ASMR Asking You Very Personal Questions 🤭🦋

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  • čas přidán 20. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 184

  • @obx..
    @obx.. Před 4 měsíci +209

    ocean is the BEST asmrtist on this app and the best asmr creator I have ever come across.Her effort in all her video + her attention to detail is outstanding.We see you ocean and we appreciate you 🫶🏼

  • @victoriaroygonzalez8449
    @victoriaroygonzalez8449 Před 4 měsíci +15

    The personal question videos should become a serie, I love the tingly sounds of the writing! Thanks for this relaxing video!

  • @moonie2795
    @moonie2795 Před 4 měsíci +13

    ocean, you talking about your nightmares is SOOOOO REAL. i especially had them bad when i quit smoking and quit weed. and because of that, when i was having bad anxiety & depression, they were even worse. also when my diet was different. it led to bad intrusive thoughts w me which i still struggle with. i think sometimes they might be unexplainable, but im so sorry you’re going through that. i rlly hope they can get better for you. definitely see someone about them if you’re feeling unsafe to sleep, i sure wish i did !!

  • @mariahmaqueira8766
    @mariahmaqueira8766 Před 4 měsíci +79

    I just opened CZcams and saw you posted!! Thank you for the time and energy you put into your channel. Your seashells appreciate you!❤

  • @SoftLightASMR
    @SoftLightASMR Před 4 měsíci +41

    I adore how you manage to integrate the ambient sounds into the video. Somehow, that makes things even more relaxing.

  • @charismuirhead1895
    @charismuirhead1895 Před 4 měsíci +14

    1. Last year was a learning experience
    2. Friendships
    3. Summer with my bsf
    4. Yes
    5. Not taking gym seriously and actually drink more water and prioritise self care
    6. My kindness and willingness to help others
    7. It takes nothing to be kind so therefore set realistic expectations for others but yet again not everyone has the same heart
    8. Making plans
    9. I communicate well
    10. Yes 🙌
    11. I get jealous
    12. Regret - caring too much what others think and thinking that everyone has good intentions when they don’t
    13. Yes I take people at face value now
    14. Yes I hope I can have kids in the future
    15. 3
    16. My manners and respect I have for others
    17. Kindess gets rewarded, manners cost nothing. You can tell me anything
    18. Somewhat yes
    19. I fell asleep

  • @isabel833
    @isabel833 Před 4 měsíci +83

    Timestamped questions
    1:47 Going into the new year how do you feel about last year? How did your 2023 go?
    2:10 If there were areas that could have gone better give some examples
    2:35 Your worth is never defined by a number💗
    3:41 Whats your favourite memory of 2023? Big or small?
    4:45 With a friend? Are you still friends?
    4:59 Is there anything you really want to stop going into 2024? What bad habits are you hoping to stop?
    5:34 Based on the past year what’s a trait you saw in yourself that you liked, and wished you saw more?
    6:05 How do you feel about how you will see other people (will you stop putting unrealistic expectations on people?)
    7:24 Do you think that you’re a good communicator?
    7:34 Do you communicate those expectations with your friends? Do you do it overtly or internally?
    9:48 What is something that you regret doing last year? Something you wished you hadn’t done?
    10:20 Do you think you learned something from that experience?
    10:41 Do you think you’d ever have kids? (if you don’t already)
    11:02 How many kids?
    11:09 What are some things that you would carry through in parenting that your parents did with you? (Values, routines etc)
    11:56 What are some things that you wouldn’t teaching your children based on how you grew up (Ocean won’t tell💗)
    12:40 Are your parents still together?
    13:02 Do you think that based on some of your household confrontation thats why your such a good communicator now?
    13:29 Is it because confrontation gives you anxiety? (Ouch accurate)
    14:10 In terms of a partner, would you want to have kids by yourself or with a partner?
    15:03 What are some qualities you would want in a partner (must haves!!)
    15:25 Are you someone who thinks whats on the inside matters more or the outside (no judgement💗)
    15:45 If you place a lot of emphasis on looks, do you feel guilty for that? And do you think that makes you put more effort into how you look and your appearance.
    16:40 Do you think that if you met someone and you didnt meet their expectations, would you change yourself for them? Or vice versa would you expect them to change for you?
    17:43 Have you ever got any work done before? (Botox? Plastic surgery?)
    18:16 What your favourite thing about yourself right now? (Within the last month)
    18:35 What are some adventurous things you have done?
    18:48 What is one food you can’t stand? Is that because of the texture or memories
    19:59 What’s one smell that makes you think of a really happy memory?
    20:32 Are you vegetarian? (Or do you have any dietary restrictions/preferences)
    21:12 Do you think you would ever change your diet for any reason?
    21:49 Do you find that you have a shorter attention shap due to tiktok or instagram reels or youtube shorts?
    22:10 Does it scare you for your future if you have a shorter attention span or that your kids might?
    23:27 Would you ever want fame? Fortune or fame?
    24:22 (Sleeping habit section)
    24:39 Have you veen having a lot of nightmares refently? Many dreams?
    24:49 When you have dreams are you able to remember them in detail?
    25:53 No more questions💗💗
    Sorry if some of these timestamps are off this is the first time i’ve ever done this.
    Thank you Ocean for blessing us once again with amazing content💗💗

