Graeme O'Neil takes a look at Ben Affleck discussing his relationship with Jennifer Lopez in the behind-the-scenes documentary "The Greatest Love Story Never Told".
She said she finally found her self worth after Ben , but what about her kids.? My kids are my greatest love of all , make no mistake they really fill my void . Y doesn’t she focus on her kids what kind of role model is she when it’s all about her, her , her!!! It’s so sickening. She really needs to go away!
Exactly not to mention she’s said the same thing with Arod. He was her biggest supporter and helped her truly love herself supposedly. She just seems emotionally unstable tbh
going out of your way 20 million dollars deep to tell about a love story untold the whole world clearly shows you don't respect ben or you relationship rather than living your so called true love story she out here flaunting it and it comes off as disingenuous and we can respect that she is an incredible dancer and performer dear god this woman has so much traumas she hasn't healed from this entire thing the musical/movie and album and documentary came off as too much and honestly laughable instead of just releasing an album and real raw honest no glitz glamour and being honest with yourself and rest of the world documentary
She’s not going to stop talking about it until she ruins it. I mean what more does she need? Enjoy the moment. If I could I’d say, get out of your own way. The ego is driving her.
I feel they have a true connection and they love each other but I agree with the comments that jlo is doing too much, she should just enjoy her fairy tale romance and be happy, putting it in front of the world wasn’t the smartest idea and everyone knew and that’s why no one backed the project. Girlfriend needs to live her life for herself…Jane Fonda tells her this in the doc and jlo doesn’t seem to get it….
I loved how Jane was trying to stop her from embarrassing herself and saying everyone doesn't want to see Jen all over Ben all the time. Like every picture is of them kissing or whatever. 😂
She left the Ojani who worked as a waiter for Pdiddy, I think then married Chris who was a dancer, left him for Ben, when Ben left her she went back to Marc Anthony who was at the time married with two children, divorce his wife and married her a week later, this was withing months of Ben, the love of her life. leaving her, she had that Casper dancer for a while, until she got with Arod and what like three months later got with Ben. Yest the best love story ever told. She wants to act like Ben revered love Garner, who he said was the most important person in his life at one point, regardless of their difficulties there is love there forever. Payasa.
You people forget this woman use to say Marc Anthony was the love of her life, she talk all this love talk and how they know each other a long time. Now this one is the love of her life!!!??? Interesting isn't it??? Give me a break she don't know what is love.
The little shorts I have seen, seem so fake, bad acting and forced, the energy is completely off. Poor Ben is just following along the foolishness. She is trying so hard to change the narrative and it seems to be doing quite the opposite, confirming what is obvious to many of us.
This project is backfiring on her because she's not giving anything to her fans. She's making it all about her personal experience and it doesn't translate to or speak for anybody but her. Putting up her own money to completely push her narrative on the same subject was a mistake. There is no message to inspire or uplift her audience. Her public are not highly responsive.
@@Nazaba09 That has nothing to do with the fact that she went from hundreds of millions of views to much lower numbers. Anyway, she tortures puppies for fashion and that is evil. Sorry about it. 🙄
20 mins watching this in the docu & she is SO RUDE to everyone, even Ben made a comment about her being scared of her age & the look she gave him … she wanted to kill him. I always said they’re not together - they live totally separately - she could not accept being dumped yet again and so she concocted this PR story about love for the ages, second reason is being safe from prosecution cuz she knew diddy will go down one day & she gave him the gun that night. Like someone said, she didn’t even mention her kids at all in either projects, people now know Ashanti sang her songs, Christina Milian sang her songs and many more. People now know she’s HORRIBLE towards people. “I’m not the same person I was 20 yrs ago” she says at some point. Lady, if a person doesn’t change in 20 yrs, that’s an issue. She said it with sadness though. She CANNOT accept she’s aging and that she cannot have a successful relationship. No man wants to be with a woman like her - who is rude who is in love with herself who thinks she’s 25, who forgets she’s a mother. I feel so sorry for Ben, he aged 20 years in 2 years.
