7 Mistakes Married Women Make | Part 1 | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • @mildredkingsleyokonkwo
    @mildredkingsleyokonkwo  Před 3 lety +228

    This is my only CZcams channel " Mildred kingsley-okonkwo".
    I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.

    • @ifemejecynthia5711
      @ifemejecynthia5711 Před 3 lety +4

      Interesting.
      I learnt alot

    • @fortunatenamat7770
      @fortunatenamat7770 Před 3 lety +9

      I cant believe someone has tried scamming me hardly an hour ago with a false prophesy using apparently Pastor Kingsley Okonko's account. Thank you for this disclaimer.I almost fell victim.

    • @chichiezzy6942
      @chichiezzy6942 Před 3 lety +4

      Matilda Namboozo it’s not pastors account it’s a fake account using his name. I got the same copy and paste message lmao

    • @successj2948
      @successj2948 Před 3 lety +4

      I just saw one imposter asking me to pay money into an orphanage Acct. Even before I finished reading I knew it was scam lol

    • @ebukandehigwo2278
      @ebukandehigwo2278 Před 3 lety +4

      I have received 4 scam messages in one week. Wetin I do wrong? 😅

  • @oreoluwaoyadiran
    @oreoluwaoyadiran Před rokem +54

    I watched this when I was single, I newly got married so I’m watching again 😁😁😁

    • @tkbest4743
      @tkbest4743 Před rokem +2

      Congratulations. Hope you are enjoying the marriage journey. I wish you many blissful years

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby Před rokem

      Congratssss

    • @modrikisadopted6337
      @modrikisadopted6337 Před měsícem

      Hey, Mrs Ore. I just came across your comment and curious to know how far in your marriage. have the lessons worked to your satisfaction?. Will be good ton have feedback. Church and media place can be a plane out there.

  • @tomaoekanem8047
    @tomaoekanem8047 Před rokem +35

    By choosing marriage, we "decided to dedicate our lives to partner with God to make one man's life special". This one hit me. I gotta work on keeping that commitment.

  • @PheonahE
    @PheonahE Před rokem +29

    I watch this video every 3 months jut to remind myself of all the wisdom shared here. Thank you Pastor M

  • @theresatheresa7315
    @theresatheresa7315 Před 3 lety +69

    There's no marriage without God.
    But with God it moves smoothly.
    May the Lord Jesus Christ grant us the grace to make things right in marriage.

  • @LekeAdeboye
    @LekeAdeboye Před 3 lety +705

    i loved!!!!! it. please what about the 7 mistakes we men make. so as i'm forwarding this link to my wife i need to learn my own side too. equation must balance.

    • @carmelwine7610
      @carmelwine7610 Před 3 lety +120

      You are a smart man. Many blessings on your love and marriage.

    • @crissoa
      @crissoa Před 3 lety +6

      🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @idowu0704
      @idowu0704 Před 3 lety +46

      Pastor Kingsley did that one, check him out on CZcams as well. The Lord will make your home heaven on earth in Jesus's name amen

    • @Godisgood683
      @Godisgood683 Před 3 lety +5

      Very good one sir

    • @bibiharusi2983
      @bibiharusi2983 Před 3 lety +5

      beautiful man....kudos

  • @Abeikirt
    @Abeikirt Před 3 lety +15

    This lady's husband is one of the luckiest people on the face of the earth

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ Před 3 lety +286

    I'm single, but I'm watching for my future marriage.

  • @ahmedasigri7703
    @ahmedasigri7703 Před 3 lety +624

    When you show a woman “affection and attention “ she sees love. When you show a man “ humility and respect” he sees love.
    Men need RESPECT...
    Women need ATTENTION

    • @preciouszikhali4749
      @preciouszikhali4749 Před 3 lety +4

      Very true

    • @gladysamofah4565
      @gladysamofah4565 Před 3 lety +3

      Well said dear

    • @user-tj3vj7lp5h
      @user-tj3vj7lp5h Před 3 lety +36

      I love this ,, but then i think that the whole relationship should be based on respect from both side .. maybe maybe you mean allow HIM to feel like he is on charge of things!

    • @sanyubetty1634
      @sanyubetty1634 Před 3 lety +1

      True

    • @uchediri7193
      @uchediri7193 Před 3 lety +5

      My brother may God bless u. Amen! U really have wisdom this is only what a man and a woman need in marriage! Thanks

  • @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan
    @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan Před 3 lety +72

    Married for 3 years and I pray for more blissful years ... loved this video.

