Attracting a good woman || Reading DMs

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  • čas přidán 11. 07. 2024

Komentáře • 45

  • @khensk
    @khensk Před 23 dny +26

    My favourite intro here on CZcams is "sanibonani sanibonani guys"😂😂😂

  • @bonganimotha8103
    @bonganimotha8103 Před 23 dny +9

    The more we speak about dating like this, the more it'll be normal to people's ears...the more it'll make sense when people suggest dates where we meet, walk n talk.

  • @tumelomathlaba9547
    @tumelomathlaba9547 Před 23 dny +16

    Mr. Mlotshwa. Thank you very much Sir. God bless you in abundance 🙏🏿 I'm the 22 year old who DM'd you. Truly grateful

  • @mcdonaldlekhoaba
    @mcdonaldlekhoaba Před 22 dny +6

    Im liking the taking a walk as first date idea as it prunes out the fake girls from the real ones. 😂😂 its basically a 90 day rule for guys

  • @musabuthelezi5085
    @musabuthelezi5085 Před 23 dny +5

    I like this idea. It opens a platform for more engagement as most of us are asking ourselves the same things.

  • @cromwelgcina9707
    @cromwelgcina9707 Před 23 dny +3

    Great lesson man you are even teaching me who's already in a relationships, if things were to go bad I will use that advice

  • @khensk
    @khensk Před 23 dny +7

    That first date idea is so wholesome

  • @lwaziskhonza-596
    @lwaziskhonza-596 Před 22 dny +3

    Top tier advice sir I'm 19 years old I'm also looking for someone to build with and I'll definitely take this because I've been brainwashed by the current society that says the first date we should go out to a expensive place mind you I'm studying and it's way above my means thanks very much sir 🙏I'm learning a lot from you if only our parents would teach us about these things

  • @BIGCHAMPNBF02
    @BIGCHAMPNBF02 Před 13 dny

    BigUps grootman! Really needed the word

  • @sandileyeni692
    @sandileyeni692 Před 23 dny +7

    Thin' intes'fun ukuyi-growa ulotshwala😂😂

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  Před 23 dny +2

      @@sandileyeni692 Hahahahahaha!!!
      And lapho ngifuna bona…

  • @Sylvester_Mashile
    @Sylvester_Mashile Před 23 dny +2

    Yes, this is insightful.

  • @EmmanuelOkeng-m4d
    @EmmanuelOkeng-m4d Před 23 dny +2

    Hello Pension.
    Love your channel and great topics discussed.

  • @CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL
    @CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL Před 23 dny +5

    Nice one. Really enjoyed it. Can you also talk how possible it is for a man to build himself up if he has no father figure around and the strategies around that. Far too many gents without fathers but grow up to be somewhat well rounded. How can these men actively address their weak areas and are they ultimately responsible for their own destiny as individuals? Can they be fully masculine men through growth in mind and embracing responsibility as men and diving deep into themselves to heal whatever it is? Appreciate you bafo!

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  Před 23 dny +2

      @@CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL Thank you for the comment! I’ll def do a vid on this! Great one to unpack…

  • @DineoMpala-qg7bl
    @DineoMpala-qg7bl Před 21 dnem +1

    I don't go a day without listening to you. It's part of my daily routine now. 😅❤ Thank you for this. All the hard work you put in. Telling us izindaba zethu 😂 in order for us to self-reflect. For always being truthful and honest to us as your viewers and fans. Always encouraging us and lifting us. May we grow even bigger than
    this. I foresee 50k to 100k subscribers by year end. God bless you, Pen, nathi siyakuTHANDA. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siyamanci2596
    @siyamanci2596 Před 22 dny +1

    Well said bhuti ka Penuel ❤- it is imperative we talk and discuss about basic things before invest ourselves on someone

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 Před 22 dny +2

    Know thyself. Love and Respect thyself. Hlonipha impilo. Mazise umuntu. Mesabe uNkulunkulu. Umsebenzi uqala kuwena. Consistency in good behaviour. Khulekani.

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 Před 22 dny +2

    1:39 ~ if he struggles wth trusting women... he has NOT YET figured out how to TEST & VET them thoroughly.

  • @amandamlotshwa239
    @amandamlotshwa239 Před 20 dny

    Good thing our first date was a coffee 😅

  • @ThaboButhelezi-qm6td
    @ThaboButhelezi-qm6td Před 17 dny

    I agree. Great content

  • @its_bobhermanus
    @its_bobhermanus Před 22 dny +1

    I did this although zero Rand ideas in my early 20s and it was 8/10 success. My late 20s, I just see delusional women who are not realistic about first dates or dates in general.

  • @katlamash1189
    @katlamash1189 Před 23 dny +2

    Great analogy wrong area to use it in

  • @JohannY3
    @JohannY3 Před 21 dnem

    Although not applicable to me in support this kind of advice because a strong and healthy society is built on strong and healthy families.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Před 23 dny +2

    Ah mara Penson this is contradictory to yesterday's position. Ai anyway 🍿🥤🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @Me20243
    @Me20243 Před 21 dnem

    Great advice.

  • @samukelomadide797
    @samukelomadide797 Před 22 dny +2

    Penson please bro drop a video everyday❤❤

  • @DineoMpala-qg7bl
    @DineoMpala-qg7bl Před 21 dnem

    Also, maybe you can dedicate these fan engagements on Tuesdays and Thursdays, for example, depending on how much of it is there and then continue with the normal videos / vlogs. So that at least everything is covered. 🤝

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 Před 22 dny +2

    beeeeen wanting u to do this thng of reading DMs videos... then we can comment.

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  Před 22 dny +2

      @@bigthangz5489 Some DMs are too saucy to read… 😈
      Some are too deep and personal… 😔❤️
      But I’ll find ones that I can read and unpack!🤞🏾

  • @SiyaNxele
    @SiyaNxele Před 23 dny +4

    Ayi Bafo uyi budda kakhulu nge analysis yakho. lento yokukipha imali awazi kuyiwaphi. Yazi ladies dont understand ukuthi we dont mind spending kodwa ayi for umsangano zisuka. enye inkinga, izishimane zibajwayezile ukuthi imali icoshwa phansi

  • @Mihle09
    @Mihle09 Před 20 dny

    ❤❤❤