Marry 4 Wives? - She Finally Agrees!
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- "Does Islamic Polygamy Make Sense? This Mexican Lady Thinks So" - an intriguing exploration of the Islamic practice of polygamy.
In this enlightening discussion, we dive deep into the topic of polygamy in Islam, demystifying the misconceptions and shining a light on its essence. Listen as a curious Mexican lady begins her journey with skepticism, only to find a sense of understanding and agreement with Islamic polygamy.
Discover the logic of Islam allowing men to marry multiple women and learn why this Mexican woman thinks it makes sense. The video focuses on Islamic marital laws, the reasoning behind them, and how they aim to protect societal structure and stability. Our Mexican friend's shift from doubt to acceptance offers a fresh perspective on this often misunderstood aspect of Islam.
Prepare to challenge your preconceived notions as you embark on this educational journey. Whether you are interested in Islam, curious about polygamy, or looking for an engaging discussion on cultural practices, this video provides a thoughtful analysis on Islamic polygamy.
Join us for an enlightening dialogue that is sure to provoke thought, stimulate discussion, and maybe even challenge your own views on polygamy in Islam.
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Keywords: Islamic Polygamy, Mexican Lady, Understanding, Acceptance, Cultural Practices, Marital Laws, Islam.
Translated titles:
الزواج من 4 زوجات؟-وافقت أخيرا!
৪ জন স্ত্রীকে বিয়ে করবেন?-সে অবশেষে র
Menikahi 4 Istri?-Dia Akhirnya Setuju!
Kahwin 4 Isteri?-Dia Akhirnya Setuju!
4 ਪਤਨੀਆਂ ਨਾਲ ਵਿਆਹ ਕਰੋ?-ਉਹ ਅੰਤ ਵਿੱਚ ਸਹਿਮਤ
4 kadınla evlenmek mi?-Sonunda Kabul Ediyor!
4 بیویوں سے شادی کریں؟-وہ آخرکار راضی ہے!
4 Frauen heiraten?-Sie stimmt endlich zu!
épouser 4 femmes ?-Elle accepte enfin !
4 पत्नियों से शादी?-वह अंत में सहमत हैं!
Sabeel you are doing a great service to Islam
@@user-ut2pn8sj5dআপনি একটি ঘৃণ্য নামের সাথে নোংরা শুয়োর দেখতে পছন্দ না হলে গোবর খান
Not to islam its for man kind
Right
@@user-ut2pn8sj5d 🐄🔪🍽😋
although it is allowed, polygamy is not something common in Islam. statistically less than one percent of Muslims worldwide practice it because Islam demands very strict conditions for a husband to be fair and just between his wives
Another reason it isn't common is because women have very good reasons to be dissatisfied with such an arrangement, and men have reached the very correct conclusion that it would be immoral to try and persuade a woman to put up with such an arrangement for religious reasons.
@@mmmcounts in my country my uncles have 2 - 3 wives, so basically it is that there is so much women but they are unmarried because the men are already married so the women that are left are sad and there is not much men left, so islam kinda put justice to it. My uncles married 1 or 2 more because of this and the women are widows just like our prophet pbhu married women that were widows, that can’t support themself.
@H - A In my country Pride month is being celebrated in a major way. The vast majority of the gay, lesbian, bi, and trans people are not married and let's say, for the sake of example, that partnering with someone outside of the hetero norm makes them happy in some ways some of the time.
The point is, do you see how cultural norms have no bearing on the morality of a practice? Is that obvious to you? Okay, let's take the thought experiment one step further. Suppose Islam, via the Quran and the Sunnah, made some type of allowance for gay partnerships such that Islam "brings justice" to it. Would that make it acceptable to you?
I'm trying to find out the extent to which you can reason things out for yourself, and how much you'll go along with whatever you're led into no matter what it is.
@mmmcounts it's not up to us what is acceptable to us. This is how you ended up with so many genders in the first place. It's creator who knows what is best for his creatures. Creator sends messengers with guidelines for us to follow. Let me explain it this way. When you buy brand new Toyota, it comes with a handbook from the manufacturer. And if you want to take care of your car well you follow that guidelines. You are free not to follow it, but if you follow it and follow it better, longer your car last. Manufacturer knows what is best and how to maintain it both short and long term. Same applies where creator knows what is best for us. Islam forbids everything is harmful for humans such as smoking, drugs, alcohol, gamling, lottery, adultry, stealing, etc. Eat healthy, Be nice, etc. Few examples. Islam is not just a religon but a way of life.
