Not Your Mother: Divorce Court - Justine vs. Dontavis
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- Divorce Court - Justine vs. Dontavis - Not Your Mother - Season 19 Episode 53 - Full Episode
This couple got married after knowing each other for only 3 weeks. Dontavis wants to start a family right way. Justine worries they’re not ready since all they do is argue, plus his ex-girlfriend recently popped up again.
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A clear example that age does not define maturity level.
💯💯💯 A word! She tried to use her being older and more experienced as a reason she knows more. Honey, that's not what we saw. He's more mature.
@@MsMVP by a mile. He really seems like a upstanding young man.
@@Megaman8707 Agree!
Í don't know why this beautiful young handsome smart guy is with that controlling, foolish woman. She is bossy and her ugliness inside is dieing on the outside. Son, leave her and get someone your age and start your family. You deserve it. RUN😮
One of the rarest episodes when the man is holding it all the way down. She better not ruin this.
It sounds like their ages are reversed. She’s extremely immature.
she’s so focused on thinking she’s the prize that she’s not focused on what makes him happy……
He's more mature then her.
No he isn’t
@@junkienikki3baloney 😅
She didn’t date him long enough for the background check to come back clear 🤣🤣🤣
You can’t make her make sex a priority in a marriage. Just let go bro
The fact that she’s blaming it on her “culture” is controlling and trying to be dominant
Many come to THIS country because of lack of something in THEIR country but look down on the people (AKA Black people) in THIS country whose ancestors and parents/grand & great-grandparents paved the way for them to come to THIS country and be treat as humans.
@@sereneamani1713
Correct! *In my Plankton voice*
@@sereneamani1713 facts! I’m so confused by that 🤦🏾♀️
You married a man after knowing them for three weeks knowing you have two young children????? Safety was never a concern
Ladies you would be surprised at how much we listen to y'all and how much patience we have when we are able to get the goodies often. We're not that complicated.
Same with us. Y’all don’t treat us right either.
@@jackiebennett6304 you're talking about something totally different
Just because they look fine, & sweep you off your feet initially, doesn't mean you suddenly know enough about them to "fall in love" enough to marry them!!!
She just thought she could find someone young and naive that she could control. Jokes on her. She got a real one and now she doesn’t know how to act. The older one still needs to grow up.
@@Megaman8707my thoughts exactly!
Girl bye
FR!
She must not be fully attracted to him... There's nothing more selfish than a woman holding on to a man and she doesn't want to give him kids and he's being faithful ( Rarity in itself)
Next she's going to tell him she's too old...
Let him go so He can continue to grow.
A woman doesn't "give" a man kids. They are created 🍑 💦 and are human beings 💯.
I would say more, but the auto ad erased my words 🙂.
She wants to hold on cuz she knows he's a good man, but she doesn't want to let him go because she knows some other woman will snatch him up. Idk 🤷♀️ she knows she has a good man!
She doesn’t have to have kids if she doesn’t want to
@@junkienikki3baloney
It seems like she’s using him to pay bills and babysit her children and he’s too young to understand what she got going on on the side
She still didn't listen...the guy already told you what the problem is, what more does he need to communicate?
She keeps running her mouth
The young man is a great guy and she is blessed to have him. Give him the goodies😂❤😂❤
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I was in a 7-year relationship when, out of the blue, he broke up with me and was engaged to someone else within four months. I was devastated and had obsessive thoughts about the situation. Then I realized it wasn't about me-it was his choice or perhaps a sign that he wasn't right for me. Through hard work, self-help videos, international travel, and meeting new people, I learned self-love for the first time in my life. His marriage lasted less than a year. Three years later, he asked for another chance, and I kindly declined because I'm now so protective of my peace and love the space I’m in.
If self-help videos aren't enough, please seek professional help. Call your doctor, visit the ER, they will get you medicinal or referrals for therapy services. Every heartbreak feels insurmountable at first, but with grace and time, healing is possible. Focus on yourself-you deserve true happiness, and it starts within you. Hang in there.
I wonder where they are now?
Man divorce her and move on and build your family. As long as she and HER children are taken care of is all she is worried about. She doesn't care if you want kids, just take care of hers.
