99% of Success Depends on This Person

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Komentáře • 148

  • @RareFoodsMarket
    @RareFoodsMarket Před měsícem +93

    "If you change your reference group, you'll change your life." That is wisdom

  • @AlTel633
    @AlTel633 Před měsícem +81

    I love that both her and Alex mention that the other elevated their life in different ways and attribute much of their success to meeting each other 💪

    • @Kintsugi_Souls33
      @Kintsugi_Souls33 Před měsícem +5

      Yes, both bringing different aspect to the table and working so brilliantly and executing.

    • @wempoweryou_LTSWN
      @wempoweryou_LTSWN Před měsícem +3

      An awesome example of a power couple!

  • @TheNewNextPod
    @TheNewNextPod Před měsícem +25

    Frame you own house, don’t frame it into someone else’s.
    This is powerful. Finding a spouse that doesn’t believe your dreams are “competition” but believes in you. Made this mistake before but luckily am still young.

  • @VampireLoveHunter
    @VampireLoveHunter Před měsícem +23

    I'm 24 (Female) with an already multi-million dollar business and I'm single. This was an extremely helpful video for me to think about since I'm in this position. Thank you for your content, I appreciate it a lot!

  • @infinitezebra
    @infinitezebra Před měsícem +20

    So true. I started taking genuine action towards my dreams and ended up getting divorced and breaking up with negative and jealous family and friends. My life flourished when I let the dead weight go! So many us get stuck in bad relationships in fear of moving on. Life is precious. Set yourself free to receive your true worth!

  • @jessie0078
    @jessie0078 Před měsícem +62

    She’s bringing back the shoulder pads ❤️‍🔥

    • @Kintsugi_Souls33
      @Kintsugi_Souls33 Před měsícem +3

      Yes, love this Look! ❤ thank you for sharing. We need more woman like you focused determined to be better. 🕊️❤️☀️

    • @anticonfidencegirl
      @anticonfidencegirl Před měsícem +4

      It suits so well with her and her personality!

    • @theladieslapue8690
      @theladieslapue8690 Před měsícem +2

      She wears them well. So her.

  • @user-rb4lj8pq7d
    @user-rb4lj8pq7d Před měsícem +24

    Habits are formed by continuous referral to success.
    Hanging around success people.

  • @user-iz2qq9kg9w
    @user-iz2qq9kg9w Před měsícem +14

    This is a super important conversation before marriage. I realized this 18 years into marriage. That's not the best time to realize 😂😂

  • @Tacarastar
    @Tacarastar Před měsícem +14

    This video is life changing. I’m single with a lot of suitors. I’m currently focusing on building a business and I’m not really interested in my suitors because although they are very nice and successful, they don’t align with my goals. I want someone who supports and benefits what I consider to be my life purpose. This video affirms how important my desires in a spouse are.

    • @LexaaaHeree
      @LexaaaHeree Před měsícem +1

      Those than undermine someone’s perspective of being “picky” don’t realize the magnitude of that choice. Keep on being great ❤️

    • @kresimirzex2720
      @kresimirzex2720 Před měsícem

      Evey except the most ugly women have many suitors. With Tinder and technology. But most of those guys just want box.

  • @joshuaday3994
    @joshuaday3994 Před měsícem +15

    So thankful my wife and I are on the same page with what we do ❤ I’ve told her if she ever feels like I don’t support her in her goals, she’s free to leave me 💯 when both parties are aligned, it makes such a huge difference ✅

  • @KristenFish
    @KristenFish Před měsícem +13

    25:00 Knowing your “non-negotiables” is crucial. Supporting my ambition and goals is 100% non-negotiable for me. It may be heartbreaking when they don’t, but I’ve learned for myself it’s more heartbreaking if I betray my own self and what I want out of life. Love this, thanks Leila!

