How to Move On From Your Ex- Ep. 3

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  • čas přidán 30. 10. 2019
  • Patayin ang feelings para sa ex mo.
    3 important steps on how to do it.

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  • @kilmusic1619
    @kilmusic1619 Před 3 lety +468

    Yung feeling na miss mo sya talaga kaso bawal na
    Like kung ganon kadin

  • @yoshgaming8285
    @yoshgaming8285 Před 4 lety +690

    Nag break kami nung isang araw at siya ang nang iwan :) Pero malalagapasan ko to sana kayo din :) fight sabay sabay tayo mag move on guys. May dadating na mas bettttttter na mamahalin tayo habang buhay... hintay lang 😊

    • @mathewggdftks543
      @mathewggdftks543 Před 4 lety +3

      same sirrr sana ngaaa

    • @appleskie4309
      @appleskie4309 Před 4 lety +7

      Same here din po..pero it will pass..it may be hard now pero malalagpasan natin tiwala lang sa panginoon..

    • @Liwayway14
      @Liwayway14 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes, kaya natin to... Pray tayo kay God.. 😊

    • @nunexmamba857
      @nunexmamba857 Před 4 lety +1

      Uu nmn yakang yaka

    • @chersmith6150
      @chersmith6150 Před 4 lety +10

      Sobrang sakit 😢😭pero may hangganan tlaga lahat may ending..pero this will pass kayanin khit masakit sa umpisa..

  • @heatherniks8050
    @heatherniks8050 Před 4 lety +243

    Im watching now., grabe sakit 😭😭😭 who’s watching now na heartbroken ngayon 2020 lahat masakit na .,

    • @gerald-gv2wd
      @gerald-gv2wd Před 4 lety +1

      Sobrang sakit 😭

    • @chersmith6150
      @chersmith6150 Před 4 lety +2

      Yung feeling na nkikinig ka bgla nlang tutulo luha mo.ano po ba dpat gawin di ko kasi alam kung ano mali ko bgla nlang sya di ngparamdam last talk nmin nag ilove you pa sya pero tntwagan ko ayw na ko sagutin.hirap kung di mo alam kung kayo pa ba o di na.

    • @davelopez4504
      @davelopez4504 Před 4 lety +2

      Tayo broken, makaka move in din tayo 🤗

    • @lindacaluya6924
      @lindacaluya6924 Před 3 lety +1

      same here I'm in pain now

    • @tinamariebuquir545
      @tinamariebuquir545 Před 3 lety +1

      Sobra sobra sakit talaga😔

  • @arjengutierrez7160
    @arjengutierrez7160 Před 3 lety +10

    Like niyo to kung broken kayo ngayon cheer up Jesus love us 💋🙏

  • @glaizaolase
    @glaizaolase Před 4 lety +505

    Just like what Paulo Coehlo mentioned in one of his books, 'If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.'

  • @juanadepasiones3528
    @juanadepasiones3528 Před 4 lety +128

    God's Love is Unconditional. God's Love is Unending. Kahit na ikaw pa ang pinakamakasalanan sa mundo, nanjan pa rin siya para mahalin ka.

    • @katungatu09
      @katungatu09 Před 2 lety +1

      Umiyak ako ng sobra kase never ako nakapag i love you kay God. Now i realize mas masarap mahalin si God kahit na kanino man.

  • @lightmint9215
    @lightmint9215 Před 3 lety +21

    Wow! Ang timing naman nito. I was looking for something like tips to move on and Velden's words struck me a lot. Kaya ko to! This November 1. Papatayin ko na ang feelings ko sa kanya. Di ko deserve ex ko sa future ko. Sa past lang siya dapat naroroon. Iisipin ko na lang na mas maganda ang future ko ngayong wala na siya, kailangan kong mahalin ang sarili ko upang hindi na ako magseek ng love galing sa kanya. Kailangan kong burahin lahat ng good memories at tanging aalalahanin ko lang kung paano niya ako sinaktan, emotionally. Kung paano niya ko niloko, ginago, pinangakoan ng puro kasinungalingan. Kung paano siya nagtake advantage sa weakness ko. To all who's reading this, kaya natin to. Makakamove on din tayo. Huwag nating kalimutan na may Diyos tayong malalapitan. ❤

  • @emilynancheta6706
    @emilynancheta6706 Před 4 lety +5

    Naiiyak ako habang nanonood. Sana lahat ng broken hearted katulad ko makamove on din. Pray lang guys. 🙏

  • @kayeannpanitan5340
    @kayeannpanitan5340 Před 4 lety +159

    Ang hirap pala mag move on hahaha lalo 7yrs ang daming memories na dapat mung kalimutan ang hirap hahaha prang sasabog ka sa sakit gabi gabi araw araw umiiyak ka

    • @jeanvillkagz5065
      @jeanvillkagz5065 Před 4 lety +14

      hmm d same page 7 yrs ago.. were 8 yrs in relationship he said he fell out of love but aftr 1month he has new gf.. sa totoo lng now im happy and contented not because bitter ah? i find reason why were not meant.. God always has better plan for you for us.. keep on fighting not just for yourself but for those people who loves you and care for you... 😇

    • @jessabelles2875
      @jessabelles2875 Před 4 lety +4

      Same here 7yrs 😭 pano po kayo nagcocope up sa pain and moving on 😞

    • @milkycruzsemeniano1228
      @milkycruzsemeniano1228 Před 4 lety +1

      Same here 7yrs 😭😭

    • @milkycruzsemeniano1228
      @milkycruzsemeniano1228 Před 4 lety +20

      Gawa tayo ng groupchat pls gusto ko my kausap

    • @nasiyanamil6224
      @nasiyanamil6224 Před 4 lety

      Pasali naman po.