I wish some women would be more careful with bringing strangers around their kids. 😅
HE'S BETTER AT PARENTING THEN HER NARC AZ
LMBAO... me and three of my friends did tequila shots every time he said YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING by the end of this episode we were all completely drunk
😂😂😂😂
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Usually when a woman already has kids she may give you a pity kid but they usually don't want more kids so if he stays with her he might be SOL on having kids of his own
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Sounds like they miscarried already. I'm concerned about her ticking clock
That marriage is done within 6 months
As a woman who had kids with the wrong man & then got her tubes tied bc being a single mom is hard enough without adding extra drama, I'm actually really remorseful that I couldn't have a kid with my man now that I found the right one.
It wouldn't be a "pity kid". When you find the right one, you really really WANT to share that special bond.
She is going to lose him, and he should give up on her. He deserves a child. It only took 3 weeks to get married, but it's not the right time (after 5 years) to give your husband a child. Plus, how is she going to say "he only grew up with his mother" when he clearly said he had a stepfather, smh, but she wants him to be her children's stepfather. Make it make sense. Different cultures are so judgemental and think their way of living is the best and only way to live. She probably doesn't consider or look at his stepfather as a male figure / father. She probably really feels if it isn't your biological father, and he wasn't there since you were born, it doesn't count.
Just wish he leave out before he's damaged and can't be repaired
@@readinzession1308 💯😔
It seems like when it comes to a woman a man should leave but society expects a woman to take and stay for everything a man dishes out
I got the impression she is seeing someone else, which is why she isn't having sex with him. Especially when she said her mind is on someone else.
OMG - I thought I was the only one that noticed. If she is not seeing someone else, I thing she is interested in someone else. She mistakenly said "mind on somebody else" and she made so much effort to correct it I could just hear her going "ooops". I don't believe she loves him. She was just caught up in the fact that a 19year old was obsessed with her as an older woman. She had her first child at 17 so perhaps she lost some of her teenage years. When she started talking, she was going around in circles and made no sense. The dude needs to work on his speaking - he eats the end of all the words and talks in such slang. She constantly holds out and he holds out because of pride. But I feel she knows the game she is playing. She knows he will hold out because of the pride and I think she is happy for that because he can't turn around and blame her.
I really want an update on them but can’t find either of them anywhere
I love when she speaks Spanish out of the blue.
Ms “Older & More Experienced” is selfish & childish. She talking about better communication, but steady running her mouth & using her culture as an excuse. The judge read her like a book. He seems more mature & level-headed than her. Period. 🙄
After only 3weeks she decided to marry him, for the reason that he swept her off her feet, and she fell head over heels for him?!? She was not very sturdy on her damn feet if it took only three weeks to take such a drastic decision!
Also, why is a 26yr old with a 19yr old???
So its ok for a man to be 40 year old guy with a 20year old lady. The double standards are crazy. Patriarchy has really did yall in the mind.
She slipped up n said her mind be on somebody else but try to switch it to something else 😒 14:08
Hey guys, where she from again? I forgot.
Panama
@@foramoreperfectamerica8490Whoosh
Panama 🇵🇦
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👍
And what was a native language again🤔🤔😉🤭?
He can't even get a word in,she wants to speak all the time. Idk too much men that surprise his women. If he can gets everything for her. Why does she need a husband
I’m trying to figure out why he married a 2-time baby mama like bruh don’t put yourself in that situation so young and on top of that she resistant on giving him kids when he is a A+ stepdad
YES YOU'RE SPEAKING CHURCH TO ME, AT HIS AGE HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN LOOKING AT HIS OWN FUTURE NOT BEING A YOUNG FATHER, SHE A MESS HER UP BRING AND CULTURE HAS NOTING TO DO WITH IT GIVING HIM AT LEAST 1-2 OF HIS OWN
life be trippin'
He is so dope
😎
She gave them great advice. ❤ Judge Lynn
For some reason, he seems more mature than her. But my opinion, she doesn’t want anymore kids and she’s not being honest with him. Being a paralegal, you witness a lot of stuff and nowadays, when the women gets older and a man leaves, it becomes a problem and she’s not trying to be stuck with three or four kids that’s just my opinion.
