anymore. Thanks a lot dear Jessica

  • @otiss3213
    @otiss3213 Před 2 lety +879

    Never ever have I chased any woman. My dad taught me early on never to go running behind any woman because another one would come along in a few minutes...chasing only makes you look like you're less than someone else's equal and so forth. I've taught my sons the exact same thing! NEVER CHASE ANY WOMAN! PERIOD.

  • @drkips4757
    @drkips4757 Před rokem +2

    Keep them coming Jennifer.
    You're opening the eyes of men.
    Glad that I found this channel; so real and practical that I cannot ask for more

  • @BudoReflex
    @BudoReflex Před rokem

    I love listening to you. Very insightful, calm, and solid.

  • @mandlamgwenya382
    @mandlamgwenya382 Před 2 lety +75

    Agreed. Imagine begging someone to love you. If we vibe and we are both looking for a relationship, we should start determining if we are compatible. It's a 2-way street. No one is doing the other a favor.

  • @josephvenant7577
    @josephvenant7577 Před 2 lety +188

    You're absolutely right Jessica.
    I have been a victim of relationships for years. However, your videos transform my life completely because I have experienced most of those things with women.
    Thanks a lot for this wonderful job 💞💞💞.

  • @godfreymckay
    @godfreymckay Před rokem +3

    Love this Sis. I also think having chased my dreams, I cannot allow anyone who chases after me in my sacred space, Love. We better meet chasing things bigger than ourselves, and thereby fall in love because of our common goal/s. That way I envisage longevity and continued fulfilment in individuality hence capable of enjoying companionship. My thoughts.

  • @Foreign_Royal
    @Foreign_Royal Před rokem

    Great video! Straight to the point and I didn’t get bored watching..

  • @ojimaochuma3971
    @ojimaochuma3971 Před 2 lety +67

    Never chased women, never will. Thanks for making my thoughts more plain and coherent Jessica.

  • @ronwilli684
    @ronwilli684 Před 2 lety +67

    ive come across a plethora of female dating advice in my lifetime but this right here is the most to the point, factual and no bs advice ive ever seen.. definitely great video

  • @idris170
    @idris170 Před rokem +1

    Thank you Jessica!!
    These all seem common sense but ppl forget in the moment. It’s wonderful hearing it and I can testify this 💯 have girls chasing me that I used to chase specially during lockdowns when I wasn’t in the right mindset.
    Thank you

  • @sdk7367
    @sdk7367 Před rokem +23

    Can confirm this. I had a crush on a girl and “chased” her for over a year. It was during highschool. I noticed that I was being rejected and just stopped giving her every sort of attention in just an instant. Summer break was over and she suddenly began chasing me. Like having a conversation with me whenever she saw an opportunity, starting lots of nonsene small talk and or taking a seat near me

  • @mophemewapitori3747
    @mophemewapitori3747 Před 2 lety +236

    That's what I've been doing and women think I'm proud because I don't chase or beg. I court, you decline, I walk away. Or you accept, we date
    Thank you Jessica

  • @ItBeFactsThou6669
    @ItBeFactsThou6669 Před 2 lety +38

    When a Woman gives you game on Woman, YOU LISTEN 🎧 💯🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @sphiwekancube908
      @sphiwekancube908 Před rokem +1

      Great, this is called wisdom👌

    • @abcde9867
      @abcde9867 Před rokem +2

      nahbro all they care about is money she telling us to be more selfish but we have to sacrifice for family and cover them with love. this advice is realistic but not romantic or lasting

  • @akbarcnlegacy5586
    @akbarcnlegacy5586 Před rokem

    This is the 1st ever CZcams Channel I subscribed too.
    Thank you! thank you!

  • @shawnpunchdrawingandphotog7113

    Really nice video. Thank you for your thoughts!

  • @TRuffin
    @TRuffin Před 2 lety +45

    Hearing a Woman say this from a genuine perspective is very pleasing, alot of men need this so they can make their necessary adjustments..

    • @DC-qv6gq
      @DC-qv6gq Před 2 lety +1

      It's just one woman's view.

    • @DC-qv6gq
      @DC-qv6gq Před 2 lety

      @gracey ANDERSON complete fallacy. It's a shame so many men have fallen for this message . May they receive sense.

