Will Smith ADMITS Affairs Outside of Jada Pinkett Smith Marriage
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- čas přidán 12. 06. 2024
- The 53-year-old actor is featured in a new cover story for ‘GQ,’ and is opening up about his marriage in his upcoming memoir, ‘Will.’ The 53-year-old actor explains why they decided to go public with Jada’s ‘entanglement’ with singer August Alsina. Will also reveals he’s had extramarital affairs outside of their marriage.
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I have been happily married for 39 years. The key to a happy marriage is NOT this...
Thank you for saying that bc I’m over here just in shock thinking this may be the new normal……🥴
Exactly
Why put up with a bunch of foolishness?? Deceiving and being deceived
Lmao. Right. Queen right 🙌🏾
I want you to realize this… your marriage and other peoples marriages aren’t the same 😯 did I shock your mind it’s unbelievable right
This is why I will never ever look at celebrities as "couple goals".
Thank you! If anything, they're relationships are more f'ed up than regular ppl because they're rich and famous.
Human goals are to not be people who gossip and spend more time gossiping about or criticizing lives of celebs, or anyone else, spending more to better ourselves from within. Manage that, you win in life and at being a human being.
Only dummies think that way.
You probably shouldn't look at anyone as "couple goals." You know nothing about a couple once the door closes. You only see what they present to you.
What a relationship snob
Monogamy is a relatively new philosophy. I'm 20 years in- it's not 4 me, but who the F cares. I love my Husband & if that's what he wanted, we'd discuss it. We're both adults & our relationship is Noones business. And I wish 4 everyone 2 still b as madly in love w/ their partners as we r. I don't c it 2 day. So whatever it takes 2 keep ur marriage going- go 4 it! Celebrity or not
If you are in a relationship and you feel you’re in a “prison” and need to “figure out how to be happy” then the only right thing to do is end it, otherwise it will just become more toxic than it already is.
It's so obvious - it's sad that he doesn't seem to get that.
Shame he doesn't know you can be happy in or out of a marriage, being in a prison with the sourest self centered woman.
This is so true. He's so desperate to hang onto her, though. Very sad.
They are only damaging themselves.. others.. the marriage and the kids IMO
His wife came up with this open marriage thing, I think he went along to keep her because in his head he wants her manipulative love
Poor guy. He’s so against divorce but doesn’t seem to realize that carrying on ‘as is’ is so much worse than divorce. What he and his wife have together is not a marriage but a very destructive and ruinous betrayal of each other. I hope he gets out before it’s too late.
They are not.... That's what people don't get.
Jada is a toxic woman and she is destroying the man's soul. He needs to divorce her and find a woman who actually respects him.
@@hv3115 if anyone is destroying his soul it's him. How their relationship went was his idea not hers. But the double standard is definitely at play.
@@Lovetolivetruely there is no such thing as a "double standard." That is fem inist nonsense. There are different standards for men and women because men and women are different.
And as far as i know, it was Jada who was the one who didnt believe in conventional marriage. She's the one who seems to have convinced Will to have an open marriage. He seems to have gone along with it because he was afraid of losing her. He needs to stop acting like a simp.. and realize she is toxic and divorce her.
@@hv3115 You keep in with those thoughts. They not mine...
See how simple that is.
This is a good example of how Marriage is NOT suppose to be, lol.
That’s what I thought
That's how to rich people roll! Umm
Thank you!! Amen Amen!
Your definition of marriage isn’t the same for everyone else. Clearly they have an open marriage & are ok with it so worry about yourself.
Exactly!!!
Divorce is just a word that they’re too afraid to use. They’re in essence already divorced.
How? polyamorous relationships/ marriages aren't a new concept
@@Debziiie true! It just doesn’t seem like Will Smith wanted that, and he looks really unhappy now. Polygamy can only work if everyone involved really wants it.
@@FlowerThePot studies have confirmed that poly relationships always end badly… someone is always unhappy and it’s usually the man, as we can see.
More like open relationship
@@Adhara740 right, so can you please link these studies you’ve mentioned?
An open relationship is the complete opposite of marriage. There’s really no point in getting married in the first place. It’s honestly so beyond me that people do this
An open relationship usually means one partner forces the other one into it
And he's obviously not happy.
@@MothGirl007 would you be? The guy is in love and wants to be a dedicated monogamous husband. His wife is sex craved and obviously is looking elsewhere for more, knowing how dedicated he Is to her and that he won't leave her if she does do that. So that forces him to live that lifestyle too and then to start making up stupid excuses publicly to save face from the shame. He was crying when he accepted the award because his wife just made a fool of him on national TV, playing off his loyal dedicated love to her. He was thinking I just slapped this guy on national TV because he insulted my wife, maybe her lover should have came up and did it and not myself. The guy she truly enjoys spending your time with. And now here I am I lost my cool over this cheat who I am dedicated to on National Television. He certainly felt shameful not for slapping Chris but for being in love with her and dedicated. He's an old-school man lost in the modern world
@@toronto-policeandcityaudit1539 yeah that's how I hear a lot of stories go
Send Prayers to Will Smith Leave this woman she is ruining your life..
