Sasha Alex Sloan - Older (Lyric Video)
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I used to shut my door
while my mother screamed in the kitchen
I’d turn the music up
get high and try not to listen
to every little fight
cause neither one was right
I swore I’d never be like them
but I was just a kid back then
the older I get the more that I see
my parents aren’t heroes they’re just like me
cause loving is hard it don’t always work you just try your best not to get hurt
I used to get mad but now I know sometimes it better to let someone go
I just hadn’t hit me yet the older I get
I used to wonder why
Why they could never be happy
I used to close my eyes
And pray for a whole ‘nother family
Where everything was fine
One that felt like mine
I swore I’d never be like them
But I was just a kid back then
The older I get the more that I see my parents aren’t heroes they’re just like me
And loving is hard it don’t always work you just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it’s better to let someone go
It just hadn’t hit me yet
The older I get
The older I get the more that I see my parents aren’t heroes they’re just like me
And loving is hard it don’t always work you just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it’s better to let someone go
It just hadn’t hit me yet
The older I get
#SashaSloan #Older - Hudba
i went to germany and wrote this after crushing some kfc, definitely cried writing it and it means so much that u guys like it, never thought a ballad about divorce would be my biggest song lol
it's pretty
It’s absolutely beautiful ❤️
thank you so much the song really hits home❤️
Cool song. One can tell from the lyrics that this song came from within
this really speaks to a lot of people including me, thank you for writing this
A happy childhood can cure all your pain in your life but some people spend their life to cure the pain in childhood
My childhood isn't that bad but your comment hit me so hard.
I’m 17 and I’m already trying to cure that pain. It’s true
I'm one of those child that grew up from pain
This is so true. Mine was mixed with both smile and tear, ups and downs. But what was bad was bad, couldn’t help yourself when it is recalled, even you’re grown. The best thing we can do is to hurt kids as least as possible.
It's a beautiful line dear.
*You know what is more painful, families that are broken but not separated.*
touche
Yeah,, ik how it feels
@@gayatri3488 it's the worst feeling.
@@infpsays4055 yeahh 🥺😔
You hear them fight everyday but they don't want to divorce because they said they love you and don't want you to be a 'broken-home-kid', that so called comforting words actually just makes you feeling guilty and burden
Is anyone here 2024?
Yessss
yes
😊
Yess
Yess 🥺
"my parents aren't heros they're just like me" This one❤️
The whole song relates to my life and my sisters
this line just hits do hard when you 18
I really hope my future children won't find this song relatable..
💀💀💀
👍🥺
Lol
I wish the same...
Just hope you DO a have kids THEN hope that
"i used to close my eyes pray for a whole another family,where everything was fine,one that felt like mine"
i felt that.
Louie?
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I’m 33 years old now and I’m still trying to cure my childhood. This song is definitely healing my soul.
Sorry about that.
Hi yenny!
How are you?
This song hits me to my inner child so hard. This childhood is the reason I promise to give my kid the strongest and beautiful sense of family I never had. I'm thankful for the hard lessons in my childhood tho but love that I can teach them to my children in a loving environment
😢 me too
The saddest part is how most people could relate to this song.
I was called?
ikr :(
Me..
💔 exactly.
its 698, its not 699 :)
"My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me" ~the most heartbreaking truth 😔💔
Yeah..😞💔
Amii....🥺
it really is 😔
Yeah😔
❤️❤️❤️
It's 2023 and I still can't get over this song. The lyrics expresses all. Specially when u're one of that who have faced all these
im 10 and i face all
@@camron31 oh dear, may our almighty God help you in every situation. My prayers are with you
When you faced it all you will understand better this song..... I love it😊
Who will be here May 2024🥺🥺💁💁
I'm here ❤
You see..., I'm here
I'm 🙋♀️
❤
Here I am.
if you don’t understand this song, you are lucky and i am happy for you. If you do, well then i am sorry and we can get through this, i promise.
Thank you
😉
"sometimes it's best to let someone go"
♡thanks u made me feel better♡
Why do parents forget that having kids isn't a new start but a responsibility that you take. If you can't be good parents then better not have kids. Coming from experience.