  • @melisizwengcobo1170
    @melisizwengcobo1170 Před 2 lety +36

    My relationship has evolved ever since I started watching your videos Jess. Thank you alot.

  • @tonytonex
    @tonytonex Před rokem

    Beautiful. I totally agree with you. I love your voice.
    Thanks!

  • @gibsonchama5207
    @gibsonchama5207 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm currently going through this and the videos are helping.I just hope to get to a safe conclusion of everything. Thanks Jessica.

  • @webexpert247
    @webexpert247 Před 2 lety +158

    Why do people think u can't chase women and work on ur success at the same time? If u would really stop improving yourself or giving 100% in ur job/business just because u're chasing a girl, then u have a different problem. If u ignore girls until u have money, then u attract more golddiggers than honest ones and u'd be too inexperienced to know the difference. The golden rule is: don't be needy, have standards, value ur time, learn to let go when u're not appreciated.

    • @alhassanfirrdous7292
      @alhassanfirrdous7292 Před 2 lety +9

      You said it all! There are a lot of rich men with bad women!

    • @koalsam1494
      @koalsam1494 Před 2 lety +1

      Even by doing what you said doesn't escape you from chasing gold diggers but how experienced enough are you relating to females will determine how far you can go with your point. And it's in both ways. In my opinion Jessica points are okay for me based on my experienced with female. Less stress if you're switched on in your head.

    • @jsnow07grad
      @jsnow07grad Před 2 lety +5

      Now your post is realistic thank you.

    • @danielgitau7213
      @danielgitau7213 Před 2 lety +3

      Your comment is pure gold

    • @MaJeSTiCz0
      @MaJeSTiCz0 Před 2 lety

      Facts hustle and grind.

  • @MrKnjwhite
    @MrKnjwhite Před 2 lety +28

    Dennis Okoi said it perfectly! Please my brothers I know its hard to hear but trust us on this. Focus on you, your goals, your purpose, and your legacy and the right woman will appear without much effort at all. The ones we chase, most of the time are not the right women for us. I found my Queen the minute I had given up on chasing. I was enjoying life with my friends, my professional career took off, and my community activism was through the roof! All of a sudden my bride to be appeared!

    • @tylowe78
      @tylowe78 Před 2 lety +2

      Your situation is kind of similar to what happened to me. Once I stopped looking or chasing...then low and behold there she was. I was running late for a doctors appointment when I ran into my wife to be. Just imagine if I was on time for the appointment, we probably wouldn't have met each other. Lol.

  • @mondliedwin4857
    @mondliedwin4857 Před rokem +7

    🎉You are literally teaching me how to become a better person. You deserve a subscription.

  • @angelocrisostomo7477
    @angelocrisostomo7477 Před rokem

    Very valuable information 👌
    Thanks Jessica 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @clidenjei9270
    @clidenjei9270 Před 2 lety +33

    The sound of your voice is so soothing. I Like your choice of words too. Great video straight to the point and simple. I believe every guy has chased a chick at some point in their lives but personally I always knew no one should be chasing be it a man or a woman. If you’re going to chase them, let them go!

  • @hvppy_world
    @hvppy_world Před 2 lety +66

    As soon as I decided to stop chasing women and started focusing on my dreams...she came to me.
    we immediately connected...2 years later... we still together.

    • @HDMIOT
      @HDMIOT Před 2 lety +1

      i stopped chasing a girl i was trying to get with for almost 8 months, we spoke regularly if i did'nt call or texted her she would contact me, we went to bed a few time in the 7th month which after another week she started to show some pulling away and some bad vibe, in a late night convo she told me she had taken sex off her mind, me seeing she was still going thru a break-up she says had'nt fully gotten over. so i shut down the engine no calls no texts, she was the one texting cause i told myself and her if she was interested i'm here waiting. after a week she stopped texting first and when she saw me around she looked at me like i did her wrong. even tried to call me friend (must be out your mind) behind, why she was upset i don't know know. i've been getting a lot of flack "bad mouthing" and bad puffed up lips stare down looks that should cause an argument but i'm not letting her have it her way.