🙏🙏🙏 been praying for that • 👍
Save ur prayers for starving children and global injustice....not a wealthy guys bad marriage decisions...
Why...she's his beard!
When a couple starts "defining " what a marriage is, it's probably not a marriage.
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Exactly 👏🏽
Amen
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Best comment here
This is a reckless, hot mess, ridiculous excuse of a marriage. This isn’t love!
At this point I’m just waiting for the R Kelly and Jada Kelly tape to pop out from the 90’s of the two of them Turning out teens.
@@illwitness 🤣
They are successful and famous, but very poor role models for their children what marriage is about. When you truly love some one, you forsake all others and commit to love that person until death does you apart.
Nope, it’s conscious coupling or whatever Hollywood ppl call it
@@illwitness 😂😂😂
Their "marriage" is a COMPLETE failure!!! I couldn't possibly imagine going through life in a relationship like theirs. That would make life not worth living!
Hearing Will speak about what he needs to be happy, makes me wonder why he doesn't realize that as long as we believe we need to search for happiness outside of ourselves, the more it will elude us.
He and his wife are the most screwed up individuals out there. Proof that money can't buy happiness
Never has never will be Is celebrities are the most miserable depress unhappy people in the world
And people wonder why their children are so weird. With the exception of the oldest one, Trey.
They are both married to their egos!! 😓
I don't think they are the most screwed up. T. i and tiny takes the cake
@@kale4580 I Can't Stop Laughing.
He’s explaining himself way too much for being authentic.
This is thought 15 years of interviews. Plus his wife has a show about it.
Me think he doth protest too much!
At this point I’m just waiting for the R Kelly and Jada Pinket-Smith-Kelly tape from the 90’s of them turning out teens to pop up. That’s where this story is headed.
Its an open marriage. Chill.
Me thinketh he owes not a damn one of US any explanation. Thats HIS marriage
He's not doing what he wants, he's doing what SHE wants. That's just so obvious when he was sitting there across from her with his hands cupped in his lap under the table while refusing eye contact with her and nodding in agreement with the "Uh, yes..."
I think she has information on him that would shatter his Hollywood image and he is a scared 😨
I hate that they glorify their personal business as if everyone else is abnormal. Keep that 💩 to yourselves. It's clearly toxic. Ww can see it in there actions.
Being a celebrity seems like it’s miserable and exhausting. I can’t believe I used to envy these people.
Right😒
Like I've said for years....."I'll stick to having poor people's problem..." 😂
Would like the Wealth though
@@erstewaren247 lol speak for yourself all I want is to be rich and not famous
they are polyamorous which is nothing wrong with it
This couple is beyond strange. And honestly, they both kinda seem miserable
They both seem bent on making the other miserable by any means necessary. They have resulted to using others to help accomplish their mission. Slowly but surely Hollywood is removing the veil. Not everything that glitters is gold.
AGREED!!!!!!!
Exactly
Just to embarrassed to get divorced they both are unhappy.
It's not strange it's her hes a simp and I hate that word. a simp because you love and will do things for your wife that make u less masculine but this is a woman who was not supposed to be married by him
I cant believe people actually live like this it's not love its competing against eachother
He uses a million and one words just to say, “I’m lost”.
I guess I’m old fashioned now, but marriage to me is choosing my partner everyday. Standing with them through thick and thin (within reason), and creating lasting memories together. The idea of an open-door policy wouldn’t vibe with me.
Open door is not marriage. Might be something else, but not marriage.
Exactly. That is never God's way and if you ain't going God's way, whose way are you going?????😔
❤thanks I was losing hope
When I marry, if that is my path, I want to care for him and he for me to make us both happy...
You can say that again!
They've both been cheating for decades. They're just friends
Lol
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@Lee Irby not sure why it's being talked about now. Will was dating some Latina years ago. Taking her on trips. Jada was there too.
@Lee Irby will and jada both for the streets
@@yogaqueen1527 Will still looks early to late 20s lol
I can't even look at this two anymore without cringing ( Yes, my comment is POST-OSCAR) !
Having been in both healthy and unhealthy relationships, i can safely say: 'you cannot fix something that doesn't work'. That being said, sometimes the healthiest thing one can do is let go before the realtionship destroys you, and/or your spouse. To not make this discretionary call when you can, ultimately results in everyone else around you going down as collateral damage.
I’ve seen lots happily married people. Neither Jada nor Will have that light in their eyes of a happy marriage.
