@@hulkie76 😂 a problem ! JayZ dude you seem a lil touchy and I wouldn't wanna antagonise you cos wouldn't like you when you're angry. The point of the song is about the subject matter and not anyone specific
@@damienjoseph7540 weirdo he thought suzanne vega was singing about herself and I corrected him, if it has your panties in a bunch oh well. GET OVER IT!! And i'm done, i am not about to go back and forth with you.
She wrote this song about a little boy named Luka who was getting abused. She wanted to make the public more sensitive to that issue to motivate a change
@@breakdancinfool in another interview she said the name was in a magazine and the same name of her neighbor. Plus luka wasn't actually abused,she made it up based on him usually being alone.
She did know a Luka but she actually never said that this kid was abused. She did say that she saw a kid in the playground once who stayed away from other kids. There are many Lukas out there.
Prince wrote Suzanne a letter thanking her for the song of abuse. When she presented the song at an award show, Prince was up on his feet applauding her for her song. I think it was a little too close to home. She still has his letter.
@@joshuayeager3686 Yes, you are correct. When you realise he was so poor, hungry at times, playing any instrument he could find and rose to the heights he did, alone it staggers the mind. He eventually was very wealthy but didn’t really waste his money as you might think a person would. He helped friends and family financially. He gave to many charities even from his first cheque when he helped a black school buy instruments. He believed God gave him his talent to help others less fortunate. He also put his Purple Rain money into PP so he didn’t have to go anywhere to record but stay at home. Also a business to have artists use and pay for. That put Minneapolis on the map as we say. He was the largest Urban owner of land and had $1,000,000 worth of gold bars stored away. Best known investment is bricks and mortar ( land) and next is gold bullion. You know I could ramble on about the genius of this man for a long time. Sorely missed.
This song touches my sole every time I here it my mother was murdered when I was 8 years old and I lived with abusive family members .had a deadbeat dad I would see on rare occasions .now that I'm an old man -65 - I just take care of my loved ones .I broke chains with my children never lay a hand on them in anger . they turned out wonderful .
Sorry for your loss and what you went through Ray, that’s horrific. I’d an abusive father, and am glad to say I’ve also broken the cycle with my own kids, and definitely didn’t marry someone like my father.
I actually cried after I first heard this song. From working many years with abused kids this song was extremely poignant. And sadly, the abuser is usually a close family member or friend. Excellent track with a timeless and tragic message. Hugs to all the “Lukas” out there
Hello., First I would like to say thank you for all the children you helped. I was a Luka as my older brother (2 years older than me) and my mum. We were beaten by the man I don't want to call father anymore. He didn't need any reasson to beat us or to torture our mind by saying : I'll kill you etc... when I was 8 he emptied a jerrican of gasoil on my mother and then shilling he took à box of matches. I ran in the arms of my mother because I prefered to die livre with this monster. My older brother called à neighboor who arrived just on time. The day after this event my "father" acted like nothing happened and waited for his breakfast. And believe me that mwasn't the worst he was capable of. He had no remorse. He tried to push me by the Windows of my room on the third floor, he shavrd my hair to humiliated me, he push me down the stars to the bassement and made me sleep in a wardrobe etc... My mother is dead since 2012. She was so stressed that she always had ulcères in the stomac it end up becoming à cancer. I am 47 and I still cry and have nightmares. My husband helped me a lot. I am going to stop here because I don't want to bother you with the story of my life but once again for the children you helped.
This song is about child abuse. Being a survivor of abuse I was actually happy when I heard this song for the first time way back when.. Another song about child abuse is by Pat Benatar called "Hell is for Children" Thank you for reacting to this song!✌💗🎶
Martina McBride, _Concrete Angel_ Aerosmith, _Janie's Got a Gun_ The Offspring, _Christy Are You Doin' Ok?_ Big & Rich, _Holy Water_ John Michael Montgomery, _The Little Girl_
hello from another survivor. I am 47 now but I still cry when listen to this song. when I was a child and , its hard to say it, but the beating and others I thought that it was like this in every families. When I discovered this song I realized that no it wasn't normal. I am going to stop here because its still hard to talk about it. My father was a monster.
@@myriammachiche1030 I'm around the same age and I understand 100%. When this song first came out I was like numb to it by then but it made me cry because I wish someone would've helped me. I just listened to it again in Jay's reaction and automatic tears! It's hard to hear it. It still hurts. I know. Fortunately it hasn't carried over into my adult life (the abuse that is.) But have a lot of anxiety/panic disorder due to the abuse from my step father. He's passed now but that didn't make me feel any better. Has it affected you in your adult life? Thanks for reaching out. We're not alone. You're not alone in this. Jovaughn needs to play an upbeat dance song...now! Brittany Spears was alright but I'm not a huge fan of hers but don't dislike her either. Again..thank u for your reply..I truly appreciate your candor. Maybe we could email one day. Have a good night and see you around here again soon! ✌💗🎶😁
@@jackiesueann3476 And I was happy to listen to your story. Sometimes we need to share our pain and its ok. It wasn't an esay thing to do but now you know that your are not alone. Merci d avoir osé parlé de ton histoire ( thank you for having the courage to talk about your story). I wish you the best. Hi from Belgium.
"On a 1987 Swedish television special, Vega said: "A few years ago, I used to see this group of children playing in front of my building, and there was one of them, whose name was Luka, who seemed a little bit distinctive from the other children. I always remembered his name, and I always remembered his face, and I didn't know much about him, but he just seemed set apart from these other children that I would see playing. And his character is what I based the song 'Luka' on. In the song, the boy Luka is an abused child - In real life I don't think he was. I think he was just different."
Suzanne Vega, years ahead of the curve. Critically acclaimed, deserves a much larger audience. Blood Makes Noise, the song and video will shake you up.
I can’t count how many times I’ve heard this song since it first came out. It was played so much. Overplayed? Some people criticized it. Some joked about it. Many people loved it. Maybe I just didn’t get it then. Hearing it now, it’s the first time I’ve cried.
