This is actually accurate af. The ones who love the hardest, are also the ones that are the most deeply destroyed when that love is no longer enough for the one they'd give the world to.
I got cheated on and now I vow to never be in a relationship again because I got heartbroken twice and that I already knew there were too many boys out there who can’t commit to just one girl. I was so hurt I couldn’t risk it again even if there was 1% chance I’ll find someone who’s willing to stay forever. It wasn’t that I got cheated on that really hurt me, it was the fact that I sacrificed so much for that person and in return I was abandoned. In my spiritual beliefs, we weren’t meant to be on this earth with our soulmate because we need to find that love within ourselves. I personally believe earth is a school and we are here to learn valuable lessons.
@@MinaandBjorn I am so sorry you gotten cheated on. I know how it feels. But trust me with a smile like your you will have no problem finding a new one. Someone who going to love you no matter what
@@Kennymacdougall same bro. Same. I used to be extremely romantic and creative. I used to love hard. And in some instances I did and still do. But I learned real quick how bad I could be hurt. How deep I could be scarred. And I learned real quick not to give that out to just anyone. I also found myself becoming colder. In wisdom I found darkness. But that by itself isn't a problem because that darkness was there the whole time. It was brought to the surface when you've been hurt one too many times by the not just the people you love but those same people you trusted. That's the problem.
That already happened to me 7 grade sep 8 2020 13 yes old never again I'm done I don't want to interact with a woman other than my family. Members or the boys any woman seeing this all of the depression that men fucking have now IS BECAUSE OF YOU🤕😠😤🖕
@@funynonsence What in the hell are you talking about? Being able to see someone lose themselves in a role and speak from a place of pain? Jumping to conclusions isn't my strong suit, Bum.
@@funynonsence what are you smoking cause my mum is a mum not all women but alot of them now just use or cheat or meny other things my mums not like that but some mums do aswell like your acting like all mums have a man in there life?
In 2017 I had my heart ripped out by a girl I loved since 1st grade. We dated for 5 years. I’m 28 now and have dated my share of women in my life and never even think of that one girl anymore. But I’ll tell you this, it turned me stone cold and I’ve never opened my heart up towards anybody like that ever since. And all the women that have came and gone since, had zero effect on me.
Sorry to hear that! Open your heart up again. Heart to heart is always best! That girl. . ., the one who wants to open her heart wide-open? She's waiting on YOU....otherwise, you're just a hard & heartless lover, and that's not good for ANYONE...,especially YOU! TRUTH!!!
I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you’re still here. My brother took his own life in 2017 because of a woman broke his heart. Keep going strong Big dog!!! You will find a partner ❤
I feel that. After my first love cheated on me I swore I will never let another girl in and hurt me like that again. They say I don’t care but in reality I’m scared if I care too much I will get hurt again.
Ikr this is so overdramatic. Why does this make a sob story out of hedonism. Its really not that sad. Like it's just humans repeating a behavior that feels good becuase they can't control themselves to be loyal and settle down. Some men can't find better things to do and cant keep it in their pants. It's really not that deep.
If you’ve Ever watched SLC Punk, you would know that Matthew Lillard is one of the Very Best, and it’s sad that he’s not getting more serious rolls considering how talented he is!!!
I’m a girl and I used to be a serial monogamist and gave it my all … my loyalty got used against me and I turned into the complete opposite where I wanted to hurt guys and play with their emotions. I realize that’s not helping anyone.. if you’re reading this and you feel like you lost that part of yourself just don’t hurt other people work on yourself become the best version of yourself and you will attract that. Stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined.
At least you admit your demonic behavior. Unfortunately you basically just continued the cycle and the men you hurt probably ended up like the men being described in this video. Your old mentality is unfortunately the typical modern female mentality, thats why the world is in such a messed up state nowadays. Its true, the only way to escape is to accept your losses, and cut out toxic females who are trying to purposefully hurt you out of your life. As you say, stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined, but fewer and fewer men are mentally strong enough to handle the severe abuse. Everyone loses in the end because when women finally wake up and try and look for a quality man, theres none left because theyve all been damaged by toxic females. The number of single, childless women is the highest its ever been in recorded history. Women are finally reaping what theyve sown into the universe- pain and suffering
One person isnt the entire world, maybe dont take things so seriously anymore until you can truly confirm it but still keep looking, keep an eye out. And what about the other side? The hearts you break? You go on to repeat the cycle do you not?
This is actually an interesting take. And it shows that guys need to take care of themselves and that we need to support each other. Care of each other. And especially take care of each other's mental health.
Being a Man is rough af. Woman and children are loved unconditionally, but Men we are only loved when conditions are perfect or ideal or when its convient.
I'm 24 and I've had my heart broken over and over again to where I don't believe love is a real emotion anymore. Heartbreak happens at any age; it just might hurt more at an older age.
@@collincovington9209 im 16 but i already feel it. it sucks to be in love bc ive been through so much. my best friend tried to get with me and they said “its almost like youre sharing your love instead of focusing on just one person” i found this vid and sent it to them. after years of shit happening simply guarding my heart became never opening up and its become apart of my personality. im not sure if that same loving side of me would come back but of course i hope it does
It comes but then goes away because you realize that even though it's scary to trust again you see that the player lifestyle is somewhat empty after a bit. It's all a phase. If it all comes and goes and you end up returning to the same place then why even bother on going in side quests? Why even turn into a player if you're gonna return to a housecat and wish you done that before?
lost a close friend to a women he fell inlove with in highschool. after almost a yr she broke up with him with a note that said " we cant be together anymore, my friends dared me to date you as a joke and i took the dare, i took it to far and im sorry". 3 days later his parents found him with a bullet in his head
what people dont realize is that the men that have been rejected and can't take it will resort to toxic activity,i.e.,suicide or hurting others. Save our real men, for the world needs more.
I mean I just recently went through a breakup where I did nothing wrong only trying to help and love the woman and just out of nowhere she called me and told me its over and my heart just shattered, I cried for days and i still cry every day, and now I cant trust any woman nor love any woman ever again I want to hurt every woman because to me they all are the same. Its tough to be heartbroken when you truly love someone and you were willing to give everything to that woman
Women don’t understand how much they play with our hearts, they treat it as a game because they have so many options and they don’t feel bad until it’s too late
I feel for you and I hope you recover fully, but this generalization is nonsensical, besides completely not factual. Statistically, men cheat significantly more, men are significantly more likely to leave a terminally-ill partner, men are largely abusive partners and the list goes on. It has even always been a stereotypically known and established idea in culture until recently that the woman loved with a pure heart, and she loved hard whilst she was left heartbroken by a man. Your one evil witch does not represent half of mankind.
They dont feel bad ever. They wouldnt be playing with multiple mens hearts or cheating on them. If they were capable of feeling bad. They know exactly what they are doing. I hope karma bites them all in the ass when they want a husband and kids and nobody wants them. Have a nice eternity in hell.
Andrew Tate said it , losing a child is much worse than losing a parent. women sees men as providers , protectors and leaders , while men sees women as somebody we take care of , protect and guide. It hits men much harder. We are not the same.
I don't know if I agree with that. Women, esp vulnerable women who give their hearts and entire life to a man, just for him to knock her up or promise to stay ... Just to pull her stability AND complete trust in one fell swoop. Women bear children, are deeply emotional and bear the deepest wounds.