Totally correct.
Yeah, completely agree. And that’s exactly how kids become adopted, separated from their two sisters who at least have eachother, think ‘what if’ all the time, and just feel real lonely in a family that isn’t theirs.
...also speaking from experience lol
@@aquasiox4033
I hope you will find your home 💜
You’re exactly right. I know that for experience too, wishing u the best :(
can't agree with u more.... even 2021 now
My sister cried listening to this song. It was very relatable to her. I always had my sister but she had no one beside her. I am so proud of her ❤️ Younger daughter's have it easy when it is about carrying family trauma
Thank you❤I needed to see this
Yy
@@sandramusole3768 ❤️❤️hope you are feeling good
@@NidhiKini❤ definitely,, thank you
actually I disagree cause as an older one you often run away at a certain age and even if you are still present in the family life it's the younger sibling that stays there all alone trying to survive
I have a traumatic childhood. I'm already 25 but it still hunts me. It's easy to forget someone but it's too difficult to forget those traumatic memories.
My grandfather told me once that no matter how bad is your childhood your are the only one who can change your life :)
R.I.P Grandfather ✊
R.I.P
Rip 😔
my grandpa said me to rock it.
R I P 🥀
R.I.P to my grandma she said the same thing
My childhood in a song:
Children shouldn't have to go through this. Sometimes parents are the ones who act like little kids.
Fr😔
Hm
I think the point of this song is realizing that your parents aren't heroes, they're people too. It doesn't matter how old you are, sometimes you just can't figure out life. Your parents could have mental issues but due to the stigma of their time, they didn't understand it and didn't know how to deal with it. I think a lot of kids only see themselves having a hard time but when you grow up you realize your parents were having a hard time, too.
@@MissGenie0607 yes. Exactly. What I meant by my comment was that sometimes as children we just don't understand what's going on with our parents, or why they fight like children,, since they should consider a child's mental health but as we grow older we understand those are things that happen.
your line rhymes
i'm here at 2024. whos with me, anyone?
Mememwmemememem
Yup
Me😊
✋✋✋😍😍😍
We here
Dear Sloan,
Lost my dad last week and believe me hearing your song is a relief for a painful heart. Thank you for the lovely note.
sending you a tight hug sis. I lost my Dad 5 months ago and I never believe that happened. But I believe that our Dad will be somewhere really close to us in another way. Be calm and feel that. I hope the best for you.
The scary part is I can relate to everything in this song.
a6n same...
I feel you
feel you
I feel you...
Same as me
Missing childhood, Cartoons after school time, friends, trips, enjoying without tension, eating without tension, sleeping without tension
same I feel to cry thinking about those days and now everything changed and everyone changed too
and i wished to be an adult back then... :(
Yes
Yea I knew it hurt so much in whole life
I spent those years wishing I could grow older. And now that I'm older, all I want is to go back to those days where there was no stress, no anxiety, no pain. Just making sure i got my food ready on a plate before my show was on.
"Forgive your parents ,remember it's their first time living life too"
“So what about my hurtful past? Until now, I'm still struggling to heal my trauma. My inner child has not yet learned to love itself. How can I forgive them?”
You won't be born again so the "first time living life" line doesn't make sense.
I was a drug addict for many years, my mom never gave up praying for me. Today I celebrate 4 years clean. God is good
thank you
“I swore I’d never be like them” and “My parents aren’t hero’s they’re just like me” god that hits so hard
XD
Like how hard? Please explain
*but I was just a kid BACK then
I’m me. I’m sorry
Yeah
My family isn't broken but I know my parents only stay together because of the kids. Not realising it's traumatising to witness their fights.
🥺
wow...the same is going on here with my family ;-(
Feel ya
I feel you 😔
same here
an advise to our parents
~ please don't compare kids with others
~ please don't abuse them
btw thanks for the song i love it 🌿
"I used to be mad
But now i know sometimes it's better to let someone go" it touches my soul deeply
*she is the voice for children who can’t express themselves because of fighting parents*
*thank you*
It's so true
I know right I’m crying
ABSOLUTELY :|
My parents fight and they're strict helicopter parents :)
Thank YOU ❤ its true.
