Can't Stop Screaming ft. Spencewauh || Two Hot Takes Podcast || Reddit Reactions
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- čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
- Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-host @spencewuah !! This episode features stories that make you want to scream!! So luckily we have the scream expert here to keep us composed.. or maybe not. What do you think of these ones?
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Index:
00:00 -- Start
04:37 -- Story 1AITA for calling her psychotic over KFC?
19:55 -- Story 2 How can I get my BF to stop digging his tunnel?
30:40 -- Story 3 AITA for refusing to eat a smash cake?
44:20 -- Story 4 AITA for faking a work emergency to get out of a wedding?
1:13:14 -- Story 5 AITA for hiding vegetables in my BF's food?
1:32:37 -- Story 6 AITA for sleeping with my mum's new fiancé?
1:43:46 -- Story 7 My roommate asked me to sleep with him.. - Komedie
Spencer needs to be added to the regular roster It’s boring when guests aren’t forthright with their opinion or change their opinion once someone else voices theirs but Spence is so confident and empathetic and so engaging. Casting my ballot for him to be a regular
I agree but spencewuah also has his own podcast too so maybe that helps!
hell no
Completely agree!!! I loved this episode thanks to Spencer 🎉🎉
I understand what you're saying, but I just had to say that Morgan and her crew do, and have had several opposing views. Especially on Father Knows Something.. Morgan is keeping Jerry on his toes haha 😂. Anyway, I assume there's mostly agreeance on these stories because most people of sound mind would and probably should have similar views.
…people can change their opinions because someone voiced theirs and they agree. I don’t see anything wrong with that. If you’re changing your opinion to keep the peace and not make someone feel bad I get it but that’s what a conversation is supposed to do. You’re supposed to see another side to your own opinion and either stick with what you think or change it if you truly feel like what you said was wrong or not a part of your opinion anymore.
No shade to any guest hosts, but Spencer was a breath of fresh air. He instantly spoke his mind, he wasn’t hesitant, guarded + overly cautious (which can negate the whole point of a podcast).
His bold, open (+ accurate) opinion enhanced Morgan’s, instead of swaying or stifling it. So good that we’ll ignore all the _at the end of the day_ qualifiers.
This a million times this
YES!
PREECH
Omg yes!
No "well you know !.... no nevermind nevermind..." i realised half of them do that at least 3 times ! it annoys me so much, like... come on, say nothing or spit it out ! no problem with Spencer ! i love that for him!
@@choukaspic4712 Same! I’m glad I’m not the only one who notices this. I called it out a while ago and got soooo much hate for it. Even Morgan replied to my comment trying to defend herself. The problem is when they are being hypocritical/contradictory and/or change their opinions solely to suit the audience/guest. Be true to yourself, folks. Yeah, someone can change your opinion with a different perspective, but that’s not the same as being hypocritical/contradictory about your takes or basically lying about your opinion because of who you’re with, which both have been done more than once on this podcast. That’s what the problem is and I hope Morgan sees these comments so she can understand many people notice this. I will say, Lately she’s been a little better.
Excuse me but Spencer just changed my fucking life when he said "I am never gonna put myself in a position where I care about the person next to me more than they care about themselves"
Oo
The tunnel story broke my heart. The guy is definitely going through something and I love Spencer’s ideas on how to help him
BRING SPENCER BACK!! He was amazing, so insightful, understanding and empathetic.
He should become one of the regulars!
Yes!! This was a fantastic episode! I love the reactions and advice
i think hes my fave guest so far!!!!
i always consider to OG crew like lauren, alejandra etc. as hosts, so hes my fave guest!
@@seniorenyore yeah I see them that way too. He should become one of them!
Agreed, would LOVE to see him regularly.
Love how Spencer starts calm and collected and slowly escalates to yelling at the camera lol
Like every time too lol ❤
I'm only commenting because I was shocked at how similar our names are 💅🏻
Vegetable story- all things considered…if she’s the one cooking, she cooks how she cooks - meaning: mixing veggies in the sauce. And if you don’t like it, cook for yourself. His family has totally let this happen. If I had an adult brother who came to my house upset because his gf “hid veggies in his food” and he liked the food…i’d laugh in his face.
I forget he’s mid 30s 😂 I’d laugh so hard at my brother if he did what this man did
also like is the boyfriend that stupid… what does he think makes up a pasta sauce??
Was looking for a comment like this!! Agreed so hard! She’s cooking food. Not adding any non food items to the meal. She’s literally just cooking and making it visually pleasing for him to eat. I wish someone would do this for me😂😂 I hate veggies but I think it’s only cause I’ve “hated” them my whole life. I know I need to eat them but I just can not bring myself to eat them and enjoy them. If someone blended veggies in my food and I enjoyed it how dare I be mad😂😂
My young brother in law that lives with us rarely eats anything besides chips and fast food and I often hide veggies in the muffins i make so my kids can get at least a serving a year and he asked for one once so I let him have one 😂😂 his reaction when I told him? Cool! I didnt even taste it, could I have more later? 😂😂😂😂 now I make him his own batches and he doesnt want to know the ingredients he just enjoys them😂😂😂
Exactly this!
My bf came over to my parents house, my mom was making spaghetti with homemade sauce. I told her that he wasn’t a big vegetable fan, so she took half of all the veggies and blended them right into the sauce, and put the other chopped ones in aswell. By the end he still had some pieces to the side, but he had no idea how much veggies he actually ate and he loved it so how is that wrong?
