My female friends through the years have never understood how my marriage worked with us not doing everything together. Why would I make him go do something he doesn’t enjoy? If I want to go to a museum, I go. I’d never expect him to tag along. We have separate hobbies and separate friends because we are different. One female in particular has tried to tell me many time I should make him go places because we are a couple. She has gone through 2 failed marriages and a ridiculous amount of sexual partners and still wants to tell me what we need to do for a our relationship. We will have our 25th anniversary this year.
Without a doubt. I remember my ex getting annoyed that i do my radio show and refurb wheels as a side hustle. She couldn't stand the fact i had hobbies.
This is a huge problem, many women think that be sensible and intelligent is an asset in the single market for a 30+yo. No, ladies, when we came back home from work we definitely like comedy, not drama. It's intriguing in our 20s, not anymore after that time, because a drama woman is 99% of times negative-assertive.
And here is the worst part... institutions today are teaching boys that feelings do matter and everyone's feelings should be validated... which is entirely untrue... making for really messed up young men these days.
True my ex prided herself on "knowing men" based on guys she hung out with and exes she confided in and try to deflect my values and my nature based on that bull...
Never argue. When they do that, just leave. Or tell them "I don't think this is going to work out". The ones that care & won't want to lose you will shut up very quickly.
@u don't know me at all lol Most the men in this comment section seem to be in agreement. But you’re still trying to invalidate out reasoning. We are literally telling you exactly what we want. If the men around you sr lying then pick better men. You can literally go on a dating app and have your pick of the litter as a woman.
@u don't know me at all lol No. Men want some combination of those things in a partner. Just like you, men pick and choose what they are willing to accept. Maybe your cooking skills and the fact that you listen to him with care after a long day overshadows that giant gap in your teeth and your mangy cankles. No man, ever, has a list that long of what they want and our choices in partners literally prove that everyday 😂
And they claim that’s “down grading” or “settling”. So you want a man that does all these things. But more than likely he cheats or beats on you or you don’t find him man enough. To where know you wanna go miss around on him.
Why do people confuse a spouse with someone to do hobbies with? My husband's hobby ( refurbishing electronics gadgets and watching sports) is HIS thing, his time alone. I read, go to museums/theatres with my FRIENDS and tend a vegetable garden. I appreciate that time to myself also.
I think it's because a lot of the time, those types of people don't really have any friends or they are expecting their partner to fill literally every single need of theirs, including friendship. They're quite needy by nature, they're usually like this with everyone in their life. Pretty selfish people, and insecure. I hope your garden was bountiful this year! I had a lot of the neighbour children picking through mine ha ha
What's this obsession with 6 figures. A two person household making 40k per person should be able to kill the game after 3 years of smart decision making.
Most of it is because this country has inflation combined with wage stagnation worse than in the 1970s. An average worker would be paid 370k in 2021 money if wages kept pace from the 1970s. (Yes the 1970s where there was incredible stagflation). If you are not a white male above 80 you probably have not yet been paid a living wage in your lifetime. 100k is a round number women without mathematical understanding can cling to. Issue remains, because degreed women also dont make enough to live a life.
Because typically the Man is supposed to be the provider not 50/50 The problem is that Men who are providers want Stay at home Wives While most Black Women want to work to maintain their independence So they want a Man that will take care of them while they keep their money incase it doesn't work out
I think women are secretly envious of how little it takes for a man to be truly and genuinely happy. They don't understand that our Hobbies and interests are what keep us happy and productive and in "King-mode". Hence when she's in a relationship with you, she hates all these hobbies and interests because of the time you invest in them, yet she was attracted to you initially because of those hobbies. Now you give those up and you step out of King-Mode and she slowly loses respect for you. Patrice O'Neal spoke about this with his Fishing analogy.
A lot women have penis envy period. I don't blame I'd hate to be born a being that functions on purely emotions, bleeds every month, have to worry about pregnancy/having to carry 40 extra pounds for several months and unable to go out late at night. Abundant easy Sex for 30 years is their only advantage and even that has its disadvantages. A HVM basically has it all.
@@jelicianorwood24 Yeah that's good but the problem is once you as a Woman feel you've "got" him and that he won't leave, those hobbies become a nuisance. I've witnessed this many times. Woman only are on their best behavior when they are aware that a man can be happy without them and is not afraid to leave her if she acts a fool or does something bad.
@@subzfit Yeah u right ✅ I've seen women do that. But not me. Hobbies are things a guy likes to do so I will do them. Plus I like playing video games and sports. So I will enjoy his hobbies and want stop. Cuz that's messed up to do.
@@naomiconley9884 Your comment was very insightful, except to project your feelings on others. Nonetheless it holds merit. 1)Maybe explore why you think (not feel) why he has to talk/say these things to you. Can you you accept constructive criticism? I tell my techs all the time to not come to me for help if you cannot handle being corrected. This is usually what men have to deal with on a daily basis. 2) To avoid your own reality, your projecting you "feelings". No one said they were hurt. Deep down you may be because you feel like the positive reinforcement from your man may be a lie to avoid conflict. It's understandable because it's the chaotic nature of the female mind. Thank you for sharing.
@@naomiconley9884 I think you're reading too much into this. Trust your boyfriend, unless he has specifically given you reason not to trust him. And you say you trust him very much, but if a fairly generic statement like this causes you so much worry, then for whatever reason, I'm inclined to believe that you DON'T actually trust him very much. That could be him, that could be your past, but you can deal with it today. Perhaps anxiety is causing you to feel doubt. When that happens to me, I focus on how my boyfriend behaves to bring me back to "reality." Men generally are "what you see is what you get," and scrutinizing for analysis every move they make is just making yourself crazy, which benefits no one. I trust my boyfriend to speak up and tell me when something is wrong, just like he should expect me to directly voice my own needs in clear terms. If he acts happy, then I'm going to assume he's happy. And he can assume the same of me. I guarantee that most mature men do not sit around ruminating on these things the way some women tend to do. It's a hard habit to break, but it can be done. Don't laugh, but I highly recommend "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura Schlesinger. It helped me "grow up" with regard to my views toward men. It really changed my life. It also helped me raise three sons to become good men. Good luck and may God bless you.
Yup! Kevin's patience is out of this world bc I would of straight up said "wtf you find funny about this?" Then proceeded to play the whip and dog sound
A man will tolerate an overweight or a little tough in the face woman if she isn’t entitled and arguing about the most insignificant details every moment of every day but instead being inspirational and supportive. The same way a man (right or wrong) will tolerate a little more attitude from 8-10 women. At the end of of the day, it’s about being good people for the right things sake. There shouldn’t have to be an incentive to be a pleasant person to be around and BW just REFUSE to accept that. Simply Being pleasant, smiling, having a soft voice and not trying to die on every hill can net even the most offensive looking of 49ers a decent hard working man.
I disagree... I'm soft, I've got the lightest squeaky voice, my personality could lift the spirit of an entire funeral, I'm childless , encouraging, submissive, nurturing, yes I'm overweight (5 foot 155) but all I pull is someone's trash baby Daddies 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... Apparently I'm going to die with a house full of cats 🤣🤣🤣🤣 cause I've given up at this point.. I've thrown myself into work because dating is depressing.
I AM a Woman, and alot of these women sound crazy as heck. I thank you for your time and energy God bless you! Ladies SHHHHHH and let's take some notes!