  • @BigMe3
    @BigMe3 Před 4 měsíci +230

    TABLE OF CONTENTS:
    1. Timestamps🐻
    2. Blank space🐨
    3. Bedtime checklist🐰
    4. Little games (with answers)🐤
    5. Message from me🐣
    6. Extra stuff🐥
    🐼TIMESTAMPS🐼
    ~ Animal themed bc why not ~
    1:47 - Going into the new year how do you feel about last year, How did your 2023 go? 🦢
    2:10 - If there were areas that could have gone better give some examples🐱
    2:35 - Your worth is never defined by a number🐧
    3:41 - Whats your favorite memory of 2023? (Big or small?) 🐸
    4:45 - With a friend Are u still friends?🐻
    4:59 - Is there anything you really want to stop going into 2024, What bad habits are u hoping to stop?🐯
    5:34 - Based on the past year whats a trait you saw in yourself that u liked, and wish you saw more?🐶
    6:05 - How do u feel about how you will see other people (Will you stop putting unrealistic expectations on people?) 🐵
    7:24 - Do you think that your a good communicator?🦝
    7:34 - Do you communicate thise expectations with your friends, Do you do it overtly or internally? 🦊
    9:48 - What is something that you regret doing last year, somthing you wished you had not done?🐷
    10:20 - Do you think you learned something from that experience?🐻‍❄️
    10:41 - Do you think you'd ever have kids (if you dont already)🐱
    11:02 - How many kids🐷
    11:09 - What are some things that would carry through in parenting that your parents did to you? ( Values, routines,etc)🐨
    11:56 - What are some things that you would not teach your children based on how you grew up (ofc Ocean wont tell🐻)
    12:40 - Are your parents still together?🦁
    13:02 - Do you think that based on some of your household confrontation thats why your such a good communicator now? 🐶
    13:29 - Is it because confrontation gives you anxiety?(very accurate)🐮
    14:10 - In terms of a partner, would you want to have kids by yourself or with a partner?🐼
    15:03 - What are some qualities you would want in a partner (must haves 🦁)
    15:25 - Are you someone who thinks whats on the insides matters more or the outside (ofc no judgement) 🐷
    15:45 - If you place a lot of emphasis on looks, do you feel guilty for that, and do u think that makes you put more effort into how u look and your appearance🐶
    16:40 - Do you think that if you met someone and yiu didnt meet their expectations, would u change yourself for them, Or vice versa would you expect them to change for you?🐸
    17:43 - Have you ever got any work done before? (Botox, plastic surgery, lip filler)🐰
    18:16 - Whats your favorite thing about your self right now? ( within the last month🐱)
    18:35 - What are some adventurous things you have done?🐵
    18:48 - What is one food you cannot stand, is it because of the texture or memories?🦊
    19:59 - What is one smell that makes you think of a really happy memory?🐶
    20:32 - Are you vegetarian? (Or do you have any dietary restrictions/preferences?🐰
    21:12 - Do you think you would ever change your diet for any reason?🦁
    21:49 - Do you find that you have a shorter attention shap due to tiktok or instagram reels or youtube shorts?🦝
    22:10 - Does it scare you for your future if you have a shorter attention span or that your kids might?🐮
    23:27 - Would you ever want fame or fortune?🐯
    24:22 - (Sleeping havit section)🐻
    24:39 - Have you been havin a lot of nightmares refently? Or many dreams?🐣
    24:49 - When you have dreams are you abke to remember them in detail?🐢
    25:53 - No more questions (sweet dreams seashells❤❤)
    🐨BLANK SPACE🐨
    (for those who need it)
    🐼BEDTIME CHECKLIST🐼
    Have you:
    - turned off any lights?🐣
    - fed any pets?🐤
    - maintain streaks (snapchat, duolingo, etc)?🐥
    - turned off autoplay?🐻
    - said goodnight to loved ones?🐰
    - showered?🐶
    - done your nightly routine (if u have one)?🐱
    - brushed your teeth?🦊
    - brushed your hair (if u have any)?🦝
    - journaled/refleced on the day (if u usually do; if not, you should maybe start!)?🐮
    - eaten enough?🐷
    🐭LITTLE GAMES🐭
    Message unscrambler: uyo rdesvee lal ogod hisgtn 🐻‍❄️
    Riddle: what month has 28 days?🐨
    Joke: I went to a zoo and saw a baguette in a cage.🐰
    Find the 🐰
    🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️
    🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️
    🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️
    🐻‍❄️🐰🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️🐻‍❄️
    🐼Answers:
    Message: you deserve all good things🐨
    Riddle: all of them!🐻
    Joke: ait was bread in captivity.🐰
    Find: 4th row 2 no.🐶
    🐸MESSAGE FROM ME🐸
    You are worthy of all the good things I KNOW are coming your way. You will get where you want to be, whether you're there already, or u still have a ways to go. You deserve joy. You are not a burden. You are beautiful, radiant, luminous and special. You have beauty inside and out. I know a message from a random stranger on the internet may seem insignificant and meaningless, but i truly mean all thay i am saying. I love you. If you need someone to talk to, i can always check the replies

