Being a Real Deadbeat

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • The plaintiff gave money to her ex-son-in-law while he was still with her daughter so they wouldn’t lose their home. However, the plaintiff claims the defendant refuses to pay back the loan, as well as child support for her grandchildren, so she’s suing. The defendant admits he accepted the money, but he insists he paid most of it back already.

Komentáře • 621

  • @lone.faerie
    @lone.faerie Před 9 měsíci +218

    "I'm a good dad" says the guy who owes $14k in child support

    • @biancadoss11
      @biancadoss11 Před 9 měsíci +27

      And MORE importantly doesn't see his kids or try

    • @1967davethewave
      @1967davethewave Před 9 měsíci +15

      @@biancadoss11 That's the saddest part. After I split up with my ex wife I did get behind occasionally on child support. I never went a month without giving her anything but I was supposed to pay $350 and I paid $150 or $200 a few times. I did make it up the next month. But one thing I never did was miss even one single minute with my son. And I had my other son from my first marriage who lived with me full time because his mother left us when he was 3 months old. And she didn't see him until he was old enough to pretty much take care of himself and she didn't pay child support until he was about 5 or 6 and she got remarried. Her husband is a good guy and made sure the child support came. Now all my kids are grown up but they can never look at me and say I wasn't there because I was every chance I got.

    • @biancadoss11
      @biancadoss11 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @1967davethewave I love to hear it. More men need to step up and be like you. Also, more women need to put self aside and do what's in the best interest of the child and stay out of their personal feelings. Your kids didn't have to miss a beat

    • @1967davethewave
      @1967davethewave Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@biancadoss11 Thank you, that is very kind. I think more men need to make their kids first. I bet the majority of us would look at our mom's and say they put us first when we were growing with very few exceptions. But so many dad's just leave and move on as if the kids don't matter. Very sad.

    • @biancadoss11
      @biancadoss11 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@1967davethewave very true

  • @sherreefelstead4013
    @sherreefelstead4013 Před 9 měsíci +396

    I have known many men, who move on to have another family, forgetting about the children they had in the first marriage - leaving them out in the cold. 😢 Sad indeed.

    • @kristineo2926
      @kristineo2926 Před 9 měsíci +15

      Too often. I Said that to my husband, no matter what happens between us, and a New woman comes along... please don't forget about our daughter, she should trumph over New women and potential New child you choose to produce later.

    • @PositivitySpeaks101
      @PositivitySpeaks101 Před 9 měsíci +17

      And he is taking care of another man’s child!! Smh

    • @Silence129
      @Silence129 Před 9 měsíci +10

      Sad that I know this personally 😢

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 Před 9 měsíci +2

      WHAT the hell does that have to do with this case ? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. This case is about a loan. If her daughter couldn't pay the rent. Why would the plaintiff give her daughter's ex-husband money, so he can (turn around) and give it to his ex-wife. Instead of her mother loaning her (OWN) deadbeat daughter the money. This lawsuit is stupid and doesn't make any sense. He's being sued over a loan. Not what you think of him as a father. Damn, stop being so ridiculous and dumb... SMH.

    • @Nevaeh1
      @Nevaeh1 Před 9 měsíci +13

      Men providing and being actively involved as fathers is sometimes influenced by their relationship or feelings towards the mother of their children.

  • @amandadonaldson8748
    @amandadonaldson8748 Před 9 měsíci +71

    I loved the woman outside with Harvey laying into the defendant about needing to be a better father. Preach, sister!

    • @ameliamorgan9800
      @ameliamorgan9800 Před 8 měsíci

      MIL from hell, probably why they got divorced. He was *so* humble and took responsibility.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now Před 8 měsíci +3

      @@ameliamorgan9800 Carlo? That you? Do better!

  • @linedanzer4302
    @linedanzer4302 Před 8 měsíci +11

    My dad remarried twice and had children in each new marriage. He never stopped being a part of any of our lives. He loved us all dearly and made sure we knew it. I now realize how special that was.

    • @onionbubs386
      @onionbubs386 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Same with my dad, tho he only remarried once.

  • @lesliemassey-or6cv
    @lesliemassey-or6cv Před 9 měsíci +108

    Doug nailed it that if he has spent thousands of dollars in court then he should have been able to pay the woman back! 🙄

    • @horsewhale9
      @horsewhale9 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Yes, while Doug can sometimes be rude and impertinent, sometimes he hits the nail squarely on the head...

    • @trekgirl65
      @trekgirl65 Před 9 měsíci +1

      A few thousand dollars is not thousands of dollars pay for arrearage of child support he will still have to pay on the older children, for that will add up again and when he divorces the latest wife and has to pay child support on the other children. Men, do not make children for you are responsible for them as soon as they are made.

    • @LiterallyFactss
      @LiterallyFactss Před 6 měsíci +1

      No "Thank you Douglas" 😢

  • @Jeyani15
    @Jeyani15 Před 9 měsíci +187

    His new wife is no better!!!! How are you going to have kids with a man who neglects his other kids 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Ororeoalpha
      @Ororeoalpha Před 9 měsíci

      AGREE! I can't stand women who have children with terrible fathers already

    • @yung1717
      @yung1717 Před 9 měsíci

      Too many women like when their new men abandon their children for their new ones. It’s sad and pathetic

    • @PeopleRTheProblem
      @PeopleRTheProblem Před 9 měsíci

      Same way you have kids with a woman whose aborted her other kids

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 Před 9 měsíci +1

      RIGHT!!!