  • @wendyorji9751
    @wendyorji9751 Před 3 lety +52

    My mum was so blessed she said this generation is so blessed and would hardly make mistake if they follow you, she said I now know why you don't joke with this woman😍😍😍😍

    • @fadekea3863
      @fadekea3863 Před 3 lety +1

      👍🏽My mum said almost the exact same thing.

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish Před 3 lety +214

    Very informative. My husband is still the same from day 1 (thank God)! I must say we are a very good team and support system for each other and I pray it just keeps on getting better 😇🙏

    • @rebecca6984
      @rebecca6984 Před 3 lety +6

      Lucky you. May God continues to bless u guys

    • @magnusemori4266
      @magnusemori4266 Před 3 lety +2

      So far so good with you, and I call you blessed vetuose woman of honour. May you continue staying blessed now and forever more iJCMn amen.Pleasr thanks so much for sharing!

    • @hausofrlateish
      @hausofrlateish Před 3 lety

      @@magnusemori4266 yes luv. Thank you😇🙏

    • @mercynyoni5727
      @mercynyoni5727 Před 3 lety

      You are one lucky gal 😚

    • @beautifulbeautymafuta3056
      @beautifulbeautymafuta3056 Před 3 lety

      May God continue to bless your marriage

  • @mariahakwe
    @mariahakwe Před 2 lety +13

    One year later,I am newly married and I find this to be so helpful, thank you

  • @mangunduprince3781
    @mangunduprince3781 Před 3 lety +80

    thanks alot for this video I always disrespect my husband but from today I promise I will be a good wife in Jesus name I will learn to respect him Lord Jesus strengthen me as I apologise to my husband please as I go out with my hubby pray for me.

    • @Ginettensoh
      @Ginettensoh Před 3 lety +10

      Your husband truely loves you. U said u disrespect him, meaning u do it knowingly. Count yourself lucky that upon the disrespect he's still there for and with you. Most men in this generation will just dump u or even if there are still there, their mind is somewhere else. It's very good u are amending it ways. Please don't try it and do your best to respect him. The world we are living going crazy. If u have a good man never ever take it for granted. Because even the most submissive and humble women are being mishandled and maltreated by horrible men who can't appreciate what they have.

    • @rxnees
      @rxnees Před 3 lety +2

      @@Ginettensoh Yes, YES, so true. You worded this very well!

    • @Ginettensoh
      @Ginettensoh Před 3 lety

      @@rxnees ❤❤

    • @abediewomutai3812
      @abediewomutai3812 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Ginettensoh True, though sometimes we disrespect our husbands without knowing. Information is power...... I appreciate Mildred for empowering us

    • @eunicedaniels277
      @eunicedaniels277 Před 2 lety

      So me, I’m less than a year and honestly I’m not giving him the respect he deserves

  • @intifadhabashir500
    @intifadhabashir500 Před 3 lety +19

    I am a muslim but enjoying your advices.beautiful words .thank you

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

    • @cocosmith12
      @cocosmith12 Před 3 lety

      God bless you 🙏

    • @jesusislordgodisgood4408
      @jesusislordgodisgood4408 Před 2 lety +1

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 haba !!

  • @kaniahthepioneer6458
    @kaniahthepioneer6458 Před rokem +8

    Wow, this is amazing! I got rebuked a lot but this is going to help my marriage so much! Thank you 🙏🏽 by the grace of God I will grow and change into the wife God called me to be

  • @rachealokai1583
    @rachealokai1583 Před 2 lety +8

    Let's teach men to be teachable and leave ego. Some will either be threatened, feel proud or say women talk too much. That is why some women take that standpoint for their mental health. :) Great watch.

  • @nokwethembambatha630
    @nokwethembambatha630 Před 3 lety +49

    I'm not married as yet but I learnt a lot. God bless you Pastor, I love your spirit. Thanks to youtube for recommending this video for me.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @successj2948
    @successj2948 Před 3 lety +36

    I almost didn’t want to play this video, but thank You Holy Spirit for making me press the ‘play button’ am Blessed!
    Thank God for your wisdom and I tap into it.
    God bless you ma ❤️

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

    • @jocypare6019
      @jocypare6019 Před 2 lety

      Same

  • @jamaica2010ism
    @jamaica2010ism Před 3 lety +106

    1. Thinking that you are the project - men are project oriented. Once he completed the project he moves on to the next project.
    2. Support wrong decision
    3. The state of familiarity which makes you forget to honor him.
    4. Not taking care of ourselves. God looks at the ❤ but men are moved by outward appearances.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 Před 3 lety +10

      Love n Light Yeah, but men don’t take care of themselves. They age too and it shows. They let themselves go too, unkempt, and with their beer bellies standing out a yard in front of them. So what about that?