Hollywood swinging! Smdh
I try not to be judgmental, but for a grown man, in his 50s, to be talking about having, a harem, is considered "juvenile". It seems that a lot of black people, ultimately, go into a cycle of "adolescence", or self indulgence, that we can not break out of. It is a harsh reality that most black men and black women, today, have never seen an intact and traditional marriage between black men and black women. When I mention the words "intact" and "traditional", I mean a union in which a black man and woman are legally married, living under the same roof, and all the children are conceived and born in wedlock. To a lot of today's black men and women, THESE aspects of marriage are considered an "alien way of existing". It seems that Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are trying to "re-define" the concept of marriage. Kind of like shooting a man then blaming the victim for "getting in the way of the bullets". I see, now, why the Smith's children have a host of emotional and behavior issues. Whether you are black, white, or purple, TRUST and LOYALTY are the basic foundations for any happy marriage. Without "trust" and "loyalty", the foundation will crumble.
Facts their eyes dead sad
They're not married, he doesn't wanna get divorced 'cause she'll take his money. Cheaper to keep her. Many blessings to Will
@@SW-Lopez1980 i really dont think it's about the money. He is traditional minded and doesn't believe in divorce. Also divorce would be like admitting failure and he thinks that makes him a quitter. He doesnt seem to understand that Jada is a toxic woman and she is destroying his manhood and soul and she will never love and respect him the way he wants. He needs to grow a pair and divorce her.
So we’re going to just normalize this as “the key to a successful marriage”? Please…
Exactly smh
True. They are whacko!
That is some screwed up and definition of settling. There is real love out there but this ain't it in the slightest unless you tell yourself that. Why take that away from someone when you can't man up to admit that your not ready at all and that you are in denial of your own doings wants and are not happy, don't do that to someone else just cause you are not happy and in denial of what love actually is. It's your choice to want and allow something good into your life and want something better for yourself which includes wanting something truly better for others too. Its your choice. The same applies to both of them. Stop living in a lie of delusions.
@@andreamoscoso4065 EXACTLY!! They are glorifying settling.
@Michelle Qureshi its their life, let them live the way they want to.
Sooooo happy people see through this, into the BS. This is NOT marriage goals whatsoever. This. Isn’t. Love.
How to destroy the integrity and sanctity of marriage, Hollywood style..
They both deserve each other. Having "entanglements" within a marriage isn't the answer. To each his own.
🤣😂😂😂😂ENTANGLEMENTS
Monogamy isn’t the only form of a relationship, it maybe the traditional way, but there are people stepping out on each other not knowing everyday, and for them whatever they do, it’s not for anyone to understand, but it’s real for them
Will just decided to admit his affairs because so many people clowned him for Jada's affair with their son's friend. A lot of people figured this is what their relationship was like because years ago one of them slipped and said they had an open marriage and then the two backtracked and said "open" didn't mean "open marriage". I was like "What?".
I cant take the word “entanglement” seriously lmaoooo
@Prof. George C. Grasser you do know that his wife also had an affair outside their marriage? They both deserve each other
When Willow said she didn’t believe in marriage that told everyone that her parents don’t either.
Yup..
I wouldn't believe in marriage either if I saw my parents with different partners while married. Like what's the point of being married then. The vows don' t match the lifestyle. No wonder she identifies as polyamorous.
Neither do I... tried it twice and never again! Some things aren't for everyone!
They've been showing her marriage, and your partner, aren't to be respected, for years
Most marriages have cheating. They're just airing their laundry in public.
you never solve issues in a relationship BY GOING OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP! how toxic to them bring kids into it as well...just split up and be with whomever you choose, don't be so hypocritical and dysfunctional as to diminish your partner by openly sleeping with another and pass it off as 'healthy'
I've been with with my husband over 25 years. Definition of true love is that you are happy with the other person, so much so that you are not wanting to look outside your marriage to fulfill your needs. True intimacy is having a connection with your spouse that you don't want with anyone else. No coaches and crap needed.....
Y’all late. I’ve been known this! They always talk about how they are “life partners”. There’s no way Will wasn’t aware of Jada and August. They’ve BEEN dating other ppl. Only difference between them both is that one of Jada’s exes spoke publicly.
This all came from August’s documentary he did about his life on his CZcams channel (episode 4 “what is love”). And if you watch the documentary, you can tell Jada helped him with it because it had a lot of Tupac references and old Tupac interviews in August’s documentary. I’m like they knew August was going to release the documentary at some point...
Jada been playing that Tupac tune for too long. Will never should have left his wife for her.
We’ve all been knew this. It was an open secret.
Does anybody really believe any of these Crowleyist p3dophiles really have monogamous marriages? Silly fools
Everyone knew except Entertainment Tonight. 😂
So the rumors that they had an open relationship were pretty much true.
Basically
Yup
Beyond true! He has been seeing, supporting & traveling with Heidy de la Rosa for years!
Will bats for both sides. And Jada convinced herself her relevance depends on Will, it does not but, it is what she believes.
"All the rumors all the rumors are true" - Lizzo
Marriage is tough. I can’t imagine being a fly on the wall in other married people house. Most people aren’t honest.
My grandparents are married for 45 years , this is the opposite of marriage lol
Will still looks unhappy no matter how much he clowns around and tries to convince us. He’s living Jada’s marriage ideas.
did you miss the part when he said he wanted to date 20 women at a time???
