came here to say the same, this is my second serious breakup that's had me stricken with a lot of grief and i'm only on day 4. in a few days, we're going to be talking and i will have to initiate no contact so i can properly heal-- i'm trying to watch dustin's vids for a glimpse of what being alone with myself could feel like eventually :(
For me your energy and vibe is so gravitating for me as a female. It’s quite comforting and makes me feel like I have a safe space from watching your videos.
Dustin, I've been watching your videos for a few years now and I just wanted to say how safe they make me feel. I love that your videos feel as if you're really looking into the life of a real person with emotion and thought.
Not to exaggerate but whenever i feel down and i need some comfort, i always run to your videos. You're such a comfy person to be around, Dustin 💌. I hope you're okay & have a lovely day 💌.
I feel like whenever everything is going good in our lives and we’re very happy and content with everything, we always find a way to self sabotage. All the boxes are checked but one, and we make that one box our whole world. I think we do this because we can never be happy and we just aren’t used to being happy and content. We can’t accept this happiness when there is one thing missing. So when not everything is perfect but we’re okay and happy with it, we always find something to ruin it and bring us down. It’s in our nature, always having some kind of chaos or some kind of hurt in our lives. It’s the only thing we know, so we continue to do it because it’s home. We never allow ourselves to be fully happy and it’s sad but it’s all we know.
I laid in bed yesterday morning and it was a beautiful quiet moment, the sun was up and it was cool inside my room. It immediately felt off, I felt like I had to do something so I got up it was 8:00 a.m. on a Saturday and I had nothing to do and I felt off. And I'm thinking to myself why can't I just spend the day in bed all day why do I have to get up, why do I have to do anything? I was raised like that always having to do something not being able to sit still and if you are sitting still they question you. Are you alright? Are you depressed what's wrong with you? As if laying in bed all day was a sign that you are sad, sick, or lazy. And being raised like that you start to question yourself am I lazy am I sick what's wrong with me?
Wow!! I love the honesty 9:52 and on. The whole video is a vibe as always but I especially appreciate you being so vulnerable about romantic endeavors and comparison to white people. I know people say this all the time but it really happened to me; the minute I stopped looking for my person, I ended up finding him.
just recently discovered your channel and I just love your content. It reminds me so much of the content I used to watch like six years ago that was so chill but also so visually pleasing and it helped me realize I wanted to make filmmaking and photography my career. I love all your shots, editing, color grading, etc... it just looks so good. I also wanted to briefly mention how you brought up this loneliness that you feel. I have felt that most of my life. I'm about to turn 23 and I have never been on a date, never kissed anyone, etc... It wasn't until probably a couple months ago that I actually am feeling?? not lonely?? I found so much community around me recently and it has made me feel so fulfilled. One day, yeah, I'd love to be in love. But that almost just feels so far away and out of reach at this point but... I'm almost okay with that? for once? Anyways, I hope you find what your heart really needs. Whether that be a s/o, more community, self love, anything. We all deserve to feel fulfilled in a healthy way.
You have an infectious energy that just makes people feel okay, you are the embodiment of autumn ❤ Have a good day Dustin, the one that paves the way for us all😊
I feel like whenever everything is going good in our lives and we’re very happy and content with everything, we always find a way to self sabotage. All the boxes are checked but one, and we make that one box our whole world. I think we do this because we can never be happy and we just aren’t used to being happy and content. We can’t accept this happiness when there is one thing missing. So when not everything is perfect but we’re okay and happy with it, we always find something to ruin it and bring us down. It’s in our nature, always having some kind of chaos or some kind of hurt in our lives. It’s the only thing we know, so we continue to do it because it’s home. We never allow ourselves to be fully happy and it’s sad, but it’s all we know. 12:08
bahhh i also get bouts of these indescribable moments of loneliness that just bring out the worst in me. like no matter what i do, however many books or movies or doomscrolling on every single app, there doesn't seem to be a remedy. but i think it's when i take walks out, breaths of fresh air beyond my bedroom and the dailyness of my life do i realize the smallness in everything. and everything becomes a bit wondrous and feel a bit far off from myself that makes things feel okay. it's through these videos too that makes life feel okay. thank you
Just wanted to let you know that you are my comfort channel 🤍 Also that part, when you talk about loneliness attacks, it's soooo relatable. But don't worry we always have at least one person, who loves us for who we are.
