Skinny shaming, fit shaming and fat shaming. We are in a cycle of victims where no one wins. Just so what everyone before the 2000s did, bully them back.
@@purplekrakenyut Yeah, back then. The size 0 used to be the beauty standard. It's good that as time evolved people started getting more mature celebrating body positivity, but doesn't mean you have to body shame people of other sizes, they made it to a point where being skinny is now seen as a laughing stock to the community.
@@misscutiepie6743 the size 0 has never been the beauty standard for normal people. Only celebrities and weirdos who worship celebrities and fashion magazines.
I am sorry. I know sorry can't heal or undo the past. But my intentions of writing this are full of hope and peace. But hey listen, you are a survivor, you are a very special person. I don't know about others but I thank you for existing and being the part of the world. You are doing great. Never let anyone stop you. Wish you the very best
I’m so glad to see that people are sharing their experiences about skinny shaming because few years back it was rare to see people actually talking about the hardships of being skinny and at that time I always felt that it was not very common to be so skinny and to layer clothes just to feel a little better. I had no one to relate to during teenage when I needed it the most💔
I used to layer like 3 times, but the worst part is wearing ill fitted clothes. I wasn't only allowed to wear stretchy fabrics too. So I never got that support/comfort of fitted clothes. They're not even baggy in a fashionable way, I was always drowning in clothes. It was miserable 😢. The first time I got to choose my clothes, I picked the one size stuff that's got tassels or sth to adjust and it felt very cozy. And awesome looking at myself and seeing my body as it is!
I honestly thought it had something to with SA or people not respecting boundaries. I’ve been plus size my whole and had weigh loss surgery. It is crazy how different I get treated by the same people. I’m sorry for your struggle. I hope you love yourself unconditionally and block out the haters!!!
I have been bulied at school when i was a child by teachers and other classmates and I bacamed more cold hearted rutless stronger and motivaed me to achive my goals and prove them that they were wrong So apart from trauma only succes 😊
I think that society is designed to create bullies. Back in my days, bullies bully people to shame others to look cool and be accepted by their peers. Nowadays bullies are self-righteous people who shame others so they would be accepted by their peers. Before people throw slurs to bully others. Nowadays people gonna bully those who use slurs.
@@UPI-rk7sn I was not the one to diserve it just because some rich kids done some nasty stuff and I was to blame and bully by the teacher and other classmates you call it righteos !
I`m too skinny, but don't get body shamed at school. I get body shamed at home. My friends are more supporting then my relatives. Edit: I'm so sorry for those who feel the same. Don't let this shitty society in ur mind. We're all different but beautiful. And thanks to everyone who supported me/us✨ Edit 2: Guys this comment is not just for thin girls like me, it's for everyone, skinny or not, healthy or not, shamed or not, bullied or not.
I started working out at the age of 9, by the age of 15 my friends started to think I'm a girl 😂 because of the wide chest and curved butt 😂 & got sexually molested a multiple number of times just because I was in good shape and I felt so helpless 😞
In my class its so damn different like if you dare to look at someone and say "you are too fat/skinny" they would literally point out every single one of you insecurities sometimes i feel glad i am in a class like that we are just a one big happy family 🙂
@@AriannaHolbach I’m in fifth grade and I weigh 50-ish pounds my entire class and other students weigh about 20 pounds!!! I told my mom that and she said that is not possible and the thing is- they eat CANDY EVERY SINGLE DAY
I am one of those people who has to do that to leave the house, and I’ve never left after a extremely bad time in primary school and I got so bad that I left.
Not only skinny people face problems ...but If you are a little more healthy then that is also a big problem ❤️🩹so never get uncomfortable of you r skinny or fat..everyone is beautiful✨💞just don't listen to negative people 😖
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@@_prabjotsingh_it doesn’t matter how you look, it matters about your strength. Nobody is born ugly and the ones that might call you ugly is ugly themselves and have no right to bully you when they aren’t even strong enough to be kind. It’s how people think you are and how you view yourself. You don’t deserve to be bullied. I wish you the best and hope that you will feel so much better and treated the way you should be treated
I understand the feeling, back then people got body shamed almost everywhere. So people wore baggy clothes to school so they wouldn’t feel uncomfortable.😞😔
You are one of the ppl i respect. Thank you for sharing this. As someone who experienced this, you truly have my respect ❤❤. Body shaming isn't right, even if it's a joke.
