I rejected a man and he blackmailed me - DISTRUST FUND 4

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2023
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Komentáře • 107

  • @youresoartdeco1
    @youresoartdeco1 Před 9 měsíci +89

    honestly love the idea of you taking turns telling stories in each episode, it gives you the time to dive into more detail and i think you're both really good storytellers as well as good listeners.
    this story is absolutely messed up, im sorry you had to go through that mia, especially at such a young age like thats terrifying

  • @katoosh
    @katoosh Před 9 měsíci +74

    Guys, they're friends...chill. Blair will have her stories too.

  • @spak3950
    @spak3950 Před 9 měsíci +40

    Mia is such an entertaining storyteller.

  • @e.v.2803
    @e.v.2803 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Threatening to take your own life if someone leaves is so immature. It’s not just relatable for middle schoolers tbh I had a grown man in his 30s (I’m 5 years younger) pull that same stunt. He said he was going to start over, that his life wasn’t worth it anymore if I leave. I still left and he did reach out but eventually faded (after scaring him with the police)
    Protect yourself ladies!!! Use your tools and voice and never let anyone who does those things get away with it.

  • @primordialdoll
    @primordialdoll Před 9 měsíci +45

    Mia is so good at telling stories and giving all the background and ish ✨

    • @shokes7813
      @shokes7813 Před 9 měsíci +2

      So good! The story was funny, sweet, outrageous, relatable, enraging, etc. Mia could have ended it with how this guy was insane and a piece of shit, but she made me feel compassionate and sad for him (he’s still a dickhead though)

  • @18uprhea
    @18uprhea Před 9 měsíci +20

    Blair says what I'm thinking about Mia's story and it makes the nonsense not only tolerable, but entertaining.

  • @cschweitzy
    @cschweitzy Před 9 měsíci +10

    I lost it when Mia said he was drake in degrassi lmfao

  • @ediesaffron3593
    @ediesaffron3593 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Sadly, traumatic brain injuries especially during childhood can really mess people up. Just look at how many serial killers have suffered head trauma as children & how many football players end up snapping due to CTE from repeated concussions. Very sad 😢
    Also, I’ve definitely experienced guys threatening un-aliving themselves and it took way too long to finally realize that it’s just straight up manipulation.

  • @AdeolaAsh
    @AdeolaAsh Před 8 měsíci +2

    A guy definitely threatened me with unaliving himself in middle school for not answering his texts quickly 😭

  • @audgepodge381
    @audgepodge381 Před 9 měsíci +12

    oh my gosh Mia, honestly, I think you're right about the head injury causing him to lose himself.
    So sad, especially the fact you had the heart to carry out this cute friendship group, but as teenagers yeah....drama is bound to happen. Glad you're okay tho! That was a lot.

  • @user-mk7vw8ui5r
    @user-mk7vw8ui5r Před 9 měsíci +26

    I love you guys and your podcast, but I’d love to hear more topical things like where you’re both actively involved in the convo. You both look beautiful!

  • @pragyasingh2297
    @pragyasingh2297 Před 9 měsíci +14

    not me reading the comments and tearing up reading y'alls stories. This is such a powerful community! I'm so sorry about what you've been through but I'm so proud you've been able to become stronger as a result ❤

  • @mariaschmidt1119
    @mariaschmidt1119 Před 9 měsíci +4

    There are stories of people with head injuries behaving differently after. It's not that a good part dies, more likely that the part of him able to control the less favorable parts was damaged.

  • @hiropon2985
    @hiropon2985 Před 9 měsíci +4

    THERAPY DUPE! haha you guys are so effortlessly funny, I love this pod so much.

  • @gabriella6299
    @gabriella6299 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I am sick of deranged psychopaths. I have stories like this.

  • @user-hw5ys6ng1l
    @user-hw5ys6ng1l Před 9 měsíci +5

    i really like this podcast... you're both naturals at it!

