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moral of the story: It’s skinCARE not skinPERFECTION. Everyone has their skincare struggles.
woww so true xx
Couldn’t have said it better ❤️
Yassssss gurll yassssssss so glad people are becoming more aware of what they r talking and the way of thinking
ty for commenting this❤️
Yes! I still have my pimples now and then, but my skin looks and feels healthy. That’s more important (:
People tell me that "I just need to drink more water" or "use soap and water"they just don't understand because they were blessed to never have had acne.
Yes! I've heard everything. Accutane is the only thing that worked.
Im one of those lucky bitches😅 but dont shame anybody that has acne. Cos we also never know if a certain case can only be improved parcially or fully when prescriptions by a licensed doctor are given to that person. And not everybody has the money to go to a doc and get prescriptions....or lives in a country where public hospitals are at anyones service for free....
Been there 👏👏 , when ppl tell you you're unhygienic after working super hard on your skin for literally years ...
fr. and the sad fact for others when they cant afford/maintain for products that work out for them. im one of those brokies and man it's a pain getting told about your acne forehead. instead of a "hello" i get a greeting about my acne lmao
Honestly in my opinion it's genetic because my friend washes her face but has acne still and me I don't wash my face enough because I usely can't afford it but I don't have acne
I think it runs in the family
Damn you know he cares when he doesn’t say anything about the make up wipe.
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this NEEDS more likes
LMAO YES 🤣😂🤣😂
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I how when she put on makeup Hyram didn't say" she looks really pretty with makeup" but he said" She's really good at makeup." That just shows you how good of a person Hyrum is
21 out of 34
hyram*
@@gemini4958 21 out of 34?
hyram**
@@stephthestarwarsgirl9592 words OP spelled correctly
A bunch of people have probably said this already.... but:
It really sickens me how rude the world is. If people don’t have anything nice to say, they shouldn’t say anything at all. As a gay man, sometimes i used to get terrified to be myself bc i was worried i would get beat up or called gay slurs. But now these days, I’ve learned that mean people and comments can change who i am.
This may have went off topic, but i just wanted to say it.
exactly. how come hateful people spend their whole life hating other people that are different?
yeah, you're right. A hugs for everyone that got mean comments and for you sir❤️
i don’t understand how people get satisfaction out of putting other people down. wouldn’t the whole world be happier if we all just loved each other?
You're free to express your feelings. And you're right, mean people can change who you are but in a positive way.
Mimi Alm yeah exactly! they just think you are fake :(
"Shes not an advertisement. Shes not supposed to be bought by u" Periodt.
Yes!!! Like the audacity of some people amaze me.
PERIODTTT
@@heathert323yeah who tf says those things
My heart broke when you said “I hate myself anyway”
I told it also to myself. I had acne and acne scars, since I turned 21years old, and until now, face is still have few acne.
Same, he's a beautiful person with a beautiful soul! It's ok, we'll love him for him!
Mine too. Hyram is such a beautiful human being and he’s been through so much. I hopes someday he comes to truly love himself.
Same cuz I relate so much and i was just like "Noooo, what's there to hate?!"
@@GetWellSoonR.E.M. exactly
literally crying🥺 Hyram you’re such a kind loving human, you’re the type of person i’d want to be best friends with. it warms my heart seeing how kind hearted and accepting you are💗
OH MY GOD SAME
Yes I wish there are more people like you guys. I balled my eyes out. Sorry I'm very sensative
Hyram is one of the most precious human beings alive. Protect him at all costs 🥺❤️
We are trying our best
Yes, if people were dragons, they'd be fighting to horde him as treasure this isnt meant to sound creepy or anything btw
So true.❤❤
YESSS
THE ABSOLUTE BRST HUMAN 🦋
Why does the nicest people get the most hate. But the drama rude, ignorant, mean celebrity’s just get away with everything they do?
So true I always help people even my bully’s like when we have online classes I always join them and help them but all I get is hate😓
And I was forced to do a project with them and they did nothing not even approve of the title I still wrote there names my friends say why do you do this
@@ayyooomys9757 yeah why you do this? You're just enabling them to keep hurting you. Why are you trying to be friends with people who obviously have very different core values than you?
Agreed. People who are mean don't understand what it means to not hurt others. To not let others go through what you went through. They are full of hate. Sometimes you should not give kindness to rude people because, honestly, there comes a point when nice people will be fed up with people are ungrateful.
@@ayyooomys9757 say I don't work with ignorance.
I remember myself crying while watching that video, i had severe acne and i hid it for a really long time until my mom intervened. I was really afraid, i didn't want to receive bad comments about my skin, it was really painful, physically, emotionally and psychologically.
I was only 13 years old, I'm 19 now and all that remains of that horrible painful experience is scars. I have keloid scars on both sides of my jaw, i have regular scars around my face, they're healing and so am i.
your beautiful I already know it, its very heartbreaking how the world treats you bad for something they will also have, Acne is like your friend but acne isnt your friend they want to be in you.
