Their Son Needs Braces -- Who's Going to Pay? | Part 1
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- Garry wants his ex to pay for half of their son’s braces, but she just lost her job.
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The Mother is so sweet and honest. I wish her all the best with her school and work. ❤️
You're only saying that because she's blk
😂😂😂😂
I don’t know how your legal system require the woman to pay for anything! What a lowlife male to ask for money from a woman! Absolute lowlife.
Given the last few moments of this video, I looked her up. She started working as an escort. THAT'S why they want her to pay. She's still making money.
Me too.
Good for her for pursuing a phlebotomy career. Those are solid jobs and a great service to the community.
The mom is amazing. Doing something with her life after life knocks her down. You can tell JJ was extremely impressed as well. I wish her all the best! ❤️❤️❤️
Given the last few moments of this video, I looked her up. She started working as an escort. THAT'S why they want her to pay. She's still making money.
She has a good plan to improve herself. Good for her.
Wrong
@@damienkirksey7026 you are 😂
Sadly she was arrested for
Human tatficing in 2016. I was cheering for her too
@@TYMGuy what the heck??
She is so sweet, I feel so bad for the defendant. I really hope she gets her dream job, I can tell she's trying.
While he was in prison the mother had to take care of both boys, doesn't he feel he owes his son the braces?
wait, she said they were staying with somenes parents. And im sure he wasnt happy about being in prison..
But i agree with you. Quit being cheesy. ur Xwife is homeless & you wnat her to pay for braces...
Make her agree to pay you down the road or someting.
She didn't have both of them. Also, she has a "job", she can help.
They're both equally responsible. Their kids did not stay with the mother and the father was in prison.
Just because people hear about a parent being in prison, does not justify that, that parent should be paying for everything.
The mother was outside and could've been there for her children, but chose not too.
Both kids want to live with him.. sounds like 1 of them doesn't even want to see her... I mean I know kids can be ungrateful but if she did take care of them while he was in prison.. seems odd that they would want to live with him or even that she would let them live with him
@@davlin7685it’s hard to know without more details. Kids, especially teens, tend to prefer the less strict parent who has less rules for them. But in all honesty, she looks quite depressed in terms of her demeanour and nonchalance in the way she speaks. So can’t make assumptions either way
Did he make any child support payments while he was behind bars? Please.
No, and neither did she.
I mean he was in prison how do u expect him to pay
@@beth1188 by going back in time and working instead of getting into prison.
@@TommieGun71 cause she was busy raising the kids on her own duh
@@TommieGun71
Because she was raising them you daft armadillo.
New wife shouldn’t be involved in this court hearing at all. It’s a parent issue. Sit down lady. I hope mom brings up the fact she raised the babies by herself while he was in jail.
Didn’t you hear earlier when he said one of them was with his mom, their grandma?
Edit: I stand corrected, the witness is his wife so she has some right to speak on the situation in my opinion 👩🏾⚖️
Original Comment:
Not to be petty but the defendant and plaintiff still share a last name even tho they are divorced.
The witness is an overbearing girlfriend who was silly enough to open her mouth between two parents.
Agreed💯
Other kid was with the grandmother
Hello Sue,how are you doing?
I almost fell off my chair when the plaintiff’s witness asked JJ if she could ‘approach the bench’. She probably was nervous and just said what she sees on TV :)
Or she's trying to get on TV?
@@wowitsdom Good point! Mission accomplished for her lol
Yes 🤣😅😅
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Well she made the other woman look like a low life in any matter
The GF needs to mind her business. If there is no ring she is a NON-FACTOR!!!!
Even if there is a ring she still a non factor
If they are married and she helps take care of those teens she has a say especially if her money is involved I’ve been a gr to a man with children and helped raise him and I always respected his kids mother and kept open communication with her so she felt good about who was around her kids it’s about how it’s handled and we don’t see all that but if they are married which they are she has a say legally
@@beth1188 dumb comment. A step parent is still a step parent. She is still there and helps raise them every day; it’s the mother who didn’t raise the kids while he was incarcerated, the grandmother did.
Hashtagslim so if she’s so involved and she cares so much why doesn’t she pay the other half? Since she wants to be a second mom.