  • @xotoast
    @xotoast Před 9 měsíci +3

    I was part of the rejects group in school. My best friend and I started hanging out with this very nerdy guy and he was EXTREMELY suicidal. We would spend hours talking him down from it. Eventually we told his mom and he went to the teenage mental ward for a week. After that he seemed to be doing much better. A couple months passed And we started to like each other and started dating.
    He was my first serious boyfriend. The suicide stuff came up a few times.
    Really I don't know what I was thinking that whole relationship.

  • @thefauxjackie
    @thefauxjackie Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yes I agree. Def went through a dramatic phrase in middle school 😂😂 Romeo and Juliet phase

  • @marietorres638
    @marietorres638 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Love you guys !!! Loving this podcast keep up the amazing work ladies

  • @kirby961
    @kirby961 Před 9 měsíci

    This is my new favourite potcast💕

  • @lexx9621
    @lexx9621 Před 9 měsíci +31

    The way Blair is trying to hint to Mia very subtly the whole story that she kinda sounds like an asshole at points is killing me

    • @0KellieCollins0
      @0KellieCollins0 Před 9 měsíci +11

      I didn’t think so. I almost thought she was trying to push her along, as to not get caught up in the details. I do wish B would talk & interact more tho. But that’s just my unpopular opinion I’m sure.

    • @Christinayangismymommy
      @Christinayangismymommy Před 8 měsíci +1

      ayo its just a chill friendship

  • @alicja.24
    @alicja.24 Před 8 měsíci +1

    came from spotify to see pictures of baby mia and i was DISAPPOINTED anyway thank you blair for introducing me to mia i love you both keep it up FAVE POD

  • @Christy121000
    @Christy121000 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I love you guys but I felt like I was taken back to middle school and I am 27. Let’s reflect on things more relevant. I mean Blair looks BORED😅

  • @SarinaSaman
    @SarinaSaman Před 9 měsíci +2

    Omg!!... for the part that teens used to manipulate girls by saying they gonna kill themselves is so truee and I relatee!,, i like these stories that give an inside of what others went through and how relatable some situations are, thank you girls!

  • @kymberlyoseguera2949
    @kymberlyoseguera2949 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The degrassi reference 😭😭😭😭I’m like. No wonder this is familiar 😂😂

  • @lilo9085
    @lilo9085 Před 9 měsíci +6

    My ex also used to threaten me saying he gonna kill himself if i ever leaved him and he tried to kiss me forcefully in front of the whole class and made me look like the player i was 13 he was 17 :") it was traumatic and then when i changed school blocked him everywhere he kept calling me with random members and sending messages to people in my school and tell em to tell me i should message him if he doesn't wanna expose me for being a " whore "

  • @armtinyannie9771
    @armtinyannie9771 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Mia always stays so respectful even if the person screwing her over is being a piece of shit 😭

  • @JKat94
    @JKat94 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I have a best friend who happens to be a guy and we would never. We irritate the fuck out of each other. We actually met on tinder but realised nope not going to work so we kind of became best friends, I truly love him like a brother and not more and he feels the same. I do think it's rare for that to happen though

  • @moninikolova8291
    @moninikolova8291 Před 8 měsíci +1

    We all want Blair to tell stories too!!

  • @sarahpeyton5431
    @sarahpeyton5431 Před 9 měsíci

    Ahh! yes! My two faves 💕 So happy about this channel.

  • @alisonbender8575
    @alisonbender8575 Před 9 měsíci +2

    My ex husband had brain damage from his teen years and it ended up just being too much for me, I think the brain damage prevented him from ever feeling better, it was so sad and I never felt like I was helping him, just enabling him

  • @kktheripper
    @kktheripper Před 9 měsíci +1

    Loving this! Keep it coming!

  • @thefauxjackie
    @thefauxjackie Před 9 měsíci +2

    My ex did this too in 9th grade lol. I told his girlfriends and they told the counselor. Anyways he’s still alive

  • @motivationmindsetnow
    @motivationmindsetnow Před 9 měsíci +3

    Lovinggg your podcast ❤

  • @fancychancey9253
    @fancychancey9253 Před 9 měsíci +5

    It’s a little effed but… I think every girl and boy needs to know what unhealthy and unstable looks like so they know what a walking red flag looks like. Glad you’re in a happy relationship now Mia 😊

  • @jpiercy3636
    @jpiercy3636 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Really loved this storytime into it the whoe time!

