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Yes! Powerful words. I think pleasure can b very limited. It’s gonna come & go much quicker than peace. Peace is an overall feeling of, not having to worry about finances, being able to do what u wanna do, living nice & comfortable, being healthy, not being at odds with one another & just having all around comfort in the company you keep. It’s an added bonus if you’re rich & all those things fall in line as it seems to with Will & Jada.
mizzmini45 coz when one is at peace nothing else matters. It’s a bliss state. Pleasure is not near second to it even. Pleasure is a much to do with how hormones work in our body. And peace is more to do with living by the spirit within.
Folks enter marriages in broken states and they expect the other person to FIX them. That will never happen, because individuals are trying to fix themselves. We cannot look to others to make us happy, even in friendships we get on that trend of thought that our friend is suppose to fix us. It is those unfulfilled expectations that get us in trouble. Be happy with YOU and that happiness will spill over into the relationship. Celebrate each other with love and respect.
Well i know in my marriage we both can from broken homes. We brought the toxicity into our marriage. God had to separate us to work on us. Once we came to the conclusion that we didn't want to be apart, that we were better together, rather than apart. We made the proper adjustments to love and heal one another. True love concurs all♥️🧡💛🛐
lisa Anderson wish that worked for all marriages. A lot of times healing comes from within, before marriage comes into play. A healthier direction for people whose love for each other is not as strong as you and your husband
You're so right. We need to work on ourselves instead of each other. I'VE been with my husband for 21 years and,I think we're in the part where we both need to work on ourselves so, we can be better.
“You scratch my back I’ll scratch yours. I soon found out how short ended that was. Now I say I’ll take care of me for you if you take care of you for me”. -Jim Rohn
Unfortunately they keep taking and taking and taking until you can’t get anything in return. The moment you try to demand your love back they’re nowhere to be seen anymore.🤣
Seems so beautiful. I am sure they went through a lot before reaching that higher level of understanding. I pray that I will find an amazing life partner.
@Fantastic View you're correct. Marriage is so disposable nowadays it's sad. A marriage more than a ring, cake or dress. You have to continue to work on yourself in order to bring the best of you to your mate. Constant communication is also key and keeping outside influences from your relationship.
Georgette Williams Some ppl hit eachother,some ppl become fat lazy and less romantic or rather work than spend time with you. Its not always the fault of the ones who want a divorce. Why stay in a loveless sexless marriage with a fat slob if you can do better? Im not saying divorce is a good thing but on the otherhand both ppl should be the best version of themselves everyday.
...but this is what marriage was designed by God to be anyway; until death. It's the selfish, worldly treatment of it that causes people to jump in and out of it so quickly.
@@melliemel32 Still both parties should focus on be the best version of themselves. Why be active through all your life and let it go to waste after marriage?
They're not even really rejecting the term or idea of marriage. They're rejecting what people have turned marriage into. MARRIAGE in its truest original form IS for LIFE.
Powerful... Marriages are failing because a lot of people enter into it full of ideals and selfish ambitions... Marriage is service" ... is also self sacrificial... Also most people do not understand that the singleness season ... is a preparatory and analytical time...of your needs... wants...emotions... vision... and desires.... most ppl do not question these ... they are constantly on the chase of someone to fix them... when they have to do it themselves.
About loving your kids and just watching them grow, and not trying to mould them in what you want.... it’s like the Carole King song... Sweet Child of Mine.... exactly. That’s how I try to raise my kids. Give them a beautiful garden, with enough sunshine and water and good soil.... and then watch them grow into what they were born to become.
I think if you really get what he’s saying you get that jada cheating still applies to what he’s saying. They’re life partners, they have ups and downs. They Don’t own each other, they just continue to grow together and move past it. It is unfortunate though. Hope he’s ok.
@@jessia8592 no excuse. Life partner or not. Loyalty is everything to a real man. You can't truly buy loyalty, same way with respect its earned, let's not get this twisted here, this is what female nature is, the bad thing for him is that he's only just realising this now.
His perspective resembles a lot with what Buddhism represents and talks about with love, allowing and surrendering to the ego and loving freely and unconditionally
Will gets it. He's the true mvp. I'd give anything to find his qualities in a man. Just heard his story of his childhood and how that impacted his view on love, marriage how he treats his wife. Listening to him was as if he was speaking for me.