I still really like them as a couple. They are both tough, didn’t grow up with a silver spoon like most of Hollywood, and yet reached superstar status. She’s loud, he’s broody, they seem like a lot of real life couples, even though they have tons of money now. I hope they are able to make it work this time around.
She said something at the very end that people should realize, even if you don't like her it is good to know. When it comes to heart break once you forgive that person whether you are still in their lives or not, you have to learn to forgive yourself as well.
Meant to be? What about his real family and offspring?That wasn't meant to be? the "naturally" beautiful wife and kids he failed miserably. And forget about the jho situation, she's just all over the place with matters of the heart
I knew I wouldn't like the movie just by the public scenes that have been shown. I tried the documentary more for Ben because I'm a born and raised Boston woman. But I had to turn it off not even midway through. "Growing up" in my 20s and very early 30s I worshipped jlo because I've always loved singing and acting. Then as I matured, (yes later than most but I have reasons) I realized she should not be a role model for anyone when she can't love herself. I pray for those kids (including Ben's kids) and for Ben!
You don’t throw away a marriage because of social media scrutiny. That’s a cop out. If you truly love someone, nothing could stand in your way of marrying and being with them. Blaming the paparazzi for the failures in your relationship?? Come on… give me a break. They could go live on a desert island and still have serious issues between them! They’re really not a match made in heaven and I think they’re both starting to see it.
While I don’t necessarily agree with Jennifer doing this film to accompany her album, I don’t think it is such a terrible thing that she did it. I just hope she settles in to the next faze of her life and leaves this pop star stuff behind. I think Benny Medina has lived vicariously through Jennifer’s life and is behind a lot of this publicity driven lifestyle. As always I wish Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck well. Ben looks happy and healthy unlike when he was with Jennifer Garner. I believe Ben and Jen were meant to be. 🙂🥰🙂🥰
I think you forgot the first time they were together. Put on a pedestal. Ben cheated on Jlo and she broke it off. When he was with Garner , he grew up. Became a family man. He became an alcoholic because , once again cheating , career not going as he planned, Jen divorcing him. She did get him help even after he cheated with nanny and saw that snl chick. They weren’t there for him. Jen helped him for a bit. Let’s not forget that. It was not Jlo.
@@HollyCranfan Ben was weak back then, and listened to his mother and friends and turned away from JLO. Ben was going to try and get JLO back but she had run into Marc Anthony’s arms and married him. Jennifer Garner (Who was no innocent person here. She was practically throwing herself at him while he was still engaged to JLO.) was a rebound like Marc, and locked Ben in by getting pregnant. Ben and JLO went their separate ways and the Hollywood media (especially the white females), were happy to see him with Jennifer Garner. Ben spent 10 years obviously unhappy in his marriage to the wrong Jennifer. Jennifer and Ben both ultimately divorced their rebound spouses, and Ben pursued JLO as soon as she parted with AROD. The same people who didn’t want them together originally are sour today, and wish to see their marriage fall apart. Again I believe JLO and Ben truly love each other. Jennifer Garner needs to find happiness with someone else. Yes she was very maternal with Ben, but none of it inspired Ben to come back to her. Ben loves only one Jennifer, and her last name used to be Lopez ( It’s Affleck now.). 🙂🙂🙂
@@avalangrin4904 He was not weak, he did exactly what he wanted at the time. He was lonely now and had an easy option. If he love her, he would have gone for her a long time ago.
