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  • Toxic people tend to have something internally that they are dealing with. But as mature believers must have the love of Christ and not be offended when we encounter certain types of people.
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  • @debrahmaasai625
    @debrahmaasai625 Před 4 lety +510

    GOD removes people from your life because he heard conversations that you didn't hear,,you should be thankful at all times.

    • @j.louisrodriguez2025
      @j.louisrodriguez2025 Před 4 lety +14

      Ohhh men that was deep...it touched me heartedly...

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 Před 3 lety +11

      Wow that was deep and touched me.

    • @rosejoseph2877
      @rosejoseph2877 Před 3 lety +8

      Amen, I agree!🙏

    • @dominiqueechevarria1889
      @dominiqueechevarria1889 Před 3 lety +3

      SHORE WILL BE THANKING GOD I WANT THIS WOMAN OUT OF MY WAY

    • @djsunshine4465
      @djsunshine4465 Před 3 lety +14

      That just happened to me. While it hurts I know that having a toxic friend is not what I want or need. The things she said to and about me was bad enough, I can only imagine what she said behind my back. Thank you for your perspective it has helped me to finally put this recent hurt away.

  • @cruzerm8681
    @cruzerm8681 Před 4 lety +538

    Toxic people are bad for your Spiritual & Mental health. You have to distance yourself from them & Pray for them.

  • @lilmammas5661
    @lilmammas5661 Před 4 lety +452

    People will always come into your life either as a blessing or a lesson. It's up to you to know which is which. Rebuke all negativity in Jesus mighty name Amen...

  • @TazConlon
    @TazConlon Před 4 lety +166

    I don’t have anyone I can trust, I am continually on my own. Am I lonely? Yes. Am I unhappy? No. The only time I feel unhappy is when I separate myself from God. Not studying the Word and not Praying. Within hours I feel my flesh pulling me into the world. My relationship with my Father in Heaven is all I need

    • @katejohnson5083
      @katejohnson5083 Před 4 lety +6

      I needed this. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏼🌸

    • @katejohnson5083
      @katejohnson5083 Před 4 lety +3

      I needed this. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏼🌸

    • @katejohnson5083
      @katejohnson5083 Před 4 lety +3

      I needed this. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏼

    • @katejohnson5083
      @katejohnson5083 Před 4 lety +2

      I needed this. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏼🌸

    • @daphneyt6782
      @daphneyt6782 Před 4 lety +4

      So true all we need is God!!! As He says we're nothing without him😍

  • @nicolebakoussis6852
    @nicolebakoussis6852 Před 4 lety +240

    I was in a toxic marriage my husband physically hit me every day he always put me down god opened my eyes to leave him thank you God God saved me

    • @jasonbrophy5567
      @jasonbrophy5567 Před 4 lety +13

      Pray for him as well

    • @timtremblay8601
      @timtremblay8601 Před 4 lety +7

      NO man should ever strike a woman unless she's trying to kill him. There are so many abuse cases like yours, however I must say that "Only for the Cause of Fornication" is divorce allowed by God. If your X was unfaithful you are certainly in the Right!~!

    • @honeybunny1751
      @honeybunny1751 Před 4 lety +8

      God bless you, God always provides a way out.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe Před 4 lety +4

      @@timtremblay8601 if the unbelieving depart let them depart a believer is not under bondage in that case.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe Před 4 lety +4

      i hope u got a divorce

  • @Ryanjoned163
    @Ryanjoned163 Před 4 lety +534

    4 years clean and sober by the grace of God to God be the glory and honour completely clean hallelujah to Jesus Christ amen to that

  • @gracemorganspeaks
    @gracemorganspeaks Před 4 lety +345

    Love it. If you feel life has been unfair to you. Sometimes you need to let go of some things such as toxic friends, negative thoughts, draining relationships and focus on Jesus

  • @jenniferfrank8225
    @jenniferfrank8225 Před 4 lety +182

    Jesus is my best friend AMEN

    • @walkbyHislight
      @walkbyHislight Před 4 lety +3

      Me too, grateful for Him

    • @kgodsgirl
      @kgodsgirl Před 3 lety +2

      You best to believe he is✝️✝️✝️ Amen

    • @EVOLr
      @EVOLr Před 3 lety +3

      Me too.Jesus

    • @riobetancourt8825
      @riobetancourt8825 Před 3 lety +2

      When Jesus is your PORTION
      A CONSTANT FRIEND IS HEEEEEE
      i love that

    • @garymarsh3511
      @garymarsh3511 Před 3 lety +2

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯

  • @godsgrace5777
    @godsgrace5777 Před 4 lety +141

    The hardest is family !! Omg it’s so hard.

    • @debdagsaan2856
      @debdagsaan2856 Před 4 lety +8

      Spot on true for sure!

