Simp Pays For His "Step Daughter" College, Car & She Still Wants Her Dad To Walk Her Down The Isle
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
- Fellas there are levels to what you give a woman. The wife gets unrestricted access. The girlfriend has restricted access but the simp in the video didn't get the memo.
That's why I REFUSE to be a Stepdad EVER again 💯
Exactly
Facts!!! Never again!
Ditto
I can feel ya on that 👌🏾💯🎯👍🏾💯
That's a fact high 5 to that...✋🏿
The girlfriend was probably still kicking it with the real dad!😂
Facts
I willing to bet 💯 she is
They always do no matter how much she claims that the guy is not there to take care of the kid/kids.
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He always has access to her.
It was a skits.
Kicking it or dicking it
Men, MAKE YOUR OWN FAMILY. There's a college graduation EVERY SUMMER.
We going to the junior college
-cga
And I opp
Or get that passport.
He deserves everything he got.
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I can't clown the man for being a benevolent person, but the mother and daughter is definitely taking advantage of him.
He not benevolent. A benevolent person wouldn’t come complaining on the internet
@@kxo1038 he is a very benevolent person because they started taking him for granted, so of course he's going to complain. Just reading that comment tells me a lot about your character.
@@princelee3738
All you can tell is that I have a higher standard for benevolence
@@kxo1038 😒
@Prince Lee I love how the west think that everyone should think alike...great point bro
KS said being a stepdaddy is a thankless job, a next man is paying for a crime he did not commit by taking on another mans children and financial responsibility
I agree with him! 100%
Pretty much
Facts
Fellas, you can no longer blame single mums. Most men know the pattern of these types (not all, more than enough though).
Poor choices -> epiphany -> jesus -> hardworking step dummy without standards that wants access to their bodies!!!
At this point, Black men are just willing suckers!! There's more than enough information out there about this.
Preach 👈 🤣
I bet that woman is WELL maintained! Her hair, nails and body on point! I really feel sorry for his girlfriend's fiancé. If that fool marries that woman, he too will be crying and heading to divorce court, missing half his stuff and having Red Pill Rage. If his father is a smart man, he will tell his son to RUN!
Step dummy 😆
Brothas have had to many warning by now...I wonder if Boyce called this out at all since he suggest that BM be step fathers or "they dont love black children, community"
He went above and beyond for his girlfriend’s daughter. After everything that he’s done for her daughter, his girlfriend is just as disrespectful as her daughter when she can’t see to it that his 20 friends are on the invite list. I would be done with them both immediately. Since he’s being treated like gum under their shoes, he’s still single and should move towards living his best life without them.
We are only getting his side of the story.
I follow his channel, he has like two wives or something 😂
@Sour Diesel, exactly 💯. That's what you get when you live in sin.
@@Dawn191 Preach Message
What's his channel?
BM need to stop acting like a stepdad to a used up BW who doesn't give af about you. Your temporary thing until her baby daddy comes back from jail or something.
Until her baby daddy comes back from jail? Wow 😮 😂
Damn harsh but accurate
@@jaymorgan. Facts💯
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@@jaymorgan. This is why I don't waste time with these modern women.
Could never be me. 🤦🏾♂️
But shout out to him for not marrying her. It would suck for him to get divorced and then lose half his stuff.
Word
This WHY I Date Females. With no Kids I be SO Happy
Look around there are so many single men and women living separate places do you ever asked why we jumped too quickly into affairs and not evaluating who we are trusting into our lives just because of sexual pleasures
I'm young and have dated older women with children and adult children. Let me tell you, these women will use you for their children and family. They will treat you like you're nobody. Have self-respect and leave. Get with good women around your age without children.
Even if you are an older man without kids, you can get a younger woman without kids.
That's hard to find these days.
Thats easier said than done. Most older women have children. Better yet get ya passport 🛫
@DragonBloodTV wasn't opposed to that, that's also a great option.
@@q.t.9819 I’m in my 30s with no kids. Would never date a woman my age seriously.
