That was powerful! I’m 32 and my grandmother tries to express this to me all the time. I always just felt like she doesn’t understand but the wisdom is undeniable. Thank you! ❤
I felt free when my parents said they are more concerned with me having a lasting marriage than to enter into one as young as possible. Their approval means a lot to me. Now I feel that I have the freedom to take my time and choose the right person the first time.
I usually don’t comment but I have to share my story! When I met my fiancé, we dated for months and I chose to not sleep with him and you know what? He chased me more! I believe I was a challenge and I was different. He always said he was looking for, “the Right Person at the Right Time.” We are getting married in 3 months with me being 61 years old and he being 68 years old. It’s Never Too Late 💍
It warms my heart to hear such stories , we learn a lot from all of you our fumination Aunties, I am 34 with my adorable son I am not married yet but I hope I find my soulmate from God and get married but until then I have decided to stay celibate till marriage and work on building myself up n raise my son well.
Love your story ma'am. Will be 46 in April (next month) and getting frantic that I've not met my man yet talk less of marrying. I just want to love, be loved, have my kids and see them grow. I know God answers prayer.
I got married for the first time (in a wedding gown) at 42! After meeting, we were engaged in 2 months and married in 8. We are happily living the "SOFT" life. I was heavily criticised by my friends, but I knew that I knew that I knew he was the one. 17 years later, we are happier than ever. We live the life that is best for US (not for others) with God at the centre! Once YOU know, shut out the noise!
You can have anything you want, any way you want, at any age you want, when you’re paying for it! I got married last year at 55 years old and I wore a white dress,Because that’s what myself and my husband wanted and we paid for it.
I got married (first and only) at 40 as well! He was 42 and it was the first marriage for us both. I met him at 38 and he 40. Thankfully, I was blessed to be surrounded with family and friends who celebrated this with me - that wonderful “you did it!” and not “you’re too old and outside the norm to celebrate”. I’m so sorry that lady is not being treated so well, and I hope she overcomes others’ limitations and like you say, Fumi, celebrates and fetes thoroughly and well. And you’re right - being “fully baked” (mature) when you fall in love truly makes for an AMAZING marriage. Yes yes yes.
I got married at 54. I wore a white dress, had my bridal shower and a bachelorette party. I had my bridesmaids. We were all different sizes and we party. People said why spend that much money. My reply was because I want too. My day my way. Either you rejoice in my happiness or wish me well and carry on. Whew I can go on and on but I wouldn't change a thing. The only thing I never had was children. No regrets it just wasn't meant to be. Living my best life.
I'm 48 years old and still believe I'm going to get married. I know who I am now. I know my purpose in life. I want a man who understands me and I understand him. My life has been about overwhelming the odd.❤❤❤
You are truly a great woman and I am learning a lot from you, I am going to be 52 this year by the grace of God and by the grace of God I have grown 5kids ❤
My granny remarried at age 70. It was a blessing for her although she was the caretaker of her then 84 year old husband. He softened her heart so much and even after he passed she kept that new love in her heart.
Fumi I consider myself a “late bloomer” as well. In fact, I believe I never wanted to “grow up”. I’m 41, never married and no children. I still have hopes of marriage and children one day. I had dreams many times of holding my own precious baby and even saw myself in a dream pregnant with twins!
I got married for the first time in my life at 36 almost 37 in 2007 and I had 3 wedding dresses on the same day. We had a ceremony in the church and a reception at a wonderful venue. We are still happily married almost 16 years later. Don’t let anyone stop you from your dream wedding. Mine was amazing and I am so glad I had it at later stage in my life. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding 🎉
My nephew posted you on his Facebook page as inspiration. It was awesome because he didn’t know I was a fan. He said “African women know how to do it!”
Fumi, you are wonderful. My mom wants to remarry and she is 70. I still have hope that she will find a good man. My father passed away when I was 13, and I am 29 now. She did not had a good marriage and I see the loneliness in her eyes. I share your videos with her, and I will share this one to lift her up that she still has a chance.❤❤
God was laughing at you "Oh, he gotta be Black". He[God] was like "Watch This " as little Ole was being born all the way in Norway and growing up while you were in Los Angeles by way of Nigeria and Russia. God is hilarious.😅, ain't it so??
I love you so darn much. I'm 28 and just turned down a marriage proposal. My mom doesn't understand it but I know he is not the one. I needed this episode
That picture of you and Ole with you in traditional attire is FREAKING GORGEOUS AMAZING WONDERFUL AND I LITERALLY SCREAMED. Ya'll look good now! I love black women! Periodt! Especially my dark skin black women! I LOVE YOU ALLLL!
Fumi, I have been watching your channel since about 2014, and your channel was the first channel that I watched and was (and still) inspired by. I said to myself-"Cool, the only black CZcams influencer that's in my age group (I'll be 54 this May 14th) that does makeup tutorials and look absolutely stunning". You went on to doing your Red Carpet reviews and I fell in love with your "Sister 2 Sister" segments. I also enjoy you inviting us women to have a peek into your closet with your clothing and how you take the pieces and dress them up and dress them down. Thank you so much Fumi. Not many black women are willing to share and be an inspiration, but you have. Continue to bring your radiant energy and motherly wisdom to all of the episodes on your channel. "Much love to you my darling"( in my Fumi voice) ❤❤❤❤
I love this! I'm shedding tears for my renewed hope. I have felt a bit hopeless at 30 turning 31 in 2 months. This was very timely. Thank Auntie Fumi. May God bless you and your family richly.
My daughter got married in her 30s and they are expecting their first child this fall. They found each other online. I am so proud of her because they went through premarital counseling and consummation of their marriage the day of. Remember you have all the power to create the life you desire.
You are still young. I'm 45 and have never been married. I have enjoyed life as a single person. I'm building my business and I'm so thankful that God is with me all these years. You know what, when it happens like Fumi said in the video it is going to be a perfect time for me. Enjoy your life and focus on building you.
I'm 41 now and because of you Fumi, I haven't given up hope. Just like you, the black men don't want me, I'm too dark skinned for them. So I'm working on myself for now so I will be ready when that person comes along.