    • @angelpy69
      @angelpy69 Před 3 lety +15

      @God's Grace
      Yessss!! U are absolutely 💯💯💯 right!! Saddly, I experience this too often w/specific family members. Its soo disturbing & disappointing to endure toxic family members. Its difficult to not take it personally when specific family members purposely (or not), choose to directly hurt me for their own benefit. Its just not right. I'll never understand why they don't care enuf to work on themselves & or choose not to be soo hurtful!! And then I'm the one thats told to not be soo sensitive. And I'm an empath & i have ALWAYS been a sensitive soul. So there are times that their misdirected anger affects me more deeply than other times. Its not always easy to just suck it up & pretend, especially when it occurs on a regular basis.
      I Pray About It & I Pray For Them, BUT Its Like They Choose Not To Do Anything To Help Themselves & I Do Not Understand That!! Sending All Of U Beautiful Souls Infinite Blessings Of ♾🙏🏻💙🕊🌟 Love~Peace~Light

    • @elizabethmarufu6777
      @elizabethmarufu6777 Před 3 lety +8

      I know my dear, it's true. Family is difficulty.

    • @beverlynechel4258
      @beverlynechel4258 Před 3 lety +10

      Going through the same thing .

    • @businesslady7840
      @businesslady7840 Před 3 lety +11

      Let my family go and allowed them back in out of guilt. Biggest mistake ever ! Don't let guilt get the best of you and do what is best for you even if it means letting go of family.

  • @lachellwardell3595
    @lachellwardell3595 Před 4 lety +69

    Lord fix my heart and let me not be a toxic person; then give me wisdom with strength to walk away from toxic people and not be offended

  • @beatricemwangi9173
    @beatricemwangi9173 Před 4 lety +174

    Being in a toxic relationshipp taught me to lean on God and to always believe in myself

    • @sylviaachieng7299
      @sylviaachieng7299 Před 4 lety +1

      Wpo sawa mum🙏🤲👏🙌👐

    • @SC-sn3xs
      @SC-sn3xs Před 4 lety +4

      Facts!!

    • @miryambarnabas2424
      @miryambarnabas2424 Před 3 lety +1

      Amen and Amen in Jesus's Name! 🙌👑🕊️🔥👨‍👩‍👧💕👸

    • @triplekids3
      @triplekids3 Před 3 lety +5

      I’m in healing from a 33 years marriage that I left 12 weeks ago not ever going back ever

    • @miryambarnabas2424
      @miryambarnabas2424 Před 3 lety +1

      @@triplekids3
      Good for you!
      Praise God! 🙏

  • @RachelYvonne93
    @RachelYvonne93 Před 4 lety +111

    "When people are rude, they are revealing themselves, not you." FACTS! 💯 I'm learning not to take things personally or to be easily offended because of this simple yet profound truth right here.

  • @jainorman3425
    @jainorman3425 Před 4 lety +195

    Long As I Got King Jesus Nobody Can Try Destroy Me 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @shannettewatson7869
    @shannettewatson7869 Před 4 lety +300

    We live in a world that has lost focus on God and has turned their back on God. So you won't find a lot of good company, or who is not toxic and not good for you. But all you need is Jesus. He is my comforter, friend, shelter, refuge, protection, and guidance. Say bye to toxicity. Goodbye to who the devil sent to provoke you, to make you feel uneasy.🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤🙏🙏🙏

    • @michaelart4878
      @michaelart4878 Před 4 lety +7

      Spread these words/water of life....
      BE BAPTIZED,FATHER,SON AND HOLY GHOST. IN JESUS NAME, I PRAY YOU.
      A-MEN'
      the reading of the words will bring life through God's grace (power)
      I beseech thee,do it now. For His glory!

    • @karensimmons4560
      @karensimmons4560 Před 4 lety +8

      I thank god for this message!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Mom4life.
      @Mom4life. Před 4 lety +4

      Wise words

    • @tamirapendleton2842
      @tamirapendleton2842 Před 4 lety +1

      Go get bativeede

    • @nubiangoddess2641
      @nubiangoddess2641 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes I agree in Jesus Christ Name Amen 🙏🏽

  • @PurposeDrivenWomen
    @PurposeDrivenWomen Před 4 lety +300

    Mmmm this is so profound, may God help us to discern the wrong people in our lives. Be careful who you share your dreams with 🙏🙏

  • @memunatusaffa9216
    @memunatusaffa9216 Před 4 lety +150

    Lord help me to have a deeper level of maturity and not get easily offended by toxic people. In your mighty name I pray

  • @itsjustme5030
    @itsjustme5030 Před 3 lety +12

    Hurt people don't hurt people. Hurt people understand how being hurt feels and try not to spread it. Mean, toxic people hurt people to dump their nastiness onto others to makes themselves feel better by making others hurt. They're find joy and relief in it until they fill back up with the nastiness.

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 Před 4 lety +73

    -Be wise a serpents, innocent as doves. (Matt. 10:16)
    - Test the spirit with the spirit.
    (1 John 4:1)
    Pray for discernment❤
    Pray for me.
    God Bless!

    • @fizer3741
      @fizer3741 Před 4 lety +3

      Jassmen Robinson ❤️❤️❤️

    • @longhauler1839
      @longhauler1839 Před 4 lety +2

      Amen. Blessings be to you.