    • @jamaica2010ism
      @jamaica2010ism Před 3 lety +5

      @@bc1248 I was just listing what the video says.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 Před 3 lety +3

      Love n Light I know. But I was just stating my view of it.

    • @jamaica2010ism
      @jamaica2010ism Před 3 lety +5

      @@bc1248 oh ok. Got confused because you replied under my comment. Usually ppl just start their own thread when stating their own views. I like the comment though, it brings a balance to the discussion.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 Před 3 lety +2

      Love n Light You are right. I should have put it in the general comment section.

  • @ladynaomi8919
    @ladynaomi8919 Před 3 lety +74

    My prayer is to be part of this special group of women. I'm 33 years and still single. Lord show me mercy......😔Amen

  • @nonduduzomaziya190
    @nonduduzomaziya190 Před 3 lety +41

    I'm a newly wed and I'm glad I found this in my reccommendations. These points are so important.

  • @ashleyrivera3490
    @ashleyrivera3490 Před 3 lety +12

    Clicking on this video was the best thing I’ve ever done I am guilty of all of these things. Thank you for this, you are amazing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @abiolab5043
    @abiolab5043 Před 3 lety +28

    Loving this. The PAUSE part was needed, Watching at 10am and I was still in bed, hubby at work. I quickly got up to have my shower and brush my teeth, ready for part 2! THANK YOU so much for this. Your ministry has been a huge blessing to me. I met my husband at the conference Pastor K and you did in London last year. May the anointing and grace on you and Pastor K continue to overflow IJN. We will def be visiting your church whenever we travel to Lagos to thank you in person.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

    • @abiolab5043
      @abiolab5043 Před 3 lety +1

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 why are you impersonation a man of God and using God's for falsely gain? Repent from your mendacious ways, or hell awaits you. Satan is the father of liars.

    • @Lina.88
      @Lina.88 Před 2 lety

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 llllllll

  • @courageogie8569
    @courageogie8569 Před 3 lety +5

    I am a man listening to your advice to women, I think we men should also listen to this message because you’re a good mentor.
    Husbands should be referring their wives to you for mentoring. God bless.

  • @SholzTV
    @SholzTV Před 3 lety +12

    Grassland & merged together 🤣🤣I can't. I'm not married yet but learning alot. This respect thing alot of us don't understand it. I'm reading a book called "Love & Respect" by Dr. EMERSON EGGERICHS and it opened my eyes to alot. Men definitely need respect and women should even respect thier husbands more than pastors. His grace is sufficient 🙌🏾. GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR M

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 Před 3 lety +3

      Sholz TV Yeah, but these guys don’t respect their woman back. And that’s a big problem. I believe that a man deserves exactly what he dishes out. If he is disrespectful to his woman it is dead wrong for her to respect him. Dissing him back is the way. If he is free to express himself than so is she. I think of the old TV sitcom Honeymooners with Ralph and Alice as the model. Ralph was disrespectful to Alice and Alice dissed him back.

    • @diasporavoice8641
      @diasporavoice8641 Před 3 lety +3

      @@bc1248 what you say here about disrespect goes back to the foundation of the relationship. Was he respectful of you at the start of the relationship?
      A lot of women forge ahead in bad relationships choosing to overlook bad behaviours telling themselves he will change once we are married.
      Have you heard the saying, Love is blind, Marriage is the eye opener?
      The truth is that it only gets worse. You cannot change what you choose to tolerate. I say to the young ladies I mentor, to always very carefully scrutinise how the man in your life behaves around his sister, his aunties, his mother and his grandmother as well as other women in general. Yiu can almost be certain that how he treats other women in his life, is how he will treat you. If you are not comfortable with how he responds to other women, do not tolerate it. Walk, because if you choose to ignore it, you will soon discover that you already saw the warning signals but chose to ignore it.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 Před 3 lety +2

      diaspora voice I understand what you’re saying and you are right. But I was just saying that a woman shouldn’t respect a man who doesn’t respect her. I believe that people are best suited to their kind. Sometimes two people love each other but they on a different level in being. They may be disrespectful to each other but still love each other like Ralph and Alice really loved each other but dissed each other.
      So I do not believe that a woman should be sentenced to respect when a man does not respect her. If he disses a woman she should diss him back. A man might actually a respect a woman who socks him with truth. Knowing that she’s not dumb enough to respect him when is blunt to her. Never mind that respect foolishness bcuz he’s not on that level. Wallop him left and right with truth. Be as blunt to him as he is to her.