  • @Liwayway14
    @Liwayway14 Před 4 lety +26

    Thanks... ❤️
    We broke up 3 weeks ago... My live in partner for 12 yrs... May isa kming anak... Ayun ilang beses akong niloko eh.... So kailangan ko nang pakawalan at mahalin ang sarili ko... Mahirap talaga sa simula lalo at namimiss mo sya lagi, kasi sanay kang kasama sya eh... Pero wala eh, kailangan tanggapin... Lagi na lang akong nagdadasal sa Panginoon na i-heal nya ko... At after kong magdasal eh gumagaan ang pakiramdam ko... Kailangan kong kayanin para sa anak ko... 😊

  • @amoktv503
    @amoktv503 Před 4 lety +17

    Eto ang pinaka ayokong maramdaman ung maiwan ako ng taong minahal ko ng buong buo 😭

  • @randolphbaladad3337
    @randolphbaladad3337 Před 3 lety +17

    Sakit, crying while watching this because I put all my time and world to her, but in the end she just throw me away

    • @riacarbungco7614
      @riacarbungco7614 Před 3 lety +1

      Same here😔 alam mo ba ang babaw ng dahilan bat nya ako iniwan💔 nagmakaawa pa ako sa kanya na wag lang ako iwan..piro wala talaga😔

    • @margeliegonzagalirazan14
      @margeliegonzagalirazan14 Před 3 lety

      Ganun din nngayari sakin😭😭

    • @weimai
      @weimai Před 3 lety

      Pangit kasi ugali natin kaya tayo iniiwan. Sakit😢 Planado n lahat pero sa iba kinasal😢

  • @divinalazaro5919
    @divinalazaro5919 Před 4 lety +13

    Napaisip nako bigla...move on na,,trabaho Lang NG trabaho MABUHAY ANG Mga OFW katulad ko na nagsusumikap kahit may dinaramdam...salamat God bless

  • @shaznylykaforosuelo7149
    @shaznylykaforosuelo7149 Před 4 lety +32

    Thank you po malaking tulong to para sa akin😊 ngayon alam ko na, kaya sa mga nag iisip na MAHIRAP MAG MOVE ON tanggalin nyo sa isip yang lines na yan marami pang tao na mas deserving sa inyo. God bless😊 kaya natin to guys

  • @ZeriML
    @ZeriML Před 4 lety +59

    I'm watching this while crying😭
    Cant move on

  • @georgetteguevara845
    @georgetteguevara845 Před 4 lety +96

    Went here coz I am so desperate to move on. Broke up with my ex for 6 years. He broke up with me officially last April 7 after 3 months of trying to work things out. And yesterday I saw his picture with a girl, confronted him and he admit that he wants to start a relationship with that girl. Like ang bilis lang hehe it sucks and it hurts a lot. And what's worst is sinabi niya lahat ng masasakit na salita just for me to stop chasing him. 🙁 I am still in pain.

    • @chaelinkang9706
      @chaelinkang9706 Před 4 lety +1

      Same ate huhu

    • @jace1032
      @jace1032 Před 4 lety +8

      I feel you :))
      nung first week of april sya naging cold sakin til iniwan nya na ko.
      mga huli nyang sinabi sakin "tapos na kitang mahalin i'm sorry" like grabe ganun ganun nalang!? kase mag fofocus daw muna sya sa family nya at sa busness nila eh nung kami naman meron naman na sya nun at di naman sguri ako naging masyado kinukuha attention nya at ma agrabyado sya sa business nila.
      and her sharedpost at myday nya grabe.. parang wala lang nangyare na iniwan nyako, ang saya nya sa myday nya at mga sharepost nyang memes etc. Hirap na hirap nako.
      this day dinelete ko ung kadamihan sa pics namin, di ko na kasi kaya ung sakit at selos na hindi na ako ung sanhi ng pagiging masaya nya.

    • @lazyonek7520
      @lazyonek7520 Před 4 lety +3

      My girlfriend broke up with me last last night and ang sakit. I cried all day until now. 💔

    • @akaliismywaifu660
      @akaliismywaifu660 Před 4 lety +4

      Same. Ang bilis nila magpalit noh? Parang binasura lang tayo.

    • @grahammarostan4520
      @grahammarostan4520 Před 4 lety

      Georgette Guevara 🥺🥺🥺

  • @marasarahurbino6435
    @marasarahurbino6435 Před 4 lety +97

    I always get the same advice about moving on, but if there's one thing very special/important about all of your advices, that is the last one. :) Be complete in the unending, unconditional love of God.
    Preoccupy your mind with the good things :)
    God bless brother.

  • @bornjayragas7381
    @bornjayragas7381 Před 4 lety +27

    This advises might help u 2 days or 1 week but it will always go back to the same feeling the pain.wag natin lokohin mga tao the pain and the longingness can take up to yrs even forever atleast were ready

    • @rosellerenriquez8823
      @rosellerenriquez8823 Před 4 lety +3

      So true, but you also have to think what's the good for you, love yourself more, accept and be happy of his/her decsion, surrender everything to God, trust the process, and cling on to our Lord God, the Savior🙏❤

    • @rolfskydelavega3106
      @rolfskydelavega3106 Před rokem

      Time heals all wounds

  • @angelgracetamayo5447
    @angelgracetamayo5447 Před 4 lety +24

    3yrs signing off 😔😭 love is short moving is to long 😔😭😭😭

  • @sancyjoycabaraban3838
    @sancyjoycabaraban3838 Před 4 lety +2

    Hindi naman ganyan ang pagmamahal eh, kasi kahit na gaano pa kadami ang red flags at mga bagay na di kanais-nais sa kanya, mga bagay na di mo gusto, mga bagay na kina iinisan mo. Kahit gaano pa yan kadami, hahanap at hahanap ang puso ng isang rason kung bakit mo siya mahal at patuloy na minamahal. Kapag mahal mo ang isang tao, mahal mo, period.