    • @12tribes61
      @12tribes61 Před 3 lety +1

      If serpents were wise then why is satan fallen?

    • @sagenosnibor9173
      @sagenosnibor9173 Před 3 lety +1

      @@12tribes61 satan has fallen because he tried to overthrow God's kingdom to exalt his throne above God; along with a third of the angels who followed his foolishness (fallen angels).
      - Isaiah 14:12-21
      -Revelation 12:4
      Satan appeared in the form of a serpent in the garden of eden to fool the man and woman ( Adam and Eve), because the serpent is the shrewdest of them all.
      -Genesis 3
      -Matthew 10:16
      The definition of the word “shrewd ”means to show sharp powers of judgment, to be astute, sharp-witted, intelligent, clever, canny, sagacious, perceptive and savvy.

    • @12tribes61
      @12tribes61 Před 3 lety

      You missed the point I was making about the wise serpent statement.

  • @crystalrose32
    @crystalrose32 Před 4 lety +58

    I just ended a very toxic relationship of 4 year’s on Thursday . 4 years of mental breakdowns, anxiety , depression . I love him , but love me more . This came just in time . Thank you for the confirmation God

  • @bl1506
    @bl1506 Před 4 lety +29

    People that are happy and at peace within themselves do not hurt, criticizes others. They will encourage and build you up. They are happy when you succeed. They are happy just to see you happy. They let you go so you can be YOU and chase your dreams and they still support you. Surround yourself with positivity and good people and your life will change for the better.

  • @MrsLee-ff2ht
    @MrsLee-ff2ht Před 4 lety +90

    I am going to pray to God for a tender heart (thicker skin) and a tougher hide.

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 Před 4 lety +96

    Exactlty, Toxic people hurt people! Toxicity is transferable over to others. Everyone knows one, but no one is toxic. Emotional & Spiritually maturity is how a mature persons re-acts! Wise people ignore insults!🙏😇

    • @cherryblossom2609
      @cherryblossom2609 Před 4 lety +5

      Can you pray for me I’m wanting change

    • @nubiangoddess2641
      @nubiangoddess2641 Před 4 lety +1

      Charity &Karter father God I asked that you delivered this person I prayer by your hands deliver from any toxic ppl or relationship rather friendship etc and any form negativity in relationships and make them too be whole and not effect of any toxic relationship in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏽

    • @deborahwilcox5716
      @deborahwilcox5716 Před 4 lety +2

      Hannah Brown do you really know what you just said Hannah? It is a total insult to woman and men who are living in a ABUSIVE relationship! You just walked on people's hearts. Rick Warren is half right. He doesn't understand Narcissists that hurt and then abuse. What a bunch of crap for those that are being destroyed by the demons speaking out of husbands and wives destroying their hopes and their basic beliefs in life as they saw their parents marriage or whatever marriage you have looked up to as an example. I could go know on and on.

    • @AlmondJoie
      @AlmondJoie Před 4 lety +3

      @C RD Sometimes you have to take a stand and cut people off, even family members. No one has the right to abuse you or say anything they want, no matter how rude, hurtful, or insensitive it may be. When you've had enough, you will know, and God will give you the wisdom, grace, and strength to move forward with your life. It's your life and you get to choose who you allow to be in it -- that is a privilege that you grant to others. Remember, when people show you who they are, believe them the first time! God bless you.🕊️

  • @rossykahmei5625
    @rossykahmei5625 Před 4 lety +81

    Through Jesus Christ only we can have a happy couple and Godly family. Don't give up.. keep closer to Jesus and spend more with Him no need to worry.... God can do anything keep faith on God.

    • @caroldiaz3354
      @caroldiaz3354 Před 4 lety +2

      Lord give us wisdom and emotional intelligence to know who we are in you. To know when it's time to walk away. Thicker skin stronger hide. In Christ JESUS

  • @dorseykennedy9873
    @dorseykennedy9873 Před 4 lety +2

    Lord please help me to mature and not be effected by the toxic people in my life.

  • @shalapickney
    @shalapickney Před 4 lety +30

    I am So GLAD I am OUT THE RELATIONSHIP I WAS IN. THANK YOU GOD👐👐If I NEVER FIND LOVE AGAIN, "I HAVE A PEACE OF MIND"

    • @ztalisepatu4707
      @ztalisepatu4707 Před 4 lety +5

      God Will give u ur future spouse Who Will adore u for Who u are...God did not make People to be Alone its witten in the bible. ..IN HIS TIME HE WILL GIVE U UR SPOUSE Who Will loves u unconditionally stay in faith of The Almighty God. .i wish u all the best in life ur a Queen of God

  • @jackieblack5400
    @jackieblack5400 Před 4 lety +50

    We must be careful of what persons we surround our holy spirits with. We can have love for that person. But it comes a point do I want my spirit in a toxic environment. No. I want it in the peaceful atmosphere of and with my Lord Jesus Christ.! Praise the Lord!

  • @akuaborger1162
    @akuaborger1162 Před 3 lety +1

    Father Lord, please let Your Holy Spirit Guide and Lead us whatever we do and wherever we go because we have eyes but we can't see, we have ears but we can't hear. Help us Lord In Jesus Mighty Name.