8 years later, I’m still blending veggies, one of the best hacks I’ve learned 😅
(He knows and watches me blend them, he really just doesn’t like the texture)
For the tunnel story: The boyfriend inherited this land. Doesn't that mean someone he was close to passed away? I don't think he's going crazy, I wonder if this whole tunnel obsession is part of the grieving process for him.
Oh that’s a very good point, that makes a lot of sense if that’s the case
i was thinking that maybe he hopes to found a treasure
When I was a toddler my folks moved out to the woods on some old logging land. My dad spent 20 years cutting up/ pulling our giant stumps just....because? People are super weird.
@@fetishnunyou didn't have a woodburner in the kitchen?
You could have a point here. Men often don't even know if something like this happens. They just know they ball up inside, have troubles talking and who doesn't talk usually has to find ways for the tension to release. Physical movement works great for getting your head screwed back on.
It's also a sure way to get absolutely bonkers if left alone for too long with only your thoughts and a shovel. He needs to start talking to his gf.
The process of “no attention from wife -> I might cheat -> I’ll get a dog instead” is so funny lmao what do you mean your dog fulfills the same needs as your wife
Also, gagging at the smash cake
Having a two hour breakdown is the bride waiting for OP to do the exact thing that she did. I feel like she was literally trying to get that result by making a huge deal out of it. Basically guilting OP into doing something about it. Especially crying in a corner in front of everyone.
And I'm wondering if maybe the boyfriend of the girl that left is not simply angry because he did not want his girlfriend to fall prey to the bride's bitchiness. I'm so glad that working pointed out that the bride was being a b****. Who in the f*** takes 2 hours out of their wedding day to cry about a f****** guest?
Yeah, it's melodramatic. I'm confused as to why they won't have assumed he was bringing a plus one, she, the ex was already budgeted in. Incredibly rude. To be fair, I'd leave also.
I bet the bride had her breakdown where OP could hear her so that OP would feel bad. My bet was that Bride was friends with EX and was mad that he brought the new girlfriend
Oh definitely BUT both the wedding party AND OP's boyfriend SHOULD have confirmed it. The boyfriend is sooooooo self centred, all he is worried about is how it's affecting HIM, not about the fact HE made the bride cry for 2 hours.
I did that veggie trick to my sons father when we first moved together. He would always say he hated certain veggies but I thought that he hated the textures not the taste of them. So I did an experiment for a week, which involved me blending the veggies. He loved it. I then told him what i did, and he was so excited that he actually loved veggies but had a texture problem. To this day he cooks with veggies himself. He is even eating some of the veggies without blending them now.
i have bad food sensitivities and honestly this episode gave me the idea to do that blending veggies with the sauce trick. if i could eat and try more foods i absolutely would (and am currently doing different therapies to get towards that) so i don't understand his unwillingness especially since it's affecting his health so much
@bryleemiddleton9447 yeah. I don't understand that guy either. Some people just like to get attention, whether it's good or bad. He probably has been getting attention from his poor health and enjoys it
Honestly about to try this now that I know it works 🤭 I've got two picky eaters (fiance and 2yo)
Literally sounds like my situation. Do you have any recipes you used?
it sounds like his parents just never made him try them. he doesn’t have an allergy, there is no medical or logical reason him to not be eating veggies. it was literally impacting his health, you can get all kinds of avoidable illnesses by not meeting all your nutritional requirements. she just cares and wants him to be in better health than he is and he has the money and resources to not be malnourished so why would he do that to himself? it makes literally no sense. she said his health was better and he liked the meals so wtf is the issue
This has been my FAVORITE episode. I love Lauren and Alejandra and Justin but they’re TOO NICE. I always think damn I wish I was on this show because they’re not reacting enough 😂😂 and then here comes Spencer with everything I needed 😂
Also the shout out at the end, if you’re feeling lonely. Thank you❤
“Don’t put the veggies in and let the mf die” literally killed me 😂 this ep. Is amazing hahaha
😂😂😂😂😂
Sent me 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I literally had the same thought tho! Well, actually, leave him and let him die. But same thing.
Literally l was thinking hay let me die quickly the boyfriend says
Ok hear me out, you, sarah schauer, and spencer violently responding to the most anger inducing stories on reddit would be hilarious!
oh my god i want this so bad now
Love this so much!!
Omg yes! I loved Spencer's anger and Sarah's tirade about the man being forgotten about through time having a bird chest lives in my head rent free
@@LoonyHalfBlood omggggg ikr?! I rewatch the ep with Sarah every now and then just because that tirade is top tier and makes me laugh so hard
boost!! cuz yes!!
The woman who was the "plus one" is an amazing thinker in a stressful moment. I am really socially anxious, and a major huge massive trigger is the very idea that I'm in a place that I shouldn't be or am not wanted. If I arrived at a wedding, introduced myself to the bride, and she burst into tears, I would have unlocked the superhuman ability to self-combust. My soul would have left my body so fast, it would leave Earth's orbit before going to heaven. I now have a new primal fear, and that is a host(ess) literally crying over my presence at their event. I need to go take some deep breaths now.