  • @abigailadu6183
    @abigailadu6183 Před 3 lety +70

    She is so real, it hurts💔😂😂..
    But this is what we needed to hear, y'all😂. Bless you Pastor Mildred❤️.
    I love your bluntness👏. I couldn't stop laughing cause I could so relate.
    Here's to learning and improving to be the best versions of ourselves 🥂

  • @amanas4653
    @amanas4653 Před rokem +1

    Now I see
    Too much familiarity is the problem...
    By God's grace I will get it right dis time..Amen

  • @sonnyosifo8237
    @sonnyosifo8237 Před 3 lety +13

    I stumbled on this teaching, I was totally hooked on it. My wife and I learnt a lot. Thank you!

  • @janechibesakunda7437
    @janechibesakunda7437 Před 3 lety +18

    Wow .....i have learnt alot ....i am glad to have watched this 🙌🏻🙌🏻 i got engaged 2 weeks ago and i am learning thanks 🧡💛💚💙

  • @adejokeadeosun9291
    @adejokeadeosun9291 Před 3 lety +14

    Hmm marriage is not about what you can get but about what you can give 👍❤️😘

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

  • @nopysango8752
    @nopysango8752 Před 3 lety +11

    The world needs women like u. GOD bless u.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @shellyjoe
    @shellyjoe Před 3 lety +7

    Omg🤣🤣 Pastor M, please resume from ⏸ and keep spilling the ☕ . I love your honesty!

  • @taneenswindell8274
    @taneenswindell8274 Před 3 lety +4

    Hello, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for this!!! I am guilty of quite a few things on this list, I pray the Lord helps me with my idiosyncrasies & get me on track! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you & God bless!!!❤

  • @annengendo6819
    @annengendo6819 Před 3 lety +8

    I love you already... So candid, pure tough love to us married women. I appreciate that I got to see your channel. God bless you. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @Slighttalk
    @Slighttalk Před 3 lety +67

    I loved your talk, but there was something you said that caught my attention, I quote "he his my pastor first of all before he is my husband." I feel its suppose to be the other way round, that's me anyway.
    I will really like to hear mistakes married men make too.

    • @seleinashurake1498
      @seleinashurake1498 Před 3 lety +7

      I noted that too but I'll just pick what's important and leave the rest.

    • @azegeaustin5615
      @azegeaustin5615 Před 3 lety +3

      Interesting, however the statement emphasized, could encourage women to see the pastor first before the husband. Her massage was ok. Nice job to her.

    • @mariegenius
      @mariegenius Před 3 lety +4

      According to the Bible she is correct ❤️

    • @lebonthite
      @lebonthite Před 3 lety

      There's no first or last. These things run as a package. We must learn to see this as a package.

  • @nditchienditchie5533
    @nditchienditchie5533 Před 3 lety +2

    I love u Ma, I'm happy I listened to this before I got Married...you are very wise

  • @kabasophiri7264
    @kabasophiri7264 Před 3 lety +5

    Powerful teachings indeed have learnt alot m married for 7 years with 3 children..and on the 7 mistakes we make have noticed some mistakes l personally make..😍

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....

  • @portiakobd1649
    @portiakobd1649 Před 3 lety +8

    Yho, u know watching this video I become emotional, because I'm married n I'm 31years of age, n now I didn't see the wrong things that I was doing to my husband, disrespect is the only thing that breaks things and lead our husband to cheat n change towards us, n I salute you, every thing you said it's true need to stand up and start making right things, thank you for the good tips or can I say advice, dankie 🙏

  • @margaretfreeman6853
    @margaretfreeman6853 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank God for this message. Thank you for the wisdom! I learned how to solve a major problem my husband always complained about. Looking forward to more of this....

  • @ikupamercykabigumila1377
    @ikupamercykabigumila1377 Před 3 lety +12

    1. I am not the project.
    Marriage is never about what I can get but it is always about what I can give.
    I am to help him achieve his other projects.
    2. Supporting the wrong decisions.
    Being the voice of reason in my husband's life. Acts 5:1-11
    Stand up for the truth.
    I determine the legacy my husband leaves for the children.
    Tell him the truth prayerfully and respectfully
    3. Familiarity.
    Respect is the major need of a man. He is to be treated with honor and respect.
    4. Not taking care of myself.
    Looks:
    Men are moved by what they see.

