How to Adopt a Waiting Child from Foster Care: 10 Steps to Take

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  • čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
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    Adopting from foster care can seem really intimidating at first. Many people assume that you have to foster and say goodbye to quite a few kids before you would ever have the chance to adopt. However, there is more than one way to adopt from foster care! Did you know there are over 100,000 waiting children in foster care? That means they are waiting to be adopted by a forever family. So many people are unaware that this is one of the paths available for those considering adoption. Could this be the right choice for growing your family?
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Komentáře • 362

  • @adoptinformed
    @adoptinformed  Před 2 lety +5

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  • @chelsiawoolwine1047
    @chelsiawoolwine1047 Před rokem +54

    We did not want children 6 years ago. We have been talking about kids lately but I am 35 now and just don't think I want to risk having a "geriatric pregnancy". All of my brothers and sisters were given up for adoption and I see how much they love their families. The more I read and watch about adoption the more I think this is the right route for us to take in the near future.

    • @Chassymusic
      @Chassymusic Před rokem +17

      You are more than fine to have a baby .. 35 is young . I had my daughter at 40 , she's perfectly healthy .. Google getting pregnant at 35 age .. there are women still having babies in mid and late 40s

    • @danielleg1504
      @danielleg1504 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I feel it’s a wise choice. I had my only biological child in my early 30s and, by chance, he was not born healthy. It was a difficult pregnancy, and recovery accordingly. I’m not telling you that to scare you off… it’s just one story. But, I’m saying your hesitation is not entirely unfounded

    • @thepinkestpigglet7529
      @thepinkestpigglet7529 Před 24 dny

      Don't go into adoption with the expectation the kids are going to love you. Just a word of caution. It's great it worked out for your siblings but don't expect that to always be the case.

    • @srae7658
      @srae7658 Před 15 dny

      ​@@thepinkestpigglet7529that is also the same for biological children too

  • @janvaltr71
    @janvaltr71 Před 3 lety +100

    27 years ago my ex wife and I foster adopted our son. He is now 28 and a father himself. It was the hardest experience of my life, but the most rewarding.
    Now I am remarried and approaching 60 . My wife and I want to adopt sibling groups. We love kids, we are both retired teachers , we are open to any race, and will consider disabled. Our lives seem incomplete and we want more children to help and who can complete our lives.

    • @lovebug8482
      @lovebug8482 Před 2 lety +2

      Did you ever adopt??

    • @Star-vg7ix
      @Star-vg7ix Před 2 lety +5

      I checked some international adoption groups and they have a cut off age of 55. This is why so many kids do not get adopted. Single men also get hassled when they try to adopt too.

    • @firdosvohra4315
      @firdosvohra4315 Před 4 měsíci

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AuNaturale2012
    @AuNaturale2012 Před 3 lety +80

    I really want a child between 10-13. I have a nephew who’s an only child I think it would be cool for him to have some close cousins and I really had an amazing childhood and hope to pass that on to other children who haven’t been as fortunate. 2021 is my year!!! God willing!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +24

      I love when I hear of people who have a heart specifically for adopting older kids...it's such a big need and it can be a wonderful way to grow your family! So excited for you and praying that you will get the perfect match!

    • @mrvoyage6651
      @mrvoyage6651 Před 3 lety

      Hi there
      I'm 14 year old child from Bangladesh . I am in a trouble for last 2 years. My parents are separated. I used to live in a car garrage . i badly need a family. Plaese adopt me.My grandparents have no Proper room to live me in their house.. They have only 2500£ saving. And they told me if anyone take me by adoption they give that money.Can you please tell me if their any family who wanted to adopt child internationally?

    • @mrvoyage6651
      @mrvoyage6651 Před 3 lety

      Hi there
      I'm 14 year old child from Bangladesh . I am in a trouble for last 2 years. My parents are separated. I used to live in a car garrage . i badly need a family. Plaese adopt me.My grandparents have no Proper room to live me in their house.. They have only 2500£ saving. And they told me if anyone take me by adoption they give that money.Can you please tell me if their any family who wanted to adopt child internationally?

    • @cristinafaley4051
      @cristinafaley4051 Před 2 lety +1

      I want a girl from 4-5

    • @leagarner3675
      @leagarner3675 Před 2 lety +1

      Cousins fight in my experience. They're family but not friends, so it's safe to argue without the fallout.
      But yeah, kids get more and more interesting as they grow. Good luck and great family!