Those type of example you brought up(rainbow people) , in small scale they don't do much harm, but if you don't prevent them, in a mass scale they will destroy the entire nation. Another reason it's forbidden. Have a nice day.
@@mmmcounts It baffles me how you people don't understand that your LGBTQ policies are gonna get the paedophiles out there to "fight for their rights". They already call themselves 'minor attracted persons'. Wonder where it'll lead.
*_Notice How he Is LOWERING HIS GAZE!! ... MASHA'ALLAH Mr.SABEEL !_* ❤
oh yes how amazing ,.. how he doesn't tell her that his husband can also do mutta ,...
So you even save people from prostitution,... very interesting My guess is you forgot allah allows prostitution and pimping in islam ,.. did you gorget???
verse 24:33
@ francescocosentini9264 keep hating while Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world despite all western propaganda against it
The way Dr Sabeel convey the message is so beautiful and gentle mashallah its very easy to understand for other people.
Exactly 👍
It’s but some people don’t want to hear the way she’s and understand
@@abdinour8606like what ALLAH said in the Quran, Brother 🙏
*And when Our revelations are recited unto them, thou knowest the denial in the faces of those who disbelieve; they all but attack those who recite Our revelations unto them. Say: Shall I proclaim unto you worse than that? The Fire! ALLAH hath promised it for those who disbelieve. A hapless journey’s end! (Surah Al Hajj verse 72).*
Peace upon you and your group working for Islamic may Allah bless you
@@user-ut2pn8sj5d কি সমস্যা?
Sabeel ahmad is real Allah, Zakir Naik is fake
*Islam makes sense is a fact.* Though, not all people are sincere in acknowledging the Truth. Only with a sincere heart and a sound reasoning one can see the Truth through Allah's Guidance.
*May Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala guide this woman, her husband and all those who don't shut their ears, their eyes, their brains and their hearts to be GUIDED. Ameen*
Aameen Yaa ALLAH.... Yaa Mujiibas Sailiin...🤲🤲🤲
Amin ya Rabb
Islam makes sense , so keeping female sex slaves makes sense, MühamMãd had female sex slaves , it makes sense ???
@Moroccan arrows
جزاک اللہ خیر۔
bro,
you are very right, sincerity for self and than for others, Islam doesn't need any cultural interpretations. majority people practice culture in the name of Islam.
So you even save people from prostitution,... very interesting My guess is you forgot allah allows prostitution and pimping in islam ,.. did you gorget???
verse 24:33
Islam is Rational,logical.... as well as the way of life. There is no Space for confusion,darkness....Every Question has an Logical Answer here.
Good bless u bro.Keep spreading the Ultimate truth
The way ustad Sabeel speaks is so humble 🤗. We love you ustad Sabeel for the sake of Allah!
This channel deserves millions of subs.
Thank you, *Dr. Sabeel Ahmed* ♥️♥️♥️♥️
جزاكم الله خيرا • بارك الله فيكم ♥️
You are doing a great work brother ❤. Love you
Finally you are doing good job
Thank you bro Sabeel
InsyaaAllah never miss to like your vid Bro Sabeel. Barakallahufik for your dakwah.
Masyaallah, beautiful explanation Dr.Sabeel. May Allah SWT bless you and your family.
I am so glad i found you on youtube! Absolutely love how you broke it down simply, may Allah bless you dear brother ❤
fantastic explanation
Very nice Discuss about Marry
Good dear.. well explained
Polygyny solves the problem of having more women than men in the world.
It also solves the problem of a man with overwhelming sexual energy
Are Muslim men oversexed and women undersexed. Why do Muslim men need 72 virgins after death. In all other religions the soul rests in peace in heaven. Why is Islam so much obsessed for sex for men and so little sex for women. Can someone answer these questions logically. The only answer I have received is that it has been decided by Allah and his decision cannot be challanged
Really So you even save people from prostitution,... very interesting My guess is you forgot allah allows prostitution and pimping in islam ,.. did you gorget???
verse 24:33
But what about a woman having overwhelming sexual energy??