I’m glad the mom is trying her best to get back on her foot.
And to the new wife, sit down.. You ain’t got nothing…
Seriously, she's trying. Who IS HE TO JUDGE HER? HE'S AN EX CON.
Lol
BS, she's conning him she's got a job pay up!!
What about her other foot?
Sounds like the mom is lazy and don’t want to take responsibility anymore.
“Your honor, if I may approach the bench…”. 😂😂😂
Right! absolute irritant 😂🤣
The audacity 😒
I read this as it happened, and I laughed so loud! 😂😂😂
They give me both ex drug addicts. But since he got a new girl he thinks he’s above his ex. Like sir you belonged to the state for years . He needs a reality check
don't know about the dad but the mom sure does. she seems nice but like a nice addict lol
Why is the girlfriend even there?! She has no business there!!!
That’s cool they offered schooling for the lay offs! Never heard of any company doing that.
A multitude of companies did this around 1995
The girlfriend needs to stay quiet
I think you mean, his WIFE.
@@peregrinec5477 still ain't the kids' MOM
@@paladinkraus Oh, no argument. 100%
Rite!!!
Don't they all.🙃
The look on the mom's face when the ex shows proof she's an escort...my heart went out to her. She's seems like she really wants to turn her life around. I hope she succeeds.
If there’s one thing I know about being a kid with braces in a divided family, it’s that everybody is going to end up paying, financially or otherwise.
Girlfriend has nothing to do with this situation. Keep it shut lady.
Judy will be slamming that mouth shut, lol
@@KrustyKlown oh yes she will!
Hello
How are you doing
How are you doing
The mom seems kinda sad. I hope things have gotten better for her since this
He dragged this woman into court for child support he knew she couldn’t pay, EW.
Is that only the privilege of women to do?
@@spikefivefivefive ....Apparently so.
Its not even an issue wether or not she can pay. The issue is HE cant pay, all by himself. He needs the hell of the mother just like mothers sue fathers for child support (rightly so). Its the same the other way around
Women do it to men all the time
@@jernellelouis3432 a lot of them are bums and don’t want to work so u have to drag them to court Usually if they have their shit together on both sides mostly they don’t have to go to court
The way her eyes bulged when he said she's working and and ss 😂☠️
You guys have to realise that the show pays for these people (flights + hotel) to appear in LA for the shoot and the compensation/claim money will be paid by production - so end of the day is win win for both parties
So why do they get mad when they lose
Watching JJ for the past couple of years it surely makes me grateful to have a wonderful husband of 28 years and our amazing 25 year old daughter .. I see so much strife, pettiness and flat out evil to ex spouses and the only ones who suffer are the children. I wish they would all remember that!!!! 🤦🏼♀️
Truly is a blessing to have a wonderful marriage and strong foundation.
HA!!! She never did answer the question, "how are you paying your bills with no job?" Uhhh uhh uhh well I'm uhhh 🤣
I hope mom is doing well 🥺💖
1. She was going to lose as soon as she told JJ that she was unemployed 😒
2. His GF needs to mind the business that pays her and last, I want to know about his job and income after prison? 🤐🤔🧐
It becomes your business when you share a household and money is going elsewhere, grow up
@@hyeboi but if you choose to be with someone with kids then you know where his/her money is going. You grow up. The company closing is an unfortunate and unforeseeable incident. Unless you're a higher up and not the sales staff or the rest of the staff. These don't know and don't see it coming.
Hello how are you doing
@@daniella9787 hello how are you doing
@@hyeboi How her boyfriend and Ex-wife raise their children is not her concern.
I NEED TO STOP HYPER-CLICKING ON THESE VIDEOS UNTIL ALL PARTS ARE AVAILABLE! I'm so pissed at myself for not noticing it was only posted 13 minutes ago and realizing there ain't no way in hell the other parts are already up 😭
I just did the same thing 🤣🤣 I was like oooh I need to see this. Where's part two?
Ahh thanks for the heads up 😂 I’m ready for part 2!
i think the second part is posted!!!!
Both are up..
