Relationship Disaster in the Philippines - A Filipina"s Story
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Relationship Disaster in the Philippines - A Filipina"s Story
In this video I interview Curly a filipina who had a relationship disaster, this is her story!
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He was a dick plain and simple. She is pretty hard working and honest. In America it's rare they mostly use you complain about their life and dump you. Because they aren't happy with themselves?
Strange how your Facebook link is not working?
Sent you email instead. Thank you.
I don't let my past stop me i now have a new filipina beautiful filipina girlfriend i love going to the Philippines and hope to return as soon as this pandemic is over
he would probably say she only told him about the 2 sons. Sometimes Filipinas only tell a piece if the truth.
She was a great guest.
Cant help but like her, so genuine.
Best wishes for her future Gio
He knew about the children if he wanted to admit it or not. So yes part of it is his fault. But he could’ve done a better job with discussion about it.
Same, I agree. She’s smart and her antics are cute. ♥️
Omg, the end part with being a donor.😂😂😂😂
I agree with you. She seems truthful but again we have to hear the other side of the story to be fair.
The biggest mistake I hear over and over is, especially from Filipina ladies, they become attached to fast. I understand the obvious reason, of course, but I wish they would take the dating game a little more serious and develop a friendship first. Because after the initial excitement wears off, what’s left is the friendship. And if the friendship isn’t strong enough, sex ain’t carry you into old age. Just a thought.
The truth is most of the women in the Philippines are desperate to find a meal ticket and generally a foreigner offers more stability. The problem is men can get spoiled for choice and pretty soon boredom kicks in and they want a change. But the filipina doesn't want to let go out of economic dependance
They are enjoying, always probing for freebies. ..
It's like start hating when just opening their mouths with their faked " I love you "
Wise words buddy.Rocco
HAHAHA meal ticket??? WHY? Are ALL foreigners who goes to the Philippines are RICH??? Foreigners shows off to Filipina's like they own everything or they can buy everything.. Where the TRUTH is they're just living from paycheck to paycheck. Then they ended up retiring/living in Philippines thinking that Philippines is a very very cheap place to live. THEN WHAT??? After a year or so..They start COMPLAINING!!! hahaha.. If there's a meal ticket for Filipinas... There's also FOOD STAMPS for FOREIGNERS !!!! So shut up!!
It's all about the Benjamin.
The guy didn't want to play daddy & knight anymore. Instead he wanted to play the field.
I agree. He had a taste of it when her daughter was living with them for a week. I'm sure it was an awakening. I don't blame him for not wanting to stay with her and 2 children that are not his. He can meet another woman without children and have his own children.
@@Godtardism neither did the father of her children , that cockskr . i wonder where the father is ? and all the other pinoy guys who left millions of single pinay women behind . its the culture . wife and mistress . and the girls know it .
Exactly!
She seems very nice and down to earth. She said he has PTSD so he is probably dealing with problems she doesn't understand. I like her upbeat at the end. She clearly didn't make any mistakes and left the relationship open minded. Hope she finds a good man.
I have 2 thoughts. Young guy moved the daughter in and after a week realized he was in way over his head. And thought 2, there are 2 sides to every story. Climbing security fences, forcing into room and locking the door. Ya, he planned his escape.
He threw her and her daughter out of the house--while they were away! Man, get a clue. Her home town was a day-long bus ride away and he took the cowardly act while she was gone and was afraid to face her. She had a job in the town they lived in, but suddenly she had no place to live. You don't think she at least deserved an answer why he suddenly rejected her? She was totally within her rights to enter what was essentially her home and demand an explanation. He was lucky she didn't have her brothers and uncles go beat his ass.
@@delavan9141 No one is entitled to any explanation, period. No one is entitled to your time or energy. No one is entitled to forcibly enter your home. She is entitled the time to get her stuff back that is it. If this were a man saying he did the same thing to a woman, would you have the same opinion?
The guy is too young to get married and she has 2 kids and that’s probably a lot of responsibility for him and l think he went there just to have fun
Are you kidding me? 35 is certainly not too young to be able to take on responsibility for a family.
Only simps hook up with single mothers
it's easy to judge others when you're not in their shoes. He has a 100% disability rating. He's probably dealing with a lot of issues that she's unaware of. Perhaps he was doing the best he knew at the time to end a relationship.
@Lee Shackelford 15:20 Totally disabled. 100% disabled? Yes.
@Lee Shackelford Post-traumatic stress syndrome is not a joke, you don't know anything about psychology I assume...