  • @milenadeliz
    @milenadeliz Před měsícem +8

    Thank you for bringing that subject up. 🔥 I’ve just started a business and I’m in process of pursuing my dreams and came to realize my partner is bringing me down and not aligned with my goals. I just rented an apartment last week and I’m moving in next week, I’m so scared but I know I need to be around people that help me achieve my dreams faster. I know I’m doing the best for myself, since he’s been talking me down for a very long time. I need to do this. Thank you Leila.

  • @jhanalexander5377
    @jhanalexander5377 Před měsícem +15

    This actually happens a lot at work. It’s happened to me and seen it in others where there managers or boss tell them what they can’t do and you start believing it until you go somewhere else and see that it was bs. You have to lead yourself and not let other people lead you.

  • @georgelee9278
    @georgelee9278 Před měsícem +9

    You want someone to be there to support you if things go wrong, but equally, you need something there to encourage you to take the risk despite the fact that it could go wrong.

  • @casaventura
    @casaventura Před měsícem +4

    wow, Leila you are so wise. Out of all the videos on your channel this one resonated with me the most. I feel like I’ve seen almost all of them & this one I had to listen to twice. It really hit me in my heart and my head. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. Coming from a young woman, we need more woman mentors like you around 🥹❤️💎

  • @raymonddelarama6402
    @raymonddelarama6402 Před měsícem +4

    Leila and Alex literally changed the course of my life, and many others, for the better. Thank you so much for what you do!
    I noticed you haven't updated your "How to Run Effective Meetings" video. The last strategic video you made about that was on May 26, 2022.
    I think that running great meetings that CEOs and employees both love are what MOST companies are struggling with.
    It would be great if you can make a new video on that.
    Thank you again for everything you and your team do!

  • @valeriareneer
    @valeriareneer Před 16 dny

    I'm so thankful to be with someone that only shows up with love and support.

  • @FromTheHipp
    @FromTheHipp Před měsícem +3

    Getting away from the wrong people 5 years ago has proven to change my life. ive been so focused on growing and building these past 4-5 years and its been foreign to me because i was around all of the wrong people before that. a lot of it feels new. the people of my past took such a toll on my life. now my life finally has concrete direction and tangible consistency.

  • @leahannemedia
    @leahannemedia Před měsícem +1

    ❤ this. Once you get serious and set boundaries, meaning you literally don't accept anything less than what you want from somebody. Things change real fast.

  • @bohorquezandrea
    @bohorquezandrea Před 10 dny +1

    I just realized my 5-year boyfriend is to me what Alex is to you. Thanks Leila for making me value and admire him even more and also wanting me to keep working my skills so that I can reciprocate the same or more to him

  • @anticonfidencegirl
    @anticonfidencegirl Před měsícem +3

    21:02 I love you stress that it is okay to choose family.
    21:40 that factually it is really better to stay alone than being with the wrong person to be successful.
    Your video is awesome, one of the best. You're really getting good at telling stories. I love it!

  • @trevormills8338
    @trevormills8338 Před měsícem +2

    I think there's a lot of good talking points here. 13 minutes in I would highly recommend a book called Eight rules of Love by Jay Shetty. This book gives great insight and coaching on how each of you should have your own purpose in life whether it's supports the family financially or not and how to share the time throughout the year to allow each person to pursue their own purpose to be each other student and teacher and how to use encouragement rather than criticism the book also has references on should we stay together or should we end the relationship what is my purpose? Great book to support what Lelia is speaking on.