    • @trekgirl65
      @trekgirl65 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Not new wife, he has two children with the latest one. He will leave them also when he divorces the lates one, he needs to stop getting married and making babies he does not want to pay for.

  • @matthewfournier6478
    @matthewfournier6478 Před 9 měsíci +105

    Thankful for my ex. We 100/100 co-parent our kids.

    • @lilywillis4655
      @lilywillis4655 Před 9 měsíci

      I could only pray for this, I’m so jealous. I just filed for a modification of our parenting plan which he and his mother are trying to deny. He only lets me see our Son 4 days a month, he won’t allow him to be with me overnight and there’s no reasons for it either. He lives with and works for his parents, I have a full time job at the hospital and am happily married. Now I’m trying to find a lawyer.

    • @jmoosic
      @jmoosic Před 9 měsíci

      How was your wife's relationship with her father?

    • @krystalunique2269
      @krystalunique2269 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@lilywillis4655girl bless you..he's trying to make you look unfit..I'd say record everything every conversation every text everything..he's jeaoulos you moved on and are happy and using your child as leverage..disgusting ..I'm praying for you

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 Před 9 měsíci

      Excellent!

    • @dance4life1208
      @dance4life1208 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@lilywillis4655why don’t you have your kid?

  • @shabless81
    @shabless81 Před 9 měsíci +161

    I dated a young man over a decade ago, basically a lost soul who had his parents divorce and both start new lives and new families of which he was not welcome. He became something of a relic of a past failed marriage. He wound up taking care of his grandfather with Alzheimer’s until he passed and then struggled with homelessness off and on in his early 20s. By then we had long since broken up. He was one of the sweetest most brilliantly intelligent humans Ive ever known and drop dead gorgeous as well. We once ran into his mother in a store and they interacted like coworkers off the clock rather than family. I always find it odd when parents just emotionally abandon their first children when they start new lives. It was definitely their loss(and mine now that I think about it)

    • @mirsan6705
      @mirsan6705 Před 9 měsíci +26

      I hope that young man is doing okay today

    • @kushiita2363
      @kushiita2363 Před 9 měsíci +10

      How is he doing now ?

    • @annereidy7981
      @annereidy7981 Před 9 měsíci +11

      Sad story, I hope he found a new family of his own and is happy.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Před 9 měsíci +9

      go back and get him. we may be injured, but some of us know through how the parents treated us how to handle people in real lfie.

    • @YourfavoritePisces229
      @YourfavoritePisces229 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Sounds like a nice guy. If you’re single, you should look for him.

  • @porridgesilt
    @porridgesilt Před 9 měsíci +88

    Doug loves pouring salt into an open wound. Straight savage! 😆

    • @Tokoywz42
      @Tokoywz42 Před 9 měsíci +2

      I’ve always said Doug is fucking savage

    • @Rocket5150
      @Rocket5150 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Doug is my dad.

    • @leticiaellis7245
      @leticiaellis7245 Před 9 měsíci +2

      That’s what I said! Messy

    • @ruthie7238
      @ruthie7238 Před 9 měsíci

      @@Rocket5150same 😂😂😂

    • @ruthie7238
      @ruthie7238 Před 9 měsíci

      @@Rocket5150in such a kind way too lol

  • @dessean1
    @dessean1 Před 9 měsíci +42

    I would never allow myself to be impregnated by a guy who has basically abandoned his former children for fear that he might do this very same thing to me one day. It is one thing to date an irresponsible individual but it is an entirely different issue to allow yourself to be impregnated by an irresponsible lover/boyfriend. In Canada, the child support owed, whether by father or mother, is deducted straight out of your wages before you even get paid by your employer & so this prevents the children from the former relationship from being "ignored" & also prevents the payee from falling into arrears & thus accruing a $14.000.00 in back child support bill. Do they not have such a policy/program in America?

    • @87juicyfruit
      @87juicyfruit Před 9 měsíci +7

      We do but dead beats just job hop, work under the table so they only get paid in cash or they simply just don’t work to avoid child support.

    • @trekgirl65
      @trekgirl65 Před 9 měsíci +3

      You did not watch the beginning, this was his former first wife and has children with another wife, and he is one that complains about not being able to see his children, but he has the court order. He is a bum and makes lame excuses not the pay his obligations. And when he gets divorce from the present wife and children, he will owe child support on these children as well.

    • @sashabenoit1518
      @sashabenoit1518 Před 9 měsíci +7

      ​@@trekgirl65 She definitely watched and clearly understood the family dynamic here. Everything she said made perfect sense in accordance to the case. She was speaking hypothetically as if she were in the position as the new wife to this man, knowing that he's a deadbeat to the children he already has, and that she has wouldn't have children with a man like that. Therefore, she's acknowledging that he's a bum and you are in agreement with her.
      The only other thing she said, was her asking a question about how child support works in the U.S. because where she's from in Canada, the Government automatically takes the money out of the parent's paycheck, which doesn't allow for these large child support debts to rack up.
      So maybe you need to reread her comment or hopefully my comment helped to clear that up for you.