  • @harleymorgannnnn
    @harleymorgannnnn Před 9 měsíci +1

    you guys are my serotonin

  • @gujubear1551
    @gujubear1551 Před 8 měsíci +1

    The guy was a narcissist for real

  • @davidanddaniellerosales9974
    @davidanddaniellerosales9974 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Omg the degrassi refrence!!!

  • @HairySweetMango
    @HairySweetMango Před 9 měsíci +14

    Omg ! There was a guy who threatened to throw acid on me because I rejected him . I couldn't go out of my house for months 😢
    But I'm okey now .
    Love you Blair and Miia ❤

    • @MiaDio
      @MiaDio Před 9 měsíci +2

      Omg glad you’re safe

    • @HairySweetMango
      @HairySweetMango Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@MiaDio thanks babes it's been years and i moved city so much better now ❤

    • @pragyasingh2297
      @pragyasingh2297 Před 9 měsíci +2

      That must have been terrifying! So happy you're okay, love.

    • @HairySweetMango
      @HairySweetMango Před 9 měsíci

      @@pragyasingh2297 yeah it was really scary. Thanks for saying that 💖

    • @chelsea_Xxo
      @chelsea_Xxo Před 9 měsíci +1

      I had a ex who worked with acid and told me he would burn my face & my bags if I spent 1 more dollar on myself

  • @reighnhkgdvk8881
    @reighnhkgdvk8881 Před 9 měsíci +2

    if you reject a boy he will 100% make up something so much worse than anything that would have been done. people you dont know will know the lie and speak on it and you as if they watched it. and thats just if your lucky.

  • @weird_life1653
    @weird_life1653 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Yes my ex threatened to do that to himself if I broke up with him and I was in 12th grade, he tried to do it in-front of me multiple times and he ended up breaking up with me and he broke/threw away all of my stuff

    • @pragyasingh2297
      @pragyasingh2297 Před 9 měsíci

      Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. If you haven't heard this enough, I hope you know that his behavior is not at all your responsibility, and you're so strong for pulling yourself out of that toxicity ❤

  • @victoriaalliaud7538
    @victoriaalliaud7538 Před 9 měsíci +2

    omggg I didn't know you were half Argentinian! Do you speak Spanish?

  • @rominatre
    @rominatre Před 9 měsíci +13

    Funny how I started dissociating just when Blair did hahaha

    • @pragyasingh2297
      @pragyasingh2297 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I play a fun game called "dissociation or adhd?" about 15 times a day at a minimum 🙃

    • @Danachristiinee
      @Danachristiinee Před 9 měsíci

      😂

    • @MeganD-jc8rz
      @MeganD-jc8rz Před 8 měsíci

      @@pragyasingh2297 I don’t think you know what you’re talking.

    • @MeganD-jc8rz
      @MeganD-jc8rz Před 8 měsíci

      About

  • @AdeolaAsh
    @AdeolaAsh Před 8 měsíci

    Patiently waiting for the next episode 🥺

  • @dawnseow
    @dawnseow Před 9 měsíci +1

    The crazy rumour that Norman started about the hospital bed sounds like the plot in American Horror Story (Season 3: Coven)! The main character had a venomous V that would kill whoever she slept with and she wanted to get her revenge on this guy who SA-ed her classmate. So she sneaked into the hospital (where he was at) and did him.
    And you mentioned that you guys would hang out and watch AHS together (before he went psycho).

  • @hoemo5440
    @hoemo5440 Před 9 měsíci +7

    My “best friend” freshmen year of HS would say she’s suicidal and that me and my other friend were the only things keeping her alive and all that dramatic shit lmao I didn’t realize how common that is for ppl to go through 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @amberpeters2819
      @amberpeters2819 Před 9 měsíci +3

      As the friend in my group who used to do that... I feel so fucking bad for putting that on anyone else. I had no idea the effect of my words, but I meant what I said at the time, though it is possible that other people say that to manipulate their "friends". I just needed actual adults to step in and help. I hope you are doing well now and that "best friend" has found their way to healing. Love.