  • @funtabulousarnel
    @funtabulousarnel Před měsícem +1

    This is such a great example of what a power couple is and what is not.
    I experienced these dynamics in my marriage where my ex was not supportive in my goals. Awesome post Leila! Love your content. 🎉

  • @belengutierrez1961
    @belengutierrez1961 Před měsícem +2

    this video made my eyes teary... i ended up a 3 and a half hear relationship with the girl i thought was going to end up marrying, and now that separation has happened and i'm able to see the entire thing from a logical perspective, it's pretty clear she (at some point, because i wasn't moving as fast as she wanted me to regarding achieving my goals so we could have more money) started talking down on me, and i thought that was normal - luckily i'm emotionally far removed from the situation and i'm able to basically reinvent the way i relate to people and the filters i use to choose my next partner, because i want for her to be the partner i end up committing for life

  • @MareikeHuisinga
    @MareikeHuisinga Před měsícem +6

    Leila never disappoints! ❤💪

  • @georgelee9278
    @georgelee9278 Před měsícem +2

    I always thought positivity was choice, but it’s not, it’s a skill that first had to be learned.
    It’s also probably one of the hardest to acquire especially for people that aren’t naturally positive in nature or have suffered from set backs.

  • @LouisDillard02
    @LouisDillard02 Před měsícem +1

    This is great, but I firmly believe that success hinges heavily on the person you rely on the most-yourself. Your drive, decisions, and dedication pave the path forward.

  • @melaniedayne2979
    @melaniedayne2979 Před měsícem +4

    She’s not lying. I’ve seen this happen, time to find the right partner.

  • @lorlethdougal9102
    @lorlethdougal9102 Před měsícem +1

    Hi Leila, Thanks for sharing this…it’s so important to have a support group but indeed your partner should be your biggest supporter.

  • @mohamedjamaludeen6762
    @mohamedjamaludeen6762 Před měsícem +1

    thought provoking human growth law that 99% of people are either unaware or ignoring.. thanks., simply great...

  • @Alteringarts
    @Alteringarts Před měsícem +3

    That was very insightful. Thx for sharing.

  • @user-iz2qq9kg9w
    @user-iz2qq9kg9w Před měsícem +2

    Great conversation... you are so full of wisdom.

  • @eze3572
    @eze3572 Před měsícem

    Unfortunately I’m realizing I’ve been that person dishing doubt and fear 😢 no more ! Thank you Ms. Leila

  • @ShesChangingTheGame
    @ShesChangingTheGame Před měsícem

    Thank you!!!! I needed to hear this. I absolutely love how you are so authentic!

  • @victoriayuart
    @victoriayuart Před měsícem

    I love this! This is so good! Thank you for sharing this with me and everyone Leila! You're a really big inspiration to me. Please keep up the amazing work that you do and continue to guide, inspire, ignite, and motivate people to dream big and to work towards their dream goals!

  • @joleh6077
    @joleh6077 Před měsícem

    What I'm most amazed by is not just your wisdom, but the way you articulated such a complex topic without blame or victimhood. This topic always gets on people's nerves because a lot of the time it's over-simplified as a 'choosing career over relationship' narrative.

  • @VeronicaBasoni
    @VeronicaBasoni Před měsícem +3

    Thank you, Leila

  • @deepakshuklaofficial
    @deepakshuklaofficial Před měsícem

    This is a solid video especially as I've just moved country and change my entire friendship network and and I'm in a relationship where we both support each other great video

  • @diananelsen3320
    @diananelsen3320 Před měsícem

    Oh my gosh, Leila! I was just thinking about this and hoped for someone to talk about it. I’m in this situation and feel like I’m pulled down every time I come home.

  • @oliv23_
    @oliv23_ Před měsícem +1

    Thanks, I needed to hear this

  • @prismonthethehorizon5793
    @prismonthethehorizon5793 Před měsícem +2

    Yes this is 100% the Truth!

  • @PNGtwentyfour
    @PNGtwentyfour Před měsícem +1

    I get a ton of value from Leila and Alex's content. Where I disagree with them both, is highlighted in her comment at 13:30 - the suggestion that making money is the "highest potential as a human." Taking care of others is a much higher calling. That's in principle. I agree with her example though, about the girlfriend's need for attention getting in the way of the employee's best path.