It’s crazy how a lot of women want their men to do these types of outing such as going to art shows, poetry shows, watch chick flicks, etc. But when these same women are with their girl friends, they would prefer to go to bars, nightclubs, or any place that could possibly put their relationship to the test. Just a thought.
But women don't ever take accountability or ownership of anything that makes them look bad 🙄 you ever noticed how every failed relationship is somehow the men's fault
This is exactly why I watch those machine shop videos on CZcams, lathes and milling machines etc. Endless fascination with mechanical stuff (and mechanical stuff doesn't usually give you drama).
And make the women more masculine... What they didn't anticipate was for their biological imperative as women to kick in and now they want the benefits of being a man and get the treatment of a woman yet the responsibility of neither
From my own personal experiences, you’re correct. We (women) are inundated and indoctrinated deeply into the cult of Feminism from birth. I think toxic feminism has a motto: “Don’t you EVER have to depend on a MAN for anything!”
They upset because they’re used to one sided arguments. Even notice how lots of these conversations directly go to shaming and name calling to put you in your place. If you ever worked costumer service, you’ll know what Im talking about.
Sex, sandwich, silence. Couldn’t have said it better. But we compromise because we love our women. It’s not even compromise at this point because that would mean we get something in return. We always have to make the woman happy. I’m only 21 and I’m realizing this. My generation is so sad bruh. I think it’s social media that got our females acting like this tbh
Feminism is the fire, social media and dating apps are wood and gasoline. Feminism shames them for being feminine, tells them they can be everything men can be. Social media and dating apps gives them more attention and validation than a princess would get in medieval times. All that goes to their head and this is the result.
@@mrkiky I completely agree, modern feminism is pointless. First wave feminists would be disappointed in feminists today. Social media plays a huge role. Nobody likes masculine women
@デンキモンDenkimon! those arnt the problem tho. They exist since day 1 the human race existed... never where women crazy as now. So stop blaming simps. I know its sad if guys simping but that has nothing to do with the state of the modern women.
@@SarthakMishraDance @xraf32 oh please.... Check yourself... Blame everybody else.... no one can control nobody your free to do as you please... Nobody going to hold your hand through life tryna check an adult...its called ACCOUNTABILITY
like really litreally nothing more XDDD and we'll give you what you want juste ask for it without attitude , you're giving us what you want their is no reason why we wouldn't give you what you want in return
They can't men are Logical, they're emotional. It's actually an 80/20 split men still have emotions but they're not the majority. 80% logical 20% emotional (Man) flip the numbers and you get a woman 80% emotional, 20% logical.
That’s why I hate when someone says...” Happy wife...happy life” crap!!! What about the husband? Who would agree to get married if it’s just all about the other person and never about you?
I have a female friend who said she dont understand men I tried to break it down for her she immediately ignored me and said shes fine what she doesn't realize is she will be continue to be clueless and now shes the cat lady lol.
women don’t know men because they listen to other women about what men want or how they should act. Thank you Kevin for trying to break through the female BS.
@@user-qc7dr3cd3q didn’t see the last part of what he said👀 FINALLY to someone who let him be the man he is. Marriage isn’t the problem. The wrong partner is.
@@ericjordan6059 Bro i had to laugh so hard, when Kevin said "What men want is that women are calm and quiet". 3 seconds later she responds "well but in my opninio..." it is so funny but at the same time disgusting and awful.
I'm black and this man is speaking for ALL men! Ain't no racial barrier with this message. His content is actually uniting men of ALL races! We are getting fed up with the shenanigans. For decades men just been taking it and taking it and it's been little fight back. Men getting drunk and doing drugs and some just saying "eff it imma live on the streets" rather than standing up to this effeminate culture masquerading as masculinity when it needs to be. You got men turning themselves into women because it's been made bad to be a man!😂😂 this man is speaking up and real men of any race who agree are standing up with him!
if you ask me it looks like some women are so busy trying to find the hidden meaning behind what a man says that they overlook the all-too-common possibility that maybe there wasn't a hidden meaning at all. Sometimes, "Hello" means hello. No more, no less.
That's because woman don't say what they mean! No mystery to what a man says! Man: it's ok= it's ok! Woman: it's ok= it's definitely not ok by any stretch of the imagination or, it really could = it's ok! But you should know whether it's ok or not ok! And if you don't know if it's ok, then you are somehow less if a man cause a "real man" would know whether or not it's ok! So, you obviously aren't the man that she thought you were. Can you see the difference? That's truly how they think! No logical thought!
Ooooo, Im a woman and I have the perfect example of this! In middle school, a Spanish boy moved to my school and he was handsome to me. So, I decided to try to get to know this boy better. So I asked him to teach me Spanish. He chose to teach me the Spanish word for “flower”. So I looked around the room and saw no flowers at all, so my mind thought “He must be calling me a flower!!” So of course I developed an even bigger crush on him. Well, fast forward a few weeks later, I find out he was dating someone from his old school and he probably just saw me as a (friendly) academic rival. Oh well. At least my grades improved that year cause I was competing with him.
@Vanessa Cook I appreciate your receptiveness, but you’ve never heard a mans point of view before? Or is it because it’s coming from someone you’re not involved with you’re listening?
Women "It isn't wrong or entitled to expect him to do stuff for her" Men "ok then you have to give him sex whenever he asks for it" Also women "women don't owe you anything, our body our choice"
"at what point you guys be quiet..." Because of low blood pressure, I tend to be a bit grumpy in the mornings. After finishing my first cup of coffee I'm pretty much OK... but I want to have that cup in piece and qiuet, I don't even turn my TV on. So there was that female friend of mine who stayed over at my place and she wouldn't zip it! She was like a frikin' heavy machine gun at full blast. Went over to my jacket and took a US$ 100 bill and placed it on the coffe table saying 'keep quiet untill I finish my coffe and it's yours'... less than a minute later she goes like 'seriously? you are not joking, right? I can really have it?' to what I took the money and said 'no, not any more'.
🤣🤣😂🤣🤣I’m the same way man. I do NOT like noise or a bunch of talking etc. I’m the mornings till I have my coffee. I’m am very quiet and I had a roommate that wouldn’t shut tf up EVER. Needless to say there was a lot of strife and I ended up spending as much time as humanly possible away from the apartment until I eventually moved
Thank you Kevin Daniels for clearly communicating and exposing the disparity in expectation for relationships. In a time when truth is so important, if anyone wants to sift through the bullcrap, and get valuable information, pay attention!
@@LetGoStressFree i am absolutely qualified to receive those things if im giving those same things because I know my intentions for relationship and I also have the skills for what is a healthy relationship. And by the way, No one in here so far that I know of has said that only one of the sexes steps out their lane but instead simply voicing what we desire in a partner. And we could ask you the same tail chasing question.
“You can’t find the point, let me help you right here, get up out of here” 😂🤣 I enjoy your talks Kevin, keep doing this type of content. Your conversation are much needed in these times.
Every time I watch your videos, you be hitting the nail right on the head with the Point Of View of men, and trying to get the majority of these women to understand it so that they can have a better understanding and relationship with their men. Modern women want to do things their way or listening to their friends or other women with the same negative view points... I had have these same conversations with my ex-girlfriend in the past... Smh!!!... I love your show and keep doing what you do!!!😎👍
@@aria4141 I dont get the fascination of women and money. If you are young, you should be looking at character and upward potential. My wife and I got married at 25 years old, both penniless college graduates. She was smart, as was I, but we both had almost no income. We are talking less than 20k each starting out. Fast forward 15 years and we are both making solid 6 figure incomes. Marry the potential, not the current value. Also, try to marry someone who doesnt piss you off at all, because after 15 years, those little "quirks" get amplified dramatically.
