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Amy...I'm so glad to hear you stick up for yourself when people try to tell you how to raise your family and run your home!❤ God bless you!
We just bought a new home. Wasn’t something we were planning to do at 60 but it was a situation where a family member had to go into a nursing home and her main concern was that her home stayed in the family. It gives her peace so we were willing. The house was built in 1952 and was the only home they ever lived in. The kitchen is postage stamp size. Of course there is only 2 of us that live in the home, but we have 5 kids that are married with kids of their own and my concern was how we would have holiday meals. I turned a coat closet into a pantry and put my freezer in the basement. And I figure we can put our table in the basement for holiday dinners. We will figure it out. Sometimes life throws us a curve and we have to change how we do things. For the first couple of weeks, I was down and overwhelmed, but then you remember why your situation changed and it brings you peace. Once you find it, solutions are more easily found.
I’m 60 too and my husband wants us to move into a bungalow, but I’m feeling so reluctant for the upheaval and future work renovating. Good luck with your new adventure. We may be 60, but we aren’t out yet lol. We may have a lot more innings in us. Hope it all goes well.
It sounds like we have very similar houses and situations. We're the same age with grown children and grands. I was very overwhelmed at first but after 6 years it's taking shape and definitely more functional than it was at first. Our house no longer feels overwhelming, but just feels like home. ❤
@@juliejones7358 thank you. You are right, we still have a lot to offer.
@@louannel7699 we are getting there. It’s a work in progress. Thank you.
Nice if it's not to your taste do some remodeling spruce it up. Put it back on the market for a bit more. Don't keep something that's not right for you. If you want it in family offer it to family first. Don't feel obligated it's called Swedish- dumping when family guilt you into a present, gift, their history stuff that needs to go to a museum. You can always set it as a vacation rental per week for those needing to come to the area most are 800- 2000 week. Then it pays for future restorations and it's a showcase house. Always preserved. But let go. No need to let guilt of the wrong house for you when you are aging. You will need one floor and space to entertain in the next few years. Let the guilt go and further your life of healing. You only have 1 life it's 2023 be as happy as a clam that made a pearl. I'm 53 and my husband is almost 60 and we are never guilted. We face issues and move on. An apartment is what we needed and so the gigantic house gone. Easy decisions talk to a banker, contractor, and realtor and make decisions on vacation rental if the bank sees rental income then they see a investment & they may rewrite the loan of both onto one loan. Make sure you make the house as every vacation rental has a favy name. Like the cottage at Westbrook, sanders farm, Ranch on plum, Laura's cabin on lark lake. Honoring them or where it's at it what you should do. Make it simple, hire a home cleaner team & get focused on goals.
I loved what you said about spending time with your spouse without the kids….we’ve been married for 26 years and that’s so important for a healthy marriage! ❤️
Yes!! We put a small couch and huge TV in our room after sharing one with out 5 kids!😂 We need to get a small fridge, what a great idea 💡
I love that you don't have the picture perfect home. I feel like it makes you a real person that many can relate to. Makes us Mom's who have a not perfect house feel better about ourselves. You rock❤
I totally agree with you Amy. Its a working partnership and my husband has always looked after me and the kids and provided well for us so i like to make sure he has good food and everything he needs without being nagged at. We've been together over 30 years which is rare these days. We married young as im only 46 now but im proud of our relationship and children. I respect your ethics Amy ❤
Spray paint the brackets for the shelves. Works great and cheap!
I love that Greg always tells you things he will do for you. That shows his love.
You are right about being satisfied with what you have. I think the fridge in the kitchen is fine too.
Exactly. You don't have to walk as far!
They kept it in thr dining room at the last house, and I don't remember many people criticizing that. I don't get why they do now.
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Because it was not seen as much when filming because it was in DR and not kitchen. 🤷🏼♀️
I always had my stash for myself that was not my kids- there is nothing wrong with it !! You do you !!😊
I still hide our treats from my eldest son because he says he can’t help himself. I’m just helping him cause I’m a great Mum.
Thank you Amy for the reminder to be grateful and to make do with what we have!
Don't apologize for having a house that is more practical than pintrest, that's why I watch your channel. It's real, you're real.
Agreed. Keep it real as life happens. I respect people more for not putting on airs. Be yourself as you should be. I'm happy watching you and your family. Thank you for letting us see part of your life.🙏
Absolutely love your attitude about not complaining. That’s so important to remember.