    • @sancyjoycabaraban3838
      @sancyjoycabaraban3838 Před 4 lety

      Pero siguro nga, sa iba makakatulong 'tong ways na ito kung paano mag move on. Pero talaga, pag nagmahal ka ng totoo, hindi mo naman maiisip mga kakulangan niya. 😔 Pag nagmahal ka ng totoo, kahit na gaano kasakit, kahit na gaano kahirap, mahal mo parin. 😔 Kaya kung sino man dyan ang nahihirapan mag move on, kahit gaano pa yan kahirap, kaya mo yan. 😔
      At sa mga tao na nagmamahal diyan at patuloy na nagmamahal, i just hope hindi na huli ang lahat pra mapa realize niyo sa taong mahal niyo kung gaano mo sila kamahal. Sabi nga nila, there are all kinds of love in this world, but never the same love twice. 😔

  • @simplyme301
    @simplyme301 Před 3 lety +5

    "you see" is his favorite words.

  • @carlorobertlibo-on6257
    @carlorobertlibo-on6257 Před 3 lety +28

    Thank you, Kase nakatulong sakin toh. Actually I just wanted to die nung mawala siya. Then NAALALA KO Yung mga masasamang ginawa Niya sakin.

    • @julieferdelacruzzzzzz
      @julieferdelacruzzzzzz Před 3 lety

      Sameeee

    • @michaelangelotamayo4665
      @michaelangelotamayo4665 Před 3 lety

      Tuloy lang ang buhay laban lang marami magagandang pwedeng mangyari nasaktan kaman ngayon darating ang araw makakalimutan mo at liligaya ka sana naka move on kana

  • @cesfigueroa7023
    @cesfigueroa7023 Před 4 lety +19

    I still remember how painful for me it was when I first watched this video. I've just came from a bad break up then. I can't seem to apply yet the tips given by Bro. Velden as I am clouded by hurt and longing. But now, a few months later, I thank God that I feel better. As I watch this video now, I can smile and say yeah Bro. Velden, tama nga na patayin na ang feelings kay ex. I now find true joy and peace from God, the only source of real love. I am also once again whole. 🙂 I can now say that I am now ready and excited to meet the one that God has planned me to be with. 🙂

    • @rosellerenriquez8823
      @rosellerenriquez8823 Před 4 lety +1

      Just be patient and wait for the right person at the right time🙏

  • @marsdayalo8780
    @marsdayalo8780 Před 3 lety +14

    Ang bigat habang pinapanood ko to. Naiiyak pa ako. It's been 2 months since he broked up with me. Sometimes I feel like giving up because I can't handle the pain anymore. If someone is reading my comments please pray for me. 💔😭

    • @melcrisquijanopeligro5254
      @melcrisquijanopeligro5254 Před 3 lety

      Same to you ang dali lng nyang naka kita nang bago

    • @helenaongoco470
      @helenaongoco470 Před 3 lety

      you will get over with that promise pray lang tayo may darating n bago for yu in gods time ok lang yan sis forget all good memories tama c venden

    • @georgiezerna3521
      @georgiezerna3521 Před 3 lety

      Sakit talaga .ako nga almost 4 yrs kami sya ang nakipag break saakin sakit naalala mo yung masayang araw.pero pray lang ang makapag heal sa atin.

    • @emerunknown2853
      @emerunknown2853 Před 3 lety

      Kakahiwalay lng namin ngayon super sakit 😢 laban lng

    • @marsdayalo8780
      @marsdayalo8780 Před 3 lety

      @@emerunknown2853 Kaya mo yan. Kapit lang. Kaya natin to.

  • @babylove9154
    @babylove9154 Před 4 lety +64

    Yeah tama kapag gusto mong patayin ang feelings mo sa isang tao alalahanin mo ang mga walang kwentang memories ksama sya,ganun ang ginawa ko sa ex ko na sobrang mahal ko as in kac dati tuwing nag aaway kmi lagi akong umiiyak at kapag naghihiwalay kmi umiiyak ako kac akala ko di ako mabuhay kapag nwala sya pero maling mali pla ako 😭kayang kaya ko plang mabuhay ng wala na sya sa buhay ko.Ang hirap nyang kalimotan sobra kac minahal ko sya ng sobra pero tuwing naiicp ko ang mga Walang kwentang memories ksama sya nawawla ang feelings ko sa kanya sobra akong na tuturn off and now nka MOVE ON na ako sa kanya after 3months na break up nmin 😊💔more than 1yr na relasyon pinag palit lang sa 1months 😭okey keYoow😂.kung gusto mong mag move on ikaw din mismo makaka tulong sa sarili mo wag kang mag cmula sa part na kung saan kayo naging msaya dun sa ka parts na kung saan ka nya cnaktan ng sobra.

    • @andengandeng888
      @andengandeng888 Před 4 lety +5

      Sana ako din makamove on na. 12 Days na kaming break ng bf ko. I hope in 3 months time okay na ako. Hindi ako makatulog ng maayos at makakain ng maayos. I'm glad ok kana. Salamat sa comment mo kasi nakakainspire sa tulad ko na bago pa lang kakabreak.