Yes you can't blame someone who has "Pts" symtoms he did what he could do best, without tears! Thats my opinion as an retired medic .
What I love about this story is the boyfriend gets 100% disability at 33 years old while roaming the Philippines. Incredible
33...in the Philippines...100%?!?!?!....this guy didn't want to settle down and take care of someone else kids when he has so much in front of him! 😉🤔😉
Bone spurs on feet in 2020.
There are many USA vets in the Philippines just like him, damaged with PTSD, I think they get $3000 a month. Tim K is another
There's always 2 sides to a story. It would be interesting to see his side.
Hello david good morning
She is very beautiful, but the baggage is heavy!
David Dolan ...I think his side was presented by her story. He liked the icing but didn't liked the cake. His small head said yesss. But, his big head said noooo! And he realizes this after he licked all the icing and the bare cake was exposed.
3 sides...... hers his and the TRUTH
Action speaks louder than words….no need to explain himself
I feel sorry for her, she seems like such a sweetheart. I hope she can find someone to treat her right.
Yes I agree and she will
Not making excuses but if he is a 33 year old U.S. military veteran with a 100% disability rating from the Department of Veterans Affairs (DVA) his decision making ability / judgement may be impacted / impaired by medication he receives from the DVA.
Curly is very pretty and has a bubblely personality.
She did not deserve to be treated like that!
You can date him then if he’s all that.
larueleroux : that’s harsh, unless you know exactly what went on. She might of jumped in too fast, but that was down to him letting her. He asked for her to bring her daughter, then realised it wasn’t what he really wanted. Why be a scumbag and lie to her again and again he could’ve just grown a pair and told her the truth, the lies sum the guy up. She deserved to be “dismissed” , Christ, what sort of talk is that .
@@brianp6097 Thank you for saying exactly what I was thinking. Blessings to you.
Why because of her looks? Men like u with u with that attitude, are the same type that will get scammed by a pretty face!
#ihopesheseesthisbro
Hi Gio, I always enjoy your interviews, even when the story is sad like this one. You have a very compassionate way of interacting with your guests, and your questions get to the heart of the matter.
Glad you enjoy it!
I really appreciated the fact that she is so strong and gave him plenty of chances, but would not simply "believe" him and actually clmbed the fence! Awesome! The saddest part is many men and perhaps women confuse kindness with dishonesty. Really most of us are cowardly. It takes courage to show honesty and say, "It was great but its over".
So what? He decided the relationship was not working. So? He didn't get her pregnant and run, didn't beat her, didn't abuse her kids, didn't steal from her, didn't cheat on her. So? The purpose of this video is what?
To take they crying woman's side the way culture and laws indoctrinate us to do. Nothing but a constant smear campaign on men. Meanwhile we turn a blind eye to stalking behavior, jumpung femces, invading property and refusing to leave as long as a cute girl does it. If a man did tgat crao, he'd be felt with by all the man destroying culture and laws the mob could muster.
I agree with you. I was waiting for her to say such things you mentioned. She was still
Well fellas what he did wrong was lead her on, ya don't do that to people.
Again, many of you are making assumptions about the PTSD ex US military guy. Number 1, I thank him for his service and hope he can lead a semi-normal life after what he experienced. Yes what I have experienced over the internet -the filapina is looking to better herself via a foreigner that can provide for her.
Unfortunately most of us think about the sexual experience first and since he was there and she was ready -they consummated there relationship.
He may have felt overwhelmed when she brought her child to meet. We do not know-this is a one sided conversation. However, lying is never a good way to combat any situation so that is his mistake and it showed his maturity level.
So what I am trying to say- we only know one side and it’s evident he was overwhelmed!
Two common threads: money and stability is what someone from SE Asia is looking for in a partner.
Hey gio, wow, what an ordeal for her to have to go through. Hopefully, she will find someone who will truly treat her with respect and be honest with her.
She is so sweet and honest. But she’s lucky, someone with ptsd is not going to be an easy partner.
Some guys don’t do well with break ups . Thank God I’m married now , break ups probably took years off my life . It’s very very stressful
I feel sad for her, she really seems like a REAL lady (like all honest men want to meet). They always seem to get fooled by weird guys, then it ruins future relationships....
With 2 little kids to raise, that's too much for a guy.
Ya, he handled it badly IMO. Clearly it wasn't going to work for him. I have to say her English is very good, and she will find someone else. Sorry for the bad experience.