Guys get thr heartbroken and instead of healing from it and learning from it, they then take it out on every women they meet, like a punishment and so they hurt and damage others in the process.
Nope...thats not true we don't take it out still the other girls are hurting us to...We are already in broken how can we punishe or hurt other women...
@@kinsal_9308 Better to wait finding the girl you love and want to spend your life with, it may be hard to find someone you actually love but eventually you'll find a diamond in the dirt and that will be way better than the dirt that will break your heart for entertainment
Did you hear his voice crack when he said about getting cheated on or laughed at??? See his eyes tear up? This was not acting, this was personal truth, noone else in that room expected this! This got personal and real, authentic!!! What a performance sir!
You'll only understand this, if this has happened to you. Or if you are very intelligent. As soon as I seen the way he was saying it and his facial expressions I could tell straight away this was coming from deep within. It's horrible. Yet its us men that get all the shit but we was put in this pit by the ones that wronged us. Not saying it's OK to play but why should it be OK for women to break us down and then not expect us to be the way we are!
This is a beautiful thing. Men can be worth it, we evolve, and we are always trying to better ourselves. We always make the sacrifices that no one sees. Sadly, women just want the “lifestyle”, and break the men that are worth the world, but won’t give the time to see the real man they are with.
See. I had that girl in my life. I know that shes out there doin God knows what and I even though I hurt for a while I picked up those pieces and tried again. I picked em up and did it again and again im.sure this isn't gonna be the last time. But I told my self one day there will be a woman worth the pieces of whats left of my heart. One day she'll look at this busted vase thats all taped back together and feel honored that even though its been broken countless times I never stopped trying and I never stopped seeking her love even if neither of us saw each other in our futures. Call me stupid, call me crazy or whatever you want. I know that im a gluten for punishment
Just some advice, don’t divulge your broken heart to women, they will always use anything you tell them as ammunition, I’ve been there guys, I just left the small pieces behind, I wish I could offer hope, I have none except you can count on yourself
That's how humans are. Some are inherently born this way which started this domino effect. Players, criminals, it takes an ironclad will to go through all that and still stay moral. Ask what was done and said to them when they flipped and I guarantee they can tell you.
2years ago I got my heartbroken...and ever since then, I've been at it at the gym working hard and focusing on myself and I had watched this video(not this clip) sometime back and it motivated and pushed me even more, and now rewatching this made me realise how far I've come...and yet it still hits home for me...and so now...now its back to work.
Good shit I'm in the same boat I got hurt by a girl recently and It has only motivated me in the gym more. If she doesn't want you now become the one she can't have.
I'm a woman and my heart got crushed so many times by boys or men. I'm somehow very trusting and I give my all when I fall in love. But time and time again I was not only disappointed, but crushed by how cruel men can be! I did not become a player. I became depressed. But I still had hope and one day I met my husband. It's still sometimes a struggle, because I fear that somehow he doesn't love me as much and will destroy my heart again. Men and women can be cruel. The kind hearted get hurt. But that's no reason to become a player and hurt other women!
God Bless You for retaining the good in your heart. Love your husband, care for him, trust him, and pray to the Lord. You will be okay. Most people in todays world are unmarried, divorced, single, or suffering. Give gratitude for what you have and cherish it always. He is a good one if he is patient and loving with you despite your hard past. Because you didnt turn evil, and instead lived your life the right way, I am sure God will bless you, your husband, and your marriage. Just have faith and continue living in the light. God bless
Same story here, and I agree....but the "man" hasn't come to me yet.....Last one said he's not as "spiritual " as me. What does that even mean/matter? He missed out on a REALLY GOOD WOMAN! I know what it takes to love a man.....and it can be a really beautiful & wonderfully fulfilling life. Back to being a "Lady in waiting" now. Not such a bad place to be. Continue to work on myself and refine self into an even better woman.....but, the clock keeps ticking. .😊. Sending love & blessings to all out there....especially those wanting a committed relationship. There's really nothing better!!!❤
NOT the SAME. Even the most below average women will still have a line up of men willing to be with her, including marriage but especially if they just want to be with you on the short term Society ALSO is always on your side and always takes your feelings seriously And you can absolutely devastate a man, justly or unjustly and no one will really hold you or your gender to account for it. They call it female privlege for a reason because no matter what men always had it worst but now we men have no hope. And don’t lie, the players are what y’all REALLY Want. No woman wants a man no other woman wants or who can’t get or manage other women
It's hurts deep inside your heart when your in a relationship and the one who you put so much time into so much effort so much energy into suddenly leaves you and your stuck shackled by thoughts of torment wondering why ,how could this happen,and worst of all was I ever enough will I ever be enough. It truly hurts but the battle is not yet won completely forget about lust forget about love and aquire value to yourself so you will not be easily replaced you are the prize kings focus on the main goal love you all kings🖤
@@thiexony514 I don’t think you understand what that means. He’s not admitting how much it has hurt him, he’s merely admitting that it’s hurting him to a level that he won’t admit.
@@sanjulasenarathna4610 ...well, it's really for the people who take pleasure and or have no remorse in or about breaking other's hearts and if you're one of those people, this is the context, ahem; ...because you deserve an answer as to why my poetry reflects mine and others pain so well while simultaneously striking at accountables upon reading? If you have to beg that question then you should already know the context... You're probably wondering if that feel you're feeling is guilt and it is. #ibetyouthinkthissongisaboutyou
same. realized i was hurting people just like i had been hurt and decided to stop dating until i've healed. that was a couple years ago. maybe one day.
I gave it all, all to the one woman in my life upto this point who looked at me with such compassion, so much compassion, and said I love you. Seven months later through utter hell for is both, and she decided to break it off due to mental health. Guess I wasn't worth struggling for... And here I am..😔
My late grandfather had a saying and told it to me when I was a kid. He said I'll tell you this now but I hope there won't be the time you'll remember it. The saying is : " What a woman can do from a hop, the devil can't from sprint". Unfortunately I can't forget it last few years.
@@kennethsoto7562 what a women can do from a hop/jump the devil is not able to do even from a sprint...(basically the women doesn't have to move from spot and she can do more harm to you then the devil from a sprint. You get it?
Yup, told myself I would never let it happen again and now I treat em like goldfish, always keep 3-4 and replace em as needed, never giving any one girl that much power again.
Funny you say this. A feminist woman disguise herself like a man for a year or so ended up killing herself due to depression. I think there’s a book out there. There’s deftly documentary on it tho. Interesting stuff.
Betrayal..by definition, can not come from someone you don't know, trust, and/or love. You can literally die of heartbreak. Value yourselves, Kings. You are worthy of love. You deserve to have happiness. The love of a good woman, will change your life. But..the sting of a woman you thought was good..can make the world cave in around you. Stay vigilant, trust carefully, and fucking CRY! if you need to. We are human. Men DO have feelings, it's normal to need to process things. Somehow, it's become taboo to talk about your feelings as a man. I get it..but there's a time and place for stoicism and emotions. Be the best you, and find yourself, first. The rest will happen, so much easier. 👑 Here's one on me, free of charge. You lost it when that girl broke you. When that boss fired you. When YOU second guessed yourself, and your value. Carry on, King. Welcome back, you'll make YOU proud, this time.
