Kitchen Transformation | My Hoarder to Minimalist Declutter Journey

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  • čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
  • On this episode I talk about how far we have come in our Decluttering Journey! Looking back at what the Kitchen looks like now to what it used to be, this is incredible!! My hope and prayer is that this motivates you to start your recovery journey in any area of life you desire!! You can do this!!!
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Komentáře • 88

  • @helenfincannon7367
    @helenfincannon7367 Před 4 měsíci +20

    I know from experience that the older your sons get they will want a clean room and clean house especially as teenagers they will want friends over and they won't be ashamed of their house they will be proud of their Mother and what she has accomplished 😊

  • @TheGenflute
    @TheGenflute Před 4 měsíci +31

    I love a good before and after!! Also love how realistic this is, authentic. Change doesn't happen overnight, or in the span of one makeover video. It takes time!

  • @HearingJesus
    @HearingJesus Před 4 měsíci +4

    Your kitchen looks *GREAT!* Congratulations for keeping it up!
    I like to clean my fridge out every week *before* I go grocery shopping. That way I'm not over buying and I know I have ingredients for my meal plan for the week!

  • @AllTheMiniThings
    @AllTheMiniThings Před 4 měsíci +3

    Mrs. Heart, do you have a video or a list of resources on healing from hoarding disorder? I find there's not much out there (until finding your channel) with good, solid THERAPY-led advice on how to overcome hoarding disorder. I'd love some additional resources if you have any to recommend.

  • @bonesareheavy
    @bonesareheavy Před 4 měsíci +3

    I love that 1960s carpet that was under the top layer...but not in the kitchen! Beautiful kitchen!

  • @veganryori
    @veganryori Před 4 měsíci +45

    Oh my god i remember the carpet 😅 When I saw that video I was so confused why a kitchen would have carpet! Was so happy for you when you got the kitchen done up ☺️

    • @dayfin1843
      @dayfin1843 Před 4 měsíci +5

      My grandmother's house from the 70s had very similar looking carpet in the kitchen and we're all the way over here in Germany 😂 Must have been a fad?!

    • @tonid84
      @tonid84 Před 4 měsíci

      My aunt had thick cushioning carpet put over a beautiful floor because she cooked and baked all the time and she got shin splints from standing and walking on the floor. One day when someone buys that house, they are going to find a beautiful floor under the carpet!

  • @SalsaNube
    @SalsaNube Před 4 měsíci +21

    Oh gosh, I remember the episode with all those cups ..and the choosing of the muffin baking pans! And the one, when you organized your pantry for the first time! But what I absolutely loved, waa the sound of your voice, when you showed us the new floor! I jumped from happiness for you that time, and did again today-truly-even woke up my cat 😂 Speaking of which, I remember you creating a "kitty corner" for Miss Pepper, in that nook close to where her feeding station is. Is it still there? Would love an update of it, as I am sure you did, or will, make it cosy and with some nice decor. And I also really like the season decor you have all around your home, but the kitchen one is always special for me! And you made me clean and start a difficult decluttering process, as also being a level 4/5 hoarder, so will never be more grateful for you being you and your lovely encouragement! Cheers! ❤

  • @amplified506
    @amplified506 Před 4 měsíci +20

    You have come so far. Honored to share this journey with you. 🎉

  • @ellebee3709
    @ellebee3709 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Hi! I thought I'd just pop in here to share a helpful tip I heard recently. Putting your produce in the fridge door, where the condiments usually go, is great for people with ADHD, because it'll be the first thing you see when you open the fridge and you'll remember to use them. The condiments have a much longer shelf life and aren't usually rotated out of the fridge as often, so they can be stored in the produce drawer instead. I really hope this helps 😊😊 I love your channel so much ❤️ thank you for sharing everything that you do

  • @northernlassie2755
    @northernlassie2755 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Very satisfying and calming video 👏 ❤ Maybe you could add up the wasted food costs each month, to see how much you could of saved by not overpurchasing etc

  • @francinehogsett3065
    @francinehogsett3065 Před 4 měsíci +9

    You’ve come a long way and continue to do so ….so proud of you my friend 😘❤️

  • @lindamusser7370
    @lindamusser7370 Před 4 měsíci +12

    My very clean mother-in-law always had carpet in her kitchen because it was "cheaper," but she had to clean it all the time. There was a beautiful wood floor underneath.

