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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
  • A woman talks about how her and husband began scamming sugar daddies to make money to support themselves.
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Komentáře • 307

  • @HelloKittysFriend418
    @HelloKittysFriend418 Před 2 lety +66

    she only goes for married guys bc married men speaking to her=cheating, and cheating= morally wrong, so she's not the only one in the interaction doing something wrong

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Před 7 měsíci +3

      Same for the people in the comments. I actually find these women breathlessly defending her equally as pathetic. I thought we learned in 1st grade that stealing was wrong. Even if these are bad men then why is she the one who doles out punishment?
      If it was about doing what's right she would either give the money to the wives or donate it and then tell the wife what her husband is up to. She does neither, she just keeps the money.
      If I went o her house and robbed her at gunpoint would I be a good person? I'm just taking things she bought with stolen money so she doesn't deserve it either. There's no need for mental gymnastics, stealing is wrong no matter who's doing it and how noble they think they are.

  • @KaylaNoelle1
    @KaylaNoelle1 Před 2 lety +130

    I did this to a lesser extent with grown men who contacted me on Tumblr when I was 15-20. I probably wouldn’t have stopped but Tumblr died. I don’t feel bad either. They were creeps who targeted ME first for my youth and naïveté so I took their money. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @doodlesbe2495
      @doodlesbe2495 Před 2 lety +7

      More than likely she claimed she was 18+ the whole time

    • @weementaldavy5987
      @weementaldavy5987 Před 2 lety +5

      That's your excuse is it ? I can find a truer reason than that but my comment would be deleted .

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      @@lamma746 it’s crazy that it’s only men who think this is wrong. It’s just money. These men are cheating on their wives, but you’re man at her?

    • @nl-ho4wm
      @nl-ho4wm Před rokem +9

      if you took their money then you were not a poor targeted naive girl lol
      think for a better excuse next time

    • @SaidByTy
      @SaidByTy Před 2 měsíci

      @@nl-ho4wm Do you hear yourself? We’re talking about someone who was 15, 16, 17 years old in some of those instances. Yes she was absolutely targeted, and definitely naive cause we all are at that age.

  • @angielagou
    @angielagou Před 2 lety +66

    She tells married simps what they wanna hear and made some money. She owes her husband loyalty and hasent been disloyal so she should explain her position better I think. To me she’s kind of a private actress lmao! More power to her!!

    • @vivvpprof
      @vivvpprof Před 2 lety

      She's a scammer, a predator and an amoral human being. I shudder to think what society would look like with "more power" to individuals like that. She needs to get jailed very badly.

    • @angielagou
      @angielagou Před 2 lety +4

      I can see it that way but I can also bet she’s saved marriages…not all relationships r the same

    • @inutero10
      @inutero10 Před rokem +1

      Her deceit is illustrated in the title

    • @TheBeatle49
      @TheBeatle49 Před 18 dny

      Don't celebrate a dishonest person. One day you will find her hand in YOUR pocket.

  • @dackjanielsmeup
    @dackjanielsmeup Před 2 lety +229

    I don't think it's morally wrong. Married men cheating on their wives deserve a much worse punishment. Plus they are extremely predatory men who do not see an issue with treating a woman's body as something to be bought and sold.

    • @koaluanabunnies
      @koaluanabunnies Před 2 lety +25

      Honestly yeah, I'm half tempted to take notes ✍️🤔 haha

    • @shelbyg-washyourownbrain4542
      @shelbyg-washyourownbrain4542 Před 2 lety +7

      Exactly. Johns deserve this.

    • @jessicalightwarrior7276
      @jessicalightwarrior7276 Před 2 lety +4

      But giving into their predations just validates their predations. Don't do it. You are worth more than that!

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety

      Sex work is a thing you know? And if we are being factual it is the oldest profession in the world so your point is invalid. You can't justify her actions of scamming people on the fact the men cheat on their wives thats a very dumb point lol

    • @lamma746
      @lamma746 Před 2 lety +4

      @@jessicalightwarrior7276 Exactly it's just an excuse and most of them don't let the wife know. They want easy money and that's it. There is no moral high ground to it.

  • @blizzthewiz604
    @blizzthewiz604 Před 9 měsíci +7

    What kind husband would allow this zero moral both. This is just crazy

  • @Ky-lj9vu
    @Ky-lj9vu Před 2 lety +19

    *everyone else watching this video for entertainment*
    *me watching for more tips and tricks* 🌚🌚🌚🌚

  • @ContrarianExpatriate
    @ContrarianExpatriate Před rokem +10

    "Send me money so I can make sure you are serious and to build trust," says every SB scammer ever.

  • @abbieclement
    @abbieclement Před rokem +10

    Honestly it seems like she just came on the show to boast. She clearly doesn't think that it's wrong (kept flip-flopping on points etc) and said that she'd do it again. Being on the show flexing about it was probably another turn-on.
    I don't feel bad for anyone involved at all but the fake regret is annoying - just own what you did and will probably continue to do.

