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She is right though. When you are a husband and a father, walking off a job and living an insecure lifestyle is something you have to give up because you need to always be securing for your children. You'd better have a lump in the bank before you're walking off a job.
That’s for both parties I remember how much fear I had when I got laid off and it was my daughter and I, but thank God we was more than fine I just wish I enjoyed it instead of worrying all that time
You're right. Single life stops when you take vow for marriage, don't even dream about it when kids pop up. Forget! You're a married man, a husband and a father! You've got to be serious!
That is correct. But she probably talks to him crazy at home and disrespects him allllllllllllll the time. By the time he gets to work, he's like O HELL NAWL!!!! NOT YOU TOO!!
@@quichequiche3177 i feel you bro, in food service especially. On your feet all day and people talking shit right to your face and then you get home and your partner is trashing you? You gotta go
Everybody hating on this chick. I like her! Her delivery might be harsh but I'm almost sure it's a result of him coming up light. If she's willing to work 3 jobs to do what she has to do, it seems commendable to me. She's not trying to use my tax dollars to feed her children and pay her. rent. But sis needs to stop the verbal abuse, especially if it's in front of the kids
But that's the biggest problem right there, "harsh." Sure, the dude needs to keep a job, walking away from a job as a father/husband is a big NO!. But most women fail to realize it's not what you say sometimes, but how you say it. Come correct to a man,and he will listen. Put attitude into it, and all he sees is barking, which triggers his ego as a man, so he will not listen or do anything you tell him to do. But yeah, he is coming up light.
Fidelis Bekong I dont know her personally, but from a woman's perspective, if our delivery is always harsh, it's because we've said it many times (generally). A confident man does not allow these "harsh" deliveries because he does what he needs to do. You can't always be gentle with someone who is not pulling their weight. Sorry, not sorry 🤷🏾♀️
luvmifro1003 Thank you somebody finally said it. The first three times we ask them to do something are usually polite. (“Hey babe, would you mind doing A, B, C when you have a sec?) After that is when our delivery gets harsh because we get tired of repeating ourselves to an adult. Had it been done before, no one would have cause to yell. Don’t act like a child and you won’t get treated like one.
Bryan Beeman her kids prior to this marriage come from her ex husband according to her IG. But yes she's definitely running herself ragged to pay bills and run a household. With all that working i hope she atleast has bought a house!
Im trying to understand what's the problem. People work hard everyday for what they want, maybe her delivery should have been a little different but if she's working, not stealing, not killing for what she wants, what's the problem? She didn't say her bills weren't being paid. She didn't say her kids weren't being provided for. But she's being brow beaten for wanting to have what she wants. She's being bashed more then the husband, the same one who admits to quitting jobs because he doesn't like the disrespect but you have a family at home and responsibilities, gtfoh.
Ms Sherry comes off to me as a very hardworking woman. A woman who knows what she wants n she wants more n better for her children. The problem is when such women date down they get misunderstood , society thinks that they are "greedy". That's y I advise young ladies to get a man with whom your vision in life intertwine. Your goal might be to own a house or travel around the world while that might be the last thing on your partner's mind. Good luck Ms Sherry
She is a very responsible young woman. He should be the leader of his household providing security for his family. This young woman looked like she was about to cry in their picture together. I feel so sorry for her. She is the one who is working hard to make ends meet. He is blessed to have her. If he doesn't step-it-up, he is going to lose her. What does she need him for when he is just dead weight and not being a go-getter? She is better off without him. My heart goes out to her. She looks so unhappy. She deserves much better.
She’s Type A and he’s a deflector. The most annoying part about this is that he’s not willing to work as hard as she does, but he wants to flash her stuff around. And the judge has been getting on my nerves lately. The lady works hard and plays hard. There’s nothing wrong wit that.
Agreed! And if it was the wife doing exactly what he does (which is worse) i.e. "dabbing into the porn industry just as a director's assistant"... you wouldn't hear the end of it LOL!
@@p.r.9982 I would have 0 issue with my wife being a porn director. Being paid more than anyone on set and NOT HAVING TO FUCK ANYBODY??? Sounds like a fire gig. Invite me and we’ll eat popcorn and watch hot people do their thing 🤷🏽♂️
The same way she treated him is the same way some woman is going to treat her sons. The disrespectful low down verbal abuse she gives him is the same abuse her sons will learn to TOLERATE and ACCEPT from a woman when they get older after they watched their mother do that to their father when he stay for it.
Hang Tyme lmao this is what i was thinking, this woman is talking like she's a boss like that and like nice things but she only got $1200 back? 😂 she's delusional.
James Gibson I feel like it's easy point fingers on guys in today's world but very few men are willing to hold the women accountable for their actions and disrespectful attitudes towards them
Nick J, I hear you and for the record, I'm not saying that this woman was right in her stance. I don't know if you regularly watch this show, but if you do, there seems to be this mindset in men where they regress while the women progress. Yes, hold the women accountable, but men should be accountable from jump. We men are looked at as the providers. This brother in this episode seems like a horrible provider. How is it responsible for a man to quit a job just because he's mad at someone? A man with a wife and kids can't afford to be so careless. That's all I'm saying.
Women will lose respect for a man that don't handle business.... Women want money and resources, that's how the game go. Men need to have their stuff together before a relationship... We do a choice to pick a low maintenance woman... Buts it rare if we want someone attractive.
I don't, women who judge men by his material status are materialistic. I pay attention to what is doing with what he has and how he works. There are men that start off homeless and will treat a me like a queen and the way I deserve and willing to work and build and end up being a millionaire but there are men who have it all together and women chase the man that has it all together but cheats on her, but he got money. Money means nothing to me I can make my own money. I look at who you are, who you are can be the man that will work to get something better.