  • @tinadecker7947
    @tinadecker7947 Před 4 měsíci +8

    I have kept my kitchen island clean for 2 weeks . For me that's been really hard. It's the catch all for everything. Small steps for me.

    • @Saforra99
      @Saforra99 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Way to go! How exciting :D!!

  • @brg2743
    @brg2743 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Such a nice change. I am learning also that less stuff to manage is less stressful and it looks nicer.

  • @lauradavison4044
    @lauradavison4044 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I get a weekly delivery of food etc and every week before the delivery I check the fridge for out of dates and clean it, because it is every week I can keep on top of it and not subject my family to possibly dangerous food.

  • @NourishmentRedacted
    @NourishmentRedacted Před 4 měsíci +12

    An inspiration as always

  • @Katy_living_simply
    @Katy_living_simply Před 4 měsíci +5

    Buying too much food makes it difficult to clean out the fridge on a weekly basis. We used to do the same thing. We can now go two weeks without buying pantry items. But, we buy fresh produce and dairy on the weekly basis. Also having designated areas in the fridge. Like stuff i have to use up top right of the fridge door. Dairy like cheese, butter, sour cream and so on goes in a basket. Long term produce on the right, and time sensitive fruit on the left. Left overs and food prep on the top. And milks, drinks, and eggs on the bottom rack. It saves us a ton of money and time.❤

  • @lovinglife3954
    @lovinglife3954 Před 4 měsíci +3

    You are amazing. I would love to see you on The Minimal Mom podcast. She had a podcast with The Crappy Childhood Fairy and it was awesome. You would be a great person on there.

    • @summerbaby4600
      @summerbaby4600 Před 4 měsíci

      I watched the episode and thought of Ms.Heart the whole time!!!! Oh, it was such a great episode. I hope Ms.Heart watches it.

  • @tgayer1
    @tgayer1 Před 4 měsíci +3

    You’re amazing! 💪😃💕
    My goal is to waste no food this year. But disclaimer… I live alone, so there’s just me to worry about! 😊
    You’re smart to write expiration dates on your food, or the date that you opened the bottle, jar, etc.!

  • @charishurt1768
    @charishurt1768 Před 4 měsíci +2

    So glad the carpetsgone beautiful kitchen❤🥰🦄

  • @cutekitty2488
    @cutekitty2488 Před 4 měsíci +6

    This is my dream kitchen! Wish I could get hubby onboard. He does most of the cooking and prefers EVERYTHING out and visible 😢 even if it’s not in current use. Then he complains about no room to work 😂.

    • @kell_checks_in
      @kell_checks_in Před 4 měsíci +3

      You might look into pegboards and hooks. If you can find it online, Julia Child's kitchen from Cambridge Massachusetts (the one now in the Smithsonian) has a bunch of pegboard organization that her husband Paul installed.

    • @steggopotamus
      @steggopotamus Před 4 měsíci +3

      Sounds like ADHD. Out of sight = forget it exists, using lots of executive function to try to remember = exhausting. Also people with adhd are a lot more likely to be hoarders.
      So, if he's not on meds, maybe try to find some that help. If not, it's a pain to get people with ADHD to make any changes but it is usually possible.
      You have to get him to really think about his priorities all the way through.
      I also find that plastic open bins from target help me. I keep all my daily pills in one, and it can move more easily so I can have them out, but also move them when I need space.
      If he however has the attitude that it's always something else's fault (you, the house, the stuff) and never his, then he's never going to improve, and you have to decide how much you're willing to drain your own energy listening to him griping forever.

    • @adrienneg3620
      @adrienneg3620 Před 4 měsíci

      My husband is much more of a visible person too but I found that if the cabinets don’t have too much in them and there is actually a place for everything (that isn’t inconvenient to get to), that he doesn’t mind things being out of sight. If you always know where to find an item or put it away, it isn’t too hard. I think when it’s all too full in the cabinets or drawers, it’s easier to keep it out, but that might also serve as an indicator that drawers and cabinets are too full. You could always try decluttering some stuff into a “time will tell bin” (Minimal Mom style), put the items in the counter away, and see if it makes it easier to function in the kitchen. You still have all the items if you happen to miss them, but could be a good experiment.
      But if that’s not the case, then definitely pursue better visible organization. Cas from Clutterbug has good suggestions for different organizing types.

  • @cherylrobinson6076
    @cherylrobinson6076 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Congratulations. You are an inspiration to others.