@@HumanBeing-jj3mc a solution for that. She can have overwhelming sex with her husband
@@HumanBeing-jj3mc That can be satisfied with One Husband!
I love your softspoken nature dr. Masha Allah. Btw dr, i think it would be great if u take some of the hadith and sirah that happen during the life of the prophet Muhammad SAW related to these common issues. It would be good also to the new muslims, or a muslim who want to listen to you. May Allah bless you, your team, and families
Jazaakallahu kheyraa Dr Sabeel Ahmed
Thanks all of you.
May Allah reward you for what you're doing
Are Muslim men oversexed and women undersexed. Why do Muslim men need 72 virgins after death. In all other religions the soul rests in peace in heaven. Why is Islam so much obsessed for sex for men and so little sex for women. Can someone answer these questions logically. The only answer I have received is that it has been decided by Allah and his decision cannot be challanged
Thank you
Mashallah Bhai Good Job .well presented to the point
Beautiful explanation Masyallah ..May Allah SWT grants Dr Sabeel and team Jannah Ameen Much 💙❄️
Assalamulaikum bro Sabeel, full success.
May Allah bless you Sabeel
Masha'Allah.
Peace & greetings to all peaceful folks
Dr.Sabeel , you are good Doctor to soul as well
Thank you So much for your responbileness, May Allah give you more Knowledge and strength to spread peace, Ameen
Go ahead brother.
Good job
Well explained, MashaALLAH.
So you even save people from prostitution,... very interesting My guess is you forgot allah allows prostitution and pimping in islam ,.. did you gorget???
verse 24:33
Mashallah
May Allah bless you and protect you
Masha allah brother explained very well
Outstanding
MasaAllah sir
You speech of dawah is awesome
sabeel you are doing a great seevice to islam
Proud on you.
Alhamdulillah.... Congratulation to you bro!
In this age of rampant Islamophobia, a non-muslim coming in with no prior bias and with pure intentions of understanding the truth, is rare. I congratulate this lady for achieving one step towards the truth that is Islam. This is the kind of attitude that most likely takes one to hidayah.
Masha Allah Sabeel brother, he never looked at the lady and answered all the questions.. brilliant bro.... thats the ethics a man is supposed to have!! Salle Aala Muhammadi wa ala Muslimeen
Dr Sabeel is the best. Alhamdulillah.
Asalam walaikum.... Masha Allah the service of dhawa you are doing is very good.... Just to bring to your kind notice that in the background there is a picture of a building with colours which in current days has a meaning and also it's related to a fitna of LGBTQ... Hope you might edit the background..... Jazakallah khair for you and your team for the service to Islam....
Masha Allah, amazing answer, strictly based on Quran and Ahadith
Barakallahu fik
masyaallah..
terima kasih tuan sabeel ahmad.
akhirnya saya nonton vidionya sampai selesai karena ada teks terjemahan nya.
Jazak Allah khair May Allah swt accept your prayers and good deeds Ameen 🎉
Assalamualaikum brother Sabeel..
I am Sugiyanto, permision to reupload and or share your video to my socmed, firstly youtube.
Thank you
Very good answer given by respected Dr Sabeel. Islam promotes and strengthens family ties with aim to purify the human relations. Polygamy without fulfilling obligations by the husband is not recommended.
Muhammad said to marry 9 wives not 4
Surah An-Nisa - 3
If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall…
2+3+4= 4 Muslim logic
2+3+4= 9 Christian logic
When Christian say
1+1+1= 1
Muhammad say
1+ 1+1= 3/1 is illogical!
Muslim say
2+ 3+ 4= 4 instead of 9
Are Muslim men oversexed and women undersexed. Why do Muslim men need 72 virgins after death. In all other religions the soul rests in peace in heaven. Why is Islam so much obsessed for sex for men and so little sex for women. Can someone answer these questions logically. The only answer I have received is that it has been decided by Allah and his decision cannot be challanged
@@cocoalfaridah5831 how the heck can you arrive at 9 when the verse clearly said OR? 2/3/4, not 2+3+4.
Very nice and kind man. Masallah. Speaks and explains in an intelligent and respectful manner.