He also does his own thing. Jada is a homebody while Will likes to go constantly go. They let one another do that.
This family is sick , instead of being modern and cool they are disgusting
@Denise Smith lmao my husband & I are just the opposite. I'm the homebody, he's Mr go go go... one rule, no entanglements.
Oh well he said they’re not divorcing so who cares
I've been married 38 years and yes we've had our ups and downs but I would NEVER say it has been the most "painful experience ever". That is not a good marriage, that is someone lying to themselves.
I agree - it's such a bizarre thing to say.
@@MothGirl007 if my partner said our marriage was the most painful experience ever, I would feel like complete shit. And then file for divorce immediately. I don’t want to stay with someone who can’t stand to be with me
Yeah, I would truly *hope* to never describe my marriage like this!
“Lying to themselves” and have tried so hard to convince everyone else of the lie for the longest, I never bought it. They’ve sounded like the abused and their abuser for quite some time to me.
Agreed
This is a total dysfunctional relationship. You can sugarcoat it how you want.
I've been happily married for years. If it was this forced, this much agony, I simply would have moved on a long time ago. This all just rings so strained, so fake, so hollow. Vague jargon, inflated senses of self-importance, and good ol' Hollywood falseness.
Okay. Who is he trying to convince besides himself?! So infidelity is the key to marriage? Sad that the family and sanctity of marriage is no longer “cool”. Whatever you have to tell yourself Will!
I don’t ageee with their type of marriage, but ppl have had open marriages for DECADES.
Exactly
Amen 🙏🏼 nothing good comes from infidelity, that’s not a marriage.
@mystic panther take you’re own advice.
Preach!!
If you need an affair to be “happy” Divorce will most definitely become an option! And I’ll go build a new “happy “ for myself
Facts 💯
👏👏👏
I try not to be judgmental, but for a grown man, in his 50s, to be talking about having, a harem, is considered "juvenile". It seems that a lot of black people, ultimately, go into a cycle of "adolescence", or self indulgence, that we can not break out of. It is a harsh reality that most black men and black women, today, have never seen an intact and traditional marriage between black men and black women. When I mention the words "intact" and "traditional", I mean a union in which a black man and woman are legally married, living under the same roof, and all the children are conceived and born in wedlock. To a lot of today's black men and women, THESE aspects of marriage are considered an "alien way of existing". It seems that Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are trying to "re-define" the concept of marriage. Kind of like shooting a man then blaming the victim for "getting in the way of the bullets". I see, now, why the Smith's children have a host of emotional and behavior issues. Whether you are black, white, or purple, TRUST and LOYALTY are the basic foundations for any happy marriage. Without "trust" and "loyalty", the foundation will crumble.
She is a shamelss
Will Smith is just a never-ending list of how not to live your life.
The moment the two of you looked for “relief” in other people outside of your marriage you quit Will.
Exactly why I didn’t even care that the world found out about her and August…they’ve already stated they have an open marriage!
Well they never really said they had an open relationship...if it was open I don't think they would've use words like cheat
@@keshahunt1476 exactly
PSA: I don’t really give a damn , I comment and keep it moving 💯
@Hammerhand I don’t know what (lest) means but you’re the lie , you don’t know me. Kindly find you something to do …you must be in a similar situation as them. Sucks for you
Gotta love a good troll 🤣
Wow- so romantic- nothing says "I love you" quite like infidelity.
😂 exactly.
Oh & Don't forget the part it's not my job to make you happy & It's not your job to make me happy(That Part Got Me SMDH)
It’s not “infidelity” if the couple doesn’t perceive it as such. Have you heard of polygamy?
@@mgxtra4846great point. It looks like it's working out really well for them.
@@lovethyself94 it really isn’t
You go ahead and try it, you’ll be miserable your entire life trying to make others happy.
You can tell he would leave her if there was an “easy” button.
Why bother coming together if you find happiness apart?
_"Being married is easy. You only have one woman to satisfy."_ ---MIKE LOWREY
Dude, if this was 'okay' his first wife wouldn't have wanted to divorce him when she realised he had feelings for Jada. Will just doesn't believe in divorce. He never wanted to divorce his first wife until she wanted to. His first wife knew what was up. What he has now isn't a marriage. You don't say that your marriage is 'excruciating' and describe it as the most extreme form of torture...and then still STAY THERE. That's not love. They say that they don't want marriage to be a prison for them, that it has to be 'freeing'. There's nothing liberating about this situation.
I agree it sounds like both or one of them is afraid of being alone maybe because of childhood trauma so they agree to stay and let other have sex freely with their spouse. All these years in the African American community people talked about how they were “relationship goals” Naw, this is a hot mess and if they were so strong about making marriage work the right way (Commited to God first then to their spouse and children , then friends family). Think about it that’s what the ceremony represents that you a publicly saying before everyone there you are committing to a covenant with this 1 person and forsaking all others. You don’t stand up there and say, “We’re inviting all others in our bedroom “ where’s the sanctity in marriage nowadays “
I love me some Will and Jada been following their careers since he was the fresh prince of bel air and she was on the Cosby show before A Different World.
