how to get rid of TOXIC friends

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  • čas přidán 24. 08. 2023
  • After discussing whether or not Manny and Laura could win Survivor, the Fools answer audience questions and give advice on cutting off toxic friends, getting over a breakup, financial tips, and much more!
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  • @melaniehartmanofficial
    @melaniehartmanofficial Před 9 měsíci +193

    Laura cracks me up!!! The “don’t be asking me where Manny is cause he is in the streets and I am asleep” part was hilarious!!!

  • @MannyMua733
    @MannyMua733 Před 9 měsíci +161

    Advice starts at 29:30 🤣

  • @isadorasmiles9339
    @isadorasmiles9339 Před 9 měsíci +167

    Can we have a survivor influencer edition!!?!? You 2 gotta be on it 😂😂😂who else should be on it….

  • @ambereldridge8927
    @ambereldridge8927 Před 9 měsíci +26

    As a mom of two toddlers , you NEVER feel like you have done enough . Every night you always think of what you could have done more of or you should have been nicer . It’s exhausting & draining . But it’s also so rewarding to watch them grow . A piece of you growing , literally something you created . 😭❤️

  • @I____qui.t
    @I____qui.t Před 9 měsíci +56

    LAURA NOT A RAT TURD😭😭 you guys just made my drive to work 100x better!!! thank you for always entertaining us 💗

  • @HollyHum79
    @HollyHum79 Před 9 měsíci +64

    I "broke up" with a toxic friend. It was very difficult but I felt SO AMAZING after she was out of my life!

  • @Oceannwaves4340
    @Oceannwaves4340 Před 9 měsíci +18

    Laura’s outfit, hair, makeup.. everything 😍😍😍 🔥

  • @gabby1554
    @gabby1554 Před 9 měsíci +9

    He didn’t come clean though, he got caught. BIG difference. He would have never told her if the mistress didn’t DM her…. He’s trash and he will more than likely do it again. Forgive but if she can’t forget, she’s got to move on. Just my opinion of course and speaking from experience. 🙏🏼

  • @brookemarie719
    @brookemarie719 Před 9 měsíci +45

    Personally I grew up as the big sister with little siblings that I had to care for like my own, and now as an adult I have 2 daughters. I’ve never known any different. I think being a parent means just being extremely selfless sometimes even to a fault! ❤

  • @devoncampbell4161
    @devoncampbell4161 Před 9 měsíci +2

    When your talking about the toll on mothers. I am 31 and when my daughter was 4 I decided to go back to school. 2 weeks after I started school I found out I was pregnant with my son. But here I am. Half way through nursing school with a 6 year old and one year old. Some days are HARDDDDDD. Many nights I do not sleep but I love my kids so much and school is my thing I am doing for me. It’s hard to explain but whenever it gets fucking hard and I wanna give up I remember that I want my kids to have everything I didn’t have. ❤

    • @emaandres2436
      @emaandres2436 Před 8 měsíci

      You got this! My son is almost 3 and I’m thinking about going finally going to college!

  • @theeluannesantos
    @theeluannesantos Před 9 měsíci +10

    I had my kids in my 20’s. They’re 7 years apart, once my second son was born my first son had a built in friend. I still did everything I wanted to. I had my parents to babysit when I went to work and when I wanted to go out. Honestly, I love being with my boys so I didn’t feel like I was missing out on anything. My friends brought their kids to my house or we went there. It’s not that hard to still have time for yourself

  • @heatherleighann420
    @heatherleighann420 Před 9 měsíci +9

    I don't usually like to comment on anyone's relationship as far as influencers or celebrities even when I really love the relationship, bc we hear about how many people feel really stuck or guilty about wanting to leave a relationship bc their fans really love &support it, but honestly it makes my heart soo happy to hear Laura talk about Tyler randomly buying her flowers recently, I've always loved yalls relationship so much and always get the vibe that yall are meant for each other when he's been in videos so it deff made me smile 💜💜

  • @Isneyda
    @Isneyda Před 9 měsíci +15

    We need Manny and Laura camping!!!