  • @aileenreynolds5604
    @aileenreynolds5604 Před 4 měsíci +8

    So happy for you Melanie! What a journey we've been on together! You have come so far and we've been cheering you on, learning by your example, and feeling so much less alone with our hoards! I finally got control of my spare room. The attic is next!

  • @angiefisher2780
    @angiefisher2780 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thanks for your encouragement to declutter. I am doing small areas so I do not get overwhelmed!❤❤

  • @fabienneroure9995
    @fabienneroure9995 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Your such an inspiration! ❤God bless and wishing you a great weekend from Ontario Canada❤🍁🍂🐿.

  • @pamelafreeman4548
    @pamelafreeman4548 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Love watching your encouraging podcasts! You have come a long way and are helping so many people! ❤❤

  • @gabriellehollinger3837
    @gabriellehollinger3837 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Beautiful. Your husband is quite the carpenter.

  • @ofrasharon1241
    @ofrasharon1241 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Amazing!

  • @jeno264
    @jeno264 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Gosh that carpet! 😨 It made such a difference when it came out! You have done SO amazing! 💖💖💖

  • @tngirlz4622
    @tngirlz4622 Před 4 měsíci +5

    FANTASTIC work! 🥳👏👏👏🎉 Way to go Ms. Heart! 🦄❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner1958 Před 4 měsíci

    January 2024. Your kids can help with kitchen chores. My kids did. My grandkids do. You've made progress. Tina, Al's wife

  • @Jettsmom98
    @Jettsmom98 Před 4 měsíci +7

    You're kitchen looks beautiful. I do pretty good at keeping the fridge cleaned out these days. I need to declutter the cabinets and better organize those. I really need to work on the pantry. Way to much in there and I'm sure I'll have to toss 1/2 of it. Thanks for the weekly talks. They really help.

    • @northernlassie2755
      @northernlassie2755 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I think it hurts more tossing out the wasted money, than the impulsive purchasing buzz....

  • @A-couple
    @A-couple Před 4 měsíci +2

    LOVE IT! Can you PLEASE return to basement Fridays because it my Friyay for me. Thank you❤

  • @melanietrester
    @melanietrester Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hello from Germany, hi Miss Heart. Remember the carpet, you can be🎉 so proud of you

  • @josephdaly2015
    @josephdaly2015 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Omg there’s a blast from the past. I totally forgot how dark your kitchen was. It looks absolutely beautiful now. You are doing great maintaining. It gives me hope 😂 Thanks for all the encouragement you give to me and others. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏👍💪🙏💐🐈

  • @jklfds85
    @jklfds85 Před 4 měsíci

    I've watched your videos several years ago. Glad to see you're still at it with decluttering!! You are inspiring!

  • @rebeckamattisson5083
    @rebeckamattisson5083 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Yay to celebrate the kitchen transformation! 🎉🎉🎉 It's nice that you clean out the fridge more often, not so many nasty surprises. 😅❤❤❤ I visited my parents before, suring and after Christmas and cleaned out something from their fridge every visit.... They are not good at it, but they like to get some help. 😊

  • @livingwithME2015
    @livingwithME2015 Před 4 měsíci +5

    What an amazing transformation! Well done! You are such an inspiration. ❤

  • @mrandisg
    @mrandisg Před 4 měsíci +4

    Such an amazing transformation! You are so inspiring, Miss Heart. I'm so happy for your progress! 💖💖💖💖

  • @starzyk6897
    @starzyk6897 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much!!! This is so encouraging!!!!! Wishing you many blessings from God!!!!!!! Love from Ania from Poland

  • @jennifersershen927
    @jennifersershen927 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Your kitchen looks great.

  • @psymompa
    @psymompa Před 4 měsíci +6

    Great progress.

  • @sherrygantt2158
    @sherrygantt2158 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I am so proud of you. What a huge difference. ❤

  • @AtHomeWithKari
    @AtHomeWithKari Před 4 měsíci +1

    You have come so far and continue to improve! Great job on crushing your disorder!

  • @Its_me.89
    @Its_me.89 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hey hoarder queen plz share your routine
    When you finally start your cleaning work ❤❤

  • @geertje188
    @geertje188 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I love it. 🇳🇱

  • @eyrunsigrunardottir6977
    @eyrunsigrunardottir6977 Před 4 měsíci +3

    What a wonderful transformation, congratulation to you and the whole family on you new kitchen and new lifestyle. I had forgotten the brown cabinets but the carpet is unforgettable 😉

  • @connieverbeck1110
    @connieverbeck1110 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Congratulations!!