My parents divorced 2 years ago when I was 12... I never understood why, but I used to cry and pray that'd everything would be okay. The only thing that made me happy was to listen to this song. Thank you for writing such a deep and heartful song for many people going through a lot.
Love you.
And I want my parents to get divorce
@@rosiselina2348 I hope you're doing okay...
❤ Lyrics if you need ❤
I used to shut my door while my mother screamed in the kitchen
I'd turn the music up, get high and try not to listen
To every little fight, 'cause neither one was right
I swore I'd never be like them
But I was just a kid back then
The older I get the more that I see
My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me
And loving is hard, it don't always work
You just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it's better to let someone go
It just hadn't hit me yet
The older I get
I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy
I used to close my eyes and pray for a whole 'nother family
Where everything was fine, one that felt like mine
I swore I'd never be like them
But I was just a kid back then
The older I get the more that I see
My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me
And loving is hard, it don't always work
You just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it's better to let someone go
It just hadn't hit me yet
The older I get
The older I get the more that I see
My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me
And loving is hard, it don't always work
You just try your best not to get hurt
I used to be mad but now I know
Sometimes it's better to let someone go
It just hadn't hit me yet
The older I get
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"I swore i'd never be like them". This hit me hardly. I remember when i was a kid, i told myself this, after my mom cussed at me
This made me laugh and idk why😂
I’m 14 and I say this to myself every time my parents yell for no reason. This song hit me way too hard bruh
@@sofirosales5202 same
Saturdays with Sofi yep.. can relate
i still pray that i would never be like them
It sucks to be in a broken family that is not separated and being hurt every day.
Me, every fckn day.
I'm tired.
very tired.
I want them to divorce☹
Damn.💔
Why are you talking about me💔💔
every single day ikr
I understand...it’ll be okay.
I'm 21 but yet it feels like Im older than anyone at my age. The scars I get from my childhood have played a big role througout my life until now. Everythings getting harder as I observe. Its hard to have peace in mind everytime Im alone and everytime I felt lonely, I just want to cry endlessly until I fell asleep. Its hard to talk to someone and to keep the relationship knowing I still have to deal with my mental health. I still keep pretending Im okay but everynight, its feels mess ang I wanted to end it. But still, even though I wanted to end it, I still choose to lock my door and don't want anyone to get involve.
You wanna know a funny thing?.. you are not alone in that... no matter how messed up all that sounds,you are not alone, there's several people out there feeling that with you and all it takes is two broken people who understand the pain the other is dealing with to begin the process of healing. Just two people who are there to push the other up when they are down and that one unnarcisst person who doesn't always talk about their pain & shares your pain with you too to get rid of all that shit. So my love,don't lock your door,open it & seek out another broken soul that you can heal & will in return heal yours
This is how I am going to grown up. Now 28, same situation like u.
Don't wanna have any relationship with boys. If I got one, I am afraid to handle to keep.
@@akoala5249 its not a must a boy babes or even a relationship,it could be anyone but your choice and at your pace only🤷🏾♀️✌🏽
Hang in there ,we are out here too but let's continue living darling,we have to.
Im sorry your going through hardship but Jesus loves you & is waiting to be called.. 📞🌟🕊️
when i first heard this song, i wanted to cry because i personally have never experienced my parents getting divorced and i don't know how that feels, but i can just imagine the heart break that would course through your veins. i'm truly sorry for all of you out there that have lived with this.
them divorcing was the biggest blessing I had ever gotten. them staying together was hell itself. staying with someone you despise just for the "sake" of children will cause your children to suffer even more. I wish it hadn't taken them 17 years to finally divorce, I might have been a happier person if they did.
You are very blessed ,my parents ey are divorced 😢😢😢
This song actually speaks for lots of kids with broken families.
like mine I have a broken family
Ordinary_ Rozy yeah you right like my family
Yeah
damn!!! True!!
Yeah
The most hurtful part when ur parents hurts u by words like hell daily and then behave nicely with u...and u can’t decide whether they r good or bad ....