May I find my life partner too. It's making me bitter. I love being with myself and enjoy my own company so much but sometimes I just wonder why no one found me worthy to be their partner because I am a CATCH (and 27)! I am a damn CATCH.
“And it feels so good to get to that space where you’re not complaining or worrying or demanding that a person be a certain thing to sort of satiate your ego deficiencies. You’re not demanding that somebody be a certain thing so you feel better about yourself. “
Marriage is work and every marriage is different, what works for one doesn't work for another. I get it I've been married 27 yrs and thought it was my husband duty to make me happy. No it's up to me to be happy within myself. may husband adds to my happiness. We are to individual human beings that have to be happy with themselves and who they are first. That's why is called unconditional love.
I don’t wanna ever find myself with someone that don’t wanna be wholeheartedly committed to me for the rest of their life but don’t wanna let me go so we just settle.....
I like how will describes his relationship with Willow, and how it differs from another paradigm of loving. I wish my father could have loved me that way.
Best life advice ever!! Tell the world bc it’s such an amazing journey to discover yourself and to allow others to do the same. This is an outstanding interview. God bless
Me and my husband have been together for 12 years and I completely agree we don’t and will never know each other . We will never know one self either. Life changes everyday with time so as individuals we react and adapt differently . Even in a marriage !!! Me and my husband have gone through so much but not everything yet... we have supported one another not only as a partner but as a human being. Like if we were to support friends or even a stranger. Breaking or putting someone down for their mistakes or flaws only puts you down there with them. Love and compassion is the secret to peace and happiness in this world of hurt and struggles...
With the kids named Jaden and Willow, half the time when somebody in the family calls out for somebody else, they don’t know who is being called until the second syllable.
AMEN BROTHER!!! Going on 30 years of marriage & it’s a lifetime of growing & developing as peaceful individuals, comfortable in their own skin that make each other stronger along the way…it’s constant forward motion, building of the relationship through our experiences along the way to death do us part, enjoying the journey. So proud of your honest, beautiful description of your journey! Love that Will Smith!!! 🤗
Dear Will....I watch all of your videos and every single time your wisdom and advice has helped me go in a better direction mentally 👍❤️ thanks for being you truly and helping others think outside of the box!
Amazing Grace... this is A true connection of two people...Peace and Happiness 🙏❣❣ plus Their kids are grounded as a family so relatable, thanks to CZcams. I so miss my late hubby as he was so defined as Father and Husband. Being able to just sit next to each other without saying anything, that is priceless. You got family in South Africa next time you visit. Fadia Dear neè Khan
Thank you, Will Smith for the parenting advice. Take it from someone whose family for some reason always thought they had a say in everything I do. For the longest time, I went with it. Guess what? I made no fucking progress in life because I was living other people's lives. Add miserable to that list also. Some parents need to learn to let go and realize that their kids lives are not their lives. They have lived their lives and now, it's time for that human you bought into this world to discover themselves and learn how they can be the best person they can be. Two years ago, I left home. I wasn't working. Had no money. Didn't even have friends to turn to. Things at home had become too much to handle. I felt like I was suffocating. I went to a youth shelter and my life has never been better. It astounded me how a bunch of strangers could make me feel at home and till this day I can't get over the fact that strangers made me feel that way and not my family. Fast track to today, I ave never been more focused, more determined to make something out of my life. It is not the easiest thing but I keep pushing, because for the first time ever I am doing the things that I want to do without a bunch of people breathing down my neck and it feels awesome. I take it one day at a time.
Hey there its Kesa here just would like to say thank you for this video it is just as reassuring eyeopening as any other piece of awesome advice for me and my hubby this very time of our journey together Godbless and all the best in your journey as well keep up the good vibes much love "happiness is peace not pleasure" I love this thank you👍👌🕊🥰🌈🙏
Not really knowing each other after years of marriage is more true in 2019. Instead of molding your mate into what you want, we need to shape ourselves in what we want to be. Know yourself before you try to know others. Good advice Will, true talk.