    • @hurtbyemmy
      @hurtbyemmy Před 4 měsíci +2

      did you copy mine in another video?

    • @justanotherperson4153
      @justanotherperson4153 Před 4 měsíci +12

      ​@hurtbyemmy I think a few people are doing it. Even if this one is copying, I would take that as a compliment. Thank you everyone who puts the time and effort into making these/spreading the love.

    • @dimitrabolani
      @dimitrabolani Před 4 měsíci +2

      thank youuuuuu

    • @Dorrywww
      @Dorrywww Před 4 měsíci +2

      omg tysmmm

    • @BigMe3
      @BigMe3 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@hurtbyemmy no i did not copy yours this took alot of my time to make this comment for other people but if u think i am i could just take this comment off

  • @tinaconn3989
    @tinaconn3989 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I used to study dreams as a hobby so I am no expert. When you have nightmares it is normally trying to force you to deal with a problem/situation in your life that you are burying rather than trying to deal with. I hope that your nightmares stop soon. I think that your best way forward would be to speak to a counsellor or therapist to get to the root of what is happening. xx

  • @noraaaaa
    @noraaaaa Před 4 měsíci +561

    have u been using a different mic? it’s so clear

    • @princesschimmy
      @princesschimmy Před 4 měsíci +120

      I was thinking the same thing! It sounds so clicky and clear

    • @rosa128_
      @rosa128_ Před 4 měsíci +39

      i know what you mean it sounds really crisp

    • @agatha9286
      @agatha9286 Před 4 měsíci +26

      maybe she got one for christmas!!❤

    • @jolie9034
      @jolie9034 Před 4 měsíci +14

      yeah I noticed that too

    • @JamiJason
      @JamiJason Před 4 měsíci +17

      It’s so good so kwispy 🙏

  • @Uer2929
    @Uer2929 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I love this ocean!!! Its so so clicky and brain melting!, your definitely my all time favourite ASMRtist, love you lots ocean!!!