@@loliloli6582 We hear about love stories all the time where individuals go with the convenient choice because family, friends, and society approve of that choice. I remember Bennifer 1.0 back then. Ben and JLO were at the beginning of their careers. The media and people in general were very disparaging towards JLO. Much like the irrational hatred Meghan Markle receives. Ben talked about it in an interview how mean and outright racist people were towards his and JLO’s relationship. With the added pressure of family warning Ben of the negative impact JLO would have on his career Ben succumbed to pressure and sabotaged his relationship with JLO. JLO was heartbroken and ran into a relationship with Marc Anthony and married him immediately. Ben would have attempted a reconciliation with JLO if she hadn’t been so impetuous. Jennifer Garner who was married at the time, was throwing herself at Ben while he was still engaged to JLO. Ben turned to Jennifer Garner on the rebound, and Jennifer conveniently got pregnant. Ben and Jennifer got married in a ceremony where no family or friends attended except one of Jennifer’s co-stars from Alias. Ben spent 10 years miserable with Jennifer and everyone could see she was not his heart’s desire. During Ben’s Oscar acceptance speech for Argo his last minute acknowledgment of Jennifer Garner was embarrassingly pathetic. Ben and Jennifer G. then went on SNL to fix it and it was even more awkward. Then there was Ben’s many infidelities in which he literally abandoned Jennifer G. for a SNL producer. Ben fell into depression and alcoholism and was obviously miserable. Yes Jennifer Garner was supportive of Ben during his troubles. However, that did not cause Ben to turn towards her to mend their broken marriage. As soon as JLO separated from AROD Ben began pursuing her. It was like he realized it was his last chance at happiness. Ben sent JLO love letters and they got back together to everyone’s surprise. Again the same people who didn’t want to see them together initially are sour today. I wish Bennifer 2.0 well. 🥰🥰🥰
Jennifer Lopez doesn't really deserve Ben. Affleck, he's really a nice guy that wants his privacy. It just seems like all J Lo wants is to be in the front so that everyone can see her. She's a bit of a narcissist. Of course that's just my opinion.🤔
Dude I usually watch you and I watched this documentary and you really did not give an accurate representation. I can’t respect that. Your view is so skewed but okay your opinion. I got a sense that you’re exceedingly riding the bias trend. Be an individual! Ridiculous. I’m sure you don’t mind I’m done watching you. Bye
Insane that flaunting your love is a bad thing especially with the world we’re living in right now! And the incessant need to make negative them being together the first time and now, seems like an agenda! Both come from humble beginnings and can relate to each other besides the fact that they are into each other! Sounds like all positives to me! Get over it, celebrate them or leave them alone! I say FLAUNT LOVE!!!!! I’m here for it!
It why Ben on record that most of the way they were talk about specifically how folks talk about her was and is racist. It needs to be stated Ben pursued her both times. I also love how everyone talks about Gigli and shit on them for it while forgetting that movie had Al Pacino and other big names in it. It was a dud but everyone has one or two. They also did Jersey Girl which based on what was left and some deleted scenes was actually good film until cut around Jennifer.
She just needs SO MUCH attention, its strange...Affleck was not happy about her putting their lives on display.
Its the greatest tradegy I have ever seen.
A project that should’ve been left on the shelf
She said she finally found her self worth after Ben , but what about her kids.? My kids are my greatest love of all , make no mistake they really fill my void . Y doesn’t she focus on her kids what kind of role model is she when it’s all about her, her , her!!! It’s so sickening. She really needs to go away!
Exactly not to mention she’s said the same thing with Arod. He was her biggest supporter and helped her truly love herself supposedly. She just seems emotionally unstable tbh
going out of your way 20 million dollars deep to tell about a love story untold the whole world clearly shows you don't respect ben or you relationship rather than living your so called true love story she out here flaunting it and it comes off as disingenuous and we can respect that she is an incredible dancer and performer dear god this woman has so much traumas she hasn't healed from this entire thing the musical/movie and album and documentary came off as too much and honestly laughable instead of just releasing an album and real raw honest no glitz glamour and being honest with yourself and rest of the world documentary
She’s not going to stop talking about it until she ruins it. I mean what more does she need? Enjoy the moment. If I could I’d say, get out of your own way. The ego is driving her.
😂😂😂😂 YES ....girl...stop looking in the mirror...put the mirror away
Nothing about those two feels natural. It all feels forced and you can feel it through those movie clips.
So you haven’t seen neither the documentary nor the musical got it
@@veronicacarranza7965 And won't!!!!! Got it?
I feel they have a true connection and they love each other but I agree with the comments that jlo is doing too much, she should just enjoy her fairy tale romance and be happy, putting it in front of the world wasn’t the smartest idea and everyone knew and that’s why no one backed the project. Girlfriend needs to live her life for herself…Jane Fonda tells her this in the doc and jlo doesn’t seem to get it….