WOW!!! I am absolutely blown away!!! Within the first minute of this video he dropped a gem that im taking with me for life!! The Smiths are amazing and always exudes great and positive energy!!!!
Everybody thinks that love is red. Love is blue. Love is like water.
It's fluid
Bruce Lee " Be Water "
You ever seen the movie Blue is the warmest color?
That's beautiful if love is blue like water u must go with the flow/waves😊
@@wenwin11 Bruce Lee quotes
This aged like fine wine
Happiness is peace, not pleasure. WOW!!!! Deep and profound!
I agree. Its definitely worth it to have a since of peace.
Why can’t it be both?
Yes! Powerful words. I think pleasure can b very limited. It’s gonna come & go much quicker than peace. Peace is an overall feeling of, not having to worry about finances, being able to do what u wanna do, living nice & comfortable, being healthy, not being at odds with one another & just having all around comfort in the company you keep. It’s an added bonus if you’re rich & all those things fall in line as it seems to with Will & Jada.
mizzmini45 coz when one is at peace nothing else matters. It’s a bliss state. Pleasure is not near second to it even. Pleasure is a much to do with how hormones work in our body. And peace is more to do with living by the spirit within.
Crystal Grose No hate. He is giving advice to the world with a open marriage. I don’t see God in there at all!
Folks enter marriages in broken states and they expect the other person to FIX them. That will never happen, because individuals are trying to fix themselves. We cannot look to others to make us happy, even in friendships we get on that trend of thought that our friend is suppose to fix us. It is those unfulfilled expectations that get us in trouble. Be happy with YOU and that happiness will spill over into the relationship. Celebrate each other with love and respect.
Very well expressed.
Well i know in my marriage we both can from broken homes. We brought the toxicity into our marriage. God had to separate us to work on us. Once we came to the conclusion that we didn't want to be apart, that we were better together, rather than apart. We made the proper adjustments to love and heal one another. True love concurs all♥️🧡💛🛐
lisa Anderson wish that worked for all marriages. A lot of times healing comes from within, before marriage comes into play. A healthier direction for people whose love for each other is not as strong as you and your husband
Deep
@@flexxwilliamz514 it definitely is not us but us allowing the holy Spirit to work in us n through us.
Only works if both are working to be their best selves.
Many people divorce before they try hard
well said
Great words 👌🏼
You're so right. We need to work on ourselves instead of each other. I'VE been with my husband for 21 years and,I think we're in the part where we both need to work on ourselves so, we can be better.
“You scratch my back I’ll scratch yours. I soon found out how short ended that was. Now I say I’ll take care of me for you if you take care of you for me”. -Jim Rohn
The only advice my dad told me when I was about getting married was that it take 25yrs to start to know your husband so relax and enjoy the journey.
Omg . Wow !
How can anyone hate this dude such a genuine dude
Noone. He is the coolest guy.
Aunt Viv hates this dude...🙄
@@LoveAffairsTube ooooohhhh damn. She might be the ONLY Lmao!!!!
@@LoveAffairsTube dude you watched the show? Aunt Viv is the one protecting him
😂😂😂he's not all that great. He doesnt speak about social justice or situation that need talking. People get too obsessed with these celebrity
You did it again CZcams....you did it again.
Allowing someone to be themself in a marriage is the best thing you can do. It brings you a since of peace, Unconditional love and growth.
Unfortunately they keep taking and taking and taking until you can’t get anything in return. The moment you try to demand your love back they’re nowhere to be seen anymore.🤣
"Happiness is peace not pleasure."
seratisapelo amen!!!!!
Listen carefully, peace in the marriage. Pleasure outside the marriage.
Marriage itself is a question to be answered.. he talking so much about it is like a 2 year kid trying to write a story book...
Seems so beautiful. I am sure they went through a lot before reaching that higher level of understanding. I pray that I will find an amazing life partner.
U will darling, God willing.
Awww Britt, anything is possible. I'm living proof that you can go through hell and come out stronger on the other side xx
@@ikeze Thank you for your kind words.
@@MelanieKateLove ❤️👑
Me too! Keep your head up and keep smiling inside and out!
This man needs to right a book!
Was literally thinking the same!!!