  • @BooneDraw
    @BooneDraw Před rokem

    Absolutely. Explains the difficulty of Chasing. Being the one to do all the work in the relationship. Most painful to find out when you marry her that she never really cared.
    I was only financial support to her and her dreams but she never put forth the effort for me. I tell her I love her she says I love you back sometimes but not always. And never tells me she loves me without me saying it first. I have always chased women but expected to be chased back and it never happens.
    I say my must-haves are positivity, kindness, compassion, and good honest communication to build on respect, and romance ... and it all sounds good but Not finding that special someone.
    I am a little desperate because I have never really been loved. Ya. I need to stop chasing and set a new mindset. I Subscribed today, and watched two videos... TY.
    I am now getting a 2nd divorce from a narcissistic relationship. Finding True Love has been so hard for me.

  • @josiahosewo9725
    @josiahosewo9725 Před 8 měsíci

    Your channel is very educative/ helpful.

  • @gregorybush1403
    @gregorybush1403 Před 2 lety +337

    If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot

    • @gregorybush1403
      @gregorybush1403 Před 2 lety

      THNAK YOU BRIANHACKSONLINE ON WEB

    • @javaailon2802
      @javaailon2802 Před 2 lety +12

      This is one of the best description to my recent experience. I've never had the right words to describe it but this sums it up! A painful place to be in. FYI, just came across this channel and great content.

    • @likeitornot8027
      @likeitornot8027 Před 2 lety +9

      Bro this is excalty what I had, she kept lying about things, hiding things for me and when I was asking something about why some things are like that she couldnt tell me truth. And one day believe I had a bad feeling that she was cheating! And boommm i caught her

    • @thabangtaukobong1040
      @thabangtaukobong1040 Před 2 lety

      So accurate!

    • @tailsthefox6568
      @tailsthefox6568 Před 2 lety +7

      It’s called covert narcissist

  • @RILLAMAN84
    @RILLAMAN84 Před 2 lety +217

    I’m married already, but this is dope. In a sense, that was my mind set. I had things I wanted to try to achieve in my own life. My wife came to me🤷🏽‍♂️. 17 years together now with two kids. It pays to not chase. Less problems I think🤔.

  • @gangadaranramalingam5107

    Jessica your presentation has always been amazing. Cheers

  • @lanremadibarealestate

    You’re good at this. I learned from this too. Thanks!

  • @malikmartin481
    @malikmartin481 Před 2 lety +70

    This video randomly came up on my feed, but I’m happy I watched till the end. I’ve been chasing the same girl since HS and everything you said in this video was spot on. I put her on a high pedestal and forgot that I matter.

  • @afleyao8545
    @afleyao8545 Před 2 lety +63

    Thanks a million.! Got my heart broken and presently couldn't piece myself together cause I have been trying harder to get her attention... she's independent and got me through all kinds of motions and desolations... honestly I'm drained and fed up of chasing her... I completely retreated...if she returns, good! On the contrary I'm moving on.! Thanks Jessica, you now have a new subscriber to your channel...❤️

    • @christianjoseph4784
      @christianjoseph4784 Před 2 lety +1

      Love your wisdom & knowledge about relationships. You are Gorgeous as well.

    • @DC-qv6gq
      @DC-qv6gq Před 2 lety

      @@christianjoseph4784 Nhmmm

  • @KaranIsAgoodMan
    @KaranIsAgoodMan Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this video. Glad It was recommended to me! I'm in love with someone but I feel like I'm the one always doing the chasing. Have learnt things from this video. I always encountered a man motivating men on these issues, this is the first time I have seen a woman telling me not to chase women. Thanks for the guidance it means a lot.

  • @claudefrancis936
    @claudefrancis936 Před rokem

    Jes, I consider this video as one of your10 best ones. I value it as a Bible verse in my life. You're the best. Keep educating us.

  • @tyreeperkins968
    @tyreeperkins968 Před 2 lety +112

    This is what has gotten me girls in the past. Staying dedicated to my goals and myself. Constantly visualizing myself in the driver seat of my life, and crushing all of my goals. Now it’s time to get back to that after a deep heat break. I claim it! The power is within all of us.. dig deep 💥

  • @jcmoneyman
    @jcmoneyman Před 2 lety +54

    A+ advice... AND from a WOMAN. THANK YOU... I think that movies, books and media have duped us for so long to believe the storybook romance is real life, when it's not. YOU speak the truth!