Islam is the truth, Islam is way of life, Islam is divine,Islam is practical, Islam is logic, Islam is rational , Islam is the answer to whatever problem that we need to live in this world, and Islam is for you here and for you hereafter
@Tea or Beer😂😢
That is Why you see the Arab like Syria or Yemen living so peaceful 😂😂😂
Not to mention Pakistan Afghanistan 😂😂
Buddha was a man of peace. He spent his ilfe in the service of man kind. His message has spread to many countries by peaceful means.
Zoroaster was a oeaceful man who gave a wonderful message to his followers. This followers the Parsees are excellent people who do good for everyone.
Maravir Digamber Jain was a peaceful person. His followers do not harm anyone.
Guru Nanak Dev ji was a very peaceful and pious person. He spread the message of service towards all.
Muhammad was a slave trader and carsasn looter. People rebolted against his religion and he and his followers forcibly converted.many people to his religion. Mire tgan 99% of all muslims are descendants of people whomwere converted after military conquest of thrir countries by muslim armies. Also Muhammad promised 4 to his followers on earth and 72 hoors in jannat. Is this something to be proud of.
@@rebasingh258 ਜਾਅਲੀ ਧਰਮਾਂ ਦੇ ਪਿੱਛੇ ਛੁਪਣਾ ਬੰਦ ਕਰੋ ਜੋ ਬ੍ਰਹਮਤਾ ਅਤੇ ਸ਼ਾਂਤੀ ਦਾ ਦਾਅਵਾ ਕਰਦੇ ਹਨ। ਤੁਸੀਂ ਸਿੱਖਾਂ ਦਾ ਇੱਕ ਮਿਸ਼ਨ ਹੋ ਇਸਲਾਮ ਨੂੰ ਖਤਮ ਕਰਨਾ ਹੈ ਅਤੇ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਇਹ ਪਤਾ ਵੀ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੈ। ਅਤੇ ਤੁਹਾਡਾ ਅਖੌਤੀ ਧਰਮ ਸ਼ਾਂਤੀ ਅਤੇ ਪਿਆਰ ਦਾ ਦਾਅਵਾ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@rebasingh258
Muhammad said to marry 9 wives not 4
Surah An-Nisa - 3
If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall…
2+3+4= 4 Muslim logic
2+3+4= 9 Christian logic
When Christian say
1+1+1= 1
Muhammad say
1+ 1+1= 3/1 is illogical!
Muslim say
2+ 3+ 4= 4 instead of 9
@@tigerstripes3926 The Sikh religion is a true religion which believes in universal goodwill and service for all. We are not afraid of Muslims. At the battle of Sargarhi 21 Sikh soldiers fought against an Afghan muslim army of ten thousand soldiers to block their advance. They fought for more than twn hours and killed over 600 Afghan soldiers before they were all killed. Our Makaraja Ranjeet Singh conquered the entire Pakistan and parts of Afghanistan including Kabul and Iran. He died due to illness otherwise he was planning to conquer all of Iran and Afghanistan. It will be better if you yry to reform your Islam so thatbit is changed from a wild tribal religion to a modern civilized religion. If you cannot do that please adopt some civilized relion lije Christianity , Buddhism or Sikhism. That will bring peace and tranquility to your life.
For me I think one wife is enough, that was already hard to support one wife and her family. But for man who had no problem with money as long you can be fair to all of them, it's ok to going all out 🤣
there is not compulsory for you to marry second time
As a Sheikh in my country said, marry multiple w0men, unless your manhood is deficient, and he told the truth. Akhi, don't worry, it is not waajib.
The problem with marrying more than one wife even if you have lot of money is that both your wives will taunt you and your first wife will not be able to accept your second wife because polygyny become very rare.
@@educationworld9699 if a brother is picking wives that are taunting him, I would say the brother chose the wrong women to marry... and although permission is not necessarily required by the first wife, for a capable man who had the resources before any marriage, it would be best to discuss this with the fiance prior to marriage, even put it in a legal contract that if he decides to, he will and if she chooses to divorce because of it, will only receive a certain amount, possibly even him receiving full custody of kids (since that would be Islamically correct), and the divorced wife, if desired could remarry without worrying about how the new partner would be with her children
@@hassanahmad2290of course permission is required, islam allows you to have 4 wifes but coran command you to be fair toward your wife so the choose between command and permission is clear
MashaAllah 😊
Polygamy has been practice long time ago and almost all religions support it. According to Bible, Solomon has hundreds of wives.