I agree with you . Am 41 and was hopeless my own color of men are now focusing on the much lighter , celebrity looking women. Am hopeful❤ something is brewing for me
This woman is everything. I enjoy every single episode of her channel. I wish I watched her in my early years. I’m here now and I truly take everything she said to in practice. She is my hero and I love you fumi.
Fumi, I'm 43. I've been engaged 4 times. I called it off 4 times. I knew it wasn't right. I don't want to divorce. I am still hopeful that I will find my forever happy. I am a late bloomer of a mother. I was almost 38 with my first and 4 months shy of 40 with my second. I am in a very unhappy place with my relationship, with the father of my kids. He was the fourth engagement I broke off by the way. I pray that God has happiness in store for me. I love you and your hair looks flawless in this style. ❤
Darling, a comma at this juncture of your life is not a period in your story! Jesus is able to make the impossible possible if you trust him to make a way. God is the greatest matchmaker and he will do exceedingly and abundantly above you can think and ask. As long as you are alive there is hope. Put it in his hands to do what only he can do. Be blessed.
I got married at 24 yrs in a judge's chambers in a jacket and skirt..no one knew. When we finally told our family, they were obviously shocked...the next question was when I'm going to get pregnant as I'm a married woman now. I had my son at 29 to their annoyance. Then they asked when I will get another one because my eggs will soon dry up! Well, I had the audacity to get my daughter at 36. There were the hints I had her too late, which was really demeaning, but we did it our way. This year we will celebrate our 29 th anniversary, our children are happy. Do it your way and don't try to conform to societies idea of what should be.
Amen, Fumi! What a great word! Thank you for the encouragement. I'm 63, divorced twice, and still waiting for the man that God has for me. Amen again, Fumi. You have no idea how much this video encouraged me. May God continue to bless you, Ula and Adrian. Will you and Ula please join hands and pray for me to be married again. I know what God told me. And I promised God I will not sleep with another man until marriage.
Fumi, you are indeed an inspiration to young ladies like me. I'm currently 31 and when I see my mates getting married. I feel pressured to get married. A few months ago I decided to succumb to the pressure and began dating a guy that was short tempered and controlling . Immediately I had this inkling to dump him but I was contemplating within myself that since his my last resort for now I should just manage the relationship. Hmm... Only one punch, no body told me to gain clarity and run. In the end I wished I had to followed my intuition. Bottomline is the pressure to get married is high but to be candid, it's not everyone that is married that is happy. Some married couples are suffering and lamenting bitterly in their marriages. It's always good to be patient for God time.
So thankful for you. You uploaded the video I needed today. Another woman I follow on CZcams also posted something like this today. You two made me feel much better and hopeful. I found the love of my life just a few months ago, at 43, and I’m soooo happy. The only thing is work has been burning me out and a few other situations … Absolutely burnt out since winter… I just need to go within myself and start listening to what I need and want….thank you for the video. I always laugh out loud when you do. Your laugh is so infectious. I just love you. ❤
This is one of the best videos you have done fumi. Oh how I thank God for bringing my husband to me. I cannot imagine not celebrating our love in the most spectacular way. Congratulations on your engagement. I wish you both a lifetime of love and happiness.
Auntie Fumi!!!!! Thank you so much for this message. You have done so much for me since I’ve been following your page (about 4 months now). You are the auntie I wish I had. I am 28 years old and have found myself in situations where I have felt my faith dwindle. I have been feeling so alone for the longest time. Thank you for coming into my life:
You always leave me in awe. You are so inspiring, truthful, and RAW!!! I love a person who tells it straight and no chaser. You bare your heart and soul. You open up to us and you draw me in from your humility. Always the best to you and your family...God's continued blessings 🙌 🙏 ❤️
Yaaasss..just wear whatever you want on your wedding day, regardless your age!!! I'm 37 and not even close to being married but if this day comes I'll be wearing black 😊 and I will not bother myself what others will think especially when I'm not going to invite anyone either 😂 it will be me, my husband and my black dress 😊
Fumi, I recently found your channel. What a joy you are! And I LOVE that you are such a positive ambassador for a loving, kind, respectful marriage--even if that means waiting for the "right" man! My husband and I have been married for nearly 47 years. Yes, we married young, and that made marriage a bit more challenging. But like you, my husband is my best friend and treats me like a queen. I adore him, and could ask for none better. His soul is so pure and honest--and he makes me laugh every day. Our loving marriage has also been a gift-by-example for our three grown children, who also have good, strong marriages. I know that (unfortunately) this is not the experience for everyone (and I am so sorry). But when we (and God) get it right, marriage is beyond wonderful. Bless you and your family.
fumi I'm 42 this year and as much as im in love with crisp white tops I've always envisioned myself in an antique gold wedding dress.. as an events planner who mostly do weddings I encourage my older brides with this concern to go ahead and wear white because it's all about them. I can safely say antique gold shade makes me feel beautiful and confident plus it matched my skin perfectly..
Omg. This is the most amazing video I’ve accidentally found. I had my daughter at 45 and yessssss, sister. Yessssss. Thank you. You’ve just gained a follower. Wow. Thank you for preaching
Fumi, I believe this is your most profound video yet. I have seen them all. With eager anticipation, I await what you have yet to come. Keep at it. You are doing an absolutely fabulous job. God bless you and yours richly ❤
Fumi I love your energy and how transparent you are. It's funny how we can look back at past relationships, and events and know now that either we weren't ready for them, or the timing wasn't right. I just had a conversation with a coworker about not being closed minded about dating outside of her race. I told her that the man God has for her may not necessarily be Afro-american, and that he maybe of another race.
I did a white dress for my civil wedding and for my wedding party. I wore a fabulous res lace dress because I love red. And i already had kids, why because I got there. We are celebrating five years married this may. Disfruta de tu boda y felicidades. You deserve it. Do you.
This video is the truth❤❤❤never too old for genuine love & marriage. I was the same way I felt about only wanting to be with Black men, then I realized I'm limiting myself because true love/loyalty can come to u in from any color, if u allow it to. Fumi i'm a fairly new subscriber but just want u to know how gorgeous u are, and u & ur hubby look beautiful together!💐
Well, you say you're not an inspiration 😂 YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ME ! A lot of us need a living example like you. When God says He will restaure what was lost, you are a living example of that. Thank you for all that you do, and for sharing your story with us 💓💓💓!!!