I wish they'll stop being greedy and upload all at once like judge mathis and paternity court
It's really sad when this happens and I remember a story of my friend when he left as a kid to live with his dad and his mother let him. Years later when he was all grown and asked her about when he left she told him she couldn't deal with it and had to see a psychiatrist after that. The fact she didn't tell him and let him grow up in peace with his father. That's the definition of a mother and I see it in this women. What a great mother they are to their children 🤍
Just sent my ex a receipt for half of my sons leisure centre tour with his school. His half is 25euro.
He'll send me an abusive email and refuse to pay. But unfortunately for him ill go back to court over the lowest amount if i have too. Hes never met our son but he will pay half of my son's costs no matter what. Its court ordered too.
You go, girl! ♡
"Your honor, if I may approach the bench "
You don't have to ask permission just walk straight up to her, Judges love that, especially when it looks like you are holding something in your pocket
I feel bad for the kids. At the time of that episode, they were still teenagers, and seeing and hearing about your parents arguing over money for things you joined or needed must make them feel guilty about just being kids. I hope there was no bullying or teasing towards them in school because of their parents being dysfunctional on national television. Hope they’re doing better now🙁❤️
"You just hope" .. Dude, welcome to planet earth... Kids are teased relentlessly for anything & everything..
Even in todays weird/woke era... im around these kids alot in my town as i volunteer with JV & varsity football coaching
and there is no way in hell every single kid at their school have not seen this episode...
Yeah this episode did nothing positive for their rep. Unless they are scrappers then it was fair game..
As it should be...
*in my presence~i don't tolerate bullying past as certain point..
But the girls at 10X's worse because they use such personal stuff in the attacks..
Both boys & girls have the same thing in common= it gets worse if the kid doesn't stand up for themselves..
Teach your kid to fight or teach them how to cry into a pillow.
;D
@@CT-nb5lm Forgot that I wrote this comment. Just meant that I hoped the kids didn’t feel guilty for being kids and their parents ending up on JJ as a result. I don’t know what can of worms I opened for you, but you didn’t have to lecture me on children bullying each other. No shit I know that; that’s why I optimistically “hoped” there would be people that didn’t tease them. Hoping classmates’ bullying wouldn’t lead them into thinking they’re a burden on their parents is a sentiment of human decency. You might not tolerate bullying, but your comment indicates you don’t oppose it either since you’re referring to kids as “scrappers.”
The new wife needs to sit down and shut up. This has nothing to do with her. “Your honor May I approach the bench?” Huh...??
lol right?
That new girl will learn
New wife found out real fast they're already divorced and she's remarried to some new poor guy who has to put up w her pushiness.
@@realdealguereca7944 Really now!!!! 🤣
LOL!!!! "Your honor.....may I approach the bench"? Oh my
Imagine suing a mother for expenses. This woman carried and bore his two children…cared for them while he was locked up. Just pay the petty expenses, dude. 🙄
I hope she is able to pull herself out and get the certificate program she entered into.
Carol jeeben me to she deserves it 💯💯
if ur ex wife and mother of ur child cannot pay for dental, medical, health insurance than u pick up her slack, if she is lying about income that is different, man get ur son whatever he needs, man up
Do u say the same when it's the other way around?
I work in an orthodontic office, and the battle of paying for treatment between two separated parents is constant. It’s usually the ex husband who disagrees with the need for braces, so it’s nice to see the dad getting him the braces.
The Dad has to be the Man. They're his sons. There are no limitations of expenses. My brother passed and my parents been divorced for 20+ years and they were both being so stubborn and petty neither 1 of them paid for a tombstone at his grave site for 2 years. My Dad must've came to his senses that in the end money and material things don't and shouldn't matter when it comes to your children no matter what.
I feel for everyone in this situation, less so for the dad and not at all for the new girlfriend haha
DENTAL PLAN
LISA NEED BRACES
DENTAL PLAN
LISA NEEDS BRACES
DENTAL PLAN
LISA NEEDS BRACES
DENTAL PLAN
LISA NEEDS BRACES
sorry...it was the first thought that popped in my brain when I read the title...🤣🤣🤣
DENTAL PLAN
LISA NEEDS BRACES!!!!!!🤣
I can’t imagine the pain the kids went through being separated like that, horrible parents right there!