I won't ever be a step dad.
I'm not going to be a step moma to kids under 19yo.
@@ms.meangood9718 That is understandable. Problem is there are more single mothers than single fathers out there.
@@TruFilmProductions idc about who is worse than the other, I'm not going to be a step moma to someone else's problems. Under 19 I'll pass.
@@ms.meangood9718 Can’t blame you. Men are doing the same. Thanks to no fault divorce there will be a lot of broken families that no one wants to be a stepdad or stepmom to.
Me neither.Step dads get stepped on,disrespected and ignored by his make-ready family.Then you have to deal with the actual father of his kids you're helping raise,not for me. LOL.
I really feel sorry for this man. Those two women are parasites. I was a stepfather once and all it means is that you get stepped on and stepped over.
You are a REPENTANT SIMP.
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Nope. He ignored all the signs. Now he here. This is a lesson served Cold.
And then she'll step out on you.
I don’t,he brought it on himself,u have to b smart ,protect ur self & establish the respect lines early
Leave single mothers alone, best advice my pops ever gave me
Except if you already have children yourself.
My Dad told me the same and he said it was from experience.
Lesson here, "Don't be a stepfather or a simp"!!!
there is no way i would put this out on social media
I'm glad he finally got some self respect at the end but it took to long.
He graduated from the Steve Harvey school for Simps😂😂😂
With Honor's 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
@@samueledward5078 😭😭😭😭😭😭
🤣..the dude in the video name is Wesley Kevin and he has a CZcams page..he presents these scenarios all the time in his channel..this dude definitely ain't no simp..he has two wives and multiple children with the first..I've seen mad CZcamsrs get caught reporting on this🤣..he does these scenarios all the time because they happen in the real world..the channel is "Kevin Wesley the truth factory"
If this is true then he got me ! I believed 🤷🏾♂️
I hope no one has done that for real
I grew up with him and his brother
The situation is real he's just reenacting it lol. They crushing Kevin like he's the actual simp lol. That man has 2 wives
Sounds like a SIMP TOO ME!!
I wouldnt even be proud enough to state this publicly that I got played by a baby mama lmao
Lol you can tell he honestly didn't know he should've been embarrassed. It'll hit him in about a year, but then it'll be on the internet forever 😢
I'm glad he did tho, maybe there's dudes who were thinking about dating a single mom & this could be the story to wake them up
💯😂🤣😭facts
@@Brothapocalypse 😂
@@504gucci4 I hear you but people spend a lot of time being on the internet taking in information but don’t apply it due to information being at everyone’s disposal in this Information age, you have a lot of men that will watch these videos and still go and make these mistakes because in reality when they get in these situations themselves they react differently, the best teacher in life is experience.
This dude gets what he deserves. The fact he still threw the party for them is a joke.
Biggest simp of 2023
@@emperorcesar8208 😂😂😂
Look up the word joke I guarantee his name pops up . What a DWEEB!!!!!!!!
I hope he wasn't trying to buy the daughter too. He loves more than just one woman at a time.😂
You have a point there. But his efforts will be redemptive. He did it with sincerity, the universe will pay him back.
He's a caring stepsimp man
He found out the hard way
He wasn’t even a stepdad, he was a boyfriend which is a bigger type of simp
"they saw you as a sucker and licked it" - I love it, Phil!
The real question is, did he leave like he said he would?
@@tommygunn2782no fucking way...
Exactly!!!
Yea he left her
I hope he did
He is gonna end up in the same situation
I'm learning from so many others to never sign up for that job. You'll just end up being the ATM with no thank yous involved. Russell Wilson raising Futures kid and Cierra on the Red Carpet half naked, twerking on IG, and making songs about her not needing a man. You can't make this stuff up
LOL ☺
Facts!!!
Obama was raised by a step dad from a boy till he got to Columbia University. Nobody even knows that man’s name….
Ciara still loves future. Russell is will smith, future is Tupac, Ciara is Jada Pinkett.