  • @planetsavi
    @planetsavi Před 10 měsíci +22

    I actually found it kind of funny how judgemental and in awe Joe and Greg acted in this episode…. Girl is hustling sleezy men, sure it’s not morally right but also, act like a piece of shit and you’ll get your karma eventually. Power to this woman lol

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Před 7 měsíci +7

      This is a crazy cope. It's not like she's Robin Hood, she's also scamming people, she's not a hero.

    • @Userinterfaceexperience
      @Userinterfaceexperience Před 5 měsíci

      @@Aaron-kj8dvMen having never experienced their own gender as a woman does… won’t get it. I’d start by making a woman’s profile on a dating app and also reading trans women’s experiences.

  • @abigailtorx
    @abigailtorx Před 2 lety +23

    some people are saying two wrongs don’t make a right but at the end of the day these men are willingly cheating on their partners and spending joint money in the process, perhaps being scammed will get them to stop or at least break up with their partner and finally show them the respect that they deserve

    • @lemmefeelyerjibblets8856
      @lemmefeelyerjibblets8856 Před 2 lety +4

      It literally won't make them stop though. These people are so depraved that they will just continue doing it anyway. What she is doing is not justice and it's literally morally wrong in every way. It's selfish. If she really was doing it for "moral reasons" then she would just try to contact the wives about it.

    • @vivvpprof
      @vivvpprof Před 2 lety

      You're not the one to judge their wrongdoings and administer punishments. This is just bs that's designed to justify the scam and make that filthy woman feel good about herself.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lemmefeelyerjibblets8856 she never claimed to be doing it for “moral reasons”.

  • @thatgirl5630
    @thatgirl5630 Před 2 lety +73

    I feel like she’s a queen, she’s not doing it to single men she’s doing it to dirt bags who are fuckin married and probably has kids, sooooo sounds like they deserve it

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety +10

      Definitely not a queen, its not on her to deliver moral justice on a cheater, she's purely a scammer, nothing wrong with it but don't paint her out to be a queen....

    • @faychel8383
      @faychel8383 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lamma746 please. Many girl friends won’t even tell their friends when a boyfriend is cheating on them let alone a husband. Why? Because they usually will get mad at the friend and not leave the relationship. Why would a stranger get involved with that setup? What does she owe the wife if she didn’t sleep with him? He got scammed. Shouldn’t have been on a sugar daddy site. Wouldn’t have been scammed.

    • @mellie3842
      @mellie3842 Před rokem +1

      @@lovescars to add she's doing the same thing as these men yet she's called a queen and they're shamed. Lol

    • @parislouise1579
      @parislouise1579 Před 11 měsíci

      @@faychel8383exactly, if he didn’t want to get scammed he shouldn’t have been on the site

  • @katykat978
    @katykat978 Před 2 lety +81

    It’s giving Robin Hood vibes and I’m here for it. Cheating sugar daddies with more money than they know what to do with(they are paying young women to perform their fantasies behind their wives back), getting scammed? No one’s getting really hurt, except for their egos. But go, protect their precious egos. They don’t have money to afford new ones

  • @faychel8383
    @faychel8383 Před 2 lety +11

    The comments disgusted by this woman vs the woman in “I’m cheating on my husband” are a hilarious comparison

  • @randohuman5084
    @randohuman5084 Před 2 lety +36

    My comment is more about sugaring in general, but I don't understand why some people shame sugar babies but not sugar daddies. It's a mutually exclusive thing, why just be disgusted with one party?

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety +4

      It should be looked as a transaction, if the SD sends money for something and the SB accepts and says it will happen but then blocks any form of contact that is a scam, tbh if I was a woman I would probably do it as well but its still a scam lol

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lovescars and it’s funny how only men see it that way. Every man on this planet has lied to a woman in order to get her to sleep with you, whether it’s making her think he’s interested in a relationship, or telling her he loves her when he doesn’t, this happens every day and no one cares. Or at least, y’all don’t care. Keep the same energy and take what’s coming to y’all.

    • @mellie3842
      @mellie3842 Před rokem +1

      Definitely. Both parties enable each other.

    • @Userinterfaceexperience
      @Userinterfaceexperience Před 5 měsíci

      You’re a man aren’t you? 😅

  • @annie.a.
    @annie.a. Před 8 měsíci +3

    she has no moral highground and she is not dishing out justice - she is scamming people.
    she is no better than the phone call scammers preying on the unsuspecting.
    I have no reason to believe her when she says its just married men either.

  • @dominicascott7727
    @dominicascott7727 Před 2 lety +11

    How is it a scam though if they knew they were paying for whatever. The only scam I see is if she promised to meet with them but never intended to. Or am I missing something?

    • @slyspy333
      @slyspy333 Před 11 měsíci +1

      She lied dor money.

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +13

    Welp. A fool and his money are soon parted, and some of these men are looking a little foolish. 🤡

  • @dorothyhall878
    @dorothyhall878 Před 2 lety +8

    Joe's facial expressions are amazing 😂😂

  • @Wandawil
    @Wandawil Před 2 lety +16

    The world is full of hustlers and those getting hustled. If you don’t see anything wrong with this, keep the same energy when you hear about people losing their life savings bc they fell for a love scam and are sending all their money to some man in a cafe in Nigeria bc they refuse to believe they are being catfished.