My daily life dude
@@Ivyyy1224 Can relate..but dont let urself down...lets get through this together💛💛
@@allergictohumans4745 thank you so much for this comment...i had no one right now but your comment made me feel a little good...you too stay strong 💜
If anyone doesn’t feel good just text here...remember even when no one loves u...I love u no matter where u live ,look or anything...I love u at last smile☺️💛💛💛
@@allergictohumans4745 you mean we will chat in a comment box..?nvm that made me even laugh 😄
I used to listen to this song when I was younger and had a very loving family. After a few years this song has been becoming more and more relatable
same , why should we grow up see all this bitterness?
I finally understood the lyrics, "my parents aren't heroes, they are just like me" "sometimes it's better to just let someone go". Thankful for my past and my current growth. It shaped me to who I am right now. Thankful to myself the most for getting through and not giving up.
When I was a child:
"I want to grow old already."
Now that I was grown up:
"I want to be a kid again."
Me too 😭😓😔💔🥺
Right!!!
Growing up is a trap.
Yh I was happy as a kid and I want that now
I don’t wanna grow any older bc that means my mom gets older and you know what happens when old age comes 💔
8 year old me: I wanna be an adult.
18 year old me: I wanna be a kid again.
25 year old me: I wanna be unborn.
Me though lol 😅
Me too
We even have the same age
that is me
Nietzsche thinks the same way as you do.
I'm 50 and this song brings tears to my eyes, Truth hurts
I could never put words on what I feel toward my parents now that I've grown older. But this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you
Hope you're doing well mate
@@Life_of_Q I'm doing well, thank you :)
We need more songs like this that doesn’t talk about sex and drugs
Straight facts!
Agreed
👍👍👍👍
There are already so many but it's just that they are not that popular.
👍👍😄
“I used to shut my door, while my mother screamed in the kitchen, I’d turn the music up, get high and try not to listen” I swear to god this is me
get up! God with you (:
Right? And the part were their both not right too gosh I've found my new favorite artist💜
I'm doing this everytime they're mad at me. I don't want them to listen at.
Everything will be alright you just need to push through a bit may God be with you my man
same same haha
“My parents ain’t heroes, they’re just like me” I felt that 😊
Even though I come from a background of loving parents who fostered a healthy environment and culture, this song still deeply reaches out to me.
As I’ve grown older and struggled with my own relationships, it only makes me realize how valuable such an upbringing was, how difficult it is to come by, and that we should never take them for granted.
people: talking about their crush
me: no one knows how painful it is to have a broken family
Unfortunately. Many people know how it feels to have a torn apart family.
Fr doe
I have problems with my crush and a broken family xd
Thank god I don’t have that kinda family
Do you know that when playing female puppies, male will often let them win, even if they have a physical advantage
"Sometimes it's better to let someone go", that hits hard.
🥺
😭
As a divorced parent, this part of the song makes me so sad. Parents are human too, just like everyone... why let them go for that? I pray that my kids never cut me out of their lives for being less than perfect.
@@shannongamble2715 I pray that for you too, and I think the fact that you care about them wanting you in their life is a good sign that they wouldn’t just cut you out for being less than perfect. Nobody’s perfect, and they’ll understand that I’m sure. But as a daughter of divorced parents, I’ve been wondering if it’s better for me to “let her go”. I don’t want to cut her out of my life, but I’m so exhausted by her. She chooses herself over us kids every single time. The reason for the divorce is because she cheated on our dad and then left our family to move 3 hours away to live with the guy. And ever since then, I can only remember of her choosing herself or her new husband before us any time there is a dispute. We’re never put first. She doesn’t come to hardly any of our events, and when she does she brings her new husband, despite how many times I’ve practically begged her not to. I don’t want him in my life, and she says that I’m disrespectful for that. But I just want her to try to see things from my side for once, and to care about my feelings. She doesn’t compromise, she doesn’t talk things over. It’s her way or it’s no way at all. And when I’ve tried to express how I feel and tell her that she makes it miserable for me to visit her because her new husband always comes before us kids, she told me that if I’m not happy visiting her then to just not come anymore. She didn’t care to work things out or listen to why I feel that way. She refuses to change, and I don’t like that then she sees that as my own problem. I can’t remember the last time she’s told me that she’s proud of me. She acts like it’s a burden to buy me hygiene supplies for her house. Any time that I ask for her to buy me anything at all, she has a terrible attitude about it. Even for necessities. I don’t ask for much, just what I need and also snacks. For several years now, I’ve thought about stopping putting in so much effort. I still visit her. I still talk to her on the phone every night. But it hurts to put in so much effort for someone that I don’t feel like I matter to. I feel more like a war to win (a war with my dad) than a daughter to love.