Don't loose hope everyone! I married at 35, moved to the US ,became a nurse in the US, had a son for my husband and we live beautifully and in peace. All happened in a space of less than two years. If only I knew my life would be this good, I wouldn't have shed tears and feeling destitute in my 20s when my friends were getting married, nor even consider suicide cos a man I thought I loved so much cheated and left me. Oooh what can change within a year when the lord says it is time and stamps it. If I had married in my 20's , I sure would've be been divorced by now, had no sense 😂😂😂😂
oh Fumi I wish I lived in London to come to the meet and greet. Would be so lovely to meet you in person. Loved this video. Such truth and so needed to be taught.
Fumi Fumi Fumi yes girl friend tell her it’s her wedding sweetheart you can wear White no matter what age you are who ever told you that you’re to old to wear White baby their jealous. Pure & simple no one has the right to tell you what to wear at your wedding. You need to disassociate yourself from people they are not your friends. Their what you call frienammies handle them with a yard stick. Don’t turn your back on them either. It’s your day not theirs like Fumi said enjoy yourself it’s your day. Thank you Fumi for giving her great advice as always. Blessings & Love Always 🙏🏽💛
It is always such a pleasure to hear you share your thoughts and perspective. You're speech, your cadence and how you emphasize each word. It's like being your girlfriend. I finally finally finally met the man who loves me and will most likely make a proposal this year. We dated 12 years ago and because of our age difference I didn't let it happen and her I am 12 years later almost 60 and he's 15 years younger than me and he adores me AND finally I'm ready to accept my gift of love. Thank you, My sister Fumi for this message. ❤❤❤❤ it's fabulous ❤❤❤ like you.
He didn’t need to be black Fumi! I know it’s hard pill to swallow for a lot of black women, but black men don’t like black women, especially if it’s a dark skin black women. The more money a black man has he doesn’t want anything to do with a black woman. That’s why when y’all do see a black couple, y’all are screaming “ black love” because it’s rare
Chai Queen u spoke to my spirit cos I've been waiting 30+ years for a brother too it's only the last few years I've been opening my options and loving it. Thank you so much for sharing your story
Excuse me If I got married at 80 and decided to wear white that is what I'm going to do. The people that told her to just do civil would not be on my guest list. I got married at 24 and in Vegas. I didn't even have a dress. I'm divorced (wasn't my choice) So if I want a white wedding dress that is a little racy and maybe even designed by Panina Tornai then I'm gonna.
I never thought that for my daughter. Her husband is white and he is the one that loves her and has the patience of Job! I thank God for every woman that finds her Boaz!
I’ll turn 41 on the 7th of this month. No husband, no boyfriend. So yes, this video spoke to me specially. Thank you sis Funmi for sharing your story. It’s inspiring and encouraging 🙏🥰🤗❤
I just turned 33 and believe me when my wedding day comes around I will do it ALLLLL.. anybody who thinks I will downplay my big day simply because “I’m too old” has another thing coming 🤣🤣🤣
I got married at 40 as well, and I’m happy and living my best life, I’m happier now than I was in my 20s, I agree with Fumi, make the loudest noise ever for your wedding because you got there, you found love that some people never get to experience, so celebrate my sister 🎉🎉 I lived and loved for this video..Ola!! I’m I the best wife!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I love you Fumi, I hope to get to meet you one day (please come to Georgia) 💜💜💜
I'm 38 years of age been also told that I just need a man to have a child with that still I'm getting late to have kids but I tell them with the right time and God's timing brings everything to fall in place Thank you so much for your channel I feel so much blessed discovering it today
Fumi you are such an inspiration! Thank you for the light you bring into our lives and in the world. Your videos make me smile all the time. When is your LA meet and greet?
Live and let live...this is a must. Stop judging. Who are we to judge other people life and choises. Do we live their lives? No, we don't. So let's enjoy the good in our existence and embrace the beautiful variety of people colors.
Congratulations to the bride. Your wedding day should be your experience. It should be the most beautiful and memorable day for any woman. I pray every woman experience it, as a once in a lifetime experience.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Greetings from 🇰🇳🇰🇳 Caribbean island of St.kitts- Nevis..Hi Aunty Fumi and Fumi nation...Well said well received..Can't believe people like those still exist...Let ppl live their lives in peace...What does age have to do with when one gets married? JAH...Fumi thanks for encouraging our sister to do what she wants..❤❤❤
Fumi dear, thank you. i hadn't realized i have been limiting my self in a certain way. now i've got some things to think about and come to terms with. thank you again.
I love you miss Fumi...ill be 36 tomorrow ....and this video means the world to me...god knows i needed to hear this . I dont ever celebrate my birthdays...but these words of wisdom...these and others you share is my gift to myself.Thank you .
Fumi, I just love not only the beautiful way you see things, but the presentation of your thoughts is just amazing. I really appreciate the wonderful human you are and I am so happy for your channel. You are definitely my family in my head🥰
Fumi, At time 13:55 I felt you on that! You have to open yourself up to all types because what you prefer may not be the right one for you. This is where I am right now. I tried and still trying with these brothers but it may not be in my future and I’m ok with that.
I hear the words that come from a heart full of love❤ he got to be black no He brought a white one. When love is real honestly not many even understand u. God thank You for my husband at a mature age. 🤣🤣🤣. Love fumi
Fumi , you are indeed a force to reckon with and I am so inspired by you. I had my birthday yesterday and am 39 years old. Very single and trusting God in the process. You story had impacted me in so many ways than one and I believe God had me here just to hear him spoke to me through you. Love you Fumster ❤
Hi Fumi I started following you years ago with your makeup tutorials. I’m loving where you’re channel is heading. So much wisdom and great practical advice. I’m 49 and I was driving home from work thinking if God has marriage in the plans for me, because I’m “older” and then your CZcams video popped up. I really enjoyed it an appreciate your wisdom. Thanks keep being you.
God is in control and he's the ultimate judge...he's the one we should live for. My friend just had her 4th wedding at the age of 71. We can't please people.