Great advice Amy! That’s your gift - you show how to not sweat the small stuff ☺️
An outdoor pool cabinet area will be essential in your new life. Trash can, towels, sun screens, pool supplies, pool toys, bbq supplies, etc all in one place to keep organized with a home for all the stuff where you use it.
Good morning Amy please pray for my son he's had a bad medical report and needs healing am headed your way to attend a doctor's appointment with him will be thankful for any and all prayers God bless this wonderful community you have built with God grace have a blessed day❤
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Praying for God to heal your son and give you comfort 🙏🏻😇
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Definitely can use the word about complaining , thank you for speaking that into our lives. I do get so depressed seeing what others have and I forget to be content with what the Lord has given me.
I love your opening. :) Excellent reminder to live gratefully instead of complaining. ❤❤❤
LOVE the song you chose while you put your nightstands together. Had never heard "Lift Up A Shout Of Praise". So beautiful. Also, LOVE Philippians 2:14 - "Do everything without arguing or complaining." Thank you for reminding us of this truth
Amy hi you really don’t need to justify what you have done. I think the way you’ve done it is so workable for your family. Don’t feel you need to do what the comments suggest. Your kitchen your way !
I never do..we just smile about them ..we really do ❣️ some are helpful and we use them and others we just joke about because it is comical ❤️
Hi Amy. It's me here in Detroit. I haven't gone anywhere, still following you. I just had a lot going on. But now let's get down to business. I love the way you make your house a home. Everyone has an opinion but it's how they want it, but it's your home. And the majority of us feel we're there with you because it is a home. Keep doing what you're doing. Still with you enjoy what you have.
Thank you ❤️
I can so relate to your thought process, yes wining doesn't solve anything, patience and brainstorming is key. :D
I look forward to your videos so much. You're so peaceful and such a beautiful individual that watching and listening to you is so calming ti me.. Thank you for sharing your life with us and taking us on this journey.. Much love ❤️
Thank you for watching our journey
I am a lot like you when it comes to putting a home together. I move everything around until I find what works. You’ll get there. It’s looking fine. Thanks for always sharing your life. 😊
Hi Amy,
Had to wait to find a quite time to sit and watch your video without interruptions.
I think it’s great that you went back and organized the kitchen where it’s more comfortable for you to work in…not saying you may tweak it again but it’s more to your liken
You did a lot so far without realizing it. I can appreciate all that you did and are going to do.
Thanks so much for sharing with us and especially todays Psalm. 🙏
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Have a beautiful and blessed day.😊
Thanks Kathy. It was a long one today...i get busy doing stuff and realize there is a long video at the end of the day ❤️ have a wonderful day 💞
Love your kitchen, especially the color of the cabinets
For your sink, get a small rectangle water tub half the width of your sink. Wash dishes in tub, rinse on other side. It can save you time and water so you don't have to fill entire sink.
You and your husband absolutely have the right to keep food for yourselves. Anyone who watches your channel knows how much you love your family and provide lots of food for them. Sorry you don’t like Costco, I personally love them. But I have friends who prefer Sam’s. It’s about a 50/50 split. We accompany each other to our specific stores sometimes. It’s fun and we usually find some type of good deals at both. 😂
EVERYTHING is more expensive in Florida. Detweiller's is wonderful and I think you'll like it.
I love Costco for bulk whole foods. We steer clear of all the prepared food usually. We get coffee, sugar, Cheerios, flour, canned foods, rice, quinoa, oils, butter, milk.
I love your new house. The kitchen is to die for. ❤️. One option you might like when you move the freezer out is to put a cabinet there and turn it into a coffee bar / slushy station. If it had lower shelves it could store things like your crockpot, etc.
Your videos make me calm and happy.🙂
You need a tub thats half the size of your sink from the dollar store to put in your sink to wash dishes. That way you can use half the sink to rinse. I use one and its handy.
You are correct, Costco is more expensive than other warehouse stores. However Costco focuses not only on savings, but also on quality of their products. The food selections are mostly healthier than other "discount" or warehouse stores. I prefer a healthier product that I will pay a little more for, than a cheaper unhealthy selection. If we can all get into the mind set that we do not need to consume large amounts of food to be healthy, just smaller plates with healthier non-processed choices. i think you will come to enjoy Costco eventually.
Amy, your advice is so true. The love you and your husband share for each other and your children is evident in everything you do.