The “I feel like” phrase is so annoying. I feel like I shouldn’t have been born into a poor environment riddled with violence. But REALITY is that I had to make best with what I had accrued. That’s life. Life is unfair, but who am I to put that on the next person? There are plenty of black, poor people who have become rich and famous. That’s life, deal with it. The abundant life here on earth is not for everyone. Everyone is so concerned about living their “best life” here on earth. I honestly believe my best life will be in heaven, and I made my life fairly comfortable here on earth considering where I came from. People need to start developing a relationship with God. That’s a major part of the problem. The 50s and earlier days had an a unit families who were led by God. And because people have grown away from Him, this is part of what you get in return, confusion.
@@silverfox6883 I guess we all will find one day, won’t we? Because we all have to die. Then we shall find out. My opinion is that I don’t think it’s wise to deny Jesus, who is God, but you’re entitled to rejecting Him. Your opinion matters, but only for you. And honestly that’s good enough… for you. And I’m good I’m knowing opinion matters , for myself and those who believe. That’s why we’re here on earth. To have our own opinion. Even if it means my life son. Now, try trolling someone else, because your opinion is not changing anyone’s opinion who believes. Not going back and forth with you.
The conversation be dead ass serious and these grown ass educated women just continue to laugh throughout a serious adult conversation smh. No respect whatsoever..
Wow! I'm a woman and I was literally just thinking the same thing. Like wth is so funny? Smh. But then again, I'm cut from a different cloth. A lot of these women are so blasted delusional. It's so sad.
@@ryuken338 yep! They like to add unnecessary context and end up with a meaningless story that weakened whatever argument they had. I've heard callers make a great opposing point to Kevin then turn around and ruin it lol
@@JULO-I I'm definitely guilty of saying "like" a million times in one sentence, not as bad as I use to be though, but I have a ways to go. Two of my resolutions to myself is to stop saying "like" so much and to stop using the "N word" when I'm comfortable about friends and family. No one said building the best version on myself was going to be easy😂.
I first saw one of your videos on break 4 hours ago and I have to say that I really appreciate your work these videos not only show what mistakes people make but helps people think about what they can and have done wrong keep doing what you do
I agree! I spent my 20’s and early thirties trying to “be heard” so I wouldn’t feel dominated...imagine my peace when I discovered all I had to do is rest in my femininity. Learning to control my emotions and my tongue was the wisest move I’ve ever made. 100% happily lead and provided for.
"People refuse to grow up and put way childless things and notions of love and want and this and and realize that life is about trade-offs and compromises." ~ KS (This is excellent)
Samaii Mayii- And therein lies the problem- too many women refuse to listen to men, much less even extend the common courtesy to realize that we have opinions, preferences and desires as well. If we even try, we're accused of "mansplaining".
Older men are almost out of patience telling and the young guys are being told what they are supposed to be by women now too. Spitefully obstructive and uncooperative is what it seems women think men want now.
"I feel like ... ", "I feel like ... ", "I feel like ... ", "I feel like ... ", "yeah but...", "yeah but...", "yeah but..." I swear women are allergic to facts and stats.
“Some women” What I don’t like about men is how they have a couple of bad experiences and because men are so simple they don’t think beyond those experiences and categorize all women by their experiences.
@@breebetubing9118, if someone doesn't put *all* as an adjective when referring to a demographic, it's to be presumed a generality, since *all* social conversations that are outside of closed scientific systems, are generalities... Do you even realize you yourself are 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵𝘺 of what you're correcting? You said "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘯" and not "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝘮𝘦𝘯." 𝘍𝘰𝘰𝘥.𝘧𝘰𝘳.𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵
@@breebetubing9118, sure it was; it'd behoove you to not be typical and learn to admit when you're wrong instead of being defensive and laughing at your own comment... Take care.
You are truly blessed. I figured this out a long time ago and I've had a much happier life. If I get even an inkling of toxicity or certain traits, I'm outta there. No matter how rich, beautiful or successful she may be. There's nothing more pleasing than a pleasant, gracious, feminine, intelligent (emotionally and intellectually) and nurturing woman who you know has the substance to raise kids of solid character and personalities
For years I’ve told women that it’s funny how they have lots of requirements for men who have options, and those requirements are important... but, if he says “making me a sandwiches and meals regularly is important to me”, then he is behind the times.
I never understood that. A good meal is important for life, but somehow sexist these days to ask. No one is saying it's a requirement, but a woman that enjoys cooking while I work makes me want to work harder for her. I work hard, and my reward is a good meal. The counter response would be. Well i work too. Yeah, that is not alway a good thing. two adults working all the time and can't feed themselves except takeout, and the house is a mess. Just a corporate slave. That is nothing to be proud of.
A delicious daily meal is important to hold a relationship. It adds motivation to a person's life. A man who gets home and has a wife but has nothing forward to look for is eventually going to lose interest in that relationship
@@SSingh-nr8qz Women don't appreciate food as much as men because women are more picky and actually require less food to function. So most women would never understand.
My female friends through the years have never understood how my marriage worked with us not doing everything together. Why would I make him go do something he doesn’t enjoy? If I want to go to a museum, I go. I’d never expect him to tag along. We have separate hobbies and separate friends because we are different. One female in particular has tried to tell me many time I should make him go places because we are a couple. She has gone through 2 failed marriages and a ridiculous amount of sexual partners and still wants to tell me what we need to do for a our relationship. We will have our 25th anniversary this year.
Miserable women are always trying to tell the next woman what they should and shouldn't do... I never fall for their bs
Your husband is really lucky to have an understanding wife. Kudos to you.
Wisdom is key to navigating through life
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Salute! 💯
Women cant stand the fact that we find pleasure in simple things/life
Without a doubt. I remember my ex getting annoyed that i do my radio show and refurb wheels as a side hustle. She couldn't stand the fact i had hobbies.
Yup, my ex hated all my hobbies lol it annoyed her that I can be happy without her.
I had girl cut me off cause , I laugh to much and not depress 😹
This is a huge problem, many women think that be sensible and intelligent is an asset in the single market for a 30+yo. No, ladies, when we came back home from work we definitely like comedy, not drama. It's intriguing in our 20s, not anymore after that time, because a drama woman is 99% of times negative-assertive.
Women these days love to complicate things.
“Men are simple: sex, sandwich and silence. That’s it”
Im dead. 💀
He's telling the truth tho. Lmfao 😂
That's my life, that simple.......
Absolutely!!!
Thats so real what he's sayin
@risky bidness 😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣
Here's an example of men being simple: Kevin and this woman are debating, and meanwhile I'm watching the swinging metal sticks on the table. SIMPLE 😂
Bruuuuh spent like 20 mins just watching it!!!! 😹 Thought I was the only one lol
Lol same here completely started to ignore what ever point she was trying to make.
I need that gadget on my desk. It's mad entertaining 😂😂😂
Awesome 👌
I've never been more focused than when I stare at that metal piece swinging in circles lol
"My boyfriend agrees with me!" "Because you're FUCKING HIM!" She IMMEDIATELY got silent because she KNEW he was right!