  • @veraknowles3678
    @veraknowles3678 Před 3 lety +1

    This is what every Believer needs to hear. Lord Jesus deliver me from being a toxic person if I am in your name I pray I'm toxic free thank you Jesus I treat others as I want to be treated amen

  • @stephenkeegan5625
    @stephenkeegan5625 Před 4 lety +146

    it's not always possible to have friends

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 Před 4 lety +54

    Years ago, I was listening to my local radio station, as a youth with my mother. The radio dj said a quote: “If you can’t change the people around you; change the people around you.” That stuck out to me as a youth and even more now, as an adult.
    Im learning to just let go and let God vía talking to God.

  • @mrstinafaiththomas3499
    @mrstinafaiththomas3499 Před 4 lety +1

    Guard your heart.... to not be offended and treat them like Christ would.....tough but HE did it for us... why not do the same for others! Jesus please help me do this by your Spirit!

  • @shannettewatson7869
    @shannettewatson7869 Před 4 lety +58

    Amen!!! Thats why we should have discernment. You have to be careful who you let in your inner circle; because not all the time their good for you. My inner circle is very small. I don't ever want too loose focus on God.

  • @wylolablanton5045
    @wylolablanton5045 Před 3 lety +3

    Lord thank you for removing Toxic People from my life!!

  • @eternall808
    @eternall808 Před 4 lety +11

    Emotionally safe - just as important as physical safety!

  • @rast7408
    @rast7408 Před 3 lety +1

    JESUS IZ MY PORTION!!! SWEET FATHER GOD 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽TY SOOO MUCH❤❤❤🤗

  • @brendahraschke1029
    @brendahraschke1029 Před 3 lety +2

    The answer to all this is to stop living in sin ,stop waiting for other people to make you happy it's not possible. Peace and happiness starts with you and surrender your life to Jesus Christ so that the holy spirit can lead your life and you will be happy.

    • @brendahraschke1029
      @brendahraschke1029 Před 3 lety +1

      @classyt20f7 don't condem yourself a life without mistakes these no Experience Jesus love's you and he has washed your sins away with his precious blood stay focused don't look left or right look forward when you are driving look forward not behind and that's the same thing with life look forward, you should be great full that you are saved again some people died without getting a second chance God loves you. One love from Germany.

  • @jacquelinestarkey2723
    @jacquelinestarkey2723 Před 3 lety +10

    This is very good! I married a toxic man and I looked up and I was drinking and partying, I was spending hundreds of dollars on liquor 🥃 and feeding his habits. When I got a revaluation and woke up. He cheated and left me. I was hurt 😞 but I had to shake it off. Because I had turned into someone that I didn’t even know. I wasn’t a drinker and a partier everyday. I got back to who I was and he didn’t like me anymore. It’s okay I’ve been single every since. God has someone great for me. Thank you for this message

  • @queenof3futurekings606
    @queenof3futurekings606 Před 4 lety +21

    I was in a very toxic marriage along with my children!!! Glory be to God that we have been freed from that bondage. I am glad a video like this is there as a support based on biblical principles. Thank you Lord that my children and I are emotionally, physically, and psychologically healed!

  • @cristinaferreira2230
    @cristinaferreira2230 Před 3 lety +1

    It is so hard not to be offended when your heart is full of hurt, all we can do is pray for that person and be strong and never give up.

  • @bryanthorne9701
    @bryanthorne9701 Před 4 lety +1

    True word brotha, if people are not lifting u up. They are draining u. It is as infectious as any disease and will cost u ,ur on demise if you don't get away. Thank what a blessing in Jesus name amen

  • @bethshebaforbes7029
    @bethshebaforbes7029 Před 4 lety +31

    Iam finish now with relationship inmy life lord broke the relationship right now lordmake me live

    • @ms.s1321
      @ms.s1321 Před 4 lety +2

      You can my sister. You can. I know you can. Jesus will give you straight. I'm going through it.

  • @sarahsewornu3099
    @sarahsewornu3099 Před 4 lety +33

    As I always say anytime am getting annoyed God give me a calm and I humble heart to handle this God speak on my behalf

  • @michaelbrantley.8628
    @michaelbrantley.8628 Před 2 lety +2

    Toxic people are dangerous i don't need that energy or that negativity around me the good Lord 🙏 always removes them out a my life a family member are the worst ones it doesn't matter i don't need them a friend im happy without them friends are temporarily i just moved on they take thangs the wrong way a co-worker them are the sneaky ones they ain't my friends i keep them at distance from me.

  • @theequalizer4justice879
    @theequalizer4justice879 Před 4 lety +31

    This is so True, OMG, toxic people are like a virus, a true pandemic which spreads and could be unstoppable and deadly, if you can't distance yourself from them just don't let them contaminate you with their evil and vile hate and behavior of discrimination and depression and hopelessness, we all want to feel love, joy, and hope, so we need to be around people who make us feel loved and appreciated 💜 for some reason I have always been in toxic relationships, thinking that I can help them, and I need to be there for them to be better people, to love themselves and someone need's to love them, but they just destroy me in the process, tearing me down and a person can only fall so far before they hit rock bottom and basically drown, or feel like you are just circling the drain, in quick sand with no way out, so don't....DON'T wait till you are to that point!!