Perfect words my sis. KUDOS! KUDOS as you are right on target. I love your makeup and outfit as you embrace another day filled with God's goodness and of course looking Springtime 💯. I'm working from home today with you in the background and birds singing happily in the garden, I feel bless. This is your time and your moment to shine and it happened just the way God planned it. I know for sure if pandemic didnt happen, I would not have watched CZcams except for work related webinars so I am ever so grateful you make time to vlog and waited for your moment to grow. I travel away from home for work so not always watching every day but catch up on weekends. Getting married is so personal and while one is not hoping to play innocent at 40 or 60, it is the woman's right to dress as she prefers as long as it isn't breaking the law. Right on. It is lady's movement and she will want to create lasting memories of her wedding day. I look forward to meeting you one day and I am sure your UK party will be fabulous to the max. Each of us have our own life and own journey and cannot let others kill our joy. Everything so beautifully said. You have to customize these vlogs and make them available outside of CZcams. I see you extending your gifts beyond vlogs and offering counselling as a professional service. Your take on any topic is from lived experiences and real down-to-earth stuff that women or men can relate to almost worldwide except for our own cultural limitations in some countries. I was looking for counseling services for a youngster the other day and that was approx US$100 online. What's wrong with your Other Half? You are both happy and that's all that matters. Maybe dem jus red-eye. People are people. You need to offer to find them a life partner just like yours but perhaps he is one of a kind and you just have to accept some people are so racist, negative, killjoy and full of it. Marrying a black man just to suit people's expectations guarantees ZERO as it's what's inside a person's heart as a human being, how we treat each other as humans is ALL that matters irrespective of the colour of our skin. I hope you get to or near 🇯🇲 on your tour. Happiness always.
I got married at 40! He was a God sent ,, He takes such care of me and he appreciates me daily..Great advice Fumi..you made me cry and also to remind me of the wonderful husband God has given me..love from Bahamas
I’ve been watching your channel and I usually do not comment, however, this video was very inspiring as a 37 year old single woman this really spoke VOLUMES TO ME I REALLY you would be my mentor I need a woman like you in my life to talk with
Thank you Fumi. I just recently found your channel and I am so glad I did. This is one of the most important post I have seen from you so far. This post means so much to me. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My Lord Jesus Christ I am still waiting for my life partner, my husband at 55. This tesimony raised me up, it instilled so much hope for a beautful wedding. So patiently waiting ❤
Sitting here and feeling incredibly thankful hearing this episode. Wow! So powerful, real and amazingly beautiful. Love you my sister! Thank you! Love and prayers for the beautiful trio. ( You, your husband and son) 😊🌸💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
In 2023, we are still worried about what color a person is? Aunty Fumi, you are very correct. Everyone's journey is different, I'm the oldest of 4, and my two middle siblings got married and had a kid within the space of 1 year 3 months. I'm in my late 30s, and I have had days where I have doubted God's plans and wondered why it hasn't happened for me yet. But I know in my heart that I still have some work to do on myself. Soon enough, God will definitely come through 4 me, too 😊
AMEN🙌🏾 Thank you for being so open about your story and your love for the Lord! Both encourage me greatly☺️ I’m 28 and have felt the pressure from myself, society, and family to get married. I’m ready and I know he’s getting closer by the day because I’m waiting on God’s Best for me👏🏾👏🏾
That was powerful! I’m 32 and my grandmother tries to express this to me all the time. I always just felt like she doesn’t understand but the wisdom is undeniable. Thank you! ❤
It's not easy, to be honest.
I felt free when my parents said they are more concerned with me having a lasting marriage than to enter into one as young as possible. Their approval means a lot to me. Now I feel that I have the freedom to take my time and choose the right person the first time.
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What I know is age is just numbers
This 47 year old just had a white wedding last year. A beautiful and wonderful day!
Congratulations!
Thank you so much ❤❤🇩🇪
Absolutely beautiful ;people need to shut their mouths !
Congratulations 🎉
Exactly
I usually don’t comment but I have to share my story!
When I met my fiancé, we dated for months and I chose to not sleep with him and you know what?
He chased me more!
I believe I was a challenge and I was different. He always said he was looking for, “the Right Person at the Right Time.”
We are getting married in 3 months with me being 61 years old and he being 68 years old.
It’s Never Too Late 💍
I love this❤
Congrats ma'am
It warms my heart to hear such stories , we learn a lot from all of you our fumination Aunties, I am 34 with my adorable son I am not married yet but I hope I find my soulmate from God and get married but until then I have decided to stay celibate till marriage and work on building myself up n raise my son well.
Love your story ma'am. Will be 46 in April (next month) and getting frantic that I've not met my man yet talk less of marrying. I just want to love, be loved, have my kids and see them grow. I know God answers prayer.
Aww x
I got married for the first time (in a wedding gown) at 42! After meeting, we were engaged in 2 months and married in 8. We are happily living the "SOFT" life. I was heavily criticised by my friends, but I knew that I knew that I knew he was the one. 17 years later, we are happier than ever. We live the life that is best for US (not for others) with God at the centre! Once YOU know, shut out the noise!
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Wow beautiful 😍
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Congratulations! God bless you both!
I'm with you all the way. God bless...xx
You can have anything you want, any way you want, at any age you want, when you’re paying for it! I got married last year at 55 years old and I wore a white dress,Because that’s what myself and my husband wanted and we paid for it.
Thank you for sharing. I just turned 50 and believing Father God to arrange my union. 😊
Yes!
Congratulations and many blessings
Congratulations!! May God bless ur union as long as you do live.
Massive congratulations to you both from England...xx
I got married (first and only) at 40 as well! He was 42 and it was the first marriage for us both. I met him at 38 and he 40. Thankfully, I was blessed to be surrounded with family and friends who celebrated this with me - that wonderful “you did it!” and not “you’re too old and outside the norm to celebrate”. I’m so sorry that lady is not being treated so well, and I hope she overcomes others’ limitations and like you say, Fumi, celebrates and fetes thoroughly and well. And you’re right - being “fully baked” (mature) when you fall in love truly makes for an AMAZING marriage. Yes yes yes.
Congratulations May God bless you both
I got married at 54. I wore a white dress, had my bridal shower and a bachelorette party. I had my bridesmaids. We were all different sizes and we party. People said why spend that much money. My reply was because I want too. My day my way. Either you rejoice in my happiness or wish me well and carry on. Whew I can go on and on but I wouldn't change a thing. The only thing I never had was children. No regrets it just wasn't meant to be. Living my best life.