Me too, seriously have heard even sang this song but today watching him react and seeing the video is different. Crying for myself and other's who have gone through/still are going through this kinda stuff. Heartbreaking yet necessary 💔❤🕊🙏🏻💔
Let me tell you why I like these reaction channels. I’ve heard this song since it came out. 100s of times if not way more and I never paid any attention to what she actually sang about. I’m a musician and the majority of the time I’m listening for the drums, guitar, bass etc and how it’s arranged. I know the hook by heart but nothing else really. You guys talk about the songs themselves. The lyrics. The meaning in the song. I’ve learned more about the songs I grew up with from you guys than I have on my own. It’s crazy but it’s true. Thank you for your reactions and your insights that have opened my mind on many songs before.
what's really astounding is how these people can make out lyrics and make a jab at interpretation first time. like you i have favorite songs that i maybe know most of lyrics , ctainly all the bass, riffs, percussion. i harmonize but maybe never duh put the story together. oh, i get it. aha
Every time I heard this song I would cry. So when it came on I would turn it off. A few times I was too far away from the radio to turn it off so I listen to it, and all I could do was cry. I was abused as a child as were many of my friends, just for being children. I tried to be philosophical about such past things now, yet when I heard this today all I could do was cry.
I'm a Carolyn too, but was also abused . I'm in my 60's now and the scars are still there. I used to cry when I heard the song, but it gave words to the pain that I couldn't say. Sending hugs and healing your way.
I have a child who is suffering from trauma and I don't know how to help her through it. Thank you for your honesty because it's beyond cruel people harming children in anyway. I did everything to protect my child, but her father didn't so she was exposed to dreadful situations when he was supposed to be caring for her and I can not change what happened to my Baby Girl. Years of counselling hasn't worked but I keep trying and letting her know that I love and adore her unconditionally. She is learning that she was too young to prevent the abuse, but her suffering is becoming life threatening and I cry all the time when she can't see me. You take care of yourself and understand you were not to blame for anything. Take care of yourself please, Mate
@@goaway2803 Thank you so much for your Wonderful supportive response. Many of my friends still have major anger problems, I was very fortunate and able to work out blame issues. But it still hurts to know that there are people suffering out there through no fault of their own, because of their abuse. The universe is worse off because of this unaccepted violation of children and adults. We don't know what we could have contributed during the times that we had to suffer our abuse. We can only do what we can to help ourselves and others around us who might have been touched in one way or another by abuse. Good luck to you too. I am certain that all of the positive things you are doing will make a difference in your lives. You are setting an excellent example with your character, one that reaches out to a stranger with caring words and comfort. I appreciate it very much. 💕 You take care.
@@carolyncappitelli1460 Thank you so much Carolyn. I appreciate your kind words and sharing your story with me. Abuse is wholly unacceptable and has more to do with the abuser than those abused. I have promised my Doctor friends and family that I will never ever again be a victim of any kind. But I still have my moments especially hearing this song out of the blue that used to really affect me, and make me consider the pain that others are going through as well. I find that thinking about the bewildering reasons people, children and adults suffer at the hands of their abusers and it takes me just a little while to come to terms with my determination never to be abused again. I find I don't suffer fools willingly, and that has afforded me a better choice of friends. Sending hugs and healing back to you. ✨🙋
Sadly as a foster parent I have known too many Luca’s and little girls lives from birth to the moment I received them had been hell. I only took two children at a time if they were siblings I would take them all and the time I had with them it was only two years each I did my very best to see that their lives was filled with love, support and healing.
I remember this being huge at the time and I loved it then, still loving it now. Not having heard this for about 30 years I can still remember the words. Peace and love to all those who have been abused.😀👍🎶❤️
A little piece of trivia- her song Tom's Diner was the song used to create the .mp3 format. She's an amazing songwriter. Another amazing song on this subject is What's The Matter Here by the group 10,000 Maniacs.
To add something: her voice and the recording of Tom's Diner were so clear, that they used it to check if the data compression would distort the music (or add noise). As it would be clearly audible in that piece of music.
Heartbreaking song. Another one by another awesome female vocalist is the 10,000 Maniacs "What's the Matter Here". Natalie Merchant is the lead singer and has a wonderful voice and is a superb story teller, like Suzanne. Thanks Peace from SF
I have been trying to get someone to react to this for over a year now. edit after watching video This song was really popular when it came out, and if I remember right it did have quite a big impact.
@@elysehfm8797 i was too young to understand the song at the time, but old enough to remember it. I just remember how all the older kids in school, and older cousins reacted to it.
Growing up in the 80's it was a refreshing reality to hear a song with such depth and seriousness like Luka become popular. The song is still amazing today. As are other songs in a similar vain, like Tracy Chapman's "Fast Car", Martika's "Toy Soldiers" and "What's the Matter Here" by 10,000 Maniacs
Suzanne is one of my favorite artists and one of the best folk artists ever! Check out her song tom's diner,caramel,Marlene on the wall,small blue thing,solitude standing and more!
First time I heard this powerful song it brought tears to my eye 😓. No child should ever have to go thru abuse by anyone...parent, friend, relative....no one 😟
The sad thing is, people always worry about stranger danger, but that is relatively rare. Kids are, and have always been most at risk from a parent or relative. 😔
In my day we were taught Stranger Danger, but my daughter wasn't taught that for that exact reason. It's mostly from someone we know and age or gender makes no difference. At least the education system changed the approach to child safety. Heartbreaking to though that this is the reality. You take care of yourself please, Mate
There really is no need to put one kind of abuse against the other and rank them - and I'm pretty sure any child that's abused does not care one iota whether it was a "more unlikely" kind of violence. If a kid grows up in a household where they don't have to be afraid of the people living with them, it's perfectly okay to still warn them about "stranger danger", since for them, that's where danger might come from.
@@fryke i think that's exactly what @sukie584 was saying in this comment. i read the comment as saying "the sad thing is" that US society as a whole ranks one kind of abuse (stranger danger) as "more important" to teach about. stranger danger is one that's "so important" kids are taught in schools about it. yet a more common type of abuse is ignored in those same teachings in the same schools. i thought the original comment was pointing out that the more common type of abuse isn't one that kids are typically taught is not ok & that they should report it. (i don't read anything in that original comment about "one kind of abuse" being "ranked" as more harmful than another... i agree, given the number of hours kids spend in school & the number of minutes spent teaching kids about what kinds of touch (sexual or other types of assault) are not ok - it's a shame that educational systems do *not* spend those minutes talking about the types of abuse that statistically their students are most likely to encounter. yeah, it's good that they teach anything at all about this. but it's sad that the time can't be spent making a difference in *more* students' lives.