Blessings to you and your sweet family!❤️
@amymaryon Good on ya Chica! Way to stand up for yourself! My only suggestion.... With as much as you bake.... A countertop with cabinets in the corner where your freezer is....would consolidate all your baking pans/mixers in one place ❤️ Then you could have upper open shelves with your baking supplies ❤️
Yes I've been thinking that
Yes Amy I totally agree. I am always grateful for what we have. What I think is little is much to someone who has less.
We moved into a smaller home. I used an extra bedroom closet for a second pantry. It’s just me and my husband but we make sure both of our grown sons can come over and get what they need. The pandemic has taught us to prepare better. Being prepared is better than pretty.
Did the same thing.
You know what, I watch you every morning but couldn't finish it this morning, so came home from work and finishing watching you after a stressful day and you just make me feel calm! Love you and your family❤️❤️❤️
The white key you said looks like it’s for something specific is a key I believe that goes to your freezer. It looks like one we had. I really enjoy watching your videos. Thank you for sharing!
We have a white key thing like that. It does go to our freezer. 😊
My morning is always so much better when I start off with you Amy . So glad your getting all the organizing and finding places to put all your stuff . It's amazing the amount of stuff we all end up storing and saving for another day .
Happy birthday Jayden .
Hope you had a great day it sounds like you did . Y'all have a fantastic I mean fantastic rest of the day .
Looking forward to tomorrow morning with a new video . Thanks Amy .
Wise words, thank you, I would love a chair where your freezer is to look out the window while working on my menu plan or reading cookbooks or to have my morning coffee.
Yes i may ..I have one upstairs I may bring down
I’m a widow with a 12 year old son, Amy is right, don’t be a complaining wife. Appreciate what you have.
Hi Amy! Glad to see you getting settled. The kitchen is one of the most important to get organized to after moving, I agree! I moved 4 years ago and started reorganizing the kitchen recently to make it more functional. Just wanted to mention you could get a dish pan (a plastic square one) or use a large bowl that fits your sink, to make it easier to wash and rinse dishes.
Philippians 4:11 For I have learned that in whatsoever state I am therewith to be content.... vs 19 But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Some of my favorite verses. 😊
Thank you for the reminder to be content!
Amen thanking me for saying that cuz a lot of people is not happy with what they have and you got to thank God for what you haven't where you at at that moment and I love your house and do what you're doing in your house and I'm in love with your kitchen and your everything is right there for you you don't have to go anywhere else in the house to get it so I love it I love your freezer in the kitchen my freezer is in my dining room I'm in a small one-bedroom I don't care I love it is mine thank you for keeping you😊❤
I completely agree about working with what you have. One of my favorite sayings is, "Bloom where you are planted." We've lived in 1200sq ft for almost 28 years, and we've made it work. Of course we'd love more space - I have a tiny kitchen, but I've cooked wonderful meals for my family in it, and it's been a blessing. ❤ You make what you have work!
As you accumulate and build new pieces, write on the parts you have to keep with a fine point sharpie like the little white plastic key in the drawer so you don't forget what they're for ❤
Good morning blessings I agree I sized down from a large home and I truly was unsure on how I was going to manage but I learned to just let it go and made my new space that is smaller more manageable and more cozy and I'm truly grateful for the peace of mind that I gained through the big transition it's just where I'm supposed to be
Hi Amy,have you ever heard of rain X,it’s for car windows,it stops the streaks or blotches,I use it on my shower glass and you can skip cleaning the glass for a month.Or less if shower is a busy area
Love that you moved the freezer to the garage.
Amen. God is good he blesses us in many ways
I had to giggle when you said, "Yes, I'm still pulling feathers...". I can so relate! 😊 Love your videos. It is a good start to my day. Coffee with Amy! ❤️
I think the baking trays are in the perfect place because that's where you will be baking and you can just grab it when you are there
You really don't have to explain yourself. You know how much space you have and I agree do what you can do. We need to start being thankful ! There are people that have no home. I hope I don't sound fussy but it is good to have different food. It's actually good for our health, and it's good to experiment! Enjoy your home! All by the way it's awesome to have a frig in your room.
Thank you
It is so fun for me that you have moved down here and everything around here is so new for you😊. Detwiler’s is great! If you and the hubby ever want to have a day date and go to lunch, stop by Riviera Dunes Marina and eat at the restaurant there (inside and outside options)…I am the office manager at the marina office there….it would totally make my day if you stopped in the marina office and said hello!
