Understanding Invisible Wounds | Daily Reminders

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
  • The Prophet ﷺ bled more in Uhud, but he hurt more in Taif. Sh. Omar Suleiman reflects on becoming aware of our own invisible wounds, the wounds we cause, the ones we ignore in the people around us.
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Komentáře • 93

  • @ummusalamah1599
    @ummusalamah1599 Před 4 lety +49

    To be oppressed is to suffer in this world but to oppress someone is to suffer in the hereafter...
    Very powerful and meaning filled statement...
    May Allah protect us from the suffering of the hereafter which is the true life Aameen..

  • @easyandnatural6320
    @easyandnatural6320 Před 4 lety +26

    The incident of Taif makes me cry , and the dua console my heart. As I was badly insulted and rejected by my own loved ones in the most lowest point in my marriage ...That dua strengthened my heart when it was bleeding with pain .....اللهم بلرك عليه
    والحمد لله كثيرا للإسلام...🍒
    اللهم صلى الله عليه وسلم..

  • @easyandnatural6320
    @easyandnatural6320 Před 4 lety +38

    Ignoring someone in their pain is the worst type of hurt and damage you do to the injured or wounded....
    May Allah The AlJabbar mend the broken hearts ,minds , bodies and homes ...
    Ameen

    • @aminazahrajama1308
      @aminazahrajama1308 Před 4 lety

      Asalam Alaykum how can you help a family member who don't want to talk or listen when you can see depression sign..

    • @easyandnatural6320
      @easyandnatural6320 Před 4 lety

      @@aminazahrajama1308 never ever give up on that person .it further deteriorate the situation.
      Be patient ....try to give your rights and help....

    • @youthmarket01
      @youthmarket01 Před rokem

      Aameen

  • @fatimasamira3695
    @fatimasamira3695 Před 4 lety +80

    Don't minimize people's experiences just because they don't look severe and heavy from outside.

  • @jojobibiji5760
    @jojobibiji5760 Před 4 lety +48

    When Allah is at the centre of your priority in life , then you are at the centre of Allah's providential care . ,🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
    Thanks for this amazing video. I really like your lecture they are very helpful and amazing . MashaAllah !

  • @mystrybegum6725
    @mystrybegum6725 Před 4 lety +29

    I can relate to this emotional pain..the emotional pain is the worst not physical

    • @zohrant7399
      @zohrant7399 Před 2 lety +1

      @@AA123TD but your physical beating will lead to psychological damage too, no?

    • @prikitiwgan7860
      @prikitiwgan7860 Před 2 lety

      @@AA123TD I hope Allah Make you the happiest person in this world and hereafter, sister ✨

    • @zohrant7399
      @zohrant7399 Před 2 lety

      @@AA123TD can you elaborate how so?

  • @NiaPgn
    @NiaPgn Před 4 lety +6

    I would like to ask for Dua for the father of my friend. His name is Mohammad Alikouzeh and he’s been on life support for over two weeks due to Covid. Yesterday he went into the most critical state. Please make dua for him and his family. JazakAllah Khair. 🤲🏼

  • @mohammadtowseefhassan3630

    We Muslims must invoke Allah for the cure of invincible wounds in the sense that Almighty knows our wounds more than our own selves.. Out of that experience is the real joy one can enjoy

  • @Queenbee_X0X
    @Queenbee_X0X Před 4 lety +2

    💭 We have to be more aware of our invisible wounds, we have to be more aware of the invisible wounds that we sometimes cause and the invisible wounds. 💭To cause oppression is far worse than to be oppressed because to be oppressed is to suffer in this world, to oppress someone else is to suffer in the hereafter. 💭 Be the servant of Allah that is wronged and not the servant of Allah that wrongs. Jazakallahu khair for such comforting words and reflections. Indeed I can totally relate to often being the one that avoids causing harm even to those that have caused severe pain so Alhamdulillah for ni’matul islam and Emaan within my heart. 🙏🏾May Allah increase our Imaan and Ihsan in all our dealings, آمين. Again Jazakallahu khair

  • @Sarafara7
    @Sarafara7 Před 3 lety

    I encourage everyone to talk to a therapist if emotional wounds end up hurting you deeply. I never thought I would ever seek a therapists help. But, talking it out has allowed me to get it off my chest and make sense of why I’m feeling this pain. And of course, stay close to Allah.

  • @bilkiss40
    @bilkiss40 Před 4 lety +3

    Ameen

  • @Unknowntodayandtomorrow

    It's so rare for people to see or recognise people's wounds. Even whilst knowing unfortunately most just are not bothered and only concerned about their own wounds. We need to help each other if we want help and mercy from Allah inshallah ameen.