Weather the storm, do what you gotta do, but when you feel like your losing yourself, and what was, take a break, live a normal life, a summer job, a volunteer work, wander your mind. You’ll find someone that maybe you can trust again only when your ready in the right place and in the right mind. One is not hard to find, but the other takes time. Do of it what you will.
I swear I thought he was on a stage in a college assembly at first. (Guest Speaker) Nonetheless, he is so right. I used to give my heart to women I really liked and it has brought me pain and misery once their plan was clear every time. It slowly turns a man's heart from warm and soft to a cold piece of stone. Since a little boy i always wanted a family with a responsible and respectable wife...it sucks because such a valued asset is at the very brink of becoming a non existent phenomenon. Time goes on and why should we stay stuck on a heartbreak where someone didn't value that time we once had...never give your heart to a woman...
We as men have to do better and find better women. Cant keep hooking up with these low class strags. Ive been with a few women, and you can quickly tell which ones have potential and which ones are for the streets pretty quick once they open their mouth. The ones for the streets you have to let go immediately. Problems almost always happen when youre ignoring the red flags so you can keep sleeping with her
Worse is when they give you an excuse of “I just can’t put my hole heart into a relationship right now” and then you see them a week later dating someone else. And all you feel is anger and sadness that you weren’t good enough
Or you just weren't rich enough. Pre-nups are a man's best friend. Or? Just never marry. Don't expect romance. Don't expect loyalty. All I want are friendships with benefits.
Its not even that. She was probably telling the truth. Shes just out there with the other dude cause shes trying to get her cheeks clapped. Theyll be the same ones at 40 ran through asking where all the good men are at
People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he's saying. This isn't even ablut being rejected. This is about literally giving your everything to the person you love and being cheated on, laughed at, hurt, back stabbed, etc. Also, I think people downplay how actually hard it is for a straight man to get into a non-toxic, one-sided relationship. This might seem like a woe is me, but its just true. Men spend a good chunk of their lives being miserable and having to mold themselves to someone they aren't to attract attention or love. The only exception to this is above average wealthy and good-looking men. As long as you're beautiful and rich, you can get almost whatever you want in this country.
This is 💯 me I was a real romantic guy, and only wanted 1 woman. I was with the same girl for 12 years we were ingaged to be married, and in the end I found out the truth she was cheating on me pretty much from day 1. She had addiction issues which caused a lot of problems, and broke us up in the end. She could never get over her addictions. My boys were taken from me because of her, and we had a baby girl who died at a month, and a half from SIDS. She stole from me and manipulated me for 12 years. I loved her we had 3 handsome boys together, all I ever wanted was her to get better us be a family, and raise my boys together. It completely shattered my heart in a million pieces. It took me years just to be able to tell myself to move forward. I was lost when we broke up, and I turned into a player for years, but in reality my heart was always broken, and it did not matter how many women I was with, in the end I was alone and still going through these things, I feel like I gave everything I had into that relationship, all my love I feel like I have no love left in me. I am Not the player I used to be, and when I stopped being a player I started to think of the reasons why I am the way I am. In the end I loved the wrong woman for far to long. I lost everything in the end nice 4 bedroom house nice new suv awesome kids who I love with all my heart in end I lost it all. Hard to move on after something like that happens I thought by distracting myself by being with women all the time, if I am with enough women I will not have to think about everything, by the end of my career as a player I still was just as broken as the day she left me. Really hard to move on after putting so much of yourself to 1 person. I got emotional writing this, I am not afraid to admit it. This really hit home with me.
Do you have any perspective for the ones you played, that genuinely loved and were loyal to you, but never had a chance? A player put me in the psych ward, it's a miracle not 6 feet down. I'm curious to hear?
And now I, a good woman- have to pay for the bad behavior of another woman a long time ago..by getting played over and over again, every time I trust a man have my heart ripped out in a million pieces. If I am able to forgive and keep moving forward, why can’t men do that? Life is unfair
This whole damn this is doing nothing but giving an open invitation to men to make excuses to be the piece of shit that the are. The second some weak ass man hear another weak ass man speak some manipulative shit they run with it. "Ohhhh thus man opened the door for why we can be scumbags! THANKS BRO!!!" BULLSHIT! No man has to pay for the consequences of aby of my exes!!! That would be a damn cop out to do what the fuck I wat without consequences! Don't believe not ONE dude buying this bs!
I've thought about this a lot... I used to be a romantic, go out of my way just to make my SO's day... now I question if all the best ones are behind me now days.
I remember back in prolly 5th or 6th grade, I was talking to a girl I had a crush on and she told me she felt the same way. Giddy as can be, we txted non stop for little over a week. She later told me that every ounce of attention she gave me was fake, she never liked me and was only doing all of this to “see how good I was at lying”. Swear on my mother, at 5th grade she was practicing how she would destroy men’s hearts later on. I wonder how many victims she has now.
Almost the exact same thing happened to me, except that instead of pranking me, we just kinda drifted apart and I still liked her a bit, she didn’t like me as much
I vowed not to do it again but I did I gave my heart to this girl and for 5 months I was the happiest I've ever been until a hour ago she messaged me saying she wants to break up and possibly friends. To be fair I don't know what I did I gave everything I had to her and yes it wasn't alot but u tried my hardest to make her comfortable to make her happy and she goes and does this.
This hits home hard. He is %100. I got crushed. Everyday I wake up and tell my self I will get better. Stay up man. You guys will get better too. We are all going through this one day at a time 👊🙏
No cap. I changed after my first heart break. Now I’m a cold uncaring person, and sometimes I think maybe I should go back to being the other guy. Then I remembered how I got played and just shove the feelings back in the hole and lock the door.
Trust me it’s worth it to feel emotions again, been through it and I forgot how beautiful it could be, it is worth every single second of pain, all the suffering you go through is worth it, it’s better to have highs and lows than to have nothing at all my friend
@@pietromorreale_ yes! I was that guy he is talking about. Yet I've recently found someone who is literally everything. Find someone who supports your ideas and builds you up when you're at your lowest. That kind of love trumps all those superficial "I love you promises"
Idek If I can ever love someone. My first girlfriend broke things off 3 times and I kept coming back if the opportunity presented itself. She was cold and uncaring about my feelings so ever since then I haven’t taken any relationships seriously. I’ve been single now for 2 years
I was abandoned and told by my one true friend today that we can’t hang out anymore. I told her how I felt about her and she didn’t listen or even care. We talked about everything together, teased each other, and made each other laugh all the time, for weeks, and then I got a message on snap saying we shouldn’t hang out anymore. It was then that I realized that after all the flirting, all the interest in me, all the happiness she showed when around me, it was all just a big fucking game of charades to her. All of those moments were wasted in an instant.
for all my bros going through this, it's not the end. there is one out there for you. never let some thief steal the light from your heart. I promise it can always be better, you just need to find the greener grass my friends
The ironic thing is that most women completely deny having played any part in creating those monsters. They act as though they are the blameless victims of serial players, or pathological heartbreakers. When most of those guys became that way after getting chewed up and spit out by a woman. They found out that the woman they poured their heart and soul into making happy was out trying to find a better deal.