Cam Foxx -- I can't totally agree with that. I remember one comment where she compared black men with Asian men (we were still put down, but at least it wasn't at the expense of white men).
benji 80 if she works at a mental health facility then she probably has a 401k. She doesn’t strike me as the type to spend without having a safety net. He seems like that type actually
twistedblktrekie -- So many fallacies (and some hypocrisy) in your argument. You started your 1st paragraph by saying that black men compare black women to white women, constantly uplift women of other races, and never promote women that look like them. You stated this like it's a negative and grates on your nerves. Well based on your history of posts, you constantly compare black men to other men, you uplift other races of men, and you never promote men that look like you. Don't engage in behavior that you supposedly detest. And when speaking of culture, (even though we're at the bottom of the barrel economically) black culture is the most emulated culture there is. From our music, to our art, to our swag, other races are constantly appropriating aspects of black culture to their own culture. And that point isn't unique to either gender, and they even risk their health to do it. They risk skin cancer to become darker (tanning) and injections to get fuller lips, hips, and butts to copy features that are natural to our ethnicity. Instead of constantly thinking of ways we should emulate them (tho some of your points are valid), acknowledge all the ways they try to be like us. And you keep mentioning sistas outdoing us as far as education. I applaud and am proud of the fact that black women are becoming more educated and I wish we (black men) would close this gap. But education isn't the sole barometer of economic success. Based on simple biology (and maybe work expectations), men of all races can more easily obtain financial success without advanced education moreso than women. My plumber, electrician, and mechanic are all black men who are very successful without college degrees (and they all work for themselves). My landscaper is also black (though he has a 9-5). My brother is a successful farmer with no college degree. But the best example is my job. I work for an oil refinery. It employs roughly 350 hourly (union) people (this is not including contractors). The union workforce is about 98% male, about 33% black. All of us make 6 figures. Though I have a college degree, there are many brothas at the job making serious bank without one. Some black women (about 20) are in administration and clock serious dollars, but they needed a degree. Jobs like welding, working on barges, chemical company work, heavy machinery work, etc all pay extremely well (earning more than nurses, which I always see you allude to), are male dominated, and don't require a degree. So you're correct when you say black women are getting "more educated" than black men. But black men still significantly earn more than black women. I don't say that with delight. It's just a fact. Finally, I like divorce court because it's entertaining. But it's also designed for ratings, and it appears the formula for maximum viewership is to portray black men in the worst possible light. The unemployment rate for black men is about 7.5%. On D.C., it's about 40%. I only know one person trying to be a rapper (and only knew about 2 when I was in college). On D.C., you might have 1 per week. Saying divorce court represents most black men is akin to saying Maury or Paternity Court represents most black women. If you don't believe one, you shouldn't believe the other.
Why are y'all taking a $6,000 trip when your trying to send your child to college? Nooooooo!!!! I knew when I saw the clip yesterday that this chick was doing too much.
2theOmega she said it was her graduation gift.. So she wasn't in college and he had a job and he quit which threw a wrench in her plan... But he had money to by a case of liquor
Ummm... people go to college after graduation, right? Ok.... So a $6,000 trip for the whole family is a lot of money when you're trying to send a child to college, especially when you have 7 kids. Lastly, he bought the case and then came home and sold it. That's an investment.
2theOmega who's to say the daughter wanted to go to graduate school. Who's to say it wasn't graduate school she finished. Who's to say the whole family was going. And he didn't pay for the activities... WHICH HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO PAY FOR.. and bought the liquor with that money. He had the money and used it for something else that it wasn't for. Dont tell me you are going to do something and then don't do it.. I understand why she's mad. He said one thing and did another
Yes, her daughter graduated college. But they've only been together for 11 years and have 4 children together. That is at least 4 more kids that are going to need to go. I don't know who all went on this cruise and what they expected but my mom and step dad took a cruise to the Bahamas from Florida for their Honeymoon. The cruise itself was only $1500 for 5 days with 2 people. But no, I don't know who all went. Regardless, $6,000 is a lot of money to waist on a trip when one of you allegedly can't keep a job and the other one is talking about working 60,70 and 80 hours a week. Especially when you say it's a gift for somebody else. Listen, y'all wouldn't want me to be a parent because I'm not spending $500 on a grown ass MF that I just finished putting through college. And if they're up here arguing about it now, they couldn't afford it then. It shouldn't have happened.
All of that womans heavy attitude towards him is his fault. I'm married to a woman sort of like her: from Miami. I found I had to be more aggressive than her. Once I set the tone as "The Man" she became a great wife. This type woman would roll over a weak man but would be great to a strong one.
Ummmmm I’ve been on many a cruises an never spent more that 2500......she tryin to have a Luis Vuitton lifestyle on a Victoria secret budget.....whatever happened to building together and striving to reach success together? Why some of the women lately believe success is based off Material things....smh I’m building a future not a right now future....and he needs to grow up I’ve wanted to slap many people but I have three kids they matter more than the nonsense out there on the job
Vanessa Holloway I got to the end just now. And she had to take 3200 from her 401k for a new vehicle lol well that cruise Was her vehicle! They couldn't have had savings to go to 401k smh
Bimmerbabe that’s why I’m like you blowing money on vacations but can’t afford the normal stuff in life smh thank goodness they broke up smh they a mess 🤣🤣🤣
She keeps wanting "half" for everything, but by the sounds of it, she earns more than he does. Yep, I think he has a work ethic issue but she's not realistic and there have been times when he worked more and then she complains. SMH, she can't have it both ways
@@bambidaydreamer3 it is when its not what you want only.. its fair 50/50 when its agreed upon . You not going expect me to take care of you and ya bad ass kids while you fling nothing but bitching and adding more bills .. but that's just my opinion 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
w j 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is obese ... l feel bad for brothas who believe in the pussy by any mines mentally.. A lot of these women are over weight and over bearing , single mothers breed by thugs at this point it’s better being gay.