I loved how Jane was trying to stop her from embarrassing herself and saying everyone doesn't want to see Jen all over Ben all the time. Like every picture is of them kissing or whatever. 😂
She’s is so emotionally immature for a middles aged woman with 3 divorces on her record 🤦♀️
YES!
I must admit I spent years saying they would get back together and happy they spin the block … I love them and I love love
She left the Ojani who worked as a waiter for Pdiddy, I think then married Chris who was a dancer, left him for Ben, when Ben left her she went back to Marc Anthony who was at the time married with two children, divorce his wife and married her a week later, this was withing months of Ben, the love of her life. leaving her, she had that Casper dancer for a while, until she got with Arod and what like three months later got with Ben. Yest the best love story ever told. She wants to act like Ben revered love Garner, who he said was the most important person in his life at one point, regardless of their difficulties there is love there forever. Payasa.
You people forget this woman use to say Marc Anthony was the love of her life, she talk all this love talk and how they know each other a long time. Now this one is the love of her life!!!??? Interesting isn't it??? Give me a break she don't know what is love.
Go to bed! Some people fall in and out of love! It’s life!
@@angeldelvalle120 you go to bed, mature adults don't, that is called passionate love
She never said that about Marc. He was a rebound.
@loliloli6582 please!!! She's hollywood mattress, love is loyalty and trust you stand in love you genuinely love u don't go from man to man!!!
@@Nazaba09 YES SHE DID AND HOW THEY KNOW EACH OTHER LONG TIME.
The little shorts I have seen, seem so fake, bad acting and forced, the energy is completely off. Poor Ben is just following along the foolishness. She is trying so hard to change the narrative and it seems to be doing quite the opposite, confirming what is obvious to many of us.
I need a bath now
This is soooooo annoying. I hope she goes away for a long time after all this bs. I doubt she will though.
Ashley, she will always be with us. Like satan, she ain't gonna stop.
@@danfoster-hy8mo I know 🤦🏻♀️
😂@@danfoster-hy8mo
It's sooooo bad! Even the behind the scenes doc... it's shite!
I don’t see the hate, let her do what she wants, you just don’t have to watch it.
As she said she don’t need to do any of it, she just wants to
This documentary was filmed over a year ago....i know Ben Afflicted is tired 😅
Gonna skip this one 😂
Marc Anthony made her a hit in the music industry. Notice her music hasn't gone anywhere in a long time.
She is a dancer, dexent actress and not a singer.
This project is backfiring on her because she's not giving anything to her fans. She's making it all about her personal experience and it doesn't translate to or speak for anybody but her. Putting up her own money to completely push her narrative on the same subject was a mistake. There is no message to inspire or uplift her audience. Her public are not highly responsive.
You didn’t watch the documentary if you think that. She’s responding to and making fun of people’s criticisms of her.
@@Nazaba09
That has nothing to do with the fact that she went from hundreds of millions of views to much lower numbers. Anyway, she tortures puppies for fashion and that is evil. Sorry about it. 🙄
20 mins watching this in the docu & she is SO RUDE to everyone, even Ben made a comment about her being scared of her age & the look she gave him … she wanted to kill him. I always said they’re not together - they live totally separately - she could not accept being dumped yet again and so she concocted this PR story about love for the ages, second reason is being safe from prosecution cuz she knew diddy will go down one day & she gave him the gun that night. Like someone said, she didn’t even mention her kids at all in either projects, people now know Ashanti sang her songs, Christina Milian sang her songs and many more. People now know she’s HORRIBLE towards people.
“I’m not the same person I was 20 yrs ago” she says at some point. Lady, if a person doesn’t change in 20 yrs, that’s an issue. She said it with sadness though.
She CANNOT accept she’s aging and that she cannot have a successful relationship. No man wants to be with a woman like her - who is rude who is in love with herself who thinks she’s 25, who forgets she’s a mother.
I feel so sorry for Ben, he aged 20 years in 2 years.
I still really like them as a couple. They are both tough, didn’t grow up with a silver spoon like most of Hollywood, and yet reached superstar status. She’s loud, he’s broody, they seem like a lot of real life couples, even though they have tons of money now. I hope they are able to make it work this time around.