Got my heart broke and didnt date for 6 years. Now been with this girl for almost two years and ive definitely opened up and we can be ourselves around eachother but I still seem to always have my guard up even if its just a little.
I feel you man. Hoping that you will find happiness. Same story here, but 8 years of not being able to feel deeper feelings towards girls. Good luck brother
Yep relate 100% I've been lonely and single most of my life now, all I've ever wanted was a family. But got crushed by those women. Just had my 37th birthday. Live on my own and work in a 95% male workplace. Women these days aren't up to standard. A lot of them try too hard to be men. Im just going to keep on going and concentrate on staying alive. Maybe i will have a better turn in the next life. 🎉
True as fuck since one time when I see my beloved gf who was just ignoring me. I asked why and she offered me to break up with some fucking reasons that torn my heart. That day after I became cautious every girl who either likes me or "love me" I only saw them as some stanger.
2 years ago my ex left 2 weeks before my wedding. Took everything I had and disappeared. So my daughter and I started over and now I am doing better than I ever have. But I didn't allow it destroy me. It was the worse heart ache of my life.
24 years later still think about her.... was never the same, spent My 20/30's sleeping around hurting people.. only now in my 40s figuring out why I was like this, I got cut so deep I spilt my blood on other people but atleast now I'm mature enough not to hurt others because I hurt so much, I've got great family and friends.. that's good enough for me!
“Those who are heartless once cared too much.” -Capt Davy Jones
True
True... :)
Me 😂😂😂
True
I promise I used to be like that. I used to be that guy that cared to much
Shaggy is becoming dangerously based
I'm fuckin' dead. 😂
Holy fuck, your right!
Oh fuck that is shaggy
Haha I thought the same thing
This the real reason he always smoking weed w his dog
This is actually accurate af. The ones who love the hardest, are also the ones that are the most deeply destroyed when that love is no longer enough for the one they'd give the world to.
I agree. The one you love the most is the one who hurt you the most 💔
I got cheated on and now I vow to never be in a relationship again because I got heartbroken twice and that I already knew there were too many boys out there who can’t commit to just one girl. I was so hurt I couldn’t risk it again even if there was 1% chance I’ll find someone who’s willing to stay forever. It wasn’t that I got cheated on that really hurt me, it was the fact that I sacrificed so much for that person and in return I was abandoned. In my spiritual beliefs, we weren’t meant to be on this earth with our soulmate because we need to find that love within ourselves. I personally believe earth is a school and we are here to learn valuable lessons.
@@MinaandBjorn I am so sorry you gotten cheated on. I know how it feels. But trust me with a smile like your you will have no problem finding a new one. Someone who going to love you no matter what
True, I used to be that too. I have become heartless now and just don't care anymore.
@@Kennymacdougall same bro. Same. I used to be extremely romantic and creative. I used to love hard. And in some instances I did and still do. But I learned real quick how bad I could be hurt. How deep I could be scarred. And I learned real quick not to give that out to just anyone. I also found myself becoming colder. In wisdom I found darkness. But that by itself isn't a problem because that darkness was there the whole time. It was brought to the surface when you've been hurt one too many times by the not just the people you love but those same people you trusted. That's the problem.
Director: Hey ummm none of that is in the script bro, you ok?
😂
It really feels like that
😆😆 I would definitely had to include it because of the authenticity he really means what he’s saying!
Oddly, the director (The guy intereacting with him) was originally going to play that role.
This all a deep Fake of shaggy on top of behind the scenes of Star Wars Episode 3
director is in the scene
Nah brah, my man forgot he was acting and was speaking from the heart.
Lol. Smh, exactly that. 💯
That already happened to me 7 grade sep 8 2020 13 yes old never again I'm done I don't want to interact with a woman other than my family. Members or the boys any woman seeing this all of the depression that men fucking have now IS BECAUSE OF YOU🤕😠😤🖕
Lol I swear y’all never even seen ya mama when y’all say this
@@funynonsence What in the hell are you talking about?
Being able to see someone lose themselves in a role and speak from a place of pain? Jumping to conclusions isn't my strong suit, Bum.
@@funynonsence what are you smoking cause my mum is a mum not all women but alot of them now just use or cheat or meny other things my mums not like that but some mums do aswell like your acting like all mums have a man in there life?
The way his voice shakes when he says the word "crushed" shows that he really means all of this. It's beautiful
Yea I mean, he’s not an actor or anything
@@raypist2333 🤣🤣🤣👏
Or he's an actor
Watch the end of SLC Punk and tell me Lillard can't ACT, yo
@@raypist2333 you don't need to be an actor to experience heartbreak and pain
In 2017 I had my heart ripped out by a girl I loved since 1st grade. We dated for 5 years. I’m 28 now and have dated my share of women in my life and never even think of that one girl anymore. But I’ll tell you this, it turned me stone cold and I’ve never opened my heart up towards anybody like that ever since. And all the women that have came and gone since, had zero effect on me.
Sorry to hear that! Open your heart up again. Heart to heart is always best! That girl. . ., the one who wants to open her heart wide-open? She's waiting on YOU....otherwise, you're just a hard & heartless lover, and that's not good for ANYONE...,especially YOU! TRUTH!!!
I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you’re still here. My brother took his own life in 2017 because of a woman broke his heart. Keep going strong Big dog!!! You will find a partner ❤
Same story, but mine happened in 2019. Dont lose hope bro.
I feel that. After my first love cheated on me I swore I will never let another girl in and hurt me like that again. They say I don’t care but in reality I’m scared if I care too much I will get hurt again.
This man just nailed it completely! Makes the boy in me cry
U right I’m crying
You are not the only one crying good sir.
I can understand you sir
Same
When u were a child u were always on the heroes side but now that u grew up u understand the villains
Wow. That’s one of the most profound statements I’ve ever read. Well said, sir.
You’re what, 17?
Wow it’s like you’re the Disney villain, in which case maybe you don’t deserve to get the girl that’s for the real hero of the story.
@@Jubilation457 you are named after plastic cheese
@@digithickness721 extra sharp so you know I’m there😉👍
So who hurt my man shaggy for him to know these things
I thought he looked familiar
Daphne lol
@@Brian_Williams5298 naw Velma
Velma.
What did Velma do to him?
Man! Those words came straight up from his heart. Love isn't always fair but God damn is the the most beautiful painful thing.. stay strong my kings 👑
✊🏻
"Cause you never get over it" "God no, you never get over it, you recover but you never get over it"
I would never get my heart crushed like it happened in high school 😢
Shaggy after Velma didnt give him a scooby snack once:
Shaggy after hanging out with Andrew Tate
💀💀
Lol
That's what no Velmussy does to a mf
Ikr this is so overdramatic. Why does this make a sob story out of hedonism. Its really not that sad. Like it's just humans repeating a behavior that feels good becuase they can't control themselves to be loyal and settle down. Some men can't find better things to do and cant keep it in their pants. It's really not that deep.
from his eyes, we know he aint acting this one. that came from deep inside 💔
Na he is. He’s just really good at it.
@@chrismaple779 No, some things are just true.
If you’ve Ever watched SLC Punk, you would know that Matthew Lillard is one of the Very Best, and it’s sad that he’s not getting more serious rolls considering how talented he is!!!
nah lol, matthew lillard is a good dude
its scumbags who think like this
This is a universal truth among men
Bro Mathew Lilard is a Chad and deserves more recognition
I’m a girl and I used to be a serial monogamist and gave it my all … my loyalty got used against me and I turned into the complete opposite where I wanted to hurt guys and play with their emotions.