    • @faychel8383
      @faychel8383 Před 2 lety +9

      We’re they married or single? Single deserves sympathy, married deserves none. The wife and children would be the victims. What right does a husband have to send a random woman money from family savings?

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      @@faychel8383 bingo. Men will jump through hoops to justify a cheating man, and demonize a woman at all costs.

    • @DoraWinifred
      @DoraWinifred Před 7 měsíci +3

      I am keeping the same energy since I judge the people who send their life savings to a person they have never met in person. Utterly stupid.
      Higher judgment for the married cheating idiots.

    • @emmaleehammons1577
      @emmaleehammons1577 Před 7 měsíci

      that’s not at ALL the same 😂😂

  • @chadspring
    @chadspring Před 2 lety +9

    This girls' hustle is no differnet than the scammers that make people buy amazon or target gift cards. It's volume scamming. Anyone with real smarts would sniff out this scam right away.

  • @rickblot1547
    @rickblot1547 Před 2 lety +41

    Her affluent parents taught her well!

    • @faychel8383
      @faychel8383 Před 2 lety

      So did the parents who raised the men she scammed who aspired to spend family savings and cheat on their wives.

    • @vivvpprof
      @vivvpprof Před 2 lety +1

      Yea, she's kinda the female Elliot Rodgers.

  • @NObodDEE
    @NObodDEE Před 9 měsíci +3

    Husbands gonna use this to justify his cheating down the road

  • @143sierranicole
    @143sierranicole Před 2 lety +60

    Men are so upset about this lmaoo it’s hilarious. They SEND her money. Even Greg and Joe are digging so deep into it and judging her when they asked her to come on. I would never do it but I don’t see the big deal tbh

    • @Lexi52616
      @Lexi52616 Před 2 lety +5

      Agreed!! 💯

    • @katykat978
      @katykat978 Před 2 lety +17

      Same, honestly it just feels like everyone’s trying to protect these rich cheating men. She actively went after cheaters, so I’m trying to find why what’s she’s doing is worse that what they are doing?

    • @vivvpprof
      @vivvpprof Před 2 lety +4

      @@katykat978 Name me one person who never did any wrong, and whom you couldn't scam and justify it to yourself saying "Oh but they did that, so that makes us even". Also, she said these people are desperate for a human connection and one man paid her just so he could relay his day to her on the phone. Calling that "cheating" requires an exorbitant amount of self-deceit.
      You don't know whether they're rich. And that woman said she was coming from a rich family.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +5

      @@vivvpprof well if they aren’t, they are also liars. If they aren’t rich, they have no business going on a site for rich men and taking money away from their wife and kids to give to a sex worker. It’s crazy that y’all are judging her more than these men.

    • @femblvd3114
      @femblvd3114 Před rokem

      @@Lexi52616 to be fair some of them aren’t even rich lmaoo and if they are some can very stingy.

  • @emilieloveskiwi
    @emilieloveskiwi Před 2 lety +10

    32:25 "the OnlyRoutes fan" 😂😂😂

  • @MrsBoogie002
    @MrsBoogie002 Před 2 lety +14

    Her: "I was doing what I had to do"
    Also Her: "I come from a very affluent family. I didn't need to do this, but I liked the control."
    🤔🤔🤔 Hhhhmmm. One of these things is not like the other. One of these things just doesn't belong.

  • @katttjordan
    @katttjordan Před 2 lety +57

    seen almost every episode of this show and i do have to say it’s a little weird watching two men speak on this subject with so much judgement when this show is supposed to be impartial

    • @KaylaNoelle1
      @KaylaNoelle1 Před 2 lety +25

      Yeah tbh hey are way less judgmental of men who actually violently harm people. Like they’re more understanding of pimps an shit. Disappointing.

    • @fashiongirl563
      @fashiongirl563 Před 2 lety +17

      I totally agree I wasn’t expecting this to be so judgemental on this one bc they’ve had ppl on that are a lot more morally questionable

    • @carla8606
      @carla8606 Před 2 lety +11

      Thissss. I did not like them being so judgementaln

    • @Wandawil
      @Wandawil Před 2 lety +7

      I think they were judging the manipulation and scamming aspect, not judging sex work.
      She did not come across as a decent human being. Very selfish and self righteous. The men getting scammed are NOT innocent victims though. Karma will come for all involved at some point.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +11

      THANK YOU. Honestly, I’m unsubscribing because of this episode. I guarantee both of these men, and every man in the comments has lied to a woman to get her to sleep with him, but are judging her for this. Men value money over women’s bodies, and it shows.

  • @carolmurphy7572
    @carolmurphy7572 Před 2 lety +11

    If your "Anonymous Hotline" is truly anonymous, how did you use it to contact this woman?

    • @Nycolekuiken
      @Nycolekuiken Před 2 lety +6

      Honestly I think they know who called in, otherwise *67 ? Idk how else that would work. It's the point of it being posted and it is anonymous to us. None of the viewers know who it is. Until I guess this woman came out to talk openly. Still don't know her really though.