The scrolling through dating apps at 3 am is so real, and it's depressing because you know it's a spur in the moment feeling of loneliness but it's also hard to shake off that feeling. Though I think it's also important to remember how often times being in a relationship could feel even lonelier than being by yourself. I think when you're lonely by yourself, there are things you can do to make yourself feel less lonely, but if you feel lonely with another person, it's really hard to feel less lonely because your loneliness is now sort of dependant/dictated by the other person's actions instead of your own. The making friends with white people thing as an asian is so real too, I think I've only ever really had like 1-2 friends who are white, and now that I've entered uni and I have a lot more white friends, it's a strange feeling. You feel a bit inferior and lacking in places even though you know technically it's not true. And that feeling sucks
Yo Dustin, been watching you for a while now! I am 20 and I live in Seattle and I’m a full-time student it’s so amazing what you have accomplished at 21! I inspire to have a routine down as you do! I loved that you added the fashion segment
I’ve always loved watching your videos and they give me excitement for my future as an adult. Especially with my partner. We’ve been doing long distance the past few months, and I really hope our future selves can enjoy life together the way you do with your loved ones. Thank you Dustin :)
Dustin, you used to be my favorite content creator. A couple of weeks ago i remembered a random video you made with a friend where you drew each other. But i couldn’t remember who it was made by, so when i discovered your channel again i felt so happy! Love your content
i dealt with the same type of crushing loneliness before and i solved this problem by getting a roommate. not just a roommate but a roommate who is also a very good friend. i'm just saying this so people know dating isn't the only cure for loneliness.
the loneliness hitting at night and going on dating apps is so REAL. I’ve been single for 4 yrs now n I’m feeling so much pressure to find someone which is insane bc I know I don’t “need” someone but …it still sucks
me too💀sometimes where I get too lonely I’ll just go through the dating apps, talk to few people, wait till the mood change hit me and I don’t feel lonely anymore I’ll just dlt the app
okay you need to tell me your secret for making such calming vlogs, cause mine are always a mess literally all over the place also might be because I am super clumsy and quirky :PP but I loved your video, as someone who is also trying to be and adult this was just so motivational PS: just binge watch a bunch of your vlogs, cause they are so lovely to watch one day I hope to make mine as aesthetically pleasing, but for right now gonna be real they are chaotic next lvl
Fake it until you make it! Lie to yourself, tell yourself you are confident and soon that will be your new reality :) it’s called manifesting you are capable to achieve anything you want, believe it.
the romantic relationship aspect oof so relatableeeee i thought that relationships would fix my life and make me feel more stable but guess what?? i got into one (out of desperation) and it left me even more traumatized fr
Love the first outfit!!! I relate to the whole loneliness! I am honestly not in a position to date, its just impossible😭 And bringing back the letter i stabd for, i think its more intimate😭❤
My love life started this year, at 25 y/o, so i understand that frustation bc it's like I LOVE MYSELF and im good alone BUT i would love to have someone to share my romantic love 😂. That person will come eventually Dustin, it's a work of patience actually.
I am always curious why he doesn't have someone because he is very sharp. Would a few of you females that love and watch him be willing to give him some advice? It would be interesting to see your perspective and try to help him out too.
I don't know you but I also go through a cycle of comparing (not the way you do but similarly). Honestly going through these seasons are ok too. We always feel like we got to fix ourselves and that's not what life is for. I have been single all of my life and as a human, we have our moments and tarts ok, I wish it was normalize to say we all have moments cause those same people that look "perfect" have moments too. If it happened regularly I would be concern but once in awhile, that sa normal cycle. You're alright :)
I feel you with the not feeling fulfilled just because you don't have a romantic partner. I think in order to stop feeling insecure about that we need to culturally change how we as a society view friendships. Until it's normal to be more intimate with our platonic friends there are certain things it's only acceptable to get from a romantic partner, unfortunately.