Bruh 😳
She deserves to hold that "L" for that.
Lmao
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KS is the ultimate redpill coach...i swear!
“At what point do you be quiet and say ok?”
“....Well here’s the thing”
😂😂😂
Her brain literally went: does not compute.. error 13543223 😭😭🤣😂🗑️
That's all I needed to hear 😂🤦🏿♂️
Sad right
@Daniel H. 🙏🏾✊🏾🔥💡 Grown ass little girls 💡🔥✊🏾🙏🏾
@@dondotta1113 🙏🏾Artificial Intelligence with no Central Processing Unit
Every argument starts with “I feel like..” Facts don’t care about your feelings lol
Exactly! You're entitled to your own feelings, but NOT your own facts.
He should be like
Her: "I feel like--"
Kevin: "That's your problem."
And here is the worst part... institutions today are teaching boys that feelings do matter and everyone's feelings should be validated... which is entirely untrue... making for really messed up young men these days.
Modern institutions set out to feminize men and make women masculine. Subversion.
Ben shapiro 🔥
"The problem with women is they get advice about men from other women which they don't know wtf they're talking about " Dave Chappelle said it best !
Hahahahaha I remember that statement very well
True my ex prided herself on "knowing men" based on guys she hung out with and exes she confided in and try to deflect my values and my nature based on that bull...
@@dlorenz9985 yeah it's pretty crazy man
I get mine from other men because no one can tell me about a man better than another man .
@@dlorenz9985 but they were men ?
As a black man, I appreciate your voice for us.
Sorry, Kevin is being adopted by the world! the rest of us are appropriating him and were not saying sorry. 😂
He doesn’t speak for me at all. I speak for myself.
@Ryan Achen how so? interesting
As a man I appreciate this
I do too. I am glad he is checking me hard.
"I'm not effing you. I can tell you the truth."
Yup...facts
I thought I could actually feel the stunned shock emanating from her after he said that.
@@huskerjpg exactly
@@huskerjpg yeah! Because I didn't hear anymore giggles after that!🤣
I speak facts no matter if we fucking or not
If i am fkkn she definitely gon get it.
Kevin makes 37 solid points....
Her: "yeah but"
Her: "i feel like"
I know it actually drives me nuts. I hate how people can’t process the fact that they’re wrong
🤣🤣😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 bro
I'm like...🤦🏿♂️
Those phrases irk my soul!!😂
Her....Yeah but the thing is...
It’s crazy how women ask what men want, then when a man tells them, they argue him at every opportunity.
Never argue. When they do that, just leave. Or tell them "I don't think this is going to work out". The ones that care & won't want to lose you will shut up very quickly.
@u don't know me at all lol Most the men in this comment section seem to be in agreement. But you’re still trying to invalidate out reasoning. We are literally telling you exactly what we want. If the men around you sr lying then pick better men. You can literally go on a dating app and have your pick of the litter as a woman.
@u don't know me at all lol so you got men figured out?
If it was me I would say STFU 🤬, stop arguing and listen to the man
@u don't know me at all lol No. Men want some combination of those things in a partner. Just like you, men pick and choose what they are willing to accept. Maybe your cooking skills and the fact that you listen to him with care after a long day overshadows that giant gap in your teeth and your mangy cankles. No man, ever, has a list that long of what they want and our choices in partners literally prove that everyday 😂
Men need a three strike system. If a woman says “I feel like” more than three times in a single conversation, we’re out.
Dude I was about to complain about all these women, that keep saying I Feel Like!!
That was my ex-wife bro. I'm never getting married again. You can't use logic with them.
I agree! I’m so tired of them and their damn feelings 🤦🏾♂️
@Ava Silver Facts don’t care about feelings.
@Ava Silver When a woman gives the “I feel” speech, more than likely it’s bullshit.
“What you want is keeping you single.” That quote right there describes women over the last 100 years or more.
70 years my bro
And they claim that’s “down grading” or “settling”. So you want a man that does all these things. But more than likely he cheats or beats on you or you don’t find him man enough. To where know you wanna go miss around on him.
Lol get em
On the money bro.
Brother, that was the best quote ever!
"sex. sandwich, silence" That sounds like a dream you dont want to wake up from:)
I felt that one Deep down in my Soul
Chappelle line
@@stanleed.harold5457 2000 DC Comedy @ Howard Univ
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As long as she keeps silent you won't wake up... xD
Listening to Kevin makes me realize that I'm blessed to have married a woman who lives in modern times but has old school woman values.😘💍
Yooo me to‼️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Facts bro. I tell men that ALL the time, appreciate that woman they have and clean their shit up, where it's applicabe
Facts! These women out here are delusional! They don't even see themselves as having a major problem.
Same!
big ditto!
Well said Sir.
Women say “I feel like” & “Yes, but” entirely too much.
I noticed that!
a civilization in decline
@Anthony Stephens honestly that's what's ruining this society!!
Facts
When they use the term "I feel" you know it's because of their egos.
The constant laughing, it's all just one big joke to them. Don't worry though ladies, the wall will come, and you won't be laughing anymore..
Gentlemeeeeenn!!!!! 👊💪💪💪
Boom
It took her THREE FULL MINUTES to articulate her disagreement. . .sheeeesh!
*anymore
I met couple old cougars an guess wat that had no man around just a empty apartment with less food in refrigerate lol
Why do people confuse a spouse with someone to do hobbies with? My husband's hobby ( refurbishing electronics gadgets and watching sports) is HIS thing, his time alone. I read, go to museums/theatres with my FRIENDS and tend a vegetable garden. I appreciate that time to myself also.
I think it's because a lot of the time, those types of people don't really have any friends or they are expecting their partner to fill literally every single need of theirs, including friendship. They're quite needy by nature, they're usually like this with everyone in their life. Pretty selfish people, and insecure. I hope your garden was bountiful this year! I had a lot of the neighbour children picking through mine ha ha
Thank you!!!
And I would bet those times when he helps you in the garden or goes to a museum with you ARE special.
@@jondspen very much so!
What's this obsession with 6 figures. A two person household making 40k per person should be able to kill the game after 3 years of smart decision making.
Coz the second person doesn't want to pull their weight, hence the need for the other party to make 6 figures.
because they dont want to be accountable if they can't pull their weight !
Most of it is because this country has inflation combined with wage stagnation worse than in the 1970s.
An average worker would be paid 370k in 2021 money if wages kept pace from the 1970s. (Yes the 1970s where there was incredible stagflation).
If you are not a white male above 80 you probably have not yet been paid a living wage in your lifetime.
100k is a round number women without mathematical understanding can cling to. Issue remains, because degreed women also dont make enough to live a life.
I agree
Because typically the Man is supposed to be the provider not 50/50
The problem is that Men who are providers want Stay at home Wives
While most Black Women want to work to maintain their independence
So they want a Man that will take care of them while they keep their money incase it doesn't work out
I think women are secretly envious of how little it takes for a man to be truly and genuinely happy. They don't understand that our Hobbies and interests are what keep us happy and productive and in "King-mode". Hence when she's in a relationship with you, she hates all these hobbies and interests because of the time you invest in them, yet she was attracted to you initially because of those hobbies. Now you give those up and you step out of King-Mode and she slowly loses respect for you. Patrice O'Neal spoke about this with his Fishing analogy.