Those who don't understand, I'm so happy for you. Edit: 1.8K likes? Thanks. Those who didn't understand, it's about being so thin that others body shame you. So she wore extra cloths to look not-so-thin.
Those who don't understand, I think everyone needs to understand this (So that you don't do this to others). It's about body shaming someone because they're too skinny. So they wear oversized cloths to look not-so-skinny.
You know, it’s sad. I’m overweight. And I do the exact same thing but for different reasons. I were multiple pairs of pants because it tightens my lower body. Making look like I have a thinner waist, I wear a hoodie for people can’t see my stomach and arms. Perspectives.
So the simple way to shut them up is just make urself fit coz i was also fat and got bullied too but when i built up my body nobody had the guts to say anything
I was in the same situation. Everybody wanted me to accept this. I tried, but my suffering din't change. So I found the better solution: I changed the situation. I started training and started to eat more! Now I'm more happy and confident.
Yeah I feel y'all here, my relatives say to me to eat more every time we're together, and I eat literally everything in the house but don't gain weight😭 I'm 186cm/6'1 feet tall and 65kg/144lbs weight. And I feel okay with this, it's just said that some people don't understand it
Same here , do some muscle gaining excercise. Even i was skinny since 13 but i became 14 this March and i was surprised with my BMI results. I become healthy/Normalweight from underweight and i dont even go to gym i do excercise at home and gained 4-5kg in 1mnths
In a few years your metabolism will slow down and you'll put on a lot of weight and you'll miss being thin and being able to eat whatever you want. Just enjoy your life and wear what you want. Most clothes are made for your body type. Just enjoy while you can.
@@_Prayer_Warrior. What would you consider thin? But from my experience, Most clothes are not made for us. I am speaking as a skinny girl myself. For reference I am 5’7 and about 110 lbs. I can’t fit into the smallest sizes of most brands (US). All the jeans I own are pretty much just 00s, and the worst part is some of them are a little big. If clothes were really catered towards us then wouldn’t they actually have my size?
Fat shaming is real too its what i experience every time i walk into school. Ive thought about suicide multiple times and ive stopped at the last moment
why do not think to exercise and be healthy. ..you will have tons of energy. Ignore bullies, they do not deserve a second thought, start your journey for yourself.. I had mine. Wish you well
@@Elena-fe3osnot everyone can lose weight that easily, some people cant and its not their fault...some ppl r on medication. u nvr know what their gg thru
@@Elena-fe3os are you ok?? You never know what is going on with someone so don’t just assume that will make them better. Some people have had or do have eating disorders. Some people are born like that and that’s their natural body shape.
I feel for anyone who has ever been body shamed. I have seen it happen and it just breaks my heart. I give you all big hugs if you have ever been shamed for anything about your body. 💖
I’m so sorry for you to have these feelings. I was always the skinniest person in school and everyday somebody comes over to me and says: you are so skinny you have to eat more! After that I always just wore hoodies and big jeans Now I’m alright with my body but everybody has to know: body shaming doesn’t just go in one direction.
Being skinny is so hard.. actually I got bullied from grade 1-6.. and it was so hard for me getting bullied everyday. I always make sure that I wear clothes that doesnt show that I'm skinny. My relatives encourage me and I see this type of videos but It's still the same. (I'm insecure) sometimes I have the courage to wear skirts, etc. But not always. IT IS REALLY HARD. If you're fat you need to get some diet, if you're skinny you need to eat a lot. If you're not prtty, everybody will dislike you, If you're prtty you're a pick me... THIS WORLD IS SICK😢 (I LISTEN TO "SCARS TO YOUR BEAUTIFUL" it helps me (sometimes)specially in this type of situation.❤Like if you love skinny/fat.