  • @yelenamirko850
    @yelenamirko850 Před 3 lety +67

    This was one of the most straight forward and helpful adoption through foster care videos I’ve seen. Thank you

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +3

      You are welcome! I tried to make the video I would have liked to see before we began this process :)

  • @fiestadancers
    @fiestadancers Před 3 lety +31

    Very informative. I didn’t realize fostering’s goal was unification with birth parents.

  • @MousyLeigh
    @MousyLeigh Před 4 lety +56

    Glad you made this video. There aren’t enough like this for resources for foster/adopt parents. I just made another adoption video I’ll post this week. Congrats on your daughter. She’s adorable.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 4 lety

      Thanks so much!!

    • @abesky5229
      @abesky5229 Před 3 lety +1

      Please @Mousy and La Casa de Katie, write articles about this on MEDIUM.com. There are a lot of people who read there and it may be awesome to create some awareness there.

    • @beokaybear
      @beokaybear Před 2 lety

      Agree 💯 %

  • @TheTypewriterError
    @TheTypewriterError Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you so much for this. My husband and I have decided we want to plan to adopt a waiting child so it helps to know we can adopt a waiting child directly instead of providing a temporary safe place.

  • @muddypawsfarm8790
    @muddypawsfarm8790 Před 4 lety +50

    I agree, not enough recourse videos! We are just starting the process, and eventhough i love to watch those sappy, happy adoption day videos....information and guidance is more important at this point. Great video!👍

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 4 lety +2

      Thanks! I love the sappy videos too... it wasn't uncommon for my husband to find me weeping in front of the computer watching a sappy adoption video when we were just getting started in the process 😂 but, yes, education is super important!

  • @SarahKTomko
    @SarahKTomko Před 2 lety +7

    CASA means Court Appointed Special Advocate for children in abuse and neglect cases. 🤗💛. Thank you for creating this content!

  • @theKushkween420
    @theKushkween420 Před 3 lety +7

    Our plan was always to have 2 of our own and adopting 2 but since finding out IVF would be our only option to conceive we’re going with adopting. His sister was adopted through foster care so we’re familiar with some of the process but this gives us hope that’s it’s something we can do.

  • @eversimplifying
    @eversimplifying Před rokem +6

    Thank you so much for this video. It speaks directly to some of our hopes and fears as we now make our way through the licensing process in CA. We didn’t even know we about “waiting” as a designation or that we could emphasize adoptive placements as a priority with our agency (in our case the agency is the public/government option). Thank you again. I’m a teacher as well, so it was comforting to hear that bit as well.

  • @gleenobly
    @gleenobly Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you, Katie. This is the best video I have found so far about this specific type of adoption journey. I appreciate the information!

  • @hamandeville
    @hamandeville Před 2 lety

    I loved this! I found all the information really helpful. Thank you for taking the time to do make the video.

  • @lyanimoody6554
    @lyanimoody6554 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you so much for being transparent and upfront with the ins and outs my husband and I were thinking about adoption, someone mentioned fostering and we had no clue how to go about either process let alone what it all truly means and you just informed us so greatly on what that looks like. we thank you so much God bless you and your family 🙏🏼

  • @rosemarycarter2415
    @rosemarycarter2415 Před 2 lety

    You are very encouraging and this is very helpful-thank you!!

  • @reverendkiki5132
    @reverendkiki5132 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for your videos! I am going through the process and learning so much from you.

  • @shiannstilley6427
    @shiannstilley6427 Před 3 lety +6

    This is by far the best video I have seen on CZcams so far about adoption!!

  • @StephanieGrace19
    @StephanieGrace19 Před 3 lety +8

    This has helped so much! Thank you!! My husband and I were taking to someone with an agency and they kept telling us things that i found super confusing. You laid all the information out there in an easily digestible way and it is very much appreciated!

  • @brittanychrissy
    @brittanychrissy Před 3 lety +3

    I love this video. You have put my mind at ease.

  • @sylviegamboa106
    @sylviegamboa106 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this information your pod cast is exactly what we were looking for 🌷
    Hard to find information for waiting children thanks so much.

  • @vickiehenley5148
    @vickiehenley5148 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you for sharing! We have a child we adopted through foster care. Information is much needed.

  • @JustinaP84
    @JustinaP84 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this video!