And you need to read books to correct your spelling.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
Yeah mich better than Steve Harveys best selling foolishness.
kiki and co 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣fucking savage
Will and Jada are more than marriage...partners til death.
@Fantastic View you're correct. Marriage is so disposable nowadays it's sad. A marriage more than a ring, cake or dress. You have to continue to work on yourself in order to bring the best of you to your mate. Constant communication is also key and keeping outside influences from your relationship.
Georgette Williams Some ppl hit eachother,some ppl become fat lazy and less romantic or rather work than spend time with you. Its not always the fault of the ones who want a divorce. Why stay in a loveless sexless marriage with a fat slob if you can do better? Im not saying divorce is a good thing but on the otherhand both ppl should be the best version of themselves everyday.
...but this is what marriage was designed by God to be anyway; until death. It's the selfish, worldly treatment of it that causes people to jump in and out of it so quickly.
@@melliemel32 Still both parties should focus on be the best version of themselves. Why be active through all your life and let it go to waste after marriage?
They're not even really rejecting the term or idea of marriage. They're rejecting what people have turned marriage into. MARRIAGE in its truest original form IS for LIFE.
Powerful... Marriages are failing because a lot of people enter into it full of ideals and selfish ambitions... Marriage is service" ... is also self sacrificial...
Also most people do not understand that the singleness season ... is a preparatory and analytical time...of your needs... wants...emotions... vision... and desires.... most ppl do not question these ... they are constantly on the chase of someone to fix them... when they have to do it themselves.
Will is the last person I would take marriage or parenting advice from.
I know right because no one is supposed to make mistakes in life. Duh! 😒🤪
About loving your kids and just watching them grow, and not trying to mould them in what you want.... it’s like the Carole King song... Sweet Child of Mine.... exactly. That’s how I try to raise my kids. Give them a beautiful garden, with enough sunshine and water and good soil.... and then watch them grow into what they were born to become.
Who is here after red table feeling bad for our king 🥺👑
Me☺️
Yeah this video didnt age well now hu
I do not feel bad, it was an unfortunate situation. They came out if all of it stronger.
I think if you really get what he’s saying you get that jada cheating still applies to what he’s saying. They’re life partners, they have ups and downs. They Don’t own each other, they just continue to grow together and move past it. It is unfortunate though. Hope he’s ok.
@@jessia8592 no excuse. Life partner or not. Loyalty is everything to a real man.
You can't truly buy loyalty, same way with respect its earned, let's not get this twisted here, this is what female nature is, the bad thing for him is that he's only just realising this now.
CZcams has some nerve to put this on my home page rn
His perspective resembles a lot with what Buddhism represents and talks about with love, allowing and surrendering to the ego and loving freely and unconditionally
Really???? He is speaking basic Christian principles...like basic.
Thats called unconditional love so beautiful 👏🏾👏🏾
Bullshit. More like 2 very sexual mature intellectuals who figured it out.
You know when you are meant to be together because God does not make mistakes. ❤ (Married 35 years, together 40).
Very nice
Congrats
Is it possible for people that long or longer can stay faithful and happy ?
Wowed by the gardener/flower explanation for love! I've heard the reference before but somehow it just hit me very differently the way he put it.
There is nothing more agitating to your mind then extreme pleasure - Will 🙌🏿
Osiris Jackson That will go over most hears!
This is true Ms. Osiris Jackson over there or most are 💤💤💤💤
WOW, that line hit me hard.
This has aged horribly 😂😂
U
Was looking for this comment 😂😂
Will gets it. He's the true mvp. I'd give anything to find his qualities in a man. Just heard his story of his childhood and how that impacted his view on love, marriage how he treats his wife. Listening to him was as if he was speaking for me.
🤣🤣
I love that he and his wife actually take their vows serious enough to stay the course and not quit when things get hard
@C T I think that bbn primarily was because Jada didn't want to be tied down from the beginning. Will didn't want his marriage to end.
The man absolutely got it down to a tea 31 been with my partner since we were 15 ain't nothing more peaceful than feeling unconditional love.
May I find my life partner too. It's making me bitter. I love being with myself and enjoy my own company so much but sometimes I just wonder why no one found me worthy to be their partner because I am a CATCH (and 27)! I am a damn CATCH.