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There's difference between help the single mother out and getting involved with single mother
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Help em out with some D & a lil weed and probably some drank.
@@marvin469 😂😂😂 dam
A similar thing happened to a simp coworker who paid $100,000 for his step daughters university education.
There's no honor in being a step parent!😂😂😂😂
I had a co-worker like this . And he was crying too. Never dated a woman with kids. That's the father job to take care of their children
That’s Kevin Wesley, he’s a content creator himself. I saw the full video of this and think he was creating a scenario. This man has two wives, I think, he’s lives the polygamist lifestyle
I knew he looked familiar.
Yea that brother solid he would never let this happen to him
He’s repeating someone else’s story I can’t believe people don’t do the research
Right I said the same thing he has two wives
😂😂 right, something sounded wrong to me so I did check it out.
And like I said before, there's real men good enough to be real husbands and dads, there's real women good enough to be real wives and mothers.
What you seek you get, don't go to crying now !!!!
But Wesley's getting lots of views, I give him that. 😊
Wait! He paid for his step daughter wedding before paying for his own wedding
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He shouldn’t pay for the wedding he is right not paying for the wedding go bro I don’t blame you.💕🦊
This dude should've known better
Never take care of Pookie and ray rays bastard kids.
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Fact😂
You are a REPENTANT SIMP.
He is not a simp he is a DAMN good man that was taken advantage of PERIOD!!
True; for some reason when someone mis-calculates and encounters misfortune in a relationship, some people kick him when he's down instead of encouraging him.
That's the meaning of a simp.Thus he was a simp
It's because boys now days can't measure up to a good man, so they call them simps. Now, this man really did get played and he should have never been doing all that for the girlfriend or kids. I would never play stepmom to anyone's brats, sorry but I'm too good for a step mom role.
@@teecharee6069you wouldn’t know a good man if one was in your face.
@teecharee6069 you aint playing no step role but he a good man so you dont wanna be considered a good woman.
To Phillip Scott:
The simp father gets humiliated by not receiving praise from the step daughter. And the deadbeat dad who never did anything for her gets all the praise and admiration.
The dad's nut gave her life, the stepdad only put clothes on her.
I love when people love they family irregardless of capitalism
@@kxo1038 You mean that you love it when a father escapes his responsibilities by allowing another man to make all the expenses for him and by leaving the house to avoid taking care of his kids. And then come back many years later when the kid is now an adult and there are no expenses or responsibilities to take care of the child anymore because the child is now an adult and can get a job to take care of her or himself. This is a lazy and deadbeat dad tactic, and you should be ashamed to support this.
But why is the goal praise? SMH. This is how this dude got licked - looking for praise.
There’s a saying no risk, no reward. In this case, that didn’t apply. He didn’t risk anything and got all the reward.
Being a step-father may be the most thankless job in society.....Knowmatter the situation 9× out of 10 unless the man has raised the child from infant/ toddler stage it's going to end up a terribly frustrating headache that smart men would rather avoid at all cost.
10 years of getting a husband benefits by just being a boyfriend. 🤷♀️
He did set himself up tho..
You mean giving husband benefits
Ofcourse she didn't ask for child support. Thats what she got you for 😔
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He simp-ly got played . Brothers , protect your seed and your wallet .
Such a simpleton
I’m a step-father of two teenage boys, my finances only go to my biological son and “MY”household. Everything else is on her and their father.
Facts bro. 2 step kids. We brought a house a it’s willed to our kids not the steps.
I call CAP. Your finances go to them as well. Period. You can front all you want but you PAY for them. Now there are levels of your finances going to them BUT they are going in some levels.
@@jrock7561 if that's what you tell yourself to feel better. But that rent and utilities you paying is for the step kids. Now if you want just dating her an had your spot with our her and her kids it be the way you just commented.
Yeah right you gotta have extra bedrooms right extra food who pays for that
HaHa! Some of you people are funny. Reading is fundamental! I did say my household. I was paying my mortgage & utilities before they moved in, but their mom takes care of the groceries.