I think that as long as you love and support your daughter (when the support is reasonable, of course), you should be fine. Support her activities, tell her that you’re proud of her. If you have multiple children, don’t pick favorites. Don’t make them feel like a burden for needing things. Tell them you love them. Don’t view them as pets rather than people. And if they’re mad at you or mention that they’re not happy at your house, try to figure out how to fix it. Don’t just tell them that if they don’t like it then they don’t have to come.
I hope all goes well for you. Don’t make your kid feel like they’re just something that you’ll get for winning a war against their father. Set aside the war for your kid, and treat them like your beautiful children that you want all the time, not just when they don’t have any feelings that are different than yours
@@skylarm570 I hope you will live your life to fullest :)
This song really hits my heart now, in the midst of my family being on the verge of separation. My mother and father have been together for almost 30 years, I always thought their marriage would be fine but I was wrong. In 2022, for the first time I caught my father cheating. At that time my heart was broken into pieces, I was very disappointed with my father. But on the other hand, I don't want my family to fall apart and disappoint my mother. I decided to keep the rot for about a year until everything was revealed in 2024. I felt a little relieved but at the same time i'm sad that my family could not be together again. Thank you Sasha for this amazing song that touches and soothes the hearts of everyone who is hurting. For anyone out there, please be well and live happily.
(Sorry for my bad english)
I’m so sorry that you had to keep that secret locked in you. I’m sorry that you suffered with that secret and I’m sorry that your family is going through a divorce. Maybe they’ll change their mind and go to counseling if that’s what is healthy for both of them but maybe it’s more healthier if they got a divorce I had a friend who dad cheated on her mom and her mom forgiven him and they were happy, but I had another friend that dad cheated on mom and she couldn’t get over it. She couldn’t forgive him she wanted the divorce because she couldn’t forgive it. It wasn’t healthy for them to stay married. She knew that and now they’re happy and healthy so different women some can’t forgive and be happy with the husband and son can’t some. It’s better if the divorce happens it’s better for everybody everybody’s healthy because you have to do what’s good for you won’t let you be healthy and happy
Such a beautiful song! The journey to healing isn't easy. Thank you for sharing your story!
"My parents aren’t heroes, they’re just like me" - This line hits me different when I'm older... 💔
Anh Do. Everyone ain't perfect so we let some go as we grow older to lessen burdens 💔💔
@@henryhenderson313 💔💔 :(
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I've been wanting to know the meaning of this line. Can someone pls explain it?
@@emaa810 I think it means that is when a child hears the word "hero" to him or her, it means an always right, good and just person. But when we are young and small we think that
our parents as heroes but when we grow up that bubble burst as we make discussions different from that hero figure and be more aware of the world around us and see that
also our parents are not the hero figures that we use to believe. At least that is what I think tho. I'm just 17.
THEORY:
I feel like people are misinterpreting the song. It’s not just about kids who’s parents are constantly fighting. It’s about how we can’t fully blame them, because love is hard and it’s hard to find someone who will be perfect for you. Love is full of mistakes and our parents made lots of them in it. I remember hiding desperately in the closet wishing for another family, but when I grew up I realized how hard it was for them. I shouldn’t blame them fully, because love is hard. I think that’s the message of the video
Edit: I was kinda hoping this wouldn’t get over 2 likes but thank you.
yes she understands now when she's older that loving sb is hard and sometimes its better to let the love go... so sad
Its is really true😊
So true
yah
I completely disagree.