But this right here! Nasty 🤮 and Y’all need to invite God in your marriage and put all them other people out your bedroom…Will and Jada! No wonder they children want to try everything, y’all confusing them babies!!!
Can we as a people just acknowledge we didn’t make ourselves and Father God (who did) doesn’t need your input on how to live a safe prosperous life. Just do it his way and marriage won’t be miserable to you. Or stay single but dang, just stop 🛑 this nonsense.
Preach 👏
Well said.
Will was always the one having the affairs over the years. That’s usher stArted losing all her hair. She cried for 45+ days he admitted to failing as a father ,son and husband and himself. Up until she had the affair with August and Will couldn’t chew on that pill bcas the red table was turning on him. I think she had the affair to get back at him for all of those years of cheating. He wants to have his cake 🎂 cake and jAda too but jada decided hey why not he keep having affairs.it always have been Will, Duane and Tyrese talking those trips to Dubia partying with other women, Duane was the reading Lisa Raye marriage ended in divorced. Don’t make excuses for him bcas he is a super star. I think he is a sex additc. Stop explaining ur disfunctional behavior bcas u want to all without morals and boundaries. Such disrespect to our black men. He should know better. He is really living that lawless Hollywood life. I just think people like him especially men have greedy desires in life especially when it comes to sex. The devil is so busy right now. He doing interviews trying to normalize his behavior. I really have lost my respect for him bcas he supposed to be the head of the family. SMH. Please don’t comment back it’s my opinion.
@@TheRealHeavenlyHands Amen!
I think that this entire situation is extremely sad all the way around. The saying "hurt people, hurt people" seems to be true. It appears that they are two individuals who are hurt, and their hurt is affecting those around them... each other, their children, other family members, Chris Rock, etc. It is heartbreaking to see them "jokingly" fist bump in "celebrating... bad marriage for life." It was just as sad to hear Will share about him planning Jada's 40th Birthday Celebration the day after her 37th Birthday, and for her to then respond to him in such an ugly way, was unbelievable and hurtful. I truly pray in Jesus' Name for their healing and for them to be delivered from their hurt, so that they are no longer hurting themselves and others.
MARRIAGE IS LOVE, RESPECT & CONTENTMENT TO EACH OTHER PLUS CONTENTMENT OF WHAT YOU HAVE
Now I think Wills issue with Jadas “entanglement” is the fact that the guy went public. None of his women do that… at least none that I remember.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I been saying this!!! He been out there doing his thang. So all the guys saying she for the streets.... he was out in the streets b4 that! Lol.
@@amyj4438 exactly!!!
And they let her take the hard public fall for that.
@@rasta487 Yep..that pissed me off. I could never jump on the ke ke entanglement bus because I just knew if she was doing it he had BEEN doing the same and it wasn't cool that HE let her take the full wrap knowing that was how they got down she just slipped up on her pimpin by not getting a signed permission slip and NDA from her young gentleman caller.
@@rasta487 everyone knows the male ego can’t handle infidelity yet men are famous for it hell they are the ones who made it famous. The double standard won’t end on this front
Came here after the Oscar’s incident.
He’s clearly a broken man in an emotionally abusive relationship. The most telling thing in this clip to me was the 40th birthday party he was planning for her. He said he started planning it after her 37th birthday, so he worked on it for 3 years. He clearly loves her deep down. But then she crushes him by saying it was the biggest display of his ego. He’s let her rule the house and it’s torn him apart, but he tries to keep it together on the surface.
Tonight at the Oscar’s we saw him break.
Right
2:30 His body language compared to hers reveals it all.
same, she seems extremely manipulative and this whole swingers fiasco seems to be solely her idea but he plays along with it.
Looks like she likes the "bad boy" type and his behavior at the Oscars was him trying to show his toxic masculanity which she seems to dig..
just my .2....
Yeah, i feel bad for will smith. It doesn’t look like he deserves this treatment
This is the first comment i fully respect about this incidence
Thank you!
Lowkey i dont get why theyre married if they want an open relationship
Why does it look like it’s a cry for help… Someone needs to really check on Will, and when I saw them say “bad marriage for life” in the red table interview, it made me cringe. These two people are so broken that in essence they are already divorced, but hey if thats the boat they both like to float… who am I to judge.
When I saw that Red Table Talk with Will and Jada, I knew it was an act on his part. They have spoken publicly about their open marriage. Will knows about Jada’s entanglements and Jada knows about his. August said that Will gave them his blessing to be together. Will was not hurt like everyone thought…Remember, Will and Jada are great actors.
They certainly are and so even if the marriage is a failure hopefully this will birth some awesome new roles 🤣🤣
I guess August was telling the truth. Will knew about it and August and Jada were together for 4+ years.
Lol it became the most watched episode of Facebook series so yeah mission successful
Jada maybe but Will a great actor?