I'll mark it on our to do list thank you
I’m so glad to hear your new mindset. You now live in an area with lots of stores close to you. You don’t need to stock up like you used to.
Agreed
That unusual white key looks like a computer lock type key... maybe take a picture and ask google to find it? Also, maybe leave a note to the kids about where your box cutter is? (That drives me nuts when someone uses something and then doesn't put it back ... including myself lol). And your closet hamper can be your snack stash or gift stash! Anyway, just some ideas.
I have to say... I never realized you could make a bed without tucking in/making hospital corners on a flat sheet. I just never did it any other way ... wow new tricks! Lol
Thanks for sharing your day! Blessings ❤
I really don’t like how critical people get. You can see how well you look after family. ❤❤❤.
Absolutely love the organizing you have done and the end tables in your room . Food looks awesome and love the music in. Back ground🎉
Years ago we moved into a home that lacked storage space. The recessed area with a few shelves across from your table would be a perfect place to build lots of shelves and then close with barn doors. The doors would be decorative and you could store all your canned goods. Greg is very talented and he would do a good job. Sending prayers your way.
We live in a very small house by the sea 🌊 i bake and cook from scratch in a tiny kitchen and i mean tiny! One draw 3 cupboards...no worktop room hardly but i have everything i need and is super practical for our family.I love your kitchen its beautiful and suits you and your family!
As my Mam, may she rest in peace, always said, "be thankful for small mercies". You're perfectly right, we CAN make do, be resourceful, make the best of things & situations. Haven't had a chance yet to watch all the video, but a belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY to JANE! Hope she had a lovely day. In Irish, Jane becomes "Sinéad", pronounced SHIN AID.
Amy, I am with you! I like the freezer in the kitchen. Bottom line is it is your house. Do what is good for you and your family. Love your channel and your heart!
The freezer in your kitchen never looked out of place in NC, nor here. You make it work for your needs. I'm with you on Costco, which has some great stuff, but is a little pricey. Your home is coming together nicely, and I'm so glad you have your happy place, the pool!
When we moved to our home, was one of the first things we bought was a mini fridge. U go!!!
We don't have the room but our new refrigerator is small. It looks big but it doesn't hold much. So we are looking for a cheap refrigerator to put somewhere in here. We need the room. So I totally understand the freezer in your kitchen.
My recommendation for the oven door. While it’s warm, not hot, spray on glass cleaner of your choice. I like spray way. Let it sit for 5 minutes. Use a cheap sharp edge blade like you can get at Ace hardware, or anywhere, really. Gently scrape the grease. Wipe clean with paper towels. The grease will ruin your good reusable cloths. I think you will be pleased with the results and ease of cleaning the glass in this manner.
As for your sink. The manufacturer recommended soft scrub, for mine. I use it with a scrub mommy sponge and have had excellent results.
Thank you for this
Suggestion for that laundry cabinet in your closet: Take that wire rack out and use it for extra shoe storage.
Yes good idea
That weird white key looks like a freezer key. Also the tool under your sink is for the garbage disposal in case it gets jammed. there is a place underneath to use the tool to manually turn it.
That is great that you are giving your husband and yourself a place to rewind. Enjoy We use to hide stuff from our kids too. Glad to know I was not the only one. Our kids are grown and moved out now.
Lol love it
I'm glad the freezers going to work out for you in the garage when I first recommended it I didn't even think about all the work that Craig does I just knew that's where we usually put them in Florida but since it is going to work out more than that aesthetic of it I think it's going to give you more space in the corner for a pantry for a coffee bar for whatever you decide you need the most once you get things situated❤
My husband & I hide snacks from our kids too.. It’s not a crime, the kids have plenty of snacks.. Oh to be a perfect parent 😂
Lol 🤣 we laugh so much about those comments it's quite comical
Love your message. It makes sense to live your experience before you start making big changes. What works for you may not work for me - that's ok. We can only live our own lives - not everyone else's. Keep doing what you do. Thanks for sharing your time & knowledge. ❤
Good morning Amy! We all have floor fans (pedestal fan) in our rooms for the white noise. Easier to deal with on an individual basis.
White key is for deep freeze. I would take out 2 drawer "junk drawers and move them into one in pantry.