  • @ceeceejacinto7244
    @ceeceejacinto7244 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Mannys stories always get me together! I always end up having to get up and walk away to process what I just heard lol ❤

  • @aylarushing9281
    @aylarushing9281 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I think it can be normal to have a period in your relationship where you are roommates. Sometimes life problems can cause curve balls especially kids. When my son was born, we had and still have to actively choose each other everyday. It doesn’t always mean fancy date nights but it can mean a hug and 5 min talk when you get home from work, serving each other, etc. it doesn’t have to be this huge thing AND your relationship isn’t necessarily in jeopardy if you are experiencing this

    • @trishconstant
      @trishconstant Před 8 měsíci

      I never looked at it this way. Never heard someone view it as normal. Interesting.

  • @ApeEscape7
    @ApeEscape7 Před 9 měsíci +8

    The beginning of this was so amazing hahaha the survivor talking and Manny’s hookup. Dead lol 💀😆😶🤭

  • @ericarankin1946
    @ericarankin1946 Před 9 měsíci +8

    To the girl who’s husband was cheating…I want you to know emotional cheating can sometimes be worse than physical cheating. Emotions & feelings are involved. If your married and have kids..you definitely CAN make it work but it’s going to take time and lots of honesty. But if you don’t choose that, I don’t blame you either. ❤

  • @HarleyEllenAnn
    @HarleyEllenAnn Před 9 měsíci +10

    LAURA! I just choked on my dr pepper when you hissed talking about being hungry on survivor 😂

  • @deanie3
    @deanie3 Před 9 měsíci +11

    These last few episodes Laura had been SLAYINGGG her looks😮‍💨😍✨ & Manny is looking stunning as alwaysss❤️‍🔥

  • @user-oc7rd8vk8x
    @user-oc7rd8vk8x Před 9 měsíci +4

    laura is stunnin in that outfit girl that color on you!!! and manny looking buff okay i see you period

  • @deonewerner9015
    @deonewerner9015 Před 9 měsíci +29

    I really loved all the things you spoke on today. Felt like a therapy sesh.❤
    Love you.

  • @shawnafairchild417
    @shawnafairchild417 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I'll be honest.. I'm a mom of one. She'll be 10 this year and I love her with my whole heart! But I'd be lying if I didn't sometimes wish I didn't have that responsibility. Sometimes I wanna feel free to do whatever I want, whenever I want. Lol. I'm a one and done baby!!!

  • @amandahill2369
    @amandahill2369 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The toxic family remembers part i went through for very long time .one day i got tired of it so i moved and cut them off it hurt but life so much better .

  • @loiearce2992
    @loiearce2992 Před 9 měsíci +1

    fool coverage is always the PEAK of my fridays

  • @taylorshedroff
    @taylorshedroff Před 9 měsíci

    This is by far my favorite episode. Everything about it just hit so hard on very important life lessons. I needed to hear the motivation/career part so bad. Im 28. Got my esthetician license in March. And the job market is horrible. I've had 2 jobs, but one closed it's business and the other was a hair salon and I need to be surrounded by Estheticians to learn techniques. I introduced myself and gave my resume out to the places I applied yesterday, and they all literally handed my resume back and told me they will call. Everything is online now. My initiative means nothing 😭 y'all better pray for our generation.

  • @rachelmaxwell2120
    @rachelmaxwell2120 Před 8 měsíci +1

    EVERY SINGLE QUESTION that you guys talked about is something i needed to hear.🥺❤️

  • @naqshchaudhry2299
    @naqshchaudhry2299 Před 9 měsíci +1

    your advice is literally better than so many self help gurus and coaches out there. very practical and insightful!

  • @tifflove3695
    @tifflove3695 Před 9 měsíci

    I loved this episode, y’all were driving the nail home with the letting go of toxicity 🙌🏽, please do more!!!! Love you guys 🩷🩷

  • @miacharajovero4594
    @miacharajovero4594 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Thank you for making my day! I just had a falling out with my sis and it just ruined friday. Watching you guys is making me forget about it.