1:25:43 for story 5, he DOESN'T admit that the lack of vegetables is what's wrong with his health. Op says that he believes he's genetically predisposed to all the vitamin deficiencies. He'd rather believe that than admit it has to do with lack of vegetables. It's so weird
and when op reveals its vegetables he doesn’t say the issue is that he doesn’t like them- but that he ‘doesn’t think they work’ HIS ISSUE IS LITERALLY THAT HE DOESNT THINK VEGETABLES COULD GIVE HIM THE VITAMINS HE NEEDS 😭😭 he would even eat them at restaurants too- he doesn’t dislike vegetables 😭
I never knew who Spencer was before this, but omg please bring him back. His takes are so real. You can tell he's really listening, and putting himself in each scenario. He is a breath of fresh air with his very common sense/empathetic takes! LOVED THIS!
yes! i agree. I dont know how old spencer is because he looks quite young, but he certainly has a very old and passionate soul. i have loved every episode of this podcast and father knows something, and i adore all the main cast of this podcast. but this episode was amazing. i would love to see spencer in an episode with you and justin, laura or alejandra.
Oh boy, you'd probably love his TikToks then 😂 he's the exact same there.
Someone said in another comment that he has his own podcast. I'm about to go look for it😂
Yall there was an update to the tunnel story!! She talked to him about her concerns, he agreeded to cut back time and get ventilation installed he said "I'd even dig with my father's old gas mask" after the talk they spent the weekend together(although he got antsy on Sunday so OP let him go back early) OP said she didn't want to push therapy bc he agreeded to cut back and hes of the mind that you don't go to therapy unless something is wrong with you and she didnt want him to think she was saying something was wrong with him. She did ask why he tunnels and he said "it's just pleasnt when I'm down there. I always feel safe and calm, and I'm always happier when I leave than when I went in"
I was so sad when she didn’t read the update bc she’s usually so on the ball with updates and comments!!!!
😶 a gas mask isn't going to help when there's no oxygen to inhale
@@writerchick94 he was most likely referring to all of the dust and dirt in the air
@@jezzielee7552 yeah I know, and I'm pointing out when it collapses on him there won't be an oxygen
I’ve heard carbon monoxide can make you feel happy and calm lol
Spencer has brought such a fresh and engaging energy to the podcast. He's engaged, empathetic and solution oriented, while also being realistic and saying what everyone else is thinking.
PLEASE add him to the regular roster!
For the wedding story, you can’t tell me there wasn’t someone who rsvped that ended up not coming. Also, if it’s a catered event I wouldn’t be surprised if they had additional meals ready to go just incase something happened like an additional person showing up. I had 4 extra people show up that weren’t invited. Did I cry for 2 hours and ruin my own day? Nope. I moved on quick and had fun.
Story 1: yes, maybe women deal with trauma differently because most of the time WE DON’T HAVE A CHOICE. That line had me seeing red.
THIS! I could not agree more.
YES!! "they deal with it better so I should get to disregard her boundaries that are directly tied to her trauma 😤" noooo you should allow her the space to feel comfortable with you to overcome (or not) her trauma on HER TIME. Women simply do not have time for garbage men like him
For the vegetable guy story, he said he doesn't believe vegetables do anything? Child. Also he expects her to make him a separate meal? He wants her to pick vegetables out of his food? CHILD
If he doesn't like it, he can cook. She can put whatever she wants in the food she cooks as long as it isn't going to hurt whoever will be eating it. Does he eat salsa, masala, etc? Those are blended veggies
The way he throws a tantrum bc he had vegetables that even he thought tasted good MAJOR ICK 🤢
yeah i have very extreme food sensitivities and i can understand someone being a picky eater for similar reasons to mine but his behavior is weird. and if i found out i'd been eating vegetables and liking them i'd be so excited so i dont get his reaction
@@bryleemiddleton9447 literally. I’m picky w vegetables too bc I don’t like the taste and texture. So if I tried something that tastes good I’m down for it! So unless he has some specific allergies for vegetables only then I’d understand the reaction 😂
@@lalibelardo1706😊
Story 3. That’s what you’re supposed to do! You give a separate small cake for the baby and one for everyone else to eat.
And these are the people having kids. 😂
Spencer's come a long way from saying "you can call me chlamydia cuz I'm the powerhouse of the mother fucking cell" to having such good takes on these reddit stories lmao😂 Lots of love ❤
Story 4- Communication is free. This bride cried for TWO HOURS over an extra person showing up? I would’ve literally just split my plate with my plus one… Weddings always have a person not show up but you’re telling me you don’t have an extra chair?? Even if you don’t- nothing is perfect. Get over it. You should’ve told OPs BF that they don’t have a plus one anymore.
Tbh I think she threw a fit in order to pressure OP into leaving. She probably didn't want to OP getting attention from the friend group as the new girl on her special day and that's the real reason for the breakdown.
@@artisseriechicken oh I agree 1000% she sounds like an attention seeker through and through.
Also where is the wedding party in this? Is no one is this wedding party proactive enough to say 'hey bride, don't worry, we've got this under control, we'll find a spare chair and that table will just squeeze in a little' or even go talk to OP and her boyfriend to explain the issue and ask them to share a plate? I understand the bride being overwhelmed and probably stressed, but surely ONE person in the bridal party, the groomsmen, MOH/Best man, parent of the bride or groom/family of the newly wed could have gotten their head into problem-solving mode
@@lily-zg6io honestly I don’t think they wanted a solution. I think bride loved the attention, negative or not.