I can't sleep without hearing her any one song.I could easily relate to her simple lyrics.Her calming voice and great music make it more beautiful❤
This is so comforting to me, a precious song. I may not be able to express with better words, it spreads warmth into my soul.
The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets,
The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears,
And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain ....
Everyone says I have pretty eyes...
People said i have the Kindest Heart And Yeah i have Had the most pain
My grandmother and my mother don't have a great relationship.. sometimes I have to deal with the heartbreak.. it's not easy either I'm an only kid and the only one I have to support me is my grandfather in the sky.
@@brenda7039471987 sorry if your life is that way
@@alexandramanuel5472 thank you.. I appreciate it
Put your earphones, close your eyes, and just listen.
I cried.
Apparently every pure heart did.
It's so beautiful ❤
True
:
I wonder if tears came out cauz you said u closed ur eyes
This is how my parents are my mom has been devorcied 3 times😔 she found someone new I hope this one is different
I listen to this song every day. It's my motivation, what I'm holding on to. I want to grow up and realize that everything happening now is over, and that I would finally understand. I love this song so much, and you're voice is so calming. For everyone out there, stay strong, you're braver than you think.
This song describes exactly how i feel. Shasha you made pure feelings from your heart reach the other dimension of words and expression. You are definitely a pure soul
I'm 11 years old. saw my parents fight tons of times. they don't know that I'm hearing them curse. they don't know that I'm traumatized by their fights. I'm just a kid, but I've realized everything. I've realized that love isn't everything.
Yeah me too.. Saw thme fight since I was 8 and they seperated when I am 11.. I'm 14 now and it hurts that whenever I am being with one of them they're always saying negative things to each other.. Not pinpoiting each others sins but it's literally showing out..
I'm feel you... Is okeii everything will be okeii just believe in jesus.
Stay srongg 💓💓💓
Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself, you're amazing enough!
aw baby! i feel you too, stay strong
Stay strong honey
My childhood was filled with my parents arguing sometimes then getting violent hitting each other and it still breaks my heart
After listening to this song i realised how many children do not see their parents as a loving couple. I on the other hand had an amazing childhood, yes my parents were quite strict, more than other parents but I never had to go through seeing my parents having a fight. In fact i cannot recall even one fight between them. Today I realised that this was a such a great blessing and not everyone is as lucky as i was and i just want to tell you all, that you have my sympathies and love. Stay Strong.
The picture of her as a little girl makes this song even sadder.
Keep quiet 😭
That's Sasha 😭😭😔
Im crying, heeelp
Yes.......... Sad..... 😢
This song explained my life :( I’m crying
This song makes me want to be a better father and husband.
be a better one, because ur children/child deserve that its because of my parents reffering more to my father that Im so broken
Yesssss
I just want you to know that i love when you say that
Thank you all for being awesome.
yes you should
The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise.
Alden Nowlan
Getting older in toxic family , this song hits you hard it hurts like hell like your heart will explode, idk what to do but all i can say stay strong friends everything will be alright, we all are together in this.
It took me 25 years to realise, that my parents aren't heroes.. they too have feelings, hopes, mental illness, heart breaks, and so much more..
Likewise. :)
The comment I have been searching for.
i wish i could like this comment again and again
Me too
@@petrichor3647 same here
This generation maybe bad but this generation gonna be the best parents cuz we will understand our children's and their problems 🖤
Plz do
@@ARGENTKNIGHT_RED_DEAD do what?!
@@Yes_its_au Right ✔
You're right, my mom and dad got divorced when I was 5 cuz of some stupid things, and my mom sometimes tells me that I behave and looks like him. And I am messy like my father but it's aren't my fault. I promised myself that whatever happens, I will never EVER blame my child because they are not better but be appreciate because atleast they're trying.
