Interracial Dating- Black Men React To Black Womens' Issues

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  • čas přidán 17. 01. 2019
  • Interracial dating is a hot-topic. Back women can have especially strong feelings about Black men dating women of other races. When high-profile men like Michael B. Jordan do it- there are feelings. We brought in a group of Black men to discuss and respond to the advice, commentary and wisdom offered from one of our episode of MadameNoire's conversation starting digital series Listen To Black Women. Lets see what the men had to say.
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  • @Telletell
    @Telletell Před 5 lety +2

    I wish black women would stop caring all together. I don’t even care when bm date out even if they say it’s “because (input stereotype).” It’s not my concerns and they’ve done me a great service even voicing that to me, because it’s even more apparent that they’re not for me. Black women have this ego about us as if someone owes themself to “the black community,” just because we choose to carry said “community” on our backs. Free yourself from them burdens, it’s obvious black men have. Date who you want to date, life is too short.

  • @kierrarichardson80
    @kierrarichardson80 Před 5 lety +180

    I don't think I really ever cared. Because I'm going to date whoever I want. I don't have anything against white women they do them...

  • @TheBlackIronFist843
    @TheBlackIronFist843 Před 5 lety +522

    That “love is love” crap is nonsense! It’s all about choices, I have a huge preference for black women, especially dark skin women if need be. But if I were to date out, it’s not because of that group of women are better, it’s because I chose to. Let’s be real, y’all bw/bm are so eager to date out that y’all will be willing to trash your own to seek validation. Those are the types I don’t like. Just shut up and date out.

  • @kaiqee
    @kaiqee Před 5 lety +768

    Date who you like, but dont dog us while you do it. Or compare us to other women saying they are better than us for whatever reason. I think the pain is in that attitude then anything else

  • @raiethefantibae
    @raiethefantibae Před 5 lety +380

    Whatever man. Date who you wanna date, just don’t bring anyone down when you do it. Your relationship won’t pay my bills at the end of the day🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Yaaspassions
    @Yaaspassions Před 5 lety +546

    I am a proud black woman who has learned to broaden my borders. It's simple, I love who loves me. My husband is a white latino who loves me for me. We must learn to take color out of the equation and just be open to love from wherever. I don't down black men for loving who they love, black or otherwise.

  • @demondwilliams7345
    @demondwilliams7345 Před 5 lety +432

    Nobody was checking for Michael B Jordan when he was on The Wire.

  • @jessicacatherine892
    @jessicacatherine892 Před 5 lety +257

    Theyre only doing it because its trending. Please lets stop giving this any oxygen. Let it die. Its 2019. Black women aint jealous no more.

  • @miniojw
    @miniojw Před 5 lety +300

    I have my BW and everything is great. The value of a BW is not fully understood until you find yourself one and get leveled up but that's just me.

  • @rodmandrake2101
    @rodmandrake2101 Před 5 lety +626

    this shows just how lost we are as a people. we are so quick join another tribe before we are willing to build our own.

  • @LadyK007
    @LadyK007 Před 5 lety +510

    How much longer will we discuss this topic?! It’s 2019. Everyone date who you want. Live and let others live!

  • @killacamron93
    @killacamron93 Před 5 lety +399

    The hatred for IR dating is all about ego to us (yes black men as well). I remember going to the bar and every black woman I tried to interact with rejected me, but the moment I successfully interacted with a white woman all hell broke loose. Nasty looks, assumed I suffered from self hatred, allat. I even experience this from work since I have different taste from everyone.

  • @Blodia1990
    @Blodia1990 Před 2 lety +78

    Black women, you don't belong to us. You've been by us throughout all our struggles. Date whoever treats you best and you're worthy of genuine love where you're not struggling nor are mistreated. You're desirable and men of all races love you.

  • @shanteg8770
    @shanteg8770 Před 5 lety +167

    Why are we still having this conversation??? ITs 2019. We really don’t care anymore.

  • @jrh4707
    @jrh4707 Před 5 lety +54

    Date who you want but don’t market to blk women.. market to the type of women you prefer.

  • @gajeel6
    @gajeel6 Před 5 lety +40

    I'm a 29yr old black man with no kids, pays all his bills and lives alone with 2 sources of income. I don't smoke, hardly ever drink and don't do clubs. I was "boring". Sistas overlooked me all the time. So I started dating outside my race. It wasn't until then that they started to notice me.

  • @milaniinalim3357
    @milaniinalim3357 Před 5 lety +235

    Black women are limiting themselves by not dating out of their race, love is everywhere as long as you’re willing to see outside your bubble and step outside of your comfort zone, there’s so much to learn and embrace!

  • @niseejay4803
    @niseejay4803 Před 4 lety +93

    I dont care who you date just dont degrade black women or look as if they are the lowest of the races. Alot of times black men will be with the black woman through the struggle, but when they become successful they get with a woman of a different race.

  • @conchobar
    @conchobar Před 5 lety +27

    Notice that you never see the top shelf black women complaining. I've yet to see or hear a 9 or 10 who was black complaining about this issue.

  • @Thomaskingsss
    @Thomaskingsss Před 4 lety +72

    Micheal b Jordan would of made it without black woman same goes to any other black actors so let’s stop that conversation