I feel kind of bad for this woman
Jacquelyn Palacio
I do too. there is something very sad and defeated about her. men always seem to move on and meet other women.....it seems easier for them somehow. she had a home, a husband and 2 children at one point. now she has nothing and nowhere to live....🥺
I don't
Ouch, growing up with divorced parents fighting over who "has to" deal with me*, I feel the real pain behind this entire story. Feel bad for the mom too though. It's a tough situation that she didn't want to be in and probably did whatever she could.
*at the time undiagnosed Aspergers, which got better/manageable as I aged until you can hardly tell now at age 53
That girlfriend need to keep her trap shut.
Ugh I remember those days. Trying to get dad to pay for braces was like pulling teeth. I ended up paying the majority of my 4 boys' braces. All worth it in the end. My boy's smiles are gorgeous. It gets better y'all but there is no shortcut.
If me and my wife divorce or separate I would NEVER ask my ex-wife for anything to support our children.
I wouldn't have nvr split my kids up
The fact that she took care of those boys by herself and never asking for child support, yet he jumps on it as soon as he can.
"Your honnor if i may aproach the bench"😂
He was incarcerated for how many years? Did he help her out while incarcerated raising both of the children? How old are their boys? I think as teens it’s good for the boys as male teenagers to have to boys with him, to raise them to be good men. Sounds like both are close to 18 yrs. So, why is he the father crying for child support or getting a dental bill covered when 9 times out of 10 the two non biological kids his current wife has are being financially taken care at his expense. Do the current wife have the biological father(s) of her two paying child support? I think she don’t want those kids in the home. I say the mother owns NOTHING. And I hope when going to court for child support., they receive NOTHING.
Part 2 ASAP🤣🤣🤣now i wanna see those pictures😁👍
“May I approach the bench” 😂😂😂 you can tell who try things that they see on movies or shows lol
The new girlfriends love getting into business that doesn't belong to them
So petty. Obviously the mother can't afford braces for her son. If anything, set up a payment plan. Ridiculous behavior. I've never understood pettiness
That lady paid for both kids while his sorry behind was in prison, and I guarantee that just a couple months of daycare cost more than half the braces! Now she’s out of work and has an opportunity to get training to better herself and he’s acting like she’s a deadbeat? She has a lot of class not to come across that aisle and beat him and his woman.
Na. If you heard, the grandma had at least 1 in her custody. Idk where the 2nd was at the time, whether it be with the teens GF or whatnot. The mom didn't exactly do shit
Also, it'd be okay if the table was turned and she was the plaintiff? No. Of course not. Cause men "blah blah blah". So stupid. She's an escort, she could help. It's great that she's gonna go to school and all but, she could also get even a part time job while she does so so she isn't in this situation instead of lying to the government and saying she has no job when she takes dates and makes money. Absolutely bs.
His wife isn't a lawyer so she doesn't need to approach the bench. She also needs to stay out of this situation because it doesn't involve her at all.
"Lisa needs braces..."
How many years did she have the kids and support her kids without his financial help?
Hello
Ohh she’s still working???! Good twist
Yeah.. in part two, you'll notice they avoided discussing the specifics, but given that there are screenshots, it seems pretty likely that she was getting paid by engaging in the world's oldest profession.
You can take a a candy from a baby but you can't take a bottle from a kitten.😊
I need quite urgent surgery and my daughter desperately needs braces. It's a no brainer and my daughter got her braces. My surgery can wait a year or two until we've paid her dentist off in full. A child never asks to be brought into the world and it's the parents responsibly to ensure that their child gets everything they need when it comes to their health and welfare. Once you become a parent, you come second from that day on. It's a given.
How is a cosmetic procedure more important than an urgent surgery?? Wtf lmao. Braces can wait...
@@mud6866 right like wtf? Don’t neglect an important procedure for braces??? Braces can wait
@@DaishaView it's a wacky world, Daisha! Can you imagine... "I'll drop dead and leave my child motherless before I let anyone see her with crooked teeth!!" ?!?!?! 😂
Thought you ate with this huh 🤔
It's a stoma reversal surgery. It can wait. I'm not dropping dead anytime soon you drama queens! If I have the surgery now, it will be years before I can see to my daughter's teeth. Her mental health is more important than whether or not my arsehole is in the right place!