I think OP bfs should of been the one to say something instead of OP needing to lie to leave the awkward situation. He should of gone up to bride and groom and said they were leaving since him bringing a plus one was such an inconvenience(hence bride crying for 2 hrs.) Made both bride and groom feel like the asses that they were for not communicating what they chose to do with his plus one that was already given from the beginning. He could of gone on a weekend mini getaway with the gf and enjoy their time regardless which would of avoided any issues between him and OP. OP didn’t have to be the one to come up with the solution. If one of my friends made my plus one feel uncomfortable like that, I would of just left with my plus one.
Spencer, thank you for speaking about the trauma, a dog attack causes. A dog attacked me at my friends house. I now live in a very dog friendly area and it’s been several years since the attack and I’m m a little better about dogs after being attacked but no one wants to put their dogs on a leash and if a dog starts charging at me the owner will just be smiling and saying oh she likes you , she’s friendly.
No! It is terrifying :(
I am so sorry you had to go through such a bad experience. I really hope that one day you will completely heal from that traumatic experience. I think it should be necessary to have a dog on a leash while going on a walk, es because you honestly never know what a dog might do under different circumstances, affected by different factors. It’s my opinion that you can never predict how a dog will react, so no owner can with 100% certainty say their dog will not attack someone, no matter how friendly the dog might be.
Same! I was attacked by two pitbulls a year ago. I know not all pitbulls are the same but if im close to any dog that remotely resembles one, I'm terrified and brought back to that day. Still working on it.
Agreed. Dogs can really be scary and I hate it when the owners don't take that seriously.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I live in a dog friendly area too and people do the same, why expose a person or another dog to fear when it’s totally avoidable. My dog is big and soft but not with other dogs so it’s just respect for others, I hate when dogs approach her off the lead. No one cares if they’re friendly get it on a lead😊
Just move out, it's a dog friendly area, it's gonna be like that unless you want to be the one who rocks the boat or call animal control or police
Morgan & Spencer should make a joint project called “Screaming Hot Takes” where they read & comment on Wattpad stories 💯💯💯💯
Yes for sure for sure for sure!!!
Story 5 - I just saw a TikTok where a girl said that when people talk to her about their boyfriends she wants to ask "Does he take breast milk or formula?" This is the epitome of that.
The sex education literally has me laughing awkwardly at my job XD so glad I use my earbuds this episode OMG 😂 I'm dying and in shock
Girl grow up
@@ryleepickett9123 dying = laughing a lot
I was not expecting that either lmao
I was trying to listen in my break room (no earbuds allowed) and had to cut it off immediately 😅😅
@@averytameri321 I usually play on a big speaker in the back so I was really grateful I didn't that day! Hahaha
Story 1: ESA don't have to be dogs!! My roommate literally had an emotional support bunny and the other one has an emotional support cat. Husband is such an asshole for getting the dog and not taking care of it. Change the dog eating the food to the dog peeing on the floor, it's still HIS responsibility to take care of the dog and anything involving the dog. He also disregarded his wife's trauma and her concerns for the dog, honestly husband is such an asshole.
So agree. I don’t have dog trauma but I’ve never been a dog person. I currently live with a dog that isn’t trained and gets into food/trash all the time. Her owner forgets to feed her and take her out semi often, which results in her peeing or pooping on my carpet. It makes me rage. I am so with the wife on this even without the other crap he said.
Yeahhhhh people stay brushing off not training their pets accordingly. It's messed up and setting them up for hurt and hurting others I can't stand it
My cats an unregistered ESA, he’ll come comfort me when I’m sad, and my really bad depression days he won’t leave my side
Off topic... our profile pictures are super similar 😍
I'm sure he specifically got a dog because of his wife's trauma. The point of the dog was to be a big f u to his wife for "neglecting" him, and an emotional support gerbil just wouldn't rub it in his wife's face enough.
Story 5! It’s her recipe. She likes vegetables so she added it in his as well bc it is her recipe and it’s good for him. If he doesn’t like it he should cook his own shitty food.
As a single mom I really appreciate his chat at the end 😭❤️
I was raised by one and y’all are SO strong I can’t even
for the first story, i don’t even think he pays HALF the electricity. he said “his share” and based on the things said in the story i definitely think he told her “you need to pay more because YOUR son also uses stuff in this house and i’m not paying for his light bill” lmaooo
I immediately knew that he pays maybe a third. Otherwise, he would have stated "half" because he was so self-righteous!
@@aaustin656 I immediately imagined he paid the difference between before and after he moved in. Like, "Last May the bill was $170, and now the bill is $190. I'll Venmo you $20."
The definition of a dusty lol
Hopefully she either kicks him out! Or tells him the dog can stay but you need to pay for ur dog to stay here, if not you
Need to leave. He sounds like a bum! 😂😂😂I dislike him so much, I’m like, f you, and ur dog! I hope she actually kept her word! And didn’t let that dog back in her house! He’s using that dog as a weapon! They both need to leave her home! Let’s see if anyone else will let him, someone that’s a bum, and a I untrained dog!
Story 5 - confession: I’m a grown a$$ adult and I hide veggies in my food from MYSELF! 😂
SAME. I'm fine with raw veggies, but when I cook them, I cannot stand chunks in pasta, rice, or even pot pies.
The “don’t put the vegetables in and let the motherfucker die” made me choke. That was so funny 😂
@@zellagrace445 I wouldn't say it's /wrong/ but it is questionable.... Purely on the fact of a liquid salad doesn't sound sane 😅 perhaps a multi veg sauce for pasta (duh) or even lasagna! Cheese, pasta, veg and meat sauce ❤
@@starsspaceships6114That’s crazy 😂 Since that’s typically when dishes have pieces of vegetables in them. Pastas, rice, soup, etc.