All I can say is: don't listen to what others say. They say, "Just keep going." Be confident in yourself, and above all, don't be affected by what they say, because it can be done in their lives. And to the bullies, I can tell you, your karma will come. You will not succeed when you do something to someone. And as long as possible, don't bully, because just simple mockery has a big impact on what you say, both emotionally, physically, and mentally. That's all I can say.
i feel like you cant be anything in this world without getting shamed for it because i was skinny and i was shamed for it so i gained weight because i was depressed and i am getting shamed for being fat so we need to be kind and im glad you shared this with us.
I used to get bullied at school for a lot of reasons but this was the worst one If u don't understand this then im so happy for u and i hope u never experience this Now im so much more confident in my new school
Idk why some people don't understand that fat shaming is just as big of a problem as skinny shaming. It bugs me a lot. Also your so relatable. Love to everyone and don't care or listen to what people say about you!
@@imnotauglyduck2755 Think what you want but either one could be harmful/hurtful to a person. And neither one is worse than the other, it's just what people make it seem like.
@@hablando-de-todo fat shaming is way more prevalent and being fat is way more stigmatized and looked down upon for most people, take it from me, I've been fat and pretty skinny I'd take skinny any day
@@Anakin.Skywalker44 im sorry but your experience is not everyone else's. I know skinny people who has suffered a lot, and i mean A LOT, and they've been bullied and humilliated for years because of that. Yes, it's true that fat shaming is more common and radical but its the same shit. Skinny shaming is in fact quite common in real life but it's not as visible because online and in fashion industry skinny people are glorified while fat shaming is normal in both fashion industry and real life.
I am skinny because I have fast metabolism. Some people in my family are body shaming me saying that I should eat more even if I eat more than my mom. Even if they do that I still feel comfortable in my body and love it.
I fr thought it was extra protection from ppl who are willing to SA others- it happens so much I wouldn't be surprised if this were the measures ppl took to avoid it...
This society lets itself be carried away much more by physical aspects than by feelings. I'm not fat but I have a belly that looks like it, when I go out I shrink my belly to look skinnier and receive more acceptance from others, it doesn't affect me anymore but out of habit I still do that
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lol i understand the frustration, same as me the day i realized how ugly i truly am. looking at the mirror knowing how powerless you are and having to except it, thinking of yourself as a deformed monstrosity
I’m so sorry to anyone who has to go through this just remember that their opinion doesn’t matter as long as u love urself and I k is it may be hard but ignore what they say ❤❤❤❤❤
I’ve done this too but for different reasons…it’s like having multiple locks on your door: yeah someone can break in through them all but maybe it’ll give you enough time to escape or enough protection, maybe one of the locks will one that cannot be broken into and someone will hear my screams in time or 911 will finally help…if you don’t get the metaphor i am so happy to know that
i'm so skinny, too. i don't do this, but i know how it feels when the people body shame you, so I understand you. i'm so sorry for the people who do this, just love yourself and if you don't like your body, try to improve it. love yourself always❤
I can relate. I wore 2 bras including a push-up bra. Did this most of highschool. I’m skinny everywhere but was most self conscious about how flat-chested I was/am. Even though I’m married and have a toddler I’m still insecure about my chest.
Lesbiab here, I prefer chonk but I can't understand why anyone would shame anyone else for their body. Sorry to hear any of y'all were treated thay way or had to feel that way. Edit: Actually not happy with how small I am rn and working on that for myself. Sometimes we can be our own worst critics, eh?
No one has the power to make you feel any way. You give everything the meaning and the power, YOU have the power within yourself. What people think of me is none of my business. Know yourself and be true to yourself.
I was sooo concerned before i opened the comment, because i thought she was talking about sexual assault, it made me cry and my anxiety was soo high, although body-shaming is awful experience that no-one should go through, i’m at least glad you’re not assaulted, though there are people who went through that, and if anyone who went through that reading this, i’m so proud of you for your immense strength!❤
I was compared to a science class skeleton, been *called boney, said that I don't need to eat more, I have a "model" figure.. I HATED my body after that. I had trouble eating, and was super skinny, ribs were seen, bones visible, growing worse. Now, 7 years later, I still struggle with eating breakfast. I make sure to finish my plate/save it for later, make sure I don't waste it, and I no longer have a gap in between my legs and I'm so happy
Skinny shaming should also stopped being normalized. The struggle is real. Even we are also humans. We have feelings too.
xD
Same
Skinny shaming, fit shaming and fat shaming.