Damn bro nothing but the truth. It seems like the only way a relationship can work is if a woman comes into the relationship with hobbies...
A lot women have penis envy period. I don't blame I'd hate to be born a being that functions on purely emotions, bleeds every month, have to worry about pregnancy/having to carry 40 extra pounds for several months and unable to go out late at night. Abundant easy Sex for 30 years is their only advantage and even that has its disadvantages. A HVM basically has it all.
Yeah that's why I ask what are your hobbies for a reason so we can watch movies and ride bikes together. Whoever he likes.
@@jelicianorwood24 Yeah that's good but the problem is once you as a Woman feel you've "got" him and that he won't leave, those hobbies become a nuisance. I've witnessed this many times. Woman only are on their best behavior when they are aware that a man can be happy without them and is not afraid to leave her if she acts a fool or does something bad.
@@subzfit Yeah u right ✅ I've seen women do that. But not me. Hobbies are things a guy likes to do so I will do them. Plus I like playing video games and sports. So I will enjoy his hobbies and want stop. Cuz that's messed up to do.
When she said my boyfriend agrees with me I died laughing. That like saying my mom thinks I'm handsome.
Yep. Men know its what is told regardless of the truth women seem to be under the impression people aren't lying.
Yoo I’m weak I’m new to the channel! Nothing but straight FACTSSSS!
@@naomiconley9884 lol are you talking to me?
@@naomiconley9884 Your comment was very insightful, except to project your feelings on others. Nonetheless it holds merit. 1)Maybe explore why you think (not feel) why he has to talk/say these things to you. Can you you accept constructive criticism? I tell my techs all the time to not come to me for help if you cannot handle being corrected. This is usually what men have to deal with on a daily basis. 2) To avoid your own reality, your projecting you "feelings". No one said they were hurt. Deep down you may be because you feel like the positive reinforcement from your man may be a lie to avoid conflict. It's understandable because it's the chaotic nature of the female mind. Thank you for sharing.
@@naomiconley9884
I think you're reading too much into this. Trust your boyfriend, unless he has specifically given you reason not to trust him. And you say you trust him very much, but if a fairly generic statement like this causes you so much worry, then for whatever reason, I'm inclined to believe that you DON'T actually trust him very much. That could be him, that could be your past, but you can deal with it today.
Perhaps anxiety is causing you to feel doubt. When that happens to me, I focus on how my boyfriend behaves to bring me back to "reality." Men generally are "what you see is what you get," and scrutinizing for analysis every move they make is just making yourself crazy, which benefits no one. I trust my boyfriend to speak up and tell me when something is wrong, just like he should expect me to directly voice my own needs in clear terms. If he acts happy, then I'm going to assume he's happy. And he can assume the same of me.
I guarantee that most mature men do not sit around ruminating on these things the way some women tend to do. It's a hard habit to break, but it can be done.
Don't laugh, but I highly recommend "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura Schlesinger. It helped me "grow up" with regard to my views toward men. It really changed my life. It also helped me raise three sons to become good men. Good luck and may God bless you.
I've only been watching him a couple weeks, and the thing that hits me is the psychotic laughter these women break into while they're being read🤔
Yup! Kevin's patience is out of this world bc I would of straight up said "wtf you find funny about this?" Then proceeded to play the whip and dog sound
It hits too close to home to handle, and instead of Soaking that advice/knowledge in they laugh it off
His content is sooo eye opening it’s crazy 😅
Yes it is. Good for you young lady
It’s a damn shame that it even had to come to this. He is only saying what men have said for years
It truly is! It's honestly helping me to become a better woman!!
notice how it takes MEN to make women better
@@mgtow-balance3409 lol is that a problem?
A man will tolerate an overweight or a little tough in the face woman if she isn’t entitled and arguing about the most insignificant details every moment of every day but instead being inspirational and supportive. The same way a man (right or wrong) will tolerate a little more attitude from 8-10 women. At the end of of the day, it’s about being good people for the right things sake. There shouldn’t have to be an incentive to be a pleasant person to be around and BW just REFUSE to accept that. Simply Being pleasant, smiling, having a soft voice and not trying to die on every hill can net even the most offensive looking of 49ers a decent hard working man.
🗣🗣
Thicc yes, thick no
Preach.
I disagree... I'm soft, I've got the lightest squeaky voice, my personality could lift the spirit of an entire funeral, I'm childless , encouraging, submissive, nurturing, yes I'm overweight (5 foot 155) but all I pull is someone's trash baby Daddies 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... Apparently I'm going to die with a house full of cats 🤣🤣🤣🤣 cause I've given up at this point.. I've thrown myself into work because dating is depressing.
@@areyounotentertained2482 then go to the gym
"Why can't you be feminine and quiet"....female immediately starts aggressively talking :)
😂😂😂😂 yall dropping some vital infos here
Exactly right! A truly strong woman is strong in her internal core, not with her mouth.
Femininity & humility... the 2 most important & least common traits in most women today...
Taking notes 😂
Boom
Who else gets distracted by his desk ornament I cant be the only one.
Same here
I actually was searching to buy it when I read this! Lol it’s calming.
@@coreywinters8939 what's it called
He is hypnotizing you! You will fall under the spell soon. “You are getting very sleeping...”
I love it
I AM a Woman, and alot of these women sound crazy as heck. I thank you for your time and energy God bless you! Ladies SHHHHHH and let's take some notes!
☺
Exactly
Nah, you take notes. I wasn't created to be mute and let a man think or speak for me for his validation.
@@tonyaetter what up Jezebel!
@@tiffnym ctfu THAT'S the best you've got? Hahahahahahaha
It’s crazy how a lot of women want their men to do these types of outing such as going to art shows, poetry shows, watch chick flicks, etc. But when these same women are with their girl friends, they would prefer to go to bars, nightclubs, or any place that could possibly put their relationship to the test. Just a thought.
Your said something right there 💯
Excellent observation
But women don't ever take accountability or ownership of anything that makes them look bad 🙄 you ever noticed how every failed relationship is somehow the men's fault
This is so crazy
Excellent observation
Men Are Simple And Modern Women Still Don't Understand!!! Now that title is SPOT ON
I think they understand and don’t care. They still have men they will cater to them, just not the men they want.
Yeah they always 'feel' like theres a man that will. Lol 😂
@@jayschipp7529 no its worse then that they dont care to understand in the first place. Thats what hurts the most
It's not that they don't understand. It's that they are jealous of the simplicity men derive enjoyment.
I know right
"We do what we have to do so that we can do what we want to do" Statement of the year Kevin💪🏾😎
I needed to hear this today 😌
We all want. We all give to get what we want.
As a mechanically inclined man easily distracted by shiny things and movement, I found that rotating sculpture terribly distracting.
I hate the way it moves.
It's hard man
This is exactly why I watch those machine shop videos on CZcams, lathes and milling machines etc. Endless fascination with mechanical stuff (and mechanical stuff doesn't usually give you drama).
Its distracting but it kept you watching the video till the end....🤣
@@TinyMaths True shit. Watching a nail sink into a piece of lumber is soothing as hell.
This is what all this feminsist and equality BS did. Try to effiminize the man.
And make the women more masculine... What they didn't anticipate was for their biological imperative as women to kick in and now they want the benefits of being a man and get the treatment of a woman yet the responsibility of neither
Super Facts
From my own personal experiences, you’re correct. We (women) are inundated and indoctrinated deeply into the cult of Feminism from birth. I think toxic feminism has a motto: “Don’t you EVER have to depend on a MAN for anything!”