She work all those hours and talking about nice things but crying over a couple thousand you would have thought she drove a Benz. #Expectationstowayhigh #Comeoffyourhighhorse #Broke
He said “You can’t go from steak to hamburger helper” 🤣🤣🤣 Then she comes up with “broke, busted, and disgusted” 🤣🤣🤣 *Where the cookout at cause y’all are so funny.*
But let me find out where he displayed good work ethic BEFORE she married him. Because lady if he was a dud BEFORE you married him.......then he still gonna be a dud after rings exchanged, cake cut and bouquets tossed. Thats on her, she messed up picking this delusions of grandeur guy.
Her delivery is wack, but I understand her completely! His work ethic sucks and he is always coming up short. If he works more the he slacks off at home. He can't walk and chew gum at the same time. Meanwhile, she HAS to do it all at all times regardless if he shows up or not. She is frustrated and tired. He is full of excuses.
MsAKALady yup this all happened when woman got rights to work . We got right to work but also had to still be domestic . Men got to just keep working and paid more to do it
And I agree with the judge's assessment at the end. And she said the exact same thing I said yesterday. I'm glad, because I did think I was being to judgmental based off a 37 second clip.
This is a case of opposite they both have two different mind set two different way of living and something when one person compromise they feel like they taking away from themselves this is an example !
What Agitated Me; was the fact that: HE ASKED IF HE COULD DRIVE HER SPORTS CLUB CAR. SHE SAID: NO! HE WAITED UNTIL SHE JUMPED IN THE SHOWER AND HE TOOK OFF IN HER CAR. HE TOTALLED HER CAR, HIS ISSURACE GAVE HER 1200.00. AND THE COURTS SAYS: HE'S NOT RESPONSIBLE TO PUT UP AT LEAST HALF FOR HER NEW CAR! I FIND THAT TO BE "FOUL" AROUND! *SHE IS BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM!
how he's gonna walk off a job, without havin' another one? & ole girl WORKIN'; DOIN' whatever it takes, if she wasn't, folks would have something to say about that... smh but i am proud of her for not puttin' her responsibility off on others, congrats!!!
She likes to dictate but what she needs to do is LISTEN! She's a fast, sassy talker that needs to educate herself on how to be a wife instead of a materialistic control freak. She got on my nerves 50 × 1000 to the tenth power!
verbal abuse is true but controlling i disagree with. when he stops walking around being a financial burden and having his wife go tooth and nail to provide for the entire family then he can get some mercy. she's independent and works hard to get what she wants and he's a dependent who relies on her to make up for his short comings. i don't blame her for being tough on him. if you wanna be seen as a man, get off your ass and prove yourself.
That broad is a mean, selfish brat. I'm not saying he's innocent cause I honestly think he's a little simple, but he'll be better off without her. Like my hubby said...he was quitting jobs when he should have been quitting her.
SHE SAID NOBODY TAKES VIDEOS LIKE HE DID AND NO DIP STICKS BEING STUCK WELL LADY NOT A LOT OF MEN TAKE ANOTHER MANS WIFE TO A DARK MOVIE AND SOMETHINGS NOT GETTING RUBBED
She's a fast talker, but most of what she was talking about was bullshit! I think he makes excuses about why he's leaving jobs, but she wants to live this lifestyles of the rich n' infamous , on a beer budget. Sacrificing your time to work to go on a cruise and have the finer things is okay in some instances, but doing that to just stunt isn't. She's loud and overbearing and wants it her way and to hell with him. If he had turned around and cussed her fast talking ass out and slapped the taste out of her mouth, then he'd be in the wrong, but she doesn't see anything wrong with how she's acting. I hope she stays single and delusional.
7 kids!!?? kids and cruise excursions ain't cheap!! marriage is not hard you just have some selfish, immature ppl. my husband is the BEST he supports me, and makes sure his family comes FIRST. we put GOD first. 30yrs later we still going strong!!
Sherry has herself a boo in the waiting .. And cannot wait to be away from her present husband (obviously). I just hope for her sake that the grass is greener on that other side.
One day this woman gone wake up and kick herself for this decision.With that attitude and that many kids,on top of the fact that they don't make men like they used to.Don't get me wrong because I wish her luck... she just seem like a hard to love person.To me their relationship could've made it with counseling and her giving up her attitude and live within her means.All he needed to do was find a good job keep it and help out more.
And people change after some years. He obviously got use to her paying bill. And he acts like a baby at his own jobs because he thinks they are disrespecting him. So he hasn't showed up correct. And she's fed up. Every woman becomes bossy when everything is on your plate. You control everything that's why you are bossy
Ashley Carter I agree. You are forced to be the man because they are short, then they call you bossy. Your forced to take on masculine traits. Now she is obviously living beyond her means. She a consumer. She works and works for the privilege of consuming. However,
Pat P there is no however. When you are overwhelmed you don't think let me take the time out to see why he's ditching all responsibly. You see yourself having to pick up that slack. And what does that do. Add to the overwhelm. Counseling doesn't always help. And people don't always change after counseling or even plan advice.
I hate loud, nagging, and verbally abusive women. The worst part is that you dont see this side of them until a few years into the marriage. Some men have faults too. Getting married is a huge gamble.
she's a beautiful woman. he's not a bad guy, he just doesn't have his priorities all the way straight as far keeping a job. they'll be better off moving forward separately.
Jacquelyn Palacio I'm a entrepreneur so Job or not I pay all my bills 💵 so you might want to get your mind set right, as I stated before she never said I didn't pay bills or take care of my kids but thanks for your concern 😁
Lovey J I agree. I don't think the problems they have are cause for divorce. They need counseling. First of all she is too mouthy, materialistic and verbally abusive. You don't call each other vile names. These are death and soul killing words. There is no way you are going to be in a good relationship behaving so ughly. He is irresponsible, quitting jobs. He is video taping vaginas. These behaviors are bad for a happy marriage.