    • @michelledelios6403
      @michelledelios6403 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Adding to Canada, (live here) they will take your license. I was going to seek my support from ex but it was getting blood from a stone. Was not worth my time. Sad, but my kids will not speak to him, they are not idiots. Cost him a lot more than money

    • @sashabenoit1518
      @sashabenoit1518 Před 9 měsíci

      @@michelledelios6403 That's the real tragedy of it all... The children feeling hurt, abandoned and that leading to a lifetime of disappointment and resentment. The breaking of that bond between a parent and their child, is one of the greatest and most impactful losses that one can experience in life. Children NEED love and stability in their life, which requires the parent to not only provide financially but to actually be there for them, be actively present in their lives. And when the kids see a parent not even doing the absolute bare minimum, by just paying child support for them, that resentment will build and destroy whatever relationship you had with them. Kids pick up on EVERYTHING, especially if they're teenagers. So if you're dodging their other parent to avoid paying them and/or treating that parent unfairly or disrespectfully, they will eventually pick sides and guess who side they will take... It's so heartbreaking to see so many broken families and deadbeat parents these days. These children didn't ask to be born or for them to be their parents and yet, so many children are treated as a burden. Children are supposed to be a wonderful blessing and should be cherished and loved but our society is just so warped and broken and unfortunately, it's mostly the children that pay the price.
      Here in the US, we also have a system in place that will suspend your license if you are behind on child support and not paying. The Government will also take any income tax returns, to try and recover some of the child support debt that you have. But the problem is, they let the debt get wildly out of control before they even implement these consequences and there's always a way around it. Although, the one thing I do not like about suspending people's license over a debt, is that it only really works to inconvenience and hopefully put pressure on the people who can afford to actually pay up. As for the parents who are genuinely struggling to catch up or are behind because they are looking for employment, taking their license will only further hinder their ability to pay and can put them in an even more dire situation. Not to mention, it has absolutely nothing to do with the Family Court system and also feels like a huge overreach for the Government to have that kind of power and control in our lives. So I've always kind of struggled with that one a bit.

  • @dmack7265
    @dmack7265 Před 9 měsíci +21

    You aren't in your children's life so it a great idea to make more kids? This is a great idea!😊

  • @therealshellywymer
    @therealshellywymer Před 9 měsíci +13

    That "dad" is so full of it.

  • @lukerinderknecht2982
    @lukerinderknecht2982 Před 9 měsíci +65

    Defendant in 2017:
    "The truth will prevail in the future. I am a good dad."
    Suffolk County Sheriff's Department in 2020:
    "WANTED -
    Name: Carlo Sorce
    Date of Birth: 10/28/1974
    Date of Warrant: 01/21/2020
    Height: 5' 9"
    Weight: 220 lbs
    brown eyes, brown hair
    The subject is wanted on a Suffolk County Family Court arrest warrant for child support.
    Subject is known to frequent the Lindenhurst and Babylon area."
    😂

  • @taurus2600
    @taurus2600 Před 9 měsíci +25

    The lady outside with Harvey told him!! He is pathetic wow sad how these men and sometimes women decide which children they want to take care of or more convenient to take care of smh He is also disgusting to actually countersue. Pay the lady!! In my JM voice. Then he trashed the plaintiff in the hallway. Why would she help you sir if she wanted to make things hard for you. Make it make sense.

    • @AP-xw5px
      @AP-xw5px Před 9 měsíci

      you were right to say men and thats it. how often does a mother get to fo this be real

  • @africanqueen1655
    @africanqueen1655 Před 9 měsíci +60

    Not liking the Mother is not a reason to ask for custody, that’s why he didn’t win. You have a new wife & she is raising “her” own children. Spend more time being a Father, and less being a financial bully. 🙏🏿🙌🏾

    • @trekgirl65
      @trekgirl65 Před 9 měsíci +3

      He uses that as an excuse not to see his children and pay child support. He is a bum and will do it to his younger two child when he gets another divorce. He just a bun.

  • @wandabellamy6120
    @wandabellamy6120 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Doug does nothing but that's his job to humiliate people coming out of the court room but he's still a Trip! 😂😂

  • @PanchiLee
    @PanchiLee Před 9 měsíci +70

    Why are so many of you assuming that the deadbeat dad is being honest about the mom making it difficult to see his kids? She said at the end on national television she has an "open door policy" for the father of her children. That sounds a lot more plausible than the man who fell almost 15k behind in child support and tried to weasel his way out of this loan 🙃
    My heart does go out to men who deal with vindictive baby mamas! Just sayin this is not one of those cases

    • @clovermccombs8597
      @clovermccombs8597 Před 9 měsíci +1

      How can you take HER word as gold? There are a lot of parents out there that just want the child support.