Hey dustin just wanted to let you know that i’ve been watching your videos after a recent breakup and they remind me that everything will be ok
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you'll get through it!
hope ur healing and doing alright!
came here to say the same, this is my second serious breakup that's had me stricken with a lot of grief and i'm only on day 4. in a few days, we're going to be talking and i will have to initiate no contact so i can properly heal-- i'm trying to watch dustin's vids for a glimpse of what being alone with myself could feel like eventually :(
For me your energy and vibe is so gravitating for me as a female. It’s quite comforting and makes me feel like I have a safe space from watching your videos.
aw i’m glad my videos can be a safe space for you
Dustin, I've been watching your videos for a few years now and I just wanted to say how safe they make me feel. I love that your videos feel as if you're really looking into the life of a real person with emotion and thought.
thank you im so happy that my videos feel that way
Not to exaggerate but whenever i feel down and i need some comfort, i always run to your videos. You're such a comfy person to be around, Dustin 💌. I hope you're okay & have a lovely day 💌.
thank you 🥹
I feel like whenever everything is going good in our lives and we’re very happy and content with everything, we always find a way to self sabotage. All the boxes are checked but one, and we make that one box our whole world. I think we do this because we can never be happy and we just aren’t used to being happy and content. We can’t accept this happiness when there is one thing missing. So when not everything is perfect but we’re okay and happy with it, we always find something to ruin it and bring us down. It’s in our nature, always having some kind of chaos or some kind of hurt in our lives. It’s the only thing we know, so we continue to do it because it’s home. We never allow ourselves to be fully happy and it’s sad but it’s all we know.
I laid in bed yesterday morning and it was a beautiful quiet moment, the sun was up and it was cool inside my room. It immediately felt off, I felt like I had to do something so I got up it was 8:00 a.m. on a Saturday and I had nothing to do and I felt off. And I'm thinking to myself why can't I just spend the day in bed all day why do I have to get up, why do I have to do anything? I was raised like that always having to do something not being able to sit still and if you are sitting still they question you. Are you alright? Are you depressed what's wrong with you? As if laying in bed all day was a sign that you are sad, sick, or lazy. And being raised like that you start to question yourself am I lazy am I sick what's wrong with me?
i love how open, honest, and real you are about the loneliness.. shit hits hard
dustin is my comfort human❤️
Wow!! I love the honesty 9:52 and on. The whole video is a vibe as always but I especially appreciate you being so vulnerable about romantic endeavors and comparison to white people. I know people say this all the time but it really happened to me; the minute I stopped looking for my person, I ended up finding him.
just recently discovered your channel and I just love your content. It reminds me so much of the content I used to watch like six years ago that was so chill but also so visually pleasing and it helped me realize I wanted to make filmmaking and photography my career. I love all your shots, editing, color grading, etc... it just looks so good.
I also wanted to briefly mention how you brought up this loneliness that you feel. I have felt that most of my life. I'm about to turn 23 and I have never been on a date, never kissed anyone, etc... It wasn't until probably a couple months ago that I actually am feeling?? not lonely?? I found so much community around me recently and it has made me feel so fulfilled. One day, yeah, I'd love to be in love. But that almost just feels so far away and out of reach at this point but... I'm almost okay with that? for once? Anyways, I hope you find what your heart really needs. Whether that be a s/o, more community, self love, anything. We all deserve to feel fulfilled in a healthy way.
i love when you open up about your feelings and your thoughts because i always feel so related to you, it makes me think about my life
You have an infectious energy that just makes people feel okay, you are the embodiment of autumn ❤ Have a good day Dustin, the one that paves the way for us all😊
Love the calming vibes of your videos. Executed effortlessly.
I feel like whenever everything is going good in our lives and we’re very happy and content with everything, we always find a way to self sabotage. All the boxes are checked but one, and we make that one box our whole world. I think we do this because we can never be happy and we just aren’t used to being happy and content. We can’t accept this happiness when there is one thing missing. So when not everything is perfect but we’re okay and happy with it, we always find something to ruin it and bring us down. It’s in our nature, always having some kind of chaos or some kind of hurt in our lives. It’s the only thing we know, so we continue to do it because it’s home. We never allow ourselves to be fully happy and it’s sad, but it’s all we know.