Thank you for realizing. People think they are so different but Ben once said Jen is a girl he grew up with.
You're dealing with complete narcissist's here. Both of them are so unappealing.
Awesome couple
She said something at the very end that people should realize, even if you don't like her it is good to know. When it comes to heart break once you forgive that person whether you are still in their lives or not, you have to learn to forgive yourself as well.
Meant to be? What about his real family and offspring?That wasn't meant to be? the "naturally" beautiful wife and kids he failed miserably. And forget about the jho situation, she's just all over the place with matters of the heart
I loved the project! I did think it was about her. She was able to poke fun of herself while being real.
Jiggly lol at least they have a good sense of humor about it 😊
I knew I wouldn't like the movie just by the public scenes that have been shown. I tried the documentary more for Ben because I'm a born and raised Boston woman. But I had to turn it off not even midway through. "Growing up" in my 20s and very early 30s I worshipped jlo because I've always loved singing and acting. Then as I matured, (yes later than most but I have reasons) I realized she should not be a role model for anyone when she can't love herself. I pray for those kids (including Ben's kids) and for Ben!
Ben's kids have a good mama.
@@loliloli6582 yes they do. Thank goodness.
This was pretty amazing. People just love to tear other people down.
Jennifer loves love and that is ok.
Not if you are hurting people on the way and children are involved.
"Loves love" sounds like an excuse to be a H o e 😂
@@loliloli6582from Jho ít changes to stepmonster 😂
You don’t throw away a marriage because of social media scrutiny. That’s a cop out. If you truly love someone, nothing could stand in your way of marrying and being with them. Blaming the paparazzi for the failures in your relationship?? Come on… give me a break. They could go live on a desert island and still have serious issues between them! They’re really not a match made in heaven and I think they’re both starting to see it.
While I don’t necessarily agree with Jennifer doing this film to accompany her album, I don’t think it is such a terrible thing that she did it. I just hope she settles in to the next faze of her life and leaves this pop star stuff behind. I think Benny Medina has lived vicariously through Jennifer’s life and is behind a lot of this publicity driven lifestyle. As always I wish Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck well. Ben looks happy and healthy unlike when he was with Jennifer Garner. I believe Ben and Jen were meant to be. 🙂🥰🙂🥰
I think you forgot the first time they were together. Put on a pedestal. Ben cheated on Jlo and she broke it off. When he was with Garner , he grew up. Became a family man. He became an alcoholic because , once again cheating , career not going as he planned, Jen divorcing him. She did get him help even after he cheated with nanny and saw that snl chick. They weren’t there for him.
Jen helped him for a bit. Let’s not forget that. It was not Jlo.
@@HollyCranfan Ben was weak back then, and listened to his mother and friends and turned away from JLO. Ben was going to try and get JLO back but she had run into Marc Anthony’s arms and married him. Jennifer Garner (Who was no innocent person here. She was practically throwing herself at him while he was still engaged to JLO.) was a rebound like Marc, and locked Ben in by getting pregnant. Ben and JLO went their separate ways and the Hollywood media (especially the white females), were happy to see him with Jennifer Garner. Ben spent 10 years obviously unhappy in his marriage to the wrong Jennifer. Jennifer and Ben both ultimately divorced their rebound spouses, and Ben pursued JLO as soon as she parted with AROD. The same people who didn’t want them together originally are sour today, and wish to see their marriage fall apart. Again I believe JLO and Ben truly love each other. Jennifer Garner needs to find happiness with someone else. Yes she was very maternal with Ben, but none of it inspired Ben to come back to her. Ben loves only one Jennifer, and her last name used to be Lopez ( It’s Affleck now.). 🙂🙂🙂
@@avalangrin4904 He was not weak, he did exactly what he wanted at the time. He was lonely now and had an easy option. If he love her, he would have gone for her a long time ago.