    • @marinaclarke3546
      @marinaclarke3546 Před 3 lety +7

      Reading your comment I literally felt a physical jolt as I realised that virtually word for word, it could have been me who wrote it. While living in situations you describe, a lot of good people probably feel isolated and alone. I definitely do, thò I know I can only speak for myself. So reading your comment showed me that none of us are alone. I prayed for a sign, I believe being drawn to your comment was his answer and I am truly thankful for it and to you for posting it.
      God Bless and Keep You and Every one of us 🕆💖

    • @theequalizer4justice879
      @theequalizer4justice879 Před 3 lety +4

      @@marinaclarke3546
      I am glad that in some small way I could be of some comfort and significance, I pray for guidance and wisdom, and when I chose to ask for direction, protection and to be a Blessing to others, I felt a burden lifted and a sense of Freedom I can't even explain....I just want to share with others, to pray for wisdom and understanding to make the right choices and the rest will fall in place if you can let go of the dysfunctional comfort that has become your "Normal" trials and challenges make us uncomfortable so we can evaluate the dysfunctional situations that we have become comfortable in...😥

    • @cherylell4208
      @cherylell4208 Před 3 lety +2

      Kitty Meow amen; a lesson learned and one I pray I never have to repeat 🥰🙏🏾

  • @reneesudduth5727
    @reneesudduth5727 Před 4 lety +4

    This is so true....if you have someone in your life that's working against you or any situation..believe that God has something or another person for you ..God does not want us sad..he does not bring our spirit down ..he always encourage us he wants us happy...listen...pay attention to Gods voice..he may be saving you from something..be obedient..keep God first..love on God ..he will never leave you...God bless you all..BELIEVE!!!

  • @Kabaselefh
    @Kabaselefh Před 4 lety +76

    There are evil reptilian seeds out there preying on unsuspecting gullible individuals, preserve your hearts against them.

  • @kinglion2743
    @kinglion2743 Před 4 lety +1

    Yep jus get over it and not worry about what people do or say Don’t let those people live rent free in your mind jus go to your happy place. I ignore, I smile, sometimes laugh an keep going❤️

  • @diolyfelia
    @diolyfelia Před rokem +1

    Choose people to be part of you life who brings you towards to the Lord❤

  • @sujithabonnie5395
    @sujithabonnie5395 Před 4 lety +7

    Mat 24:4
    Watch out that no one deceives you !
    -Jesus🔥👑

  • @madelinealongi8628
    @madelinealongi8628 Před 4 lety +31

    Yes so true don’t I hate people love yourself treat yourself good no went to walk away from toxic or sick person to wrongs don’t make it right

  • @smashingtwoscoops4999

    Grand rising, my divine brothers and sisters! May GOD'S Love, glory, grace, peace and joy, flow abundantly in your life and on your journey! Amen! GOD loves you, dear soul! Be still and know...❤️😁🙏🙌✌️

  • @kendra3927
    @kendra3927 Před 4 lety +36

    I needed these days ago wow , God continues to know when to show up in my life

  • @doreensmith6793
    @doreensmith6793 Před 4 lety +21

    This is a very important message. Life giving relationships are vital.
    We do need to be on guard. Toxic people leave a trail of toxic results.
    We need to do all we can to treat others like we want them to treat us. Love this video......it is on target. We all need to look in the mirror, I do!!! Explains the whole story. Excellent!!

  • @kimbarrentine1938
    @kimbarrentine1938 Před 4 lety +8

    Yes I learned that people who are toxic transfer that to you. I want healthy relationships. I’m in such a good place today reading the word...and watching these videos.😊😊😊😀

  • @alonzorobinson7490
    @alonzorobinson7490 Před 3 lety

    It's time to remove the people that don't deserve to be in my life. I'm ready for a new beginning a new powerful life. Im ready for my breakthrough comeback and miracles please heal me .....I love you God 🙏💙🙌😇❤️💖🤩.

  • @cerestaylor9088
    @cerestaylor9088 Před 3 lety

    My mom was a acholic and because of the commandment Honor thy Father and thy mother I Loved her with all of my heart, it was hard but I tried to live far from her. But I still help her when she needed me, and I still Love her today and forever.

  • @norcaltimberfaller1943
    @norcaltimberfaller1943 Před 3 lety +3

    This is such a relevant message for Christians today. I was just complaining to a friend that churches don't teach people about the fact that there are so many extremely toxic people in our midst. They masquerade as "' highly spiritual and morally superior" and yet in reality they are highly controlling and manipulative people. . I believe these are the people Jesus referred tp as " wolves in sheep's clothing. I know there are different levels of toxic and that we all have some toxic in us. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about the actual predatory type of toxic. That's the kind I was not aware of when I became a born again Christian . I sure could have used a few warnings early on. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and confusion.