My day my way love it ❤
CONGRATULATIONS
Love this, congratulations
Awwww Wow😍😍 what an inspiring story.
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Nobody is too old to have the wedding of their dreams. Just don’t get yourself into deep debts and enjoy your special day❤❤❤❤
Now this is it Dear. You have a great response loving this facts and to the point. 💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@janicerichards8959 thank you my Dear😘😍
This!
Yes. Starting out in debt is not a good idea.
Soo TRUE
I'm 48 years old and still believe I'm going to get married. I know who I am now. I know my purpose in life. I want a man who understands me and I understand him. My life has been about overwhelming the odd.❤❤❤
Sure you will.
You are truly a great woman and I am learning a lot from you, I am going to be 52 this year by the grace of God and by the grace of God I have grown 5kids ❤
My granny remarried at age 70. It was a blessing for her although she was the caretaker of her then 84 year old husband. He softened her heart so much and even after he passed she kept that new love in her heart.
Wow! That's what love is supposed to do to us. It's such a beautiful way to look forward to death. It's so so beautiful
"I'm the best wife"... then hollers to demand that Ole confirms it 🤣🤣 Looking beautiful Fumi
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Fumi I consider myself a “late bloomer” as well. In fact, I believe I never wanted to “grow up”. I’m 41, never married and no children. I still have hopes of marriage and children one day. I had dreams many times of holding my own precious baby and even saw myself in a dream pregnant with twins!
Praying for you 🙏🏾 I hope the same for me too God willing 🙏🏾
Everything is possible with God.
May God fulfill your heart desires..
It’s never to late we had our last child when my husband was 2 weeks from being 42years old
@@wanjikuroki2688 Amen 🙏!
I got married for the first time in my life at 36 almost 37 in 2007 and I had 3 wedding dresses on the same day. We had a ceremony in the church and a reception at a wonderful venue. We are still happily married almost 16 years later. Don’t let anyone stop you from your dream wedding. Mine was amazing and I am so glad I had it at later stage in my life. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding 🎉
Am da next 😢😢😢I tap on that blessing🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭
My nephew posted you on his Facebook page as inspiration. It was awesome because he didn’t know I was a fan. He said “African women know how to do it!”
Fumi, you are wonderful. My mom wants to remarry and she is 70. I still have hope that she will find a good man. My father passed away when I was 13, and I am 29 now. She did not had a good marriage and I see the loneliness in her eyes. I share your videos with her, and I will share this one to lift her up that she still has a chance.❤❤
Praying your Mom finds the true love of her lifetime. 🙏🏾 💖
@@sunnijames2802 thank you so much. I know one day she will.
Praying that your mom will be blessed with a good man who will become her husband
I met my most wonderful husband at 42. Everyone has a unique story. Your story is yours. And yes, treasure and celebrate it!
God was laughing at you "Oh, he gotta be Black". He[God] was like "Watch This " as little Ole was being born all the way in Norway and growing up while you were in Los Angeles by way of Nigeria and Russia. God is hilarious.😅, ain't it so??
Absolutely ❤
I love you so darn much. I'm 28 and just turned down a marriage proposal. My mom doesn't understand it but I know he is not the one. I needed this episode
That picture of you and Ole with you in traditional attire is FREAKING GORGEOUS AMAZING WONDERFUL AND I LITERALLY SCREAMED. Ya'll look good now!
I love black women! Periodt!
Especially my dark skin black women! I LOVE YOU ALLLL!
Fumi, I have been watching your channel since about 2014, and your channel was the first channel that I watched and was (and still) inspired by. I said to myself-"Cool, the only black CZcams influencer that's in my age group (I'll be 54 this May 14th) that does makeup tutorials and look absolutely stunning". You went on to doing your Red Carpet reviews and I fell in love with your "Sister 2 Sister" segments. I also enjoy you inviting us women to have a peek into your closet with your clothing and how you take the pieces and dress them up and dress them down. Thank you so much Fumi. Not many black women are willing to share and be an inspiration, but you have. Continue to bring your radiant energy and motherly wisdom to all of the episodes on your channel. "Much love to you my darling"( in my Fumi voice) ❤❤❤❤
I love this! I'm shedding tears for my renewed hope. I have felt a bit hopeless at 30 turning 31 in 2 months. This was very timely. Thank Auntie Fumi. May God bless you and your family richly.
I got married at 30 years old and I would be divorced if I married earlier, She is so correct. Hang in there, everybody journey is so different.
Chin up buttercup! 1 saying I’ve found to be true “it gets greater later”. 😊
My daughter got married in her 30s and they are expecting their first child this fall. They found each other online. I am so proud of her because they went through premarital counseling and consummation of their marriage the day of. Remember you have all the power to create the life you desire.
You are still young. I'm 45 and have never been married. I have enjoyed life as a single person. I'm building my business and I'm so thankful that God is with me all these years. You know what, when it happens like Fumi said in the video it is going to be a perfect time for me. Enjoy your life and focus on building you.
The best is yet to come.
I'm 41 now and because of you Fumi, I haven't given up hope. Just like you, the black men don't want me, I'm too dark skinned for them. So I'm working on myself for now so I will be ready when that person comes along.
Sending you hugs ♥️🇿🇲.
Don’t give up hope, Gos will answer the desires of your heart.
I agree with you . Am 41 and was hopeless my own color of men are now focusing on the much lighter , celebrity looking women. Am hopeful❤ something is brewing for me
It's not your skin they don't like. You have a perfect skin colour. You will find your perfect match.
OMG Ginger! You’re pretty. The men who don’t want you based on skin color are being superficial and you don’t need someone like that.
This woman is everything. I enjoy every single episode of her channel. I wish I watched her in my early years. I’m here now and I truly take everything she said to in practice. She is my hero and I love you fumi.
Fumi your energy brings me so much joy ...sending you the same vibes back... I hope these young girls appreciate how lucky they are to have your voice
Paris Hilton just got married at 40 and looked such a beautiful young bride.