And men financed these movements smh..
True. Strong men are a threat to tyrants
Listening to Kevin is really useful. I don’t understand why anyone gets upset.
Because they listen to argue/hate and not to understand
They upset because they’re used to one sided arguments. Even notice how lots of these conversations directly go to shaming and name calling to put you in your place. If you ever worked costumer service, you’ll know what Im talking about.
Personal Responsibility, personal Accountability, and Consequences. Welcome to the Princess Mentality.
@@Aw3someOpZ Exactly.
I love you
Sex, sandwich, silence. Couldn’t have said it better. But we compromise because we love our women. It’s not even compromise at this point because that would mean we get something in return. We always have to make the woman happy. I’m only 21 and I’m realizing this. My generation is so sad bruh. I think it’s social media that got our females acting like this tbh
Feminism is the fire, social media and dating apps are wood and gasoline. Feminism shames them for being feminine, tells them they can be everything men can be. Social media and dating apps gives them more attention and validation than a princess would get in medieval times. All that goes to their head and this is the result.
@@mrkiky I completely agree, modern feminism is pointless. First wave feminists would be disappointed in feminists today. Social media plays a huge role. Nobody likes masculine women
@デンキモンDenkimon! those arnt the problem tho. They exist since day 1 the human race existed... never where women crazy as now. So stop blaming simps. I know its sad if guys simping but that has nothing to do with the state of the modern women.
If your comment ain't the truth, then I don't know what is.
@@SarthakMishraDance @xraf32 oh please.... Check yourself... Blame everybody else.... no one can control nobody your free to do as you please... Nobody going to hold your hand through life tryna check an adult...its called ACCOUNTABILITY
Kevin: "Men are simple. All we want is sex, sandwich and silence."
Me: LMAO! Okay, got it!
Thank God at least 1 of you get it
It's literally that simple
Check Bill Burr out;-)
like really litreally nothing more XDDD and we'll give you what you want juste ask for it without attitude , you're giving us what you want their is no reason why we wouldn't give you what you want in return
“I agree, but I feel like”...Stop feeling about literally everything and try thinking critically for once,
Nope
They can't men are Logical, they're emotional. It's actually an 80/20 split men still have emotions but they're not the majority. 80% logical 20% emotional (Man) flip the numbers and you get a woman 80% emotional, 20% logical.
She said "I feel like" 4 times. Yes, I counted.
Women feel - men think
They actually can’t because they’re emotional thinkers
That’s why I hate when someone says...” Happy wife...happy life” crap!!! What about the husband? Who would agree to get married if it’s just all about the other person and never about you?
happy husband does not serve capitalism thats why
To me, marriage is a two way street. It should be happy spouses, happy house. Not just on the wife. I hate that happy wife HAPPY life crap.
The first time I heard that...it was like scraping on a chalkboard...as if the husband's happiness doesn't matter
I can't stand that statement either. That's one of the BIGGEST lies in history.
@@teflondonii9298 I couldn't agree more
I have a female friend who said she dont understand men I tried to break it down for her she immediately ignored me and said shes fine what she doesn't realize is she will be continue to be clueless and now shes the cat lady lol.
It's not magic... don't ignore, just listen.
How old is she?
27 years old.
@@justinstewart1828 wow
Being a cat lady is not a bad thing if she enjoys it
women don’t know men because they listen to other women about what men want or how they should act. Thank you Kevin for trying to break through the female BS.
Facts you can’t listen to the zebra on how to hunt a zebra. You gotta go to the lion💯
That spinning thing on Kevin’s desk is more entertaining than these women’s😂😂😂
I swear to god I just stare at that shit while they talking😂
I watched it the whole time lol
The swinging sticks
ON GOD!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
@@thaDH100 Lmao it's probably a metaphor for something that rhymes with "sticks" 🤣
They over complicated life and now they made life harder for themselves.
Now that's FACTS💯
Yes ! Just listen to what we want and comply. But they choose to die alone
@Yeet_Or_B_Yeeted_Beech_2 _ My ribs 🤣
Watch _A Tale of Two Brains_ by Mark Gungor. It's related to this and is quite funny.
Great comment, sums it up perfectly.
Thank you, Kevin! I am married for the 3rd time, finally to a woman who lets me be the man I am and respects that about me.
We need guys like you!
You got a rare treasure bruv. Treasure it
@@user-qc7dr3cd3q didn’t see the last part of what he said👀 FINALLY to someone who let him be the man he is. Marriage isn’t the problem. The wrong partner is.
"At what point do you women just be quiet, and say okay." I will celebrate like never before, the day this happens!!
lmao he said "sex. sandwich, silence" its literally that simple. none of that extra shit matters 😂
well im a natural quiet person anyway
Thought about it for like no seconds at all. Its tha TRUTH!! Listened to it again just to laugh again
Food, sex, silence. It is that simple. Chris Rock stated that in a stand-up show years ago. Y'all didn't catch it?!?!
@@ericjordan6059 Bro i had to laugh so hard, when Kevin said "What men want is that women are calm and quiet". 3 seconds later she responds "well but in my opninio..." it is so funny but at the same time disgusting and awful.
@@Ednet34 ... LOL She just didn't get it my dude. They listen to respond, never to listen and understand.
The biggest sign of maturity is to what point you understand reality
well said. Even when reality reveals unpleasant FACTS, a mature person internalizes that and adjusts their world view and the actions they take.
This
My parents are immature grandparents
Best comment😌
Thank you for saying THIS! 🙏🏾You are an OG and great teacher
I'm black and this man is speaking for ALL men! Ain't no racial barrier with this message. His content is actually uniting men of ALL races! We are getting fed up with the shenanigans. For decades men just been taking it and taking it and it's been little fight back. Men getting drunk and doing drugs and some just saying "eff it imma live on the streets" rather than standing up to this effeminate culture masquerading as masculinity when it needs to be. You got men turning themselves into women because it's been made bad to be a man!😂😂 this man is speaking up and real men of any race who agree are standing up with him!
if you ask me it looks like some women are so busy trying to find the hidden meaning behind what a man says that they overlook the all-too-common possibility that maybe there wasn't a hidden meaning at all. Sometimes, "Hello" means hello. No more, no less.
Facts
Definitely
That's because woman don't say what they mean! No mystery to what a man says! Man: it's ok= it's ok! Woman: it's ok= it's definitely not ok by any stretch of the imagination or, it really could = it's ok! But you should know whether it's ok or not ok! And if you don't know if it's ok, then you are somehow less if a man cause a "real man" would know whether or not it's ok! So, you obviously aren't the man that she thought you were. Can you see the difference? That's truly how they think! No logical thought!
@@benjaminburkett9962
So true! Many women just don't get this and never will.
Ooooo, Im a woman and I have the perfect example of this! In middle school, a Spanish boy moved to my school and he was handsome to me. So, I decided to try to get to know this boy better. So I asked him to teach me Spanish. He chose to teach me the Spanish word for “flower”. So I looked around the room and saw no flowers at all, so my mind thought “He must be calling me a flower!!” So of course I developed an even bigger crush on him. Well, fast forward a few weeks later, I find out he was dating someone from his old school and he probably just saw me as a (friendly) academic rival. Oh well. At least my grades improved that year cause I was competing with him.