  • @elizabethmonday3751
    @elizabethmonday3751 Před 3 lety +17

    Such a lovely message,,, I love the way you teach calmly ,ur accent and your lively smile ma,, more grace 😍

  • @roselynchukwu4784
    @roselynchukwu4784 Před 3 lety +9

    I just love her realness. Pastor M you are now my mentor. God bless you.

  • @npzwane9331
    @npzwane9331 Před 3 lety +2

    I am speachless. In this day and age I thought that there are no longer any women who speak such unreproachable wisdom. Your words of wisdom remind me of the story of the Prophet Elijah when he told God that all Israel has forsaken God such that there were no longer any people of God on earth but God assured him that He had in fact reserved for Himself seven thousand more(1 kings 19:18).
    Therefore it still remains that no matter how much we can believe that women who believe and speak godly truths are finished the truth is that the Lord God will always reserve a few for Himself at any given point no matter the level of influence Satan has exerted on this world which is now nothing but a Devil's workshop where truth is abhorred and falsehood is elevated at a scale never seen before!
    God bless you sister.

  • @pindirushwaya1324
    @pindirushwaya1324 Před 3 lety +1

    I have heard people speak but this lady has an anointing... Mmmmm I'm even crying listening to this

  • @joyceogunlade7571
    @joyceogunlade7571 Před 3 lety +6

    Im not married yet but this is eye opening! Glad to be learning this at this time! Thank you for sharing!

  • @hajaraaliyu8267
    @hajaraaliyu8267 Před 3 lety +96

    U just should spoke to me. though I am a Muslim, and i am so subcribing to ur channel. I pray God forgives me and make me a better person

    • @upbornwoman9334
      @upbornwoman9334 Před 3 lety +16

      Amen. Please also think about Jesus my dear. Ten Muslims burnt a Christian building in Gwoza, Borno state. They noticed the only thing that didn't get burnt was the bible. That made them to repent to become Christians. Also, pray to God to speak to you whether Jesus is the way or Jesus is only a prophet. I pray for enlightenment and for you to make a decision in Jesus name. I LOVE YOU AS A WOMAN CREATED BY ALMIGHTY GOD.

    • @sidicniy874
      @sidicniy874 Před 3 lety +7

      @@upbornwoman9334 Quran as a holy book also never burns in the fire, that is why God's words and his holyness can never be compared to the word of man. Stop making it about religion to be a good or a better person, following Christ does not make anybody a Christian, accepting others, and loving your neighbors as yourself is being a Christian. I observe many Christian that follow only the words of their pastors not the teaching of Christ and they think all pastors represent Christ, it is not so, I have met and seen a lot of fake pastors. Jesus Christ doesn't discriminate and doesn't preach against any group of people, he only shows them the love of God and teaches them right from wrong. Many Cristian thinks being a Christian is the ticket to heaven but it is not so. Because Jesus Christ says they will perform a miracle in his name but on that judgment they he will say he did not know them. I was a Muslim for 25 years and 25 years as a Christian and married for 25 years and I have come to realize is people that name religion what is most important is you are a child of God and your action and the words that come out of your mouth show your fear and love of God. People discriminate about religion God just sees us as all his children, how you worship him is your choice but what is in your heart he sees. All the Christians in the world appreciate and acknowledge Isreal as a nation of Godchildren and yet Israelite never accept Christ as their messiah or son of God till this day, yet the same hypocrites Christian want the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus as the son of God, the dishonesty in Christendom to stand in unison and defend Jesus Christ is the savior and son of God to Isreal nation is startling but always demand and expect the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus Christ as the son of God, I believe charity begins at home, how many churches or pastors have even spoken out in world forum for the Israel nation to accept Christ? You may be a Christian and a worshiper of God but the spiritual realm of building one on one relationship with God many Christian do not have and that is why their knowledge and understanding lack wisdom

    • @npzwane9331
      @npzwane9331 Před 3 lety +5

      @@sidicniy874 Please understand that most of the people you refer to as Christians are actually not Christians.
      The word "Christian" means "Christ-like".
      Therefore if one doesn't walk, talk, behave etc like Christ he/she is not Christian even if he/ she says he is a Christian.