So true....✨
I used to blast this song and cried along during my dark phase. I find it really hard especially when you feel lonely amongst your own family. I'm still healing and it's getting better as I had find the ones that make me feel included-my own best friends🥰
The first time I listened this song. My tear is coming and can't stop. Thank you for this song
The most sad part about all this is how many people say they relate to this song. This song isn't just about children's parents fighting, its all about how we shouldn't blame them because loving is hard and it is really hard to find someone that you will get on with for the rest of your life. This song is more about love is full of mistakes that we can't always solve, and you can never be able to find someone that is perfect and that will never make mistakes. I remember when i was a bit younger and i always heard my parents finghting, i used to cry and listen to them, never understanding why it was that hard for them to be kind to each other and why they couldn't just talk things through. Now that i get older i understand how hard it actually is for them and how hard it was. Loving is a really hard thing to do, especially when you are thying to love someone because you dont want your children to have separated parents. I am not blaming my parents for fighting, because i know it isn't their fault. I am here for everyone that that see theirselves in this song, and for everyone that can relate to this song. All you need to know is that you are not alone, and you need to understand that loving is really really hard, you need to look up and remember how important it is to believe tuat you can get through it. You can do it, and everying will be fine, you just need to believe that everything will be okay, and to hope. 💕
Wow 😪😪😔😀😀😣😣😃😃😃
85 times so you don't need to count
Antoniaa D Yeah,My family is the brightest,I hate my father also my friends think I have the perfect life just because I have a dog, and my family is rich,They don’t even know half of it..
Thank you so much, now I understand everything about this song. Take care always.
I can’t even read it
This song resonates with me so hard. Everyone's gone through the stress of seeing parents fight. Everyone's gone through the fear of wondering whether your parents are going to stay together... It's scary as a kid, and no one ever talks about it. Great song.
I have met people whose parents are divorced, though mine is not likely to, I can still feel the burning tension between them, I just hope I won't get hurt so badly...
I WICH MY PARENTS GET DIVORCE
never had to worry about my parents..they never fought (not trying to be an ass i know it sounds like that)
Not everyone, some people aren’t as lucky because one parent is gone.
CantoMando well in the end,my parents got divorced.
One of my comfort zones...this song...feels that I am not alone going through the shit
I know no one cares but I'm listening to this now while crying, I just found out that my mom stayed with my abusive dad because he threatened to kill her and my siblings, we're still with my dad but I'm working hard to get my mom out of here, I never really thought how much shit she went through all this time. I hope we get out of here soon. And hope everyone in this situation gets the help they need
You gonna get through this girl
I'm with you
Stay strong hun! You can get through this ❤
You can get through this don't worry you got this stay strong!
Cmon girl you’re strong!!!💪💪
Awe , you'll get through it , just me strong .. somthing like that is happening with me too
My mother work hard at other country caring other family to get more money for us for about 15 years... i miss her so much...so please be kind to all overseas filipino worker around the world..thanks
God bless you, buddy, hope u both r unite asap
I know how you feel...
Vincent Vargas I’m a filipina
ok
Make her proud one day buddy!! all love !! take care !
Your song describes the reality! This song hits me to my old memories . Thank you for sharing the same emotions with us!💗
I wish you rainbows, Sasha Alex Sloan.
Shine on like only you can, my friend.
''My Parents aren't heroes
They're just like me''
*I felt that*
Be strong!God will help you.❤
I dont even want to be like them
@@Herlinamkt same they kinda toxic :(
I know they love me but, sometimes they just make mistake that they don't know it's a mistake.
I also feel that. I can understand. it's not like my parents can't understand me it's like they don't want to understand.
Life lesson : Heal from your childhood wounds before you decide to have your own kids so that your kids won't have to spend their lives trying to heal from you
refuckingtweet!
Excellent words 🤞
If only my parents did that from the very beginning. 💀 It's not my fault my parents don't know how to emotionally support their children. i don't trust myself for having kids. I don't want my cute little kids to experience what i did. No way in hell is that gonna happen. 💔
I am not bringing no child to this world.