But in Islam that has stated in Quran (Surah An-nisa), if you can't do justice between them, marry only one. Polygamy is not an easy thing. In order for men to do polygamy, they need to fulfill many conditions and be fair.
Muhammad said to marry 9 wives not 4
Surah An-Nisa - 3
If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall…
2+3+4= 4 Muslim logic
2+3+4= 9 Christian logic
When Christian say
1+1+1= 1
Muhammad say
1+ 1+1= 3/1 is illogical!
Muslim say
2+ 3+ 4= 4 instead of 9
@@cocoalfaridah5831 You must be David Wood followers😂😂😂 They always translated it wrong. Clearly, you cannot read Arabic.
According to that verse that you have choose, muslims are not obligated to have multiple wives. Marry only one if you can't do justice between them.
Don't forget, according to Bible, its okay for men to have many partners as much as they want. Thats why Solomon have hundreds of wives.
@@nothingnothing6036 who is David woof?
I cannot used my own mind?
@@nothingnothing6036 who is David Woolf??
A Muslim man cannot take. 2, 3,4 wives if he cannot afford it!
It is for men who cannot pay multiple dawri but in my country Kuwait as soon as he have more money he will look fir a new brand wife and young!
The richest thé many wives..
And concubines ..
Officially is
Mary 2,+ 3+ 4= 9
Talaq 3 time and brand new
In Middle East one man
Can marry 40 wives the whole. Years and give them
Babies 5 each.
Divorce is made with 3 words pronounced! Or 3 letters!
Send by the man to
The wives from his mother’s house!
In the west they do it As well , one public wife, legally and other masjid wives and taking welfare as single mothers!
@@cocoalfaridah5831 Clearly, you don't have ANY mind at all😂😂😂 Take Arabic language class first and read Quran. If you're too lazy, go to the mosque and ask them to teach you Arabic.
thanks brother to add subtitle Indonesian because you must expand your video to Indonesian viewer, many Indonesian want to watch your video but most of them cant speak English well
Dr.sabeel, Alhamdulillah, Almighty Allah sbt bless you.❤
Buddha was a man of peace. He spent his ilfe in the service of man kind. His message has spread to many countries by peaceful means.
Zoroaster was a oeaceful man who gave a wonderful message to his followers. This followers the Parsees are excellent people who do good for everyone.
Maravir Digamber Jain was a peaceful person. His followers do not harm anyone.
Guru Nanak Dev ji was a very peaceful and pious person. He spread the message of service towards all.
Muhammad was a slave trader and carsasn looter. People rebolted against his religion and he and his followers forcibly converted.many people to his religion. Mire tgan 99% of all muslims are descendants of people whomwere converted after military conquest of thrir countries by muslim armies. Also Muhammad promised 4 to his followers on earth and 72 hoors in jannat. Is this something to be proud of.
if you got time to chase a mistress then do justice and make her your wife. if you cannot then desist and turn from what is not yours.
Masha'allah brother
You are doing an amzn job
Nice, MashAllah.
Great
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
terima kasih pak sabeel. salam hormat untuk bapak
Brother u are doing great job for muslim ummah
Dr sabeel masha allah
Wahhh tall guy 💪👏
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullahi WA Barakatuh to All.
Mashallah.
💌💌🇧🇩💌💌
May allah bless you my brother
Mantap dan Bagus ❤ Islam from Indonesian 🙏
Apakah sudah ada akun CZcams Indonesia yang menerjemahkan perbincangan dakwah ini ?
Subhanallah Alhamdulillah.. The sister ask to the correct gentleman.
MashAAllah
The Concept of Islam is to protect// to save // to educate// to solve the society// the humanity// the racism// the peace// the discipline// the universe// the mankind. This is the True Prescription from Allah STW for the whole mankind. This is Universal for ever . This leads to uniformity & Peace
@shafiq 😂😂 you are right 👍
Even married little kids is to protect her 😂
Are Muslim men oversexed and women undersexed. Why do Muslim men need 72 virgins after death. In all other religions the soul rests in peace in heaven. Why is Islam so much obsessed for sex for men and so little sex for women. Can someone answer these questions logically. The only answer I have received is that it has been decided by Allah and his decision cannot be challanged
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu ustad sabeel
May ALMIGHTY ALLAH SWT accept your hardwork and dawah ...