@@karikells "people always worry about stranger danger, but that is relatively rare." (I clearly see a ranking here, as in "it's rare, don't worry so much about it...".) - "Kids are, and have always been most at risk from a parent or relative." - Here, too, is clearly an intended ranking, which I mentioned is unnecessary.
Such an emotional song! Always brings me to tears. As others have mentioned, you should check out her songs “Tom’s Diner” and “Left of Center.” My very favorite Suzanne Vega performance, however, is her duet with Pat DiNizio called “In a Lonely Place” by The Smithereens. The Smithereens were known for their hard-driving alt-rock, but “In a Lonely Place” has this mesmerizing bossa nova vibe. The Smithereens have a killer catalog of very catchy music. I hope you’ll give them a listen soon, as well!
It was interesting to watch your reaction as you came understand what this song was about, and then your first pause as you tried to process it for a comment. It took me back 35 years. Thank you for your fresh take. I have been a big fan of Suzanne Vega since her first album, I used to love to go see her perform at New York venues such as The Bottom Line. I'm surprised you haven't checked out Rickie Lee Jones yet. You'd have to start with her first hit, Chuck E's in Love.
Suzanne Vega is a great storyteller and she will always take you on a journey with her songs which is really amazing. This song breaks your heart but it brings light to the things we ignore
Fantastic song. I remember hearing it for the first time as a kid and I couldn't relate to the lyrics but loved the song. Now as an adult and having been through domestic abuse...I totaly relate! You live your life being hypervigilant never knowing when the next attack might be. I eventually had the strength to get out of that situation, and I thank God everyday. If your still in that place, please know...it can, and does get better!
I hadn't read your comment but it's why this song upset me more as an adult too and my child suffered abuse years later and I still don't know how to recover from our personal traumas. You are right in saying getting away from evil people is the only way to start to heal. I'm glad you managed to get out of your situation too and take care of yourself please, Mate
@@goaway2803 Oh bless you. I guess it's like any injury. First you remove yourself from the source of pain. Then you get some help getting the wound to heal. It doesn't matter if your injury is physical or emotional, the same applies. I had ptsd from my experience and saw a therapist for several years. It helped me to understand that I was not responsible for their reactions and behaviours. I was not the problem, the problem was very much theirs! That was about 20 years ago and now I couldn't care less if I saw him on the street because he I just feel indifferent to him. Wishing you the absoloute best, with love and peace in your heart!
@Luna Raven so kool ya got to see her live.... bet that was a great gig... always loved her voice... as you may have worked out I do like a good Vocalist... 🙏
Suzanne Vega is such a great singer, songwriter & storyteller. I’ve seen her in concert a few times, always at small venues. She’s very personable & it feels like she singing to a group of friends. She has great rapport with the audience & tells personal stories in between songs. I love Luca, but my favorite song of hers is Left of Center. 💕💕
This Song Really Hit Me When It Came Out & I Was So Glad She Brought Light To The Subject..I Could Totally Relate To It Because,, I Was Luka,, Only Much Worse,, Which Is Why I Ended Up Raising Myself Since I Was 9 Years Old..No Child Should Have To Make Such An Adult Decision As I Did At 9,, To Stay & Very Likely End Up Dead,, Or Leave & Take My Chances On The Street..I Chose The Street...I Am Glad To Say That I Never Regretted My Decision & 51 Years Later,, I Can Also Say That I Am Very Proud Of The Man I Raised Myself To Be.
I always liked and could relate to this song. Your comments were very insightful and on point. Especially the part about being afraid to go home, and walking on eggshells all the time
Luka in Indonesian language means wound. I speak Indonesian and from Indonesia. Around early 90s or late 80s when this song came out, it receive so much play in the radio.
I always loved this song, but it was more heartbreaking after being in a violent marriage. I'm glad you appreciated the message and remember how old this song is too. Take care of yourself please, Mate
It's a beautiful brave song. I praise her for her standing up to her abuser! Bring me to years. I'm so proud of her heroism. How many just might find a way to protect themselves. After hearing this song. Never be afraid to ask someone if it appears they could be under abuse. All they need is one good warrior of an angel, save the innocent. God Bless Luca! 🙏🙇♀️✊💞😇🛐
i have never heard this before so thanks for playing it even though it made me cry, i was a luka once upon a time but i had my happy ever after with my husband 41 years together xx
Oh I sure remember clearly when this important song came out. My ex was so drawn to it but neither of us explored why. After the relationship ended I learned that he dealt with childhood abuse issues which clearly informed the person he became and, consequently, impacted our highly dysfunctional partnership. Thanks for choosing this to react to. ✌
She says on interviews that she was singing about a boy that lived near her in Harlem when she was growing up, Prince wrote her a letter to thank her for addressing the issue of child abuse, one of my favourite ever songs btw
Always happy to see reactions to female artists. You should check out some Jane Wiedlin, Tanya Donelley, Juliana Hatfield, Aimee Mann, Neko Case, etc...
The first time I saw Suzanne Vega in concert, this was a brand new song that she said she'd written on the flight over. She said that Luka was the name of a boy who lived above her when she was growing up, but that she didn't think he was actually a victim, she just used his name... She's incredible live, she can fill the whole venue whether she's being backed, playing alone, or singing a capella - Tom's diner was new that first time I saw her too. You should listen to more songs by her, try the Queen and the soldier, left of center, Marlene on the wall, Blood makes noise, or Tom's diner (either her orginal or the dance version).
I have Suzanne's album Solitude Standing which includes this excellent and moving song. That's Shawn Colvin on background vocals. Another song about the same difficult subject is "What's the Matter Here?" by 10,000 Maniacs.