Ok if you guys agreed so. For future reference, it may not be a bad idea to show your mate some respect. Don't tolerate disrespectful behaviors from your mate, but also do not exhibit disrespectful behavior toward him. God bless ya'll
She needed help with all them kids and financially. Its not about half. Both parties need to be full and all in! With all them kids they both need a few jobs. No time to fuss if you are hard working and raising the kids! You appreciate family and having someone when you aren't petty all the damn time.
She sounds really controlling. The brother on the other hand sounds really calm ( a bit too calm). He seems to be the type who runs away when there is an issue he has no control of. She is materialistic and he isn't . They are better as parents only !! Their personalities don't really match
i have always gotton "annoyed" with guys that say...: well i won't walk on to a job for any less than $20 an hr...or i can't stay on a job that i "FEEL' disrespected in.....good thing they weren't SINGLE MOTHERS!! as kids would never eat and bills would never get paid with that attitude and mentality!!! you'd be surprised at how much sh*t you CAN eat when you have babies depending on YOU!!!! let me know mom's if you KNOW what i mean.....
Walking off jobs, with a family no less, is totally unacceptable
This IS why our community are so broke and broken
“He’s not verbally abusive, I’m the verbally abusive one” 😂😂😂 deceased 😭😭
LMAOO.. She was funny as hell!
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She is right though. When you are a husband and a father, walking off a job and living an insecure lifestyle is something you have to give up because you need to always be securing for your children. You'd better have a lump in the bank before you're walking off a job.
That’s for both parties I remember how much fear I had when I got laid off and it was my daughter and I, but thank God we was more than fine I just wish I enjoyed it instead of worrying all that time
You're right. Single life stops when you take vow for marriage, don't even dream about it when kids pop up. Forget! You're a married man, a husband and a father! You've got to be serious!
That is correct. But she probably talks to him crazy at home and disrespects him allllllllllllll the time. By the time he gets to work, he's like O HELL NAWL!!!! NOT YOU TOO!!
He sounds trifling don't want to work and still owes half of filing fee for the divorce child support will be a struggle for him
@@quichequiche3177 i feel you bro, in food service especially. On your feet all day and people talking shit right to your face and then you get home and your partner is trashing you? You gotta go
Everybody hating on this chick. I like her! Her delivery might be harsh but I'm almost sure it's a result of him coming up light. If she's willing to work 3 jobs to do what she has to do, it seems commendable to me. She's not trying to use my tax dollars to feed her children and pay her. rent. But sis needs to stop the verbal abuse, especially if it's in front of the kids
But that's the biggest problem right there, "harsh." Sure, the dude needs to keep a job, walking away from a job as a father/husband is a big NO!. But most women fail to realize it's not what you say sometimes, but how you say it. Come correct to a man,and he will listen. Put attitude into it, and all he sees is barking, which triggers his ego as a man, so he will not listen or do anything you tell him to do. But yeah, he is coming up light.
Fidelis Bekong I dont know her personally, but from a woman's perspective, if our delivery is always harsh, it's because we've said it many times (generally). A confident man does not allow these "harsh" deliveries because he does what he needs to do. You can't always be gentle with someone who is not pulling their weight. Sorry, not sorry 🤷🏾♀️
luvmifro1003 Thank you somebody finally said it. The first three times we ask them to do something are usually polite. (“Hey babe, would you mind doing A, B, C when you have a sec?)
After that is when our delivery gets harsh because we get tired of repeating ourselves to an adult. Had it been done before, no one would have cause to yell. Don’t act like a child and you won’t get treated like one.
luvmifro1003 Then stop saying it the same way because it’s NOT working! Don’t act like it’s because you’re a strong woman, etc.
luvmifro1003 exactly
I like her. She works hard to provide for herself and her family. She wants reciprocity, and she deserves it!
This is a thorough woman, she has to meet a man who will measure up.
7 kids. 3 by him, 4 from prior relationships..... Whoa!!!! That's why you need to work 60-70 hrs
Bryan Beeman
Same thing I said. Another chick that want to live beyond her means.
Bryan Beeman her kids prior to this marriage come from her ex husband according to her IG. But yes she's definitely running herself ragged to pay bills and run a household. With all that working i hope she atleast has bought a house!
That’s a lot I don’t even want that many wit one dude
He's in hell..period
I’m not judging but I really want to know how he was able to get to know a woman with 4 kids she don’t have time to date with 4 kids
This woman needs her own show! 😂😂😂😂
I never thought I would say this ,but im glad they are divorcing
Im trying to understand what's the problem. People work hard everyday for what they want, maybe her delivery should have been a little different but if she's working, not stealing, not killing for what she wants, what's the problem? She didn't say her bills weren't being paid. She didn't say her kids weren't being provided for. But she's being brow beaten for wanting to have what she wants. She's being bashed more then the husband, the same one who admits to quitting jobs because he doesn't like the disrespect but you have a family at home and responsibilities, gtfoh.
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They went ahead with filing for divorce.
Sherri is still waiting for his half of the filing fee
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He NEVER Deserved Her to begin with. He hasn't been about anything beyond Himself and that REALLY gets OLD!
I love it when Lynn says leave Joe alone
if she's waiting for him to pay his half of the filing fee, she's never going to get divorced. That man don't like spending money.
Bwahahahaha
Ms Sherry comes off to me as a very hardworking woman. A woman who knows what she wants n she wants more n better for her children. The problem is when such women date down they get misunderstood , society thinks that they are "greedy". That's y I advise young ladies to get a man with whom your vision in life intertwine. Your goal might be to own a house or travel around the world while that might be the last thing on your partner's mind. Good luck Ms Sherry
sharon oguta exactly
sharon oguta exactly
sharon oguta very well said
Soooo very true!! #witness
Ms. Sherry is a loud mouth know it all.