I think he was embarrassed because it was made public and because she got involved with a guy who was close their family and who they were helping. That’s what I understood. Maybe he expected that they’d only date people that weren’t as close to the family…that’s the sense I got, I may be wrong.
Looks like someone trying really hard to convince himself.
For real
Yup!
Yea poor Will he is never guilty of anything. I know he is good actor but he is guilty as she, they don't love eachother it is just for the show. But who knows maybe he wants her to be faithful but he can sleep around.
Yea poor Will he is never guilty of anything. I know he is good actor but he is guilty as she, they don't love eachother it is just for the show. But who knows maybe he wants her to be faithful but he can sleep around.
If my marriage gotta be open I best stay single. I'm stingy and don't like to share. What is mine is mine.
What a train wreck. Sleeping with other people while you’re married will always end in suffering.
"It's not my responsibility to make my wife happy". This gets me every time I read it.
You can't make an unhappy individual happy. There is no way. They took the break and did their thing individually, but she has to want to love herself before she could ever be happy. He was right about that. People get hung up on the wrong thing. A depressed, unhealed person can't find happiness in anything you do.
I agree. It's so weird to even say something like that because when you love someone you automatically want to make them happy. Goes for both sides.
@@Shaha33able that dosent make it your job to make them happy
@@suzanneweary9739at this point, what e er floats your boat. This is the world in which we all live in now. Self. Think only if self. Even in marriage. My spouse is unhappy? Oh well...tough titty. It ain't my 'job' to comfort you. I'm just with you cause we look good together and the sec is great. My only 'job' in this is to keep ME happy. Let's take a break. Sleep with other people. Keep ME happy while you get happy. And when/if you're happy again? Then we can do this. Yea...that sounds like a marriage we ALL should strive for. I mean, what was 'I' thinking?that you so much for putting clarity to it all...........not.
@@blkdivinity5132thanks. I wasn't aware that how you feel about someone was a 'job'.
He needed to pay an “intimacy coach” to tell him that having a harem of women would be a bad idea?
LOL!!
What a loser
It's an open marriage and it was her idea...
@@ticrowell1080 not entirely sure what that means. I'm saying, she's the one who wanted an open marriage. They're both famous, they're both gonna pull, those are the facts.
Psychology and pyschciatry doing what they do best..degrading humans into animals and pushing the culture further down the hole!
Marriage is a full time job that can’t be taken lightly. You have to WORK at it.
That’s just CRAZY! Will and Jada both have spoken way too openly about what should have been private and sacred😟
I dream of that old school romance type of love .This just hurts my heart thinking of all the confusion involved here, especially for the kids.
You sound "traditional" which is fine. But it's working for them. The kids seem fine too. Traditional is not always everyone's way of thinking. I admire their relationship. It's not for me but I it's working for them & I respect it. I hope they have many many more years of a beautiful marriage 🌹
@@anyyyyyyyyyyyy clearly it's not working for them. calling their marriage excruciating. jada saying she needed to date someone else because it had "been so long since she felt good." it's just like Tripp and Grace from Façade
@@OnlyMichaelJackson it is working for them tho..... they are still married & they both speak openly about their decisions & both consenting to staying married. It may be "weird" to you but it's working. I don't know what your definition of working is but it sounds like it's an opinion
@Lola Blue stop worrying about the damn kids, they are grown as adults and can fully understand the damn situation you’re talking about them little they are four and don’t know what’s going on in the world.
@@anyyyyyyyyyyyy I think they are at a point in their relationship where they rather be in love with other people than with each other. I feel as though Jada wants to be out of this marriage but Will wants no divorce. Their relationship probably did affect their children, I think Jada's boyfriend was living with them and close to them before her entanglement with him.
It seems that Will is just pretending that he is okay with all this and dealing with it. He does not seem happy.
I don't think either of them are happy. They are just going through the motions to save face.
He doesn’t
@Made from the dust of the ground Jada was never loyal she's been having a obsession over 2Pac for decades that was the first big red flag
@Made from the dust of the ground I ain't protectining neither of em. There marriage is just business reminds me of Daisy relationship from great Gatsby. She was never happy with her husband but they stayed together cause of there wealth and to look good.
Will likes men!!!! An article came out a while back about him hiring two men to have sex
They have to be the most powerful couple in Hollywood period. I bet my life they aren’t the only Hollywood couple doing it like this…that y they are staying quiet 🤫
Rich people say the shittiest things and people start thinking of them as motivational speaker 🔊
Didn’t know that Will had such a low self-esteem. He’s just defending Jada’s ideas of marriage. He’s totally lost. I see an abusive relationship. I feel so sad for him. And most of all I feel sad for children 💔 such unhealthy environment to grow in!
Yes, now I understand why those kids are how they are.
Word. I don't get y he putting up with that shit.