    • @michelemartin3360
      @michelemartin3360 Před 2 lety +1

      @@lamma746 🤣

  • @bunnikruis
    @bunnikruis Před 2 lety +50

    lots of judgement in this episode. why reach out if you can't remain unbiased? it's always funny when men talk about anything SW related, unless you are a man who does SW, it's alwaaaaays filled with judgement or backhanded statements. men have profited off of women and their bodies and their sexuality for centuries. a lot of these men are extremely predatory. i think scamming men who have thousands of disposable income is fine, morally too. why is it only an issue when women take profiting off their own bodies and sexuality into their own hands?

    • @Triaanx28
      @Triaanx28 Před 2 lety +5

      because it’s not fine, on either end of the spectrum unless it’s fully consensual, and this is not.

    • @MrsBoogie002
      @MrsBoogie002 Před 2 lety +4

      While I do agree with you, and fully feel your point.....I do think this woman was pretty unapologetically a scam artist. At least for me, it's a lot less about SW and much more about the scam that makes it feel kind of icky. If she were just slightly more honest, I'd be all for her getting hers. And as it stands, I don't think she necessarily deserves hate. But I do think there is a better way to go about it. At the end of the day, SW already had a really bad name, and women are at the biggest risk S related violence, human trafficking, R word, etc etc etc. It would be great to have SW and other interpersonal exchanges for profit to be as safe as possible. Lying and intentionally scamming people with the specific intent to gain both monetarily AND emotionally, is not really doing much good for the industry. Plus it's putting both parties at immediate risk in multiple ways. I think the moral question of who "deserves" to be scammed is kind of weird. Nobody should be scammed. Retaliation isn't a great answer. But should she feel bad for engaging in intimacy with married men if they are willing to pay for it? Of course not! Consent is the key, regardless of the gender roles. She consents to the act (whatever it may be) and he consents to pay for it. If a stripper took their tips up front and then didn't strip would that be okay? I mean, cool.... revenge. But again, those who want SW to be taken more seriously would probably vote for less scams and more honest business exchanges. Fully consenting adults (and hopefully legal SW) would also help lower the violence and crime rate associated with it. To me she doesn't seem like an advocate for women's rights, or SW decriminalization, or justice against the patriarchy. She just seems like she gets purely mental/emotional gratification from the SCAM part of this equation. But hey, that's just my take.

    • @cocowhite2854
      @cocowhite2854 Před 2 lety +3

      u are right, they were kinda judgy this time :/ they usually come with an opened mind, kinda felt personal

    • @goatpepperherbaltea7895
      @goatpepperherbaltea7895 Před 2 lety

      Who they fuck cares about being unbiased lmao

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +2

      @@MrsBoogie002 she fully admits to scamming men. It’s literally in the title of this video, Sherlock.

  • @sweetpea9191
    @sweetpea9191 Před 2 lety +44

    If you’re considering doing this, please don’t. It makes it so much harder for consenting adults who do this to do their job. She even said it herself that a lot of these men were already suspicious of her to begin with. Also I’m not denying that there definitely are married men on these sites, but it’s not as common as she makes it seem. Most of the time it’s older men who are single because they spend too much time working and don’t have enough time to invest into an actual relationship. Also, it doesn’t always involve having sex with them, speaking from experience.

    • @sweetpea9191
      @sweetpea9191 Před 2 lety

      Another thing, so she’s sending nudes and I’m assuming she’s gotta be sexting with these married men anyway correct? That’s just going against her reason why she’s choosing to scam married men. She’s giving them what they want anyway, even if she does block them before it’s time to meet up.

    • @mjbb02
      @mjbb02 Před 2 lety

      There’s a difference between the cheating men on apps and cheating men looking for an in person sex work. And yes I am a sex worker. The ladder will not seek us out they want a sneaky sugar baby, not to “really” pay.

    • @faychel8383
      @faychel8383 Před 2 lety +3

      She said she cut off guys who were single and only took money from married men who were cheating.

    • @cheyemily6066
      @cheyemily6066 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm going to be honest with you. I don't think these men would use SW services at all. They want to feel like there's a "real" connection, that she actually likes them and they just give money because they want to help her "she is just a waitress, so young, of course I'd help". They want her for themselves. SW aren't that. They are professionals and have multiple clients. Married men can't trick themselves into thinking it's just their cute girlfriend they are helping.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +3

      That’s a positive. Buying sex should be criminalized anyway.

  • @janelane8262
    @janelane8262 Před 2 lety +30

    This girl who is clearly not a sex worker had no idea that there's entire sites devoted to getting paid just to text men and send pics for $, and don't have to meet up with them. She probably could have made double what she did and didn't have to scam anyone. Fail.