    • @PanchiLee
      @PanchiLee Před 9 měsíci +11

      @clovermccombs8597 I'm just saying she's much more credible than the baby daddy that left her and her kids in the dust. She could be lying but it definitely doesn't seem like defendant was trying very hard regardless

    • @annereidy7981
      @annereidy7981 Před 9 měsíci

      Wow, what a great reason for him not to pay it, not!@@clovermccombs8597

    • @TG-hp8og
      @TG-hp8og Před 9 měsíci +5

      Oh please ,he doesnt even pay child support
      No exusrs for not paying for you children,and one can NOT say one are a good dad,if mother are paying everything to keep kids alive.
      Really .
      He havent seen his kids for a looong time,and you still feel tvats a good dad ?!?
      Blaming it onn"mother making it hard"?
      I bet the "hard part", is that she ask him to help pay for childrens keeps.
      I cannot even with the short thinking comments getting likes!
      Is it all because men exuse other men??
      Are you so shallow?

    • @r1verman
      @r1verman Před 9 měsíci +5

      The only times I know of personally that a mother ever tried to keep the children from their father was when abuse was involved. Those are rare. Almost all the instances I know of the mother wants the father to be involved with the children.

  • @davidarmillie4226
    @davidarmillie4226 Před 9 měsíci +9

    $400 a day is what he makes and he's neglected his kids? His real kids will see this video one day.

  • @elle_travis
    @elle_travis Před 9 měsíci +7

    I'm only like a few mins into the episode and I love JMs take on being a parent. spot on. I work with children and she has her own and it's a soft spot that's really hard to be unbiased towards.

  • @rare-akaby
    @rare-akaby Před 9 měsíci +42

    Good dads dont let their kids get evicted because you werent doing your part😊

    • @jamesbrantley9468
      @jamesbrantley9468 Před 9 měsíci +2

      What if she doesn't decide to pay the rent out of spite. How can he control that

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před 9 měsíci +1

      Good dads raised their kids to be responsible adult that don't need rescuing

    • @rare-akaby
      @rare-akaby Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@TopherGrant yesss 10 and 12 year Olds are far too old to be kids, they're DEFINITELY adults 😅😉

    • @rare-akaby
      @rare-akaby Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@jamesbrantley9468 if he paid then that could be and argument but he didn't pay 14 THOUSAND and going , so where did the money come to support the kids? The mom so where did her money go for her rent? To fill in his gap to take care of those kids. If your employer was 14 thousand dollars behind on paying you so you can take care of ongoing responsibilites you'd probably end up evicted too

    • @bunji_beans
      @bunji_beans Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@jamesbrantley9468 to spite who? herself? She's the one who was evicted lol. Also, he didn't pay it in the first place so why conjecture about what she would or wouldn't do with it?

  • @thechildfreeafricanexplorer
    @thechildfreeafricanexplorer Před 9 měsíci +40

    Those asking ' what is the mom's responsibility, isnt having the kids 24/7 responsibility enough?
    This guy just doesn't want to see his kids or oay for them. dont make excuses for him.

    • @rattailjimmy2247
      @rattailjimmy2247 Před 9 měsíci +21

      Behind $14,000 but magically had $10,000 when they threatened him with jail. If anyone makes excuses for this man, they ARE this man.

    • @lukerinderknecht2982
      @lukerinderknecht2982 Před 9 měsíci +3

      ​@@rattailjimmy2247well put

  • @dbabies82
    @dbabies82 Před 9 měsíci +7

    So he makes over 6k after taxes and yet couldn't send a few hundred her way every month for his kids? Evil, evil dude. He just didn't give a dmn and used excuses about her not allowing him to see them to be a deadbeat.

  • @full_moon_life_coaching
    @full_moon_life_coaching Před 9 měsíci +58

    I hate being this early. I need comments to read 😂

  • @joannelebrasse3609
    @joannelebrasse3609 Před 9 měsíci +13

    My deadbeat ex owes me over $40,000 from 10 years ago. I will never see it as child support loopholes in Aust are horrible for the single parent. My ex also moved on with a wife young enough to be his daughter and never saw and made an effort to have his children.

    • @Claybo
      @Claybo Před 9 měsíci +2

      I'm sorry you chose a partner like that

  • @kanecierra8940
    @kanecierra8940 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I hope her daughter took the time to increase her Education and Skills to never have to ask to loan anything despite him being late on child support. Once I seen how these Men can be I made sure to live amongst my means and to have an emergency fund!

  • @sarahrean7174
    @sarahrean7174 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Only Doug keep it real 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @maluisa3329
    @maluisa3329 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Parents , you have the right to move on, but seriously , forgetting about your first responsibilities CURSES your new chapter. Don’t be stupid!

  • @lolamaude3449
    @lolamaude3449 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I don't believe him.... he has thrown his children away..... he has not been helping support those children for a long time, nor has he asserted himself for visitation.

  • @reginadavis7499
    @reginadavis7499 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The audacity to counter sue for wages when you wouldn't be there if you paid her back

  • @citytrees1752
    @citytrees1752 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Do people in these comments really not understand why the mother didn't have rent money? She's been the sole provider for two children for a long time. If he had been paying that $14,000 the whole time, she would have had that much for rent instead of using it to cover expenses for the kids. It's not that 'the father has to pay the mother's rent'. It's that she didn't have enough to cover rent anymore after all that time paying for everything else.