I try not to be judgmental, but for a grown man, in his 50s, to be talking about having, a harem, is considered "juvenile". It seems that a lot of black people, ultimately, go into a cycle of "adolescence", or self indulgence, that we can not break out of. It is a harsh reality that most black men and black women, today, have never seen an intact and traditional marriage between black men and black women. When I mention the words "intact" and "traditional", I mean a union in which a black man and woman are legally married, living under the same roof, and all the children are conceived and born in wedlock. To a lot of today's black men and women, THESE aspects of marriage are considered an "alien way of existing". It seems that Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are trying to "re-define" the concept of marriage. Kind of like shooting a man then blaming the victim for "getting in the way of the bullets". I see, now, why the Smith's children have a host of emotional and behavior issues. Whether you are black, white, or purple, TRUST and LOYALTY are the basic foundations for any happy marriage. Without "trust" and "loyalty", the foundation will crumble.
They're known swingers
It's called open marriage. It's been going on for decades. Nothing new here. Some people r willing to go to hell, more power to them.
Are we surprised?
Marriage is no longer sacred. Especially in Hollyweird.
@Hazel E who says marriage has to be sacred or that a couple - who doesn’t know you and you don’t know them - has to abide by YOUR definition of what marriage is and what it should be. They’re two grown ass adults. Why can you let them decide what they want their marriage to be and not force your beliefs and opinions on them. I don’t see them telling you how to be married or how to define your relationship and yet here you are judging someone else based on your standards. Do you and let them do them.
@@mjallen1308 just shut up
When Wills talking..I picture someone handing me a piece if human feces glazed in chocolate....no matter how u coat it...its sh!t!
Why be married if you’re constantly looking for someone else. Poor guy hope he gets the guts to get out of that situation. This woman has manipulated him to the point where he doesn’t know which way is up or down
Will is basically talking to himself trying to convince himself that his marriage is “love” and “happiness”🙄🤣😂 everyone saw his face and expression when Jada had her “entanglement”. He was hurt
Right, he was hurt. Now he's like... Oh it's no big thing we'll just change the format of our marriage, it's my fault., if I was a better husband this wouldn't have happened, etc. He's trying to compensate for her complete lack of a conscience. He may think he's saving their marriage, but he's actually ruining it. She'll only further lose respect for him for making concession to her. I've been there....
OMG .... EXACTLY !!!!!
Yep! Look at his eyes😔
No he wasn't! It just appeared that way to people who didn't know that he'd been having affairs way before Jada did, but he managed to keep his under wraps!
I thought the same but he is an actor 🤷
They have an open marriage, that's the whole point of it.
💯💯💯
But they been denying it for years
Surprise Surprise they been doing it for years
Why even be married?
In other words a fake marriage
From a lawyer. This is the language of divorcing & separating spouses.
Whatever excuses and titles you want to give it- it's cheating on your marriage. No candy coating Will and Jada! Call it what it really is. Divorce and do your 'thing'
No Sir, these are not couple goals... Whatever they have is business arrangement not a holy matrimony.
Exactly
100% 🎯
To you... all I see is a successful marriage. 🌹
amen sis
amen sis
He sounds like he's trying to convince himself what he's saying is true. If it's real love, why not recommend it to others? Maybe because it's NOT love at all. Real love brings your ass HOME to the one you love, not being selfish.
When he said highest definition of love I lost it at the same time he's saying it's not my responsibility to make her happy this simply laughable.
They are so messed up.
Yep Amen!!!
Thank you! Nobody wants someone with a wandering eye.
You do know polygamy is a thing in other cultures right , everything isn’t based on American culture. Not everybody believe in monogamy and polygamy is not for everybody cause it can cause issues
Why recommend it? You should find your own happiness and what works for you and yours. World screwed up as it is when y'all want everything and everybody to do the same thing or have the same mentality
Can't wait to see Jada in G.I Jane 2 👍
A happy man wouldn't choose violent as a solution to anything
I always thought Will was a good actor but most of us could see through their lies when they interviewed together.
They sound like they're open! I believe August! Will gave him permission!
Crazy this is .... that sounds exactly like what Will said... we bring to each other what I need to make him happy amd her vice versa but now its I didn't give permission.... August is not lying.
He doesn't care who banging his wife because he sure isnt 😆
That definitely what he said lol
It's becoming painfully clear that he went along with this concept of marriage *FOR* Jada. Because *SHE* didn't believe in and didn't *WANT*. A ✌🏾traditional✌🏾 marriage (aka a marriage). And he wants so badly to hold on to her for whatever reason. That he's compromised himself and his ideals. Yeah she got him completely mentally worked over.
This is NOT a marriage ,just 2 people living in the same house
I feel like Will is stuck in that thing whatever they call it... he's trying to convince us he's happy but he looks miserable
I agree will lost his light he no longer looks happy
He’s happy to be able to do what he wants when he wants. He’s no stranger to divorce. This works for him, he doesn’t need anyone’s sympathy
He does look miserable
#TRUE!!
@@kj7682 trust me. Sex means nothing when the person who has ya heart aint next to.you. Just couldnt be me
These are 2 very selfish hurt people who got married and now are trying to "prove" to the world that an "open marriage " works. News flash it dosen't work!! They just continue to deeply hurt one another 💔
And think about what this does to the kids !