12:08
Every time I sing the outro song I scream “OH FUCK” It’s a ritual for me
HAHAHA LOVE THAT
your videos are like a warm hug that i can find comfort in during hard times
I love/hâte how dustin is saying that he compares himself and it’s not great when I compares myself SO MUCH to him
bahhh i also get bouts of these indescribable moments of loneliness that just bring out the worst in me. like no matter what i do, however many books or movies or doomscrolling on every single app, there doesn't seem to be a remedy. but i think it's when i take walks out, breaths of fresh air beyond my bedroom and the dailyness of my life do i realize the smallness in everything. and everything becomes a bit wondrous and feel a bit far off from myself that makes things feel okay. it's through these videos too that makes life feel okay. thank you
Just wanted to let you know that you are my comfort channel 🤍
Also that part, when you talk about loneliness attacks, it's soooo relatable. But don't worry we always have at least one person, who loves us for who we are.
loving the more chatty vlog style here. also the fisheye lens? slay
The scrolling through dating apps at 3 am is so real, and it's depressing because you know it's a spur in the moment feeling of loneliness but it's also hard to shake off that feeling. Though I think it's also important to remember how often times being in a relationship could feel even lonelier than being by yourself. I think when you're lonely by yourself, there are things you can do to make yourself feel less lonely, but if you feel lonely with another person, it's really hard to feel less lonely because your loneliness is now sort of dependant/dictated by the other person's actions instead of your own.
The making friends with white people thing as an asian is so real too, I think I've only ever really had like 1-2 friends who are white, and now that I've entered uni and I have a lot more white friends, it's a strange feeling. You feel a bit inferior and lacking in places even though you know technically it's not true. And that feeling sucks
that button-up at 4:00 is so taylor swift love story music video romeo running through the field towards juliet
Yo Dustin, been watching you for a while now! I am 20 and I live in Seattle and I’m a full-time student it’s so amazing what you have accomplished at 21! I inspire to have a routine down as you do! I loved that you added the fashion segment
I love your videos, they're like a warm fuzzy blanket. Especialy this one. This one made me want to curl up in my bed and just rest for a second.
Was waiting for you to post ❤ARGHHH i just love watching human beings doing their own thing so muuuuch!!!! Dustin is my comfort person ❤
I’m sorry but that individualized poem is the sweetest gift 💝 thank you for always spreading joy!
Dustin I just want to let you know that your vlogs give me so much comfort and it makes me feel really happy
Deeply enjoyed this (and all the others I have watched today!) and grateful for the honesty you share with us 🙏🏻 thank you
I’ve always loved watching your videos and they give me excitement for my future as an adult. Especially with my partner. We’ve been doing long distance the past few months, and I really hope our future selves can enjoy life together the way you do with your loved ones. Thank you Dustin :)
the fact that you ended the video in the same position as you started is so amazing Dustin. Your life is honestly a vibe
I was having such a bad day but your video made me feel better❤ I love that you exist❤
Dustin, you used to be my favorite content creator. A couple of weeks ago i remembered a random video you made with a friend where you drew each other. But i couldn’t remember who it was made by, so when i discovered your channel again i felt so happy! Love your content
the weekly lonely spiral is so me honestly... same with my friends too, it's the fall air fr
THE LAST ONE OF THOSE OUTFIT INSPOS GOT ME TOTALLY
you, your apt, your fits are THE vibe 😍
Your routine always attracts me but I wish there was a translation for that damn thing you say man I want to understand that 😂
Good vibes with Dustin
An upload from you sets my mood fr
literally the realest person ik (i
the mood swings stalking bit is SO REAL I do that too
Authenticity and Dustin best match ♡
pls the second outfit is giving girlboss 💅🏼 Luke Danes
THE FITTTTTS
Ughh Dustin you are my role model. Everything you do is just so perfect wow
i dealt with the same type of crushing loneliness before and i solved this problem by getting a roommate. not just a roommate but a roommate who is also a very good friend. i'm just saying this so people know dating isn't the only cure for loneliness.