I love this lady, I’m literally in the floor laughing😂😂😂😂
She is a very responsible young woman. He should be the leader of his household providing security for his family. This young woman looked like she was about to cry in their picture together. I feel so sorry for her. She is the one who is working hard to make ends meet. He is blessed to have her. If he doesn't step-it-up, he is going to lose her. What does she need him for when he is just dead weight and not being a go-getter? She is better off without him. My heart goes out to her. She looks so unhappy. She deserves much better.
Responsible? 4 kids from 4 defferant fathers lol you women make me laugh she is loud mouth and ghetto
She’s Type A and he’s a deflector. The most annoying part about this is that he’s not willing to work as hard as she does, but he wants to flash her stuff around.
And the judge has been getting on my nerves lately. The lady works hard and plays hard. There’s nothing wrong wit that.
You have no idea 💡 of what you are saying buddy, I don't flash anyone's stuff around
Lavinder11 you get it!! Points for you😁
Thank You I been saying the same thing
i love this woman she's so funny n stands her ground 😂
Men are so funny. 'Yes I videoed women playing with themselves and that's not cheating, but you went to the cinema with a dude and that is" 😏
Um did you miss the fact that he and judge said he dabbles in the porn industry as a director solely?
You may want to go back and watch the show again because I never said her going to the movies was cheating, I said she was being sneaky!!! 🕺🏾
Agreed! And if it was the wife doing exactly what he does (which is worse) i.e. "dabbing into the porn industry just as a director's assistant"... you wouldn't hear the end of it LOL!
Clisare did u really see this as one sided? And did u indict all men because of one man?
@@p.r.9982 I would have 0 issue with my wife being a porn director. Being paid more than anyone on set and NOT HAVING TO FUCK ANYBODY??? Sounds like a fire gig. Invite me and we’ll eat popcorn and watch hot people do their thing 🤷🏽♂️
If he had money, they wouldn't be on the show
they still would. She is too disrespectful
That’s the problem with us blacks making all those children and can’t take care of them
Brother coming up Light.
Terrence The Dowser Barnes lol I love when judge Lynn say that
lmao
I think she has moved on emotionally, physically and mentally. She is very confident of herself.
She talks so fast lol you know she's done with him
The same way she treated him is the same way some woman is going to treat her sons. The disrespectful low down verbal abuse she gives him is the same abuse her sons will learn to TOLERATE and ACCEPT from a woman when they get older after they watched their mother do that to their father when he stay for it.
October3074 u stfu...thats facts
Akstylez _ak FACTS!!!
Say dat again!!!!
Yup...or they will be abusive men...
Yup....
Your truck was totaled and you only got $1200.00? Well, so much for nice "things".
Hang Tyme lmao this is what i was thinking, this woman is talking like she's a boss like that and like nice things but she only got $1200 back? 😂 she's delusional.
Judge Lynn: Ok that’s it I’m done I’m so glad y’all getting a divorce‼️
Me: 😂😂😂😂💀💀
Men=Responsibility. When will these dudes understand that as a husband/father, you have to GRIND and PROVIDE!!!!!!!!!!
James Gibson hmm.. u got a girl bro?
Vee Darko, I wrote a book. It's on Amazon.
Nick J, hmm, what does that matter? A man has to be a man bro. What part of that don't you get?
James Gibson I feel like it's easy point fingers on guys in today's world but very few men are willing to hold the women accountable for their actions and disrespectful attitudes towards them
Nick J, I hear you and for the record, I'm not saying that this woman was right in her stance. I don't know if you regularly watch this show, but if you do, there seems to be this mindset in men where they regress while the women progress. Yes, hold the women accountable, but men should be accountable from jump. We men are looked at as the providers. This brother in this episode seems like a horrible provider. How is it responsible for a man to quit a job just because he's mad at someone? A man with a wife and kids can't afford to be so careless. That's all I'm saying.
Women will lose respect for a man that don't handle business.... Women want money and resources, that's how the game go. Men need to have their stuff together before a relationship... We do a choice to pick a low maintenance woman... Buts it rare if we want someone attractive.
I don't, women who judge men by his material status are materialistic. I pay attention to what is doing with what he has and how he works. There are men that start off homeless and will treat a me like a queen and the way I deserve and willing to work and build and end up being a millionaire but there are men who have it all together and women chase the man that has it all together but cheats on her, but he got money. Money means nothing to me I can make my own money. I look at who you are, who you are can be the man that will work to get something better.
Lmao I'm beautiful and low maintenance military style🤣😅💪🏾
Real talk lady libra I'm a libra too I heard that!
I wonder if she has savings for retirement. She keep talking about buying nice things but she isn't talking about anything sensible.
benji 80 she said she got a 401k
Cam Foxx -- I can't totally agree with that. I remember one comment where she compared black men with Asian men (we were still put down, but at least it wasn't at the expense of white men).
benji 80 if she works at a mental health facility then she probably has a 401k. She doesn’t strike me as the type to spend without having a safety net. He seems like that type actually
twistedblktrekie -- So many fallacies (and some hypocrisy) in your argument. You started your 1st paragraph by saying that black men compare black women to white women, constantly uplift women of other races, and never promote women that look like them. You stated this like it's a negative and grates on your nerves. Well based on your history of posts, you constantly compare black men to other men, you uplift other races of men, and you never promote men that look like you. Don't engage in behavior that you supposedly detest.
And when speaking of culture, (even though we're at the bottom of the barrel economically) black culture is the most emulated culture there is. From our music, to our art, to our swag, other races are constantly appropriating aspects of black culture to their own culture. And that point isn't unique to either gender, and they even risk their health to do it. They risk skin cancer to become darker (tanning) and injections to get fuller lips, hips, and butts to copy features that are natural to our ethnicity. Instead of constantly thinking of ways we should emulate them (tho some of your points are valid), acknowledge all the ways they try to be like us.