  • @humanityfirst1551
    @humanityfirst1551 Před 4 lety +5

    Allahumma inna Asalukal Aafiyath wa Hasana wa Mulk Allahumma Ameen ya zaljalaali wal ikraam 🌻

  • @aklimab1235
    @aklimab1235 Před 3 lety

    Ameen!!

  • @abedpel8194
    @abedpel8194 Před 4 lety +10

    May Allah bless you brother

  • @aminismail6362
    @aminismail6362 Před 4 lety +9

    mashaAllah tabarakallah shukran sheikh for the beautiful lecture and lectures as always, I feel very calm and collected and contented when ever I listen to your lectures,may Allah bless you and your family Amiin ya Allah.

  • @mmohammed8286
    @mmohammed8286 Před 4 lety +1

    اللهم اغفر لشيخنا عمر وبارك فيه وبذريته وإنفع به الامة انا احبك في الله يا شيخنا

  • @humanityfirst1551
    @humanityfirst1551 Před 4 lety +4

    Allahumma Ameen ya zaljalaali wal ikraam 🌻

  • @noorizaheydatoulah3968
    @noorizaheydatoulah3968 Před 4 lety +6

    Asalamwrwb Sheikh Omar n all Brothers n Sisters. Thank u kathiran for such a sensitive and deep reflection. May Allah SWT help us all in healing all our invisible wounds too through forgiveness n kindness , ameen thumma ameen.

  • @sejdosapcanin1498
    @sejdosapcanin1498 Před 4 lety +5

    Esselamu alejkum from Bosnia.

  • @babjithephotographer5602
    @babjithephotographer5602 Před 4 lety +1

    Its so sad that the prophet had to fight to protect the Kaaba and was injured several times for that, I admire his strong belief in his purpose

  • @hal55984
    @hal55984 Před 4 lety +4

    Jazakallah for this as this is something that I really need within this time:) Praise be to Allah SWT 💖 Peace be upon Muhammad SAW 💖

  • @RubinaMerchant
    @RubinaMerchant Před 4 lety +2

    This stabbed my heart. Thinking of the pain caused to our prophet pbuh 😭.
    Being shunned when old and sick was bad enough for a mother, but reaching out and actually telling my loved ones how vulnerable I was, was worse. The resulting hidden pain and tears cannot be seen. Just one call, a kind word would have sufficed. Qadr Allah what does not break you makes you stronger. InshaAllah.
    Only He Knows what's best for us.
    May Allah Grant all mothers patience, hope and a good ending. Ameen.

  • @myriemjaziri6167
    @myriemjaziri6167 Před 4 lety +1

    Masha Allah. Alhamdulillah. Astaghfirullah. Allahu Akbar.

  • @NiaPgn
    @NiaPgn Před 4 lety

    May Allah help us to be aware of individual wounds in ourselves and in others. May Allah help us not to oppress others and help us to control our anger.

  • @sengulozturkoglu1751
    @sengulozturkoglu1751 Před 4 lety +1

    Masallah jazakalla khoir syeik so beatiful lecture

  • @LollaDeGrace
    @LollaDeGrace Před 4 lety +1

    Waalaikumsalam..warahmatullahi wabarakatuh..ameen..ya rabbal aalameen...
    .invisible wounds is so deep..ur heart is being tested..keep calm and make dua..such a great topic mashaAllah..thank u so much Sheikh 🙏 may Allah bless u always ameen...

  • @kedijaabagojam7875
    @kedijaabagojam7875 Před 4 lety +1

    As wr wbt Jezak Allah kayer imam Omar mashallah tabrak me Allah bless you and your family Amiin allahum Amiin

  • @foziakhan6266
    @foziakhan6266 Před 4 lety

    MashaAllah, Alhamdulillah,Allahu Akbar.

  • @smilies2360
    @smilies2360 Před 4 lety

    may Allah grant us better understanding.. Ameen

  • @mohamedobsiye178
    @mohamedobsiye178 Před 4 lety +2

    Masha'Allah jzkl khayr Brother.

  • @wonttell8517
    @wonttell8517 Před 4 lety

    Thank you Shykh
    We were worried about you as you had caught a cold
    It's great to see that you are recovered

  • @lindadivon8500
    @lindadivon8500 Před 4 lety

    😷❤️🙏: this is so very true ! Holding on to grudges and hurt isn't good we learn to forgive and Remember we are all HUMAN and prone to error as long we are in tjis FLESH ! This why we are to have control over ourselves and be in tune WITH GODS SPIRIT WHO WILL NEVER LEAD US INTO TEMPTATION BUT WILL DELIVER US FROM EVIL AND MY SPIRIT WILL LEAD YOU INTO ALL TRUTH 👑 ♥️♥️ 🙏

  • @sezzyahmed7373
    @sezzyahmed7373 Před 4 lety +9

    Getting treated for our own wounds which makes us hurt others is not easy. Some of us are so severely damaged and it's hurting others that we think a good solution for us is to just commit suicide and go as our own hearts are bleeding and our words can hurt others too which is hard to see so it's all too much. There's a reason for why a person is the way they are but they get judged more than supported. You never know that pain until you or your own family members are in it