  • @danielasantos2295
    @danielasantos2295 Před 3 lety +13

    I used to have a "best friend" for years.... We were like some inseparable sisters! She is older than me, so I thought she was smarter and also more mature, so I kind inspired myself on her. We were friends for about 17 years and we shared life in many ways... I moved overseas and stayed for almost 4 years and the friendship survived time and distance. She met other people, so did I. When I returned we were still great friends... I shared everything with her, even material things, because she is very poor. But she complained a lot about life and I really thought she didn't have much chance in life, that's why things were so difficult for her. We would rarely disagree with each other... I was a chronic complainer too... I was always unhappy with my life and I tended to see the dark side of everything. When I accepted Jesus into my life for real, obviously He started to change me from inside out and I started to realize I was a toxican person in many ways, specially in terms of being too critical and for complaining a lot. So then, we decided to be housemates for 1 year... And here we go! Of course, God was working in my life and I realized my biggest bad influence: my "best friend". Years being influenced by a wrong "God" she believes, by a lazy, immature and irresponsible person she is (that's why she is poor). She is also absolutely spoiled and proud. I never really saw those things until we live under the same ceiling... But I am glad God unveiled everything. I still love her and wish she will be save someday. We rarely talk now, because when we do, it always ends up in arguments... She is a Progressist/ Leftist and our values are totally different now. She even is for abortion, genre theory, non traditional families, feminism and she got this influence from other toxic people. I am sharing this story with you guys, because it's always possible we are "sleeping with the enemy"... We never know who are the friends of our friends, and how much they are influenced by other toxic people. Unfortunately the friendship is over, but I am glad to be living what's in the scriptures: Jesus came to bring the sword, and although I would much rather her to be here by my side sharing the gospel with me, I am glad I am not on her side. God bless her, but no toxic people in my life anymore.

    • @pungeann1540
      @pungeann1540 Před 3 lety

      Keep praying for her to know God

    • @shauniesmitem4963
      @shauniesmitem4963 Před 3 lety

      AMEN. I AM HAPPY FOR U. ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR YOUR GOOD. KJV. PLS. PRAY N FAST N SEEK GOD FOR UR MATE.

    • @itsjustme5030
      @itsjustme5030 Před 3 lety

      Sounds like me and my now ex bestie. She's manipulative and cunning all while playing innocent and the victim. My mom, equally toxic, told me to ditch her, but my mom thought she herself should be my only friend and I should dump all my friends, so I didn't listen. The one time mom was right 🤦‍♀️. I see it now, accepting Jesus and the growth God has helped me through has shown me toxic people. Still healing from toxic family but by the grace of God it's happening and I'm getting better. Praise Jesus!!

  • @elizabethphangchopi4391

    Father lord I come to you today to answear my prayer if talking with toxic people if I happened to have my relationship p people please help them and bring them into your righteous path Father lord please never let me fall into the trap if toxic people in Jesus name Amen

  • @patiencekay3672
    @patiencekay3672 Před 3 lety +1

    I dont have alot of social networks or friends. And I'd say I have a generally positive outlook on life. And live a happy life.

  • @patriciasafricanhairbraidi376

    Absolutely I agree 100%

  • @victory9015
    @victory9015 Před 4 lety +7

    I don't understand people who spends all life with toxic people just to avoid being alone!

    • @sll110
      @sll110 Před 3 lety +2

      childhood trauma and trauma bonding, I am this kind of person, unbelievable sad, because don't discern, brains changed because of trauma

    • @SA-px3ln
      @SA-px3ln Před 3 lety

      Mark Twain me too. Did you get any better?

    • @superflyflyaway8748
      @superflyflyaway8748 Před 3 lety

      I almost did I had to leave her I loved her but it was toxic 4 yr relationship i tried my hardest love to build something good together ...now I feel like JOB😔

  • @veronicavelez5847
    @veronicavelez5847 Před 3 lety

    The Lord is my shepherd he protects me in Jesus name!🙏✝️📖📜🕯🕊💞

  • @dianegibbs461
    @dianegibbs461 Před 3 lety +1

    For sure EVEN IF ITS YOUR FAMILY AND THEY HURT YOU NOR DONT LOVE YOU...YOU LOVE AND PRAY FOR THOSE ANYWAY..

  • @tamirapendleton2842
    @tamirapendleton2842 Před 4 lety +13

    Be careful how you let 7 negative people in your lifetime.
    Demeans ,
    Destroy
    Drive you crazily.
    Remain safe in
    Believe
    Faith
    Faithful
    Surrender
    Blessed
    Remain

  • @willymbai6298
    @willymbai6298 Před 4 lety +14

    Hallelujah... Thank you God for this... May God bless you all

  • @desireejolibore1073
    @desireejolibore1073 Před 3 lety

    GOD KEEP MY SON TRE' & I FROM PEOPLE WHOM MEAN US NO GOOD, BRING PEOPLE AROUND WHO MEAN US WELL, I JUST WANT US BOTH TO FINALLY BE HAPPY, IN JESUS NAME AMEN.