  • @sherryboyd3480
    @sherryboyd3480 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for so much excellent information!

  • @ZachandAllison
    @ZachandAllison Před 3 lety +11

    Thanks for this video! My husband and are are wanting to adopt teenagers. looking to start the process in a year or so. There is so much to learn!

  • @chibistk
    @chibistk Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for making this video! It was very helpful and incredibly insightful.

  • @DrTimWhatleyDDS
    @DrTimWhatleyDDS Před 3 lety +1

    Very informative and helpful. Thank you.

  • @wrenhernandez9032
    @wrenhernandez9032 Před 3 lety +38

    Hi, love these videos! My husband and I were just matched with a child for adoption and it feels so surreal!! We are so excited, and I love to see yalls great experience, it is very informational! When did y'all announce to everyone that y'all were matched? We were selected last week and we have yet to share the news.

  • @crystaltorres5709
    @crystaltorres5709 Před 3 lety +5

    I can’t thank you enough for how refreshing your video is. You make adoption and fostering sound like a less daunting process, there are so many videos that don’t do a very good job of balancing the scary stuff, good stuff, and everything in between. You give me hope!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 2 lety +3

      There are definitely some really hard situations and moments with adoption or foster care, but I also have had some really encouraging moments ❤️ if you are interested, I have a whole series in my adoption playlist about the ups and downs of this past year adopting our two older kids. I try to share very openly about the highs and lows 😊

  • @missydanced2
    @missydanced2 Před rokem

    Thank you for making such a great and informed video!
    My husband and I are going to be starting the process to get into the foster system. We are soon going to be attending/watching & listening to informational meetings from our local foster agencies.
    We will be doing foster to adopt and totally fine loving on every kiddo that comes into our house no matter how long they are with us. I want to be a safe place for kiddos until we can adopt ourselves.
    We will be doing ages 5 - 11 or 12 and want to hopefully help out sibling pairs!

  • @charrityconrad5531
    @charrityconrad5531 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this video! We are also from Ohio and we are just starting out the process, and this is so informative. I have had such a hard time finding videos that are informative and from our home state.

  • @sabrinatenney
    @sabrinatenney Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks! Great video.

  • @marilingriffy2142
    @marilingriffy2142 Před 3 lety +2

    Katie thank you. This was helpful. I hope we can find our forever baby boy.

  • @sweatpants4life371
    @sweatpants4life371 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing all of your knowledge! I just started my channel the other day to help me document my foster to adopt journey. There's still so much I need to learn, but your video was so extremely helpful! Thank you again! Many blessings to you and your family!

  • @faithfulprepper
    @faithfulprepper Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this helpful video! I've always had adoption in my heart and have felt it strongly recently so I am trying to do all the research I can on it. My husband and I took the informative foster care class last night. Lots of great information you've shared.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety

      So exciting! Thanks for watching 😊 hope you subscribe because I cover lots of adoption and foster care topics!

  • @billpiccolo4245
    @billpiccolo4245 Před 3 lety +3

    Awesome video I just finished my home study and FACES. This is a journey Thank you!

  • @meiamcmillian
    @meiamcmillian Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @catherinemcnicoll119
    @catherinemcnicoll119 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for your content it’s very helpful.

  • @DrAmirahKweliCrystalRckGoddess

    whew!!! this is a video i needed. i am still tryna find and hear by from 3 interests from other states.

  • @Gandesh_Bahaji
    @Gandesh_Bahaji Před 2 lety +2

    Cute video. I'm so happy for you. I'm starting the process to adopt. I already raised four and I miss being a parent. Having a child is one of the best things in the world. I love the smiles and laughs.
    Thanks for the video. Best wishes.

  • @ashliewolfe1849
    @ashliewolfe1849 Před 2 lety +4

    Hi Katie! I loved this video. My husband and I have always had a tug on our heart to adopt a waiting child. This was super helpful!

  • @vickiyross
    @vickiyross Před 3 lety

    great video and great info thank you

  • @KJPadgett
    @KJPadgett Před rokem

    This is a great video! So informative! Thank you!