    • @sisey99
      @sisey99 Před 3 lety +4

      @@upbornwoman9334 But why?🤷🏾‍♀️what happened to free will. Why can’t we let people of other belief systems just be. I find that quite arrogant and disrespectful. This the reason why there is religious strife. Respect the faith others have chosen to follow. So long as they believe in a higher power that holds them to good principles and morals. Gbam✊🏿#OneLove ❤️💚💛🖤

    • @regine6760
      @regine6760 Před 3 lety +5

      @@sidicniy874 Jesus said to the people who believed in him, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings". "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." That is his standard.
      People claim they know God, but they deny him by the way they live. They are detestable and disobedient, worthless for doing anything good. It doesn't matter how many pastors speak on how many forums, we all have been given the choice as humans, not as Jews, Muslims, etc.
      Jesus said “I am the way, and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Jesus didn't force anyone, not the Jews nor us to follow him. He just stated the Truth.
      Blessings sister.

  • @gloryaiyanyo2685
    @gloryaiyanyo2685 Před 3 lety +2

    The truth is always bitter, but it’s needs to be told. Thanks for the reminder Pastor M.

  • @shakeeraduncan9814
    @shakeeraduncan9814 Před 3 lety +6

    I love this, I pray God continue to bless your ministry. I pray also that I will not make these mistakes in my upcoming marriage. Thank you for this information.

  • @keepingitreal6878
    @keepingitreal6878 Před 3 lety +3

    I just love this woman of God ❤️

  • @gcinilesindyshongwe4397
    @gcinilesindyshongwe4397 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you maam .. am currently going through a rough patch in my marriage and am glad I found this video ... I trust God will help me through these difficult times...

    • @estheresther8275
      @estheresther8275 Před 2 lety

      Well l call a spade a spade. And my husband can testifly to that. Thank for the information. Esther

  • @emmanuellanwanze5084
    @emmanuellanwanze5084 Před 3 lety

    I am still single but blessed listen to you Beautiful Mama. Thanks a lot Ma & more blessings Amen

  • @kokog5690
    @kokog5690 Před 2 lety

    You just make me remember late pastor Mrs odukoya who was an inspiration to lots during her time.. God bless you for all you do

  • @joydar4885
    @joydar4885 Před 3 lety +7

    Ohhh 😮 my God I love ❤️ this woman 👩 lord who’s she oooo I love ❤️ your message

  • @isiomabamidele7611
    @isiomabamidele7611 Před 2 lety +14

    Thank you Pastor Mildred. You really hit the nail on the head. We are guilty of almost, if not all that you have talked about. One concern I have is the second mistake you mentioned. Women should not support their husbands' wrong decisions. This has caused a lot of problems in marriages. Most men don't see it this way. They feel they are not being supported by their wives. My advice most times to women is that they should air their views respectfully but shouldn't stop there: rather, they should also go on their knees and pray for their husbands. God always honours our prayers when we're sincere. May God continue to bless you as you bless others.

  • @olayinkasolomont
    @olayinkasolomont Před 3 lety +2

    Yaaaaaay😍... women who have dedicated their lives to partner with God to make one man special
    Less than 3months here🥰

  • @rhondatownes2013
    @rhondatownes2013 Před 3 lety +2

    AMEN Lady 🎉 Not this is a channel I can really ENJOY and LEARN From. Thank you for your Obedience 🎊

  • @zeea1249
    @zeea1249 Před 3 lety +11

    I love you pastor M, a woman that speaks the Truth!!! God bless you

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @evangelistavanesa-fermin7227

    Ive learnt a lot..... familiarity want to kill my marriage oooh and not takimg care of myself.....even as a young marriage and young pastor wife jajajajja Thank you Jesús...the explanation is very simple and understandable

  • @livingstonmorgan8453
    @livingstonmorgan8453 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow these Counseling sessions are very powerful and is required for our females to the Queen they are created to Be!!

  • @mfonwilson5380
    @mfonwilson5380 Před 3 lety +1

    You're truly a gift to women in this generation. Any woman that takes your advice must surely be a good married woman

  • @topnotch8037
    @topnotch8037 Před 3 lety +3

    This is my Mama Ohhhhh. World hear her. Some of us owe her everything. Chai P.M your making my marriage sweet....thankyou Ma

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....

  • @diasporavoice8641
    @diasporavoice8641 Před 3 lety +50

    DO NOT SUPPORT YOUR HUSBAND IN WRONG DOINGS......my sister, I wish this message can get out to more Nigerian women. What a change of heart will come to our politicians if their wives at home are not telling them the truth about their wrongs doings.