It reminds me of my friend who moved in with one guy she just met on Tinder.For maybe just a week of chatting she stayed with him in the hotel during the lockdown.She cant leave the hotel in Cebu coz theres no transpo available yet.At first the guy was okay treating her as gf but in a month time he changed and he dont want to spend so much money for her food anymore which he promised to not worry about it before she moved in with him.It happened gradually.I told my friend to ask him of moving to apartment to save money instead of staying in the hotel for months.But he chose not to.She only eat once a day then and he bought her expired food in hotel's small store for her to eat.She got really skinny when she finally left the hotel after the lockdown was lifted.
I feel bad for her but I guess we learn from experience and the importance of knowing the person very well first before getting into something.
please what are we talking about the guy is 33 years old do u think he wanted to take care of the girl and her kids ? when he said to return the girl she should have done that....she was being taken care of in Bacolod...and this guy was 100 times better then the father who im sure never gave a centavo ...so unfair to hear foreigners portrayed like crap when almost always these girls with kids gets nothing from the real father
This story has nothing to do with her past anymore, this about her relationship with that guy and how it ended. Because you know what, you don't compare your past life to your current life., you don't compare your previous past relationship to your current relationship. People make mistakes, make wrong decisions in their lives and that don't define who they are. You survive, you move on and leave your past behind you.
He probably just found another one
That was interesting story ms. Curly good Job babe (Gio) great interview!
I feel sorry for her. At least she's still young and her past makes her to become a strong woman. Lesson learned I guess in life that before marrying someone, makes sure you know each other very well. Also, lesson for ALL foreigners who want to marry a Filipina. Please treat them nicely esp if they are honest with you. Don't just bring them to your country or marry them and treat them like a maid etc.
I remember a case, in the west where a guy in his mid 30s met a girl with young kids. Alla went well in the beginning, but the girl started semi naturally expecting that the would act as a father, getting food, picking them up and running general aerends. In the beginning it was fun, but later he felt more and more taken advantage of, and perhaps psychologically forced to do it. They separated in the end.
Hey Gio. Enjoyed the interview, it's good to hear the filipino views of expats...Do more interviews. My heart goes out to Curly... hang in there, Mr. right is out there looking for someone just like you.
Maybe another bar dancing housebreaker?
Her story made me very sad. She would laugh at times but I could hear tears in her laughter. Yes, she hoped for too much too soon. Yet, I feel sad for her Broken Heart.
It’s okay experience always lead us to be a better person. Nobody is perfect in this world when we Love we normally get hurt But at least we learned a lesson from it. There are many people in this world with different attitude and personality. To all Filipina out there, don’t be change from being a Good person to bad. Perhaps, be Good and observant at all Times. It always takes time to get the best. Choose wisely. Stay beautiful and nice. God bless
I'm glad that I found tour channel. Curly is a very good person. She has a big heart. She is honest, but does not want her honesty to come off as disrespecting her native men. I hope she finds an amazing man.
She deserves it.
Sounds like things got too serious too quickly and the guy chose not to communicate.
She climbs fence, locks herself in his room and calls him psycho. Hmmm. Great video and sweet girl.
She has been lied to so I understand why she did some weird stuff. But he is a ass we know that, Gio knows that the only one who doesn’t loved him. We be thinking it even though we didn’t say it, but I did and live in Texas and am not hard to find.
By western standards, that's a "psycho-ex", but most provincial Filipinas aren't equipped or expecting that kind of treatment when they think they are in a perfect situation. Especially when there were no answers or closure.
Western girls will (generally) just accept it without embarrassing themselves by hanging on, but that's what our culture has become. I'm not half as surprised as she seems embarrassed about what she did to get closure, but if she would have kept it up I'd be looking over my shoulder for Curly's brothers and uncles. ;-)
Judging by everything the guy did for her and her kid AFTER he ran, I'd assume that he knew he f*cked up and was trying to appease her while justifying his actions. You have to figure there were some mixed messages too... He ended up getting back with her for a short time and even tried (unsuccessfully) tried to re-establish the relationship. He seems to have left her a bit "wiser" and thankfully not with another kid. Could have been worse.
@@_Common_Logic_, I know some western girls that are the same way and worse.
Yes, she deserved an explanation and was totally within her rights to enter the house. After all, it was HER HOME too! He cowardly threw out her stuff while she was away. She had a job in town but suddenly was in the street. Did he even get her a hotel to stay in?