This is actually one 80’s song I don’t remember much of but man it has that times vibe so I’m digging it. I heard Annie Lennox’s “No more I Love You’s” on a store radio today and def check that one out too.
To me, this is one of the best songs to describe child abuse. It comes from an album called "Solitude Standing". The title cut is also good as well as another cut entitled "Tom's Diner."
I bought Solitude Standing on cassette when I was in college and it had so many great songs! Listen to Solitude Standing, The Queen and the Soldier, Men In A War, Knight Moves, Marlene on the Wall, etc.
Super talented songwriter. Although she's American Suzanne enjoyed greater chart success in the UK, and some of her UK singles that never charted in the States are well worth playing like "Marlene on the Wall", "Small Blue Thing", "Left of Center" and "In Liverpool".
She said in 1987: A few years ago, I used to see this group of children playing in front of my building, and there was one of them, whose name was Luka, who seemed a little bit distinctive from the other children. I always remembered his name, and I always remembered his face, and I didn't know much about him, but he just seemed set apart from these other children that I would see playing. And his character is what I based the song Luka on. In the song, the boy Luka is an abused child-in real life I don't think he was. I think he was just different.
I'm amazed that you are only now getting around to the "mother of the mp.3". Suzanne's songs are very deep. She has been called "the female Dylan". Personally, I would say that she has more in common with Donovan. Try Marlene on the Wall, Tom's Diner, Solitude Standing, Penitent, In Liverpool, The Queen and the Soldier, Gypsy, World Before Columbus, Blood Makes Noise, Rosemary, 99.9F, Caramel, Left of Center and (I'll Never Be) Your Maggie May. There are many more. I have Suzanne's music set up as a playlist and I try to see her whenever she's in England. She is an excellent live performer.
I was like Luka growing up, and I was fairly young when this song was released, and it meant so much to me when I was going through the same stuff as Luka as a child.....💔
The song is not about Suzanne's abuse; it is about the little boy's abuse. She is singing from his perspective..
Doesn't matter who's, it's about abuse
@@damienjoseph7540 You have a problem with me correcting him?
@@hulkie76 😂 a problem ! JayZ dude you seem a lil touchy and I wouldn't wanna antagonise you cos wouldn't like you when you're angry. The point of the song is about the subject matter and not anyone specific
@@damienjoseph7540 weirdo he thought suzanne vega was singing about herself and I corrected him, if it has your panties in a bunch oh well. GET OVER IT!! And i'm done, i am not about to go back and forth with you.
@@hulkie76 you had no point to come back in the first place ✊
Back in the day, I was Luka. I felt just a little bit better when this song came out and gave my pain a voice.
I'm sorry. I'm sorry you were hurt.
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Carolyn, I’m so sorry you had to live that way! 🤗 hugs!
Same
U and me both 💙
She wrote this song about a little boy named Luka who was getting abused. She wanted to make the public more sensitive to that issue to motivate a change
She has said in interviewa that the name "Luka" was made up, to protect the real boys name
@@breakdancinfool in another interview she said the name was in a magazine and the same name of her neighbor. Plus luka wasn't actually abused,she made it up based on him usually being alone.
She did know a Luka but she actually never said that this kid was abused. She did say that she saw a kid in the playground once who stayed away from other kids. There are many Lukas out there.
This song was back in 1987
I always assumed Luka was a girl.
Huh....
Prince wrote Suzanne a letter thanking her for the song of abuse. When she presented the song at an award show, Prince was up on his feet applauding her for her song. I think it was a little too close to home. She still has his letter.
That's beautiful. And of course it was Prince, he of the huge heart 💜
Thanks for sharing.
If you’re familiar with his song “Sister” from his first album, it’s very understandable
@@joshuayeager3686 Yes, you are correct. When you realise he was so poor, hungry at times, playing any instrument he could find and rose to the heights he did, alone it staggers the mind. He eventually was very wealthy but didn’t really waste his money as you might think a person would. He helped friends and family financially. He gave to many charities even from his first cheque when he helped a black school buy instruments. He believed God gave him his talent to help others less fortunate. He also put his Purple Rain money into PP so he didn’t have to go anywhere to record but stay at home. Also a business to have artists use and pay for. That put Minneapolis on the map as we say. He was the largest Urban owner of land and had $1,000,000 worth of gold bars stored away. Best known investment is bricks and mortar ( land) and next is gold bullion. You know I could ramble on about the genius of this man for a long time. Sorely missed.
I’ve been a Prince fan since the 80’s, and I just recently realized how supportive Prince was of women.
That's amazing. If you've never heard his song "Papa" from the Come album, you owe it yourself to listen to it.
That dawning, slightly horrified comprehension on JV's face when he realized what the song's about.
Yep. I saw that. 😔
He's a human being. He is so refreshing.
Absolutley penny dropped
Absolutely.
stuff like this does happen, sadly.
This song touches my sole every time I here it my mother was murdered when I was 8 years old and I lived with abusive family members .had a deadbeat dad I would see on rare occasions .now that I'm an old man -65 - I just take care of my loved ones .I broke chains with my children never lay a hand on them in anger . they turned out wonderful .
Sorry for your loss and what you went through Ray, that’s horrific. I’d an abusive father, and am glad to say I’ve also broken the cycle with my own kids, and definitely didn’t marry someone like my father.
@@kazbaz2011 thank you Kazzy
Good for you. Some families cannot break the cycle and it gets handed down from one generation to another.
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Oh Ray, Im so sorry that was your experience, sending you lots of love
She’s not Luka. The little boy is Luka. She’s singing from his point of view, perspective.
I actually cried after I first heard this song. From working many years with abused kids this song was extremely poignant. And sadly, the abuser is usually a close family member or friend. Excellent track with a timeless and tragic message. Hugs to all the “Lukas” out there
Hello.,
First I would like to say thank you for all the children you helped. I was a Luka as my older brother (2 years older than me) and my mum. We were beaten by the man I don't want to call father anymore. He didn't need any reasson to beat us or to torture our mind by saying : I'll kill you etc... when I was 8 he emptied a jerrican of gasoil on my mother and then shilling he took à box of matches. I ran in the arms of my mother because I prefered to die livre with this monster. My older brother called à neighboor who arrived just on time. The day after this event my "father" acted like nothing happened and waited for his breakfast. And believe me that mwasn't the worst he was capable of. He had no remorse.