  • @wonderfullyluna
    @wonderfullyluna Před 4 měsíci +19

    I absolutely love your hair! The color is spectacular, you’re stunning! Also, got tingles within the first 30 seconds omgg, perfection as always, Ocean! 💐 🎀

  • @telitubbies_4life
    @telitubbies_4life Před 4 měsíci +3

    Your asmr is always so tingly and relaxing. And i hope you are doing well!❤
    Thank you for giving us this amazing video!

  • @Lololacool
    @Lololacool Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love your videos. The mouth sounds in the personal care role plays and the layering sound affects are amazing

  • @kevandanc
    @kevandanc Před 4 měsíci +6

    love these sort of videos to have in the backround. And with the nightmares I totally understand I always think of the worst ways of dying and I have been getting help for months now but hopefully like me your situation gets better. Lots of love to the best ASMRtist

  • @miaantonia6551
    @miaantonia6551 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thankful for you and your videos gal. Have a safe and happy new year 🖤✨

  • @meredithwilliams1687
    @meredithwilliams1687 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Thankful for the stress relief Ocean provides!!!

  • @rameyza_elya
    @rameyza_elya Před 4 měsíci +40

    I'm the type of person who gets carried away easily and when I watch Asmr like this seeing Ocean asking me personal questions makes me feel like I have a close connection with Ocean🥺💗. I don't know if it's just me but I think a lot of sea shells here feel that way too🐚✨️. And I consider Ocean my bestie or friend on CZcams, even since I discovered his channel🫶♥️. Yes, she is my favorite Asmrtist who is always in my heart♡ who always helps me relax♡, makes me and my day always feel comfortable♡ and yes helps me with many things💗💘 even though I haven't had the chance to meet face to face with Ocean but asmr videos like this really bring real vibes like I'm there in front of Ocean and she asked me a personal question🥰💗🩷. Yes sorry I really talk a lot when I type a comment😭 I just can't help but type a lot of comments because Ocean is sooo sweet omg I just always love him🥹💘 and I can't stop being amazed at how stunningly beautiful she is🦋. Ocean if you are reading this here I am telling you what I felt when watching your very great and truly perfect Asmr content video💖🩷💖🩷💖

  • @tarobunsasmr
    @tarobunsasmr Před 4 měsíci +4

    omg your hair, your nails, your top, everything looks so nice!! ❤

  • @cosmicchel
    @cosmicchel Před 4 měsíci +13

    Thank you ocean. I decided to resign from my job today and it has been an emotional roller coaster, your voice just makes everything better 💞

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  Před 4 měsíci +9

      great things are coming it’s a new journeyq❤

  • @Hannahvannessa
    @Hannahvannessa Před 4 měsíci +10

    Dear Ocean I hope you're doing amazing and having the best day! I just wanted to thank you for always being here for us and me and being my all time friend even in hard times!❤❤

  • @Sandee_Owen
    @Sandee_Owen Před 4 měsíci +9

    I love the sound of pencil writing on paper. This is a great video!

  • @aliceboudin154
    @aliceboudin154 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I wish you’d know how much you’ve helped me and my sleep anxiety. my life has changed since I’ve discovered your videos and for the better, thank you ❤

  • @LlSanrio
    @LlSanrio Před 4 měsíci +66

    Dear ocean, u have been more than just my all time favourite asmrtist I have been A VERY important person because ur so calming. You have helped me on October because I got a traumatic concussion u we’re calming and still is but I just want u to know that u love and u have been such and important person for me
    We love You Ocean !!!!!!🫶🏼🫶🏼💗💗💓

  • @prabhjeet6741
    @prabhjeet6741 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Ive been waiting for a personal questions vid for soo long and her hair is soooooo pretty ❤❤😊

  • @itsleti_com
    @itsleti_com Před 4 měsíci +4

    Loved that you included your personal answer in some questions 🫶🏻🩷🩷🩷

  • @corycorabora
    @corycorabora Před 4 měsíci +2

    i always love these question asking asmrs n ocean did a really good one i luv all ur content keep doing what u do

  • @marinwark
    @marinwark Před 4 měsíci +2

    Yay! I love these kinds of videos❤

  • @irochkazalevska9086
    @irochkazalevska9086 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Hi, love your asmr videos 😍 thanks for posting

  • @bynewmoon3700
    @bynewmoon3700 Před 4 měsíci +5

    i also had a violent nightmare this week and i think it’s bc everything going on in the world is affecting me emotionally cause i’m very empathetic and sensitive to stuff but i totally get what you’re saying , i’ve woken up crying and feeling real emptiness and pain in my nightmares

  • @emmaelmer8708
    @emmaelmer8708 Před 4 měsíci +2

    i have been waiting so long for a video like this!!