Nice interview Gio. She seemed a very genuine girl judging by her reactions but there's always two sides of the story. I'm not familiar with the disability ratings for US military but this also could have been a factor in his/her behaviour.
could have been?
Why’re they ALL from Cali?!?!? Anyway, I’m glad she still has her sense of humor and she speaks excellent English, in addition to being beautiful!!
She seems so nice. That guy probably had some serious issues. Hopefully she is doing well. Great interview
Wow she's a wonderful lady to get treated like at it's not write I think ...
I'm amazed she's smiling about it but on the other hand I think she's strong lady with children's
And a wonderful heart ....
My gosh! That was a very touching story. I feel so sorry for the poor girl. She seems like such a nice person.
Great job. That lady was really nice to share her story.
So sorry to hear your disaster Curly thank you for being brave enough to tell us. You are truly a diamond.
Poor girl not a way to treat a sweet person
@larueleroux Yep..I am amazed by how many white Knights uncritically accept any imbecility as long as it comes out of a woman's mouth.
I think this American made one mistake and that is getting back together with her for one week. He gave her money and lodging to move to a new place and did not throw her out with her child in the middle of the night. Overall, it was a good breakup.
but too sudden, and the deadbeat was still hanging around even though he said he was leaving. I wonder how many others he did this to?
Seriously - he's a loser! That was a terrible, disgusting and immature way to break-up! I feel sorry for you if you think that was good break-up. That doesn't speak well for you.
@larueleroux for your information im not a deadbeat and im not sitting in that bar for drink.. It's a sports bar dude.. Ya i worked 8 hrs a day bur5 before i went to work i clean the house, cook breakfast and do the laundries.. He is the one who insist to bring my kid in our house. Im not a whore dude.. Shame on you.. You don't know me at all tssk.
@@leolizaguarino1723 You go Girrrrl!
@@leolizaguarino1723 Just take it as lesson learned he had demons you did not know about move on an forward looking back not worth the effort.
It just sounds like a usual get involved too soon situation. Take it slow, ask lots of questions and don't believe everything he/she says.
Very true. This applies to every relationship around the world.
yeah, i am thinking after she said about the ptsd, that there was no way it could be stable relationship. that is a red flag to consider in looking for a stable partner... she is very cute, i would just give more thought in picking your next partner. I am sure he is out there !!!! I wish her the best, she has a good soul !!!!
What a lovely lady. Good sense of humour.
People sometimes make poor decisions. Seems like some questionable behavior on both sides. Better to bear a little tension associated with a break up than stay together and delay the inevitable. I hope they both move on and learn from their experience. I wish them well.
Very interesting interview Gio. I am shocked at how many comments are sympathizing with this guy. Clearly he must have issues and is likely genuinely suffering and may even be neglecting to take his medication - all speculation. However this sweet girl's only crime was to fall in love and show a little passion that anyone who has known true love and betrayal should readily understand.
Shes no blushing innocent dude.
And youre a pathetic white knight.
She was playing the game and she lost.
So what have you learned from this experience?
Next time I'll wait at least 4 months until I move in with a guy who has PTSD.
Is this the "other side" of the story we heard before?? That would be really funny. She said she was clinging to a bed, sounds familiar. His side of the story was quite different. But I do not know if this is the same story.
You deserve much better than him. You are still young. Who knows, one day you'll met the better one. Good luck
I knew her. She is my neighbor before in Valencia. His boyfriend is Nick. Nice interview Gio!
Wow, she is gorgeous!
Um no
Great interview Gio, Curly thanks for sharing and all the best for the future.
Climbed a fence and then locked herself in his house 😂😂😂😂 This guy got out at the right time
Curly needs to have a plan to qualify future boyfriends, so it wont hurt again. Good luck Curly
That was great Gio,,please do more interviews like that .thankyou.what an ass to be so deceptive..
Really nice Girl and a shame she got hurt so fast. Ya know you just never know what a person is like .Whether it is 1 day or 10 months, ya never know
Never never until couple live together. This is true in all relationship be it boyfriend girlfriend, husband wife, sisters, brothers etc. Seeing each other day and night...
Drama! Wow. The more I hear these stories the more I want to skip the dating scene. My goodness. Peace ✌️
@@Sclenow it really seems that way. from all the stories and from my own limited (very!) experience, filipinas have their jets set on warp speed ;)
That wasn't a disastrous relationship.
The guy could've communicated better about the breakup but he hardly mistreated the woman. He clearly didn't want a family imposed on him, but was too passive in making the fact clear.