We are in a cycle of victims where no one wins.
Just so what everyone before the 2000s did, bully them back.
@@purplekrakenyut Yeah, back then. The size 0 used to be the beauty standard. It's good that as time evolved people started getting more mature celebrating body positivity, but doesn't mean you have to body shame people of other sizes, they made it to a point where being skinny is now seen as a laughing stock to the community.
@@misscutiepie6743 the size 0 has never been the beauty standard for normal people. Only celebrities and weirdos who worship celebrities and fashion magazines.
Getting body shamed for being to skinny😔
I am sorry. I know sorry can't heal or undo the past. But my intentions of writing this are full of hope and peace.
But hey listen, you are a survivor, you are a very special person. I don't know about others but I thank you for existing and being the part of the world.
You are doing great. Never let anyone stop you. Wish you the very best
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No one should get body shamed for being skinny or fat
I’m so glad to see that people are sharing their experiences about skinny shaming because few years back it was rare to see people actually talking about the hardships of being skinny and at that time I always felt that it was not very common to be so skinny and to layer clothes just to feel a little better. I had no one to relate to during teenage when I needed it the most💔
“the hardships of being skinny” 😂😂
I used to layer like 3 times, but the worst part is wearing ill fitted clothes. I wasn't only allowed to wear stretchy fabrics too. So I never got that support/comfort of fitted clothes. They're not even baggy in a fashionable way, I was always drowning in clothes. It was miserable 😢. The first time I got to choose my clothes, I picked the one size stuff that's got tassels or sth to adjust and it felt very cozy. And awesome looking at myself and seeing my body as it is!
@lemon4087 I feel you so much. More power to us!💫
@@emily94819you can definetly be "too skinny" and be bullied for it
Maybe because being skinny back then was the beauty standard and it kinda still is…
I honestly thought it had something to with SA or people not respecting boundaries. I’ve been plus size my whole and had weigh loss surgery. It is crazy how different I get treated by the same people. I’m sorry for your struggle. I hope you love yourself unconditionally and block out the haters!!!
Bullying can end lives and most teenagers don’t have this understanding unfortunately
I have been bulied at school when i was a child by teachers and other classmates and I bacamed more cold hearted rutless stronger and motivaed me to achive my goals and prove them that they were wrong So apart from trauma only succes 😊
Some people need it tho
I think that society is designed to create bullies. Back in my days, bullies bully people to shame others to look cool and be accepted by their peers. Nowadays bullies are self-righteous people who shame others so they would be accepted by their peers. Before people throw slurs to bully others. Nowadays people gonna bully those who use slurs.
@@UPI-rk7sn I was not the one to diserve it just because some rich kids done some nasty stuff and I was to blame and bully by the teacher and other classmates you call it righteos !
@@raresboghean2974 you got lucky to have this perspective because most people cant
I`m too skinny, but don't get body shamed at school. I get body shamed at home. My friends are more supporting then my relatives.
Edit: I'm so sorry for those who feel the same. Don't let this shitty society in ur mind. We're all different but beautiful. And thanks to everyone who supported me/us✨
Edit 2: Guys this comment is not just for thin girls like me, it's for everyone, skinny or not, healthy or not, shamed or not, bullied or not.
It is relatable
I started working out at the age of 9, by the age of 15 my friends started to think I'm a girl 😂 because of the wide chest and curved butt 😂 & got sexually molested a multiple number of times just because I was in good shape and I felt so helpless 😞
true
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same
Don't be ashamed of yourself. Your beautiful every inch
👇🏾 Ever be ashamed of yourself
To all people who get bullied:
Ignore them and don't let them affect on you!!!!
everyone is beautiful in another way so don't let them bully you 🙂🙂🥰
In my class its so damn different like if you dare to look at someone and say "you are too fat/skinny" they would literally point out every single one of you insecurities sometimes i feel glad i am in a class like that we are just a one big happy family 🙂
yes but what if ur mom tells u ur fat and need to loss weight😭
@@amradogs7192then i will do some exercise and loose weight
Simple as that
That's what my class was like, EVEN the boys and I felt so safe and comfortable.