  • @shesit318
    @shesit318 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Doug: Shuda given her $2000 and you wouldn't be here. Ok, good luck to you. Hope you can work this out. Sounds like a mess🥴🤯😂😂

  • @Peepeepoopoo5543
    @Peepeepoopoo5543 Před 9 měsíci +35

    JM isn’t perfect but I love how she gets on deadbeat parents everytime😍

    • @eisbeinGermany
      @eisbeinGermany Před 9 měsíci +1

      i always say courts are quick to judge the man, but many mothers just dont go work,stay at home, and just wany child support,

    • @yung1717
      @yung1717 Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@eisbeinGermanysure that’s not made up at all

    • @Peepeepoopoo5543
      @Peepeepoopoo5543 Před 9 měsíci

      @@eisbeinGermany they should get child support no matter whether they work or not, because they share a child with someone who needs to supply their fair share

    • @eisbeinGermany
      @eisbeinGermany Před 9 měsíci

      @@Peepeepoopoo5543 But why must taxpayers' money be used to feed the lazy parents, go look in all countries which give social grants -the parents are too lazy to work, rather feed off taxpayers' money, and that money is in any case not used for the kids, yes i agree all kids should be looked after, but not with taxpayers money, go look in Germany at those who get social grants, thy are mostly fat, overweight, smoke ,drink, kids are not fed ,

    • @Peepeepoopoo5543
      @Peepeepoopoo5543 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@eisbeinGermany im confused.. are you under the impression child support is paid by the government? its not. its paid by non custodial parent

  • @QS0924
    @QS0924 Před 9 měsíci

    "sounds like a mess.."
    that damn DOUG 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

  • @ahelms1990
    @ahelms1990 Před 9 měsíci +28

    I pray for those kids who father doesn't love them enough to see them. This is heart crushing.

    • @Arrozconhabichuelas
      @Arrozconhabichuelas Před 9 měsíci +2

      Sometimes they don’t want to be a parent that’s why Is easy for them to leave

    • @lilywillis4655
      @lilywillis4655 Před 9 měsíci

      @@Arrozconhabichuelas If that was the case, he wouldn’t have gone and had two more children.

    • @Arrozconhabichuelas
      @Arrozconhabichuelas Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@lilywillis4655 that dosent mean nothing u can have kids with someone you don’t love & you can have kid with someone u actually care 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @wvrjl
      @wvrjl Před 9 měsíci

      Yes, it is.

  • @themermaidstale5008
    @themermaidstale5008 Před měsícem +1

    He claimed that $2100 loan towards his arrearage. The plaintiff is acting like he’s a victim “it’s been made very difficult to see my children” but he hasn’t taken legal steps to remedy that situation, if it’s even true.

  • @TG-hp8og
    @TG-hp8og Před 9 měsíci +2

    A good father at least pay for the kid to get some food and supply.
    Blaming it on mother who have ALL responsibility, and pay EVERYTHING? And the "good father dont have the kids,dont see them, dont pay anything ,and it all HER fault?
    Thats just too stupid !! . What kind of idiot would buy the story ?!

  • @carlatownsend3512
    @carlatownsend3512 Před 9 měsíci +4

    No, the courts are in favor of the child it is not about either parent it has always been about the children!

  • @theGrayArea2
    @theGrayArea2 Před 9 měsíci +2

    the lady that spoke at 9:00 was talking directly into the camera to her own ex lol

  • @richardb7999
    @richardb7999 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Irresponsible adults like the defendant should just keep their pants on instead of wrecking havoc in the lives of others...

  • @stigeyrose4395
    @stigeyrose4395 Před 9 měsíci +15

    Jm did to much with the age thing in the beginning, he still got their ages right I feel like she was just trying to make him look bad from the jump, BUT that was a bull shit excuse for him to say the kid’s mother makes it hard for him to see his kids. Put your big boy pants on & go to court to see your kids!! & with the daughter not being able to pay rent on time because she’s solely relying on the child support then she should’ve been found a different place with cheaper rent if he was already that much behind.

    • @blessedtobealive
      @blessedtobealive Před 9 měsíci +1

      What if (for example) the mother threatens his life or the children's life if he ever comes around the kids?

    • @MusicTennis
      @MusicTennis Před 9 měsíci

      I really think he would have mentioned it to JM or Doug in the hallway. He's grossly in arrears and it's the childrens money.@@blessedtobealive

    • @taylorshouse4421
      @taylorshouse4421 Před 9 měsíci +2

      He can get proof she said that and take it to the police/court and file for emergency custody.

    • @eloahnon4952
      @eloahnon4952 Před 9 měsíci +2

      He made himself look bad🎉

    • @Domino13
      @Domino13 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@blessedtobealive Well if she is threatening him or the children, then he really should be going to court. Not going to the police or court when his children are being threatened is child neglect.

  • @ashleyquam
    @ashleyquam Před 9 měsíci +2

    Those poor kids. Bet anything he doesn’t really try to see them 😢

  • @jus4mykidz
    @jus4mykidz Před 9 měsíci +1

    This is every deadbeats favorite story she wont let me see the kids. Even though they're the ones who push the kids away.