    • @markoivanmarelic
      @markoivanmarelic Před 2 lety +1

      Well said bro 👏👍

    • @korneliustalenikapofi6146
      @korneliustalenikapofi6146 Před 2 lety

      Thank you Jessica, your teaching is really helping many men worldwide. I was one of those men who are chasing women but since I started watching your videos, I learned a lot and I can assure you I'm totally change the way of proposing or act toward a woman.

  • @jons.1393
    @jons.1393 Před rokem

    Jessica, Hi from Brazil. Thanks 4 the amazing video. I appreciate it!

  • @Juan_M19
    @Juan_M19 Před 8 měsíci

    This is gold. Thank you ❤

  • @albertappiah4494
    @albertappiah4494 Před 2 lety +14

    I always enjoy your critical thinking about the subject matter at hand.

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya Před 2 lety +80

    Loving your content, confidence, and consistency. Keep it up. Thanks.

  • @rashiqchowdhury-0039
    @rashiqchowdhury-0039 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video❤️❤️🙏🏽

  • @willie2036
    @willie2036 Před rokem +1

    U are matured and experienced love counsellor, everything u put across is indeed true. Valid advice !!

  • @collinmorudi5242
    @collinmorudi5242 Před 2 lety +32

    Ooh thank you Jessica!!! There's tears in my eyes right now, I wish I had known this all these years, I have been chasing women and working hard to get their attention and even if I got some of them but things never really worked well coz I still had to work hard to keep them engaged, eventually they just leave for better successful guys. I did all that at the expense of my dreams, thanks to you it stops now!

  • @oluwaseundavid3819
    @oluwaseundavid3819 Před 2 lety +10

    I'm subscribing right away. You're just so straight to the point, no beating about the bush. Everything you mentioned is so profound and thanks for sharing.

  • @assibitjerry1783
    @assibitjerry1783 Před rokem

    My number one relationship mentor,
    Thank God for you been with us .
    I love your teaching.

  • @thomasdalebabu2538
    @thomasdalebabu2538 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Really very important clue to note.

  • @bonnymb1_official597
    @bonnymb1_official597 Před 2 lety +238

    Wow, this is really helpful. I needed someone to tell me that honestly. Been doing exactly what I'm not supposed to. My thoughts and intentions have changed right now. Thank you Jessica.

  • @kenstevens7855
    @kenstevens7855 Před 2 lety +95

    The key is to develop a social network and lifestyle where you have repeated interactions with wife/gf level single women. It's much easier to resist the urge to chase when you know you will be interacting with attractive women on a regular basis and developing relationships where they can see your better qualities. If you only rely on online dating or picking up women in bars, then the first time a woman you are strongly attracted to shows a tad of interest the urge will be there to do whatever it takes to get her and that can lead to chasing or simping.
    Women know what they want at that particular time, but their agenda changes frequently as well. Instead of trying to force her to change her agenda, have several attractive women that you interact with on a regular basis (via organizations or peer groups) and you might end up being in the right place at the right time. My dad did not meet my mom's requirements when they met, but they bumped into each other a year later and it was a different story.

    • @olajuwontokunbo7979
      @olajuwontokunbo7979 Před 2 lety +9

      You are so on point, but sadly not evey has that has that circle/connection with the opposite sex.

    • @javo10ful
      @javo10ful Před 2 lety +4

      Or just be on your purpose always. Have hobbies and life goals, etc. that way you don’t become relationship focused when you meet a girl you like.

  • @Jburneyjr
    @Jburneyjr Před rokem

    You hit all points on the head. Great job.

  • @leonardgithua7014
    @leonardgithua7014 Před rokem

    The message you cut across very helpful ☺️

  • @user-cc8fe3pe4p
    @user-cc8fe3pe4p Před 2 lety +257

    I’ve been doing this all throughout my high school career, no more. Don’t care how beautiful the girl is, I’m not bending over backwards over another human again, especially one that’s not giving me the same attention, treat a female or a male like a celebrity and he or she will treat you like a fan.