  • @melisssssssss
    @melisssssssss Před 4 měsíci +2

    this is a really specific trigger but i love the way you say „okay“ sometimes u pronounce it like „okuay“ hahahaha i cant explain but i find it soo tingly

  • @burrit01
    @burrit01 Před 4 měsíci +2

    immediate tingles in the first ten seconds! amazing :D

  • @Avneet_3
    @Avneet_3 Před 4 měsíci +2

    ILYSM OCEAN!!

  • @The_SwiftieSlayQueen
    @The_SwiftieSlayQueen Před 4 měsíci +1

    When I watch ASMR I expect someone who can comfort me, make me laugh at parts that are funny, and to give me tingles( which I love) when needed, that is the what Ocean does and we appreciate you so much! Love you and I will support you no matter what!❤😊

  • @teddythecat1
    @teddythecat1 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This is so good! Thanks!

  • @ellanobles4976
    @ellanobles4976 Před 4 měsíci +2

    i love you ocean❤your videos are so amazing❤❤❤

  • @flowersforal
    @flowersforal Před 4 měsíci +5

    Amaaazing video, the rhythm of your speech is just so relaxing to me and it felt like a nice chat.
    On the topic of your dreams-Dying in them usually crops up around key points in life when you’re experiencing big changes. Drowning in specific, since you mentioned that, can be related to having a lot of responsibilities and feeling like you’re losing time or people to all the things you have to do.
    Your brain uses sleep and dreaming as a way to process your emotions, heal, and convert memories into long-term-So when you have these dreams, think about things that can be symbolic (like dogs meaning loyalty and that sort of thing), think about the events that have been happening in your life. Maybe there are some issues you haven’t addressed properly and you need to feel them better in your real, waking life.
    Sorry for such a long comment!! I hope you get to feeling and sleeping better, thank you for all that you do 💖

  • @goodvibrations999
    @goodvibrations999 Před 4 měsíci +4

    i dont usually comment, i just want to say that i love your videos 💕 they’re so relaxing and also entertaining!

  • @Lexibellington
    @Lexibellington Před 4 měsíci +4

    Loved this video! I actually answered all the questions in my head lol😊

  • @fancyasmrbya
    @fancyasmrbya Před 4 měsíci

    Hi gorgeous! From someone whose been getting into filming asmr to THE QUEEN of it I just wanted to say ur so inspirational. Your always consistent and always there posting so often. That’s why I’ve watched every single video of yours!! Thank you for doing what you do girl and ILYYY❤️❤️💌💌🤍 also ur business is amazing so proud of you and how far you’ve come

  • @Justrandomellavlogs
    @Justrandomellavlogs Před 4 měsíci

    Seriously the best Asmrtist in this platform. I love seeing the notification in my notifications center. That ocean POSTED ahh here for it🤍🫶🏻

  • @nelynels
    @nelynels Před 4 měsíci +1

    very random but watching this made me realise just how much you've come to feel like a friend over the years. i've been watching since 2019 and am turning 20 soon, and its been such a joy to grow up with you. seeing your happiness with your new guy is so wonderful (i'm british too!), i hope you continue to flourish in 2024. and have fun in greece omg!!!! i've been a few times, its a cat filled haven.

  • @alrrenner25
    @alrrenner25 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Ohhhhh yesssss this is amazing 😍😍😍😍

  • @xodanni
    @xodanni Před 4 měsíci

    i love these type of videos so much

  • @llamabubbles9113
    @llamabubbles9113 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Omg I'm early!!! Ocean your videos are amazing- I've been following you for a few years now and I love how much effort and care you put into your videos and your seashells ❤ I think you are so inspiring and I love how you bring light to the fact that the real life for influencers is never like it is on the full screen and you openly talk about mental health and your journey. I wish you the best ❤