  • @rikkkyzchikk08
    @rikkkyzchikk08 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Hear me out, if he would have been paying from the start this wouldn’t even be an issue. 😱

  • @indyasimone185
    @indyasimone185 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The amount of times Greg would’ve called this man sorry is what I never knew I needed watching this episode

  • @HeyHeyRebecca
    @HeyHeyRebecca Před 9 měsíci +9

    There’s three sides to every story. Her side , his side and, the truth.

    • @Ororeoalpha
      @Ororeoalpha Před 9 měsíci +8

      It's not hard to figure out the truth when he's 10K behind on child support and has another family 😊

    • @blaq_betty
      @blaq_betty Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@Ororeoalpha14k actually

  • @glenncurley680
    @glenncurley680 Před 3 měsíci

    As a Single Dad, I worked so hard to get a good life for my Son I.
    At 1 point 3 jobs, 1 full time and 2 part time. I coached his hockey team
    as well as his baseball team, plus I played tennis in the evenings
    We were busy, but I liked it. We were busy but it was fun!

  • @joecastle9993
    @joecastle9993 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Pay for your kids man!

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Dang she woke up FRUSTRATED and DISGUSTED ain't it..

  • @user-rr5gh5vu4i
    @user-rr5gh5vu4i Před 9 měsíci +3

    If he calls himself a good dad I would hate to see you what a bad dad looks like

  • @rosej5029
    @rosej5029 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I would have been dead if the paper proving he already paid $2000 of the debt was on toilet paper written in crayon. I would dare the judge to say, the paper is not valid!!

    • @numnum_land
      @numnum_land Před 9 měsíci

      She always says that a napking and crayon is leggit LOL

  • @JeweL-DekAva
    @JeweL-DekAva Před 4 měsíci

    My ex-husband did the same thing he left our two kids for someone 12 years younger than him. That didn’t last and now he’s living four states away with another gal and her two kids. I could never imagine waking up to someone else’s children and not my own. Who on earth could live with themselves doing that? But so many do.

  • @citytrees1752
    @citytrees1752 Před 9 měsíci +2

    He thought he could just slink away and leave his family behind as if they are a used car that doesn't shine any more.

  • @deanwinchestersgirl8767
    @deanwinchestersgirl8767 Před 9 měsíci

    Judge Judy would have chewed him out about child support as someone who has 9 half siblings because of a deadbeat im glad i had a good mom and grandparents

  • @ashleymandigo4406
    @ashleymandigo4406 Před 3 měsíci

    That lady wanted us to KNOW he's A LIAR in regards to him "not being able to" visit his kids

  • @williestubz7957
    @williestubz7957 Před 9 měsíci +35

    How irritating is it to hear that someone has to fight for their children, why dont we talk about the lame moms that are intentional when they make it difficult for fathers

    • @prairierider7569
      @prairierider7569 Před 9 měsíci +11

      Except we aren’t the ones in court on national tv. You made those babies you take care of them too

    • @Southern_gentleman.
      @Southern_gentleman. Před 9 měsíci +1

      Exactly!! I personally been there. It’s so easy to blame all men but ignore there’s so many bad women. Ppl act like it’s so black and white but it’s not always the case.

    • @williestubz7957
      @williestubz7957 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@prairierider7569 monetarily? Because i see alot of fathers getting the short end of the stick, these moms want their money but could care less about their presence in their childs lives, if some moms want to ease the burden then give them to their dads and have them take care of them, oh wait, they wouldnt do that

    • @none2951
      @none2951 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Excuses excuses

    • @none2951
      @none2951 Před 9 měsíci +8

      Funny how the ones always whining about the mother making it difficult are also behind on child support

  • @BeKind2AllKinds
    @BeKind2AllKinds Před 8 měsíci +1

    He is the louse, no doubt, but I wonder why any woman would find him attractive. If I found out some guy ignored his children and owed back child support, I would RUN. Bad moral character that will never change.

  • @yaya421
    @yaya421 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Bad father: the truth will prevail in the future.
    Doug: what does that mean?
    😂😂😂 that was too funny

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Před 9 měsíci

      dougs shade is an olympic sport in which he earns gold every time.

  • @alinaluna8615
    @alinaluna8615 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I hate deadbeats too, judge

  • @leyahruizdeloreto6420
    @leyahruizdeloreto6420 Před 8 měsíci

    During the walk-in, that plaintiff looked like she was having a meltdown when the announcer started telling hers daughter’s business.😂

  • @floorsbyfolts
    @floorsbyfolts Před 9 měsíci +1

    If the judge said pigs fly Doug would concur.

  • @lindaalvarez8855
    @lindaalvarez8855 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The Defendant has no excuse not to pay back the Plaintiff. He's the worst father to his 1st 2 children. Eventhough the children are young, they're going to remember that he does not want to see his 1st 2 children.

  • @rosssims7224
    @rosssims7224 Před 9 měsíci

    He came in with zero evidence. Doesn’t usually work out 😂

  • @amandastandley9403
    @amandastandley9403 Před 9 měsíci

    My ex did nothing to raise his kids, but remarried and raised his 4 step kids like they were his own. I hated that for my kids, but I made sure they had everything they needed! And I don’t begrudge his stepkids at all. They are good kids.