  • @ZoltanSzaszBenedek
    @ZoltanSzaszBenedek Před měsícem

    Lot of people so stuck, so attached, so rooted into something that the fear of uprooting themselves and gain doesn't make sense for them. That combined with fear of unknown... now me on other side put me to travel I would be like "f yeah, sign me up just give me some time can side-experirence other stuff too". In scriptures it says: "know thyself" , basically know what you want people because by law of attraction we attract confused or exactly what we want specifically if we know for sure what we want to experience in life. Opposite of yours comes from a belief system of "opposites attract each other" ... beliefs create one's reality. Bunch disbelief can create bunch issues... on other side of things everything always changes and souls can outgrow each other and energies don't match anymore, in physical reality manifests in break up. I study energy and soul growth... there's no enemy really either if we don't create enemies inside ... not withing not without... nothing outside of ourselves can exist if doesn't exist inside of us ;)

  • @TheBlackManMythLegend
    @TheBlackManMythLegend Před měsícem

    If I had a woman my main goal toward her is loving her. Not making her going faster. If that's what she wants and I feel like I can show my love that way to help her I will do that , whatever to see her smile. I love seeing her smile. I do not know if it's the right thing to do. I am single. But my instinct when I am with somebody I approciate and love is to do that and being physically attracted to her.

  • @dominicleong4385
    @dominicleong4385 Před měsícem +6

    My advice to everyone is this : if you want to grow big this year especially in your finances. Be willing to make investments. Saving is great but investing puts you on a pedestal where you wouldnt have to worry about savings as you do now. Thanks to larysa Caba, my portolio is doing really great and im proud of the decisions i made last year.

    • @jasperflontes4289
      @jasperflontes4289 Před měsícem

      I feel one Of the greatest challenges that we first timers face in the ma rket is that we end up losing all we have,making it difficult to find ourselves back to our feet. My biggest advice is to always seek the services of a professional just like I did when I ventured into it for the first time. Big thanks to Larysa Caba. I now make huge profits by weekly through her services while still learning to stand on my own.

    • @annddyyy-6920
      @annddyyy-6920 Před měsícem

      I think she trades for everyone I meet. I met her twice at a meeting in Germany and after her lectures from Ella I had to personally ask her to be my financial advisor. she is definitely good.

    • @fredrickalfarez6875
      @fredrickalfarez6875 Před měsícem

      I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Larysa Caba with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.

    • @fred5528
      @fred5528 Před měsícem

      Please can someone tell me more?

    • @fredrickalfarez6875
      @fredrickalfarez6875 Před měsícem

      I feel this is quite an easy one. You already have her name which makes it easy for you. Just look up her name online. I’m sure you will come across her. That’s how I found her too.

  • @Idk.milk420
    @Idk.milk420 Před měsícem

    love the content! it is really helping me realize that my normal life and people around me are whats really holding me back from achieving my dreams.

  • @aleahsequioa
    @aleahsequioa Před měsícem

    This video is SO good. Some much value... Thank you Leila. You're amazing and I look up to you so much!

  • @ThunderousMaster
    @ThunderousMaster Před měsícem

    I seriously love this video, thank you for posting this.

  • @RacquelTBrooks
    @RacquelTBrooks Před měsícem +1

    You are an amazing .i love listening to your advice . Mind explosion .. it all just makes sense lol!!

  • @SummerDon
    @SummerDon Před 24 dny

    This was so good and necessary!

  • @omegatseggia3002
    @omegatseggia3002 Před měsícem

    Thank you Leila , this is the most important topics that you broke down . I hv learn a lot .

  • @alex-ander-13
    @alex-ander-13 Před 11 dny

    Thank you.

  • @balloonyvideos
    @balloonyvideos Před měsícem

    Okay a couple things.
    1. I thought the 99% of success was obviously going to depend on you yourself, not the person you're closest to. And I still think it does, despite what that person says or conveys to you, you make the choices that lead to either success or failure from your perspective.
    2. I like that she proposed an alternative to breaking up, because for so many people, that would be a failure from their perspective. At least there is a non-selfish alternative.
    3. I keep saying "from our perspective" because we naturally think that our own hopes and dreams are the most important, and while we probably deserve fulfillment of those, and it would make many of us happier, it's a relatively new, Western and rather egocentric mindset that one's individual dreams are more important than the collective if you're together with someone else.
    Best alternative I think is, as she said, bringing happiness to both by benefiting both you and your partner with what you both do, even if just financially, if married.