@@ivorellarackley4401most sauces are made from tomatoes so it makes no sense.
“Tunnel to Terabithia” the remake we didn’t know we needed 😂
Story 4: i work as a makeup artist and do a lot of weddings. They are always stressful, but the most dramatic and high strung brides tend to be the problem and their need for perfection ruins their whole day
as a wedding photographer, I LOVE THE WEDDING STORIES UGHHH you should bring a wedding photographer on as a guest 🤣
omg i love this idea!!
bring jeri from ladies and tangents!!
I feel like after the gf left the wedding, the bf went on a rant about how she probably does that all the time. He most likely complained nonstop about him having to be there alone. He gave his friends the bad impression of her and I bet he won't even tell them her real reason.
100% he only cares about how he was inconvenienced
When Morgan said “no, like tatanka”, as a Lakota (indigenous) individual, I couldn’t be any prouder of a white girl 😂❤️
Hahahaha I love you
Caught me off guard but I was so happy to hear it 😅
Story 3: My mother is a nurse and she was listening to this episode with me! She agrees with you guys.. you never know what babies have! They could have hand foot and mouth or like literally anything. Doing that with the cake was SUPER unsanitary, unsafe, and just completely dangerous for all the guests at that party! How inconsiderate. Babies are so easy to get sick and giving people a mangled cake with baby germs IS a big deal! So many guests could have gotten sick if that baby was carrying something bad.
omg an episode with SPENCER!!!!! this is what i needed in my life😂❤️
SAMEE. Been binging all her other videos waiting on a new one and got the notification for this 🥹
Spencer MUST come back!! Love his takes and the chemistry between you guys is giving ‘Siblings-that-get-along’ vibes and I’m LIVING for it. Thank you both for making my work day so much better!
Not sure if I’ve been watching too many crime shows but the tunnel story, I was legitimately expecting it to become a bunker survival thing or a place to trap and hid victims/ bodies.
This is one of my ALL TIME favourite episodes!!! This was so fun, you guys have great chemistry and just all love to Spencewuah💗 also grateful for the tip tips 😂🍆
Umm YESSS! This is all I was thinking about! Especially since the GF hasn't seen the rest of the tunnel.
EXACTLY where my mind went hearing that.
I love that Spencer is just going off the whole episode. he’s so funny and all the takes were great, definitely need to have him back on!
For the wedding story, the bride should have just talked to the caterer if she was worried about having enough food. Any professional caterer usually has enough food for a few extra people because life happens. It's usually spelled out in the contract that you give them a final headcount a few days prior and then plan to bring enough for a few extra servings just in case.
Yuuuup! She’s just dramatic and self centered! I’ve worked in catering and can confirm we ALWAYS bring extra.
The BJ tips just took this episode TO ANOTHER LEVEL 🙌
I’m here for it 🤣
Lol omg I love it. I never thought they'd talk bout this. Amazing!!!❤❤
Hey couple months later. TMI but was very scared and got that same response as Spencer did lol. Love them and their advice 😂😂
This guy is fucking refreshing and clearly a good strong soul. The past 2 guests you've had have been amazing. Really enjoying these podcasts. I used to not really enjoy alejandras takes, and still sometimes I straight up disagree or think there's misunderstandings happening but she's really grown on me as well because she conducts herself in a way which is authentic to who she is and you can really tell who she is and i respect that. These podcasts practically solve my executive dysfunction as they are what i have on when I tidy so as soon as they come out I know my day will be productive
I love the “CAN I ANSWER?!?” after every story 😂😂😂
I’m 1000% sure that dog situation was the proverbial straw. Dude has been doing much more before this it for sure ain’t just the dog kinda like it was never about a husband leaving his socks on the floor 😂
Given how he talked about both the wife (trying to make her look like a cartoon bad guy who hates cute puppies for no reason) and her poor kid (calling him a "compromise" and acting like he deserves a medal for treating the kid like a human), I think u right 💯 hopefully she moved on to greener pastures.
@@TheAdrift Yeah I spent 6 years with someone like that, would never recommend it and the way he talked about it made me recall my own past. Nope, nope, nope.
Story 2: spencer POPPED OFF with the advice omg and with so much respect. I immediately thought maybe the person is neurodivergent and this is their special interest so I love the idea of either involving experts to dig with him or redirect that energy.
Story 5: She makes all the food. It is so unreasonable to make two versions of one meal. If he doesn't like her pasta with peppers and onions then he can make his own food and stop being a toddler.
“I lost my voice cause I did my daily scream today”
I have so many questions and I want none of them answered 😂
Beyond the OP in the first story's treatment of the wife and stepson, what also gets me is how he is with the dog. It doesn't sound as if he's trained him not to get into things and he didn't pay attention when he knows this dog has issues with getting into food. I've known since I was a kid to be careful with chicken bones around my dogs because they're a choking hazard. How does this guy not realize it?
See I honestly think he's leaving it untrained on purpose. I think he got so resentful of his "compromise" to treat his wife's son with respect and got an unruly dog that she would be unhappy to be around. It's like he views him having to "deal" with the son the same as her having to "deal" with the dog.
Not training a dog is just as dangerous to the animal as it is to humans & I wish more dog owners would understand that. This idiot just had to have a dog & now he's put its life in danger & making it live in a stressful environment.