Yass same here!!!!!!!
SHE IS ACTUALLY RELATABLE unlike all the other creators... sending love to everyone
am sorry but being skinny is better than being fat
She is. I've been skinny shamed since first grade. Especially in fourth grade, though. I was 53 pounds. All people are human, no mater their size.
@@AriannaHolbach I’m in fifth grade and I weigh 50-ish pounds my entire class and other students weigh about 20 pounds!!! I told my mom that and she said that is not possible and the thing is- they eat CANDY EVERY SINGLE DAY
I am one of those people who has to do that to leave the house, and I’ve never left after a extremely bad time in primary school and I got so bad that I left.
@@allecahbrown8715 Yeah but not when you're getting shamed for it everyday
My heart goes out to anyone being body shamed in any way or being bullied. School should be a safe place ❤❤
Not only skinny people face problems ...but If you are a little more healthy then that is also a big problem ❤️🩹so never get uncomfortable of you r skinny or fat..everyone is beautiful✨💞just don't listen to negative people 😖
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Awww this so nice although everybody bully’s me because I am skinny I cry every day because I feel ugly😭
@@_prabjotsingh_ don't cry you are perfect ✨
You just made me cry😢
I struggle a lot with my smile because you can see my gums. Thank you so much for this comment!❤❤❤
@@_prabjotsingh_it doesn’t matter how you look, it matters about your strength. Nobody is born ugly and the ones that might call you ugly is ugly themselves and have no right to bully you when they aren’t even strong enough to be kind. It’s how people think you are and how you view yourself. You don’t deserve to be bullied. I wish you the best and hope that you will feel so much better and treated the way you should be treated
I completely understand I feel u I got skinny shamed all the time and I do now too 😢the struggle is real guys please stop❤😢
I love her for showing this, it is a real thing I’ve struggles with it since forever, if you are struggling know you are beautiful don’t worry❤
Lots of students can relate to that.
I understand the feeling, back then people got body shamed almost everywhere. So people wore baggy clothes to school so they wouldn’t feel uncomfortable.😞😔
You are one of the ppl i respect. Thank you for sharing this. As someone who experienced this, you truly have my respect ❤❤. Body shaming isn't right, even if it's a joke.
We need to help all the girls(and boys). We are ALL SICK of everyone shaming us based on looks!!
Those who don't understand, I'm so happy for you.
Edit: 1.8K likes? Thanks.
Those who didn't understand, it's about being so thin that others body shame you. So she wore extra cloths to look not-so-thin.
I don't can someone educate?
Girls Due to periods ??
Those who don't understand, I think everyone needs to understand this (So that you don't do this to others). It's about body shaming someone because they're too skinny. So they wear oversized cloths to look not-so-skinny.
I am fat and I am insecure 😭
@@ClashOfClan2005 Pads - 🥹 could you find a way to put me down 👇 slowly..let me down 👇👇👇
As a skinny girl.. i can relate this🥲 unable to wear my favourite dresses
Me I wear whatever I want mostly sweats because I shouldn't need to please anyone but me
Me too😞
Girl😭 love your life why do you care about them you're beautiful the way you are, 👸💐💞💞 JUST KNOW THAT YOU'RE PRETTY🥹💗
❤❤❤😢 Being honest I've never overcame I just gained weight during years and years to have some fat do get a bbl done and I did. I was TOO skinny 😢
I feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for everyone who understands it because anyone who understands it can be in the same situation as you.
It so sad being called skinny because i can relate to all of this 😔 (i have feelings to)
You know, it’s sad. I’m overweight. And I do the exact same thing but for different reasons. I were multiple pairs of pants because it tightens my lower body. Making look like I have a thinner waist, I wear a hoodie for people can’t see my stomach and arms. Perspectives.