“And it feels so good to get to that space where you’re not complaining or worrying or demanding that a person be a certain thing to sort of satiate your ego deficiencies. You’re not demanding that somebody be a certain thing so you feel better about yourself. “
Everytime I listen to you , Will Smith, I realize you articulate how I am evolving...
Best advice
Marriage is work and every marriage is different, what works for one doesn't work for another. I get it I've been married 27 yrs and thought it was my husband duty to make me happy. No it's up to me to be happy within myself. may husband adds to my happiness.
We are to individual human beings that have to be happy with themselves and who they are first. That's why is called unconditional love.
I don’t wanna ever find myself with someone that don’t wanna be wholeheartedly committed to me for the rest of their life but don’t wanna let me go so we just settle.....
Tiesha Johnson how did you get that out of what he was saying in this video?
Im with you. I dont want to settle. Thats why now I see why its so important not to rush into it or take it lightly.
Don’t settle
Amen! I want someone who is committed to making our relationship work.
Girl you are speaking my words!!!!
They lucky to find each other
Yo I swear Will Smith is like the marriage Guru!!...marriage counseling 1 on 1 Jada too.
Yikes
You sure about that 😬
Who is here in 2020 after "entanglements"?😂
This made me cry so beautiful such a smart man god bless
And now we know he said this after "the entanglement". Amazing. Truly amazing.
I like how will describes his relationship with Willow, and how it differs from another paradigm of loving. I wish my father could have loved me that way.
For me both parents.
Who's here after the "Entanglement"?
Everything Will Smith spoke of as far as love and marriage I think he was really trying hard to believe it......he's definitely evolved!
Best life advice ever!! Tell the world bc it’s such an amazing journey to discover yourself and to allow others to do the same. This is an outstanding interview. God bless
Wow" happiness is peace not pleasure"!👏🙌
How he talks about it all, is what I’m looking forward to in my future relationship.
Me and my husband have been together for 12 years and I completely agree we don’t and will never know each other . We will never know one self either. Life changes everyday with time so as individuals we react and adapt differently . Even in a marriage !!! Me and my husband have gone through so much but not everything yet... we have supported one another not only as a partner but as a human being. Like if we were to support friends or even a stranger. Breaking or putting someone down for their mistakes or flaws only puts you down there with them. Love and compassion is the secret to peace and happiness in this world of hurt and struggles...
With the kids named Jaden and Willow, half the time when somebody in the family calls out for somebody else, they don’t know who is being called until the second syllable.
He looks very happy with that agreement.
AMEN BROTHER!!! Going on 30 years of marriage & it’s a lifetime of growing & developing as peaceful individuals, comfortable in their own skin that make each other stronger along the way…it’s constant forward motion, building of the relationship through our experiences along the way to death do us part, enjoying the journey. So proud of your honest, beautiful description of your journey! Love that Will Smith!!! 🤗
Maria Nyce why get married when you can just be life partners ?
Here because of Red table talk 2020...marriage and infidelity both so public. Hope it will withstand hard times like these. Wish you the best
Dear Will....I watch all of your videos and every single time your wisdom and advice has helped me go in a better direction mentally 👍❤️ thanks for being you truly and helping others think outside of the box!
He's good. I've always admired him and continue to do because he's the most understanding, genuine, modest person of this era 💗
“People think love is Red like fire -- but it’s Blue like water 💙💙💙
I'm here in 2022 after that slap who else is?
Will Smith is a pretty cool dude. I don't agree with him on everything, but a genuine guy.
He is so generous with his advice. Everything he said is a gold nugget. Thank you Will. 💙
"Not marriage but life partners." I felt that.
You continue to amaze me. Spot on, spot on. Enlightenment is a gift. Thank you..
What he said at the end about willow in general that analogy was some real shit!
Amazing Grace... this is A true connection of two people...Peace and Happiness 🙏❣❣
plus
Their kids are grounded as a family so relatable, thanks to CZcams.
I so miss my late hubby as he was so defined as Father and Husband.
Being able to just sit next to each other without saying anything, that is priceless.
You got family in South Africa next time you visit.