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  Před 4 měsíci +2

      i’m just a lil seashell too ❤🥹

  • @allizzle
    @allizzle Před 4 měsíci +10

    i can be having the worst day and then ocean post's and i'm instantly better

  • @littlebearsasmr4630
    @littlebearsasmr4630 Před 4 měsíci +2

    My best life tip to try this year is to not have scales in your house. My partner always fixated on their weight but are much happier now they can't check it constantly ❤ hope this helps someone

  • @kaicenatxcaspar
    @kaicenatxcaspar Před 4 měsíci

    You are such a underrated asmrtist! 💕

  • @moonlight__n
    @moonlight__n Před 4 měsíci +2

    OMGGG YOU'RE SOO PRETTYY HUHU, it's like you get prettier each times 😮‍💨

  • @coleenbeaugendre4900
    @coleenbeaugendre4900 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Your voice is so beautiful !! 🙂

  • @lilyphillips9617
    @lilyphillips9617 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Omg I love being early to your videos 🙈 and this is perfect timing, am this is exactly what I need to go to sleep 😁

  • @jolie9034
    @jolie9034 Před 4 měsíci

    uuu the nails are so pretty!!

  • @Javster
    @Javster Před 4 měsíci +2

    You helped me sleep. Thank you

  • @bestieno5740
    @bestieno5740 Před 4 měsíci +3

    whoa the audio in this video was so tingly and like crackly (in the best way) if that makes sense!

  • @Wh4tdOYoUWaNt
    @Wh4tdOYoUWaNt Před 4 měsíci +3

    I love your videos so much ocean you always help me to relax , happy 2024💖💖

  • @marleyaddsomemoore
    @marleyaddsomemoore Před 4 měsíci +4

    24:24 girl it IS something in the air i swear i've been having sooo many nightmares lately!! thank goodness for this channel; otherwise i wouldn't be getting to sleep 😅

  • @katescheiderich226
    @katescheiderich226 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Omg! I hopped on just as you posted (it literally said posted 34 seconds ago😂) I love your videos so much!!

  • @reginacarrillo4639
    @reginacarrillo4639 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love how some are very personal questions but I would answer them bc I feel like ocean would really keep a secret. Also loved the video. Very relaxing ❤️

  • @pien9690
    @pien9690 Před 4 měsíci

    I love that little teal notebook bc it reminds me of the sleep clinic video that you made a few years ago 💙💙 It was one of the first videos i saw from you 🥰🥰

  • @tahlsx605
    @tahlsx605 Před 4 měsíci +7

    The nightmares can be because of anxiety and stress in waking life, also can be medication side effects or even things like depression and PTSD. Definitely talk through it with someone, and do know that your nightmares are not real, they a reflection of what is happening or going to happen to you or those you love. It is scary but know you are safe. Try some meditation before bed, or things that help you eliminate stress. Hope you feel better soon, and as usual, your videos are the best.

  • @evabernardi10
    @evabernardi10 Před 4 měsíci +26

    Blank space for anyone who needs it❤
    Sleep well ml💕thank you for the amazing video ocean lysm

    • @breezyb5536
      @breezyb5536 Před 4 měsíci

      The blank spaces are always so nice thank u ❤

    • @minecraftgamer-uw1uc
      @minecraftgamer-uw1uc Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@breezyb5536always been curious what they are for?:)))