He tried to push me by the Windows of my room on the third floor, he shavrd my hair to humiliated me, he push me down the stars to the bassement and made me sleep in a wardrobe etc...
My mother is dead since 2012. She was so stressed that she always had ulcères in the stomac it end up becoming à cancer.
I am 47 and I still cry and have nightmares. My husband helped me a lot. I am going to stop here because I don't want to bother you with the story of my life but once again for the children you helped.
Abusers hate themselves, so they have to find someone or something to kick down on. It's so awful. Hard to think about.
This song helped me through an abusive childhood. It made me realize I wasnt the only one...
This song is about child abuse. Being a survivor of abuse I was actually happy when I heard this song for the first time way back when..
Another song about child abuse is by Pat Benatar called "Hell is for Children"
Thank you for reacting to this song!✌💗🎶
Martina McBride, _Concrete Angel_
Aerosmith, _Janie's Got a Gun_
The Offspring, _Christy Are You Doin' Ok?_
Big & Rich, _Holy Water_
John Michael Montgomery, _The Little Girl_
hello from another survivor. I am 47 now but I still cry when listen to this song. when I was a child and , its hard to say it, but the beating and others I thought that it was like this in every families. When I discovered this song I realized that no it wasn't normal. I am going to stop here because its still hard to talk about it. My father was a monster.
@@myriammachiche1030 I'm around the same age and I understand 100%. When this song first came out I was like numb to it by then but it made me cry because I wish someone would've helped me. I just listened to it again in Jay's reaction and automatic tears!
It's hard to hear it. It still hurts. I know. Fortunately it hasn't carried over into my adult life (the abuse that is.) But have a lot of anxiety/panic disorder due to the abuse from my step father. He's passed now but that didn't make me feel any better. Has it affected you in your adult life?
Thanks for reaching out. We're not alone. You're not alone in this. Jovaughn needs to play an upbeat dance song...now! Brittany Spears was alright but I'm not a huge fan of hers but don't dislike her either.
Again..thank u for your reply..I truly appreciate your candor.
Maybe we could email one day. Have a good night and see you around here again soon! ✌💗🎶😁
Dang...I just realized I wrote a short story. Sorry!✌
@@jackiesueann3476 And I was happy to listen to your story. Sometimes we need to share our pain and its ok. It wasn't an esay thing to do but now you know that your are not alone. Merci d avoir osé parlé de ton histoire ( thank you for having the courage to talk about your story). I wish you the best. Hi from Belgium.
She wrote this from the perspective from a young boy she knew who was constantly abused by his parents. Beautiful, heartbreaking song.
No he wasn't abused,she saw a kid and he was usually by himself so she made up a story about it
"On a 1987 Swedish television special, Vega said: "A few years ago, I used to see this group of children playing in front of my building, and there was one of them, whose name was Luka, who seemed a little bit distinctive from the other children. I always remembered his name, and I always remembered his face, and I didn't know much about him, but he just seemed set apart from these other children that I would see playing. And his character is what I based the song 'Luka' on. In the song, the boy Luka is an abused child - In real life I don't think he was. I think he was just different."
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After a while, being called names accused of bad behavior and beaten into submission, the child believes he doesn't deserve to live.
@@inkoinfinity2 Thanks for sharing the link.
Suzanne Vega, years ahead of the curve. Critically acclaimed, deserves a much larger audience. Blood Makes Noise, the song and video will shake you up.
This song was on mainstream radio all over the world for years. Don't worry about SV. She got hers.
Blood Makes Noise is a fantastic song, which doesn't get played as much as it should. Check it out Jayvee
99.9F° a great album :)
She has a new album out.
Absolutely!
I can’t count how many times I’ve heard this song since it first came out. It was played so much. Overplayed? Some people criticized it. Some joked about it. Many people loved it. Maybe I just didn’t get it then. Hearing it now, it’s the first time I’ve cried.
Subject matter aside, from a purely musical standpoint it rocked and still rocks.
Me too, seriously have heard even sang this song but today watching him react and seeing the video is different. Crying for myself and other's who have gone through/still are going through this kinda stuff. Heartbreaking yet necessary 💔❤🕊🙏🏻💔
Let me tell you why I like these reaction channels. I’ve heard this song since it came out. 100s of times if not way more and I never paid any attention to what she actually sang about.
I’m a musician and the majority of the time I’m listening for the drums, guitar, bass etc and how it’s arranged. I know the hook by heart but nothing else really.
You guys talk about the songs themselves. The lyrics. The meaning in the song.
I’ve learned more about the songs I grew up with from you guys than I have on my own.
It’s crazy but it’s true.
Thank you for your reactions and your insights that have opened my mind on many songs before.
what's really astounding is how these people can make out lyrics and make a jab at interpretation first time. like you i have favorite songs that i maybe know most of lyrics , ctainly all the bass, riffs, percussion. i harmonize but maybe never duh put the story together. oh, i get it. aha
Every time I heard this song I would cry. So when it came on I would turn it off. A few times I was too far away from the radio to turn it off so I listen to it, and all I could do was cry. I was abused as a child as were many of my friends, just for being children. I tried to be philosophical about such past things now, yet when I heard this today all I could do was cry.
I'm a Carolyn too, but was also abused . I'm in my 60's now and the scars are still there. I used to cry when I heard the song, but it gave words to the pain that I couldn't say. Sending hugs and healing your way.