  • @randibarton335
    @randibarton335 Před 2 lety +3

    My husband and I just went through our home study for fostering to adopt this past Saturday. Your video described it perfectly! Thank you for sharing your experience for others who are starting to explore the fostering journey. 💖

    • @christiannepogie5937
      @christiannepogie5937 Před 2 lety

      Are you still waiting? If not, how long did it take you to even get a call for placement? Thanks

  • @angelakleman9519
    @angelakleman9519 Před rokem

    Thank you for making this. My husband and I are planning to adopt an older child from foster care. ❤

  • @StorminNormin411
    @StorminNormin411 Před 2 lety

    This video gets me so excited to adopt.

  • @jessicagreen9636
    @jessicagreen9636 Před 3 lety +1

    This is SO helpful

  • @emilynevarez3151
    @emilynevarez3151 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @kaysmith6810
    @kaysmith6810 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou for this im doing this

  • @aprylsconch4975
    @aprylsconch4975 Před 3 lety +5

    Today I decided to explore adoption, God Bless you for your encouraging words!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much! I love when I hear that others are exploring the idea of adopting :)

  • @blackwhite1406
    @blackwhite1406 Před 2 lety

    THANK YOU!!! 💞

  • @ariellagarza5741
    @ariellagarza5741 Před 3 lety +20

    We are in the waiting for placement stage 😬!! Loved your video and I really appreciated your insight about why you were chosen for your daughter but not for the other kids.

    • @christiannepogie5937
      @christiannepogie5937 Před 2 lety

      Are you still waiting? If not, how long did it take you to even get a call for placement? Thanks

    • @luisromo5251
      @luisromo5251 Před rokem

      How long the process

  • @jakila100
    @jakila100 Před 2 lety

    I AM interested in adopting but I want to be a foster mom first, your information was very helpful thank you, and thank you & your husband for being loving humans beings♥️

  • @kittysnowballsims7939
    @kittysnowballsims7939 Před 4 lety +1

    Very Helpful video :) Thank you !!

  • @thomas47035
    @thomas47035 Před rokem

    Thank you!

  • @river648
    @river648 Před 3 lety +1

    My aunt and uncle were so lucky because they got 2 newborns straight from the hospital a week apart and now have adopted 3 y/o Huxley and addisyn

  • @frankiejaimes1
    @frankiejaimes1 Před 2 lety

    Just learned I have a new born nephew in foster care. I’m doing my research on how to approach the adoption correctly.

  • @krystalg.w.5359
    @krystalg.w.5359 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this video, my husband and I are just starting the process. We know God’s plan is perfect and praying as we begin this journey.

  • @danutajaneczek1467
    @danutajaneczek1467 Před rokem

    thank you so much.

  • @camilleguimond9786
    @camilleguimond9786 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you for this video! It was really informative and engaging 🙂 can you discuss the fees for adopting a waiting child? Is there a cost difference between going through an agency versus through the county? Thank you very much!

  • @tracym707
    @tracym707 Před 6 měsíci

    💕😀Thank you for sharing this information.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 6 měsíci

      You are so welcome! Thanks for watching :)

  • @rosiejsue2910
    @rosiejsue2910 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for this. You're so sweet. Greetings from Ohio!

  • @amandaw5326
    @amandaw5326 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for your videos. We are recently licensed for foster to adopt and just made our first inquiry

  • @katdenning6535
    @katdenning6535 Před 6 měsíci

    I’m in Step 1.5: Lots of research and looking into the different agencies in my area. I’m in Michigan and reached out to MARE first who gave me a list of agencies in my county and suggested we do orientation with 2-3 to find the best fit.

  • @patriciacallen9653
    @patriciacallen9653 Před 4 lety +15

    I am having an interview later today with CYFD. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge.

    • @s.n.2744
      @s.n.2744 Před 3 lety

      Hi!! Congratulations on the interview. I’m hoping to go through a similar process within the coming years. How did the interview go???

    • @Melina-hq3rj
      @Melina-hq3rj Před 3 lety

      How did it go??

    • @patriciacallen9653
      @patriciacallen9653 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Melina-hq3rj it was different. Because of Covid there was a confrence phone call. I have a few things to do to get my house ready, not cheap things... I need some new Windows put in the house. So I have a few things to take care of so we are all safe

    • @Melina-hq3rj
      @Melina-hq3rj Před 3 lety +1

      @@patriciacallen9653 well I'm glad you're taking the time to do all those things. I know you're going to make a great parent to whomever you bring into your home :)

    • @patriciacallen9653
      @patriciacallen9653 Před 3 lety

      @@Melina-hq3rj thank you. I Pray daily for everything to align its self so I can move forward.