So true this sh!t hurts alot 😢
Truth but you need to try to be confident even though it is hard
same😢
So the simple way to shut them up is just make urself fit coz i was also fat and got bullied too but when i built up my body nobody had the guts to say anything
@@akshatkalotra5507 same
I'm the one who is skinny but go to school with a full confidence 😌🤍
Wow your lack of compassion & humanity is fuckin something else
Me too, but no one will tell me that I am skinny expect my teachers rarely. if some one says that, I would say and you a dumb bish
feel it ❤️🩹
This song is one of my favorites and I don't know why I've just always loved it
You (and anyone else who reads this) are perfect as you are, anyone who body shames you are the ones who are insecure.
I was in the same situation. Everybody wanted me to accept this. I tried, but my suffering din't change. So I found the better solution: I changed the situation. I started training and started to eat more! Now I'm more happy and confident.
I understand and it’s really hurt full knowing people go through this an i was one of them😔
Bro I feel this every day
We should teach our next generation not to body shame anyone ❤😢
I will remember that😢
I'm actually body shamed for my height, bellyfat. This tbh kinda increased my motivation to help all my skinny girlies
Have you looked into pcos? High bellyfat in woman can stem from that
My niece used to do this. Such a beautiful girl, I hated she didn’t know just how beautiful everything about her was. She’s much better now. ❤❤
The sad thing is is that this is so relatable😢
Everybody is imperfectly PERFECT!!!❤
I was skinny before I hit the gym and I just used to play football⚽️ and stuff without caring it’s not that hard to deal with
Yeah I feel y'all here, my relatives say to me to eat more every time we're together, and I eat literally everything in the house but don't gain weight😭 I'm 186cm/6'1 feet tall and 65kg/144lbs weight. And I feel okay with this, it's just said that some people don't understand it
Same here , do some muscle gaining excercise.
Even i was skinny since 13 but i became 14 this March and i was surprised with my BMI results.
I become healthy/Normalweight from underweight and i dont even go to gym i do excercise at home and gained 4-5kg in 1mnths
Same
In a few years your metabolism will slow down and you'll put on a lot of weight and you'll miss being thin and being able to eat whatever you want. Just enjoy your life and wear what you want. Most clothes are made for your body type. Just enjoy while you can.
@@_Prayer_Warrior. What would you consider thin? But from my experience, Most clothes are not made for us. I am speaking as a skinny girl myself. For reference I am 5’7 and about 110 lbs. I can’t fit into the smallest sizes of most brands (US). All the jeans I own are pretty much just 00s, and the worst part is some of them are a little big. If clothes were really catered towards us then wouldn’t they actually have my size?
REAL I DO EVERYTHING I CAN AND I LOOSE WEIGHT
This was definitely my struggle 😢
Body shaming, whether skinny or fat, is never okay. Society needs to change its mindset.
Fat shaming is real too its what i experience every time i walk into school.
Ive thought about suicide multiple times and ive stopped at the last moment
why do not think to exercise and be healthy. ..you will have tons of energy.
Ignore bullies, they do not deserve a second thought, start your journey for yourself.. I had mine.
Wish you well
You're perfect and you don't need to change anything.
@@Elena-fe3osnot everyone can lose weight that easily, some people cant and its not their fault...some ppl r on medication. u nvr know what their gg thru
@@Elena-fe3osstop being an ass**** and mind ur business it's not that easy to lose weight so think before u talk
@@Elena-fe3os are you ok?? You never know what is going on with someone so don’t just assume that will make them better. Some people have had or do have eating disorders. Some people are born like that and that’s their natural body shape.
but getting called fat is a different kind of pain😭
I feel for anyone who has ever been body shamed. I have seen it happen and it just breaks my heart. I give you all big hugs if you have ever been shamed for anything about your body. 💖
She is the most relatable person ever
I’m so sorry for you to have these feelings.
I was always the skinniest person in school and everyday somebody comes over to me and says: you are so skinny you have to eat more! After that I always just wore hoodies and big jeans
Now I’m alright with my body but everybody has to know: body shaming doesn’t just go in one direction.