  • @Elliebellie247
    @Elliebellie247 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I could watch you two for hours upon hours upon hours. Thank you so much for being such a delight in our lives and for giving really solid advice. ❤

  • @MariaNunez-rx2kw
    @MariaNunez-rx2kw Před 9 měsíci

    I love the friend advice because i truly needed it. I have been friends with a group since i was 15 years old and we outgrew each other & i found out through another friend they were all talking bad about me. It broke my heart, but at almost 30 years old i need to let go of them. I don’t want to get to a point of hating them so i want to let go now. While i still have good memories.

  • @Immachubchub
    @Immachubchub Před 7 měsíci

    Love y’all so much. You guys balance each other so well. Amazing advice all around and super relatable! Thanks for your constant honesty and positivity ❤

  • @alexismahrt1400
    @alexismahrt1400 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Going home to be a parent to my two year old after working all day is seriously a struggle every single day. I call it second shift 🫠
    And in regards to “you chose this” I do want to say that I had no idea just how hard being a parent would be. I feel like I didn’t choose THIS 😂 but rather the idea of what I thought parenting would be like. But I always love ya’ll’s view on parenting and children!! It really seems like you get it and have empathy for us

  • @dawnmills7599
    @dawnmills7599 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I have to admit that my hubby and I have watched 42 out of the 43 seasons!!!
    Can’t wait for the new season!!!

  • @laurelle1372
    @laurelle1372 Před 9 měsíci

    SUCH a good episode! Manny and Laura give amazing advice. Please do this again soon!! 💕

  • @ShannonFaerie
    @ShannonFaerie Před 9 měsíci

    I loved the advice on not taking things personally. Always a good reminder! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

  • @JulieNick28
    @JulieNick28 Před 9 měsíci +2

    My sister has 3 kids and her youngest was in camp for a week during summer and we had lunch - she was SO grumpy and I asked her what was wrong and she said “I HATE summer” 😂. You give up a LOT with multiple kids. I have one - he’s 22 now and I’m loving life 😂😂😂 AMEN on what family is

  • @gracierene
    @gracierene Před 9 měsíci +2

    Dang y’all! This episode rocked and kept me locked in the whole time. Definitely my favorite one so far💗Love you both!!

  • @ChristinaPham
    @ChristinaPham Před 9 měsíci +1

    LOVE THIS EPISODE 🩵 and you guys 🥹

  • @KLOD346
    @KLOD346 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have three not a fan of kids but have unconditional love for my minions 😂
    I’m from the Caribbean and it’s a village that had a helping hand which includes aunt, uncles, siblings, grandparents and all great mentors
    Your heart grows with each new addition. This is a personal point of view ❤❤
    Love you guys

  • @ondreab201
    @ondreab201 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Loved this episode!! What if you guys did a live giving advice to your viewers?! That would be so fun. Probably a nightmare logistically but it would be so cool. I feel like this episode was very talk show vibes

  • @theazone92
    @theazone92 Před 9 měsíci +3

    That sounds like an adventure!! So glad you had a fun night Manny!🌈💖

  • @aprilowens9880
    @aprilowens9880 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Having to cut a toxic boyfriend out ur life is hard but what I did is focus more on myself. I have focused alot on self care and self love. Makeup, hair skin care. Things that I have neglected being in a toxic draining relationship. Being alone with myself and loving myself again. Watching yall and especially watching Laura with her vlogs. Cleaning organizing and self care has helped me alot. ❤

  • @Ca_1021
    @Ca_1021 Před 9 měsíci

    I literally love you guys and this pod. I listen on my way home and had to pop on the video while at the gym to finish. I love the perspectives just like you said. ❤!

  • @sandracervantes1723
    @sandracervantes1723 Před 9 měsíci

    Loved this episode! Great advice!