And you keep mentioning sistas outdoing us as far as education. I applaud and am proud of the fact that black women are becoming more educated and I wish we (black men) would close this gap. But education isn't the sole barometer of economic success. Based on simple biology (and maybe work expectations), men of all races can more easily obtain financial success without advanced education moreso than women. My plumber, electrician, and mechanic are all black men who are very successful without college degrees (and they all work for themselves). My landscaper is also black (though he has a 9-5). My brother is a successful farmer with no college degree. But the best example is my job. I work for an oil refinery. It employs roughly 350 hourly (union) people (this is not including contractors). The union workforce is about 98% male, about 33% black. All of us make 6 figures. Though I have a college degree, there are many brothas at the job making serious bank without one. Some black women (about 20) are in administration and clock serious dollars, but they needed a degree. Jobs like welding, working on barges, chemical company work, heavy machinery work, etc all pay extremely well (earning more than nurses, which I always see you allude to), are male dominated, and don't require a degree. So you're correct when you say black women are getting "more educated" than black men. But black men still significantly earn more than black women. I don't say that with delight. It's just a fact.
Finally, I like divorce court because it's entertaining. But it's also designed for ratings, and it appears the formula for maximum viewership is to portray black men in the worst possible light. The unemployment rate for black men is about 7.5%. On D.C., it's about 40%. I only know one person trying to be a rapper (and only knew about 2 when I was in college). On D.C., you might have 1 per week. Saying divorce court represents most black men is akin to saying Maury or Paternity Court represents most black women. If you don't believe one, you shouldn't believe the other.
Imani Floyd When you take money out of retirement to buy a damn truck for pleasure, your thinking is off.
He’s happy with a C+ life and she wants to go places. They just not right for each other
He need to get a job and keep it
Get a job, have a job, and KEEP a job lol
Why are y'all taking a $6,000 trip when your trying to send your child to college? Nooooooo!!!! I knew when I saw the clip yesterday that this chick was doing too much.
2theOmega she said it was her graduation gift.. So she wasn't in college and he had a job and he quit which threw a wrench in her plan... But he had money to by a case of liquor
Ummm... people go to college after graduation, right? Ok.... So a $6,000 trip for the whole family is a lot of money when you're trying to send a child to college, especially when you have 7 kids. Lastly, he bought the case and then came home and sold it. That's an investment.
2theOmega she said for “our daughter who graduated college”
2theOmega who's to say the daughter wanted to go to graduate school. Who's to say it wasn't graduate school she finished. Who's to say the whole family was going. And he didn't pay for the activities... WHICH HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO PAY FOR.. and bought the liquor with that money. He had the money and used it for something else that it wasn't for. Dont tell me you are going to do something and then don't do it.. I understand why she's mad. He said one thing and did another
Yes, her daughter graduated college. But they've only been together for 11 years and have 4 children together. That is at least 4 more kids that are going to need to go. I don't know who all went on this cruise and what they expected but my mom and step dad took a cruise to the Bahamas from Florida for their Honeymoon. The cruise itself was only $1500 for 5 days with 2 people. But no, I don't know who all went. Regardless, $6,000 is a lot of money to waist on a trip when one of you allegedly can't keep a job and the other one is talking about working 60,70 and 80 hours a week. Especially when you say it's a gift for somebody else. Listen, y'all wouldn't want me to be a parent because I'm not spending $500 on a grown ass MF that I just finished putting through college. And if they're up here arguing about it now, they couldn't afford it then. It shouldn't have happened.
Never dip in your 401k unless it's an emergency.
All of that womans heavy attitude towards him is his fault. I'm married to a woman sort of like her: from Miami. I found I had to be more aggressive than her. Once I set the tone as "The Man" she became a great wife. This type woman would roll over a weak man but would be great to a strong one.
Ummmmm I’ve been on many a cruises an never spent more that 2500......she tryin to have a Luis Vuitton lifestyle on a Victoria secret budget.....whatever happened to building together and striving to reach success together? Why some of the women lately believe success is based off Material things....smh I’m building a future not a right now future....and he needs to grow up I’ve wanted to slap many people but I have three kids they matter more than the nonsense out there on the job
I wanna know where they went for 6k.
Bimmerbabe shoot me too lol!
Vanessa Holloway I got to the end just now. And she had to take 3200 from her 401k for a new vehicle lol well that cruise Was her vehicle! They couldn't have had savings to go to 401k smh
Bimmerbabe that’s why I’m like you blowing money on vacations but can’t afford the normal stuff in life smh thank goodness they broke up smh they a mess 🤣🤣🤣
Thats how much it cost if they brought all those kids... lol
She keeps wanting "half" for everything, but by the sounds of it, she earns more than he does. Yep, I think he has a work ethic issue but she's not realistic and there have been times when he worked more and then she complains. SMH, she can't have it both ways
she is realistic and he's financially incompetent. when you are married "half" isn't asking for too much.
@@bambidaydreamer3 it is when its not what you want only.. its fair 50/50 when its agreed upon . You not going expect me to take care of you and ya bad ass kids while you fling nothing but bitching and adding more bills .. but that's just my opinion 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I just looked up her Instagram. She is a scammer. She promoting fitness. Now if that is fit I'm going to enjoy this whole box of pizza tonight.
w j -- LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
w j 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is obese ... l feel bad for brothas who believe in the pussy by any mines mentally.. A lot of these women are over weight and over bearing , single mothers breed by thugs at this point it’s better being gay.
BLACK-DYNAMITE -- Better being gay????? Did you really think that comment thru?
BLACK-DYNAMITE I figured you were gay by your first sentence 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
She work all those hours and talking about nice things but crying over a couple thousand you would have thought she drove a Benz. #Expectationstowayhigh #Comeoffyourhighhorse
#Broke
Fussing, Fussing ,and more damn Fussing!