@@jowaness exactly...💀
Literally chills throughout my body 🥺😔
It's not just a song. It sounds like everyone's inner self can't explain when sometimes it's better to let someone go
SASHA HOW DO U WRITE SONGS THAT HIT ME RIGHT IN THE SOUL
Marina Lin oh my God. I love your videos especially “This is what a broken heart feels like.” Keep up! I hope you will get the recognition you deserve! ❤️
omg this comment actually scared me I was like how do you know my name but then remembered...jeezzzz
EXPERIENCE
the more you get old
the more you experience
the more you know
the lesser you understand.
@@Cat-lb3eo Thank you!!
ikr? soo good
I clicked this by accident
Best accident ever , this song screams my life
Same lol
You made a happy accident UwU
Hahaha
@@trash7582 what the, it's a bit harsh, isn't it?
@@kamiokio9284 srry tho....
It's been 3 years since I disckvered and begun listening to this masterpiece and yet it is still giving me nostalgic feeling that I don't know where it come from. I just feel the connection between me and the words. My family is fine and my parents are okay but there's something with the song that touched me in a spiritual level.
The luric hit me,Now i fell quilty that i cant understand my parents,maybe cause im 14year old teenager yet,Yeah almost everyday my parents figt with me of soo little problems,but i listend music loudly to not hear them,the luric hitss soo Freaking reall
Thankyu❤❤
WHEN THE COMMENT SECTION IS SADDER THAN THE MUSIC 💔
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Agree
I feel so bad for everyone telling there stories 🥺
Tbh Im crying bcs the comments section. Bcs some of their story related to me
@You- know-who I'm oky😊 tq for asking❤️ your word make smile💕
"Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them." -Oscar Wilde
Been through all three stages. Loving them, judging them when I grew up, now forgiving and praying that peace finds them. It's difficult, they are also human.
Oscar Wilde is my fav author 😳!
True
@@ishakhurana3424 you are absolutely right 🙌 they are also humans and it's difficult.
they forgive their parents everyday
I remember my childhood and this song makes me cry whenever I come here to listen
A beautiful song - and the breeze whispered, you're just perfect at this moment in time and that's all you need to live your life 🙂
What's the point of having a family when you dont even feel like you're a part of it? It's just adding to the pain
exactly!
Father and mother is just a word for me like goodbye
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"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men."
- Frederick Douglass
What of Broken Children😔😪
Can they be fixed
This song just touched my soul and gave me the flash of my past....this is not just a song ....this is the teller of my past....huge respect to Sasha🙏 for not making just a song but a true inspirational rhyme❤
this song in every time i hear makes me cry :(
dear whoever is reading this...
I'm just one of the 7billion people on this earth.
but I am so proud of you.
and I wish you the best for the rest of your life.
Have a good life🤞
Naresh kumar thank you ❤️
Thank you. ꨄ
I wish you the best too, thank you.
Wish u the best...Thanks..
@@llotus910 😊
My family isn’t broken, im the one who is broken, i broke myself,physically,mentally.
virtual hugggggggg
But at least we have k-pop :')
I feel you
All of WE..i brokes m'y self .and i will mâke she happy..talking responsabilité ✌️💪
I was broken, very broken. Had no idea where to go with my life, broke up with someone, had no job. Then I picked myself up, learn to take it step by step, got a new job and leave all the bad things behind. Even if it's something as little as enjoying the breeze from walking to work, getting drunk while playing card games, made macaroni and cheese for dinner, I find myself feeling better and better. I want to let people know that good times will come, even when you thought thing cannot get any better, it will get better. I believe in you.
Family problems hurt the most. My parents said i don't have to care about those things and just focus in my career.And i also pretend like it doesn't effect me at all. But everytime they fight i hold my tears and its so painful. I'm 17 now and my whole childhood is like a bad dream. I have seen them fighting from when i was a kid.I just want to live happily with my family.
I was shocked at how it relates to my life. Truly got me into tears.
"I swore I would never be like them."
"I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy"
"I used to close my eyes and pray for whole another family"
That hit home.
Same
Same...I guess I'm not the only one who's felt like that.
Same D:
Same
vipervip 22 same...
Congratulations to those who can’t understand this song
They're so damn lucky :')
BLACKOUT ikr
I guess I don't, cause I still swear I won't be like them
@@011ven i know right
LOVE CHIMCHIM lucky 🥺