I realize that’s not helping anyone.. if you’re reading this and you feel like you lost that part of yourself just don’t hurt other people work on yourself become the best version of yourself and you will attract that. Stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined.
At least you admit your demonic behavior. Unfortunately you basically just continued the cycle and the men you hurt probably ended up like the men being described in this video.
Your old mentality is unfortunately the typical modern female mentality, thats why the world is in such a messed up state nowadays.
Its true, the only way to escape is to accept your losses, and cut out toxic females who are trying to purposefully hurt you out of your life. As you say, stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined, but fewer and fewer men are mentally strong enough to handle the severe abuse. Everyone loses in the end because when women finally wake up and try and look for a quality man, theres none left because theyve all been damaged by toxic females. The number of single, childless women is the highest its ever been in recorded history. Women are finally reaping what theyve sown into the universe- pain and suffering
As an ex-romantic I can confirm this
ex romantics are the coldest mfs
Same dude...
Never let some fucked up person ruin your good heart. You let the enemy control you, you loose.
Damn straight
Yes sir
The greatest, kindest guys I knew growing up became players for exactly these reasons.
Me too
@@phantom2faddd242 lying mf
Sorry to hear that
We romantics still have the romance in us… but you dig a vicious streak in our hearts and we’ll weaponize it
One person isnt the entire world, maybe dont take things so seriously anymore until you can truly confirm it but still keep looking, keep an eye out. And what about the other side? The hearts you break? You go on to repeat the cycle do you not?
This is actually an interesting take. And it shows that guys need to take care of themselves and that we need to support each other. Care of each other. And especially take care of each other's mental health.
We’re all kings we’re on the same side
Being a Man is rough af. Woman and children are loved unconditionally, but Men we are only loved when conditions are perfect or ideal or when its convient.
all my guys in their 30’s right now can feel this, couldn’t understand it in the teens and twenties but feel it now
I’m in my 30’s and went through this metamorphosis from my teens to my early twenties. Love is a scary thing.
I'm 24 and I've had my heart broken over and over again to where I don't believe love is a real emotion anymore. Heartbreak happens at any age; it just might hurt more at an older age.
@@collincovington9209 im 16 but i already feel it. it sucks to be in love bc ive been through so much. my best friend tried to get with me and they said “its almost like youre sharing your love instead of focusing on just one person” i found this vid and sent it to them. after years of shit happening simply guarding my heart became never opening up and its become apart of my personality. im not sure if that same loving side of me would come back but of course i hope it does
nowadays we learn this in our teens 🤧
It comes but then goes away because you realize that even though it's scary to trust again you see that the player lifestyle is somewhat empty after a bit. It's all a phase. If it all comes and goes and you end up returning to the same place then why even bother on going in side quests? Why even turn into a player if you're gonna return to a housecat and wish you done that before?
lost a close friend to a women he fell inlove with in highschool. after almost a yr she broke up with him with a note that said " we cant be together anymore, my friends dared me to date you as a joke and i took the dare, i took it to far and im sorry". 3 days later his parents found him with a bullet in his head
Bro that's so fucked up
This is what they do this day and age. It's all games to them.
😤
what people dont realize is that the men that have been rejected and can't take it will resort to toxic activity,i.e.,suicide or hurting others. Save our real men, for the world needs more.
Yea okay sure this happened....
Wow, the passion in his voice leaving me all woozy
That ain't passion , that's the pain of experience .
I mean I just recently went through a breakup where I did nothing wrong only trying to help and love the woman and just out of nowhere she called me and told me its over and my heart just shattered, I cried for days and i still cry every day, and now I cant trust any woman nor love any woman ever again I want to hurt every woman because to me they all are the same. Its tough to be heartbroken when you truly love someone and you were willing to give everything to that woman
Dude why tf would you even consider being what you claim to hate?!?! Did you not think of breaking the cycle?
@@xxkissmeketutxxCycle never breaks. Women ruin good men forever. Only to find themselves in unhappy situations themselves later
Like zoinks, scoob. She broke my heart, man.
Underrated comment 🤣🤣💀
Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rug-Roh raggy
🤣😂😂
Before I think Shaggy, I think Stew. The second Ghost Face killer.
Women don’t understand how much they play with our hearts, they treat it as a game because they have so many options and they don’t feel bad until it’s too late
I feel for you and I hope you recover fully, but this generalization is nonsensical, besides completely not factual. Statistically, men cheat significantly more, men are significantly more likely to leave a terminally-ill partner, men are largely abusive partners and the list goes on. It has even always been a stereotypically known and established idea in culture until recently that the woman loved with a pure heart, and she loved hard whilst she was left heartbroken by a man. Your one evil witch does not represent half of mankind.
This is true
They dont feel bad ever. They wouldnt be playing with multiple mens hearts or cheating on them. If they were capable of feeling bad. They know exactly what they are doing. I hope karma bites them all in the ass when they want a husband and kids and nobody wants them. Have a nice eternity in hell.
They never feel bad. Only God will punish them in time
Why men don't cry?
Because if we do, we will break..
Andrew Tate said it , losing a child is much worse than losing a parent. women sees men as providers , protectors and leaders , while men sees women as somebody we take care of , protect and guide.
It hits men much harder. We are not the same.
I don't know if I agree with that.
Women, esp vulnerable women who give their hearts and entire life to a man, just for him to knock her up or promise to stay ... Just to pull her stability AND complete trust in one fell swoop. Women bear children, are deeply emotional and bear the deepest wounds.
Guys get thr heartbroken and instead of healing from it and learning from it, they then take it out on every women they meet, like a punishment and so they hurt and damage others in the process.
Nope...thats not true we don't take it out still the other girls are hurting us to...We are already in broken how can we punishe or hurt other women...
That's just not true, some self end, others just walk around like zombies. There's support but, the pipelines aren't taken, or even seen.
I can feel that the actor can relate to these lines... He spoke with his soul
That isn't a feeling that the actor can relate to it's a feeling that all men can relate to
@@iTsDebom not me bro. Never found love. Not once. Kinda giving up on it tbh
@@kinsal_9308 Better to wait finding the girl you love and want to spend your life with, it may be hard to find someone you actually love but eventually you'll find a diamond in the dirt and that will be way better than the dirt that will break your heart for entertainment
@Kingsgrove Slasher kind of is mate. Not having someone I look forward to seeing is worse then the loneliness tho tbf
@@kinsal_9308 u will find it bro. Don't
rush it, other wise u end up like the rest of us.
Did you hear his voice crack when he said about getting cheated on or laughed at??? See his eyes tear up? This was not acting, this was personal truth, noone else in that room expected this! This got personal and real, authentic!!! What a performance sir!
That's because he could relate with it as well as everyone in that room
Same with when he says crushed. This was him being so genuine.
All I heard was FACTS
You'll only understand this, if this has happened to you. Or if you are very intelligent. As soon as I seen the way he was saying it and his facial expressions I could tell straight away this was coming from deep within. It's horrible. Yet its us men that get all the shit but we was put in this pit by the ones that wronged us. Not saying it's OK to play but why should it be OK for women to break us down and then not expect us to be the way we are!