@@loliloli6582 We hear about love stories all the time where individuals go with the convenient choice because family, friends, and society approve of that choice. I remember Bennifer 1.0 back then. Ben and JLO were at the beginning of their careers. The media and people in general were very disparaging towards JLO. Much like the irrational hatred Meghan Markle receives. Ben talked about it in an interview how mean and outright racist people were towards his and JLO’s relationship. With the added pressure of family warning Ben of the negative impact JLO would have on his career Ben succumbed to pressure and sabotaged his relationship with JLO. JLO was heartbroken and ran into a relationship with Marc Anthony and married him immediately. Ben would have attempted a reconciliation with JLO if she hadn’t been so impetuous. Jennifer Garner who was married at the time, was throwing herself at Ben while he was still engaged to JLO. Ben turned to Jennifer Garner on the rebound, and Jennifer conveniently got pregnant. Ben and Jennifer got married in a ceremony where no family or friends attended except one of Jennifer’s co-stars from Alias. Ben spent 10 years miserable with Jennifer and everyone could see she was not his heart’s desire. During Ben’s Oscar acceptance speech for Argo his last minute acknowledgment of Jennifer Garner was embarrassingly pathetic. Ben and Jennifer G. then went on SNL to fix it and it was even more awkward. Then there was Ben’s many infidelities in which he literally abandoned Jennifer G. for a SNL producer. Ben fell into depression and alcoholism and was obviously miserable. Yes Jennifer Garner was supportive of Ben during his troubles. However, that did not cause Ben to turn towards her to mend their broken marriage. As soon as JLO separated from AROD Ben began pursuing her. It was like he realized it was his last chance at happiness. Ben sent JLO love letters and they got back together to everyone’s surprise. Again the same people who didn’t want to see them together initially are sour today. I wish Bennifer 2.0 well. 🥰🥰🥰
@@avalangrin4904agree with all of this minus Ben’s infidelities. He never cheated.
THATS IRONIC AF For Ben to Ask Jennifer Questions Instead of Someone Else😂😂😂😂😂 U Can Feel the Marriage and Relationship seem so forced af
Thank you. He is looking like a clown.
@@loliloli6582 factsss
Clicked on this wanting to relive my favorite moments from the doc and it’s just the host talking shit. Aren’t Canadians supposed to be nice? 🙄
Theyre not relatable, but act as though they are. I cant connect with that.
I already won't watch this movie. Looks terrible. Jen and Ben aren't relatable to me
When she cries u can tell she’s a lot and has a lot of emotional baggage
Jennifer Lopez doesn't really deserve Ben. Affleck, he's really a nice guy that wants his privacy. It just seems like all J Lo wants is to be in the front so that everyone can see her. She's a bit of a narcissist. Of course that's just my opinion.🤔
JLo should pay people to see that disaster.
Mariah Carey i still dont know her
Enough 🎉🎉
Narcissists
Dude I usually watch you and I watched this documentary and you really did not give an accurate representation. I can’t respect that. Your view is so skewed but okay your opinion. I got a sense that you’re exceedingly riding the bias trend. Be an individual! Ridiculous. I’m sure you don’t mind I’m done watching you. Bye
He's a big Garner fan, what you expect
Insane that flaunting your love is a bad thing especially with the world we’re living in right now! And the incessant need to make negative them being together the first time and now, seems like an agenda! Both come from humble beginnings and can relate to each other besides the fact that they are into each other! Sounds like all positives to me! Get over it, celebrate them or leave them alone! I say FLAUNT LOVE!!!!! I’m here for it!
Well said !
It why Ben on record that most of the way they were talk about specifically how folks talk about her was and is racist. It needs to be stated Ben pursued her both times. I also love how everyone talks about Gigli and shit on them for it while forgetting that movie had Al Pacino and other big names in it. It was a dud but everyone has one or two. They also did Jersey Girl which based on what was left and some deleted scenes was actually good film until cut around Jennifer.
Oh…she’s not well…
J... Stop looking in the mirror...put it away...and enjoy life away from admirers
Can i puke now or later ?
Hate all you want. You don't matter 😂😂😂😂 she's out here enjoying her life
It's sweet. If you don't wanna see it, don't watch it? I love it
I'm rooting for them
This was about her and why she kept chasing after love until she learned to love herself then she found love.
Also these crappy channels wouldn't have content if she didn't do this...
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