@@candiedolives5340 It really is! It reminds me of this other reddit post where this guy had this dog who was basically possessive of him. You know how some dogs resource guard food or toys? This dog resource guarded him. I believe it had bitten or growled at the girlfriend/wife before and didn't like her. This dog would whine if the guy left the room for a minute and race out the front door if it seemed like he was going somewhere. This dog was also constantly escaping the yard. He didn't train the dog and the pregnant girlfriend/wife couldn't because the dog didn't like her. The guy yelled at the wife when she wouldn't help him find the dog.
@@juliagrady5890 It definitely feels like it with him putting zero effort into training the dog and doesn't seem to care enough to pay attention and ensure the dog doesn't eat something that he shouldn't.
Yep! As a former vet tech, it’s also completely unfair to the dog that he would leave it in a position to have possibly fatal outcomes because he refused to train/watch the dog. L husband, L stepdad, L dog owner all around. Wife is 100% in the right and needs to get rid of him. And I feel bad for the dog too
Loved this episode, just a small note for the last story- you can be groomed at any age for more reasons than one. I am a grooming victim, was groomed from the age of 14-16 by a 22-24 year old man who exploited me sexually over the internet. However, my grandma is in her late 70s and she was recently groomed by a man online who befriended her, and then tried to trick her into sending him money. Since she was convinced they were friends, she tried to send him money. Thankfully she didnt figure out how, cuz shes old, and the bank later told her to not do that but
You can be groomed at any age, for more reasons than sexually. It is when someone, usually older or with more power than you, befriends you looking to exploit you. They trick you into thinking you’re special, that they love you, will gift you things, love bomb you with compliments. They will get to you on an emotional level, where they have you wrapped around their finger, simply to exploit and use you. Sexually, romantically, financially. They dont care about you as a person. They only care about using you. Youre a toy, an object for them to use then discard you when they have sucked you dry.
Alot of people, me included, is made to belive they are special. That they are “the chosen one”. That they are truly loved. You become delusional, wearing rose tinted glasses.
While i do think that girl was the ass and definitely disgusting for doing what she did, it could still very much have been grooming. Dont think there was enough details for us to 100% know but its still a possibility
Sadly happend financially to my grandad, which for many reasons I would have never thought could happen to. Pls stay alert everyone and share the knowledge you have about internet and such with those close to you. Sadly most people that fall victims to it aren't aware it is happening to them. 😢
@@duqial im so sorry to hear that, hope he is doing okay :’(((💕
@@Gorentaya he is doing alr. Luckily it was only the money he had saved up, which still hurt and was really scary, but it could have been worse ig.
For the vegetable story: As someone who has an ED that gives me a lot of texture issues, it can be hard for me to get enough vegetables in my diet. But I actually make an effort to find SOLUTIONS to my issue. They sell a veggie powder called ENOF which I use to make sure I'm meeting the daily servings. I put it in sauces with tons of flavor and I can't taste it at all. A serving of the powder gets a serving of vegetables in, so if im short one day or even if i need to shop and don't have any, I can still get them in. There are ways to help him get veggies in that he may be more comfortable with once he knows what it is. I think she's great for wanting to help him get the vitamins and nutrients his body needs, however they should have had a conversation. Personally, someone adding things to my food without my knowledge, regardless of the intentions, would really freak me out (also related to my ED). I'm in grad school, but I'm home with my family for the summer and winter breaks. I eat differently than my family, and if there's something I don't eat, I cook for myself so I don't burden anyone! OPs boyfriend? He's willfully being a burden. And while I get that she should have told him, he was definitely being unnecessarily rude to her.
Same here i have ARFID and someone putting something in my food I didn't know about repeatedly would make lose most of the trust i have in them and that's the reason from a young age i learnt how to cook for myself, I also hate burdening others with my food restrictions, also her calling him a child kinda icked me out because of my arfid and all the comments I've heard about it, but he is acting like a child, but for different reasons than she thinks. Even if i hate them i still know that vegetables are very important and do a lot.
For story 4 there was a lot of hate for the bride for not checking with the boyfriend about the +1 and like, yeah it's weird to categorically decide he's not bringing someone since the ex is ex, there's also so much other stuff to worry about with a wedding and it's a little weird that the boyfriend didn't mention at any point that he was bringing OP.
Also, the bride's reaction was a bit much maybe but it also could've been a panic attack (stressful day + that last tiny thing) or potentially even a trauma response. Like it's definitely too much for what happened but emotions aren't always rational.
OP mentioned the wedding was originally for 2020 and didn’t take place until 2022/23 (not sure how old the post is) so I think the bride and groom should’ve just communicated +1 details when they sent the text w the new date to easily avoid potential miscommunication
As a parent, i would eat the smash cake, but I'd never expect anyone else to. Parents are used to eating food with baby saliva all over it. 😅 it doesnt faze us anymore.
nope not all of us do.
100% this. I would never ever expect someone to eat after my babies. Disgusting.
i love the guest episodes where morgan clearly likes the person she's talking to, it really makes the listening so enjoyable and the conversation flows so well 🥰 pleeeeease invite spencer back!!
The vegetables story reminded me of the time when my father tricked me into thinking shrimp is tiny fish ,and I discovered a year later it was shrimp. I felt betrayed for two seconds then continued eating. Shrimp is now my favorite food 😭
spencer commenting on the last story is my favorite part. my mom is a single mom and she means everything to me. love on your single moms because they sacrifice everything for their kids
Story 4: 8 months is plenty of time for the bride to think that hey, he probably wants to bring his new girlfriend to the wedding. Especially if he had rsvp with a +1 to begin with.