  • @saturdaygoods7757
    @saturdaygoods7757 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I mean this in the nicest way but that story was so long winded, and Blair looked disengaged

  • @louisehaywood2661
    @louisehaywood2661 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Don't support better help they are a terrible company - look up the controversy

  • @thefauxjackie
    @thefauxjackie Před 9 měsíci

    Lmao!! Remixing the story as the victim 😂😂

  • @franciscapiloto6491
    @franciscapiloto6491 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Blair in here like a fireman, trying to extinguish the fires with her great humor.
    Mia, word of advice from someone who was your age and whent through some similar experiences: you KNOW you have pretty privilege, and you acting like you don't know or that you were completely innocent, come on.
    But shit, your young, so your at thr ripe age to start learning some hard karmic lessons. It happened to me and I'm glad it did. Enjoy the ride!
    And thank you Blair, for your sensitivity and your effort to humourously pointing out that Mia was being a bit self centered in this story time.
    Xoxo

  • @AdeolaAsh
    @AdeolaAsh Před 8 měsíci

    I’m sorry you were subjected to this Mia

  • @JulietteLatte
    @JulietteLatte Před 4 dny

    My high school bf saying he’d jump off a building if I broke up with him after I CAUGHT him cheating on me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m an idiot so I stayed like 2 more months but dam

  • @fleurdelucille
    @fleurdelucille Před 9 měsíci

    Guy friends are rare. It's true

  • @chelsea_Xxo
    @chelsea_Xxo Před 9 měsíci

    Girl i had a best friend woman when i was 11 y old & come to think about it, it must have been a pedo baiting me, realizing how much trust i put in that ‘girl’ and told her about all these awkward puberty things like shit, how could i be so stupid then but also wtf are those guys even doing

  • @darianalexi
    @darianalexi Před 9 měsíci +5

    Ok but where are the inserts of Blair’s scene days?!

    • @MiaDio
      @MiaDio Před 9 měsíci +2

      We tried looking for them but couldn’t find them 😢

  • @strawberrysyrup13
    @strawberrysyrup13 Před 7 měsíci

    I assumes this was Mias channel but is it Blairs too? It's only ever a picture of mia

  • @lilo9085
    @lilo9085 Před 9 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @stephw7206
    @stephw7206 Před 9 měsíci +54

    Can we get more Blair tho

    • @stuckinthenineties1
      @stuckinthenineties1 Před 9 měsíci +24

      They’re clearly taking it in turns each episode to tell a story

    • @Anxxhka
      @Anxxhka Před 9 měsíci +5

      Blair seems so sweet and Mia is just…

    • @alisonbender8575
      @alisonbender8575 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Blair needs to get back on her channel!!

  • @savannahjimenez3224
    @savannahjimenez3224 Před 9 měsíci

    In 8th grade the “love of my life” called me after taking a bunch of pills because he heard that I called another guy cute…

  • @MiaDio
    @MiaDio Před 9 měsíci +8

    First

  • @nataliepavlova14bg14
    @nataliepavlova14bg14 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The "you're the only reason why I do or haven't done something" thing has happened to me on two occasions. The first time I was in high school (the guy was in uni) and the second time - we were both 24...so...yeah...

  • @c.meister8723
    @c.meister8723 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Can we hear some stories from Blair next time...

    • @Maggie-ot8vx
      @Maggie-ot8vx Před 9 měsíci +3

      So far that is how they have the pod set up…they take turns sharing a story. Just skip every other episode if you wanna hear from Blair

  • @hellokitty4063
    @hellokitty4063 Před 8 měsíci

    Oh my god I would’ve just sued his employer and your employer for sexual harassment

  • @SERD52
    @SERD52 Před 8 měsíci

    Why do people use the word go instead of come? I'm gonna come see you,not go see you. I hear this all the time and I don’t get it.

  • @Miki-dx4zo
    @Miki-dx4zo Před 9 měsíci

    happened to me when i was i 8th grade and he was a sophomore too

  • @volleyballxloverx
    @volleyballxloverx Před 8 měsíci

    I have sooooo many guy friends and most wouldn’t try anything out of respect to my husband (most of these guy friends are his to begin with 😂). But there are those few that I know would take the chance if I gave it to them. Luckily, I have no interest in them.