    • @crissoa
      @crissoa Před 3 lety +3

      Correct. They’re too busy enjoying the spoils of corruption.

    • @angelinaserwaa1436
      @angelinaserwaa1436 Před 3 lety +5

      It will interest you to know that most men when they are doing something evil or bad, their wifes will never know until they are caught. Just like cheating

    • @butterflyworld.594
      @butterflyworld.594 Před 3 lety

      Ok

    • @hlengiwengqotheni7530
      @hlengiwengqotheni7530 Před 3 lety

      My husband is cheating known and again

    • @pinkydlamini9414
      @pinkydlamini9414 Před 3 lety

      @@angelinaserwaa1436 trust me they know.

  • @chosensiwale4293
    @chosensiwale4293 Před 3 lety +1

    What a blessed woman you are, Pastor!
    May God Almighty bless you and your husband much more!!

  • @xandilo
    @xandilo Před 2 lety +2

    I love her! So frank and her theology is on point!

  • @ogbonnahchiamaka
    @ogbonnahchiamaka Před 3 lety +39

    I'm in love with you mama 💜💜. Your bluntness and sense of humour is on another level. I also love the way you use scriptural backups. Ma please when can we press the play button 😂.....I'm not married but I'm enjoying this and learning a lot.

  • @johnobasi2195
    @johnobasi2195 Před 3 lety +3

    God bless you and your family this year. This is very very very grateful. Thanks

  • @nwegehyigillian5416
    @nwegehyigillian5416 Před 3 lety +2

    I am so blessed with this teaching
    Thanks so much woman of God

  • @SamuelNKiap
    @SamuelNKiap Před 3 lety +1

    My sister Pastor, you are speaking wisdom for all woman. Yes, humility and respect draws LOVE from man.

  • @beam-biblicalencouragement8812

    This is powerful....thank you pastor❤️

  • @miracleogene3274
    @miracleogene3274 Před 3 lety +10

    There are unending projects in marriage and it includes ROMANCE AND ATTENTION which is in your A to Z of marriage.
    If Pastor Kingsley agrees on Romance and Attention then its a necessary project In Marriage and saying otherwise contradicts your book because he gave examples on how he treats his wife which means his wife is still one of his project. Projects never end in marriage so couples should not focus on every other project and forget making each day count for themselves. The goal is to be happy together.

  • @preciousvictorakah
    @preciousvictorakah Před 3 lety

    The way you speak the truth is something else. I love you, Ma. You're very unique.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @Heart2HeartwithGeo-ds7km

    This video is so insightful! Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo really breaks down some of the most common mistakes that married women make in their relationships. It's refreshing to see someone talk about these issues with such honesty and clarity. I appreciate that she doesn't just point out the mistakes, but also provides practical solutions for how to avoid them. Every woman, married or not, can benefit from watching this video and taking note of the mistakes to avoid in their own relationships. I can't wait to watch the second part!

  • @roselivingstone270
    @roselivingstone270 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m glad I came across this message. I’m a new wed and this is a very wise massage that will go with me forever

  • @barimarepublic3299
    @barimarepublic3299 Před 3 lety +3

    this hits hard on the side of men as well... mama your word hits differently

  • @christabelbenjamin9892
    @christabelbenjamin9892 Před 3 lety +1

    More single and married people need to watch these videos. Not just for marriage but pastor KM keep dropping Godly nuggets

  • @mrsglitter8373
    @mrsglitter8373 Před 3 lety +2

    I been married for 5 years and you will never learn nor know it all...... If you want to be the best wife / husband possible then never stop learning, never stop studying about marriage and the opposite sex and don't just study and learn, but applied to your everyday life as much as you possibly can what...... And by the way I love your accent so much I have always loved that accent and I wish I could speak the way you do without sounding crazy 🤭💕

  • @DennisDenis
    @DennisDenis Před 3 lety +3

    Thank 👍 you,so much for this counseling, you are 'God sent' , every women should listen 👂.

  • @lucyngoma2352
    @lucyngoma2352 Před 3 lety +3

    So profound. Thanks for sharing and God bless you

  • @japarimodibboyusuf6912
    @japarimodibboyusuf6912 Před 3 lety +2

    Can't wait for this. Thank you Pastor Mildred♥️♥️

  • @oto-obongumoh9023
    @oto-obongumoh9023 Před 11 měsíci

    I just listened to this. I am extremely blessed. I have decided to make the needed corrections. Thank you @ Pastor Mildred Okonkwo . May God continue to bless your ministry. You have impacted so many lives .