  • @nyecore
    @nyecore Před 10 měsíci

    We are in the process of adopting a child right now from foster care and we are so excited

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 10 měsíci

      Congratulations! That is an exciting step! :)

    • @nyecore
      @nyecore Před 10 měsíci

      @@adoptinformed thank you

  • @madimccown383
    @madimccown383 Před 2 lety

    My husband and I have just started the process of adoption through foster care. My agency say they do that and I just need to make sure my case worker is aware that we want placement with kids looking for a permanent home, but I am so worried that everything will seem ok and they will say our placement is an adoptive one and then some how something will go wrong and we wont be able to adopt them. I have bio kids and I don’t want to break their hearts and my own. I am so grateful to have this video to reassure me that adoption through foster care is different than fostering and it is a real thing and people do this.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 2 lety +1

      From what our agency told us, it is very uncommon that an adoptive placement would be disrupted unless the adoptive family decided they no longer wanted to adopt the children (which hopefully that wouldn't happen!). The only way it's really possible is if you accept a "legal risk" adoptive placement. Our two older kids are a legal risk adoptive placement and they've been with us for a year and we still don't know when their adoption will take place. Usually, it's just 6 months of them living in the adoptive home before their adoptions can be finalized.

  • @jenmks
    @jenmks Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this video. Would you mind sharing the Agency you went through?

  • @rachelballard9443
    @rachelballard9443 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you!!! Very helpful. Taking classes now. Did you ever find it challenging if your family was asked to take on a child or sibling group you did not feel equipped to care for?

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +8

      Oh, for sure. Sometimes you hear people say that they think you should say yes to any child...but I actually think that taking on a child you know you aren't equipped to care for adequately is unfair to the child and is a recipe for a potential disrupted adoption. It was definitely heartbreaking saying no and constantly reading case files of kids who have been through so much. Maybe I'll make a video about that sometime!

  • @SelenaY.1331
    @SelenaY.1331 Před 2 lety +3

    As someone that was in foster care I think (it depends on the person of course) it's helpful to be a foster parent then adopt a child that you fostered. It gives the child time to get to know the family. At the same time there's younger children (or babies) that are easier to take full custody (as in adoption) because you can "watch them grow". Other cases 10-12 year olds (or teenagers) that might not want to be in a stable/loving foster home because they are used to unstableness so they would rather continue to be in a placement that they see as normal & won't move around again. Many people don't learn to understand this

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 2 lety +3

      Yes, that is another route to go, for sure! In both of our adoption situations, our kids were with women in their 70s/80s who loved them to death but didn’t want to adopt them because they felt they were too old and wouldn’t be able to be there for them long term. So that’s why they became “waiting children.” Our oldest is 11 and she definitely wants to be adopted, but I know that’s not always the case! I think if adoption is what has to happen, having the current foster parents adopt is a great option because the bonds are already there. But there are a lot of kids (over 100,000 any given day) whose foster parents are not able/willing to adopt their foster kids. That’s where this type of adoption is needed ❤️

  • @luciamatos5815
    @luciamatos5815 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you sooo much.. your video was really helpful.. I want to have 2 children... maybe a twins and be a mommy soon 🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @Notsosamurai1
    @Notsosamurai1 Před 4 měsíci

    My wife and I fostered a child that a family friend was a foster parent and godmother to. She was having health issues and the burth mother wasn't even trying at that point. She just didn't care for the first two years if the childs life. We took her in and had her for over a year. In the last four months the mother started trying and they gave her everything, her rent, bills, food, bus pass, and paid to have her house cleaned. We wnt from no visits to unsupervised overnight visits within the course af a couple months. Even though the birth mother still couldn't take care of herself, on one unsupervised visit we find out from the mother instead of children services we wont be picking the little girl back up and we will bever see her again.
    This was the worst experience for my wife and I. We love that little girl and just want whats best for her. We are from Northwest Ohio by the way. Dealing with children services is the worst part about the whole process.

  • @kristind394
    @kristind394 Před 4 lety +7

    Thank you so much! It was so hard to find a video about adoption from foster care without fostering other children. This was perfect. On to checkout your other videos! I do have a question: My state allows us to pick an agency or just go with the state. Is there pros to picking an agency? Will it make the process longer if I pick an agency?