    • @jucyfruit9944
      @jucyfruit9944 Před 4 lety +2

      Sna mapatay ko na dn feelings ko sa kanya.. hirap pala mg move on.. yon dn lge ko inisip yong bad memories.. pg nag aaway kme ako lge ang talo ako lge humingi ng sorry khit d ko nman kasalanan... at pg nag aaway kme lge nya ako minumura sa chat at sinasabihan walang kwentang karelasyon... ang inisip ko nlng wat f kme mgkatuluyan kawawa mga anak ko baka madamay pa sa bastos nyang bunganga..

    • @slashuzumakigaming6765
      @slashuzumakigaming6765 Před 4 lety +1

      hoping naka move on nadin ako, sakit sa puso,, sakit humingaw,, napakasakit ,,kakabreak namin kagabi💔, almost 3 years na kami,,, isipin ko nalang mga negative side nya, parang pain reliever din salamat

    • @andengandeng888
      @andengandeng888 Před 4 lety

      @@slashuzumakigaming6765 anong rason bakit kayo naghiwalay?

    • @slashuzumakigaming6765
      @slashuzumakigaming6765 Před 4 lety

      @@andengandeng888 may nakilala sya foreigner,, naging friends sila, ayun, wala nag time,,, cold na, den after one and a half, sabi nya, wala na sya feelings sakin, awa nalang daw,, lapit na kami 3 years , pero salamat sa video natu at sa ibang videos sa youtube,, magaan ma pakiramdam ko,, moving on na,,

  • @AaronSoriano0906
    @AaronSoriano0906 Před 4 lety +21

    Thank you so much! I can’t sleep almost 2 weeks keep on thinking about her. Thank you so much for the tips. God bless everyone and stay safe.

  • @ellie6788
    @ellie6788 Před 3 lety +1

    What if you can't find a reason dahil lhat ng ginawa nya everything is so beautiful. The respect, pagaalaga, a 1 call away friend, adviser, and best friend. Panu mo kakalimutan ung taong walang ginawa kundi ang mapasaya ka kaso di lng tlaga kyo tinadhana.

  • @richmondlumaban6135
    @richmondlumaban6135 Před 3 lety +2

    The most important Love is the love of the Lord, sinaktan man tayo ng iba, pero hindi ang Diyos.
    Continue to be healed and Let God make us whole once again. ❤️

  • @linramilo3733
    @linramilo3733 Před 3 lety +5

    God's love is the BEST! 💖🙏💖

  • @kayemarasigan1257
    @kayemarasigan1257 Před 3 lety +4

    Watching this for a second time, for the same guy😔💔

  • @nunexmamba857
    @nunexmamba857 Před 4 lety +1

    Sana sa mga hiniwalayan ngayung 2020 at wlang magawa kc covid lalo nat LDR SANA MABILIS TAYUNG MKA MOVE ON. KAKAYANIN. MADAMI PANG IBA JAN.

  • @ericarobledo3411
    @ericarobledo3411 Před 2 lety +2

    11 years 1 year engaged. 😅 1 month na kaming break!
    Bye na. Kaya natin to guys!!! Let's all be better. ❤❤

  • @MrAaDdRr
    @MrAaDdRr Před 4 lety +4

    5 months since our last breakup... My feelings still come back every now and then.. But this video set me straight. I keep remembering the good, but I forget the bad thats buried under the rug. Thx

  • @shielalainebarro3106
    @shielalainebarro3106 Před 4 lety +18

    Ngayon ko lang po ito napanood, natuwa po ako sa advise mo po. Ako po yung iniwan nung ex ko and I did begged and chased him.

    • @jareignpardo7241
      @jareignpardo7241 Před 4 lety

      if I may ask, anong nangyari after the begging and chasing?

  • @christianjasonbacani2619
    @christianjasonbacani2619 Před 3 lety +2

    And most importantly, LOVE YOURSELF. ❤️

  • @krishiajoyelumir3324
    @krishiajoyelumir3324 Před 3 lety +2

    THANK YOU PO. I NEVER THOUGHT I WILL SEARCH HOW TO MOVE ON IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. TAE TLGA ANG PAG-IBIG

    • @papoyg4216
      @papoyg4216 Před 3 lety

      Pareho Tayo. Di ko I expect I will experience this

  • @annaricapacurib4314
    @annaricapacurib4314 Před 4 lety +37

    shyt legit😂 it's been 1 month a a half since we broke up, 5 years na kmi sana ngayong Feb. 20 kaso may iba na sya ngayon ambilis makahanap😂 thank you po❤️

    • @ajnrabaya1189
      @ajnrabaya1189 Před 4 lety

      feel you ma'am
      :( 5 years din

    • @jazzsatiago3451
      @jazzsatiago3451 Před 4 lety

      6months Feb 14 ala na Single nako may iba na din Sya 😭😢😭😭😪Good memories isa lang awkward things Supot sya eh tos ng date kami Sa Zinc Hindi niya alam Paano Eh use ung automatic na Gripo😂😂😂un lang

    • @heyheyhey6730
      @heyheyhey6730 Před 4 lety

      “Replace” nga daw kasi e😂 the power of “replace”😂

    • @ghemgallardo6835
      @ghemgallardo6835 Před 4 lety +7

      I feel you kakabreak lang namin netong feb ng walang closure then i just found out that his in a new relationship w someone else near him (his friend told me) and it was true. It breaks me it hurts me po kasi nagplano na kmi sa lahat at nakasanayan ko na na makausap at kasama ko siya araw araw. Monthsary na sana namin sa feb 21. andami ko pang tanung sa kanya kung bakit nia nalang ako iniwan sa ere. sabi kiya kami na daw and only “death” can only seperate us. masakit kasi feeling ko kami na talaga sa isat isa. masakit kasi bakit nia ko pinaltan. masakit kasi di nia ko sinama sa desisyon nia, kung nung una eh sabay kmi nag desisyon para maging kami na. Put* ang sakiiiit