Makes total sense. The better he treated the Mama and the "Step Daughter" the less RESPECT they had for him.
Some Black women only act right if you treat them like shyt.
@resourceNetworkSystem that's true. when u treat them harshly they treat u like a king!!!!!!!!
Facts!!!
They did this brotha dirty. Women love it when a man treat them bad. They can go have their little "girls night out" so that they can talk SCHITT about men while drinking wine!!!
@@MADNEWYORKER914 lmao 🤣 that part 👈
All you idiots are 🤡🤡🤡
If she wants her real father to walk her down the isle, then her real father should pay for the wedding.
Thank you Phil, for showing us this. It'll definitely help the future young men who watch!
Don't box yourself into a corner like this Guy, This Guy is in the suckers corner and can't get out!!
It's a scenario - the guy is acting out what some men do and what happens in some families.
I Don't Feel Bad For Him AT All
And his girl is still screwing her ex. Dummy.
Me too!!! Never feel bad for $imp$ 🤣🤣
Simps are dangerous and weird they killed the dating game. I don’t feel sorry for them.
Zero Simp”athy!
@@YHWHWILLBEDONE 😂😂😂
You have a good heart brother, you are too good for her
Still feel bad for the guy. Just so sad he was reduced to a bag.
I fully support this guy's side. Not a father myself and have more common sense than most "parents" ever could. The mother and daughter are completely in the wrong.
And I would have withdrew my checkbook. Let the real dad pay for this wedding. U can’t tell me the girlfriend still ain’t sleeping with the dad.
Actually, I feel sorry for the brother because he was asleep. I’m glad that he woke up
Nah but this the brother who be giving relationship advice. He in a poly relationship too. Well was I guess. I have no sympathy for him. How u go 10 yrs and not know these ppl wasn't on your team?
@@AB1B1 He’s still in a poly relationship. This is actually not his situation. He did a reaction video on the actual person who told this story.
@@thepeopleschampion2088 I never put too much stock in these influencers. I can never tell whose intentions are sincere
If he was awake he'd break up with the woman.
NOPE. NO SYMPATHY FOR SUCKER'S. He made this bed. His fault.
This seems like a decent brother so we should refrain from using these derogatory names like "Simp." Unless he's doing his Derrick Jaxn thing and telling the rest of us we should do this. Now I agree, doing all this for a girlfriend and her daughter is way too much! If you have those resources, you can just as well provide for a women without kids or one that will have your kids. There is no shortage of women out here for a brother with resources, it's picking the right ones.
Thank you. I felt this brother's pain. This is a decent man!
We’ll refer to him by his title…. Sucker ✌🏾
Naw he's a simp bruh
A simp is a simp. I feel sorry for him!!!
I agree. There's not a one simp size fits all. This guy just got his red pill moment. The matriarchal matrix in the west is a helluva drug
I don't personally care nothing about that step dad crap or husband stuff but I am proud he decided to pull all his resources from her and her daughter 👍
I’m sure he didn’t either 😂🤡
@@thirteendayz I was thinking the same thing. He can come up on social media and talk all that yin yang but notice he didn't make a video of him kicking the "users" out.
This is that "men gotta step up" upbringing. Why he ignores the red flags.
Phil's words are correct.
Dude lost his man card for that one...
Project Pat said, and J Cole reiterated, "Don't save them they don't wanna be save"
you never take care of kids that are not YOURS when their dad is alive & well. you will feel like a sucker or damn fool, never appreciated, respected , or accepted.
It’s not about being a step-father. This entire thing is about an ungrateful woman and I don’t know why this is surprising to him. They were disrespecting this man way before the wedding planning. He stayed around and allowed it. They aren’t doing anything he hasn’t always allowed them to do 😢
This is the truth. You can give your all to a woman, and nothing is owed to be reciprocated.
Wouldn't be surprised if Momma is still messing with Daddy behind your back Bruh. Drop all of them. You've donated enough. It's better to learn the hard way than to not learn at all.