Being skinny is so hard.. actually I got bullied from grade 1-6.. and it was so hard for me getting bullied everyday. I always make sure that I wear clothes that doesnt show that I'm skinny. My relatives encourage me and I see this type of videos but It's still the same. (I'm insecure) sometimes I have the courage to wear skirts, etc. But not always. IT IS REALLY HARD. If you're fat you need to get some diet, if you're skinny you need to eat a lot. If you're not prtty, everybody will dislike you, If you're prtty you're a pick me... THIS WORLD IS SICK😢 (I LISTEN TO "SCARS TO YOUR BEAUTIFUL" it helps me (sometimes)specially in this type of situation.❤Like if you love skinny/fat.
Im sorry for what you went through. Humans allways find something to say (which is pretty ironic because i just said something)
@@levelup2677 ty
i was blessed with good people in my life, i thought it was just so cold in school (at least mine high school was)
I used to do this I felt my insecurities was my body not being skinny but now I have gone over that and I love my body anyway ❤️
I have been harassed a lot and I do it to avoid being harassed anymore but they still continue.
All I can say is: don't listen to what others say. They say, "Just keep going." Be confident in yourself, and above all, don't be affected by what they say, because it can be done in their lives. And to the bullies, I can tell you, your karma will come. You will not succeed when you do something to someone. And as long as possible, don't bully, because just simple mockery has a big impact on what you say, both emotionally, physically, and mentally. That's all I can say.
i feel like you cant be anything in this world without getting shamed for it because i was skinny and i was shamed for it so i gained weight because i was depressed and i am getting shamed for being fat so we need to be kind and im glad you shared this with us.
I totally understood this right away. Thought I was the only one😢
Still cannot hide the beauty its ephemeral not physical.
People who dont understand she is getting body shamed at school so she wears four pants so she doesn't get body shamed or you could say bullied
Omg thanky you so much that happens to me somtimes
Oh, I thought she hates living in a country with cold environment
You are pretty just the way you are❤❤❤
I do this too, I'm really so skinnny. but never be ashamed of that, just accept yourself.
I used to get bullied at school for a lot of reasons but this was the worst one
If u don't understand this then im so happy for u and i hope u never experience this
Now im so much more confident in my new school
Idk why some people don't understand that fat shaming is just as big of a problem as skinny shaming. It bugs me a lot. Also your so relatable. Love to everyone and don't care or listen to what people say about you!
I'm pretty sure fat shaming is way worse
@@imnotauglyduck2755 Think what you want but either one could be harmful/hurtful to a person. And neither one is worse than the other, it's just what people make it seem like.
@@imnotauglyduck2755 why? just explain it , do u think someone who's skinny shamed cant feel as bad as one who's being fat shamed?
@@hablando-de-todo fat shaming is way more prevalent and being fat is way more stigmatized and looked down upon for most people, take it from me, I've been fat and pretty skinny I'd take skinny any day
@@Anakin.Skywalker44 im sorry but your experience is not everyone else's. I know skinny people who has suffered a lot, and i mean A LOT, and they've been bullied and humilliated for years because of that. Yes, it's true that fat shaming is more common and radical but its the same shit. Skinny shaming is in fact quite common in real life but it's not as visible because online and in fashion industry skinny people are glorified while fat shaming is normal in both fashion industry and real life.
Hey Vic! Don't be sorry if we understand this! You're pointing out the beauty of humanity.
i really hoped that someone feels my feelings thank you victoria ❤
remember its not the guys that would bully her.
Sadly that's so true... 😢
Guys and girls bully. I got bullies from all types growing up a little bit over weight
My parents would always get me hoodies that were way over sized because i always said they were comfy. I just used them to cover my torse and legs
Don't worry and be yourself
I FEEL U IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME
RELATABLE❤ thanks
I am skinny because I have fast metabolism. Some people in my family are body shaming me saying that I should eat more even if I eat more than my mom. Even if they do that I still feel comfortable in my body and love it.
Same😢
Same
I fr thought it was extra protection from ppl who are willing to SA others- it happens so much I wouldn't be surprised if this were the measures ppl took to avoid it...
Same
SAME
I literally thought the same thing...