    • @heyheyhey6730
      @heyheyhey6730 Před 4 lety +5

      Ghem Gallardo basta maling tao, mali talaga yung mangyayare... Oo subrang sakit kasi araw2x and kahit anong gagawin natin is maiisip talaga natin sila tas yung mga toxic na nangyare matatabunan dahil mangingibabaw yung miss na nafefeel natin pero hahayaan nalang natin mafeel yun kasi bawal na and maling mali na magpadala sa nararamdam kasi alam naman nating mas mataas yung utak kesa sa puso kaya dapat sundin kung sino man yung mas nakatataas, kasalanan din natin kasi hinayaan natin silang makapasok sa buhay natin kasi kung hindi walang kadramahan na mangyayare kaya yung experience na yan yung magpapamature saatin na dapat next time... sa tamang panahon, oras and edad na, kasi mas masarap mag mahal sa tamang tao kasi alam nating wala ng mali tayong maririnig and makikita.
      Totoo talaga yung Action speak louder than words, kung ano yung totoong nararamdam yun yung action and kung ano yung infatuation lang yun yung words... Mas nangunguna yung salita kesa sa kilos kasi immature pa and maling tao sila.

  • @onggacogadelync.
    @onggacogadelync. Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks kuya Velden Lim..
    Subrang sakit talaga😭😭
    I'm sure laking tulong itong vlog nato sa situation ko ngayon..
    #💪😇💖

  • @k-flicks9547
    @k-flicks9547 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this sir! It really helps me a lot kasi I just ended my 4 year relationship last month. We love each other..no cheating involved talagang ayaw lang sakin ng family nya dahil Indian sya at pinay ako..sobrang sakit. Hindi nya ako pinaglaban.😔 I have to let him go..
    I trust God's plan for me. I know He is with me to heal me and in the right time ibibigay nya din yung Man that I'm praying for. 🙏 ❤
    But I trust in

  • @maricelbarias3071
    @maricelbarias3071 Před 4 lety +2

    I just broke up with my 5 yrs.relationship,6 mos.lng mula nung umalis ako dto sa abroad,ndi na kami nagka2intindihan. Ngaun 10 mos.p lng aki dto.Masakit kc wla kaming closure. Its very hard to move on😢 Ginawa ko na lahat ng paraan pra mkalimutan xa, like manood ng ganito. Galing magsalita ni kuya,may sense tlga😘 at totoo nman lahat ng cnabi niya.

  • @pp55317
    @pp55317 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you.😊 This helped me a lot right now as I'm having my 12 midnight thoughts. 💯

  • @mikariego3042
    @mikariego3042 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi kuya^^ I just want to say na thank you because your tips really helped me. December hanggang January pinapanood ko 'to paulit ulit dahil nung December sobrang heartbroken ako sa ex ko and you have no idea kung gaano ko siya kinababaliwan. Like gabi-gabi iniistalk ko siya at yung bago niya. Sobrang napapagod ako sa mga ginagawa ko. Ewan ko ba bakit masarap magpakatanga hshs. But thank you so much because of your video, i finally moved on. I finally do whatever i want. No more toxic and immature relationship. Thank you^^

    • @VeldenLim
      @VeldenLim  Před 2 lety +1

      Happy to know that you have moved on!:)

  • @abbybautista9832
    @abbybautista9832 Před 4 lety +1

    Kailangan pa palang mapanuod ko to, bago ako matauhan haha. Hoping that I will forget him as soon as possible.

  • @mr.g6692
    @mr.g6692 Před rokem

    Grabe thank you so much sir
    Ang sarap pakinggan ng mga inspirational message mo.
    Let's move forward everyone ☺️☺️

  • @mha-zemanalo8539
    @mha-zemanalo8539 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you so much! I just had a break up from a 10 years relationship. This content saved and helped me to go through with my life.. Akala ko katapusan na ng mundo pero bulls eye lahat ng sinabi mo sir sa ginagawa at nararamdaman ko. I am not completely healed yet, thats why I keep on doing the 3 steps u mentioned. Thank you sir and Godbless!

  • @Hachiiikosama
    @Hachiiikosama Před 4 lety +5

    "I am not your sun and you are not my flower ". Before kayo papasok sa relationship always remember na it's okay to love hard,pero always kang mag titira for yourself. I always thought na pag loyal ako, pag binibigay ko time, love at attention ko eh magiging enough na ako. Pero the sad truth is , she can't love you if you yourself don't love yourself. All I wish is I should have realized this sooner lang. So bro/sis, If you're reading this and felt the same way, eat. Drink. Be busy kahit lockdown. Watch that anime/kdrama you wanted to finish. Talk to your friends. Go workout. You can never stop loving them oo, pero you can never replace them. The lesson here is, keep the memories. Learn from it. Apply it. Never forget it pero never disrespect it. That girl used be someone you wanted to marry. So all you can do right now is grow

    • @Hachiiikosama
      @Hachiiikosama Před 4 lety

      You'll heal soon,you'll be in a better place. Just dont hurry it. We all have our own time pero never rush it. Trust the process.