Lol the chump is trying his hardest to mooch off of this nagging 3 job woman ANYBODY would fuss lol
He said “You can’t go from steak to hamburger helper” 🤣🤣🤣 Then she comes up with “broke, busted, and disgusted” 🤣🤣🤣 *Where the cookout at cause y’all are so funny.*
Steak to hamburger helper 😂😂😂😂 I can’t
Damn did she say dipstick⁉👌 🤣😂😭🤧💯
SHE MOST LIKELY FELT HER TUTORS IN MOVIE
But let me find out where he displayed good work ethic BEFORE she married him. Because lady if he was a dud BEFORE you married him.......then he still gonna be a dud after rings exchanged, cake cut and bouquets tossed.
Thats on her, she messed up picking this delusions of grandeur guy.
I don’t see why there’s so many negative comments about the wife....
I'm dead dipstick 😂
Her delivery is wack, but I understand her completely! His work ethic sucks and he is always coming up short. If he works more the he slacks off at home. He can't walk and chew gum at the same time. Meanwhile, she HAS to do it all at all times regardless if he shows up or not. She is frustrated and tired. He is full of excuses.
MsAKALady yup this all happened when woman got rights to work . We got right to work but also had to still be domestic . Men got to just keep working and paid more to do it
I'm glad that you know our whole life together just by hearing about 1 trip 🤣🤣🤣🕺🏾
MsAKALady It took several kids to figure that out?
And I agree with the judge's assessment at the end. And she said the exact same thing I said yesterday. I'm glad, because I did think I was being to judgmental based off a 37 second clip.
This is a case of opposite they both have two different mind set two different way of living and something when one person compromise they feel like they taking away from themselves this is an example !
What Agitated Me; was the fact that:
HE ASKED IF HE COULD DRIVE HER SPORTS CLUB CAR.
SHE SAID: NO!
HE WAITED UNTIL SHE JUMPED IN THE SHOWER AND HE TOOK OFF IN HER CAR.
HE TOTALLED HER CAR, HIS ISSURACE GAVE HER 1200.00.
AND THE COURTS SAYS:
HE'S NOT RESPONSIBLE TO PUT UP AT LEAST HALF FOR HER NEW CAR!
I FIND THAT TO BE "FOUL" AROUND!
*SHE IS BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM!
His facial hair looks nice.
💯💯💯
😂😂
I believe this is not just about a job they are not right for each other at all.
how he's gonna walk off a job, without havin' another one? & ole girl WORKIN'; DOIN' whatever it takes, if she wasn't, folks would have something to say about that... smh but i am proud of her for not puttin' her responsibility off on others, congrats!!!
She likes to dictate but what she needs to do is LISTEN! She's a fast, sassy talker that needs to educate herself on how to be a wife instead of a materialistic control freak. She got on my nerves 50 × 1000 to the tenth power!
Farrah Array Say that! If she knew how powerful her femininity is she wouldn't be in divorce court.
PoetikStarr I know that's right!
I agree
Damn a woman calling out another woman's bullshit Im in love with you lol
Hey I went to school with Aaron. Good to see him; he was always a quiet shy guy in school.
She needs an alpha male that will shut allllll of that down!!
TVKennedy3 lol
Correct, so you know one? 😎
You telling a man you love him while your in front of me… I’m gone
Love how people will blame evryone else before they relize that they are the problem. The job situation mos def seems like his fault!
She seem very controlling.
Akeya Yamang really?!
Akeya Yamang She's a loud Mouth Tainted Bitch.
Yolanda Autrey-Keen Yes Really.Fuck You mean Really?
verbal abuse is true but controlling i disagree with. when he stops walking around being a financial burden and having his wife go tooth and nail to provide for the entire family then he can get some mercy. she's independent and works hard to get what she wants and he's a dependent who relies on her to make up for his short comings. i don't blame her for being tough on him. if you wanna be seen as a man, get off your ass and prove yourself.
And is
That broad is a mean, selfish brat. I'm not saying he's innocent cause I honestly think he's a little simple, but he'll be better off without her. Like my hubby said...he was quitting jobs when he should have been quitting her.
PoetikStarr amen
SHE SAID NOBODY TAKES VIDEOS LIKE HE DID AND NO DIP STICKS BEING STUCK WELL LADY NOT A LOT OF MEN TAKE ANOTHER MANS WIFE TO A DARK MOVIE AND SOMETHINGS NOT GETTING RUBBED
She's a fast talker, but most of what she was talking about was bullshit! I think he makes excuses about why he's leaving jobs, but she wants to live this lifestyles of the rich n' infamous , on a beer budget. Sacrificing your time to work to go on a cruise and have the finer things is okay in some instances, but doing that to just stunt isn't. She's loud and overbearing and wants it her way and to hell with him. If he had turned around and cussed her fast talking ass out and slapped the taste out of her mouth, then he'd be in the wrong, but she doesn't see anything wrong with how she's acting. I hope she stays single and delusional.
Oh… sorry you feel this way!
This lady is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
7 kids!!?? kids and cruise excursions ain't cheap!! marriage is not hard you just have some selfish, immature ppl. my husband is the BEST he supports me, and makes sure his family comes FIRST. we put GOD first. 30yrs later we still going strong!!
Sherry has herself a boo in the waiting .. And cannot wait to be away from her present husband (obviously). I just hope for her sake that the grass is greener on that other side.
Justcallme Justice It never is
my thoughts exactly
Bop Top I'm sure in this case it is
Justcallme Justice its not
Nope, I wanted peace and stability. You can’t say your the Man but are refusing to be the Man. 😎
Notification gang where you at
I just got to say she is SUPERWOMAN no two ways about it she got her hustle on.
why she had to dip in her 401k with all that hours she works!? yeah she wanna be the Jones 4 real
Monique Myles True Story
Monique Myles and kids cost a lot...
Monique Myles lol
this episode needed the "facial expression guy " in the background. He would of had a field day!