The mother couldn’t comb her wig before coming into court?
Their son needs braces...
Dental plan.
Their son needs braces...
Dental plan.
There are payment plans for braces and they could both take turns paying it each month until it's paid off
What lovely people….
Bet cha THOUGHT you were winning
with ole Bradford Billings here! 😂
Can’t feel sorry for ya Sista Girl!
You ASK for it!
Don't they have dental insurance or payment plans? This is just petty.
Dental insurance is only $1000 and doesn’t cover braces
Gf/wife/fiancé/whatever needs to stfu. Not her child. Shouldn’t even be there.
His gf 🙄🙄
GF has stuff to say!!!
@@KrustyKlown she should shut up
@@KrustyKlown Not her place
@@sleepytimesounds2689 but her lips are flapping
Wife
“May I approach the bench” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Lisa needs braces!
If it’s a real need for braces, both parents should pay. My husband went through this with his ex-wife over their older daughter.
“The oldest one turns 18 soon so I don’t have to deal with him anymore.”
Nice.
At 18 kids eat up money like candy.
I don’t understand that 18 age cut off.
No children here… total objective viewpoint.
Thank you. Hard to afford children when you’re paying for all the freeloaders
Who ever has primary placement can pay for braces if the other pays child support.
But that’s what’s with this case. No one pays support so that’s an issue here. She should pay support NO EXCUSE if she was a man she would be in jail for not paying.
No issue here. They b o th agreed to keep courts out.
@@bracketvilletexas - And yet she's failing to pay her half.
@@spikefivefivefive She isn't working, how can she pay with no job,same goes for men
Bird looking like wtf 💙
Defendant is cunning.
Karen bringing up the defendants past but your man is a convict lol
How long was he in prison? Who paid for the children’s needs when he was away?
The tax payer.
Hello how are you doing
so the dad can be not paying anything for years, in and out of jail. He finally steps up and goes straight for child support. men can always do that and get applaud, women do that and get bashed !
Dude is trying to sabotage her schooling, holy crap.
He kinda look like a white Sinbad lol
Where’s part 2
Hello how are you doing
This sweetie mom🥹😞💕
When swirling goes wrong pt 1
This wouldn't have even went to court if I was the dad....if my daughter need braces or anything else for that matter, I would provide it in full. I wouldn't even have my ex pay for it. She has enough to worry with.
In my country braces are free of charge for children. As it should be. No child should suffer because their parents does not have enough money!
Where?
It always puzzles me the way Americans pronounce Xavier. Ex-savior as if there was a current one and he was the previous one.
@@ChantelCarter-cc7cu in Australia we say something like ‘zeivier’ but more like an x sound. It’s hard to spell without phonetic symbol.
@@Hudpix16 I like that!! It makes so much sense
Pronounced like Zavier.
It’s actually a Spanish name pronounced Havier
No girlfriend or other mates in person business plus they knocking her down she trying
Why is that other person speaking on a marriage they were never in and kids that aren’t theirs? MIND YOUR BUSINESS and stop getting with ppl who already have kids and getting in those kids parents business
So he went to jail and she was raising those kids in his absence and now he want some change for braces??? Boooyyyyyy bye
Funny how bm never took him for child support all the years she raises them babies n he was in jail
Just did a little research and it seems the defendant had a string of arrests/charges for car burglaries, car thefts, possession of stolen property and access to a firearm in the early 90's, which impacted his conviction, inflicting corporal injury on his ex wife here after throwing a chair at a bookshelf which she stood next to, cutting her and cause her to need stitches in her arm, during a heated argument, where they both consumed meth and the ex wife said she also threw things at him. Something is just telling me he was not very decent back then, I wont go so far as to say he was completely in the wrong, but no wonder they divorced.
Yep. A real prize.
Why's the new wife look like evil step sister 😂
Part 2
So sad
Husband passed away in July 2021 in car crash
Thanks for the update
I was a phlebotomist a long time ago, and I was the only one at the hospital I worked at that had a certification. I made about twenty five cents more an hour than starting pay. Phlebotomy classes are a joke.
So long, dental plan!