  • @america9704
    @america9704 Před 3 lety +1

    You can loose the ability to take things personally. Sometimes taking something personally is the only way to change the other person's feelings. Vulnerability is the key to touching other's hearts. Toxic people should be avoided but almost everyone is. The challenge is to know yourself well enough to know when you have the energy to commit and see it through (attempting to confront toxicity) vs. Plain old avoidance, grey stoning, and distance. Toxic people feed on the peaceful and compassionate energies- sometimes we have to say no. There is such a thing as "unforgivable."

  • @phyllismuthra6481
    @phyllismuthra6481 Před 4 lety +11

    God give me a tender heart and a tough skin .

  • @caroltrimble2738
    @caroltrimble2738 Před 4 lety +9

    I believe ppl everyone that comes in you life is for a reason or purpose. Sometimes you don't see it right away until later on in your life.

  • @normamay8020
    @normamay8020 Před rokem

    Amen and Amen .Thank you God Almighty for the Person who you put in my Life .Also for the Person who you removed out of my Life.

  • @ladycoco9740
    @ladycoco9740 Před 3 lety +1

    Awesome! Amen & Hallelujah 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @trustgodmore5294
    @trustgodmore5294 Před 3 lety +9

    My counselor tells me to set boundaries with my family because they were always insulting me and trying to bring me down. The Bible tells me in Proverbs 12:16 that “The anger of a fool becomes readily apparent, but the prudent person overlooks an insult.” I used to let their comments get to me and react in immature and insecure ways letting them know I was offended but that was a way of letting them have power over me. It’s much better when I ignore them and let them marinate on their vicious comments. God is good. I pray this helps some.

    • @bernicerene2321
      @bernicerene2321 Před 3 lety

      Thank you
      It does help.... Not great when it's a Family member you're living with....

    • @12tribes61
      @12tribes61 Před 3 lety

      Bernice René 😢🥺😓 praying

    • @trustgodmore5294
      @trustgodmore5294 Před 3 lety

      @bernice René trust me I know from experience. You have to set boundaries. You do not have to continue hanging around closely to people who abuse your kindness. Boundaries are healthy.

    • @trustgodmore5294
      @trustgodmore5294 Před 3 lety

      You will be alright. And I agree with the comment above. Pray everyday for strength and a way out. Still be kind. Don’t stoop to their level. God will bless you and lift you up out of this dark place.

    • @chipramos2066
      @chipramos2066 Před 10 měsíci

      Any family who hates one their own is not a true family, just a bunch of broken, mentally enslaved people who struggle to even like themselves. I’m so sorry for you. 😢

  • @bismarkderby1691
    @bismarkderby1691 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you Holy Spirit🙏

  • @roselynchinia9856
    @roselynchinia9856 Před rokem

    Amen yes remove yourself from evil minded people they will just bring you down in life 🙌

  • @morningglory3681
    @morningglory3681 Před rokem +1

    I've gone back at toxic ones in my life for sure. It's easier not to keep them as friends and just pray for them.

  • @blessedbejesus4634
    @blessedbejesus4634 Před 4 lety +10

    Still be careful about fake love.....And HYPOCRACY!

  • @deborahdixon5181
    @deborahdixon5181 Před 4 lety +62

    I had to cut my own mom off. It was draining to my soul. She never said anything positive it was always negative. It became draining to the point I wanted to scream. I prayed about it for years I never got know resolution to it.so I just love my mom from distance and I feel better.

    • @michelledax4083
      @michelledax4083 Před 3 lety +1

      Just set healthy boundaries.

    • @hardylisette2756
      @hardylisette2756 Před 3 lety +4

      Me also had to cut my mom off. The HOLY SPIRIT said to me thst they are gossiping about me, still I was going at her home. But when I visit she didn't let me come inside but on the balcony. So many times and I was talking it again with the HOLY SPIRIT and the word came that I should leave my fathers house. In this it was my mother's house and I am not going there anymore than when GOD let it. I love her but also from a dinstance and I have peace.

    • @annabellaboyer643
      @annabellaboyer643 Před 3 lety

      God bless you for changing your life arround.Sad for?

    • @mikerainwater6154
      @mikerainwater6154 Před 3 lety +1

      Same thing in my life

    • @shauniesmitem4963
      @shauniesmitem4963 Před 3 lety +1

      THAT IS SAD BUT GOOD THAT U DID THAT. SHE MAY BE MESSED UP IN THE HEAD.

  • @devonbeaudry7824
    @devonbeaudry7824 Před rokem

    I’m the second coming of Jesus Christ.
    🙏🧖‍♂️ I walk the Earth again,
    GOD bless your souls.

  • @lindadunkerson7099
    @lindadunkerson7099 Před 4 lety +1

    Negative people are not allowed in your life. They hate themselves. Let them be miserable all by themselves.