Fumi, I'm 43. I've been engaged 4 times. I called it off 4 times. I knew it wasn't right. I don't want to divorce. I am still hopeful that I will find my forever happy. I am a late bloomer of a mother. I was almost 38 with my first and 4 months shy of 40 with my second. I am in a very unhappy place with my relationship, with the father of my kids. He was the fourth engagement I broke off by the way. I pray that God has happiness in store for me. I love you and your hair looks flawless in this style. ❤
Darling, a comma at this juncture of your life is not a period in your story! Jesus is able to make the impossible possible if you trust him to make a way. God is the greatest matchmaker and he will do exceedingly and abundantly above you can think and ask. As long as you are alive there is hope. Put it in his hands to do what only he can do. Be blessed.
God will strengthen you, you can listen to Bishop R.C Blakes he is a great mentor and man of God
@@FabiolaB-dj5mk Amen! Thank you for your words.. 😊
@@wanjikuroki2688 I follow him here on CZcams 😊 Thank you for your words!
I got married at 24 yrs in a judge's chambers in a jacket and skirt..no one knew. When we finally told our family, they were obviously shocked...the next question was when I'm going to get pregnant as I'm a married woman now. I had my son at 29 to their annoyance. Then they asked when I will get another one because my eggs will soon dry up! Well, I had the audacity to get my daughter at 36. There were the hints I had her too late, which was really demeaning, but we did it our way. This year we will celebrate our 29 th anniversary, our children are happy. Do it your way and don't try to conform to societies idea of what should be.
Amen, Fumi! What a great word! Thank you for the encouragement. I'm 63, divorced twice, and still waiting for the man that God has for me. Amen again, Fumi. You have no idea how much this video encouraged me. May God continue to bless you, Ula and Adrian. Will you and Ula please join hands and pray for me to be married again. I know what God told me. And I promised God I will not sleep with another man until marriage.
Fumi, you are indeed an inspiration to young ladies like me. I'm currently 31 and when I see my mates getting married. I feel pressured to get married. A few months ago I decided to succumb to the pressure and began dating a guy that was short tempered and controlling . Immediately I had this inkling to dump him but I was contemplating within myself that since his my last resort for now I should just manage the relationship. Hmm... Only one punch, no body told me to gain clarity and run. In the end I wished I had to followed my intuition. Bottomline is the pressure to get married is high but to be candid, it's not everyone that is married that is happy. Some married couples are suffering and lamenting bitterly in their marriages. It's always good to be patient for God time.
So thankful for you. You uploaded the video I needed today. Another woman I follow on CZcams also posted something like this today. You two made me feel much better and hopeful. I found the love of my life just a few months ago, at 43, and I’m soooo happy. The only thing is work has been burning me out and a few other situations … Absolutely burnt out since winter… I just need to go within myself and start listening to what I need and want….thank you for the video. I always laugh out loud when you do. Your laugh is so infectious. I just love you. ❤
This is one of the best videos you have done fumi. Oh how I thank God for bringing my husband to me. I cannot imagine not celebrating our love in the most spectacular way. Congratulations on your engagement. I wish you both a lifetime of love and happiness.
Auntie Fumi!!!!! Thank you so much for this message. You have done so much for me since I’ve been following your page (about 4 months now). You are the auntie I wish I had. I am 28 years old and have found myself in situations where I have felt my faith dwindle. I have been feeling so alone for the longest time. Thank you for coming into my life:
You always leave me in awe. You are so inspiring, truthful, and RAW!!! I love a person who tells it straight and no chaser. You bare your heart and soul. You open up to us and you draw me in from your humility. Always the best to you and your family...God's continued blessings 🙌 🙏 ❤️
Yaaasss..just wear whatever you want on your wedding day, regardless your age!!! I'm 37 and not even close to being married but if this day comes I'll be wearing black 😊 and I will not bother myself what others will think especially when I'm not going to invite anyone either 😂 it will be me, my husband and my black dress 😊
Yes!!!!!
😅
Sissss slayyy that black dress!!😂❤🎉
Fumi, I recently found your channel. What a joy you are! And I LOVE that you are such a positive ambassador for a loving, kind, respectful marriage--even if that means waiting for the "right" man! My husband and I have been married for nearly 47 years. Yes, we married young, and that made marriage a bit more challenging. But like you, my husband is my best friend and treats me like a queen. I adore him, and could ask for none better. His soul is so pure and honest--and he makes me laugh every day. Our loving marriage has also been a gift-by-example for our three grown children, who also have good, strong marriages. I know that (unfortunately) this is not the experience for everyone (and I am so sorry). But when we (and God) get it right, marriage is beyond wonderful. Bless you and your family.
fumi I'm 42 this year and as much as im in love with crisp white tops I've always envisioned myself in an antique gold wedding dress.. as an events planner who mostly do weddings I encourage my older brides with this concern to go ahead and wear white because it's all about them. I can safely say antique gold shade makes me feel beautiful and confident plus it matched my skin perfectly..
*THIS WILL BE ON REPLAY BETWEEN MY PODCASTS!!! LOVE IT ❤❤❤❤❤ THANK YOU, MY SPIRIT SISTER*
Omg. This is the most amazing video I’ve accidentally found. I had my daughter at 45 and yessssss, sister. Yessssss. Thank you. You’ve just gained a follower. Wow. Thank you for preaching
Fumi, I believe this is your most profound video yet. I have seen them all. With eager anticipation, I await what you have yet to come. Keep at it. You are doing an absolutely fabulous job. God bless you and yours richly ❤
I just turned 36 and separated from my ex recently. This gives me hope !!
Fumi I love your energy and how transparent you are. It's funny how we can look back at past relationships, and events and know now that either we weren't ready for them, or the timing wasn't right. I just had a conversation with a coworker about not being closed minded about dating outside of her race. I told her that the man God has for her may not necessarily be Afro-american, and that he maybe of another race.
Preach Sistaunty Fumi!!😍😍
The best ponytail ever! I concur..."when you are last you end up trumping all who went before you!" Keep talking to the Lord Beautiful One!
She should be able to wear whatever color her money affords her. Live, love and have the most beautiful wedding ever. It’s your life!!!!!
I did a white dress for my civil wedding and for my wedding party. I wore a fabulous res lace dress because I love red. And i already had kids, why because I got there. We are celebrating five years married this may. Disfruta de tu boda y felicidades. You deserve it. Do you.