I have a child who is suffering from trauma and I don't know how to help her through it. Thank you for your honesty because it's beyond cruel people harming children in anyway. I did everything to protect my child, but her father didn't so she was exposed to dreadful situations when he was supposed to be caring for her and I can not change what happened to my Baby Girl. Years of counselling hasn't worked but I keep trying and letting her know that I love and adore her unconditionally. She is learning that she was too young to prevent the abuse, but her suffering is becoming life threatening and I cry all the time when she can't see me. You take care of yourself and understand you were not to blame for anything. Take care of yourself please, Mate
@@goaway2803 Thank you so much for your
Wonderful supportive response. Many of my friends still have major anger problems, I was very fortunate and able to work out blame issues. But it still hurts to know that there are people suffering out there through no fault of their own, because of their abuse. The universe is worse off because of this unaccepted violation of children and adults. We don't know what we could have contributed during the times that we had to suffer our abuse. We can only do what we can to help ourselves and others around us who might have been touched in one way or another by abuse. Good luck to you too. I am certain that all of the positive things you are doing will make a difference in your lives. You are setting an excellent example with your character, one that reaches out to a stranger with caring words and comfort.
I appreciate it very much. 💕
You take care.
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Thank you so much Carolyn. I appreciate your kind words and sharing your story with me. Abuse is wholly unacceptable and has more to do with the abuser than those abused. I have promised my Doctor friends and family that I will never ever again be a victim of any kind. But I still have my moments especially hearing this song out of the blue that used to really affect me, and make me consider the pain that others are going through as well. I find that thinking about the bewildering reasons people, children and adults suffer at the hands of their abusers and it takes me just a little while to come to terms with my determination never to be abused again. I find I don't suffer fools willingly, and that has afforded me a better choice of friends. Sending hugs and healing back to you. ✨🙋
Sometimes music covers the unpleasant situations of the human condition. This is one of those songs.
Sadly as a foster parent I have known too many Luca’s and little girls lives from birth to the moment I received them had been hell. I only took two children at a time if they were siblings I would take them all and the time I had with them it was only two years each I did my very best to see that their lives was filled with love, support and healing.
I remember this being huge at the time and I loved it then, still loving it now. Not having heard this for about 30 years I can still remember the words.
Peace and love to all those who have been abused.😀👍🎶❤️
Thanks for the kind words Paul Sheedy.
A little piece of trivia- her song Tom's Diner was the song used to create the .mp3 format. She's an amazing songwriter. Another amazing song on this subject is What's The Matter Here by the group 10,000 Maniacs.
Yes, What's The Matter Here is another brilliant song
To add something: her voice and the recording of Tom's Diner were so clear, that they used it to check if the data compression would distort the music (or add noise). As it would be clearly audible in that piece of music.
Heartbreaking song. Another one by another awesome female vocalist is the 10,000 Maniacs "What's the Matter Here". Natalie Merchant is the lead singer and has a wonderful voice and is a superb story teller, like Suzanne. Thanks
Peace from SF
Indeed! If he starts reviewing 10,000 Maniacs that would be amazing!
I have been trying to get someone to react to this for over a year now.
edit after watching video
This song was really popular when it came out, and if I remember right it did have quite a big impact.
its because you live on the second floor
@@cyberash3000 What?
@@cyberash3000 WHAT?
@@robertcherman she lives upstairs from you.
@@elysehfm8797 i was too young to understand the song at the time, but old enough to remember it. I just remember how all the older kids in school, and older cousins reacted to it.
Growing up in the 80's it was a refreshing reality to hear a song with such depth and seriousness like Luka become popular. The song is still amazing today. As are other songs in a similar vain, like Tracy Chapman's "Fast Car", Martika's "Toy Soldiers" and "What's the Matter Here" by 10,000 Maniacs
Oh I love this song so much Luka is an amazing song and Suzanne Vega is an amazing musician it really is an emotional song absolute perfection
Suzanne is one of my favorite artists and one of the best folk artists ever! Check out her song tom's diner,caramel,Marlene on the wall,small blue thing,solitude standing and more!
Yes Suzanne with the angelic voice. Prince sent her a letter of appreciation regarding the song. He thought so highly of it.
This song takes me back to the Lisa Steinberg case from the early 80's,it still makes me cry to think about it.
The same here Otaku. Such a sad story with Lisa, I still get upset.
As a NYer I'll never forget that case. Remember her mother's face too? Nussbaum I think.
OMG yes 😢
@@ursulabklyn_mia6148 yeah Hedda Nussbaum couldn't forget that name!
Horrific
First time I heard this powerful song it brought tears to my eye 😓. No child should ever have to go thru abuse by anyone...parent, friend, relative....no one 😟
Next by Suzanne Vega, "Tom's Diner" please, Jovaughn.
Oh wow, thank you for reminding of another classic. Forgot about it.
Tom's Diner was covered by Britney Spears
@@swankhood No thanks
Original acapella version! Amazing song.
Love Tom's Diner A very unique song. I can't think of anything else like it.
The reason why I keep following you J is because you have empathy and are "real." You send out positive messages to others. Keep it up!
The sad thing is, people always worry about stranger danger, but that is relatively rare. Kids are, and have always been most at risk from a parent or relative. 😔
In my day we were taught Stranger Danger, but my daughter wasn't taught that for that exact reason. It's mostly from someone we know and age or gender makes no difference. At least the education system changed the approach to child safety. Heartbreaking to though that this is the reality. You take care of yourself please, Mate
There really is no need to put one kind of abuse against the other and rank them - and I'm pretty sure any child that's abused does not care one iota whether it was a "more unlikely" kind of violence. If a kid grows up in a household where they don't have to be afraid of the people living with them, it's perfectly okay to still warn them about "stranger danger", since for them, that's where danger might come from.
@@fryke i think that's exactly what @sukie584 was saying in this comment. i read the comment as saying "the sad thing is" that US society as a whole ranks one kind of abuse (stranger danger) as "more important" to teach about. stranger danger is one that's "so important" kids are taught in schools about it. yet a more common type of abuse is ignored in those same teachings in the same schools. i thought the original comment was pointing out that the more common type of abuse isn't one that kids are typically taught is not ok & that they should report it. (i don't read anything in that original comment about "one kind of abuse" being "ranked" as more harmful than another... i agree, given the number of hours kids spend in school & the number of minutes spent teaching kids about what kinds of touch (sexual or other types of assault) are not ok - it's a shame that educational systems do *not* spend those minutes talking about the types of abuse that statistically their students are most likely to encounter. yeah, it's good that they teach anything at all about this. but it's sad that the time can't be spent making a difference in *more* students' lives.