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 4 lety +1

      Actually usually going with an agency is easier/faster! We did use an agency and we were really happy with it. It usually just means you have to pay more instead of it being free/cheap.

    • @kristind394
      @kristind394 Před 4 lety

      La Casa de Katie thanks so much! I will look into agencies! I know of a friend who used an agency and is still using them because of the situation, but she has had a lot of issues so I was nervous. But like you said, looking up reviews would help :)

  • @tammielittle4707
    @tammielittle4707 Před rokem +1

    We are in waiting to foster to adopt a child or sibling group. We have 2 older daughters who are now in college and one son who is 10. It would a great experience for him and all of us

  • @GregoryRCosta
    @GregoryRCosta Před 3 lety +14

    I've been browsing Adopt Us Kids, and I'm curious if Interstate Adoption is as difficult as I hear...it seems like there are a lot of hurdles and many adoptions fall through...kind of disheartening.

    • @lovebug8482
      @lovebug8482 Před 2 lety +1

      Did you ever adopt out of state?the children legally free from MY state have severe behaviors or are medically fragile or are late teens...it has been difficult for me thus far

  • @TheRoshaunda
    @TheRoshaunda Před 2 lety

    I’m 25 and I’m preparing myself for the process I will start in two years.

  • @alynnl648
    @alynnl648 Před 4 lety +3

    I’m with advantage family outreach hope that helps .

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +1

      So sorry I didn't see this! I haven't heard of that agency, but I really don't know about every agency. We chose between 3 in our area, and ultimately went with ACTION adoptions, which is part of National Youth Advocacy Program. I would definitely just research your agency, and research other agencies to compare them. It also helps if you can find other adoptive families you know and see what agency they used. Hope that helps!

  • @leiz.6103
    @leiz.6103 Před 3 lety +10

    Hi Katie, can you make a video about GETTING A FOSTER TO ADOPT LICENSE: Private Agency vs State? If we want to adopt a waiting child, do we have to go with a private agency? Can you also share some resources about private agencies and how to pick one? Thank you so much. Looking forward to your updates!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +3

      I will put these on my list! :) the only thing is but I'm not sure if it is different in each state. I will have to research that.

    • @visi7891
      @visi7891 Před rokem

      @@serenepeacefulrelaxingmusi3874 lol Lazy?

  • @kristapacker1549
    @kristapacker1549 Před 3 lety

    We can have our supervised period shorted to 3 months but our kids are a legal risk adoption and they have been with us for almost 2 yrs already (as foster kids so their cw and their casa have been over once a month each). Also, I don’t remember that CASA stands for but in my state CASA’s are the child’s guardian at litem. Her solo purpose is to advocate for the child and what is best for them. Because they are not state employees, they don’t care what the cw or foster parents wants and needs are, just what is best for the child.

  • @adeljomaro7519
    @adeljomaro7519 Před 2 lety

    Thank you❣️, I want more information about adoption in your country

  • @EshaNicoleTV
    @EshaNicoleTV Před 4 lety +12

    This is very helpful. I've been thinking about doing this. I have a dual license but I would love to adopt. I also live in Ohio and I would love to know how to go about finding an agency here?

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 4 lety +2

      We went with NYAP (Action Adoptions), and had a great experience (now on round 2!). But you can search "foster care adoption agencies in Ohio" and look from there. I would ask adoptive families you know for recommendations as well.

  • @rhess10
    @rhess10 Před 2 lety

    Hi. Great video. Thank you for your information. I was curious if these social workers who come to visit during the six month foster period come by drop by or do they make an appointment? Thanks!

  • @Aikynbreusov
    @Aikynbreusov Před 2 lety

    Hey, can you make a video on what prospect adoptive parents can do to increase their chance of getting accepted to adopt a kid or be a better match to the kid????? Thanks....

  • @leiz.6103
    @leiz.6103 Před 3 lety +4

    Katie, thank you for these videos. They are very helpful! My struggle is this. We are Asian. If we chose to adopt whether domestically or from foster care, even if we are open to other races, our chances of getting “picked” over other Caucasian families would be low. And there aren’t many Asian waiting kids as far as I know. So I don’t know if we would ever get matched:(

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +5

      Oh, but they actually are not allowed to make the decision based on race unless it is a very specific situation (think American Indian tribes) It doesn't matter what race you are :) you should go for it! There are so many kids waiting for a good home, and that is going to be the least of their concerns. We are white and were placed with biracial kids...its no different to me than if you were Asian placed with black or white kids because it's all transracial adoption and it's very common!