  • @preciousbragado3119
    @preciousbragado3119 Před 4 lety

    Nabawasan yung lungkot ko ngayon. Thank you. 💖

  • @joannaselma3072
    @joannaselma3072 Před 3 lety

    Ang sakit.....pero ito yung tamang mga tips...fapat lahat ng ayaw ko sa kanya iisipin ko..para maka move on ako ng tuluyan..makakayanan at malalagpasan ko rin lahat ng sakit at lungkot...love this video..nakaka build ng self confidence.to heal your own.let na talaga kasi paulit ulit nlang

  • @ajnrabaya1189
    @ajnrabaya1189 Před 4 lety +76

    we broke up today :( after 5 years, napunta ako dito to move on

  • @meicalheirix1059
    @meicalheirix1059 Před 3 lety +8

    I still wanna fight for us, but how can i? He already gave up. Letting go someone you're still fighting for and saving a relationship he already gave up is so painful🙂

    • @aicon_873
      @aicon_873 Před 3 lety +1

      I tried to fight for us too. Pero I was the only one fighting for it. He chose to give up. Nagmakaawa pa ako that time which is mali, baka naawa lang siya sakin. After that, it was never the same love again.

  • @limuelpagurayan2256
    @limuelpagurayan2256 Před 4 lety

    Yan ang advice real talk hnd trying hard. Galing mo chong maraming salamat best advice ever

  • @babezconstantinotumangday628

    Nakaka tuwa naman ang 3 tips nato :) lakas mka good vibes.. Thank you. Keepsafe and God bless us🙏💕

  • @justinecaithsuva124
    @justinecaithsuva124 Před 3 lety +15

    He is close to being perfect how can i move on? My heart is so heavy.

    • @xyrylloliverio3584
      @xyrylloliverio3584 Před 3 lety +4

      Isipin mung may mas perfect na darating po sayo at the right time.

    • @geeura3436
      @geeura3436 Před 3 lety +2

      How are you today? Right now im in pain too. Im scared for the future ahahahah my gosh :"(

  • @rachelespineda9400
    @rachelespineda9400 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you po. Sobrang nakatulong po sa akin. ❤️😃

  • @joshualee3236
    @joshualee3236 Před 2 lety +1

    guys are only sweet, thoughtful and ideal sa una lang. After ilang years maghahanap na yan ng mas better pa sa iyo. Sana karmahin kayo!

  • @krishavlogs224
    @krishavlogs224 Před 4 lety

    Galing mo kuya you put God in this topic i salute you. GOBLESS

  • @jeancaylepeanar1259
    @jeancaylepeanar1259 Před 4 lety +19

    ang saket isang pag kakamali ko lang iniwan at sinukuan ako ng taong nangako na di ako iiwan😭 paano na ako?😭

    • @ma.binkycastro8272
      @ma.binkycastro8272 Před 4 lety

      truth. tinapon ng ganun ganun lng ang 5yrs 😢

    • @rheafermilan3428
      @rheafermilan3428 Před 4 lety +1

      Ganun din ako be :'( kakabreak lang namen 😭😭😭😭😭 same na same tayo jean.

    • @olletajoe9689
      @olletajoe9689 Před 4 lety

      same here 😢

    • @jeancaylepeanar1259
      @jeancaylepeanar1259 Před 4 lety +3

      Kinaya ko na mag isa ako, kayo nyo din☺️ Di man sobrang okayyy pero atleast di na gaya ng dati. Just Embrace the pain. And Acceptance💗 Self love muna☺️

    • @rheafermilan3428
      @rheafermilan3428 Před 4 lety

      @@jeancaylepeanar1259 goood im happy for you girl. Kaya naten to

  • @monefunkydelics
    @monefunkydelics Před 4 lety +6

    really easy to say it, struggle pdin to do it. but you are absooooolutely right... time also makes it's own way to ease and put everything back to where it should be... thumbs up to you sir, been having this depression issue for about 2 yrs now... on and off...

    • @VeldenLim
      @VeldenLim  Před 4 lety +4

      It's really tough but not impossible. Never give up. One day you will be ok as well. Will be praying for you.😊

    • @rolfskydelavega3106
      @rolfskydelavega3106 Před rokem

      Time lng tlga.. Mlilimutan mo din.

  • @erjohnjoshuasarmiento6739

    I am Inspired to your Videos, I trust the way you show your wisdom and knowledge about God. I really want a Christian counselor or adviser who really knows the pattern closer to God 💝💝💝

  • @izahbunuan8817
    @izahbunuan8817 Před 4 lety

    Ang ganda neto! So helpful salamat!

  • @labatosrichiemg.5730
    @labatosrichiemg.5730 Před 4 lety +51

    Paano pag walang bad memories sa relationship nyo ang Hirap. Kasi nga na ghost 😂😂😂
    Kung pwede lang mag reset ng Isipan

    • @love_anj1738
      @love_anj1738 Před 4 lety +8

      Richiem Labatos makisingit lang. The fact that he/she ghosted you means di sya nagpahalaga sa feelings mo. At sabi nga, nagghost instead of naging totoo sila or diniretso ka, so that they can go back anytime they want. May mga lalaki na instead maging totoo na they dont want to commit yet and date around, mas ok sa kanila magghost para they can reach out again coz they didnt burn the bridge and so they can always comeback whenever it is convenient for them.. parang ganun ang isip nila.

    • @dongobispo8623
      @dongobispo8623 Před 4 lety

      Agtee

    • @missvargaz9576
      @missvargaz9576 Před 4 lety +1

      Hindi pwedeng walang bad memories...kaya nga kayo naghiwalay kase may mali diba?