  • @hinatababe97
    @hinatababe97 Před 8 měsíci

    Lmaoo Idk I think it's still nice but I understand feeling weird about another girl's presence because you never know ppl and the things those acts bring so you being realistic and cut throat is good plus men are dumb and dont try to fix things at home to the level and extent women do and are just emotional/excited rather than delivering on those nice words they give. Whether he had pretty privilege or not lmao. Mia you don't have to change your heart/empathy bc of this world! Just use discernment and guard your heart (literally and figuratively ) Oh, let this all be a lesson too : Don't save people! lmao So I see why you mentioned the empathy thing, but again, discernment. I def agree the head injury unlocked a different side of him. It's fascinating and chilling hearing this story and knowing about that.

  • @taybrads4295
    @taybrads4295 Před 9 měsíci +3

    😊I’m hoping as we get more episodes we get a chance to hear Blair talk more.

  • @lisn7175
    @lisn7175 Před 9 měsíci

    you were 13/14? that's crazyy.

  • @Superbooomer
    @Superbooomer Před 8 měsíci

    All these episodes are prerecorded just FYI

  • @auntiamber2
    @auntiamber2 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I had 2 dudes in my early 20s do that suicidal shit. The 1st dude had 2 other gf… tf i thank god everyday i didnt loose my v card to him

  • @trinavargas9830
    @trinavargas9830 Před 8 měsíci

    Is me or she got a 5head

  • @alyseazaragoza
    @alyseazaragoza Před 9 měsíci

    Me waiting for the “tomboy” pictures…..and Mia looks nothing like one 🤣

  • @reighnhkgdvk8881
    @reighnhkgdvk8881 Před 9 měsíci +1

    (1/2) im also one of the girls who has been endlessly fd over and just completely done with females so i had majority guy friends. people stg you are never just friends. if i go into our relationship as friends, itll never change i promise you. if i like you, everyone knows - etc. the amount of times ive broken my own heart by trying to be friends w guys, being friends for weeks/months/YEARS AND YEARS just for them to tell me they have and or have always had feelings for me.. like hurts worse than a breakup bc shits weird and will never ever ever be the same.
    (2/2) if i had even half a penny for every time ive told someone - ESPECISLLY A BOY/“MAN” ‘no’ in any way, shape, or form- and them telling everyone they can we did some crazy shit like as told in the video.. id be SOO GD MF RICH. whats WORSE is when people you like/date etc. BELIEVE IT and fk you over behind your back bc of it and swear for the rest of their life its true so they feel justified lmao im mid twenties and my mind is still blown by the sheer amount of people/times this has happened to me. always keep receipts and get an EXCELLENT judge of character. its always the ones you swear to god would never.

    • @lisn7175
      @lisn7175 Před 9 měsíci +1

      its seriously the truth, you can't be nice to guys anymore even if they know you don't want them, they will still be in they're feelings.

    • @reighnhkgdvk8881
      @reighnhkgdvk8881 Před 9 měsíci

      @@lisn7175 deadass NO WAY AROUND IT. IM TIRED OF CRYING lmao the amount of heartbreak. i sound so dramatic but a good few, they were chosen family to me.

    • @lisn7175
      @lisn7175 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@reighnhkgdvk8881 it’s disappointing and they always make you out to be the bad guy smh

    • @reighnhkgdvk8881
      @reighnhkgdvk8881 Před 8 měsíci

      @@lisn7175 and if they date any girls in the future (no matter how far in the future) they all know ab me and a good handful have harassed me lmao even if the guy and i arent friends anymore. im talkin blocked & making 10 other accounts to stalk me. god forbid if we are still friends. you cannot be societies version of “pretty” and be friends with guys anymore.

  • @lucy-qg2yr
    @lucy-qg2yr Před 9 měsíci

    So much fun as always 🫶🏻

  • @flymetothemoon9541
    @flymetothemoon9541 Před 9 měsíci +4

    You guys are meant for this podcast stuff🫶🫶
    I’ve also had similar experiences