love u dustin thank u for this and thank u for being u
i've missed you dustin
im a college student in nyc itd be fun to meet up when ur here if u have time 😋 and i totally feel the random jabs of lonliness/jealousy thing ❣️
the loneliness hitting at night and going on dating apps is so REAL. I’ve been single for 4 yrs now n I’m feeling so much pressure to find someone which is insane bc I know I don’t “need” someone but …it still sucks
7:51 you and me are the exact same when it comes to this. if there is no food made easy to eat i simply will just not eat💀
me too💀sometimes where I get too lonely I’ll just go through the dating apps, talk to few people, wait till the mood change hit me and I don’t feel lonely anymore I’ll just dlt the app
Me watching a daily routine video to live through vicariously right before bed
DUSTIN!!! You need to get a monitor to plug into your Mac. Less looking down and it’s better for your posture !!! Loved the vid ✨✨💕
Really like your room
My comfort channel fr🥺✨️
The third outfit made me say 'yum' involuntarily XD So, it's a yes, from me *lol*
A guy that does skincare: DEFINETILY GREEN LIGHT
you're literally me but asian and a boy 😭
sending many hugs from italy x
okay you need to tell me your secret for making such calming vlogs, cause mine are always a mess literally all over the place
also might be because I am super clumsy and quirky :PP
but I loved your video, as someone who is also trying to be and adult this was just so motivational
PS: just binge watch a bunch of your vlogs, cause they are so lovely to watch one day I hope to make mine as aesthetically pleasing, but for right now gonna be real they are chaotic next lvl
WAKE UP DUSTIN HAS POSTED AGAIN 🕺😍
such a beautiful day 🫶🏽
Always waiting for Dustin’s video❤
Guess I already have something to watch during dinner today :)
Love the 3rd outfit, as soon as you came out I was like 🤩. Would love to see more.
Dustin you are such an inspiration ✨
This is such a perfect way to start My morning ugh 🫶🏻
13:59 what is thissss song 😭😭 idk why but him humming sounds so nice
Omg I need to knowawwwaaaaaaaa
cest magnifique !!! one of my favs
@@dustinvuong thanks sooo much Dustin, hopefully one day we’ll get a playlist video from you and it consists of songs like these
my tote bag came just a phew days ago!! tysmm dustinn!!! aah i love it smm
can't believe im this early! gonna watch & journal
I wait all week for Dustin’s vlogs🫶
Fake it until you make it! Lie to yourself, tell yourself you are confident and soon that will be your new reality :) it’s called manifesting you are capable to achieve anything you want, believe it.
I love your vibe❤
We love the vibes
this was so amaizing. congrats
the romantic relationship aspect oof so relatableeeee i thought that relationships would fix my life and make me feel more stable but guess what?? i got into one (out of desperation) and it left me even more traumatized fr
Love the first outfit!!! I relate to the whole loneliness! I am honestly not in a position to date, its just impossible😭
And bringing back the letter i stabd for, i think its more intimate😭❤
Aaaahhhhhhh ive been waiting for thisssss, finallyy some good shit on the internet.
My love life started this year, at 25 y/o, so i understand that frustation bc it's like I LOVE MYSELF and im good alone BUT i would love to have someone to share my romantic love 😂. That person will come eventually Dustin, it's a work of patience actually.
Ngl this video makes me want to live alone, truly 😂
I love it!!
dustin stop being cute ahhhhhhhhhh
i shall look forward to ur music omggg
I am always curious why he doesn't have someone because he is very sharp. Would a few of you females that love and watch him be willing to give him some advice? It would be interesting to see your perspective and try to help him out too.
excited for nyc content!!
Dustin have you ever considered getting a little furry friend? During the loneliest of times they help the most (from experience 😭)
Dustin, mah buoy, i friggin love you
God has filled my yearning and lonliness
i was waiting for this
I don't know you but I also go through a cycle of comparing (not the way you do but similarly). Honestly going through these seasons are ok too. We always feel like we got to fix ourselves and that's not what life is for. I have been single all of my life and as a human, we have our moments and tarts ok, I wish it was normalize to say we all have moments cause those same people that look "perfect" have moments too. If it happened regularly I would be concern but once in awhile, that sa normal cycle. You're alright :)
Why did I identify so much with the random bouts of loneliness? Literally was like “that’s me “ when you were describing your situation.
I feel you with the not feeling fulfilled just because you don't have a romantic partner. I think in order to stop feeling insecure about that we need to culturally change how we as a society view friendships. Until it's normal to be more intimate with our platonic friends there are certain things it's only acceptable to get from a romantic partner, unfortunately.
Masterpiece ‼️
where’d you get the bag for your first outfit?
at 11:38 u r so real
Amazing...
what did you use on your eyebrows?
please render the videos in 24p 😭
The white people comparison is so real. It’s comforting to know that it’s not a unique experience.
What work do u do on your computer?
Love this ;)
Fashion icon love