Mr. Meaner, Esq wait a minute...could've communicated better is all you can say? He hardly mistreated the woman? When you pack someone's bags (especially a nice lady) and have the nerve to drop all of that crap off at her job.....THAT is MISTREATMENT!!!! Period. What decent man does that??? and you said he was too passive???? OMG - give me a break. He clearly mistreated her.
very good you were kind and considered,wih the young lady .
What about interviewing the guy & hear his side of the story?
Nice lady...hope things improve for her!
That's too bad what happened. When you hear her side you want to hear what the guy has to say.
whats to hear he found out what a bar girl is and thought i don't want to be living with a prostitute and moved on
I can see Curly is a god, honest , traightforward woman who did not deserve to be treated like that by anyone. She is better off without him and hopefully one day find a man whois truly worthy of her. Good luck Curley!
So sorry we are not all like that i am engaged to filipina i could never play with someone heart she deserves a real man not a game player god bless you Curly
Its really a disaster, miss curly!
He's not the right man for you.
Your young and sweet and honest!
Theres a good, kind guy for you,in the right time.
I really loved it when she said "Filipinos are sperm donors". I've been in the Philippines often enough to know that that is true. But I don't think it is gender related, because I know a lot of Filipinas who are sperm banks. And before anyone says something: no, they are not all the same. But, boy, I know many!
Hmmmm.....you know many! I wonder what that says!?
I think that he did not realize what it means to be like nanny taking care of other guys kids. 30 years old men are still young and unaware. I woke up up after 50. Women move in because they think that its practical, men requests that they move in because of love. This is a fact to which ever country you live in.
It never feels good to be betrayed! It hurts and we want to take the pain out on anything around us. It does get better when we learn there are good people who would cherish your feeling. The problem is getting from the pain to glory! Not everyone makes it
Sorry she endures that and hopefully she won’t judge all expats the same. Finding love is often a chore so just let it come to you. Good luck.
I prepare to have a matured older foreigner man.
If I was the girl I would never ask why he leaves me it’s understandable I don’t like to feel like I am a pathetic woman when he wants to leave then let him go. Atleast when I was with him I did
my best to be a perfect gf/wife and I don’t have regrets
I am sure you will find the right guy soon.
This really ticks me off. I've met way to many Vets who use P.T.S.D. as an excuse to act like premadona A holes. I've served in the U.S. Army. I've been blown up. Spent nearly a year in the hospital getting shrapnel picked out of me, healing and learning how to walk again. I have P.T.S.D. and have a disability rating as well. I CHOOSE not to use it as a crutch. I understand my moods, how to react to them and don't use it as an excuse to elicit sympathy or to treat people poorly. My girlfriend knows and understands me because I have been open and honest about it from the start. She trusts me with her two kids because she knows my true character. I'm very transparent about myself and the things I've done. This man in my opinion just plain lacks a spine and moral courage to end the relationship civilly instead of just ghosting her. If he had, maybe she wouldn't be climbing fences or locking herself in bedrooms just to get an answer. Ghosting someone without an explanation makes them feel like they're less than or emotionally defective when in fact it was he who is defective. He as well as perverts and sexpats are the types who makes the rest of us honestly seeking a long term relationship look bad.
It is not going to be easy contemplating the responsibilities of a relationship, your emotions, the other opportunities, your possible exit strategy, your own mental frailties, when you accept that the person you are trying to be with could be, with a pure heart, emptying it out on an interview on CZcams to another exapt. No wonder some guys just don't wanna deal with it. She is honest, but the whole things is brutal. I don't blame the guy, it's hard.
She is beautiful and has a kind soul. She smiles and laughs to hide her pain. If she is patient, she will find a like minded man who will sweep her and her children off there feet.
Just too bad s I can tell she is a doll her smiles and laugh's alone tells alot it happens on both sides it's never a easy
Why would a 33yr old man want to settle down with a woman with 2 kids. He just realised that he settled right away and then saw that he had better options. Only thing is the guy didnt have the courage to break it off with her like a man. Hopefully the guy learnt a lesson and can also look for better looking women with no kids. After all a young man in the Philippines will be many girls dream (not a grampa looking to reboot his life)
Sad story but there is always the other side of the coin. Can’t make a judgment without hearing his side of the story. When a women says she jumped the fence and locked herself in the master bedroom means there were some craziness on the relationship.
Great interview and hosting skill. Perfect material for drama anthology.
The best reaction when he tells you he has PSD is to RUN.....