  • @monochromedream-eatingbaku
    @monochromedream-eatingbaku Před 4 měsíci +14

    I am not a therapist yet, I am a student of psychology in my second year, and I have experience with social work. Just putting that out there, if anyone more experienced and more knowledgable than me is watching, feel free to tear me to shreds if I'm wrong.
    Regarding the nightmares: that sounds kinda like night terrors. The average person has a nightmare afaik like once or twice a week. If you are having them more frequently, that itself is a bit concerning. However, the fact that your nightmares are so realistic and clearly impact your quality of life is what is worrying me. I will not pretend that I know what exactly your specific problem is, however, your experience is similar to mine, with the difference that I have had chronic night terrors like that since I was a toddler and suffer from Nightmare Disorder. Nightmare Disorder is characterised by nightmares that impact your quality of life, make you fear falling asleep, cause negative feelings that follow you throughout the day, and occur more frequently than is normal.
    Last time I was researching this, it was said that the nightmares or night terrors tend to be so realistic that those afflicted have problems with telling what was a nightmare and what is a memory, as it is in my case (frequently, I have to ask people if X or Y is still alive because they died in a nightmare I had eg two days ago and I can't figure out if it was a nightmare or a memory), but rn I can't find anything about that so perhaps it isn't necessary.
    Nightmare Disorder is more common in people with PTSD, people suffering from depression, people with Generalised Anxiety Disorder, people with Social Anxiety Disorder, also in schizophrenic people and uuuh I believe one study said something about either ADHD or autism? Unsure about that one though, take it with a grain of salt. Such nightmares can occur for anyone who is experiencing stress or a generally low mood though, but nonetheless it isn't something you want to ignore. I am not sure how the medical system works in the US, but you definitely need to talk to someone about it. It is possible that what you are experiencing is not caused by anything long-term and that perhaps you are simply too stressed, but it is also possible that there is something deeper going on that might need to be addressed for a longer period of time.
    Either way, because at one point in the video you sounded like you might feel like the nightmares are some kind of moral failing on your part, I'd like to say that no matter what is happening in your nightmares, it isn't indicative of who you are, ok? Both intrusive thoughts and nightmares prey on our fears, and if you ever get a nightmare where you are responsible for someone's death, it doesn't mean that you secretly wish for their death and it doesn't mean that you would ever be capable of causing it. All it might mean is that you are terrified of the possibility of this person's death and that you care about them. It doesn't say anything about your moral character. The nightmares are not your fault, their content is not you and doesn't say anything about you.
    With that being said, you really do need to talk to a primary care physician and later hopefully a psychiatrist about it. Or a psychologist. I am...not entirely sure about how it works in the US.

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  Před 4 měsíci +13

      i really appreciate you taking the time to write all of this woah❤ maybe i have nightmare disorder i’m not sure but you’re right definitely worth talking to someone because they are scary and not normal this frequently

    • @haileyhowson8350
      @haileyhowson8350 Před 4 měsíci

      man my nightmares feel so stupid. but i rarely remember dreams, or even am conscious of the fact i dreamt. it feels dreamless 90% of the time. one dream i remember was snuggling pedro pascal and that was fantastic. dream pedro is very warm and comfy, if anyone is wondering 😂

    • @monochromedream-eatingbaku
      @monochromedream-eatingbaku Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@haileyhowson8350 Yeah people very often forget their dreams and nightmares. We all dream, but we quickly forget a lot of our dreams. Afaik it also depends on what stage of sleep you are in when you wake up

  • @i.luv.obx_11
    @i.luv.obx_11 Před 4 měsíci +3

    hello! i loved this ❤

  • @tashar4523
    @tashar4523 Před 4 měsíci +1

    she looks so unbelievably beautiful i was in awe the whole video

  • @ssoft_girll_
    @ssoft_girll_ Před 4 měsíci +1

    I lovee this😫❤️❤️

  • @zuziasmr
    @zuziasmr Před 4 měsíci +4

    Tingles in the first second!

  • @queensbedumb
    @queensbedumb Před 4 měsíci +4

    Love your nails!!!!!!

  • @kateturner8124
    @kateturner8124 Před 4 měsíci +19

    i’m obsessed with the sound quality in your recent videos!! idk if anything has changed but it sounds so crisp and tingly ❤

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  Před 4 měsíci +9

      it’s the same but yayyy hahah

  • @summermullins6029
    @summermullins6029 Před 4 měsíci +6

    ahh. just in time for a rainy day nap, thanks for being amazing ocean 🩵

    • @agatha9286
      @agatha9286 Před 4 měsíci

      on a rainy day? my favorite❤

  • @RamenGirlASMR
    @RamenGirlASMR Před 4 měsíci +3

    Happy NEW YEAR 🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊 💙 ❤️ ♥️ 😍 💙

  • @koelianimation
    @koelianimation Před 4 měsíci

    I totally relate to setting unrealistic expectations for others: in 2023 I realized that I was always like "I give this much time to people so why won't they also do this for me", but I was actually burning myself out, so I was also expecting people to do too much. It's still hard to really integrate but I try to keep it in mind to be less disappointed by others and also say no myself when I need too

  • @theyyluvvmae
    @theyyluvvmae Před 4 měsíci

    ilysm ocean🤍🤍

  • @Michele-jv4jl
    @Michele-jv4jl Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love you ocean❤beautiful voice🥰😍

  • @livloveslogs7092
    @livloveslogs7092 Před 4 měsíci

    ocean you are the only you tuber I watch. every single day.