  • @hydrangeas_lover
    @hydrangeas_lover Před 9 měsíci

    Doug is colder than ice! What a savage😂😂😂😂

  • @oldnerdreviews
    @oldnerdreviews Před 8 měsíci

    Everything aside, courts are so much more in favor of the mom than the dad. Everyone, except the judge, knows this.

  • @thomascooper5050
    @thomascooper5050 Před 9 měsíci

    Do better! Lmao and magically, because the judge said “ do better” he pays all his support and turns to a good dad….. do better up your butt

  • @charles0322mrsdani
    @charles0322mrsdani Před 9 měsíci

    No, dear. The truth has already prevailed.

  • @cristinarodriguez3157
    @cristinarodriguez3157 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I worked in family law. The court is a neutral party and will help mothers and fathers for FREE. If you want to see your kids, go to the court and quit making excuses including not paying your child support!! Tired of dead beat parents blaming everything under the sun for not seeing their kids when its their own fault. Try harder and do better for those innocent kids! It's not their fault they were brought into this world. 😢

  • @c.j.williams513
    @c.j.williams513 Před 9 měsíci +1

    😮 she didn't say, " Thank you Douglas"!!!! 😮😅

  • @KimberlyCasey-cy5fu
    @KimberlyCasey-cy5fu Před 3 měsíci

    I hate it when the father blames the ex for not seeing his kids. Take them to court if ex is stopping you from seeing them, but they don't want to... go to court, or ...pay out the money to go to court. Then don't use the "my ex won't let me see them" line. You don't want to see them!! Or you would be on court fighting for them!! Glad my ex and I get along.

  • @lucky1u
    @lucky1u Před 9 měsíci

    I see where he is confused, the mother-in-law needed to be reimbursed directly from his pocket and he seems to think it's up to her daughter to pay it back out of the child support payments. It is confusing.

  • @jennifermosley1243
    @jennifermosley1243 Před 6 měsíci

    A mother should never keep men from wanting to be good dad's. The kids will see this if that's what's really happening. The only ones to suffer are the children. It's very, very sad.

  • @vickyleblanc3169
    @vickyleblanc3169 Před 9 měsíci

    He is a deadbeat dad. Child support has nothing to do with seeing your children.

  • @ameliamorgan9800
    @ameliamorgan9800 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Oh man... I love this Judge usually but this time she really jumped on this guy. He was calm and humble and it seemed like she was going overboard. He *was* careful not to say anything about the mother when it sounds like he could have. Do better! Not all dads are bad!

    • @susansprott5181
      @susansprott5181 Před 8 měsíci

      Really...!?
      The man is a piece of shit..
      He OWED $14,000 in back Child Support....
      He gotta loan from his ex MIL and completely ignored repaying her..
      AND then counter sues for havin to come to court ..
      LUDICROUS...!!
      He says to Doug...
      "The truth will pervail....."
      YuP will show wotta AHole he is...!!
      BtW courts do NOT favour Mothers or are prejudiced against fathers..!!
      The NON CUSTODIAL parent...
      Pays Child Support to the CUSTODIAL parent..
      Simple as that..!!

  • @im_chantell
    @im_chantell Před 9 měsíci +3

    Did anyone else notice the woman in the back recording Harvey and the bystander's response to his question? 😅

  • @cbro2807
    @cbro2807 Před 9 měsíci

    Men like the defendant have mastered the art of having a massive ego with a victim mentality.

  • @Dinnerwiththeavilas
    @Dinnerwiththeavilas Před měsícem

    Doug is a savage haha

  • @Fistful_of_Mana
    @Fistful_of_Mana Před 4 měsíci

    The woman always gets the favor of children.

  • @jackiemccoy6282
    @jackiemccoy6282 Před 9 měsíci

    He needs to get another job cause he has to support his new family and his other two children!!!

  • @socorromedrano7399
    @socorromedrano7399 Před 9 měsíci

    Ladies out there. Do not marry a divorce man with children un less he is wealthy. Hard to sustain one family

  • @user-mp1cj1ip5e
    @user-mp1cj1ip5e Před 9 měsíci

    Truth is the father's don't leave the children..they leave the woman that they couldn't deal with...then the mother turns the children against the father....it's as simple as that..truth is, it's the mother that's a deadbeat

  • @jannesasmith7950
    @jannesasmith7950 Před 9 měsíci +19

    I understand he needs to pay child support but why isn't the mom paying any rent? She's just as responsible for her children's needs as he is

    • @wvrjl
      @wvrjl Před 9 měsíci +14

      Maybe she can't afford BOTH of their responsibilities. I've been on the other end (with the mom), and we were dirt poor. My mom was always working, but they were minimum wage jobs because my dad didn't allow her to work when they were together, so that's what she could get.

    • @lukerinderknecht2982
      @lukerinderknecht2982 Před 9 měsíci +18

      It's easy to get behind when you're raising two kids and getting no support from the other parent.

    • @AP-xw5px
      @AP-xw5px Před 9 měsíci

      she took care of them. ALONE lmao. stupid.

    • @YourfavoritePisces229
      @YourfavoritePisces229 Před 9 měsíci +5

      If he had paid his child support, she would’ve had enough to pay rent 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @citytrees1752
      @citytrees1752 Před 9 měsíci +5

      She has clearly been the one who has been 100% paying for their needs for a long time. No wonder she didn't have money for rent.