    • @fashiongirl563
      @fashiongirl563 Před 2 lety +10

      What sites? Asking for a friend

    • @nikkkkix
      @nikkkkix Před 2 lety +6

      What sites are those lol

    • @lilpeeb3078
      @lilpeeb3078 Před 2 lety +4

      Yh what sites👀

    • @nikkkkix
      @nikkkkix Před 2 lety +2

      She obv was just saying that. She don’t know no sites. Lol

    • @janelane8262
      @janelane8262 Před 2 lety +4

      @@nikkkkix I do actually, I did camming and similar sites for years. I prefer not to write them on a public forum since they are 18+. If you DM me I will recommend a couple.

  • @HelloKittysFriend418
    @HelloKittysFriend418 Před 2 lety +27

    The part about this that is so disgusting is that she wasn't even sinking this low for survival. She admitted that her family could have definitely paid for her new furniture, but she went out of her way to scam men because of her and her husband's personal gratification. The way she's super nonchalant about that fact and even tries to suggest that she had to do this for her marriage is really embarrassing, the truth is right there.
    I hope the MTV catfish show finds her lmao

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      Well, catfish won’t find her, because those cheating men would have to call the show and be featured on the episode, then their wives, children, and coworkers would know that they were paying for sex. Dummy. 🙄

  • @charlielauenborg5087
    @charlielauenborg5087 Před rokem +3

    These are men who are willingly trying to cheat on their spouses. They're getting what's coming to them, imo. Maybe they should start focusing on their marriage or get a divorce, instead of chasing young women, who would not look twice in their direction if money weren't involved, honestly.

  • @tweetyiscute
    @tweetyiscute Před 2 lety +6

    My ex and I joked about this a few times. Damn! I know I would have made so much money where he lives.

  • @BobbyGeneric145
    @BobbyGeneric145 Před 2 lety +3

    I dated a girl who sugar-babied too. I knew immediately it wasn't going to be a long relationship as she was a hot mess. Actual non-scamming sugarbabies, the good ones anyways, dont ever do sexual things. Katie was smokin hot and rich old guys just wanted her around them to show off and spoil. She was smart from a good family and was a delight to be around. She told me about a few of the guys and lots of them got off just by pampering a girl with toys and presents.

  • @ceciliaaznaran3317
    @ceciliaaznaran3317 Před 2 měsíci +1

    If she couldn't afford to furnish her home, then don't. A psychology degree, scary. Hope she doesn't become a therapist, she sure needs one. Her and her husband are disturbed individuals. Karma will get them one day.

  • @jessicalightwarrior7276
    @jessicalightwarrior7276 Před 2 lety +8

    Good grief, lady, don't you know that we reap what we sow?! On a lighter note: Joe's reactions are priceless. Great show guys!

    • @faychel8383
      @faychel8383 Před 2 lety +6

      She is what cheaters reap. Don’t cheat gentlemen..she may be on the other end!

    • @idreadFell365
      @idreadFell365 Před 7 měsíci +1

      She seems more like a natural enemy to cheaters.

    • @whitneybaxter3299
      @whitneybaxter3299 Před 5 měsíci +2

      She is the sow to what cheaters reap… lol 😂

  • @ericarobinson1175
    @ericarobinson1175 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Sprinkle sprinkle lol

  • @koaluanabunnies
    @koaluanabunnies Před 2 lety +15

    "a vaginalante" GREG 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Thefarbetween
    @Thefarbetween Před 9 měsíci +1

    As a single guy who's been scammed on these sites, i always felt like, fuck that sucks but wtf do you expect on a site for rich lonely guys willing to spend money? Of course its a scammers paradise

  • @Userinterfaceexperience
    @Userinterfaceexperience Před 5 měsíci +1

    I’ve lurked the SB forums and they have a list for men who cheat them and I’m assuming the Johns have their own little forums 😅.

  • @jaredlaws7932
    @jaredlaws7932 Před 2 lety +24

    don't know why. but I laughed when she said "I didn't have a boyfriend until late High school early college" she said it like she wanted sympathy for it. even though that's the normal age for a first serious relationship.

    • @vivvpprof
      @vivvpprof Před 2 lety

      she's full of shit
      lie → scam → play the victim → expect sympathy → cycle repeats

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +3

      Okay. Then you DO know why you laughed.

  • @deannarenaye
    @deannarenaye Před 2 lety +7

    there is a lot more judgement from the boys in this one than the beastiality one… not a vibe boys

  • @TheBeatle49
    @TheBeatle49 Před 18 dny +1

    So, she needed a side hustle and she chose dishonesty. Says a lot about her. Don't let her near your wallet.
    8:46

  • @3in1mensshampoo59
    @3in1mensshampoo59 Před 2 lety +1

    finna use this in the future

  • @higgaroc
    @higgaroc Před 7 měsíci +2

    all of this is so vile, everyone involved. Straight people sex life is horrifying.

  • @snakelord2234
    @snakelord2234 Před 2 lety +15

    She acts as if she did something wrong but idk if she did, she intentionally did it sobold men who have to much money and are cheating on their wives.

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety +4

      Them having too much money is completely irrelevant and overall a dumb point tbh

    • @kgot8943
      @kgot8943 Před 2 lety +1

      @@lovescars i think it's easier to convince yourself scamming people isn't too terrible when you know they have more than enough money. Like a fucked up version of Robin Hood. Without the redistribution part.