@@Batesy96 bro who's we
This is a beautiful thing. Men can be worth it, we evolve, and we are always trying to better ourselves. We always make the sacrifices that no one sees. Sadly, women just want the “lifestyle”, and break the men that are worth the world, but won’t give the time to see the real man they are with.
I feel like this reflects on our society a lot today and makes a good point. We're good, but after enough times, the heartbreaks change us
This was released in 2007, which means it was filmed in 2005 or 2006. Even back then it was relevant.
Crazy how we all identify with this. We can all think of her and how we were happy and then how she also changed us for the rest of our lives.
And of the exact moment i told myself I'll never love again
See. I had that girl in my life. I know that shes out there doin God knows what and I even though I hurt for a while I picked up those pieces and tried again. I picked em up and did it again and again im.sure this isn't gonna be the last time. But I told my self one day there will be a woman worth the pieces of whats left of my heart. One day she'll look at this busted vase thats all taped back together and feel honored that even though its been broken countless times I never stopped trying and I never stopped seeking her love even if neither of us saw each other in our futures. Call me stupid, call me crazy or whatever you want. I know that im a gluten for punishment
Not all no, some of us saw what happened to other men and decided to not try
Shut up.. 😔
Just some advice, don’t divulge your broken heart to women, they will always use anything you tell them as ammunition, I’ve been there guys, I just left the small pieces behind, I wish I could offer hope, I have none except you can count on yourself
Everyone talking about him being shaggy forgetting he’s one of the og killers in scream
Well he wasn’t the main killer but he helped him
He only became a killer in scream after velma broke his heart.
Spoilers
His mom was so mad at him
Nah bro he was the guy who collected 13 ghosts
This is spot on! I will never allow this to happen again. I PROMISE YOU THAT!
Beast Mode, Brotha!!!
That's how humans are. Some are inherently born this way which started this domino effect.
Players, criminals, it takes an ironclad will to go through all that and still stay moral. Ask what was done and said to them when they flipped and I guarantee they can tell you.
2years ago I got my heartbroken...and ever since then, I've been at it at the gym working hard and focusing on myself and I had watched this video(not this clip) sometime back and it motivated and pushed me even more, and now rewatching this made me realise how far I've come...and yet it still hits home for me...and so now...now its back to work.
The grind don't stop
Good shit I'm in the same boat I got hurt by a girl recently and It has only motivated me in the gym more. If she doesn't want you now become the one she can't have.
Don't give up on finding someone bro but never give up on yourself! Keep grindin
Stay hard kings
Ah shut up
Turns out Velma wasn’t the sweet shy girl we thought she was 😢💔
Yeah she wasn't
Word on the street is she cheated with a lesbian & started takin melanin pills…
@@love6ic202 word on the streets is she use to be a man.
@@BlxckKxge
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Don’t be fooled by the glasses, Velma is a heartbreaker.
I'm a woman and my heart got crushed so many times by boys or men.
I'm somehow very trusting and I give my all when I fall in love. But time and time again I was not only disappointed, but crushed by how cruel men can be!
I did not become a player. I became depressed. But I still had hope and one day I met my husband. It's still sometimes a struggle, because I fear that somehow he doesn't love me as much and will destroy my heart again.
Men and women can be cruel. The kind hearted get hurt. But that's no reason to become a player and hurt other women!
God Bless You for retaining the good in your heart.
Love your husband, care for him, trust him, and pray to the Lord. You will be okay.
Most people in todays world are unmarried, divorced, single, or suffering. Give gratitude for what you have and cherish it always. He is a good one if he is patient and loving with you despite your hard past.
Because you didnt turn evil, and instead lived your life the right way, I am sure God will bless you, your husband, and your marriage. Just have faith and continue living in the light. God bless
Same story here, and I agree....but the "man" hasn't come to me yet.....Last one said he's not as "spiritual " as me. What does that even mean/matter? He missed out on a REALLY GOOD WOMAN! I know what it takes to love a man.....and it can be a really beautiful & wonderfully fulfilling life. Back to being a "Lady in waiting" now. Not such a bad place to be. Continue to work on myself and refine self into an even better woman.....but, the clock keeps ticking. .😊. Sending love & blessings to all out there....especially those wanting a committed relationship. There's really nothing better!!!❤
NOT the SAME. Even the most below average women will still have a line up of men willing to be with her, including marriage but especially if they just want to be with you on the short term
Society ALSO is always on your side and always takes your feelings seriously
And you can absolutely devastate a man, justly or unjustly and no one will really hold you or your gender to account for it.
They call it female privlege for a reason because no matter what men always had it worst but now we men have no hope.
And don’t lie, the players are what y’all REALLY Want. No woman wants a man no other woman wants or who can’t get or manage other women
U gotta think they didn't deserve the trauma passed down to them either but someone still did it it's a never ending cycle
It's hurts deep inside your heart when your in a relationship and the one who you put so much time into so much effort so much energy into suddenly leaves you and your stuck shackled by thoughts of torment wondering why ,how could this happen,and worst of all was I ever enough will I ever be enough. It truly hurts but the battle is not yet won completely forget about lust forget about love and aquire value to yourself so you will not be easily replaced you are the prize kings focus on the main goal love you all kings🖤
This hurts me far more than I care to admit.
You admitted it💀
@@thiexony514 I don’t think you understand what that means. He’s not admitting how much it has hurt him, he’s merely admitting that it’s hurting him to a level that he won’t admit.
We're with you brother ❤
"the little boy in men weeps for the monster you created"
Whats the context?
@@sanjulasenarathna4610 ...well, it's really for the people who take pleasure and or have no remorse in or about breaking other's hearts and if you're one of those people, this is the context, ahem;
...because you deserve an answer as to why my poetry reflects mine and others pain so well while simultaneously striking at accountables upon reading?
If you have to beg that question then you should already know the context... You're probably wondering if that feel you're feeling is guilt and it is.
#ibetyouthinkthissongisaboutyou
@@-Super_Dario- damn that projection from you is crazy.
@@-Super_Dario- damn bro
@@devinxoxo8350 I understand what you're saying and I think it's stupid 🙃
Shout out to all those who can relate. Keep ya head up
I feel this. I realized i started doing it and decided to go celibate. I don't want to hurt others like I've been hurt.
same. realized i was hurting people just like i had been hurt and decided to stop dating until i've healed. that was a couple years ago. maybe one day.
Glad I'm not the only one who has experienced this 😢
I can't even laugh at this cause it's my life
@Waltuh damn you must feel good about this one big man
L existence
understandable, hope you doing good
Man's hurting and you chucklefks are laughing smh
on god
Matthew Lillard: putting his all into his performance
Everyone: SHAGGY!
Dunno who you're talkin about, but that's SHAGGY
Or Stew from Scream movie
😭💀💀💀
😭💀💀💀
@@sanjarkhodjimatov6801 that was my first thought
“I just wanted to know what her favorite horror movie was”
Underrated as hell
I gave it all, all to the one woman in my life upto this point who looked at me with such compassion, so much compassion, and said I love you. Seven months later through utter hell for is both, and she decided to break it off due to mental health. Guess I wasn't worth struggling for... And here I am..😔
My late grandfather had a saying and told it to me when I was a kid. He said I'll tell you this now but I hope there won't be the time you'll remember it. The saying is : " What a woman can do from a hop, the devil can't from sprint". Unfortunately I can't forget it last few years.