  • @rosemerrett2880
    @rosemerrett2880 Před 4 měsíci +2

    You're so gorgeous it hurts

  • @loannrabemihoatra
    @loannrabemihoatra Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are always so good looking it’s so pleasing

  • @Flower-Haven
    @Flower-Haven Před 4 měsíci +4

    Speaking of random questions, do you guys have the Girl Scout Cookie & Native collab in Canada? I instantly thought of you when I heard about it

  • @liszandraechavarria9293
    @liszandraechavarria9293 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I've been missing asmr videos so bad but even tho my ear is in pain I still need ocean video to help me sleep

    • @Laura-qy7rc
      @Laura-qy7rc Před 4 měsíci

      Oh no, I hope your ear gets better soon! We need asmr haha

  • @user-sw7ss9mj2q
    @user-sw7ss9mj2q Před 4 měsíci +2

    Early! Love your vids! What's your fav non asmr CZcamsr?

  • @barbequesauce161
    @barbequesauce161 Před 4 měsíci +3

    my jaw dropped at 5:56 because i actually said generosity 😭

  • @AURORA-mv2wl
    @AURORA-mv2wl Před 4 měsíci +3

    you look like if Reneé Rapp had a prettier twin oml

  • @Purple_boba69
    @Purple_boba69 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I love your asmr and did u end up bleaching your hair

  • @lyndsielarson6309
    @lyndsielarson6309 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I love your nails and hair and you are so pretty

  • @ElibethASMR
    @ElibethASMR Před 4 měsíci

    Idk what it is but yu look ✨extra✨ gorgeous

  • @smittenwithkittens870
    @smittenwithkittens870 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I just wanted to be the 100th comment 🥰love your videos ocean

  • @ZackyASMR
    @ZackyASMR Před 4 měsíci +2

    Hi oceans ❤❤

  • @user-hn3mp5qt8j
    @user-hn3mp5qt8j Před 4 měsíci +2

    My answer was salmon too!

  • @juliap-h3286
    @juliap-h3286 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I prefer this shape nails rather than the square ones just my opinion tho 💕

  • @Love4kpop892
    @Love4kpop892 Před 4 měsíci

    I love you Ocean

  • @user-su6qb6gx9h
    @user-su6qb6gx9h Před 4 měsíci +2

    Small universe (❤)= big universe ( budas)

  • @Sarahlovely88
    @Sarahlovely88 Před 4 měsíci

    looks like u can be reese witherspoons little sis 😊 ur both so pretty. nice video ❤ very soothing.

  • @booklover74
    @booklover74 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Hi ocean❤

  • @BrianF-gd4wo
    @BrianF-gd4wo Před 4 měsíci

    Dear ocean you look cute in your outfit and I like your blonde hair color looks cute on you and you did a great job on this video and have a great day ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Happy 2024 Ocean!

  • @thaisnt_
    @thaisnt_ Před 4 měsíci +2

    I've also been having really intense nightmares which is weird

  • @sierranicole2254
    @sierranicole2254 Před 4 měsíci +5

    "Do you want kids"
    "No absolutely not"
    "So yes to kids then, how many?"
    "MAM WHAT!" haha
    I still love this video and always appreciate the timea nd effort you put into them.

  • @helengraced
    @helengraced Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Ocean, I never comment but I just wanted to say that I hope your nightmares go away bc they sound terrifying :( you always light up my day and feel like a friend to me even though we don’t talk haha. Anyways I hope things get better!! 🫶🏻💕

  • @user-wz2sw7tc9v
    @user-wz2sw7tc9v Před 4 měsíci

    Ocean what a coincidence…. We’re wearing the same beautiful necklace!

  • @ameliabarra
    @ameliabarra Před 4 měsíci +1

    Not me being here to calm down right after watching a dance tutorial that made me sweat like never before😂