Willing to bet that the dog in the first story was a Doodle too. They are notorious for having unpredictable behavior because of backyard breeding, and many people get doodles as a first dog thinking it will be fine, then neglect to train it, and end up with a dog who is a complete menace which it sounds like that dog is.
ALSO, she didn't get mad over the KFC smh. She was mad over the lack of consideration her husband had for her feelings about getting the dog, and THEN not bothering to train the dog and allowing its bad behavior.
I loveeeee Spencer pllllease get him back more omggg Spencer, Lauren and Morgan trio would be ICONICCCCC
Story 5 - The bf would know what he’s eating if he cooked or helped for once! She has time to blend in veggies to various meals without him noticing so he’s definitely not nearby or noticing veggies disappearing from the fridge (1:19:39)
The tunnel story immediately made my brain go to true crime! I’ve heard so many stories of men building tunnels or bunkers and keeping women captive or doing some crime in them! She said she’s never been in it and it makes him so mysteriously happy…. Haha maybe someone should check up on him!
i was looking for a comment like this!! i thought the SAME thing and in the update it said he got antsy when she mentioned wanting to go but agreed to go as often
omg i was thinking that too lowkey bc that’s literally all he’s doing and by himself ?? scary
Thought the same!
Like does he have a pit down there? Buffalo bill style
can’t imagine working through a thursday afternoon without a tht episode
By far, one of my favorite episodes ever!!!! I love Spencer's perspective and attitude, I was laughing the entire time!! Loved it!! 💖
😂😂 the grown man not eating veggies has SENT me. The OP wasn’t an AH, but the BF was a jerk about it. It’s time to throw the whole man away.
Three weeks in a row with my fav people as guests?!?!?! HOW DID I GET SOO LUCKY! 🥰 Love this podcast so much and look forward to it every week!
The funny thing about the wedding story is when spencer had said “yeah no one goes to a wedding alone. They usually bring a date unless they’re a kid going with their parents”. Most of my adult life before getting married, I went to weddings with my parents.
It just reminded me of when I went to a family member’s wedding and my friend asked me “you didn’t bring a date? You just went by yourself?!” 😮 and I didn’t think it was so weird if I didn’t have a long term partner to go with my parents.
As a European I never heard of this either. Invites go to friends and families and their partners, if they're single they don't just bring a random date, a stranger the bride and groom don't know. That sounds just weird to me lol
Oh, good point. Same here, actually. But I think "child" can also mean "adult child" in this context. Because you're right.
Story 4: I agree with Morgan, I’ve worked in the wedding industry before and there are a LOT of emotions going on day of especially for the Bride -if even one thing goes wrong it can trigger a lot of emotions. I once had a bride who got set off over leaving her vows the the car parked outside the building! It’s crazy emotions. Cheers to OP who was sympathetic to the situation and saved the day. Not sure how it works everywhere, but where I worked if the wedding had more guests than planned last minute the kitchen staff could accommodate them for an. Extra charge… (and yes Coordinators are a MUST, I’ve seen too many vendors and issues pop up day of wedding that bride and groom have to deal with which takes time away from their day and can add to the stress on such an emotional day)
Story 5: my mother used to smash my vitamins into applesauce when i was under the age of like 8 or 9 because i had issues swallowing pills. I cant imagine being so immature and stubborn to not eat a vegetable when I'm not allergic.
I loved Spencer’s passion and perspective! He was my favorite guest the show has ever had! I’m unfamiliar with him previously, but I hope you bring him back.
Hi Morgan, from the island of Guam here! Been a fan of this podcast for half a year now and always binge watch/listen to your podcast at work and home. This podcast has really helped me identify my past emotional/mental traumas from the manipulative abuse I've received from my father and ex bf. I've finally come to terms that all the shame, guilt, and insecurities I've felt were from their lies and gaslighting and all of that was not my fault. Some people are just a-holes. Since watching your videos on youtube, Ive also grown to be more understanding of peoples actions and learned to look at everything in a bigger picture. Every guest you've put on each episode helped to put things into perspective (even when I didn't agree to their takes). Thank you so much! I'm at a much better place now and in a healthy and loving relationship. Many thanks ❤
Also, please bring Spencer back!! His takes were so thoughtful and I feel like he gave so much respect and understanding to each person in these reddit stories.
Spencer gave the energy we needed every time I hope he comes on again!!
The bride crying for two hours is giving I have feelings for OPs boyfriend and pitched a fit to get her to leave. OP says “the bride is shocked he brought someone and honored his plus one when he was dating _____” Something seems off to me more about the brides relationship to OPs boyfriend than them not having enough food/seating for an extra ONE person.
For Story, 2 I’m almost wondering if he has a plan to eventually build a bunker of sorts? Just knowing that some people get really into like doomsday prepping? And sometimes having extreme views that make you take extreme actions like building a bunker can also cause you so socially isolate. Just a thought.
The fact that the person in the first story used the child has a '' compromise'' is literally SO EMBARRASS.
Also the fact that she's saying that if he didn't get dog he would be cheating on her is beyond me WTF she NEEDS TO LEAVE HIS ASS
“It’s okay to be wrong” and “Bless this Mess” both need to be on merch!!!