Created a mould for yourself, adore this!! I'm 40 this year this gives me hope!! Husband to be I'm ready!! You are a beautiful woman keep shining!!
This video is the truth❤❤❤never too old for genuine love & marriage. I was the same way I felt about only wanting to be with Black men, then I realized I'm limiting myself because true love/loyalty can come to u in from any color, if u allow it to.
Fumi i'm a fairly new subscriber but just want u to know how gorgeous u are, and u & ur hubby look beautiful together!💐
Well, you say you're not an inspiration 😂 YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ME ! A lot of us need a living example like you. When God says He will restaure what was lost, you are a living example of that. Thank you for all that you do, and for sharing your story with us 💓💓💓!!!
Don't loose hope everyone! I married at 35, moved to the US ,became a nurse in the US, had a son for my husband and we live beautifully and in peace. All happened in a space of less than two years.
If only I knew my life would be this good, I wouldn't have shed tears and feeling destitute in my 20s when my friends were getting married, nor even consider suicide cos a man I thought I loved so much cheated and left me. Oooh what can change within a year when the lord says it is time and stamps it.
If I had married in my 20's , I sure would've be been divorced by now, had no sense 😂😂😂😂
So inspiring!🎉
It’s the “had no sense “ for me 😂😂😂. It resonates here too 😅
Hmm,what can change in a year when the Lord says so
oh Fumi I wish I lived in London to come to the meet and greet. Would be so lovely to meet you in person. Loved this video. Such truth and so needed to be taught.
Fumi Fumi Fumi yes girl friend tell her it’s her wedding sweetheart you can wear White no matter what age you are who ever told you that you’re to old to wear White baby their jealous. Pure & simple no one has the right to tell you what to wear at your wedding. You need to disassociate yourself from people they are not your friends. Their what you call frienammies handle them with a yard stick. Don’t turn your back on them either. It’s your day not theirs like Fumi said enjoy yourself it’s your day. Thank you Fumi for giving her great advice as always. Blessings & Love Always 🙏🏽💛
It is always such a pleasure to hear you share your thoughts and perspective. You're speech, your cadence and how you emphasize each word. It's like being your girlfriend. I finally finally finally met the man who loves me and will most likely make a proposal this year. We dated 12 years ago and because of our age difference I didn't let it happen and her I am 12 years later almost 60 and he's 15 years younger than me and he adores me AND finally I'm ready to accept my gift of love. Thank you, My sister Fumi for this message. ❤❤❤❤ it's fabulous ❤❤❤ like you.
Wow!!
He didn’t need to be black Fumi! I know it’s hard pill to swallow for a lot of black women, but black men don’t like black women, especially if it’s a dark skin black women. The more money a black man has he doesn’t want anything to do with a black woman. That’s why when y’all do see a black couple, y’all are screaming “ black love” because it’s rare
Well said!
You are wrong for this but they do call it out like it’s a unicorn or Bigfoot sighting. 🤣🤣🤣
So true, but wisdom will come.
Its sad but true...
Most African Men aren't like that
Chai Queen u spoke to my spirit cos I've been waiting 30+ years for a brother too it's only the last few years I've been opening my options and loving it. Thank you so much for sharing your story
Congratulations to my fellow fumination sister. Have your wonderful white wedding. We will all be celebrating with you.
Excuse me If I got married at 80 and decided to wear white that is what I'm going to do. The people that told her to just do civil would not be on my guest list.
I got married at 24 and in Vegas. I didn't even have a dress. I'm divorced (wasn't my choice) So if I want a white wedding dress that is a little racy and maybe even designed by Panina Tornai then I'm gonna.
I love you. You are the best
You hit all the right notes Fumi ,you are the best.
I love this beautiful soul. Omg. I'm 43 but it's like my life has ended. Happy to discover this channel full of hope. Thanks black queen fumi
I never thought that for my daughter. Her husband is white and he is the one that loves her and has the patience of Job! I thank God for every woman that finds her Boaz!
I’ll turn 41 on the 7th of this month. No husband, no boyfriend.
So yes, this video spoke to me specially. Thank you sis Funmi for sharing your story. It’s inspiring and encouraging 🙏🥰🤗❤
Today’s episode was so inspiring 🙏🙏🙏🙏
When Funmi said “all of my friends are divorced “ 😂😂😂 I had to laugh out loud
I just turned 33 and believe me when my wedding day comes around I will do it ALLLLL.. anybody who thinks I will downplay my big day simply because “I’m too old” has another thing coming 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for telling us just how it is. I love the straightforward advice from the heart.
I got married at 40 as well, and I’m happy and living my best life, I’m happier now than I was in my 20s, I agree with Fumi, make the loudest noise ever for your wedding because you got there, you found love that some people never get to experience, so celebrate my sister 🎉🎉 I lived and loved for this video..Ola!! I’m I the best wife!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I love you Fumi, I hope to get to meet you one day (please come to Georgia) 💜💜💜
My friend just got married she is 42 and her husband is also in her fourties’. God is faithful
Your words today have given me wings to fly. No matter what one dies, people will TALK,why not just do YOU and be happy.Thank you ma'am
This episode is so beautiful. It made me cry! Aunty Fumi you are indeed a light and I have to meet you in your meet and greet in Washington DC. ❤❤❤
May the Lord continue to bless you Fumi for your inspiring words to women all over the world. Thank you!
Colour doesn't matter.
Once the person loves u,and you are happy.
I'm 38 years of age been also told that I just need a man to have a child with that still I'm getting late to have kids but I tell them with the right time and God's timing brings everything to fall in place
Thank you so much for your channel I feel so much blessed discovering it today
Fumi you are such an inspiration! Thank you for the light you bring into our lives and in the world. Your videos make me smile all the time. When is your LA meet and greet?
Your a magnificent mother! I am glad you had him later at a mature age!
You didn't waste time, you are blessed with divine timing. So happy and proud for you. Over here cleaning and smiling.
Live and let live...this is a must. Stop judging. Who are we to judge other people life and choises. Do we live their lives? No, we don't. So let's enjoy the good in our existence and embrace the beautiful variety of people colors.