I miss the house in the mountains, it was so beautiful and your kitchen was perfect, so very cozy it was
That freezer in the kitchen would be the least of my worries, I think it’s rather convenient, it’s not a toilet for peat sakes lol. Once you have all your pictures and decor up you won’t have that echoing, it all takes time.Amy that empty cupboard, is it big enough for your big stainless steal bowls? They’re so bulky and take up valuable cupboard space, just a thought. I love that you put all your canned goods in that closet, good choice!
Smiling...I agree...I will see if it fits there today. Thank you. Love ideas
There is nothing wrong with the freezer in the kitchen. It’s about what is most convenient for you. Other people can do what they want with their own kitchen.
I absolutely love the mini fridge in your room idea 😍
Absolutley LOVE your little hideaway in your bedroom!! Stock that frig, enjoy that space for you and Greg. What a wonderful little hangout!! I have been in my home for 25 years and its still a work in progress. I don't necessarily like change but if I think change will make it easier to function then I do it, if that makes sense. I hope you have a great day, see you tomorrow!!❤🙂🙏
My hubby and I have our own dorm size fridge and some stash. It’s a good thing.
Good for you Amy,Hiding snacks for you and your husband, we did it when our kids lived at home and younger, love your channel ❤
@amymaryon For the sand issue out by the pool.... By the door, facing the pool..... Put a terry cloth rug. That way everyone can wipe their feet before they come inside ❤️
Yes i need one
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Amy, you are doing a wonderful job organizing your new home. Please don't feel that you need to provide an explanation of why you do what you do and where you put your things. You do what works for you!!!
A great sitting area would be fun in that corner ❤
use the hamper storage for blankets or store winter sweaters
Good morning Amy,
I totally agree with you. Your freezer is fine in the kitchen and make do with what you have. While you live, you'll find out what do and don't work for you. 😊
Amy, pick your papaya when just starting to turn yellow. Let it sit out in to ripen for a few more days. When yellow or even orange all over, it will be sweet, ripe and juicy! Seeds are peppery and bitter, but also natural anti parasitic, so I always eat a couple to help kill any gut parasites you may have.
Amy, I totally agree!! My husband and I have our own mini fridge in our room. Nothing wrong at all with that!! 😊
Love it
One of the things I like about the farmhouse sink is that it's so big but it makes it harder to wash dishes so I usually get to little dish pans to wash my dishes and especially if I only have a small little bit it works great
That white thing you have in your misc.drawer in the butler pantry at the mini sink is probably your key to your freezer..
I used my vents lights, in fact left them on all the time, and noticed how *hot* they had become. I shut them off and have never been able to turn them on again. I think at the time they were halogen lights - which do run hot, versus LED which are cool and use minimal electricity. If your vents lights are halogen, I would not use them for all around lighting all day because of the experience I had. I have had an electrician / appliance professional look at the lighting, and while the vent still works, they told me they could not fix the lighting harness. Feel like I need a whole new hood because of it.
Amy, what we usually do about oven cleaning is, we either line the bottom of the oven with aluminum foil or an oven liner.
Contentment is key to happiness.
Personally myself i would put that counter and drawers out were the freezer is and have it for yere coffee station jars of sweets slushy machine and keep yere cups water bottles anything ye use by the pool ect in drawers and in place of that id put all shelves for one nice big storage pantry happy yere geeting there enjoy that lovley pool
It took my husband and myself two years to remodel our kitchen. After a year I put my dishes, pots, etc away. Last week I decided to put things in more efficient places. Now it will take another year to remember where everything is. We live in Black Mtn. NC near where y’all lived. Good Luck. Blessings. Love y’all.
Smiling...it is a beautiful place
Ikea has the best laundry basket. It has built-in handles and shaped kinda like a kidney bean. No holes, to reduce the strength. Have replaced all of my old ones.
There is wisdom in waiting to see what works. I’m like you freezer doesn’t bother me in the kitchen.
Crazy Idea for where Freezer is? Deep base cupboard for Appliances with Bench for (no idea) & narrow shelves above for (also no idea). It’s not my house I would have left the freezer there like you.
I love your stove, it is beautiful! Even though it doesn’t have a self cleaning feature it’s still an absolutely great stove!
Good morning 😊to you Amy and to Greg and your family. Have a wonderful and blessed day.
Sweet lady, you fix your home that works for you. I think your doing a great job on your home. Thank you for sharing.