    • @androsepearlcanadora4945
      @androsepearlcanadora4945 Před 4 lety +4

      Hahaha same tayo. Wala akong maisip eh. Ghosting is painful talaga eh. Dimo alam kung ano ba talaga. 😔

    • @armyfangirlimnida9393
      @armyfangirlimnida9393 Před 4 lety +2

      same here na ghost din ako.di kami nag break. he just stop on communicating with me.. block ako sa fb nya nagpalit sya ng number tapos nung gumamit ako ibang account .para ma check fb ng ex ko .surprisingly .nakita ko sa facebook ni ex .kinasal na pala sya after ilang months lang mula ng mang ghosting sya...grabe nasaktan talaga ako.pero pinilit ko mag move on.dahil ayaw ko magsayang ng luha .at energy sa walang kwentang lalaki katulad nya

  • @jensingerist
    @jensingerist Před 4 lety +5

    Pano ako makaka move on kung almost perfect boyfriend sya? Pano kung ako yung humahanap ng butas? Kung ako yung mga issue? Ang hirap mag move on kung ako yung nanakit sa kanya. Sobrang hirap. Ngayon humihingi sya ng time para makapag isip at nahihirapan ako ng sobra. I realized everything sobrang sorry ko sa lahat ng nagawa Kong pananakit sa kanya. Hindi ko nakikita yung sarili ko sa iba. Hindi ko alam kung pano ako mag mumove on. Sobrang hirap 😭

    • @junelynrocacayago6890
      @junelynrocacayago6890 Před 4 lety +1

      Hugsss (>^^)> let go and let god ❤ you are worthy you are perfect you priceless sa totoong taong mahal ka talaga. Walang pero pero walang kasi ganto.

    • @jensingerist
      @jensingerist Před 4 lety

      @@junelynrocacayago6890 sobrang sakit po talaga. Mahal na mahal ko sya. 😭😭😭

    • @junelynrocacayago6890
      @junelynrocacayago6890 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jensingerist hugss! Magdasal ka lang kaya natin to lagpasan. 😊

    • @jensingerist
      @jensingerist Před 4 lety

      @@junelynrocacayago6890 sana nga po kayanin. Salamat po. God bless po.

    • @junelynrocacayago6890
      @junelynrocacayago6890 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jensingerist walang di kakayanin. Sexbomb tayo laban laban lang.

  • @emilygutierrez4811
    @emilygutierrez4811 Před 2 lety

    Hi new subscribers po watching from oman.. Nice topic. Relate much kasi almost a month na din na break na kmi ng bf ko.. For now focus sa goal, self love, self improvement and change the mindset.. Kaya sa mga iniwan na Gaya Ko tuloy lang ang buhay. Pray Kay God and patawarin ang nanakit satin. Si lord na bahala.. 😊😊😊

  • @annamazing9875
    @annamazing9875 Před 3 lety

    Ang daming magagadangvadvice ...magagandang salita..pero isa lng nmn tlga ang makjatulong sa raong nasasaktan ...yun ay sya mismo sa sarili nya..dhil sya mismo xng nakkaramdam ng pain...at nung sya ay naging masaya sya din lng ang nakakaramsam ng hapiness nayun kya.sya din lng nakkaalm kung pnu mg move on...at time wil cone mghihilom ang lht...pra din lbg yng sufat n sa tmng pnahon nagaling yan...tnx to yur very informative..thanks advice..

  • @justwalkbymevlog3081
    @justwalkbymevlog3081 Před 3 lety +9

    Pota 20 days na pala na wala na kami 06 Nov 2020 hahah Pero masakit pa namimiss ko pa rin siya. Hirap pala mag move on siya kasi ang nang iwan. Pinagpalit niya ako sa iba. Nag hanap ng iba💔😢

    • @lykaromilla8918
      @lykaromilla8918 Před 3 lety

      Hope you feel better soon po. Hays

    • @jongniii5481
      @jongniii5481 Před 3 lety +1

      Same bro😓

    • @justwalkbymevlog3081
      @justwalkbymevlog3081 Před 3 lety

      @@jongniii5481 kamusta ka ngaun?

    • @inogreat72
      @inogreat72 Před 3 lety

      Same Tayo bro..Yung feeling na nagdeny pa siya kahit nahuli ko na...masakit umiyak pa ako sa harapan niya pero wala na talaga,,may iba na siyang gusto..pakatatag lang

  • @sonneajulian3846
    @sonneajulian3846 Před 4 lety +5

    Sobrang sakit😭😢
    Yung sasabihin niya lang na gusto niya ng maging free😢 paano naman ako na ayaw kong mawala siya😢

  • @dennisespana5770
    @dennisespana5770 Před 4 lety +2

    Yung grabe yung beg mo para lang magstay sya pero binalewala niya lang pagmamahal mo

  • @rj6589
    @rj6589 Před 3 lety

    This just appeared on my recommendation and still on my phase of moving on but I'm getting better day by day. It's been 6 months and it was ME who broke up with him, not because I don't love him anymore but I choose to save myself than to save our relationship. It's getting toxic na kasi and it got worse when I knew, he's not supportive in my dreams just because we're LDR.. I love him very much but I think, love will never be just enough for me to stay.
    Thanks for this video btw! 💗

  • @VeldenLim
    @VeldenLim  Před 4 lety +4

    Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell for more hopeful and inspirational content. God bless you all! :)

  • @Leonarddoesntwantit
    @Leonarddoesntwantit Před 4 lety +4

    Di parin maka move on😭😭😭😭😭

  • @patricialynnetadeo2558

    Wow makakatulong talaga to thank you po more power at more advices and motivational po😍💯❤️