    • @eseigbepablo6109
      @eseigbepablo6109 Před 2 lety +2

      I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️

    • @norman9541
      @norman9541 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @user-cc8fe3pe4p
      @user-cc8fe3pe4p Před 2 lety

      @@norman9541 Something to say, Norman?

    • @elliotwall5664
      @elliotwall5664 Před 2 lety

      Hoodville fam

    • @tajdyer2803
      @tajdyer2803 Před 2 lety +4

      Been there so many time bruh! I regret my past choices I have made. I bend over backwards for females when I was younger. The results were not good. Make your own self happy. These females will not acknowledge you until they have child(ren) , no eyes problems. In short you will be there back up plan when things turn sour for them. I learned alot.

  • @isaacboakye967
    @isaacboakye967 Před 2 lety +157

    Spending your time and money on videos like these is a great great investment! God bless you Jessy. You're solving problems!

    • @eseigbepablo6109
      @eseigbepablo6109 Před 2 lety

      I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️

    • @fridayblessed9742
      @fridayblessed9742 Před 2 lety +1

      @@eseigbepablo6109 get out

    • @christianwright1775
      @christianwright1775 Před 2 lety

      She did not have to spend money to pull out her camera and record but she is investing her time

    • @Roestradd
      @Roestradd Před 2 lety +1

      @@fridayblessed9742 Lmao, you said that 🤣

  • @BenjaminGonzalez-wv3cy

    Thank you Jessica, for helping me refocus all my positive energies in the right direction...

  • @okrasavchik
    @okrasavchik Před rokem +1

    Big talk, facts, thanks💯

  • @enockoppong9950
    @enockoppong9950 Před 2 lety +41

    I can't go a day without listen to you. Always on fact and you have helped me so much, and I feel good when you speak😘😘🙏🙏

  • @adebayo1297
    @adebayo1297 Před rokem

    Listing to this video.. I felt something walked out of my body to really know myself better.. the video is heart toughing thank you

  • @edikanedem4453
    @edikanedem4453 Před rokem

    Thank you Jessica. I've been inspired.

  • @corneliusallen1777
    @corneliusallen1777 Před 2 lety +5

    I love Jessica's mindset. Very intelligent and truthful. Experience, honest.

  • @njoysuccessnow
    @njoysuccessnow Před 2 lety +7

    Yep 3:38 This is exactly my current mindset. Keep focusing on fine tuning yourself physically, spiritually and financially.

  • @razickaj4401
    @razickaj4401 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this

  • @delcioamado1086
    @delcioamado1086 Před rokem

    Spot on Jessica! Well done!!!!

  • @eyabatabadi7174
    @eyabatabadi7174 Před 2 lety +48

    With your awesome videos, I renew my relationship with my wife everyday She’s always proud of me! Give us more of your potentials!

  • @citrinwarren6073
    @citrinwarren6073 Před 2 lety +30

    Enoch, you are not alone. I too am hooked to Jessica and her deep rooted facts. I always find her programs very interesting and command the attention of her listeners. Undoubtedly Jessica is always prepared for each topic. Great Job Jessica.

    • @gregorywest4112
      @gregorywest4112 Před 2 lety

      When I first started out I though that I.was suppose to be the hunter but as time went by I found out the other way around was the shit.yeah and it was more fun lol.bottom line was getting into her panties believe me its more fun when she wants to give it to u and the cool part is u get the chance to say no,I'm good lol

  • @hiranyagogoi7796
    @hiranyagogoi7796 Před rokem

    Really a great piece of advice. Jessica you rock. Keep it up.

  • @donaldjohnson4634
    @donaldjohnson4634 Před rokem

    I felt like I was in a class.👍🏾I enjoyed this video and it must been a sign for it to pop up 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @activistbabahjanneh926
    @activistbabahjanneh926 Před 2 lety +29

    Thank you for your advice sister Jessica, this is exactly what am going through with my marriage but as from today, I will put myself and my dreams first.

  • @aabusang
    @aabusang Před 2 lety +52

    “Everything that needs to be said has already been said. But since no one was listening, Jessica has to say it again” - Andre Gide

  • @bobbyward24
    @bobbyward24 Před rokem

    Thank you for the advice! Great vid!

