After watching this drama 4X, I believe that Duan Jiaxi developed a soft spot for Sang Zhi ever since they met. He just didn’t recognized it since she was very young at that time.
He has for sure a soft spot for her since the start, otherwise he wouldn't have indulged her. However he's not a pervert, so the feeling he had for her when she was still a minor was definitely not the same feeling that Sangzhi had for him. Sangzhi's feeling was not love, she's still too young to have such a deep affection but it was atleast a crush between a female towards a male, but it's a normal thing for a teenager. Everyone of us must have that crush and some could lead into a puppy love. And a few of us were even lucky enough to end up marrying the puppy love we once had. But what he had for her was in fact a genuine familial affection. He was living like an orphan for so long and experienced the feeling of being abandoned and hated by basically everyone around him in his hometown. Even his teacher who onced proud of his academic performance had let him being bullied for years. The whole Sang family was the only one giving him warmth and Sangzhi's adoration was giving him that feeling of being useful, needed, loved..sincerely, unselfishly. He has a good brother, a good uncle and aunty, and then an adorable little sister who adores him. If I were on his shoes, I would have certainly have a soft spot for a girl like Sangzhi as well. And I might have even grown up a feeling that there's no man worthy of her either, just like how her daddy and brother would feel. He only saw her in a different light after she was an adult and the turning point was most likely when she stood up for him at the moment Jiangyi assaulted him. At that moment he probably just realized that Sangzhi is no longer a little girl who once always need protection, but she could also be brave enough to protect someone she cares about. And her unconditional support and trust for him, without even knowing about the issues, had definitely touched him hardly. Only those who cares genuinely would have that kind of unconditional trust, and for this girl, he might devote his life too...as whatever she wanted him to be. With his circumstance, I doubt that he would dare to have any wishful thinking of getting married with a good lady of a good household afterall. In their culture, marriage is not only between the couple in love but it'S an union of 2 families... so he certainly doesn't have that confidence, no matter which girl it is. So... it's somehow a given that the girl is the one who needs to make a move first. Sangzhi was very wise when she told him that his father's sin has nothing to do with him. That opened his eyes...
It's not a big problem, it's just that I always like to find mistakes in everything I read 😅(btw I'm not a native English speaker so there are a lot of mistakes while I write)
Para que poner una setie bonita donde el papel pricipal lo tiene tu actriz que sigues en todas sus series si te la ponen en un idioma que no entiendes nos aburre mirar los personajes sin entender de que trata la historia por favor traducida al español para que todos podamos entenderla gracias
exactly@@todayiglowup4286 . That'S the issue. It gave a feeling as if he's grooming her. It's really sick if he was eyeing her when she's a minor while he's already an adult, and that'S what they're doubting..cos it would have been really inappropriate. One can even think of a mental issue: whether he has a pedophile tendency secretly. It would have been strange if they directly accept their relationship. They need time and they need to be convinced that he was not targeting her when she's a minor but in fact it was her who liked him first secretly. 5 years seems a big gap when the male is adult and the girl is a minor... but 10 years gap is fine if they're both already adults. It wouldnt seem that far anymore. One can put him in jail if he's targeting her while she was still a minor even if the gap is only 5 years.
0:52 I can’t get over the fact that Jiaxu is wearing glasses with actual lenses in them. Usually they’re fake glasses without lenses and it always looks weird to me.
Agree with you 5years age gap is nothing, compare with in my hometown is there's 12 years age gap but it's okay they even get married and also my sister she and her husband 10 years age gap but not me cos I always got 1 year younger than me😂😂😂😂
@@florakousai5330I love this drama... But the way everytime he is called old and she thinks herself as being too young is weird cuz it's just 5 years she ain't a baby 😅... Don't get me wrong
@@bereniceg777 I think their strange feeling comes more because of the fact that he watched her growing up. Because she was still a little girl, a minor, when he was already an adult. He was a little sister for their group of brothers. It gave them definitely a goosebumps while doubting whether Jiaxu had already eyeing her when she was still a minor... It feels weird because it gave a feeling as if he was grooming her until she's ready. It makes them worried if he was somehow a bit like a pedophile. The effect would have been different if they just met and get to know each others after she's already an adult. At their circumstance, it would have been more strange if they could accept their relationship without any scrupples directly after the revelation. It's absolutely normal if it would take a bit more time for them to accept the fact that they're together. Because one can only talk about "childhood sweetheart" if both parties are still children when they spend time together. Their case was certainly not childhood sweetheart. And it's only good because she was the one who liked him first in the past, and not reverse... Otherwise, it's really not appropriate.
Jiaxu looks the most handsome man when he wears glasses 😍🤓
After watching this drama 4X, I believe that Duan Jiaxi developed a soft spot for Sang Zhi ever since they met. He just didn’t recognized it since she was very young at that time.
Okkk just 4x???
100% 🤣
He has for sure a soft spot for her since the start, otherwise he wouldn't have indulged her. However he's not a pervert, so the feeling he had for her when she was still a minor was definitely not the same feeling that Sangzhi had for him. Sangzhi's feeling was not love, she's still too young to have such a deep affection but it was atleast a crush between a female towards a male, but it's a normal thing for a teenager. Everyone of us must have that crush and some could lead into a puppy love. And a few of us were even lucky enough to end up marrying the puppy love we once had.
But what he had for her was in fact a genuine familial affection.
He was living like an orphan for so long and experienced the feeling of being abandoned and hated by basically everyone around him in his hometown. Even his teacher who onced proud of his academic performance had let him being bullied for years.
The whole Sang family was the only one giving him warmth and Sangzhi's adoration was giving him that feeling of being useful, needed, loved..sincerely, unselfishly.