  • @sandybeach176
    @sandybeach176 Před 9 měsíci

    Alot of these men when they get a new family they move on & they 4get da. children from their first/old family..Shameful SMFH

  • @willie211
    @willie211 Před 9 měsíci +34

    I hate how this judge always makes it sound like going to court & getting custody of a child as a father is extremely hard & expensive. The fact that the 11 & 9 get evicted is only the fathers fault... where is the kids mother?

    • @3menlittlelady116
      @3menlittlelady116 Před 9 měsíci +23

      its not as expensive as having more kids. It is not expensive. It is a filing fee. Cut the shit

    • @adrianknight1406
      @adrianknight1406 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Typically the mothers involved in custody and child support disputes with the father are absolved of any wrongdoing. It was evident right here in this case.

    • @3menlittlelady116
      @3menlittlelady116 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@adrianknight1406 how? lol.

    • @willie211
      @willie211 Před 9 měsíci +7

      @3menlittlelady116 Lies!!! Filing paperwork costs money. Being denied motion after motion because you're not a professional & don't know how to correctly complete the paperwork cost money. Coming to the realization that the only way you're going to make headway is to pay a lawyer costs money. It's funny how you say it costs more money to have more kids when that's exactly what women do out here. Your way out of touch & untruthful. I've been through this reality & helped others thru it as well. It's not as simple & cheap as you say unless your the mother. For father's It's a FIGHT! You rarely hear women say I'm fighting for custody, because the Court automatically give mothers their right while father's have to fight for their rights.

    • @adrianknight1406
      @adrianknight1406 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I believe willie spoke well enough as to how.

  • @joeythemoose
    @joeythemoose Před 9 měsíci

    And here I am refusing to even date someone new until my little guy turns 18… his Mom (as good intentioned as she is) has remarried 3 times… our son needs at least one of his parents to be the stable one 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  • @wvrjl
    @wvrjl Před 9 měsíci +1

    NO, you absolutely ARE NOT a good dad. If he HAD "spent thousands of dollars " in family court to see his kids, he would have said so in court. He's a liar!

  • @Rayebae738
    @Rayebae738 Před 9 měsíci

    He’s a piece of work

  • @yeshathegardener
    @yeshathegardener Před 9 měsíci

    When he is sick and shut in and need those precious children, that is when he will understand the circle of life.

  • @Idontwantafuckinghandle588
    @Idontwantafuckinghandle588 Před 8 měsíci

    Pay the lady!

  • @TheM1220yh
    @TheM1220yh Před 9 měsíci

    I mean… if they were calling him for money that he owed for child support so that she could pay rent, and he gave that money plus more, then shouldn’t it be the daughter that owes the mom?

    • @jackiesorce9247
      @jackiesorce9247 Před 9 měsíci

      He borrowed the money in Jan. Around $20k was owed at that time. Then this was filmed in June. So that payment he made, was around six months after this money was owed. It still left him approximately $10k in arrears. The money was borrowed from the plaintiff… to pay towards the child support.

  • @lindawilson4961
    @lindawilson4961 Před 6 měsíci

    He doesn't care about his first family. He probably won't care about the second family after he dumps them. Maybe he'll move on to number three

  • @nelsonbarbosa3226
    @nelsonbarbosa3226 Před 5 měsíci

    The fact that fathers have to go through hurdles and hoops to have access to their kids is BS, the mothers make it difficult for fathers to be in their children's lives

  • @samgardner4667
    @samgardner4667 Před 9 měsíci

    $2100/month for an apartment? Jesus. That’s a double mortgage payment. Why do people rent?

  • @LawsonPatterson
    @LawsonPatterson Před 9 měsíci

    Sorry, dude is just gross!! Family court has no real cost associated with it. Even if it did, he just stayed his children aren’t worth thousands of dollars 🤢🤮

  • @loribryant884
    @loribryant884 Před 9 měsíci +4

    :Spitefully and vindictively" fighting for almost 20,000 dollars in back childsupport .
    Meanwhile will not see his kids 😒

  • @adriankasan6344
    @adriankasan6344 Před 9 měsíci

    Take care of one family before you make another one

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 Před 9 měsíci

    Doug ran him 🔥 😂😂😂Boy he wanted to slug Doug!

  • @ChristineDuval-cy5ck
    @ChristineDuval-cy5ck Před 21 dnem

    My niece ex owes $63,000 in back child support while he is living his life with girlfriend and her daughter (that he cheated with her while he was with my niece) I have NO EMPATHY for dead beat dads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @hayleywhite1341
    @hayleywhite1341 Před 9 měsíci

    My birth father abandoned my mother and I while she was still pregnant. Back then, they saw fluid on my brain and didn’t know if I was going to be born with disabilities or not. He found that out and dipped. He moved to another state, married another woman and helped raise her kids. Well, that didn’t work out, he came back here and I tried to have a relationship with him.. unfortunately, that didn’t work out either. He is best friends with my ex, even went to his bachelor party & wedding. Fun times. I definitely feel for the children in this case. It’s disgusting to have children and abandon them and RAISE OTHER KIDS.

  • @emchammer1815
    @emchammer1815 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Google this guy. He's on wanted posters lmao