  • @kristeninglesby3964
    @kristeninglesby3964 Před 9 měsíci

    One of my favorite podcasts from you guys so far ❤️

  • @elledeigh7899
    @elledeigh7899 Před 9 měsíci +1

    LOVE the survivor convo. It’s such an underrated show. Enjoyed the strategy talk. And Laura you would look sooo beautiful on survivor all natural! Almost every time people look better than when all done up, to me at least

  • @risarich84
    @risarich84 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love Laura and Tyler's marriage. It reminds me so much of my husband and I. We've been together almost 19 years married almost 10. He was my best friend/neighbor first and I truly think that's eat helped us so much. It's def a blessing. I love him more daily and it's crazy to me because I never felt this way before. Everyone deserves this kind of love in their lives.

  • @Ghettomex87
    @Ghettomex87 Před 9 měsíci

    I loved all the advices given especially when it come to not putting up with toxic friends, family or significant other. Cut them out. I did that to a couple "family" members and man do I feel more at peace.

  • @gabrielagonzalez6836
    @gabrielagonzalez6836 Před 9 měsíci

    More of these advice episodes pls!!

  • @StrawberryMoon64
    @StrawberryMoon64 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Keep coming with these amazing topics and I am so excited when a new podcast comes out cuz it’s FRIDAY 🎉🎉🎉 ❤❤❤❤

  • @RAS_KAS
    @RAS_KAS Před 9 měsíci

    I have 3 kids, a single mom here and yes, your heart grows. My kids are my motivation, they make me grow as a person. Needed more space, bought a house, needed more money, got a better job. They are so much work, but it's so freaking worth it, the love is tremendous. And that's what keeps you going.... we're exhausted yes, but our hearts are so full ❤❤

  • @jasminecastillo4054
    @jasminecastillo4054 Před 9 měsíci

    I think this was my favorite episode so far! I was cracking up watching lol love you guys!

  • @mrodri4692
    @mrodri4692 Před 9 měsíci

    Loved this podcast it was so insightful ❤ we def need more 🤗 rewatched this twice 🎉😇

  • @StrawberryMoon64
    @StrawberryMoon64 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Such an important topic I wish I had podcasts to listen to like this in my early 20s!!! Hearing real life examples of toxicity makes it click even more that something is wrong. I had to cut some toxic people out of my life and it’s for the better! Can’t wait to listen to the full podcast!!! ❤❤❤ @foolcoverage

  • @amberspade15
    @amberspade15 Před 9 měsíci

    yay! super excited to watch!👏🏽💗

  • @glamgal28
    @glamgal28 Před 9 měsíci

    Great episode today guys. Love a Fool Fam Friday

  • @xo_Chel
    @xo_Chel Před 9 měsíci +1

    Speaking of Laura on a flight back from Alabama & also being a gal from the deep south…. My ENTIRE being for the longest has wanted to witness Laura take Manny back to her roots for a trip & film a vlog. Why do I feel like it would be giving Simple Life? I would love it SO much! 😂🤣

  • @Emma_78
    @Emma_78 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Oh my gosh, I love that y’all are going to talk about this! It is so hard to get rid of toxic friends. Love y’all for this ❤️

  • @aereal5912
    @aereal5912 Před 9 měsíci

    Yay yay new upload!!!!!!❤❤❤ love you both!!

  • @biyankab8740
    @biyankab8740 Před 9 měsíci +1

    35:37 yaaaas Laura with the advise on how to move on, everything she said 🙌🏾

  • @missgreece91
    @missgreece91 Před 9 měsíci

    Finally i’ve been waiting all day 😂

  • @beauteefulanomaly
    @beauteefulanomaly Před 9 měsíci +1

    Lol on the kids convo. All good points. Its like anything in life, until you experience it, you really can't ever imagine how it will impact your life. I am a single mom of two, work full time and I am also currently in school full time. It's a lot and most days go by so quickly. Kids are definitely a handful but its the sweetest moments they create with their thoughts and watching them learn and grow, it's literally what gives me the strength to get through every day! I think without my children I wouldn't be as filled with love, worry and stress haha but I also wouldn't know a love like this. My children changed my life. I know everyone says that!but its true you really don't know sacrifice, or worry like this until you experience parenthood. It helped me grow up so much. Definitely nothing wrong with not having kids. I think before it was the ideal dream because the mom was home to tend to the kids. Now everyone works and can go in so many directions that the dream is more personalized!