    • @sabrinastratton1991
      @sabrinastratton1991 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m biracial and people kept passing my twin and I over based on that as one of the reasons. Please don’t just think about the race of the child. My adoptive parents are Scottish-American.

    • @suzyterry7820
      @suzyterry7820 Před 4 měsíci

      There are kids of all races that are placed for adoption. I don't think that will make a difference when the match is right. If you are hoping for a domestic infant adoption your diversity may even be something that stands out to a birth mom looking at your profile. ❤ My husband is Asian and we were placed without an issue through domestic adoption. My husbands parents loved showing off their new grandbaby in Hong Kong when we went to visit.

  • @s.n.2744
    @s.n.2744 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you so much for this video!!
    So, would you say that it’s difficult to find a waiting child around 4 yrs. old, or are waiting children usually much older ?
    Thanks !!!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +4

      You are welcome! Yes, I would say that adopting a waiting child 4 or under is less likely unless they are part of a sibling pair/group or have more special needs. However, it is possible! Our daughter was around 18 months when she came to our home. I would ask agencies in your area if they do waiting child adoptions often and see what they say about ages :)

  • @shecamt
    @shecamt Před 3 lety +1

    This was excellent and on point. Thank for making this video. My husband and I moved to Georgia and decided to adopt from foster care. Our case was submitted to the state a little over 3 weeks ago. The day after our information was submitted we were presented with a couple of siblings groups that didn't work well with us so we had to say no. My husband and I felt bad but we needed to do what was best. Now we are waiting for the agency to let us know about our kids and it feels like it's taking forever. The agency did ask us about fostering a waiting child but we were torn about that process. We didn't want to do it and have the children taken away. I may have to revisit that idea.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +1

      I think there is so much wisdom in not being willing to accept every single case that comes your way. The last thing you would want is to say yes to a kid and then end up disrupting the adoption later because you realize it's not a situation you are equipped to handle. When you say you are thinking about fostering a waiting child, do you mean taking on a legal risk adoption case? We are now in the process of adopting two more kids and they are a legal risk placement. I'm considering making a video about that soon!

    • @shecamt
      @shecamt Před 3 lety

      @@adoptinformed yes, I'm referring to legal risk adoption.
      Sorry, I had to look back to see when this video was made. That's awesome that you are adopting more kids! My husband and I don't have kids. When we bought our house last year we wanted a big house to fill with children so we bought a 4300sq ft house. We originally said we would take a sibling group of up to 5 or 6. Once the case study got underway we panicked and thought going from zero to 6 may not be the best idea we've ever had. Lol. We've decided on 2 with a strong consideration for a 3rd child. I'm very excited but also extremely nervous about taking on this responsibility of being a parent.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +1

      Wow that's great!! We didn't have any kids before we adopted as well. I think starting with one or two kids would definitely be a good idea, but I would never discourage anyone from adopting a large sibling group if that is what they feel called and equipped to do! So excited for you to start on this journey! 😊

  • @jessicascillieri5310
    @jessicascillieri5310 Před 2 lety

    What time of agency would I be looking into to start the process? Do regular adoption agencies facilitate adoptions through foster care?

  • @ashuderrick5669
    @ashuderrick5669 Před 2 lety

    Nice

  • @KatTheo431
    @KatTheo431 Před 7 měsíci

    Many of the children listed as being available for adoption actually aren't actually available for adoption. I was in photolistings (eventually my photo was removed because I didn't consent to it being updated when I was 16 but my information was on there until I aged out at 18). I had no interest in being adopted but I was legally available for adoption so I was listed - I had no ability to opt out, only to remove my picture when I turned 16. My caseworker told me about a few people inquiring and I told my caseworker to tell them to f off. The problem is kids who are perfectly happy not being adopted still get listed since there's too many idiots who think adoption is the only permanency solution. Adoptuskids actually has a whole guide to writing profiles for "waiting" kids that includes not disclosing that children do not want to be adopted.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 7 měsíci

      It's so crazy they would hide the fact a child doesn't want to be adopted! Thanks for sharing that information. I definitely didn't know about that.