  • @ladyoftheflowers44
    @ladyoftheflowers44 Před měsícem +2

    Insecure men are haters
    Most men don’t respect women universally
    The respect is extended on a case by case basis according to HIS standards
    So honestly being single is way better than being with some one who brings you down
    But that requires the confidence to be alone which so many of todays women do not

  • @thedayisnigh5886
    @thedayisnigh5886 Před 27 dny

    Family is more important than career

  • @Themajesticnessa
    @Themajesticnessa Před měsícem

    I needed to see this in the right moment

  • @Eiriririruttitjejri
    @Eiriririruttitjejri Před měsícem

    Great video Leila! Regards from Argentina 🇦🇷

  • @belengutierrez1961
    @belengutierrez1961 Před měsícem

    you're helping me so much, thank you

  • @alpineai
    @alpineai Před měsícem

    "if creating success creates insecure in your partner" - wow

  • @prismotivasitv
    @prismotivasitv Před měsícem

    Thankyou leila , your videos changes my mindset so much :) I already watch it from your first video :)

  • @chanietwersky
    @chanietwersky Před měsícem +1

    Great important topic/video

  • @ddfelder2
    @ddfelder2 Před měsícem

    Damn… I gotta go reflect and sit with this one. It was as if Leila was speaking directly to and about me. Damn…

  • @KoryGoossens
    @KoryGoossens Před měsícem

    10/10 video! Keep it up!

  • @lisar.2549
    @lisar.2549 Před měsícem

    Reminds me of that story that “Mr. Wonderful” talks about when a very promising student asked him what to do about his girlfriend who didn’t like his growing, very successful business. O’Leary said, “well, is it easier to replace the girlfriend or the business?”
    But seriously, the stories you give as examples show that women value relationships more and will choose them over business. Are they really less happy being in their relationship vs. the career? Maybe they miss the job, but are still happier choosing the relationship, or not. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @josephadegboye6745
    @josephadegboye6745 Před měsícem +3

    Amazing video

  • @peacefulruler1
    @peacefulruler1 Před měsícem +1

    Like your parents told you, you become like those you spend the most time with.

  • @Katarinalukin
    @Katarinalukin Před měsícem

    This is amazing thank you so much 🙏🏼

  • @priyamvadam4928
    @priyamvadam4928 Před měsícem

    Love you Leila ♥️

  • @carmenfreeman693
    @carmenfreeman693 Před měsícem

    Brilliant!

  • @willjessup1756
    @willjessup1756 Před měsícem

    "skill deficit". great way to simplify something complex into the essence

  • @natedavidoff668
    @natedavidoff668 Před měsícem

    Great advice and video

  • @WinsenLe-yj2tk
    @WinsenLe-yj2tk Před měsícem

    Thanks for this

  • @etheillest
    @etheillest Před měsícem +2

    Big boss sis is bacck yay

  • @donnajulliet
    @donnajulliet Před měsícem +2

    Omg Leila, my husband roots for me with words but his actions say otherwise…😢

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay Před měsícem

    Totally unrelated: this blazer is the perfect size for you. The color is stunning!

  • @noshirtjimbert4994
    @noshirtjimbert4994 Před měsícem +1

    Good stuff there lady:)

  • @rockstartonyx
    @rockstartonyx Před měsícem

    12/10 video. I love these. I strive to find a partner that I can comfortably sit and watch your videos with. Hormozi’s & chill >>> Netflix & chill

  • @randianne9351
    @randianne9351 Před měsícem

    Well said!!!