He has a good brother, a good uncle and aunty, and then an adorable little sister who adores him. If I were on his shoes, I would have certainly have a soft spot for a girl like Sangzhi as well. And I might have even grown up a feeling that there's no man worthy of her either, just like how her daddy and brother would feel.
He only saw her in a different light after she was an adult and the turning point was most likely when she stood up for him at the moment Jiangyi assaulted him.
At that moment he probably just realized that Sangzhi is no longer a little girl who once always need protection, but she could also be brave enough to protect someone she cares about.
And her unconditional support and trust for him, without even knowing about the issues, had definitely touched him hardly.
Only those who cares genuinely would have that kind of unconditional trust, and for this girl, he might devote his life too...as whatever she wanted him to be.
With his circumstance, I doubt that he would dare to have any wishful thinking of getting married with a good lady of a good household afterall.
In their culture, marriage is not only between the couple in love but it'S an union of 2 families... so he certainly doesn't have that confidence, no matter which girl it is.
So... it's somehow a given that the girl is the one who needs to make a move first.
Sangzhi was very wise when she told him that his father's sin has nothing to do with him.
That opened his eyes...
sang zhi's face when duan jiashu called him "gege" 🤣🤣
How to watch it
Cute couple,, ❤
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when he said?
Clever boy. Darling brother. I think this is her best pairing yet. I get goosebumps remembering of my brother’s mate when I was young.
I guess he knows way before that the girl have some special feeling for him and I guess he is too but he don't want to admit it ❤❤❤❤❤❤
in one of the last episodes, he said at what exact moment he realized he liked her :)
Hidden love and love like the Galaxy are my 2 favorite CDramas
Oh i'm fall in love for this drama😍
Jiaxu is very handsome 🥰😘❤️💝💖💘
So... Like no one is going to talk about the little mistake in the title😅? (an L is missing for the word flirt)
It's not a big problem, it's just that I always like to find mistakes in everything I read 😅(btw I'm not a native English speaker so there are a lot of mistakes while I write)
Samee.❤
Oh really love in for this drama ❤❤
Muito lindos eles dois. Como ele è romântico com ela. Sou fã deles dois.❤❤
I want the complete episodes to end
Lagi nga silang sweet😊
Ho good you people every time I see you is beautiful🩷💓🩷💓💓💓🩷🩷
Why here is so dramatic the story tha he is just 5 years older than Sang Zhi
I think it’s not a big difference
Right
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Q hermosoooo❤❤❤
Para que poner una setie bonita donde el papel pricipal lo tiene tu actriz que sigues en todas sus series si te la ponen en un idioma que no entiendes nos aburre mirar los personajes sin entender de que trata la historia por favor traducida al español para que todos podamos entenderla gracias
I think in dating in the kitchen she had a bigger age gap than here
Yeah
i think that age gap is less weird becos the male lead didnt know her as a child
@@todayiglowup4286 but they seem like they're bothered with the age gap more than her growing up calling him brother
That's what I didn't get🤔🤔🤔
exactly@@todayiglowup4286 . That'S the issue. It gave a feeling as if he's grooming her. It's really sick if he was eyeing her when she's a minor while he's already an adult, and that'S what they're doubting..cos it would have been really inappropriate. One can even think of a mental issue: whether he has a pedophile tendency secretly.
It would have been strange if they directly accept their relationship.
They need time and they need to be convinced that he was not targeting her when she's a minor but in fact it was her who liked him first secretly.
5 years seems a big gap when the male is adult and the girl is a minor...
but 10 years gap is fine if they're both already adults. It wouldnt seem that far anymore.
One can put him in jail if he's targeting her while she was still a minor even if the gap is only 5 years.
He’s more conflicted that the guy from Go Ahead who’s in love with a neighbor that he’s grown up treating as his little sister.
0:52 I can’t get over the fact that Jiaxu is wearing glasses with actual lenses in them. Usually they’re fake glasses without lenses and it always looks weird to me.
هل هنا واحد عربي
انااااا
😂😂😂😂
❤️
不懂？
差5歲又沒差多少？
莫名其妙....
小说里差7岁 而且25跟32的在一起觉得还好但20跟13的就怪怪的 所以这里面因为是13 （剧里14）就认识了 就有点家人的感觉
Agree with you 5years age gap is nothing, compare with in my hometown is there's 12 years age gap but it's okay they even get married and also my sister she and her husband 10 years age gap but not me cos I always got 1 year younger than me😂😂😂😂
@@florakousai5330I love this drama... But the way everytime he is called old and she thinks herself as being too young is weird cuz it's just 5 years she ain't a baby 😅... Don't get me wrong
@@bereniceg777 I think their strange feeling comes more because of the fact that he watched her growing up. Because she was still a little girl, a minor, when he was already an adult. He was a little sister for their group of brothers.
It gave them definitely a goosebumps while doubting whether Jiaxu had already eyeing her when she was still a minor... It feels weird because it gave a feeling as if he was grooming her until she's ready.
It makes them worried if he was somehow a bit like a pedophile.
The effect would have been different if they just met and get to know each others after she's already an adult.
At their circumstance, it would have been more strange if they could accept their relationship without any scrupples directly after the revelation.
It's absolutely normal if it would take a bit more time for them to accept the fact that they're together. Because one can only talk about "childhood sweetheart" if both parties are still children when they spend time together.
Their case was certainly not childhood sweetheart.
And it's only good because she was the one who liked him first in the past, and not reverse...
Otherwise, it's really not appropriate.
Please apply less lipstick and in a natural shade to the main ml& fl. Thanks