Story 5- a lot of the vegetables served at restaurants are just a bag of frozen veggies warmed up in the microwave 😂
Spencer was such an amazing guest. I’m the daughter of a single mother. She was 21 when she had me, and I just turned 20 in April. It’s crazy to think that when she was my age, she was so close to getting pregnant. When I was born, she flipped a switch. She was no longer the party girl. No longer the one that drank to self medicate. My dad and her split barely six months after birth, and I had medical issues. I was her world. And I appreciated that then, all though I didn’t quite understand it, and I appreciate that more every day. So when my step dad came into her life, and she had my brothers, I was so happy to be in their wedding. For my mom to find someone that she deserved. She’s opened a business. She’s found her passions, and through that she has raised the three of us and taught us to be the best people we can. She’s my rock.
WE NEED MORE OF THIS DUDE. His way of explaining things is straight up beautiful 👌🏼
YES
ok this has been my favorite episode ever. spencer adds such a great element to the show. its funny, thoughtful, and most importantly entertaining. favorite guest by far!
They’re being so rational over the tunnel digging guy. I immediately was like “bro wtf?!”
As someone who had a partner who got a dog (while he had a broken leg no less) that was so big I couldn’t walk him because he was untrained and would drag me down the street, would poop and pee in the house, and would escape the house at any chance and it took hours to get back. It would jump on you (friendly) but was taller than me and knock me over. He barked loudly a lot (in town) and was poorly trained. I was vocal about not wanting a dog b/c I worked like 80 hrs a week and knew my partner wouldn’t train/care for/walk the dog as needed. On top of that I have chronic RA, with tons of pain and slightly fragile bones. It hurt me so bad everytime that dog came barreling into me and jumping on me. I ended up being the one responsible for the dog I didn’t want b/c he couldn’t/wouldn’t do so. Poor dog rarely left the house for a walk. I sympathize with the wife for hav8ng to deal with all the bad parts of pet ownership for a dog she was vocal about not wanting. If he needed that dog so bad he should have trained it and took all responsibility for what it does if it does get into someth8ng and OP shouldn’t expect his wife to help with the dog.
Break up with your boyfriend he knows about your condition and got a huge dog and purposefully didn’t train him that’s so disrespectful I’m sorry you have to deal with that plus working so much and taking on such a big responsibility you didn’t even want run girl
I put so much work into raising my dogs to be good and polite to friends and strangers alike, to have impulse control and lazer focus on me when giving commands. It drives me absolutely NUTS when people's untrained deranged dogs ruin everything for us. A stupid, untrained dog attacked us when one of my dogs was 10 weeks old and I had to deal with her fear towards other dogs and show her how to make friends with friendly dogs.
@@meebsbeans yes that relationship ended years ago, this incident definitely played a role in it
Morgan is wonderful and super funny, and Spencer is a great guest I liked his takes a lot. I also love Lauren, she’s so silly and has amazing empathy and I love Alejandra she’s such a smart speaker and has a lovely laugh.
Spencer’s raspy voice to die for And their energy is even better, please add Spence to the tht family!
I am SO glad you had someone on who didn't hold back and truly said their opinion without feeling like they were gonna step on anyone's toes. We need more of that!
For the tunnel story: maybe I've been watching too much true crime, but especially if no one has been into all areas of the tunnel but him for a while now, it needs to be checked out - without him here - by his significant other and several people that she trusts. It just gave me the hair-raising feeling that he might have someone - or multiple people - down there. Like the Reverend in The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, lol. The amount of time that he's spending there - obsessively, it seems - and his heightened mood when he gets back just all strikes me as very odd and unsettling. I'm not sure he's digging anymore. That might have been phase one of a much bigger project.
That's exactly what I was thinking!
Jesus. That’s dark. Good thinking though 😮
I just thought he was autistic 😅
I thought maybe he thinks it’s gonna be a gold mine or mine in general what she described wasn’t a tunnel it was a mine for sure!!
Story 5: I actually do the same for my children, I blend plenty of vegetables into their "tomato sauce". They always love it and I tell them afterwards what was in it and sometimes they even try to guess it themselves. Even though they don't like the consistency of most vegetables jet, they get used to the taste and get their vitamins and fibers and such.
Maybe the boyfriend has some kind of anxiety / aversion that is worse than some taste preference?
Spencer, Sarah, Fannita, Drew, and Deyson!!! Best. Guests. Ever.
PLEASEEEEE have spencer be a regular on the podcast!!! he's not afraid of calling people out and I need more of that energyy
There are certain vegetables I hate (others I love) but if I could blend them into m6 food and not notice or not mind them because they combined/were overpowered by other ingredients/flavors I would 100% do this with my food.
I love the passion he had on the first story!! ❤ I didn't know him before this episode now I love him 💕🫶🏼
Spencer is so funny! His facial expressions and his commentary made me laugh out loud several times during this episode 😂
Spencer has to come back! I adored the dynamic between you two throughout the episode and would love to see more of his takes on stories!
THE MOMENT I SAW SPENCER *I* SCREAMED LMAO♡♡ LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH
Spencer needs to come back on the show ASAP, he is hilarious and ON POINT 🤣
Story 5: I think its best to not hide it from him, like the taste test idea was good, though he may still have been upset. Personally I am picky and dont like vegetables, except for mushrooms and broccoli (and tomatoes if you count that), I would LOVE for some one to do that for me so I can get the veggies in somewhere
the wedding story is crazy because who isn’t prepared with extra things at such a special event? i’m sure a chair could be found and catering has some extra food. One person showing up ruining your whole day is crazy. I feel like she might have been worrying about a million things already and that just sent her over the edge.