  • @cherryblossom2609
    @cherryblossom2609 Před 4 lety +8

    Can someone please pray for me I’m a single young mom of two I have some toxic traits from being in a toxic relationship and for family cycles I want to become a woman of God I want to be new and change I want to be a better mother I want to love myself more take get the strength to continue to take care of my boys I’m a single mom I know that I need to put my trust in God be patient continue to stay absent change 😔❤️🙏🏼

    • @Mari92313
      @Mari92313 Před 3 lety

      I’m praying for you. I encourage you to read the book the quest of character www.thriftbooks.com/w/the-quest-for-character_john-macarthur/293773/ I pray it helps you.

  • @russellcox9888
    @russellcox9888 Před 4 lety +5

    39 people gave this a thumbs down? Why is there nothing positive out of this video.you need to take a look a your heart, and are you perfect?

  • @francismausley7239
    @francismausley7239 Před 3 lety

    Excellent points. It's best to avoid toxic people. "Treasure the companionship of the righteous and eschew all fellowship with the ungodly." ~ Baha'i Faith

  • @rosielewis4950
    @rosielewis4950 Před 4 lety +1

    It is hard sometimes to ignore insults. What I do is put that in God hands.

  • @ruth4909
    @ruth4909 Před 4 lety +6

    GOD has perfect timing!❤

  • @candyharris6498
    @candyharris6498 Před 4 lety +5

    Almost 4 years remarried was married to a narcissist for many years, God on pain pills but got clean. Had PTSD very severely. Got better over the past 3 years. Not pregnant with twins tubes were tied and I'm age 41. Left the place I used to live.

  • @rubyhobock3851
    @rubyhobock3851 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen stay away from bad people

  • @devonhamilton3
    @devonhamilton3 Před 3 lety

    I Believe and Agree in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ amen amen amen

  • @agathagilbert9077
    @agathagilbert9077 Před 4 lety +26

    Well I'm a nervous wreck from toxicity I tried everything therapy meds,conversation, compassion, love but nothing worked out for me the person laughs I had to make a decision to let them know I had enough of the negativity and I rather leave with my dignity and soul than let them have what little I do have left because they don't got nothing to lose but I do,so see you devil you can have all your negative people who you assigned to destroy me.

    • @davidoldskool7598
      @davidoldskool7598 Před 3 lety +3

      You just need Jesus and get to know him. Let him change you from the inside.

  • @prodigaldaughter6732
    @prodigaldaughter6732 Před 3 lety +5

    This happened upon this ministry tonight at Gods timing. He’s speaking directly to me in your message. Just in the nick of time God shows up.

  • @tijannywright2990
    @tijannywright2990 Před 4 lety +1

    Glory be to Our Everlasting mighty father God Lord and saviour christ Jesus who reins in victory now yesturday,tomarow,today and for ever and ever Amen.

  • @imsorry3217
    @imsorry3217 Před rokem +1

    This is a message I needed to hear because I'm easily offended over a lot of things. 💯🥺

  • @jenellubin7120
    @jenellubin7120 Před 4 lety +9

    Thank you Grace for Purpose 😊.. good time OH Heavenly Father help us to choose who we will allow in our life n help me to deal with hurts in godly way...💝🇬🇾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥

  • @Celestialstl.2018
    @Celestialstl.2018 Před 4 lety +13

    Ooh thank you Lord you delivered me from a toxic relationship.... A lady who didn't want me to talk to other friends except her....

  • @williebroxton760
    @williebroxton760 Před 3 lety +1

    Proverbs 25
    5 Take away the wicked before the king,
    And his throne will be established in righteousness.

  • @georginajovanovic
    @georginajovanovic Před 3 lety

    I think that it's because of the 'long suffering' teaching and if we have not had the best upbringing we don't notice at first. God's grace! It was one of the reasons why I haven't been and I really need it.

  • @darnagutter9645
    @darnagutter9645 Před 3 lety +7

    It's one thing not to take offense from people in passing; a grocery clerk, another driver, etc. But its another thing when an offender has access to your life. No you do not allow someone to continue their offenses toward you to wear down your good nature.
    We must take note of these offenses and protect ourselves against future offenses. That could mean stopping them dead in their tracks and closing that door. Perhaps they will learn a lesson from that.
    But we don't have to continue to endure unhealthy toxic relationships. The Bible says, "A companion of fools shall be destroyed."
    Now it's another thing if a toxic, lost person comes to church to seek help. Then it becomes God's responsibility to transform them. And the congregation can support them thru this process. But God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit are the transformers.

  • @wandagarcia1754
    @wandagarcia1754 Před 4 lety +4

    This us true , believe me as I'm old enough to say it that this world is full of toxic people and relationships. I say, every Person wears a mask. They are good of what they do. They been practicing since they were a child... They blame chilhood problems but we all know helos out there but that a high to them. God us with us all, stand by him!

  • @maryajoy4946
    @maryajoy4946 Před rokem

    "When people are rude. They are revealing themselves. Not you'.
    This knowledge and God kept me strong and going when my mom insulted me with all the bad words that will ever be created and wished that I was dead.

  • @roslinddarby2858
    @roslinddarby2858 Před rokem

    Amen amen yes yes lord bless us that right thank you Jesus hallelujah Hallelujah 🙌 👏 😍 ❤️