  • @maskedmonologuespodcast
    @maskedmonologuespodcast Před měsícem +1

    What do you do if those people are your parents?

  • @danielfatfingahs5649
    @danielfatfingahs5649 Před měsícem +2

    4 minutes old and I'm here!

  • @TheNewNextPod
    @TheNewNextPod Před měsícem

    Great video!!!

  • @xavier_bernard
    @xavier_bernard Před měsícem

    Best part: I’ll give you an example…

  • @alleyesonmeino.c180
    @alleyesonmeino.c180 Před měsícem

    Smart and pretty 10 out of 10 👌.

  • @tryphosalove
    @tryphosalove Před měsícem +1

    Truth 💯

  • @lisar.2549
    @lisar.2549 Před měsícem

    That color looks great on you.

  • @Manuel-6
    @Manuel-6 Před měsícem

    Brutal truth

  • @paulaCvenecia
    @paulaCvenecia Před měsícem

    3. Ñam❤ 26:36 one of the phrases I love the most, I heard it from JB Peterson: "Love is wanting to see the other flourish"
    ...
    Imagine what kind of world we would love in if we lived by that.
    2. 20:54 Omg... Let's stage a rescue mission... but seriously 😒 😳 to lose a good employee thanks to an insecure person, I find that infuriating 😡... This is exactly the reason why some of us just stay away from people...
    The hell?!?!? these are horror stories 😱 😱 😭
    1. Awwww... Jesús effin Christ... And those of us who don't do relationships, are fucked? 😢... 25:46.No we're not 🥹 we can do it alone 🙏🏾😺🔥

  • @ZoltanSzaszBenedek
    @ZoltanSzaszBenedek Před měsícem

    Show me your friends I will predict your future... lol 😅😅😅 the average 5, energy contagious: thoughts, mindset energy, beliefs running in subconscious create the box... meditation abd hacking the subconscious is the key ! And nothing that is not heart felt usually manifest harder... the outside world reacts manifests our inside world.

  • @avimazing-bc9ut
    @avimazing-bc9ut Před měsícem

    Find your Leila, that's it.

  • @mrs.ruseva1395
    @mrs.ruseva1395 Před měsícem +1

    Where is the dress from please

  • @feliciadixon4286
    @feliciadixon4286 Před měsícem

    There's nothing going on for them their washed up, so instead of being supportive they try and bring you down.

  • @eddylopez4141
    @eddylopez4141 Před měsícem

    I think this is a big conflict that will reshape humanity and has already done so in many ways. There is a battle between the traditional family structure and career advancement. Unfortunately, without spending so much time, im not sure you can have both without being sort of jaded in a sense. Our Population will continue to decline if we don’t address this issue. This video makes it sound like you want people to also sacrifice their “spouses goals” for a greater future but what is that exactly? To find a partner who supports you or someone who believes in career advancement? Similar to how you and Alex are. We all have goals in life and some are not monetary, some money can’t buy. Great video and I’m sure you mean well as I value your content highly. Maybe I’m just reading in a little too much.

  • @MahtubAhmadi
    @MahtubAhmadi Před 3 dny

    How do we meet those people?

  • @user-vk5wn1nm6g
    @user-vk5wn1nm6g Před měsícem

    Can you please make video on emotional intelligence

  • @cee8876
    @cee8876 Před měsícem +1

    What if you're single?

  • @SAINTANDJOYCE
    @SAINTANDJOYCE Před měsícem

    Very True ✅

  • @mbusisenimbhele
    @mbusisenimbhele Před měsícem

    Interesting...

  • @TinaHani-qh4lp
    @TinaHani-qh4lp Před měsícem

    But not everyone marries their business partner 😮is it choosing or destiny? Not every soul mate is a business person tho I'm sure

  • @zulasolaine
    @zulasolaine Před měsícem

    I’ve been punched several times during this video BUT I NEEDED IT

  • @shaun787max
    @shaun787max Před měsícem +3

    Goat 🐐