Excellent interview Gio. You asked the pertinent questions to help her tell her story, without getting in the way of what she had to say. Great job!
I don’t see the tragedy in this video.
Two people shacked up together, and it didn’t work out.
A good title would’ve been, “when knuckleheads collide”
I can really relate to this story. I went on a weekend business trip and Sunday evening when I returned home my wife had changed the locks and moved me out of the house. Needless to say that marriage ended soon after. How do you spell relief? DIVORCE.
Thank you curly for sharing your experience,.maybe next time you will find the right one
Curly was great, Gio. Sorry for her
I hope it works out for her. Yhank you
For your info of the Philippines
Hey I used to live in Bacolod Barangay Villamonte for 6 years, sorry to hear the plight of that lady, it was a one way romance from her part, she fell in love and moved in with him too quickly and the guy realised he wasn't ready to take responsibility of supporting her kids even though he made her believe that he didn't mind that she had two kids , I feel sorry for the kids too, first they meet someone who shower them with gifts and the like,. and now nothing, they must be disappointed even at a young age. He may have come to another conclusion that ok she's a bar girl so there's a certain stigma attached, he was just playing the field to date as many Filipinas as he can, that's why he left her but didn't leave Dumaguete even if there's lots of expats living there and the surrounding areas, he will still stand out like a sore thumb, plus Filipinas are well connected so they'll just broadcast it if they see him around town, the moral of the story should be "' nowhere to run nowhere to hide"
I’m pretty sure the guy would have a little bit different story. Bottom line is, he found himself playing Mr. mom raising a kid or two, while she went to work. I’m sure that’s not what he signed up for. Who would want that? I’m sure the guy tried to break up with her nicely, and she wouldn’t take it. So he moved her out and gave her money, then she climbed the fence and locked her self in his room. That is super psycho behavior. So he hung around for a week until he could plan his escape, probably went and rented another place got himself set up, and just pieced out. Sounds to me like she left him no choice and she was crazy psycho. Doesn’t sound like too bad of a guy to me, he rented a place for her and left her money. Not like he left her high and dry
If that’s not what he signed up for, man up no tell her.
Nice woman , deserves better .
I feel so sad that this happened to her.
Thanks for bringing us that story Gio. We have all heard the stories about Filipinas looking for the golden ticket. We often overlook that many Filipinas are taking advantage of as well and for some foreigners relationships are nothing more than leases and they have no trouble trading in the new model for the old one which in and by itself is not necessarily despicable, as long as there is full disclosure and no false promises are made from the outset. Not many Filipinas will go for that obviously, and so they are being deceived. Not saying that describes the manchild from California. Maybe the responsibility of taking on two kids wasn't for him. Apparently he went into this much less seriously than she did and on the upside she only wasted a few months with the wrong guy. Whatever his reasons, he should have manned up and finished what he couldn't continue like a standup guy, not like a coward. Very sorry this happened to this sweet girl.
You said it perfectly
opposite is true too, a lot of young chicks hook up with much older men often caring and helping to her and the family,, once they get used to him, take him for granted, then abuse begins from her to him, even physical assault because she knows he cant hit her or defend himself well, especially if she is very pretty... a lot of female predators(financially) in Dumaguete.. stupid as as a brick but smart in mind control(emotional control) he is old and and away from home
The 33 year old American with money probably realized he easily could get a ”hotter”, younger girlfriend without kids in the Philippines and wanted to move on, just as he would have done home in the US.
He probably found out that they are more serious about relationships there and wanted to get away easily.
She doesn’t say how long time he’s been in the Philippines, but it seems he was new and learned more about the country and his value there.
There is "her" story, then there is "his" story. And the truth lies somewhere in the middle. But I'm noticing alot of you "white knights" commenting and it makes me laugh at you. 🤣 He got what he wanted, and she got what she wanted. But both parties made mistakes, and it wasn't meant to last forever. Learn from it and move on.
of course my father is Filipino my relatives are Filipino but it is always better to stay with a foreigner, even if he is a liar, because in any case it is he who pays the rent and the expenses!
i wish her the best and be safe
Good luck Curly you deserve a lot better 👍👍
Always TWO sides of a story. He is a Vet. I cut him a lot of slack
i think she should get an older man next time. this ex of hers suffers from PSTD..a walking time bomb.hope the next guy works out.more mature man....
Her name is Curly...not because she is left-handed. 😄 Every person has a right to be happy.
Nothing good can come up when you pick up girls from bars, just saying.