Inshaallah 🤲🏻
Inshaallah I'll meet you someday and want to learn with you about more DEEN ISLAM
Stay blessed and save by ALMIGHTY ALLAH SWT REHMA...🤲🏻
Mashallah 👌
"If you can not do justice among them marry just only one", and don't miss what the next verse said the punch line "never you can do justice among them" it's the very soft way try to say that maybe only 0,000001 % man can do justice. its almost imposible to do justice among them. So the polygami is like the very last emergency door in plane which is used in very urgent situation
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Slm m'y brother Mr Sabeel Ahmed mashAllah mashAllah good happy long life inch 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
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Masha Allah
ویلڈن❤🎉 Weldon
Was that guy 10 feet tall at the 0:47 sec mark?
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Dr. Sabeel,may I ask you something
There are many Muslim women/mu'minah from among the women converts there?
I want to have a Muslim wife/mu'minah from foreign or outside my country
Salam from Indonesia
Wassalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Hopefully you will reply my question
Jazakallahu khairan kathir
Are Muslim men oversexed and women undersexed. Why do Muslim men need 72 virgins after death. In all other religions the soul rests in peace in heaven. Why is Islam so much obsessed for sex for men and so little sex for women. Can someone answer these questions logically. The only answer I have received is that it has been decided by Allah and his decision cannot be challanged
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Mohammad(P) had 11 wives and many of them were teenagers when Mohammad was 55 years old.
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Masha Allah. He has been blessed by Allah Almighty with wisdom and courteous way of speech. May Allah Almighty grant the whole Ummah such wisdom and good behavior. Aameen. 😊
Which place ??
It would be nice if Sabeel could look at the face of women he is talking to. Lower the gaze is said in a way not to look with lust. As humans we need to look and identify the people we are talking to.
Ayewallah MashaAllah 👍💐😇👏💯
Kedzoliman terus berlanjut bukan karena banyaknya orang jahat tapi karena Diamnya orang-orang yang baik ....
ISLAM ajarkan KEJUJURAN KEBENARAN KEBAIKAN KEADILAN dan KEDAMAIAN tapi bukan untuk orang-orang MUNAFIK
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Allah Akbar! Bro! You nailed it.😊
Brother is protecting his gaze, May allah accepts his service and lead him to the straight path.
Türkçe altyazılı lütfen 🇹🇷❤️
Next ayah about polygami is, "if u can't to be fair, marry only ONE! 😂😂😂,
Today is not permanent. .. Today becomes yesterday ...yesteryears ..then in course of time Today becomes past....in the past.
(وَإِنۡ خِفۡتُمۡ أَلَّا تُقۡسِطُوا۟ فِی ٱلۡیَتَـٰمَىٰ فَٱنكِحُوا۟ مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ ٱلنِّسَاۤءِ مَثۡنَىٰ وَثُلَـٰثَ وَرُبَـٰعَۖ فَإِنۡ خِفۡتُمۡ أَلَّا تَعۡدِلُوا۟ فَوَ ٰحِدَةً أَوۡ مَا مَلَكَتۡ أَیۡمَـٰنُكُمۡۚ ذَ ٰلِكَ أَدۡنَىٰۤ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا۟)
[Surat An-Nisa' 3]
4:3
*And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice].*
(وَلَن تَسۡتَطِیعُوۤا۟ أَن تَعۡدِلُوا۟ بَیۡنَ ٱلنِّسَاۤءِ وَلَوۡ حَرَصۡتُمۡۖ فَلَا تَمِیلُوا۟ كُلَّ ٱلۡمَیۡلِ فَتَذَرُوهَا كَٱلۡمُعَلَّقَةِۚ وَإِن تُصۡلِحُوا۟ وَتَتَّقُوا۟ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورࣰا رَّحِیمࣰا)
[Surat An-Nisa' 129]
4:129
*And you will never be able to be equal [in feeling] between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely [toward one] and leave another hanging. And if you amend [your affairs] and fear Allah - then indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.*
In Islam, the working wife’s money totally belongs to her. The husband is supposed to provide for her and their family totally. However you may help your husband with expenses if you wish to do so