  • @momshiesdearestkitchen1600

    Wow Thanks for this video ..right timing coz im suffering sa broke up nmin 2 weeks ago..and this video helped me a lot to think kung ano dapat kung gawin.. Salamuch. God Bless

  • @androsepearlcanadora4945
    @androsepearlcanadora4945 Před 4 lety +4

    Yun nga sa sobrang bait nya wala akong maalala na bad sa kanya. Pero bakit ? 😭💔

  • @dannafayeabad8312
    @dannafayeabad8312 Před 4 lety +4

    We broke up yesterday 💔

  • @he4dshotzgaming870
    @he4dshotzgaming870 Před 2 lety

    Ganda Ng last sir, hahanap nalang tayo Ng maganda at mabait at deserve sa atin habang buhay salamat sir

  • @rosellerenriquez8823
    @rosellerenriquez8823 Před 4 lety +2

    Self love is the best medicine❤🙏

  • @kalowrie
    @kalowrie Před 4 lety +4

    I'm now on this page 4 years after break up. Why 🤣Hahahaha

  • @babsc1572
    @babsc1572 Před 4 lety

    I agree, if you love the wrong person that much how much more if that person is the right one, the one that you truly deserve to have. Just keep the faith and soon you will get through it. It happened to me and I survived. 😊

  • @shadycipher2923
    @shadycipher2923 Před 4 lety +2

    thanks sa advice bro my heart is weak when it comes to love ang hiraaap mag move on sobraaa pero you'll get through it day by day ilang months of sleepless nights na lagi ko syang iniisip hanggang sa dumating na yung punto na magpakamatay na ako at simula nung napanood ko to i feel much better,sana di na nya magawang magloko sa susunod nya cause it fucking hurts so bad sana masaya sya ngayon❤❣️

  • @jhomerrosal6780
    @jhomerrosal6780 Před 3 lety

    Ive been trying to forget everything but i cant. Thanks for this video!.

  • @rahimahpangcatan5506
    @rahimahpangcatan5506 Před 4 lety

    Thanks for these words of wisdom.. Really help me 😣

  • @kuwait9880
    @kuwait9880 Před 2 lety

    I love the way you speak idol na may kasamang ngiti thankyou sa tips idol malaking tulong to

  • @charissevlogz3654
    @charissevlogz3654 Před 4 lety

    Thank you very much ..he break up with me today😭 i thought i lost everything ... but i just realize by watching this video

  • @Jroja-kf2gf
    @Jroja-kf2gf Před 2 lety

    This is my second time na manood diito para sa pangalawa kong girlfriend 😭😭 thank you ulit

  • @yoshiishida3285
    @yoshiishida3285 Před 3 lety

    Salamat lods :( malaking tulong saakin to . We broke lastweek !! Kaya natin to laban lang 💪🏿

  • @ardeee9895
    @ardeee9895 Před 3 lety

    Fresh from breakup here. Maraming salamat sa advice.

  • @venusabellana5036
    @venusabellana5036 Před 3 lety

    Natuwa ako , super galing . Salamat po dami kong realization dahil dito.

  • @raelvenzon5628
    @raelvenzon5628 Před 3 lety

    Galing Mo !! Godbless sobrang blissful ng advice mo ser ! kudos!

  • @mitchellgraceagtuca6531

    Thank you for this kind of advice specially to those people were broken including me...

  • @loidagumabay6205
    @loidagumabay6205 Před 4 lety

    Yes kayang kaya natin to guys if they hurt you let him go mahalin muna ang sarili natin bago tayo magmahal sa iba

  • @claravillafuerte9041
    @claravillafuerte9041 Před 3 lety

    Good advice ,thank you.

  • @feybaslute8674
    @feybaslute8674 Před 3 lety

    Thank you!!! Gumaan na pakiramdam ko dahil dito.❤

  • @kagura9859
    @kagura9859 Před 3 lety

    I'll come back here once I am moved on. Thank you.. I'm needing this so much..

  • @marvyloumediano1669
    @marvyloumediano1669 Před 4 lety

    Very straight forward and walang maraming ek-ek pero di ko kinaya yung mga wrong grammar. Lol🤣 anyways nice video po. Been there done that and everything was quite effective. Do everything with prayer😊

  • @lebenmitmarlyn1546
    @lebenmitmarlyn1546 Před 4 lety

    sobrang natuwa po ako sa video ninyo kaya i share it with my friend na hindi maka move on with her ex. Im hoping na makatulong sa kanya itong video.thanks po!

  • @docs_marx3791
    @docs_marx3791 Před 2 lety

    Thank you po kuya. Gusto ko na po talagang i let go ang ex ko at dahil po dito naliwanagan po yung isip ko na I deserve to be happy in life kahit wala na siya. Thank you po Kuya and Merry Christmas❤

  • @marjolyncanja8739
    @marjolyncanja8739 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for this message .

  • @vernacarino8664
    @vernacarino8664 Před 3 lety +1

    Sometimes giving advices is easier because it never happened to us...

  • @louisezamora4955
    @louisezamora4955 Před rokem

    Just wanna share my story here, 2 years ago nung pinanood ko tong vid na to. That time I break up with my 3 years relationship with my ex girlfriend. During those days, akala ko hindi ko makakayanan yung bigat na naramdaman ko. To the point that I almost end my life that night.
    But that was 2 years ago, and now na super saya na ng heart ko, just wanna inspire and encourage others na don't lose hope. Time will come that God will give us the right time and right person to love.

  • @carolynocat5909
    @carolynocat5909 Před 4 lety

    Thank you sir for the video you did.. It helps me to recover the brokenhearted I have this week especially this quarantine times..