    • @Amelia-ys2qy
      @Amelia-ys2qy Před 4 lety +4

      so relatable. i contemplated about suicide many times but didn't go through with it since it's haram. May we all heal one day

    • @sezzyahmed7373
      @sezzyahmed7373 Před 4 lety +1

      @@Amelia-ys2qy That's good to hear, I'm getting sick of advice being given about being compassionate, don't get angry, peoples hearts are sick, do this or that etc. People already know these things and know to be nice or less angry but they can't as their hearts are bleeding from with in. There's a reason for why people are the way they are and telling them over again to not get angry or to be nice when they are in such a bad state doesn't exactly help. Gone are the days when there was someone to talk to. I'm still suicidle and fighting these feelings every day.

    • @razanazizkhan1906
      @razanazizkhan1906 Před 4 lety

      May Allah bless you and help you in this difficult time brother. Know that with hardship comes ease. May Allah help you overcome your hardships. Praying for you.

    • @sezzyahmed7373
      @sezzyahmed7373 Před 4 lety

      @@AA123TD Depressed and suicidle people are obviously not going to think of the afterlife. Their situation is too severe. Traumatised people heads will become more messed thinking about the after life and probably become numb or desensitized. I have PTSD, autism and all sorts so what most can manage with becomes extremely hard for people like me who are not emotionally stable and function differently. Remember me in your duas please. Thanks x

    • @sezzyahmed7373
      @sezzyahmed7373 Před 4 lety

      @@razanazizkhan1906 Ameen, I'm sister by the way

  • @rajiarahman4716
    @rajiarahman4716 Před 4 lety +2

    Salaam. Alhamdulillah. SubhanAllah Never knew about all this I've heard of the wars but not the wounds. Thank you This horrible horrible situation is causing so much mental anguish and trauma thank you It is so important to maintain and keep alive promises relationships and friendships because when they break they don't make a noise they creat silence InshAllah. Keep in contact always Particularly now Thank you

  • @sashaphase43
    @sashaphase43 Před 3 lety

    jazaakAllah

  • @sultanahsalim4893
    @sultanahsalim4893 Před 4 lety

    Wa alaikum as salaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakathu

  • @asiyasparkles
    @asiyasparkles Před 4 lety

    Assalamu alaykom wa rahma'tullah wa barakatu, Alhamdulillah, i was listening to you speak, and you made me feel certain of what I must do, and so agianst some advice, i have done what I felt inclined to do. Allahumma barik, alhamdulillah Rabbil Alameen.

  • @misbahsakhawat8794
    @misbahsakhawat8794 Před 4 lety

    Walikum.us.salam warahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
    Allahumma Ameen

  • @zukhrufahmed4793
    @zukhrufahmed4793 Před 4 lety

    Allahumma aamee, jazaakallah khairan brother

  • @shinaazvrey5830
    @shinaazvrey5830 Před 4 lety +7

    Salaam from South Africa🤗

  • @fatimasamira3695
    @fatimasamira3695 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you

  • @UKQASIM
    @UKQASIM Před 4 lety

    Sometimes mistakes are made and relationships have ended and impossible to clear the air

  • @Sehara
    @Sehara Před 4 lety +1

    I am hurting. My own son is inflicting me excruciating pain. I understand that his addiction is illness but I am wounded in a way that I cannot take it any more. May Allah swt fogive me and my son and ease situation, I will never be able to heal, I am completely broken 😢

    • @ifraaxcilmi3589
      @ifraaxcilmi3589 Před 4 lety +1

      May Allah ease your pain and give you peace. Not a thorn pricks a believer but that Allah (swt) expiate some sin and rewards them with something greater. This is your trial, have sabr dear sister and put your faith in Allah.. make excessive dua for him in this blessed month, nothing is more powerful than the dua of a mother for her child. I can testify to that sister, it is a mercy from Allah that this month is upon us, pray, pray, pray and leave the rest to Allah. Show your son temperance and kindness as well as yourself, leave your worries on the prayer mat. He is with you, never despair!

    • @Sehara
      @Sehara Před 4 lety +1

      @@ifraaxcilmi3589 thank you for your kind words and wisdom. May Allah swt grant you the best on both worlds, just the fact that you read my painful confession and took time to write to me and encourage me means a lot. We are all busy in our own lifes but you set aside time for me and I will never forget that. I ask Allah swt to ease your hardship and grant you Jannah.