  • @saramoulson7808
    @saramoulson7808 Před 3 lety +1

    This video was super helpful. We've been praying about this for awhile now. Can I ask, what did it cost for your daughter's adoption?

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +1

      For us it cost about $5,000. But some of that is reimbursed from your trainings. And you get an adoption tax credit once you have adopted so you can kind of pay yourself back, if that makes sense. It depends on what state you are in and what agency you use. Sometimes it’s free!

    • @saramoulson7808
      @saramoulson7808 Před 3 lety +1

      @@adoptinformed wow! Thanks. That's way cheaper than I expected.

  • @lovebug8482
    @lovebug8482 Před 2 lety

    And yes we never realized that foster to adopt would be so difficult.

  • @christinaguillen6616
    @christinaguillen6616 Před rokem

    Hi! What are the costs like and stipends for waiting to adopt?

  • @kristapacker1549
    @kristapacker1549 Před 3 lety +3

    And not all state’s require fire/tornado plans.

  • @jennifermunoz9526
    @jennifermunoz9526 Před rokem

    Do you have any advice or videos related to adopting a waiting child if you already have a biological child?
    Thank you for this video. It was so helpful as I go about researching fostering and adopting through the foster care system.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před rokem +2

      I do not have any videos on this because that wasn’t our experience, but I might interview someone who has walked through this :)

  • @kristencozart1453
    @kristencozart1453 Před 2 lety

    What Agency did you use Katie? I'm in Ohio too and we are just starting to research adoption. Thanks for your help!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 2 lety +1

      If you email me at lacasadekatie@gmail.com I can tell you about the agency we use! Or DM me on Instagram :)

  • @biglittle992003
    @biglittle992003 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you so much for your video, I really appreciated it. I'm wondering if I could pick your brain a little. I recently/finally got approved for my adoption license this past week. One of the things that cemented my feelings of pursuing adoption was because I found a sibling group I am interested in who is in the state next to me. They are two boys ages 10 and 11 who are on the Mare website photo listing. I am so conflicted because I have heard people say to leave the matching to the agency (I am with DCF). They have also said to take in a foster kid and just take the time to set routines and get to know them before going as far as to adopt them especially since they are out of state. I am interested in your opinion about this as well as I am curious how I should go about starting this conversation with my DCF worker. Thank you so much for your time.

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před 3 lety +2

      The social workers in our agency were very open to us asking them to submit our home study on kids in listings we found...I would just email or call your worker and ask her about that possibility. I will say that we fell in love with a LOT of kids in photo listings at the beginning and we were not matched with them even when we did submit our home study. It's very rare to be matched with the first kid you fall in love with, but still worth asking! Hope that helps 😊

    • @biglittle992003
      @biglittle992003 Před 3 lety +1

      @@adoptinformed You're awesome! Thank you so much for your encouragement.

  • @madsenmusic2922
    @madsenmusic2922 Před rokem

    What other books do you recommend? My husband and I want to adopt teenagers from foster care, we want a multi racial family but I’m having trouble finding resources to help educate us before we start. Thanks!

  • @stardog9358
    @stardog9358 Před 2 lety +1

    My family wants to adopt this way, but whenever we look up the average cost it comes up with foster to adopt so I was wondering if it is the same price? thank you 😊

  • @cfradd
    @cfradd Před rokem

    I'm also in Ohio, wondering who you your agency is? And any advice you have. Thank you!

    • @adoptinformed
      @adoptinformed  Před rokem

      Yes! I’d love to help :) if you email me at katie@adoptinformed.com I can get you all of the contact info about the agency we used!

  • @rosemarycarter2415
    @rosemarycarter2415 Před 2 lety +2

    Oh, I would like to say there is a fifteen year old boy from waiting children that my husband and I want to adopt. We are in Indiana. I am sure that God is leading us in this. I have never been a foster parent but I'm willing to adopt..

    • @shawnaozz9920
      @shawnaozz9920 Před 2 lety

      We have a kiddo in mind for adoption in Indiana as well! Even at this early stage, I’m almost certain God chose us for them & them for us - for various, incredible reasons. I pray for them every night & think about them often. Our contact is being so helpful & quick with getting the process going…. Well, I said a prayer that you & your husband are a perfect match for him & that he’s the perfect match for you. Best of luck in the process!

    • @rosemarycarter2415
      @rosemarycarter2415 Před 2 lety

      @@shawnaozz9920 Thank you, Shawna!!