The wife is pretty and her sass is hilarious 😂
One day this woman gone wake up and kick herself for this decision.With that attitude and that many kids,on top of the fact that they don't make men like they used to.Don't get me wrong because I wish her luck... she just seem like a hard to love person.To me their relationship could've made it with counseling and her giving up her attitude and live within her means.All he needed to do was find a good job keep it and help out more.
Nicole Anderson you live in south carolina?
If you have to go to counseling while married or before marriage you shouldn't be together
And people change after some years. He obviously got use to her paying bill. And he acts like a baby at his own jobs because he thinks they are disrespecting him. So he hasn't showed up correct. And she's fed up. Every woman becomes bossy when everything is on your plate. You control everything that's why you are bossy
Ashley Carter I agree. You are forced to be the man because they are short, then they call you bossy. Your forced to take on masculine traits.
Now she is obviously living beyond her means. She a consumer. She works and works for the privilege of consuming.
However,
Pat P there is no however. When you are overwhelmed you don't think let me take the time out to see why he's ditching all responsibly. You see yourself having to pick up that slack. And what does that do. Add to the overwhelm. Counseling doesn't always help. And people don't always change after counseling or even plan advice.
I hate loud, nagging, and verbally abusive women. The worst part is that you dont see this side of them until a few years into the marriage. Some men have faults too.
Getting married is a huge gamble.
earlibee it’s hard to nag a man that’s doing his job
Sumayah Zahid ....no it is not....an abusive woman is going to nag no matter what
WE23anime ok... maybe I just can’t relate.
I agree with you... This woman clearly had enough of his LACK thereof. She wouldn't NAG if he pulled his weight.
stfu idiot
It's goes back to having a conversation with your spouse and listening to one another 😄😄😄😄
"Peri-ODD!" Waiting for him to pay his half of the divorce filing fee, lmao
I'm only 14 seconds in and I can't and shan't understand women who don't like beards...It's blasphemy. Lol
One of the most entertaining divorce courts I’ve seen!!
Good looking man with a good sense of humor. She seems exhausting.
Good looks can't pay the bills.
LOL "i do walk away from jobs" his instagram handle comes up - "dr.hustle" LMFAO
Aaron, boy you better come up with your half of that divorce money
I love her!!!
When she said Periooooddt... I felt that 🤣🤣🤣
she's a beautiful woman. he's not a bad guy, he just doesn't have his priorities all the way straight as far keeping a job. they'll be better off moving forward separately.
Jacquelyn Palacio whether I have a job or not I take care of my kids so make sure you get it right 😎
az1alf2 you can't take care of children without a job. so get that right.
Jacquelyn Palacio I'm a entrepreneur so Job or not I pay all my bills 💵 so you might want to get your mind set right, as I stated before she never said I didn't pay bills or take care of my kids but thanks for your concern 😁
10:03 I kept rewinding back to watch different audience members reactions 😭😭
This is salvageable. I didnt really hear divorce materials.
Lovey J I agree. I don't think the problems they have are cause for divorce. They need counseling.
First of all she is too mouthy, materialistic and verbally abusive. You don't call each other vile names. These are death and soul killing words. There is no way you are going to be in a good relationship behaving so ughly.
He is irresponsible, quitting jobs. He is video taping vaginas. These behaviors are bad for a happy marriage.
We are better as friends and co parents
Ok if you guys agreed so. For future reference, it may not be a bad idea to show your mate some respect. Don't tolerate disrespectful behaviors from your mate, but also do not exhibit disrespectful behavior toward him. God bless ya'll
Man 6200.00 for a cruise. She's trippin!
She is hilarious and to the point!!
She needs to give the brother a chance to speak on his behalf.😄😄😄😄
She all about money,judge don't like her and I don't like her at all.
fuck you she dont like you either bitch my mama dont need you to like her
$6000+ for a ghetto ass cruise ? Lol that’s two weeks touring Europe lol
Girl and it was probably carnival. 6K could’ve bought them a month in Cape Town SA Lol
Looks like Dwayne form a different world
Will Charles he does 👀
The way she said period at the end is the way I with be pronouncing it this day forward.😂
She needed help with all them kids and financially. Its not about half. Both parties need to be full and all in! With all them kids they both need a few jobs. No time to fuss if you are hard working and raising the kids! You appreciate family and having someone when you aren't petty all the damn time.
She should have thought Bout that before she got 4 kids probably from different fathers and then think she is a queen
@narada I had 4 kids with my first Husband and the last three with this one and Ma’am I am a Queen my Father and God made me so!
I put some cash my brother was trying to hustle that Hennessy White.
Damn she cheating on the dude too.
AND GOT THE NERVE TO COMPLAIN
She sounds really controlling. The brother on the other hand sounds really calm ( a bit too calm). He seems to be the type who runs away when there is an issue he has no control of. She is materialistic and he isn't . They are better as parents only !! Their personalities don't really match
Lirane KM I don't run 🏃🏾 but I definitely don't argue
Brotha run 🏃🏿♂️
I'm certain he will. He definitely runs off of a job.
The intro and her description of him and his hygiene😂. I can't do the osama bin laden beard either though lol
I love the way the wife expresses herself in court. 🤣👩🏽🎓
Why didnt she give him the father speech? He’s lazy.
Please upload the episode of Mrs Little and Mr Clayton divorce episode. I really want to watch that epi. Please upload that epi... Please!!
YOU GO JUDGE TOLER....KUDOS TO YOU HEARING THESE CLAIMS...YOU GO GIRL!
He is not a go-getter. She is.
i have always gotton "annoyed" with guys that say...: well i won't walk on to a job for any less than $20 an hr...or i can't stay on a job that i "FEEL' disrespected in.....good thing they weren't SINGLE MOTHERS!! as kids would never eat and bills would never get paid with that attitude and mentality!!! you'd be surprised at how much sh*t you CAN eat when you have babies depending on YOU!!!! let me know mom's if you KNOW what i mean.....