    • @cheyemily6066
      @cheyemily6066 Před 2 lety

      @@lovescars People might see scamming as bad as its effect is on the person being scammed. I think it is easy to see that scamming a homeless person out of a 100 and scamming Jeff Bezos out of a 100 are different things. They are both scamming, they are both ethically and morally wrong. But we all know only one of them has a real, tangible negative effect on the person scammed. Emotionally they could both hurt tho. But I think we can all agree it would be worse to scam a homeless person. Even if all scamming is at the end of the day, inherently wrong.

  • @Keedy95
    @Keedy95 Před 2 lety +17

    I’m confused by this person. First they act like they were desperate for money but admit they come from a wealthy family that was more then willing to help. They claim they had boundaries and would only go after cheaters but mention some men were lonely and desperate for connection. I just wanted her to own what she was doing fully instead of tip toeing around it. She wanted extra money and found a desperate group to exploit and it was exciting for her and her husband. That’s it. This wasn’t desperation.

    • @shelbyg-washyourownbrain4542
      @shelbyg-washyourownbrain4542 Před 2 lety +5

      Do you honestly feel bad for men who think they can buy women? LMAO hell nah. Also, she said "most of the time" they are married. Not all of the time. Also, married men can still be lonely and desperate.

    • @andrewchar5410
      @andrewchar5410 Před 2 lety +5

      @Fragment I get what your saying but in this case the women in the video is not a sex worker she is legit just preying on the weak and scamming them for money

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety +1

      @@andrewchar5410 Yes so the woman in the video is in the obvious wrong

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety

      @@shelbyg-washyourownbrain4542 You do know sex work and prostitution is a thing right? and that it's the oldest job in the world? She is clearly playing a fucked up game on both ends scamming people out of their money, though to be honest I would probably do the same if I was a female but still you can't justify her actions

    • @kgot8943
      @kgot8943 Před 2 lety

      Re: her coming from a wealthy family. If you're a grown ass adult who is already married etc you usually don't want to go to your parents and ask them for money. You wanna handle it yourself and be independent. Just cuz her parents are rich doesn't mean she had any spare money at that time
      Scamming people is still not the right thing to do, obviously. Just trying to explain that thought process

  • @bobsacamano49
    @bobsacamano49 Před 2 lety +6

    Not surprising that the majority of the comments here are women that are calling this scammer a “queen” and want to start doing this themselves. Two wrongs don’t make a right not to mention not all the guys she scams are married men. Society is doomed

    • @faychel8383
      @faychel8383 Před 2 lety

      Society’s been doomed a long time. This is another step. Ashley Madison being created and used by society is a step added before this one. Socially accepting divorce and cheating was another. Globalism, immigrantion, demographics, 19th amendment, and many other steps doom us. We’re alive. This woman is avoidable. She’s a problem if you bring her or ppl like her into your life. Suckers get scammed. This society keeps aretards alive. Aretards get scammed.

    • @cheyemily6066
      @cheyemily6066 Před 2 lety

      I can only see one comment calling her a "queen" tbh, she is not a queen, she says herself that it was wrong for her to do that. The men are also in the wrong tho. Purposefully going out of their way to pay someone just so that they can cheat on their partner. If society is doomed is because of its own rules.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      Welp. If men didn’t cheat, this couldn’t happen.

  • @brendakamga777
    @brendakamga777 Před 2 lety +15

    I think two wrongs don’t make a right. She’s going out of her way to scam these men. Although the cheating men deserve karma she by virtue of being a scammer also deserves karma.

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety

      Very true

    • @TheCr00k6
      @TheCr00k6 Před 2 lety +4

      Shes the karma in an entrepreneurial sense

  • @888dreamersbag
    @888dreamersbag Před 3 měsíci

    So smart❤❤❤

  • @soccerxrules45
    @soccerxrules45 Před 2 lety +2

    I really liked this episode as a long time viewer it felt like y'all were more comfortable than normal and more reactive and whatnot. Keep up the good work yall

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +4

      What? You mean that they were more judgmental than normal, when their goal is supposed to be impartiality.

  • @idreadFell365
    @idreadFell365 Před 7 měsíci

    Them cheaters f’ed around and “found” out

  • @jazzbachu3314
    @jazzbachu3314 Před 2 lety +1

    Love you Joe Santagato ❤️ all the way from Coventry England 🇬🇧 x

  • @feeshac1974
    @feeshac1974 Před 2 lety +3

    I guess in a way the men paid for her time.

  • @michaelahrinco79
    @michaelahrinco79 Před 9 měsíci +1

    They got what they deserved for cheating on their wife's

  • @cobberhambone9484
    @cobberhambone9484 Před 4 měsíci

    I see zero wrong in this. Full send. Get your money from these bastards, honey.

  • @itsyagirlindica3505
    @itsyagirlindica3505 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I don’t believe a word she says. I’m so annoyed w her..

  • @flattcatt
    @flattcatt Před 9 měsíci

    I can’t help but wonder if some of those married men gave her money that could have been meant for feeding their children or something. It’s scary to wonder if she could have been doing even more damage to underserving people when she thought she was choosing wisely.