Thanks for sharing. Was a wise man.
……. I don’t get it sorry I don’t
Can u explain
@@kennethsoto7562 what a women can do from a hop/jump the devil is not able to do even from a sprint...(basically the women doesn't have to move from spot and she can do more harm to you then the devil from a sprint. You get it?
@@spartacro761 thank you for explaining
Man Matthew Lillard is so underrated cuz this scene was awesome and so true🥺
What movie is this from?
@@rigvedrane found it. What love is 2007
You should watch him in SLC Punk! When you watch him in that movie, you’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you will think about the film afterwards for days…
@@THEoSOFToPILLOW you are the MVP thank you very much
house of 13 ghosts
I take back everything I've ever said about this guy. That was awesome.
Yup, told myself I would never let it happen again and now I treat em like goldfish, always keep 3-4 and replace em as needed, never giving any one girl that much power again.
If they made a movie about the average man’s life we’d all get depression after watching it
Note, he stated that women went through the same sh*t too...
Every a**hole is someone whose had their heart broken...
Funny you say this. A feminist woman disguise herself like a man for a year or so ended up killing herself due to depression. I think there’s a book out there. There’s deftly documentary on it tho. Interesting stuff.
Most of us already got depression, forget the movie we’re already living it
Finally someone puts that feeling into words
Betrayal..by definition, can not come from someone you don't know, trust, and/or love. You can literally die of heartbreak. Value yourselves, Kings. You are worthy of love. You deserve to have happiness. The love of a good woman, will change your life. But..the sting of a woman you thought was good..can make the world cave in around you. Stay vigilant, trust carefully, and fucking CRY! if you need to. We are human. Men DO have feelings, it's normal to need to process things. Somehow, it's become taboo to talk about your feelings as a man. I get it..but there's a time and place for stoicism and emotions. Be the best you, and find yourself, first. The rest will happen, so much easier. 👑 Here's one on me, free of charge. You lost it when that girl broke you. When that boss fired you. When YOU second guessed yourself, and your value. Carry on, King. Welcome back, you'll make YOU proud, this time.
Damn love this bro!
Gotta get hurt to learn these things
It's a sad day when having unrequited love makes a man feel lucky.
Fuck man that hits way too hard. Like I don’t even have any words. I’m speechless. Just … yeah, you’re right. You’re 100% right.
When u realize that Shaggy has grown after all these years🥺
If you were broken, dont break others. Heal, break the cycle.
The emotion in this scene is made by the water in his eyes
That really did happened to me.. Now all the girls cry for me, but u never forget that first heartache, damn🤦🏽♂️
Weather the storm, do what you gotta do, but when you feel like your losing yourself, and what was, take a break, live a normal life, a summer job, a volunteer work, wander your mind. You’ll find someone that maybe you can trust again only when your ready in the right place and in the right mind. One is not hard to find, but the other takes time. Do of it what you will.
you didn’t heal so you bled on people who didn’t cut you. you should be ashamed of yourself.
I swear I thought he was on a stage in a college assembly at first. (Guest Speaker) Nonetheless, he is so right. I used to give my heart to women I really liked and it has brought me pain and misery once their plan was clear every time. It slowly turns a man's heart from warm and soft to a cold piece of stone. Since a little boy i always wanted a family with a responsible and respectable wife...it sucks because such a valued asset is at the very brink of becoming a non existent phenomenon. Time goes on and why should we stay stuck on a heartbreak where someone didn't value that time we once had...never give your heart to a woman...
We as men have to do better and find better women. Cant keep hooking up with these low class strags.
Ive been with a few women, and you can quickly tell which ones have potential and which ones are for the streets pretty quick once they open their mouth. The ones for the streets you have to let go immediately. Problems almost always happen when youre ignoring the red flags so you can keep sleeping with her
This is what I use to cry 😭
To force out the tears 😭
"Nobody can hurt me if I can hurt them first"
No, I tried and got hurt and don't wanna feel like that again
Nobody can hurt me if I hurt myself first, it's my take on "you are your own enemy"
Cobra Kai confirms it: Strike First, Strike Hard, No Mercy.
The only one left to hurt you then is yourself, all alone, nobody to get those thoughts dismissed
That’s so terrible..
Worse is when they give you an excuse of “I just can’t put my hole heart into a relationship right now” and then you see them a week later dating someone else. And all you feel is anger and sadness that you weren’t good enough
Or you just weren't rich enough.
Pre-nups are a man's best friend. Or? Just never marry. Don't expect romance. Don't expect loyalty. All I want are friendships with benefits.
Its not even that. She was probably telling the truth. Shes just out there with the other dude cause shes trying to get her cheeks clapped.
Theyll be the same ones at 40 ran through asking where all the good men are at
feels good to know i’m not alone. feels bad to know i’m not alone
Word
People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he's saying. This isn't even ablut being rejected. This is about literally giving your everything to the person you love and being cheated on, laughed at, hurt, back stabbed, etc.
Also, I think people downplay how actually hard it is for a straight man to get into a non-toxic, one-sided relationship. This might seem like a woe is me, but its just true. Men spend a good chunk of their lives being miserable and having to mold themselves to someone they aren't to attract attention or love.
The only exception to this is above average wealthy and good-looking men. As long as you're beautiful and rich, you can get almost whatever you want in this country.
When you’re crushed so much it feels like physical pain. Never got involved again since that happened
This is 💯 me I was a real romantic guy, and only wanted 1 woman. I was with the same girl for 12 years we were ingaged to be married, and in the end I found out the truth she was cheating on me pretty much from day 1. She had addiction issues which caused a lot of problems, and broke us up in the end. She could never get over her addictions. My boys were taken from me because of her, and we had a baby girl who died at a month, and a half from SIDS. She stole from me and manipulated me for 12 years. I loved her we had 3 handsome boys together, all I ever wanted was her to get better us be a family, and raise my boys together. It completely shattered my heart in a million pieces. It took me years just to be able to tell myself to move forward. I was lost when we broke up, and I turned into a player for years, but in reality my heart was always broken, and it did not matter how many women I was with, in the end I was alone and still going through these things, I feel like I gave everything I had into that relationship, all my love I feel like I have no love left in me. I am Not the player I used to be, and when I stopped being a player I started to think of the reasons why I am the way I am. In the end I loved the wrong woman for far to long. I lost everything in the end nice 4 bedroom house nice new suv awesome kids who I love with all my heart in end I lost it all. Hard to move on after something like that happens I thought by distracting myself by being with women all the time, if I am with enough women I will not have to think about everything, by the end of my career as a player I still was just as broken as the day she left me. Really hard to move on after putting so much of yourself to 1 person. I got emotional writing this, I am not afraid to admit it. This really hit home with me.
Appreciate your honesty 🙏🌬️🕊️Hope you found better.
I hope you are okay now 🙏😊.
Do you have any perspective for the ones you played, that genuinely loved and were loyal to you, but never had a chance?
A player put me in the psych ward, it's a miracle not 6 feet down. I'm curious to hear?