@@cyann410 AND people like August. Who get involved in their situation thinking it's something a little different, maybe something that can become real only to be heartbroken.
It seems like theirs is actually working fine 🙂
I think their marriage hurts the comment section more than each other tbh. 😂
Oh shut up for the love of god. Just because something doesn’t fall into your realm of convention doesn’t mean it doesn’t work
Will is an example of why people need to sometimes seek out a therapist instead of a coach. What he's mentioned going through is well above the pay grade and education of an intimacy coach. Shoot... maybe even higher than a therapist.
You can take a person out of the ghetto, but you can not take the ghetto out of the person.
YALL WENT OFF ON JADA! About her "entanglement" with August Alsina. But yall out here being hella mute about Will's affairs.
double standards
Right!
Yes!!!!!!
Thank you because it’s been known he has cheated with some of his co stars. 2 of them I could name off the top of my head. And no I will not say who but I was flabbergasted that people hadn’t thought he cheated before. She just was open about it.
Double standards at its finest.
It's like speeding up in a car heading for a wall and refusing to bail, because you're not a quitter. End result will still be the same, you're still going to be broken up inside and out, not a quitter, but broken no matter how woke /evolved you think you are.
This!!Also true for those who insist abused spouses to remain married at ALL costs.
Make it make sense!
I think Will has hit rock bottom. If he hit Chris at the Oscars I think it was because he has many accumulated feelings and all because of his marriage and how it is that Jada handles things I think that in order to not lose her he has accepted many things, and in front of the cameras he appeared to be fine with it and that the decision was mutual, when in reality it was probably not like that. I think he is an amazing actor and person, i think he deserves better or he will end fucking his career, his life, his mrntal health, for a woman who is not worthy.
WILL and JADA an OPEN marriage MEANS that YOU no longer WANT each OTHER.
I'm glad this was dug up ! Because people LOVE to drag Jada, but will has been doing this for YEARS
They are both screwed up but for the most part men tend to stray first and the most. You heard what he said he wanted a harem of women
@YouWishBish ...Log off
@YouWishBish NO he’s NOT!!
@YouWishBish 🤣🤣
Difference is Jada came out first with it. That's why she got all that hate cause it seemed like she 2as the only one doing it.
So sad he ended up turning out to be an old fool spewing foolishness.
😭😭😭😭
I think scientology might be responsible for some of this foolishness
Exactly!!
March 2022: How is this working out for you Will?
This is exactly what happens in a godless marriage. I have a friend that was running an open marriage. This only goes on until one falls in love with another and then the one will want a divorce. My friend now is divorced.
Married 14 years and I couldn’t disagree more. Yes it’s your responsibility to make yourself happy, but it’s also your responsibility to not steal your partner’s happiness. Boundaries matter and if your partner has set them and you don’t care about making them happy, you’re just selfish. If your boundaries don’t make sense with your partners boundaries, don’t marry them, but if there can be compromise, THAT is love. I get that this supposedly works for some people, but it makes no sense to me. Why even get married then? Just date people. Marriage is a full body and spiritual commitment, forsaking all others and becoming a unit. When other people come in and out like a revolving door, there’s no unit there.
That's right. Each out for themselves means no one else is important
You are wrong , marriage is just to continue life road with someone . It's not about sex its about sprituals . Sex is life food you can't have the same food for your whole life but it doesn't mean to leave your loved one for just sex! Sex and love could be seperate
@@commandvideo I feel pitty for u
Thank god, women like u exists
@@saikatbanik9359 you are miserable
It's just not worth it. Humans are not built like this and someone's going to get hurt both emotionally and at times physically. Playing with fire is never good!
Apparently there are humans built like this. Will and Jada are only two of them. It’s not what I’d want, personally. But what other adults do, how they live their lives, and what works for them is up to THEM and no one else.
I try not to be judgmental, but for a grown man, in his 50s, to be talking about having, a harem, is considered "juvenile". It seems that a lot of black people, ultimately, go into a cycle of "adolescence", or self indulgence, that we can not break out of. It is a harsh reality that most black men and black women, today, have never seen an intact and traditional marriage between black men and black women. When I mention the words "intact" and "traditional", I mean a union in which a black man and woman are legally married, living under the same roof, and all the children are conceived and born in wedlock. To a lot of today's black men and women, THESE aspects of marriage are considered an "alien way of existing". It seems that Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are trying to "re-define" the concept of marriage. Kind of like shooting a man then blaming the victim for "getting in the way of the bullets". I see, now, why the Smith's children have a host of emotional and behavior issues. Whether you are black, white, or purple, TRUST and LOYALTY are the basic foundations for any happy marriage. Without "trust" and "loyalty", the foundation will crumble.
@@wahoo4uva unfortunately it’s not only about them. They have children
This comment aged well.
What if ur a fire breather for the circus?...dont listen to me...
what is going on??? it’s like he’s been taken over by aliens for real!
so its not for you to keep her happy, why did you slap C.R.?