@@karikells "people always worry about stranger danger, but that is relatively rare." (I clearly see a ranking here, as in "it's rare, don't worry so much about it...".) - "Kids are, and have always been most at risk from a parent or relative." - Here, too, is clearly an intended ranking, which I mentioned is unnecessary.
So true, so devastating
Such an emotional song! Always brings me to tears. As others have mentioned, you should check out her songs “Tom’s Diner” and “Left of Center.” My very favorite Suzanne Vega performance, however, is her duet with Pat DiNizio called “In a Lonely Place” by The Smithereens. The Smithereens were known for their hard-driving alt-rock, but “In a Lonely Place” has this mesmerizing bossa nova vibe. The Smithereens have a killer catalog of very catchy music. I hope you’ll give them a listen soon, as well!
Other great Vega songs to check out: Tom's Diner, 99.9 F, Blood Makes Noise, Left of Center
Blood Makes Noise!!! Awesome song!
The World before Colombus.
Tom's Diner is great
@@phylliskumi4355 Yeah and now I have that song stuck in my head!
Solitude Standing is a good. Love this Artist, her music brought me some fantastic memories in the late 80s..brilliant times....
It was interesting to watch your reaction as you came understand what this song was about, and then your first pause as you tried to process it for a comment. It took me back 35 years. Thank you for your fresh take. I have been a big fan of Suzanne Vega since her first album, I used to love to go see her perform at New York venues such as The Bottom Line.
I'm surprised you haven't checked out Rickie Lee Jones yet. You'd have to start with her first hit, Chuck E's in Love.
This song always randomly gets stuck in my head... very deep, good song.
Suzanne Vega is a great storyteller and she will always take you on a journey with her songs which is really amazing. This song breaks your heart but it brings light to the things we ignore
I love this song. It's so haunting. Another one I like by her is "Left Of Center" from the
"Pretty In Pink" soundtrack.
One of my favorite songs!
My fave Vega song.
I love that song.
Great song and you were very quick to understand it Jay. Your reaction was spot on.
Fantastic song. I remember hearing it for the first time as a kid and I couldn't relate to the lyrics but loved the song. Now as an adult and having been through domestic abuse...I totaly relate! You live your life being hypervigilant never knowing when the next attack might be.
I eventually had the strength to get out of that situation, and I thank God everyday.
If your still in that place, please know...it can, and does get better!
I hadn't read your comment but it's why this song upset me more as an adult too and my child suffered abuse years later and I still don't know how to recover from our personal traumas. You are right in saying getting away from evil people is the only way to start to heal. I'm glad you managed to get out of your situation too and take care of yourself please, Mate
@@goaway2803 Oh bless you. I guess it's like any injury. First you remove yourself from the source of pain. Then you get some help getting the wound to heal. It doesn't matter if your injury is physical or emotional, the same applies. I had ptsd from my experience and saw a therapist for several years. It helped me to understand that I was not responsible for their reactions and behaviours. I was not the problem, the problem was very much theirs! That was about 20 years ago and now I couldn't care less if I saw him on the street because he I just feel indifferent to him. Wishing you the absoloute best, with love and peace in your heart!
Jay please do lots more Suzanne Vega. She is so unique and has tons of great material. peace bro
Next up we need No Cheap Thrill.
It opens people’s eyes god bless any child that was abused ❤I was one of them and I’m still here 👍
Nice one Jay.... you can pick them... yet another top tune! Like a trip down memory lane..peace🙏
@Luna Raven so kool ya got to see her live.... bet that was a great gig... always loved her voice... as you may have worked out I do like a good Vocalist... 🙏
Suzanne Vega is such a great singer, songwriter & storyteller. I’ve seen her in concert a few times, always at small venues. She’s very personable & it feels like she singing to a group of friends. She has great rapport with the audience & tells personal stories in between songs. I love Luca, but my favorite song of hers is Left of Center. 💕💕
This Song Really Hit Me When It Came Out & I Was So Glad She Brought Light To The Subject..I Could Totally Relate To It Because,, I Was Luka,, Only Much Worse,, Which Is Why I Ended Up Raising Myself Since I Was 9 Years Old..No Child Should Have To Make Such An Adult Decision As I Did At 9,, To Stay & Very Likely End Up Dead,, Or Leave & Take My Chances On The Street..I Chose The Street...I Am Glad To Say That I Never Regretted My Decision & 51 Years Later,, I Can Also Say That I Am Very Proud Of The Man I Raised Myself To Be.
30-some years later and I still get teary-eyed. Glad you caught on to what was happening before she voiced the word "hit"
I always liked and could relate to this song. Your comments were very insightful and on point. Especially the part about being afraid to go home, and walking on eggshells all the time
Luka in Indonesian language means wound. I speak Indonesian and from Indonesia. Around early 90s or late 80s when this song came out, it receive so much play in the radio.
This song has always moved me. Always. A voice for so many.
A beautifully cool and sympathetic artist from back in the day'
still brings tears.. thanks for covering this great song JayveeTV
Always loved that song. It's so rich, so well produced, such great lyrics... Fantastic artist! Go check out her NPR Tiny Desk performance! 👍🏻
I always loved this song, but it was more heartbreaking after being in a violent marriage. I'm glad you appreciated the message and remember how old this song is too. Take care of yourself please, Mate
She has so many amazing songs. Two of my favorites are The Queen and the Soldier and Small Blue Thing. Both hauntingly wonderful.
It's a beautiful brave song. I praise her for her standing up to her abuser! Bring me to years. I'm so proud of her heroism. How many just might find a way to protect themselves. After hearing this song. Never be afraid to ask someone if it appears they could be under abuse. All they need is one good warrior of an angel, save the innocent. God Bless Luca! 🙏🙇♀️✊💞😇🛐
i have never heard this before so thanks for playing it even though it made me cry, i was a luka once upon a time but i had my happy ever after with my husband 41 years together xx
One of my favourite ever songs, such a sad theme, but beautifully written and sung, back in 1987 this was on mtv all the time
Oh I sure remember clearly when this important song came out. My ex was so drawn to it but neither of us explored why. After the relationship ended I learned that he dealt with childhood abuse issues which clearly informed the person he became and, consequently, impacted our highly dysfunctional partnership.