$40,000 plus a car for a child that ain't yours. Nah OG. You capping.
This is beyond no respect. This is a clear sign he's just an ATM. This woman and her daughter are ingrates.
He’s a damn fool with no self respect. At his age he should be able to peep this kind of stuff a mile away. You especially should know better than to put your bread up like that. I’ve seen people make moves like this even when their paper isn’t straight enough for all that without hurting them.
Never be a step dummy I mean step father. It’s feminine and weak being a step dad. Say NO to single mothers.
No one can take advantage of you unless you let them!
That guy is not a simp he is re acting a story. His name is Kevin Wesley
It goes to show no matter if you take care of your kids or not…no matter if you are the stepfather taking care or not, you will still be blamed.
She was messing w/ that other guy the whole time. Been there and I am a stepdad again but I am not as involved.
She's still messing with the father, and all three are getting over on his dime.
I raised my step daughter from seven years old. She's now twenty eight. She hasn't called me in six years.
She says she has daddy issues, abandoned by men.
Brothers don't waste your time and resources
Damn like u don't even cross her mind
My stepdad was great. We were very close. When he’s was dying in the hospital, I dropped everything and was in his room every day. The day he died I was there to tell him again, how much I loved him.
I was always adverse to the idea of being a step-father, and examples like this is why.
The step-simp😂😂😂
My advice to men: never be a stepfather
Why does he have to be a simp?? SMDH!!! The girlfriend and her daugther played themselves for not honoring and respecting his feelings.
Karma will will manifest for mother and daughter’s actions.
At lease he learned his lesson
My man just turned and told all the simps: “hold my beer” 🤣😅😂
Take back the car.
facts
Too petty.
It's not a gift if you expect something in return. A car is supposed to purchase another man's child?
@@bford5899 That is not petty.
@@bford5899shut up simp
Does it occur to you that this woman, your girlfriend, is MENTALLY UNSTABLE ?
Her daughter is a carbon copy of the mother.
We've been saying for a while to never date a single mother.
NO SHACKIN UP! Absolutely! That’s my rule brother Phil
You’re Right Phillip. This Dude got used and Played.
That’s why my relationship with woman with kids never work out. It’s not my job to play step daddy. Not my blood and not my responsibility. FACTS!
Bottom line he got rob, he played himself no man that has a girlfriend is not paying $40,000 and not pay for a wedding. He needs to pack his bags and leave and start over!
Exactly
I would have canceled the whole event and dropped the mom and her daughter right then and there. CANCELED EVERYTHING PERMANENTLY!
He is mucho slow 🐌 🙄
40k on her college, bought her a car, and paying for wedding while being treated like 💩🤦🏽♂️
On a positive note at least he took away his financial support and got rid of all of them.
STOP PAYMENTS!!
He gets no SIMPathy...he actually deserves it
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I feel sorry for this man. But as I was told in my younger years "fools are born everyday". He needs to breakup with that female who he's allegedly in a "relationship" with.
Your girlfriend is sleeping with the father of this girl, wow,
This Man has every right to feel hurt, he should be working on a new relationship or take some time to heal his heart🌻🌻
If I'm not mistaken he is in a polygamist relationship
I feel sorry for this man. He has been used and no one deserves to be used that way. He is selfless and they arw sellfish. I wish him the best and I hope this doesn't sour him the other woman he will get with. He is right to back out. Let them find somewhere else to have this wedding.
I work with guys like this. Lame AF!! Man, this why I roll solo today. I don’t have many friends anymore. Brothers today are pathetic…..
Let me tell you whats going on, they daughter want the help and resources of the step father, to get her father back with her mother. And the mother is see this is and ok with it. Get rid of all of them brother.
And the mom is still screwing her ex.
I'll never play stepdaddy. Left a lot of women because they turned out to be single moms.
I was a step father , that ish is so awkward .. I vow to never date a woman with a kid ..
No question: His own fault...Weak as hell!
Dislike woman like this. But I must say, I would leave in a heart beat.
This why I never dated women with kids!