  • @katchathuff3287
    @katchathuff3287 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Looking good!

  • @nicolechew1029
    @nicolechew1029 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Yes! How does hair get in the fridge?? 😂 I sweat I'm always picking dog hair out of drawers!

    • @mrandisg
      @mrandisg Před 4 měsíci

      Same, except in my case it's cat hair! lol

  • @anitachopping
    @anitachopping Před 4 měsíci +1

    Looks great

  • @rebeccatarro8066
    @rebeccatarro8066 Před 4 měsíci +2

    You should put an island. Something small 5ft, two cabinets. Will help more storage and more workspace. Just float over the floor.

    • @northernlassie2755
      @northernlassie2755 Před 4 měsíci +1

      More open space is freeing, not more storage. The idea is to live intentionally, not have/buy more stuff....

  • @halfheartdead7149
    @halfheartdead7149 Před 4 měsíci +3

    hmm do you think having a lazy susan in your fridge would help with the bottles so nothing gets stuck in the back? you can find bigger ones online!

  • @kell_checks_in
    @kell_checks_in Před 4 měsíci +1

    My kitchen is bright (white and yellow everything except new white appliances) and friendly and obviously from 1962. I adore it. ; ) OMG, is that gorgeous floor the original hardwood!?

  • @denisec4382
    @denisec4382 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you. I need hope to even begin.

  • @kaze_cat
    @kaze_cat Před 4 měsíci

    Love it! Congratulations on your success in “letting go!” And also for spreading the 💕 !

  • @gettingtidy2495
    @gettingtidy2495 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow this is amazing encouragement!!

  • @MargaretUK
    @MargaretUK Před 4 měsíci

    This is so impressive 👏 Well done 👌 😀

  • @susanreads1960
    @susanreads1960 Před 3 měsíci

    Great video!

  • @lurenawalters6865
    @lurenawalters6865 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you!!

  • @jklfds85
    @jklfds85 Před 4 měsíci

    Maybe the carpet was a blessing in disguise? It forced you to declutter so that you could get to it and tear it out and put in new floor! 😊

  • @stefbmccoy8297
    @stefbmccoy8297 Před 4 měsíci

    You should read the starch solution. Such a great book.

  • @lucyrademakers4188
    @lucyrademakers4188 Před 4 měsíci +3

    ❤❤😊

  • @summerbaby4600
    @summerbaby4600 Před 4 měsíci

    Did you watch Dawn’s recent podcast episode with Anna Runkle? That was excellent talk about dealing with childhood trauma, and how to move on.

  • @denisec4382
    @denisec4382 Před 3 měsíci

    I have old carpet in my kitchen as well and have always hated it.

  • @GardeniasandGrace
    @GardeniasandGrace Před 4 měsíci +3

    The hardest thing for me to declutter is my home decor and diy supplies. They are taking over my house, but I enjoy having them and using them so much. I just don't have storage space. 😢

    • @cb9825
      @cb9825 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Maybe declutter "easy" stuff more often? So there is more space for the things that are close to heart.

  • @rmf4
    @rmf4 Před 4 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @hannahkennedy2259
    @hannahkennedy2259 Před 4 měsíci +1

    👏👏

  • @jessicaquiroz7178
    @jessicaquiroz7178 Před 4 měsíci

    Where did you get Ms. Pepper’s pet food mat?

  • @almariekuit56
    @almariekuit56 Před 4 měsíci +1

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @jennyksslr
    @jennyksslr Před 4 měsíci

    I have the same problem! How does hair get in the fridge?

  • @daria_avery
    @daria_avery Před 4 měsíci

    congratulations i find any kind of disorder interesting im an ‘ addict ‘ of watching hoarders episodes im on a minimalism journey never was a hoarder but had too much - in my mind - like most humans do this minimalism journey is taking longer than i thought it would but some of the process is enjoyable like the selling of items

  • @sandradisclafani6725
    @sandradisclafani6725 Před 4 měsíci +1

    ❤👍

  • @micheledeem4633
    @micheledeem4633 Před 4 měsíci

  • @suzannerockall4030
    @suzannerockall4030 Před 4 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sula1529
    @sula1529 Před 4 měsíci

    How do you know what level of hoarding you are at? Is their a test?

  • @RoryRita
    @RoryRita Před 4 měsíci

    Hi to my New Years Eve bin sister!! Still have it???