Congratulations to the bride. Your wedding day should be your experience. It should be the most beautiful and memorable day for any woman. I pray every woman experience it, as a once in a lifetime experience.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Greetings from 🇰🇳🇰🇳 Caribbean island of St.kitts- Nevis..Hi Aunty Fumi and Fumi nation...Well said well received..Can't believe people like those still exist...Let ppl live their lives in peace...What does age have to do with when one gets married? JAH...Fumi thanks for encouraging our sister to do what she wants..❤❤❤
Fumi dear, thank you. i hadn't realized i have been limiting my self in a certain way. now i've got some things to think about and come to terms with. thank you again.
I love you miss Fumi...ill be 36 tomorrow ....and this video means the world to me...god knows i needed to hear this . I dont ever celebrate my birthdays...but these words of wisdom...these and others you share is my gift to myself.Thank you .
Happy birthday! 🎂 🥳 🎉
Fumi, I just love not only the beautiful way you see things, but the presentation of your thoughts is just amazing. I really appreciate the wonderful human you are and I am so happy for your channel. You are definitely my family in my head🥰
Fumi, At time 13:55 I felt you on that! You have to open yourself up to all types because what you prefer may not be the right one for you. This is where I am right now. I tried and still trying with these brothers but it may not be in my future and I’m ok with that.
I hear the words that come from a heart full of love❤ he got to be black no He brought a white one. When love is real honestly not many even understand u. God thank You for my husband at a mature age. 🤣🤣🤣. Love fumi
Preach it, PREACHAH!! HA!
I love it when Fumi gets on the pulpit!
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Fumi , you are indeed a force to reckon with and I am so inspired by you. I had my birthday yesterday and am 39 years old. Very single and trusting God in the process. You story had impacted me in so many ways than one and I believe God had me here just to hear him spoke to me through you. Love you Fumster ❤
Hi Fumi I started following you years ago with your makeup tutorials. I’m loving where you’re channel is heading. So much wisdom and great practical advice. I’m 49 and I was driving home from work thinking if God has marriage in the plans for me, because I’m “older” and then your CZcams video popped up. I really enjoyed it an appreciate your wisdom. Thanks keep being you.
♥️♥️♥️ thank you, thank you, thaaaaaaaank YOU! I’ve recently turned 34 and your life story has restored hope to me.
God is in control and he's the ultimate judge...he's the one we should live for. My friend just had her 4th wedding at the age of 71. We can't please people.
You are a great inspiration to us women❤
Perfect words my sis. KUDOS! KUDOS as you are right on target. I love your makeup and outfit as you embrace another day filled with God's goodness and of course looking Springtime 💯. I'm working from home today with you in the background and birds singing happily in the garden, I feel bless.
This is your time and your moment to shine and it happened just the way God planned it. I know for sure if pandemic didnt happen, I would not have watched CZcams except for work related webinars so I am ever so grateful you make time to vlog and waited for your moment to grow. I travel away from home for work so not always watching every day but catch up on weekends.
Getting married is so personal and while one is not hoping to play innocent at 40 or 60, it is the woman's right to dress as she prefers as long as it isn't breaking the law. Right on. It is lady's movement and she will want to create lasting memories of her wedding day.
I look forward to meeting you one day and I am sure your UK party will be fabulous to the max. Each of us have our own life and own journey and cannot let others kill our joy. Everything so beautifully said. You have to customize these vlogs and make them available outside of CZcams. I see you extending your gifts beyond vlogs and offering counselling as a professional service. Your take on any topic is from lived experiences and real down-to-earth stuff that women or men can relate to almost worldwide except for our own cultural limitations in some countries. I was looking for counseling services for a youngster the other day and that was approx US$100 online. What's wrong with your Other Half? You are both happy and that's all that matters. Maybe dem jus red-eye. People are people. You need to offer to find them a life partner just like yours but perhaps he is one of a kind and you just have to accept some people are so racist, negative, killjoy and full of it. Marrying a black man just to suit people's expectations guarantees ZERO as it's what's inside a person's heart as a human being, how we treat each other as humans is ALL that matters irrespective of the colour of our skin. I hope you get to or near 🇯🇲 on your tour. Happiness always.
I got married at 40! He was a God sent ,, He takes such care of me and he appreciates me daily..Great advice Fumi..you made me cry and also to remind me of the wonderful husband God has given me..love from Bahamas
Congratulations sister
I’ve been watching your channel and I usually do not comment, however, this video was very inspiring as a 37 year old single woman this really spoke VOLUMES TO ME
I REALLY you would be my mentor I need a woman like you in my life to talk with
Hey Fumi, your testimony is very courageous and realistic thank you sister love you with all my heart ❤️💕🌹🌹❤️💕.
Thank you Fumi. I just recently found your channel and I am so glad I did. This is one of the most important post I have seen from you so far. This post means so much to me. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My Lord Jesus Christ I am still waiting for my life partner, my husband at 55. This tesimony raised me up, it instilled so much hope for a beautful wedding. So patiently waiting ❤
You dropped some real gems today. I thank God for you. God bless you!!!
Needed to hear this! Such a timely message 🙏🏽 Thank you ❤❤❤❤
Celebrate ever milestone, no matter how long it took to get there 😘👏. Preach Aunty Funmi!!!
Fumi is right, everything is changing. So many people are changing the rules. Don’t set any limits on yourself!
Sitting here and feeling incredibly thankful hearing this episode. Wow! So powerful, real and amazingly beautiful. Love you my sister! Thank you! Love and prayers for the beautiful trio. ( You, your husband and son) 😊🌸💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
In 2023, we are still worried about what color a person is? Aunty Fumi, you are very correct. Everyone's journey is different, I'm the oldest of 4, and my two middle siblings got married and had a kid within the space of 1 year 3 months. I'm in my late 30s, and I have had days where I have doubted God's plans and wondered why it hasn't happened for me yet. But I know in my heart that I still have some work to do on myself. Soon enough, God will definitely come through 4 me, too 😊
AMEN🙌🏾 Thank you for being so open about your story and your love for the Lord! Both encourage me greatly☺️ I’m 28 and have felt the pressure from myself, society, and family to get married. I’m ready and I know he’s getting closer by the day because I’m waiting on God’s Best for me👏🏾👏🏾