I’ve learned so much from Kevin. I love hearing a mans point of view.
That's something men don't hear too often
Thank you for being open and caring.
@moreno xo This isn’t just black women. White women are just as bad. Trust me... I’ve seen it. The only difference is Kevin focuses on his people.
@moreno xo My brother, I saw good luck to you. This is not just in our community, it’s a pandemic. Vet wisely.
@Vanessa Cook I appreciate your receptiveness, but you’ve never heard a mans point of view before? Or is it because it’s coming from someone you’re not involved with you’re listening?
Absolutely appreciate the content. Keep doing your thing Black man. 100% support here.
Kevin you the OG that all of us need. Much appreciated.
Women "It isn't wrong or entitled to expect him to do stuff for her"
Men "ok then you have to give him sex whenever he asks for it"
Also women "women don't owe you anything, our body our choice"
This comment really hit home!
My wallet my choice
"at what point you guys be quiet..."
Because of low blood pressure, I tend to be a bit grumpy in the mornings. After finishing my first cup of coffee I'm pretty much OK... but I want to have that cup in piece and qiuet, I don't even turn my TV on. So there was that female friend of mine who stayed over at my place and she wouldn't zip it! She was like a frikin' heavy machine gun at full blast. Went over to my jacket and took a US$ 100 bill and placed it on the coffe table saying 'keep quiet untill I finish my coffe and it's yours'... less than a minute later she goes like 'seriously? you are not joking, right? I can really have it?' to what I took the money and said 'no, not any more'.
That’s women for you.
🤡real story!
Women provoke you they can't let go .
@TheAlfredPlatform
The point OP is making and that we commiserate with is that most women are like his friend. Some men are like your husband.
🤣🤣😂🤣🤣I’m the same way man. I do NOT like noise or a bunch of talking etc. I’m the mornings till I have my coffee. I’m am very quiet and I had a roommate that wouldn’t shut tf up EVER. Needless to say there was a lot of strife and I ended up spending as much time as humanly possible away from the apartment until I eventually moved
Really appreciate you being on the front lines for men (black men in general). You are the godfather Mr.Samuel’s!
Thank you Kevin Daniels for clearly communicating and exposing the disparity in expectation for relationships. In a time when truth is so important, if anyone wants to sift through the bullcrap, and get valuable information, pay attention!
Ladies, This is what we want...
RESPECTFUL, FEMININE, submissive, cooperative, fit, caring and MATURE women.
*Mature in character not age
And not having high body count
Don't forget LOYAL
Are you qualified to receive ALL of that? Stepping outside of your lane applies to BOTH sides.
@@LetGoStressFree i am absolutely qualified to receive those things if im giving those same things because I know my intentions for relationship and I also have the skills for what is a healthy relationship. And by the way, No one in here so far that I know of has said that only one of the sexes steps out their lane but instead simply voicing what we desire in a partner. And we could ask you the same tail chasing question.
At what point do you guys just be quiet, and say Okay... That line just killed it...
@Ava Silver Women always need the last word.
@@mortsnerd5100 You're a genius. You completely bamboozled her. You shat on her chest and smeared it across her face.
@@mortsnerd5100 💯🤣
“You can’t find the point, let me help you right here, get up out of here” 😂🤣
I enjoy your talks Kevin, keep doing this type of content. Your conversation are much needed in these times.
Every time I watch your videos, you be hitting the nail right on the head with the Point Of View of men, and trying to get the majority of these women to understand it so that they can have a better understanding and relationship with their men. Modern women want to do things their way or listening to their friends or other women with the same negative view points... I had have these same conversations with my ex-girlfriend in the past... Smh!!!... I love your show and keep doing what you do!!!😎👍
Just smile and be friendly. It’s not difficult!
Unfortunately, being anything except combative is impossible for a lot of modern women.
Facts but that's hard for alot.
Oh it is
It’s hard. I can picture them twitching on the other end of the table 😭😭
Next generations of ladies are gonna have a hard time!! 🤦🏻♂️
I'm a PhD. Ladies we don't care.
1.Are you fit.
2.Are you feminine
3. Are you available and responsive
yeah and also w men 1. do u have money 2. r u not gonna physically or mentally abuse me💀💀 that’s it. it’s that simple
@Val Shealey how??? yall got 6 of em i got 2..
@Val Shealey yeah and???? i literally have 4 sugar daddies 😭😭😭 it’s ok bro u don’t have to cry about it
@@aria4141 I dont get the fascination of women and money. If you are young, you should be looking at character and upward potential. My wife and I got married at 25 years old, both penniless college graduates. She was smart, as was I, but we both had almost no income. We are talking less than 20k each starting out. Fast forward 15 years and we are both making solid 6 figure incomes. Marry the potential, not the current value. Also, try to marry someone who doesnt piss you off at all, because after 15 years, those little "quirks" get amplified dramatically.
Kevin, you are truly the godfather. Thanks for standing up for us men. We've been silent for far too long.
Kevin, You are the man! Keep doing what you are doing brother. Keep schooling these women....God knows they need it!
Good morning to everyone in the comments. Have a productive day. 💪🏾🧔🏾♂️☀️
Good Morning and likewise
Good morning ❤
Bless up brother you do the same 💪🏾💯🙏🏾
Top of the morning to u MPI
Hv a productive day as well today. Living ur BEST life.✊🏿
Good Morning and likewise 👍🙏💪
"Women really don't know men" Never have truer words been spoken
Preach it Kevin preach it I support your thoughts and your channel 100%
The “I feel like” phrase is so annoying. I feel like I shouldn’t have been born into a poor environment riddled with violence. But REALITY is that I had to make best with what I had accrued. That’s life. Life is unfair, but who am I to put that on the next person? There are plenty of black, poor people who have become rich and famous. That’s life, deal with it. The abundant life here on earth is not for everyone. Everyone is so concerned about living their “best life” here on earth. I honestly believe my best life will be in heaven, and I made my life fairly comfortable here on earth considering where I came from. People need to start developing a relationship with God. That’s a major part of the problem. The 50s and earlier days had an a unit families who were led by God. And because people have grown away from Him, this is part of what you get in return, confusion.
Shalom, my peace of mind is because of this exact line of thinking.
Oh dear ... the confused folk are the one's who believe in a mythical man in the sky ...
@@silverfox6883 I guess we all will find one day, won’t we? Because we all have to die. Then we shall find out. My opinion is that I don’t think it’s wise to deny Jesus, who is God, but you’re entitled to rejecting Him. Your opinion matters, but only for you. And honestly that’s good enough… for you. And I’m good I’m knowing opinion matters , for myself and those who believe. That’s why we’re here on earth. To have our own opinion. Even if it means my life son. Now, try trolling someone else, because your opinion is not changing anyone’s opinion who believes. Not going back and forth with you.
KS: At what point to you guys just be quiet and say ok
Her: here's the thing
Sums up Kevin's point perfectly.
She couldn't do that one thing! Wow!!
I can't believe that wasn't scripted... It was a perfect sitcom skit end. Definitely SNL-level quality... Chef's Kiss & all.
😂
That’s what took me out!
Killed it when he said “They’re not Wives!”
I appreciate your work Kevin! Keep it up!💯
Trying to get a woman to be quiet and say ok, is like trying to ask a politician to be honest
The conversation be dead ass serious and these grown ass educated women just continue to laugh throughout a serious adult conversation smh. No respect whatsoever..