😮😮😮😮run man she thinks she is ur mother
3 weeks
I absolutely love judge Lynn Toler ...🌷💐🌷👑
that man said he havent been the same since.
She's selfish and only got with that young man for physical pleasure. He was a 19-year-old trying to step into a grown man's place. Stepping up and taking care of two kids at 19 is a lot! And she knows that. Trying to degrade that man's upbringing while being a disgraced single mother out of wedlock is nasty work!
I want a "where are they now" on this couple.
She's too focused on nothing important to fully appreciate him.
Having 2 babies out of wedlock and not giving your loyal HUSBAND a child is crazy
Age of consenting adults is not the issue! The mental and emotional stability of each individual is what matters! My great grandmother was absolutely right when she told me that time is the only thing that changes! If 2 people love each other and are committed to each other, a marriage can withstand Hell and High Water!
He communicates very well. Better than her communication
She's annoying
It is HER body - why is anyone telling her that she has to share HER BODY when she's not wanting to?? That's disturbing.
She’s the problem and if that was my son I would want him to divorce her.
U know what am saying 😂😂
Also, sounds like she works but he didn't day he did unless they left it out. She's saying she's overwhelmed it seems for that reason another child may not sound great to her
26 dating a 19 yr old is gross and weird as hell
She should've told her that she gone lose a good man and figure out that ain't awhole lot of good men out here and you gone find yourself looking stupid trying for find another good man out here!! The judge should've let this woman know!!!
Hes a good man, she better cherish what she has before she loose it😅
I think they can make it
Her initial attraction for him was weak, but they are two good people in need of Judge Lynns counsel.
I hope they are growing together.
He is a very mature young man.
The husband can also learn nonsexual ways to be intimate. Most men don't know how to get the companionship they need without having sex. They only know sex. He can grow in that area too
She had all these kids, needed a step dad to step in and help and found someone too young to know any better. A 26 year old has no business being with a 19 year old.
Where's her baby daddy?
3 weeks no fuxking way this is a joke lol like my mom say what is quick won’t last /
3wks omg lol In other words she needed to get her green card validate🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Why does he keep saying, "know what am saying"?
They actually seem like a good couple.😊
I watched this pos movie and left like two braincells at the theater
He got to grow up
Harris James Davis Matthew Davis Cynthia
Do y'll know what he sayin?😅
Soooo you were well into this country before you met this man. Stop the cap girl. This is what Kevin Samuels was talking about. You’re trying to look high value when you’re not being high value.
Now get the story right. Who was Kevin Samuels talking about? American women, Black American women, or women in general? Do YOU REMEMBER or even know when Kevin Samuels was taking the "non-quality/high value" men (yes, they exist-even in Kevin Samuel's world) to task? But downgrading Black women is more popular and lucrative in this twisted system.
appears she's (lucky) by getting a higher quality man than she's accustomed to.
She said he was fine and he was handsome 😅 I'm guessing his attitude made him ugly
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Ok, so I feel so if he's a great guy, and she's been blessed to find him 🙏 but let's be REAL here. Who in the world that has children and a fukk time job that's demanding and full, is foing to lay around 3/4 times every day??? 🤔 I mean, I do understand he's a tad bit younger, and his sex drive is higher, but again, let's be real / rational no one has the time to be having sex all day everyday, cleaning themselves, take care of the children, have sex again, now clean yourself again, clean and cook, have sex again, now clean again, go to work , have sex again, now clean yourself again.🙄 I'm just typing this, and it has me looking like this 👉 😒 so no, sir, that's not rational thinking, nor is it fair to both parties just to please one. Now im sure there can be common grounds on the situation, but to do it every day ALL DAY isn't the reasonable answer. Sex is "suppose" to be a fun feel-good feeling, not a forced feeling that makes you fread that the topic is soon to be brought up throughout the day. It'll wear the ready,happy, steamy arousal feeling away, QUICKLY. So no, sir, no man, no turkey or ham. It's just not a logical idea. But I guess to each it's own.
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Girl bye
She's annoying.