@@xxkissmeketutxxYet someone how I highly doubt they loved and were loyal to him
@@elona6891 thank-you
And now I, a good woman- have to pay for the bad behavior of another woman a long time ago..by getting played over and over again, every time I trust a man have my heart ripped out in a million pieces. If I am able to forgive and keep moving forward, why can’t men do that? Life is unfair
This whole damn this is doing nothing but giving an open invitation to men to make excuses to be the piece of shit that the are. The second some weak ass man hear another weak ass man speak some manipulative shit they run with it. "Ohhhh thus man opened the door for why we can be scumbags! THANKS BRO!!!" BULLSHIT! No man has to pay for the consequences of aby of my exes!!! That would be a damn cop out to do what the fuck I wat without consequences! Don't believe not ONE dude buying this bs!
I've thought about this a lot... I used to be a romantic, go out of my way just to make my SO's day... now I question if all the best ones are behind me now days.
I love the raw emotion in this scene you can see him tearing up
I remember back in prolly 5th or 6th grade, I was talking to a girl I had a crush on and she told me she felt the same way. Giddy as can be, we txted non stop for little over a week. She later told me that every ounce of attention she gave me was fake, she never liked me and was only doing all of this to “see how good I was at lying”. Swear on my mother, at 5th grade she was practicing how she would destroy men’s hearts later on. I wonder how many victims she has now.
Almost the exact same thing happened to me, except that instead of pranking me, we just kinda drifted apart and I still liked her a bit, she didn’t like me as much
Scary AF!!!
I vowed not to do it again but I did I gave my heart to this girl and for 5 months I was the happiest I've ever been until a hour ago she messaged me saying she wants to break up and possibly friends. To be fair I don't know what I did I gave everything I had to her and yes it wasn't alot but u tried my hardest to make her comfortable to make her happy and she goes and does this.
This hits home hard. He is %100. I got crushed. Everyday I wake up and tell my self I will get better.
Stay up man. You guys will get better too. We are all going through this one day at a time 👊🙏
No cap. I changed after my first heart break. Now I’m a cold uncaring person, and sometimes I think maybe I should go back to being the other guy. Then I remembered how I got played and just shove the feelings back in the hole and lock the door.
go back? do you even remember how? who you were?
I think you will find being that person again harder then you think.
Trust me it’s worth it to feel emotions again, been through it and I forgot how beautiful it could be, it is worth every single second of pain, all the suffering you go through is worth it, it’s better to have highs and lows than to have nothing at all my friend
@@pietromorreale_ yes! I was that guy he is talking about. Yet I've recently found someone who is literally everything. Find someone who supports your ideas and builds you up when you're at your lowest. That kind of love trumps all those superficial "I love you promises"
Idek If I can ever love someone. My first girlfriend broke things off 3 times and I kept coming back if the opportunity presented itself. She was cold and uncaring about my feelings so ever since then I haven’t taken any relationships seriously. I’ve been single now for 2 years
We gonna have to go after Velma she hurt are boys Shaggy 😭😭
count me in, the thot s gonna pay 🔪
I’m on my second break up, homie isn’t wrong I’m scared to fall in love again, I really need emotionally detached…
Those who cheat were once loyal and didn’t have a fear in the world about being cheated on
not a fear in the world
What sucks is when you can't bring yourself to hurt others even after being hurt many times
Nah man, you just haven't hit rock bottom yet give it a lil bit unfortunately
I could never do what she did to my heart and trust I honestly don't think I could ever trust again
Bro, I hear you, because it's not in your nature. Theres nothing wrong with that, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
You know we're that brings you the side of the cliff
Sadly sometimes the Woman comes back to people like you after all is said and done and the "studs" they been with ain't Family material.
What Love Is (2007)
Thank you 💯
Thank you!
Scooby Doo*
Thnks I remember watching this movie when I was younger. Scene hit deep. This is what movies used to be like.
Nice
I was abandoned and told by my one true friend today that we can’t hang out anymore. I told her how I felt about her and she didn’t listen or even care. We talked about everything together, teased each other, and made each other laugh all the time, for weeks, and then I got a message on snap saying we shouldn’t hang out anymore. It was then that I realized that after all the flirting, all the interest in me, all the happiness she showed when around me, it was all just a big fucking game of charades to her. All of those moments were wasted in an instant.
for all my bros going through this, it's not the end. there is one out there for you. never let some thief steal the light from your heart. I promise it can always be better, you just need to find the greener grass my friends
This is true for a lot of guys. Women complain about the monsters they helped to create. I’d be one of them, but I had help to keep me from turning…….
The ironic thing is that most women completely deny having played any part in creating those monsters. They act as though they are the blameless victims of serial players, or pathological heartbreakers. When most of those guys became that way after getting chewed up and spit out by a woman. They found out that the woman they poured their heart and soul into making happy was out trying to find a better deal.
Got my heart broke and didnt date for 6 years. Now been with this girl for almost two years and ive definitely opened up and we can be ourselves around eachother but I still seem to always have my guard up even if its just a little.
I feel you man. Hoping that you will find happiness. Same story here, but 8 years of not being able to feel deeper feelings towards girls. Good luck brother
Same here man and still haven’t dated anyone yet I can’t keep my guard down I mean her reasoning was her friends told her to what bullsh*t
Looks like you have not learned your lesson
Yep relate 100%
I've been lonely and single most of my life now, all I've ever wanted was a family. But got crushed by those women.
Just had my 37th birthday. Live on my own and work in a 95% male workplace.
Women these days aren't up to standard. A lot of them try too hard to be men.
Im just going to keep on going and concentrate on staying alive.
Maybe i will have a better turn in the next life. 🎉
Just 37?There are men who start their family in their 50s.
True as fuck since one time when I see my beloved gf who was just ignoring me. I asked why and she offered me to break up with some fucking reasons that torn my heart. That day after I became cautious every girl who either likes me or "love me" I only saw them as some stanger.
Note to girls who got played: You created players after breaking that romantic. Enjoy this cycle.
They create the monsters they say they hate.
Shaggy goes deep
Why is everyone comparing him to shaggy
@@adamb3629 he played shaggy in the irl movies
When you wanna tell the world this but no wants to hear
Never knew Stu was motivational dude
I’ve been drinking to much to hear this rn😂
On your side bro
Low key explained what Tupac went thru and a lot of us men went thru
Stay up Kings 👑
I am a different story. It’s been my mother. To the point Where you hate someone but still love them. Now I don’t talk to hardly anyone
"Carmencita of the bronx!"
Man... hearing this broke me so bad... it's crazy how much it hurts when someone finally says it.. why we hurt so much.
I can't begin to explain how accurate this is.
Its called falling in love for a reason. There's in it the idea of the fall. Give it away and it comes back to you.
It doesn't
Love is a gamble. You can be all in but your opponent might just fold to get out.
2 years ago my ex left 2 weeks before my wedding. Took everything I had and disappeared. So my daughter and I started over and now I am doing better than I ever have. But I didn't allow it destroy me. It was the worse heart ache of my life.
24 years later still think about her.... was never the same, spent My 20/30's sleeping around hurting people.. only now in my 40s figuring out why I was like this, I got cut so deep I spilt my blood on other people but atleast now I'm mature enough not to hurt others because I hurt so much, I've got great family and friends.. that's good enough for me!
This spoke too deeply to me.