  • @Taylor_Franklin_3883
    @Taylor_Franklin_3883 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The way I’m cracking up with you guys at the beginning tells me we would be good friends 😂

  • @HollyHum79
    @HollyHum79 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have no kids but I wanted to chime in... when my older sister had her first child, I loved that baby with everything in me. I remember thinking, 'Will I have enough love in my heart for any other kids?' And let me tell you, I now have 3 nieces and 6 nephews and the love is infinite ♾️ Sooo, I can only imagine it's like x infinity for parents as they MADE those humans!❤

  • @iam_julie
    @iam_julie Před 9 měsíci

    I LOVED this episode!!! Can yall do more of these?! And also, how can I ask for advice for the next time yall do this?? Because I really need advice on this topic & I will take all 3 of yalls advice. Love you guys ❤❤

  • @user-qx8rg7ez1f
    @user-qx8rg7ez1f Před 9 měsíci +2

    I teared up when you guys were acknowledging how hard we have it as parents - I have 3 kids aged 5 and under and my life is chaotic but I love it. Thanks guys! 🩷🤍

  • @jasminegreen7985
    @jasminegreen7985 Před 9 měsíci

    This episode had me laughing so much! I love this podcast, you two are the best❤️❤️❤️

  • @trustmeimfabulous
    @trustmeimfabulous Před 2 dny

    About 10 years ago i realized my "best friend" really just wanted to be on the front row and the first to know everything in my life.
    Be careful who you trust.

  • @victoriap2
    @victoriap2 Před 9 měsíci +1

    loving the fits today fools 💕💕

  • @baileigh_davault
    @baileigh_davault Před 9 měsíci +3

    My peak: I'll have the house to myself for a bit tonight and most of tomorrow. My pit: I started my period today. The cramps freaking suck. Just binged a few episodes of the new season of Ragnarok on Netflix, so y'all posting came at a great time for a little break from that show. It's really good. A lot just goes down and it gets kinda intense at times.

  • @kimberlyanahi5860
    @kimberlyanahi5860 Před 9 měsíci +1

    the mics are giving!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @mommyholly7073
    @mommyholly7073 Před 25 dny

    Laura should be a motivational coach. I’ve never heard advice said in the ways she says it about motivation and life and it’s never clicked for me in 29 years like when she talks about it!

  • @juliaaaaaaaaaa1997
    @juliaaaaaaaaaa1997 Před 9 měsíci

    Eeeep I am never this early I love it I kept checking all day for this.

  • @RAS_KAS
    @RAS_KAS Před 9 měsíci +3

    "my orifices are going through the gigs" I'm dying 😂😂

  • @annalamarre7678
    @annalamarre7678 Před 9 měsíci

    This was an awesome episode y’all had me laughing the entire time!!! And you’ve inspired me to really buckle down and try to save more money 😅 love y’all ❤

  • @ramosabigail00
    @ramosabigail00 Před 9 měsíci +3

    lemme tell about my families’ and i bdays 😂
    my mom - june 14
    my older sister - june 16
    my brother - june 19
    my niece - july 1
    my grandma - july 6
    mine - july 7
    my other niece - august 3
    my nephew - august 18
    my younger sister is in november and my dads is in december
    the financial STRESSSSS i get during the summer all bc of birthdays is definitely criminal😂 four children in a family is definitely too much💀

  • @joanpeters9580
    @joanpeters9580 Před 9 měsíci

    You two are friend goals

  • @alexafleming6198
    @alexafleming6198 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Not Manny saying my favorite quote as a therapist... "feelings are not facts!" Yes, I love Manny even more.