Thanks for choosing this to react to. ✌
I hadn’t heard this before but it’s good that she wrote it. Love your show J ❤️
She says on interviews that she was singing about a boy that lived near her in Harlem when she was growing up, Prince wrote her a letter to thank her for addressing the issue of child abuse, one of my favourite ever songs btw
Always happy to see reactions to female artists. You should check out some Jane Wiedlin, Tanya Donelley, Juliana Hatfield, Aimee Mann, Neko Case, etc...
I had to write an analysis on this song in English class; about the time the song came out. It was simple (to analyze) and very sad (to understand).
The first time I saw Suzanne Vega in concert, this was a brand new song that she said she'd written on the flight over. She said that Luka was the name of a boy who lived above her when she was growing up, but that she didn't think he was actually a victim, she just used his name... She's incredible live, she can fill the whole venue whether she's being backed, playing alone, or singing a capella - Tom's diner was new that first time I saw her too. You should listen to more songs by her, try the Queen and the soldier, left of center, Marlene on the wall, Blood makes noise, or Tom's diner (either her orginal or the dance version).
I have Suzanne's album Solitude Standing which includes this excellent and moving song. That's Shawn Colvin on background vocals. Another song about the same difficult subject is "What's the Matter Here?" by 10,000 Maniacs.
This a deep well, so many great songs: Blood makes noise, Tom's diner, Marlene on the wall, Caramel ....
This is actually one 80’s song I don’t remember much of but man it has that times vibe so I’m digging it. I heard Annie Lennox’s “No more I Love You’s” on a store radio today and def check that one out too.
To me, this is one of the best songs to describe child abuse. It comes from an album called "Solitude Standing". The title cut is also good as well as another cut entitled "Tom's Diner."
I bought Solitude Standing on cassette when I was in college and it had so many great songs! Listen to Solitude Standing, The Queen and the Soldier, Men In A War, Knight Moves, Marlene on the Wall, etc.
There are several good songs on that album such as Calypso and others.
@@AdrianDeVore those were all from her debut album, which was also fabulous, a much later album, Nine Objects of Desire was also awesome.
@@tenminutetokyo2643 Those songs that I listed were from her first three LPs.
Love Suzanne!
It's a phenomenal song that speaks to so many people worldwide. And thank you for including it in your selection.
I love this song due to the dichotomy between the subject matter and the melody. Such a well crafted song.
This song always brings tears to my eyes for all the Lukas out there.
it's a deeply moving song
I heard this song in the 80s, now I have a barn owl called luka,love this tune, quite sad and beautiful at same time..
Thank you for your kind words and empathy for people who suffer abuse
I’ve heard this song a million times and it never stops breaking my head
Great reaction to such a sad song!!!! Thank you Jay!
Need to do "Tom's Diner" by her too, but the remix
If you mean the DNA remix then it's nothing to do with Suzanne Vega, they just sampled the lyrics.
@Luna Raven Can be an interest to do at a later point to compare the point, but for me it's the original track and everything else comes second.
YES.
Super talented songwriter. Although she's American Suzanne enjoyed greater chart success in the UK, and some of her UK singles that never charted in the States are well worth playing like "Marlene on the Wall", "Small Blue Thing", "Left of Center" and "In Liverpool".
I was very touched by this song when it came out and I really loved her voice. ❤️😔🇸🇪
Very happy for this reaction, thanks!
Like the best folk songs, this tells a compelling story. Ms. Vega is a very compelling Artist.
Never ever hurt a child, will scar his/her soul forever, as in forever.
this video used to bring me to tears when i was in high school . i was in 10th grade at time i was hard to listen. hugs to Luka!
Awesome reaction and analysis, as usual. Keep up the great work, you always pick amazing songs!
She said in 1987: A few years ago, I used to see this group of children playing in front of my building, and there was one of them, whose name was Luka, who seemed a little bit distinctive from the other children. I always remembered his name, and I always remembered his face, and I didn't know much about him, but he just seemed set apart from these other children that I would see playing. And his character is what I based the song Luka on. In the song, the boy Luka is an abused child-in real life I don't think he was. I think he was just different.
I'm amazed that you are only now getting around to the "mother of the mp.3". Suzanne's songs are very deep. She has been called "the female Dylan". Personally, I would say that she has more in common with Donovan. Try Marlene on the Wall, Tom's Diner, Solitude Standing, Penitent, In Liverpool, The Queen and the Soldier, Gypsy, World Before Columbus, Blood Makes Noise, Rosemary, 99.9F, Caramel, Left of Center and (I'll Never Be) Your Maggie May. There are many more.
I have Suzanne's music set up as a playlist and I try to see her whenever she's in England. She is an excellent live performer.
Still makes me cry every time i hear this song!!!!!!
PS your kind reaction to this is healing:)
OH I LOVE this song!!! Haven't heard it in years but I know you're gonna love it! It's very moving!!!!
Agree it's very emotional. Really tugs at the heart strings this one. 😭
I heard this song in 1986 my first year of Junior high. Still listen to this day.
First time i hear Suzanne and others like Spandau Ballet were in 1992 in Barcelona for the Olympiccs. A lot of free events. Touchy.
love this song and i love suzanne vega.
she has other amazing songs that you can react to like left of center and tom's diner.
Love Suzanne Vega.
Seen her live many times.
I bought and still have, the 45 single vinyl record, the minute it came out. Such a brave song.
I love Suzanne Vega. This song hits home in a lot of ways. As a young teen I heard it and felt like she was saying it’s okay to talk about it.
Her song "Gypsy" is another great one from the same album
Gypsy is one of the most purely gorgeous songs I've ever heard. Absolutely enchanting and full of love and nostalgia.
I love Gypsy - it's my favourite Susanne Vega song among so many amazing ones
The Queen and the Soldier is an awesome song 💝
I love Suzanne Vega's voice.
I swear when this song first came out it brought me to tears every time I heard it.
I was like Luka growing up, and I was fairly young when this song was released, and it meant so much to me when I was going through the same stuff as Luka as a child.....💔