  • @philserna3581
    @philserna3581 Před rokem

    GREAT ADVISE. THANK YOU.

  • @neyodiaries
    @neyodiaries Před 2 lety +58

    Have always believed that in the things of life pursuit; one has to keep trying(chasing)having the no giving up attitude, but on this video tips I realized it is not applicable to women(chasing one woman). One has to bring in balance in the affairs of women. Jessica your tips are fascinating, keep up the good work

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB Před 2 lety +1

      It doesn't ! It's a dance with women and dating isn't a chore !

  • @saintmearl8518
    @saintmearl8518 Před 2 lety +128

    I already stopped chasing "them" and this video even gives me more reasons why I should.
    Focusing on my dreams and goals is my prime prioty right now.
    The only problem though is I don't if I make it, I'll still be interested in "them" who I had chased before

    • @salamiganiuolatunji1033
      @salamiganiuolatunji1033 Před 2 lety +5

      Make sure you don't have any "if" when you're trying to achieve a goal...rather than "if", always remember yourself that "you can do it"
      "if" brings this negative thought about getting things done.

    • @mwanekwa1588
      @mwanekwa1588 Před 2 lety +1

      True talk

    • @iharris3466
      @iharris3466 Před 2 lety +4

      Nope !! You going have women on your level of dreams chasing you

    • @antoniomitchell1883
      @antoniomitchell1883 Před 2 lety +1

      You won’t make it.

  • @carmimweemba1907
    @carmimweemba1907 Před rokem

    Thanx DR these are powerful points

  • @user-jl7kz9zy1w
    @user-jl7kz9zy1w Před měsícem

    Thanks for sharing this video ,it's very helpful I had been through this type of path before.

  • @tacticalhuddy3614
    @tacticalhuddy3614 Před 2 lety +21

    This is arguably the best solid advice I have ever encountered. Very collected and informed advice that impacts directly in our lives.

  • @michaelmerritt9657
    @michaelmerritt9657 Před 2 lety +14

    It’s crazy. Things are so messed up out here. I’m done chasing. Definitely focusing on goals, but there’s something I don’t like about me achieving my goals, then being chased. I don’t want it. It’s become a game of chess.

  • @hagifour3451
    @hagifour3451 Před rokem +1

    Wow!! This has probably really changed my life for the better. Thanks Jessica. 😀👍🏿

  • @Mohat
    @Mohat Před 9 měsíci

    Oh Jessica, this is very instructive. Thank you so much!

  • @overcomersgroupllc.4198
    @overcomersgroupllc.4198 Před rokem +4

    This channel is one of a kind. Blessings upon blessings & peace to this channel! Thanks for the wonderful content! Please keep my house & family in your prayers.

  • @kimulijohn1157
    @kimulijohn1157 Před 2 lety +12

    Am here as always to learn from your teachings jessica, thanks for opening our thinking, hearts and mind

  • @princexcellent
    @princexcellent Před rokem

    You are simply amazing Jessica...!!!
    Thanks a million for your transformational thoughts.
    This is so direct, honest, sincere, genuine, creative and brilliant.
    Waohhhhhhh....!
    I'm sharing, maybe all your amazing videos.
    Once again, THANK YOU!

  • @yassanwilliam3153
    @yassanwilliam3153 Před měsícem

    Thanks, Jessica.
    Very informative for these tips. You're indeed helping a lot of guys out there.
    You just won my subscription to your channel.
    Cheers!

  • @jacyahya3063
    @jacyahya3063 Před 2 lety +12

    Jessica,you changed my life through this platform.Thank you.

  • @collenmatsepe606
    @collenmatsepe606 Před 2 lety +16

    "Focus on you big bro. Focus on you."- The spirit to be adopted by us men.

  • @brianlungu5747
    @brianlungu5747 Před rokem

    Thank you so much Jessica,I never knew about this and I think you are so much right about it.....Thank you once more

  • @halhosmer1820
    @halhosmer1820 Před rokem

    What a thoughtful presentation.
    Easy to listen to and a pleasant voice.
    I think I'll return for more.