  • @ForLoversOfWisdom
    @ForLoversOfWisdom Před 2 měsíci

    It’s totally bs to me because she didn’t NEED to do it. She said she comes from an affluent family who would’ve helped her no questions asked. So it’s like the rich taking from the poor. I think I would’ve thought it was more ok if they had no money and they needed this money. They didn’t even need it.

  • @kvtiebug
    @kvtiebug Před 2 měsíci

    she’s kind of my hero

  • @hitmanjonesy1586
    @hitmanjonesy1586 Před rokem

    Greg: "the only routes fan"

  • @johnblyth9787
    @johnblyth9787 Před 4 měsíci

    I hope she does not end up breaking up her marriage to go chase money for real. If she could scam 14 K in a month, must be insane amount to be earned meeting up with men. Must be a well furnished home.

  • @andrewchar5410
    @andrewchar5410 Před 2 lety +6

    Two wrongs don’t make a right she is just giving her self a justification for her scamming and preying on the weak does not make it any better even with these “rules “

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      The weak??????
      Omg y’all are delusional. 🤡

  • @HelloKittysFriend418
    @HelloKittysFriend418 Před 2 lety +3

    I don't think she has had any intention of stopping lol, it's just a matter of time until she pops up on another platform

  • @sirirem7292
    @sirirem7292 Před 5 měsíci

    What about taxes?

  • @ForLoversOfWisdom
    @ForLoversOfWisdom Před 2 měsíci +1

    If you couldn’t furnish your newer bigger house then you can’t get a bigger house. lol. 😑

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +5

    Honestly, I’m unsubscribing because of this episode. I guarantee both of these men, and every man in the comments has lied to a woman to get her to sleep with him, but are judging her for this. Men value money over women’s bodies, and it shows.

  • @daemonroe3485
    @daemonroe3485 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I can't believe these comments, 2 wrongs don't make a right. Her and her husband will get their karma. Smh

  • @joseluisperezjr3285
    @joseluisperezjr3285 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Till one of them outsmarts your asp ! And you end up 6 feet deep 😂

    • @matchbox420.
      @matchbox420. Před měsícem

      Typical insecure man, wanting to murder her because your ego got bruised

  • @AshleyxRajput
    @AshleyxRajput Před 2 lety +6

    Sis what's the site??😩 Hook us up lmaoo

  • @PrincessCarrieChan
    @PrincessCarrieChan Před 6 měsíci

    God I wish that were me

  • @ashley9534
    @ashley9534 Před 2 lety +2

    Ayo what sites are you on bc I wanna do this

  • @lisam8044
    @lisam8044 Před rokem

    Couldn't she scrambled her IP and create a new profile?

  • @tiffmitch702
    @tiffmitch702 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I don’t believe a word she’s saying I Ben on all these sites these men won’t send a dollar before meeting completey lieing maybe back in the day yes but today no they are too smart

  • @BMXFOO
    @BMXFOO Před 5 měsíci

    Yea she’s an absolute hypocrite.

  • @nightking4615
    @nightking4615 Před 6 měsíci

    I hope see deals with a real one of these days and comes up missing!

  • @Userinterfaceexperience
    @Userinterfaceexperience Před 5 měsíci

    It’s called human-engineered karma 😂

  • @Laura-zw6bs
    @Laura-zw6bs Před 2 lety +1

    Taking notes 📝

  • @olivialynnshipley4495
    @olivialynnshipley4495 Před 2 lety +2

    Wasnt expecting this one. Interesting how messed up it can get

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +1

      They have literally interviewed men who killed people, but this is what you’re outraged about?

  • @h0rriphic
    @h0rriphic Před 2 lety +5

    Good. For. Her.

  • @noriwilliams4637
    @noriwilliams4637 Před 10 měsíci

    Why does she see herself bad because shes talking to a married man that gave her money? Her husband should do it as well.

  • @mjbb02
    @mjbb02 Před 2 lety +3

    If she doesn’t do it someone else will do might as well accept the money

    • @lemmefeelyerjibblets8856
      @lemmefeelyerjibblets8856 Před 2 lety

      That's such a BS excuse lol. Also she isn't just "accepting" money, she's actively manipulating them for days in order to convince them to send her money.

    • @mjbb02
      @mjbb02 Před 2 lety

      @@lemmefeelyerjibblets8856 I definitely do not care. Don’t be an idiot then.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +1

      @@lemmefeelyerjibblets8856 and they willingly send it. Oh well.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +1

      A fool and his money are soon parted. 🤡

  • @Biedronecqa
    @Biedronecqa Před 2 lety +8

    guess what- cheating on your spouse is not illegal, lying to people and taking their money is very much so.

    • @lovescars
      @lovescars Před 2 lety

      Thank you

    • @cheyemily6066
      @cheyemily6066 Před 2 lety +1

      Legality, morals and ethics are different things. The law has often times protected unethical and immoral things. This isn't a great point. Slavery at some point was legal. But it has never been moral or ethical.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      Okay. Let them file a police report and see how that goes. The law would NOT be on their side. There’s literally no case.