And that my friend, is why they have each other !!!!!!!! Now that's funny😁😁😁
Childish. . . .
They are kids
Wow! I'm a woman and I was literally just thinking the same thing. Like wth is so funny? Smh. But then again, I'm cut from a different cloth. A lot of these women are so blasted delusional. It's so sad.
Laughing is a coping mechanism they do to try and belittle you when you're making valid points
The callers take 15 minutes to get to the point
It's like that when CGA has his call in shows, people take way to long to get to the damn point.
@@ryuken338 yep! They like to add unnecessary context and end up with a meaningless story that weakened whatever argument they had. I've heard callers make a great opposing point to Kevin then turn around and ruin it lol
"I feel like" "But like" "Like" woman get to the damn point time isn't on anyone hands shit.
Hell, did she ever get there??????🤣🤣🤣
@@JULO-I I'm definitely guilty of saying "like" a million times in one sentence, not as bad as I use to be though, but I have a ways to go. Two of my resolutions to myself is to stop saying "like" so much and to stop using the "N word" when I'm comfortable about friends and family. No one said building the best version on myself was going to be easy😂.
"She feels" a lot!! lolol Emotional reasoning...a woman's downfall
I think this stems from their inclination to intuition.
I first saw one of your videos on break 4 hours ago and I have to say that I really appreciate your work these videos not only show what mistakes people make but helps people think about what they can and have done wrong keep doing what you do
I’m at the point where I smile, nod my head yes, look my best and just keep the peace. Life has never been better!
Where are you located? Jw
I swear 💯🙌
@@theskeamshow2601 I’m in NY
I agree! I spent my 20’s and early thirties trying to “be heard” so I wouldn’t feel dominated...imagine my peace when I discovered all I had to do is rest in my femininity. Learning to control my emotions and my tongue was the wisest move I’ve ever made. 100% happily lead and provided for.
@@denisedivine4283 Where are you from, because that is not a typical NY woman response to things.
Why I always like Kevin's videos before I even watch them? I think I'm addicted
GET THE LIKES UP 🎸
I always appreciate a cool , chill, brother
Kevin, I really watch your channel because you mobile sculpture is BANGING!!!
"People refuse to grow up and put way childless things and notions of love and want and this and and realize that life is about trade-offs and compromises." ~ KS (This is excellent)
This is so needed. This needs to be played on a loud speaker and driven through neighborhoods 24/7 365!
Thank you Brother, for representing the last few real MEN , out here, thank you.
When she constantly laughs almost all the time is very telling
Just like our VP...
Men KEEP things SIMPLE. Men are not SIMPLE. Keeping things simple is ART. Like GOD men keep things simple.
truth!
Absolutely!!
Now this!
God ain't nothing but complicated though. Lol
Top comment.
Ladies...logic always wins. I know you’ll never understand, even once that wall hits you.
I've been listening to for a while and you must be the most on to it man alive today...
Thanks for what you are doing, thanks for raise the voice, thanks for bring the men perspective to the discussion!
Omg As a woman I’m so frustrated. Until women stop listening to women telling women what men want, singleness is your destiny. This is so simple.
Samaii Mayii- And therein lies the problem- too many women refuse to listen to men, much less even extend the common courtesy to realize that we have opinions, preferences and desires as well. If we even try, we're accused of "mansplaining".
It’s almost or is equivalent to asking someone about YOU and NOT asking YOU about YOU personally.
Older men are almost out of patience telling and the young guys are being told what they are supposed to be by women now too. Spitefully obstructive and uncooperative is what it seems women think men want now.
If men try to tell women and explain things to em. They are labelled as toxic and sexist😧
Thanks Kevin hilarious 🤣🤣
"I feel like ... ", "I feel like ... ", "I feel like ... ", "I feel like ... ", "yeah but...", "yeah but...", "yeah but..."
I swear women are allergic to facts and stats.
“Some women” What I don’t like about men is how they have a couple of bad experiences and because men are so simple they don’t think beyond those experiences and categorize all women by their experiences.
@@breebetubing9118, if someone doesn't put *all* as an adjective when referring to a demographic, it's to be presumed a generality, since *all* social conversations that are outside of closed scientific systems, are generalities...
Do you even realize you yourself are 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵𝘺 of what you're correcting? You said "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘯" and not "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝘮𝘦𝘯." 𝘍𝘰𝘰𝘥.𝘧𝘰𝘳.𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵
@@jhnxavier because the comment said I swear women “not some women” it was meant to let this person know how it feels to read something like that 😂😂
@@breebetubing9118, sure it was; it'd behoove you to not be typical and learn to admit when you're wrong instead of being defensive and laughing at your own comment... Take care.
@@jhnxavier as if you know who I am or what my intentions are it would behoove you to ask instead of assume. Have a great one 😁
brother we hispanic men go through the same things as my brothers this info is helping me so much...love you for this I have subscribed to your xhanel
Straight dropping knowledge I'm glad I started subscribing keep up the great work 👌🏽
Never forget there are no women out there more beautiful than freedom…
Wow 👏😮🤩
Idk if you got that from somewhere or made it up yourself but damn, so spot on!!
That was GOLD..... RESPECT....
Freedom above all 💯
...and peace.
Almost every woman that comes on the show responds to Kevin with the word “but”.
" but" and " I feel like"!
Whenever you hear those words, you already know where the conversation is going.
Her feelings or else!
Their "butt" is what got some of these simps hanging on to them. If their but was flat like iron boards, they'd be in a shelters.
I thought I was nuts for waking out on all these women. Now I see "it ain't me, it's you"!
You are truly blessed. I figured this out a long time ago and I've had a much happier life. If I get even an inkling of toxicity or certain traits, I'm outta there. No matter how rich, beautiful or successful she may be. There's nothing more pleasing than a pleasant, gracious, feminine, intelligent (emotionally and intellectually) and nurturing woman who you know has the substance to raise kids of solid character and personalities
Kevin, thank you. You have earned my respect.
They literally get the easy side and still complain.
They complained before they got the easy side, that's why they are there, but now their complaints are a fast track to attention and dollars.
Faxxx women literally live life on Easy Difficulty and still complain
Fax while we play life on veteran difficulty😭
we get the what? huh wym
@@aria4141 if you walked a day in a mans shoes you would understand
For years I’ve told women that it’s funny how they have lots of requirements for men who have options, and those requirements are important... but, if he says “making me a sandwiches and meals regularly is important to me”, then he is behind the times.
I never understood that. A good meal is important for life, but somehow sexist these days to ask. No one is saying it's a requirement, but a woman that enjoys cooking while I work makes me want to work harder for her. I work hard, and my reward is a good meal. The counter response would be. Well i work too. Yeah, that is not alway a good thing. two adults working all the time and can't feed themselves except takeout, and the house is a mess. Just a corporate slave. That is nothing to be proud of.
A delicious daily meal is important to hold a relationship. It adds motivation to a person's life. A man who gets home and has a wife but has nothing forward to look for is eventually going to lose interest in that relationship
Lazy !!!
@@SSingh-nr8qz Women don't appreciate food as much as men because women are more picky and actually require less food to function. So most women would never understand.
They want a Man from the 50' but they want to behave like an independent woman if modern times
Men are simple. Thanks for putting it out there Kevin you are right in point as always brother
Keep preaching' bro! Give it to them straight. They need it!