Dont be ashamed of ur body Ur body is perfect the way it is❤
This really made me cry
If Victoria got bullied then there’s literally no chance for us 🤚🏼
This society lets itself be carried away much more by physical aspects than by feelings. I'm not fat but I have a belly that looks like it, when I go out I shrink my belly to look skinnier and receive more acceptance from others, it doesn't affect me anymore but out of habit I still do that
ternyata aku ga sendiri, tapi semua orang harus mulai menerima diri sendiri, kita semua sempurna, kita cantik walau dengan kekurangan. tuhan kasih kita tubuh yang sudah sempurna untuk kita jaga, semangat wanita yang juga merasakan hal sama diluar sana ❤
Brought back some dark memories.
lol i understand the frustration, same as me the day i realized how ugly i truly am. looking at the mirror knowing how powerless you are and having to except it, thinking of yourself as a deformed monstrosity
I can feel this😢😢😢
I hope she can understand that beauty is from the inside not from the outside 😢
I’m so sorry to anyone who has to go through this just remember that their opinion doesn’t matter as long as u love urself and I k is it may be hard but ignore what they say ❤❤❤❤❤
I’ve done this too but for different reasons…it’s like having multiple locks on your door: yeah someone can break in through them all but maybe it’ll give you enough time to escape or enough protection, maybe one of the locks will one that cannot be broken into and someone will hear my screams in time or 911 will finally help…if you don’t get the metaphor i am so happy to know that
i'm so skinny, too. i don't do this, but i know how it feels when the people body shame you, so I understand you. i'm so sorry for the people who do this, just love yourself and if you don't like your body, try to improve it. love yourself always❤
I used to do this when I came home because my mom would beat me every time.
Life is really hard.
I feel the same
😢❤
Im very skinny but i have never been insecure about anything im just grateful we need to stop worrying about what ppl say❤
As someone with pear shape body.. i can still understand skinny shaming hurt in the same way!
I can relate. I wore 2 bras including a push-up bra. Did this most of highschool. I’m skinny everywhere but was most self conscious about how flat-chested I was/am.
Even though I’m married and have a toddler I’m still insecure about my chest.
Girl you look so pretty 😍😍
i understand this i go thru this once in a week
Yeah but the worst thing is that the people who puts uniform and if it’s half sleeve or sleeveless uniform then you are dead 😂
I relate to this for another reason than every one else...
ive never experienced this but for those who have, i feel extremely bad for u during summer it truly must suck
As a guy i find skinny girls pretty ❤😢
Tysm😢❤❤
@@Yuq1ida_ you're welcome but I'm also skinny 😆
Wt is the meaning of it 🤔?
It means that they get Bullied for being to Skinny😢
@@audreakane1386 I'm also one of the person in our school that who got bullied to be too skinny 😶😢
My sister had a teacher straight-up ask her if she had an eating disorder. It really is a thing.
This is something that absolutely must be talked about
Lesbiab here, I prefer chonk but I can't understand why anyone would shame anyone else for their body. Sorry to hear any of y'all were treated thay way or had to feel that way.
Edit: Actually not happy with how small I am rn and working on that for myself. Sometimes we can be our own worst critics, eh?
I understand💔
Just like me😢
No one has the power to make you feel any way. You give everything the meaning and the power, YOU have the power within yourself.
What people think of me is none of my business. Know yourself and be true to yourself.
In india we used to wear 4 layers of shirt or pants due we got beaten up 😅
Don't you feel summer after wear this all
I was sooo concerned before i opened the comment, because i thought she was talking about sexual assault, it made me cry and my anxiety was soo high, although body-shaming is awful experience that no-one should go through, i’m at least glad you’re not assaulted, though there are people who went through that, and if anyone who went through that reading this, i’m so proud of you for your immense strength!❤
I was compared to a science class skeleton, been *called boney, said that I don't need to eat more, I have a "model" figure.. I HATED my body after that. I had trouble eating, and was super skinny, ribs were seen, bones visible, growing worse.
Now, 7 years later, I still struggle with eating breakfast. I make sure to finish my plate/save it for later, make sure I don't waste it, and I no longer have a gap in between my legs and I'm so happy
Skinny people are generally more healthy than fat people. Ever since I gained a lot of weight, my body just isn't as good as it used to be.
Winter Season 🤔🤔