The TRUTH Behind 5 Common Myths About Narcissists

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • Think you've got narcissists all figured out? It's time to separate fact from fiction. This myth-busting video will challenge everything you thought you knew about narcissistic personality disorder.
    Do narcissists really lack all empathy and feel no remorse? Are they incapable of affection or change? The answers may surprise you. Learn the truth about the sadness, shame, and empathy narcissists experience - told through shocking new research and insightful viewer comments.
    Get ready to re-think those manipulative crocodile tears as we explore whether narcissists can genuinely feel sorrow. Plus, find out if the "yawn test" is backed by science as an indicator of empathy.
    Your perspective on narcissists will never be the same after hearing the latest on their potential for personal growth. The revelations keep coming when this video tackles the controversial question: can a narcissist truly change?
    Five common narcissist myths...busted! Satisfy your curiosity and gain a deeper understanding of the narcissist's inner world.
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    ** *In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

Komentáře • 29

  • @lifetimeactor6789
    @lifetimeactor6789 Před 9 měsíci +11

    How can someone feel remorse if it's never their fault?

  • @margaretclark9016
    @margaretclark9016 Před 9 měsíci +10

    I told my ex-husband (married 27 years) that I forgive him for all that he has done to me and our sons), I told him it was only through the strength of God that I could do that. He ducked his head and got in his truck and left. Ducking his head was a new response for him. He had never responded like that before. I honestly have forgiven him because I have given him to God and asked God to help me move on and let go of him. I have been able to do that. It hasn’t been easy everyday but I have been able to do it and I do not bad mouth him to our children, they lived with him too, they know him. He hurt them too, I do not have to remind them of his behavior. I have apologized for making them live in the home they had to live in growing up.

    • @aliceroberts1980
      @aliceroberts1980 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I feel bad that I chose this person for a mate and husband I feel bad that this is my daughter father but my mom did it on my grandmother did it my grandmother was a narcissist too. I think my mom wants too to forgive ourselves and move on. Can’t change it now.

    • @margaretclark9016
      @margaretclark9016 Před 9 měsíci

      @@aliceroberts1980 Look to God to help you forgive.

  • @ProdigaltoPerditionless
    @ProdigaltoPerditionless Před 9 měsíci +3

    No exaggeration, hearing all the talk about yawning, has me yawning 😂

  • @cryptoroseaz
    @cryptoroseaz Před 9 měsíci +3

    The more I learn, the more equipped i am to put up that firewall against the narcissists malware.

    • @Ballpython77
      @Ballpython77 Před 9 měsíci +1

      same! over 400 videos in on education about these soul sucking succubus.

  • @The3fingers
    @The3fingers Před 9 měsíci +1

    Very clear way of looking at some of the issues of narcissistic relationships. I appreciate how you expressed this. "No cure, but not ...no hope" and "you cannot change them, and they will not change because of you." Excellent.
    Sort of "encapsulated hope" in that it's not zero, impossible, but their change is in their time and over much effort...if at all...best to wish them well from a distance. And yes, it's the hardest thing one could ever do in life.

  • @patmahgroyn6868
    @patmahgroyn6868 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Finally hoovered after 6 months no contact from the exnarc...suddenly a bill shows up in the mail and threatens to go to collections...why not move on...I was totally played for one year...find another supply please...If I agree you won, would you just fade away?

  • @maxinehurley8824
    @maxinehurley8824 Před 9 měsíci +2

    My dogs used to yawn in front of me and I would yawn back reflexively. However, the narcissist would start to yawn when I started talking, and indeed sometimes fell asleep🤣

  • @user-qv9nw1dq2f
    @user-qv9nw1dq2f Před 9 měsíci +1

    Spot on. Thank you for great observations and get helpful advice.

  • @aliceroberts1980
    @aliceroberts1980 Před 9 měsíci

    My narcissistic husband has controlled himself around me now because there’s something in it for him. He wants money for me I inherited money so that’s not change he’s not raging me like he used to. He’s curbing himself but if you look in his face, you can see the rage. I bet any money that if I didn’t have a penny again, he would be letting loose on me. That’s not change he’s not changing, because if I came up with something he didn’t want he’d go right back to the way he was

  • @guntertorfs6486
    @guntertorfs6486 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I don't wanna sound presumptuous , but might the lower frequency with which you put out videos not be a positive sign of being healed and in good stead ? ( just a rhetorical question ) On the other hand , you have put out so much content over the years that you have pretty much covered everything there is to cover.( muchas gracias ) Looking good and confident anyhow.

  • @titaniumaura
    @titaniumaura Před 9 měsíci +1

    Holland supported the N.S.D.A.P. for 85 years, it's an official marriage since 1937.

  • @scarlettredding
    @scarlettredding Před 9 měsíci +1

    Oh boy does this make me think of a certain fundie Christian youtuber with a fairly large platform ... I think shame is one of the main issues. @11:57 💯💯💯💯

    • @randy_cbc8811
      @randy_cbc8811 Před měsícem

      As a committed Christian of ~65 years, I can say these flaky televangelists, one wonders how many of them we'll see in heaven, ugh ..

  • @mackenziedog1872
    @mackenziedog1872 Před 9 měsíci +1

    A narc magnate makes a power web you can't escape so you're f*cked

  • @Rugz-smoke
    @Rugz-smoke Před 9 měsíci

    The narcissistic abuse I’m going through is payback for the disrespect. I did 20 years ago. I’ve grown a lot since then. Unfortunately they’re continuously trying to convince me that. I am the narcissist when I cry it’s because I hurt now because I’m a nurse yes I hurt people is nothing I can do to take that away I really really wish I could People fuck up grow unless they’re a narcissist, which proves that I am not the brainwashing program. I don’t have a crocodile tears I have a real real tears a narcissist is in capable. I love everyone to the bottom of my heart, and their disciplinary action took my heart and ripped it out and threw it on the ground‘s dog got it broken into 1 million pieces and then told me not to be a pussy man up they been going through the narcissistic hand book step by step. They want me to go through war, psychological Warfield hell hell on earth, and Atlanta person, drawing a good person and creating someone that won’t take shit from anyone

  • @Someoneoutthere67
    @Someoneoutthere67 Před 9 měsíci

    👍

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have question Is it emotional cheating am i emotionally cheating on Morgan seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan back by texting and meeting up and calling Stephen and watching films and laughing without having never never having no sex?

    • @nadineblake4648
      @nadineblake4648 Před 9 měsíci +5

      Yes… I can’t talk, I do the same thing with male friends and if I’m not open enough to tell my partner then it is cheating ❤

    • @killjoyredux8361
      @killjoyredux8361 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Yes.

    • @scarlettredding
      @scarlettredding Před 9 měsíci +3

      Yes 💯 if the person you are in a committed monogamous relationship with does not know and is not ok with it.

    • @gloriachapman5618
      @gloriachapman5618 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Yes. I really think you already know this..Hopefully Morgan will find out. And most likely will find out. You deserve to be dumped.

    • @Jess-wk5jo
      @Jess-wk5jo Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@gloriachapman5618it question