    • @NoName-ke6gq
      @NoName-ke6gq Před 4 lety +1

      Sehara
      May Allah make it easy for you and your son.
      Have faith in Allah that there is ease after every calamity.
      May Allah replace your pain and suffering with happiness and joy.
      Selam alejkum sister.
      🌹💝🌹💝

    • @Sehara
      @Sehara Před 4 lety

      @@NoName-ke6gq may Allah swt reward you for your encouragement. I never ever thought that I can be in this situation, I feel humiliated and punished, I am hurt but what hurt me mostly is that I cannot feel a hope. This is going on for so long and now I am drained. I am fasting elhmadulillah and pray and trying to feel the sweetness of Ramadan but at the same time I feel like I am dying. Never complained of my life and any hardship before this one, I took all of them as a test but now I am failing to see any good coming out of it. I am watching my own son killing himsel every day and unable to do anything to stop it. Dear brother, maybe Allah swt will accept your dua for me and my son. I ask Allah swt to give you the best of fhe both worlds and that nobody experience this hardship, amin.

    • @NoName-ke6gq
      @NoName-ke6gq Před 4 lety +1

      Sehara
      May Allah SWT give you strength to carry on. If I can give you one advise would be NEVER GIVE UP HOPE. There is always ease after calamity.
      Allah SWT won’t test you with more than you can handle. He tests those He loves. He wants them closer to Him.
      Make dua this Ramadan (this last 10 days) best days of Ramadan. Never ever underestimate the power of dua.
      Keep praying sister and may Allah shower you and your son with His blessings this blessed days of Ramadan
      Selam alejkum

  • @hawah425
    @hawah425 Před 4 lety +1

    Masha Allah subhana Allah Allah Akbar may peace and Allah's blessings be upon prophet Mohammad (S.A.W) is a slave and a messenger of Allah and he is Allah's most beloved messenger may Allah reward you and bless you and increase you in knowledge and wisdom Asalaam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarkatuh

  • @angelwings5747
    @angelwings5747 Před 4 lety

    I hurt and still hurting for many years but In silence a man caused me so
    Much pain and now I choose to walk away and hold on to allah swt rope and seek allahs help I hope to move forward in my life for the sake of my kids I have forgiven him but I still hurt I pray that allah swt takes me out of this misery Incha allah I used to think I was being bad for using kids as a weapon but then realised if he wanted his kids he would be doing something about it and not keep taking the easy way out and excuses anyways pls make dua for me I really need it jazakom allahu kir for ur prayers

    • @khalz-AJ
      @khalz-AJ Před 4 lety

      May Allah make it easy for you and your children in shaa Allah

  • @shihabkt957
    @shihabkt957 Před 4 lety

    pray from kerala, India

  • @anisah5386
    @anisah5386 Před 4 lety +2

    Assalamualaykum Alhumdulilah....

  • @charla712
    @charla712 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for your great lectures may Allah reward you and your family with the best in this dunya and the best in the akhira, may He also reward the team that does a great work to provide us these lectures ameen

  • @meddem1744
    @meddem1744 Před 3 lety

    Question : The prophet peace be upon him lost his teeth or some of his teeth in the battle of Uhud. How old was he at that battle? Did he live without those teeth ever since that battle? Did he peace be upon him get his teeth fixed? I'm asking because I'm very curious. Because Omar Suleiman said in a previous video that our prophet peace be upon him had gorgeous perfect set of teeth. I'm trying to visualize the situation regarding his dental care.

  • @soniasomasundaran1173
    @soniasomasundaran1173 Před 4 lety

    🙏

  • @tolstoyeducation
    @tolstoyeducation Před 4 lety

    🌹

  • @fatimah338
    @fatimah338 Před 4 lety

    👍🏻👍🏻❤️

  • @navedian739
    @navedian739 Před 4 lety

    💯⚽💯🌎💯⚽💯🌎Nice⚪

  • @death_yt1999
    @death_yt1999 Před 4 lety +3

    put a fool in check when he crosses the line right!?

  • @aramm474
    @aramm474 Před 4 lety +4

    is it halal in islam to tell you that i love u for the sake of Allah? because i really do....and i am hereby praying to Allah to get husband like u

    • @doannamiles4991
      @doannamiles4991 Před 4 lety +1

      Yea it is

    • @aramm474
      @aramm474 Před 4 lety

      @@doannamiles4991 yes i listened to one of his lessons and learnt that it is haram to say that to men...thank u

  • @mr.mikaeel6264
    @mr.mikaeel6264 Před 4 lety

    What about narcistic people. As the world seems to evolve around them it's very easy to cause "wounds" because they will always feel like they are the victim and that they do everything wrong. Do you get accounted for this too?

  • @travelerslife8854
    @travelerslife8854 Před 4 lety

    Why is it anybody talkin about the scholars and Saudi Arabia who's been arrested or false presence why are nobody talkin about Dawn Justice that's going on to our Scholars answer Arabia why are people quiet

  • @uzmamaqbool3859
    @uzmamaqbool3859 Před 4 lety

    Ameen