  • @Shugabugababe
    @Shugabugababe Před 2 lety +1

    Where’s the poop episode

  • @katieb3778
    @katieb3778 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Good for her

  • @MELISSA-rp1wy
    @MELISSA-rp1wy Před 2 lety +2

    so what are some of these sites??? asking for a friend lol

  • @mtrj99
    @mtrj99 Před 5 měsíci +1

    What a sociopath I’m not a criminal umm ya you are wtf

  • @sof482
    @sof482 Před 2 lety +3

    this is just wrong. by all means if someone wants to pay hundreds of dollars for a picture or an agreed upon transaction that is absolutely fine, however she is selfish fully admits it’s an addictive thing that she does for self gratification. and as others have mentioned this harms the income of actual sex workers. her family could’ve easily helped her out, by her own admission, and yet she became a scammer

  • @hollygd9020
    @hollygd9020 Před 2 lety +4

    I can understand her rationale but I think it’s quite an assumption that it’s only the married men that are negatively affected. They might not be as wealthy as they pertain to be and could very well be spending money that their wives and children need. I’m sure there’s many children that have gone without as a result of their naïve scum bag fathers getting scammed.

    • @michelemartin3360
      @michelemartin3360 Před 2 lety +6

      How is that her fault? She didn’t make them be scumbags. They’re going to do that with or without her

    • @MMKandSSK
      @MMKandSSK Před 2 lety +5

      If she hadn’t scammed then out of the money they would’ve spent it on SBs anyway, not on their children

    • @michelemartin3360
      @michelemartin3360 Před 2 lety +3

      @@MMKandSSK exactly

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +1

      You don’t even know what “pertain” means, because you used it completely incorrectly. What you said makes no sense. How am I supposed to take anything you say seriously?

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +1

      It’s weird as hell that you’re blaming a woman for a degenerate male’s actions and decisions. He chose to give his money to a stranger in need rather than his children because he values sex more than he values his children. If he doesn’t have much money, that just makes him even worse. It was his choice at every step of the way.

  • @fiorellino
    @fiorellino Před rokem +1

    I don't get why people defend this woman in the comments. She has no right to judge and condemn these men. She is not involved in these relationships, not her business. Who made her the judge and punisher?
    Yeah, cheating is awful, but it's between the spouses.
    She is just a scammer, that's it. A scam is a scam no matter how you look at it.

  • @brianbrady3086
    @brianbrady3086 Před 2 lety +2

    I just wonder does this bring a slippery slope with the husband and him entering something similar. Or will he ever cheat on her and do what she said these men did to their wives. Or could she go down a slippery slope herself and go over that line and actually break the rules she set up with the husband. Because if they truly were in a great spot and loved each other she wouldn't have to seek approval from other people/the attention of other men.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      It was not the attention. Were you even listening?

  • @moonchild66
    @moonchild66 Před 2 měsíci

    Society is soooo fkd...if people look up to this type of shit.....just saying✌️

  • @katrinabaker581
    @katrinabaker581 Před 2 měsíci +1

    i like her 😂

    • @katrinabaker581
      @katrinabaker581 Před 2 měsíci

      and the husband too .. he said are u crazy that’s a waste of time asking for 40 to 45 bucks i’m dead 😂

  • @Trecesolotienesdos
    @Trecesolotienesdos Před 2 lety +1

    i like how most of these guests come with this "show me empathy!!!" line. nobody forced you to steal. yes, peope can be shitty and people who do bad shit are human, but don't think you cannot get called out.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +1

      Steal? What did she steal? You sound bitter.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety

      Sorry, but men take advantage of women every day, and no one says anything. When women start to take advantage of men (in a way that puts the man in no real danger at all), men are disgusted with her. You’re all hypocrites.

  • @Xenomorph788
    @Xenomorph788 Před 2 lety +2

    What happened to the poop eating girl? I was watching that and it just disappeared…!?

    • @Xenomorph788
      @Xenomorph788 Před 2 lety +1

      @Hezii I thought the voice sounded familiar when I started watching this one. Cheers

  • @JMs751
    @JMs751 Před rokem

    She did this. Andrew Tate talks about how he did it. Fresh and Fit warns about this practice. 🤡 world. can’t make this sh!t up.

  • @jadesimone_
    @jadesimone_ Před rokem

    not be bout to get on the apps n start scamming sugardadddies…..

  • @mellie3842
    @mellie3842 Před rokem

    Is anyone else noticing a lot of contradictions and inconsistencies? I normally don't think to comment but the pure narcissistic way in which this person spoke made me uneasy. She also met all of the requirements of someone who gets into prostitution and exuded mental illness. I wish the best for her, as in lots of therapy probably. Lol I normally love OPL's videos. Have watched about 20 now.

  • @moonchild66
    @moonchild66 Před 2 měsíci

    Not my cup of tea...i wouldnt do it...why get a big house u cant afford to furnish!!!!not judging ...just dnt like this vibe tbh

  • @Cocomang0xq
    @Cocomang0xq Před 7 měsíci

    💖💖