Fadia Dear neè Khan
Love is blue my favorite colour of the ocean and SILENCE
What a deep talk, thank you for sharing ✨🙏
I love this....Great message....I will use this message and share this with the hubby!!!
That's it, lay the soil for your loved ones to become who they are and not what we want them to be!! Good stuff!
Thank you Will. I am SO at peace in my life right now. I learn so much from you and your videos.
4:15 watching this on a HP laptop, thinking when did i bought a mac??
Thank you, Will Smith for the parenting advice. Take it from someone whose family for some reason always thought they had a say in everything I do. For the longest time, I went with it. Guess what? I made no fucking progress in life because I was living other people's lives. Add miserable to that list also. Some parents need to learn to let go and realize that their kids lives are not their lives. They have lived their lives and now, it's time for that human you bought into this world to discover themselves and learn how they can be the best person they can be. Two years ago, I left home. I wasn't working. Had no money. Didn't even have friends to turn to. Things at home had become too much to handle. I felt like I was suffocating. I went to a youth shelter and my life has never been better. It astounded me how a bunch of strangers could make me feel at home and till this day I can't get over the fact that strangers made me feel that way and not my family. Fast track to today, I ave never been more focused, more determined to make something out of my life. It is not the easiest thing but I keep pushing, because for the first time ever I am doing the things that I want to do without a bunch of people breathing down my neck and it feels awesome. I take it one day at a time.
Isatu k This is awesome.....keep pusing.
Good job and congratulations
Aww 🥰 I love how you speak of your baby girl 👧 makes tarts roll down. I so miss my dad!!!
this makes so much sense, after we all know she cheated, he's trying to find a higher form of love , just find yourself another one easy
So much wisdom! Love it❣️
Hey there its Kesa here just would like to say thank you for this video it is just as reassuring eyeopening as any other piece of awesome advice for me and my hubby this very time of our journey together Godbless and all the best in your journey as well keep up the good vibes much love "happiness is peace not pleasure" I love this thank you👍👌🕊🥰🌈🙏
Aww so touching 😍 Yep when you Love a Flower you water it daily you don't pluck it
Wow! This it! Thank you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
ive never felt a video sO much.. needed this
Sounds beautiful!! Hope I can experience this kind of awakening mature love in a marriage with a life partner.
Wow wow wow. Spot on about parenting. Flower gardening paradigm is so powerful.
This is why I talk to the wise people that's been thru it he's given me a greater understanding thanks Will I need this
Not really knowing each other after years of marriage is more true in 2019. Instead of molding your mate into what you want, we need to shape ourselves in what we want to be. Know yourself before you try to know others. Good advice Will, true talk.
Man..love hearing him speak . amazing.
Always inspiring to hear Will's philosophy on life!
So incredible his advice. They both inspire me to do videos of them 💖
I reevaluated my whole demeanor and behavior towards my oldest daughter.
Thats awesome :)
Oh this just beautiful thanks for your wisdom love you will
The highest level of happiness is peace.
higher than love.
This helped me cope with do many dynamics around relationships in my life....i love my best friend and my daughter
I absolutely love the way he speaks about Willow. Man Will is such a great dad. More fathers should be like him.
Beautiful words ♥️✨
Such profound insight!!!!!
Blessings to you and JADA!!!!
Wow! Thank you Will! The world needs more of you ❤️
I needed to hear these jewels!
Beautifully said 💛
What a difference a year later makes..Cough
Beautiful!!! Thank u Will
Success is not counted by how high you have climbed but by how many people you brought with you. - Wil Rose
This was so profound!!! He is so inspiring!!!
Extremely Exceptional Man, Father and Influence. Can’t Help but ♥️Love Will Smith
WOW, I'm glad I watched this, thank you😊👌✨
happiness is inner ecstasy 👍 happy within ur self then fragrance over others brings sweetness in life 😊😊
I could listen to WILL all year long! So much wisdom.
So powerful!!
WOW!!! I am absolutely blown away!!! Within the first minute of this video he dropped a gem that im taking with me for life!! The Smiths are amazing and always exudes great and positive energy!!!!
Every word is so deep. I litrally look up to this family for parenting
Hes so awesome.. Love hearing him talk when im.down...he should do talks on how to raise kids