  • @tracypeters7866
    @tracypeters7866 Před 3 lety +91

    "Cornrows that has turned into grassland" 😂😂 Thank you for saying it like it is. I'm learning.

  • @SmilesfromGod
    @SmilesfromGod Před 3 lety +5

    This video has been a blessing to me. Thank you so much for sharing. Blessings to you.

  • @lewinmukui70
    @lewinmukui70 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful teaching from a beautiful lady about the reality.
    GOD bless you madam

  • @wambuiwinnie99
    @wambuiwinnie99 Před 2 lety +1

    Am not married, but am here watching the video again and again. Thanks Mildred

  • @tithemidozard2854
    @tithemidozard2854 Před 3 lety +4

    As long as I get videos like this I will keep sharing ☺️. You also talk from personal experience and that is more educational 🙌

  • @thatotlou7800
    @thatotlou7800 Před rokem +4

    I’m happy in my relationship.. we planning to get married one day. It’s sad that we have friends and family that are always discouraging us, telling us it’s not easy, if they knew it would be hard they wouldn’t have gotten married. InJesus name I pray my marriage goes well. I pray everyday that God be the center of my relationship. I’m here unmarried, I want to learn how I can met God half way. Prayer plus effort/ hard work equals to good results 🙏🏼

  • @thatcoding_teacher1258
    @thatcoding_teacher1258 Před 3 lety +2

    Am a newly married.... The gray of God brought me here.... Am about to subscribe 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sulaimanlaminkamara6612
    @sulaimanlaminkamara6612 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for your presentation. It's very educative and touching. Keep it up. Of course I am a victim of those mistakes you mentioned about married women. These guys are our mothers, Aunts, sisters , daughters etc ,but very difficult to deal with when it comes to love or marriage relationship..May the Almighty God continue to give you the wisdom to impart these sacred words of wisdom to women who have ears. Thanks and stay safe.

  • @Honeyisle
    @Honeyisle Před 3 lety +4

    Love this, thank you for your wise teaching. I will pass unto my family and friends.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @delphinahgloria9124
    @delphinahgloria9124 Před 2 lety +1

    Chai the familiarity part thank God for the Holy Spirit that teaches all the time, because most of the time we are tempted to disrespect our husbands maybe when they get on our nerves.

  • @tripplebben8781
    @tripplebben8781 Před 2 lety +1

    Pastor, this is the best study I heard about marriage counseling , blessings Pastor 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @agapeshekinah4444
    @agapeshekinah4444 Před 3 lety +10

    I needed this. Thank you so much ❤️
    God bless you Mama
    My life will never be the same honestly

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

    • @peacea236
      @peacea236 Před 2 lety

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 fraudster

  • @thesoultouch.639
    @thesoultouch.639 Před 3 lety +36

    This message was really timely to save my marriage, I thank God for it BSE it's highlights all the 7 issues that were almost tiring us apart.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Před 3 lety +1

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

  • @TheBAHUBSA
    @TheBAHUBSA Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for this vlog especially coming from a christian & biblical perspective, Marriage is challenging

  • @victoriachiamaka6484
    @victoriachiamaka6484 Před 2 lety +1

    I love you Pastor M.
    You've been a blessing to me.

  • @titilayoojo8297
    @titilayoojo8297 Před 3 lety +5

    Wowww!!!this is amazing. I wish I had come across this video much earlier in my marriage but I'm glad I've found it now. Thank you. New sub 👍

  • @DebModelz
    @DebModelz Před 3 lety +4

    Wow..this was good,simple and practical tips. So glad i found your channel pastor M💜💜

  • @olufunkeoyeyemi9066
    @olufunkeoyeyemi9066 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much. I have always seen you but never watched your talks. Thankful for this...maybe someday, i will visit your church. God bless you.

  • @karengacheri9716
    @karengacheri9716 Před 2 lety +1

    Offlate been learning much on marriage ...not married,hence am glad am getting prepared before the time...things the spirit has been talking to me and making me land on platforms I can learn...these are things my marital mom may not teach me,not even my mom.... God bless you WOG....Born again women got alot to learn ..they always complain our marriages end in doom...and glad we are sharpening each other... kindly,release a book well published ..am here to buy...God's grace is sufficient 🧡💜