  • @Kel9139
    @Kel9139 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Y’all talking about the kids was SO DAMN FUNNY. Mom of one, so I feel you. I always wanted more though but I didn’t work out. That was so damn funny to me though! 😅❤

  • @jocelia4622
    @jocelia4622 Před 9 měsíci

    Hello. Good Evening Laura & family & Manny 💞💞 Happy Friday 💞💞 love you all 💞💞

  • @cynthiaquintero8456
    @cynthiaquintero8456 Před 9 měsíci

    The feedback on this video was amazing!

  • @isauraberrios-sd3uo
    @isauraberrios-sd3uo Před 9 měsíci +1

    Omg I laughed sooo hard in the beginning I spit my water out! 😂😂😂😂

  • @aprilowens9880
    @aprilowens9880 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Laura said if she had 4 kids no birthdays or Christmas lmao😂 love u Laura. Love seeing new podcasts and vlogs from u and manny ❤

  • @amberforbes4286
    @amberforbes4286 Před 9 měsíci

    Laura’s sound effects kill me! 😂😂 I love it 😂

  • @trustmeimfabulous
    @trustmeimfabulous Před 2 dny

    My father-in-law always said "opinions are like assholes, everybody's got one"😂😂 1:08:21

  • @lifeasjazzy5283
    @lifeasjazzy5283 Před 9 měsíci

    Laura, you look gorgeous in this video & your outfit girl 😍😍😍 love you both!!

  • @lorent19
    @lorent19 Před 9 měsíci

    Good episode

  • @lauraandrade6769
    @lauraandrade6769 Před 9 měsíci

    Happy Friday fools !!!❤

  • @Mkriley2006
    @Mkriley2006 Před 9 měsíci

    IT IS MY FAVORITE PODCAST!!!

  • @loubnaaitbelkacem8650
    @loubnaaitbelkacem8650 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Me in the talking stage to a man I just met:
    Am actually looking for something serious.
    Him: 16:39

  • @rachelrozalyn
    @rachelrozalyn Před 9 měsíci

    You guys should have a clips channel. Some of these one liners killllll me 😂 love this podcast so much!

  • @melissa1234183
    @melissa1234183 Před 7 měsíci

    Can we just say that Laura’s outfit is SLAYINGGGG!! 🔥🔥

  • @legendkilla3rd
    @legendkilla3rd Před 9 měsíci

    My husband and I have been together for going on 25 years,we got together when we were teenagers. There's times when we co-exist and there"s times when we are co dependent with each other. It fluctuates.There's loyalty, trust,and love for each other no matter what❤

  • @alexisv.8435
    @alexisv.8435 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Working and busting your ass off at work non stop THEN coming home to a HARDER JOB is wild to me. I have a son & I consider myself the best mom so it’s fkn HARD! And giiiiiirl when you’re SICK, I literally wanna cry all day because as a momma YOU CANT BE SICK!! It’s wild af, I’m still shook 😂

  • @karlamaxine6968
    @karlamaxine6968 Před 9 měsíci

    Feelings are not Facts.
    I like that. Learned something new.

  • @janedoherty4468
    @janedoherty4468 Před 9 měsíci

    Manny using your powders as I am watching this. The pink and light powders. They are freaking perfection!!!!! Obsessed!!!

  • @larrywayne6254
    @larrywayne6254 Před 9 měsíci +2

    30 days into survivor and Manny becomes Bear Manny, his final form, lol

  • @kikys1173
    @kikys1173 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Thank you for acknowledging the 2nd shift..It’s hard but I wouldn’t change it for anything ❤(mommy of 3)

  • @michellemacias4601
    @michellemacias4601 Před 9 měsíci +1

    23:09 the gasp 🤣 guys until you truly want a family you won’t understand but it’s not that difficult to understand. Being a parent is the best gift in the world❤️ right now you live for yourself, when you have kids you live for them. So nothing you do for them is a hassle or impossible.