I remember thinking that acne was the worst when I was 12, but after receiving a wrong treatment and being covered with keloids all over my body I now understand acne was not the worst my experience. I am now 22 and still live with my scars and acne, and only recently I started accepting myself the way I am with the love of another person. And no matter how happy and beautiful I feel sometimes, past insecurities are still hunting me.
I’m 14 and get pretty bad acne I already have scars but when people like you leave comments it lets me know I’m not alone so thank you :)
@@winniethepooh5605 I’m 18 and little one it will get better. I still struggle with how I perceive myself, I still aviod mirrors in the public, but I believe it will get better. I only get pimples now here and there after the tretment, but the scars are there…
I’m 13 and I have lots of chicken pox scars on face, my face looks horrendous I have dark circles under my eyes and I have gross fat cheeks, I’m so scared my chicken pox scars won’t go away they’ve been with me since I was 7.
*" why be mean when u can be nice ? "*
- hyram , 2020.
So so so trus
calling her full face of makeup "false advertising" really shows how some men see girls as objects instead of humans. i don't know why, but that one just stood out to me
this stuff is honestly so angering, she’s a HUMAN
To be honest, I don’t think is just men. It’s just people with no more decency or tact left.
I have had women who are content with their own skin and don’t wear makeup. They embrace their birthmark, their scars, their acne etc... but people still bring them down. Similarly for those who enjoy wearing makeup, gets brought down because they’re fake.
It’s perception. I always believe you should do you, do what makes you happy. You can’t win all wars, win your own.
Who said that it was a man? Maybe it was a women who knows women to criticize a lot especially sometimes they are jealous so they luve comments like that and say that they are fake ..... so yeah dont judge
@@awrakirisawa9439 In my personal experience, I have heard these types of comments way more often from men than from women, but you're right, it's not exclusive to men. Women can be just as nasty and judgemental.
greasytiddies it is annoying knowing there are men AND women out there thinking one or the other is and OBJECT we are all humans here and we should all be treated like a human.
Moral of the story: Do what makes you happy. You can’t win anyway.
You win either way. Others doesn't define you 💙
I don’t think you need to win anything from others, but yes I agree
I would say that doing what makes you happy is what makes you the winner, if you feel the need to phrase it as win or lose
I can win cause when Im happy that will be the biggest win of all
You can't win people's heart
“She’s not a f-cking happy meal”
Sorry this is not a laughing matter but that got me😂😂👌
Isaac Zueger read 👏🏼 the 👏🏼 room 👏🏼
@@IsaacZGR what does all lives matter have to do with her comment 😂
@@IsaacZGR no one is talking about that so why bring it up?-
@@IsaacZGR wowwww omg thank you for that you really solved all the worlds problems in one comment 🙄
@@IsaacZGR First of all you don't need to bring that up, and before I say anything you are entitled to your own opinion. Now, BLM does not mean All lives don't matter it means not all lives are under threat. BLM is standing up for all minority groups. All Lives Matter but not all lives are in danger.
The way you explained “false advertising” is perfect
"the way she presents herself is not advertising. she is not to be purchased or used at your disposal. the only way that statement makes sense is if you view women or people as objects." i have been trying to find a way to explain this for years and you did it perfectly in seconds. thank you, Hyram.
Ikrrr!
Came here to say the same thing. LOVE it
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Yes! I was thinking the same thing!
@@lilacyuu Hi😂
"Why be mean when you could be nice" should go on a shirt, honestly. Such a simple yet important message.
Great idea!
Most definitely
you can find them at wish i belive i have seen some there
yeah people doesn’t have common sense these days
The 98 people who disliked this video are the ones who left those mean comments
176 people
We should send them to the Moon. 🙄 I don't understand how one can dislike this video. Thanks Hyram for taking time and making this video. ❤️
No one and I mean NO ONE has the right to bash or criticize someone’s body, face, weight etc. if you see someone in public with makeup all over them if they say they are beautiful then let them. It’s like . . . Sometimes I wonder if these people leaving these comments ever think “this comment might hurt someone. This comment might make someone hate themselves. This comment may push someone over the edge. This comment may be the breaking point for someone”. Plz remember that YOU are beautiful and YOU are worthy
this made me cry
i needed this so badly thanks love
LOUDER
nothing makes me more frustrated then when people say “do you even wash your face?” to acne sufferers. I’ve had acne since I was 13 and I’m 19 now, I have both a morning and night time skin routine, I drink plenty of water and eat pretty healthy and I still suffer with acne. acne is NORMAL. everyone suffers with spots and breakouts.
RIGHT LIKE PEOPLE CAN'T HELP THAT. THEY DIDN'T CHOOSE ACNE. i am scared because my class starts tomorrow. and i have bumps and dark spots on my forehead. i tried everything i could and all the products i could use to take all those bumps and dark spots away but it keeps coming. i was so stressed. i wish i had a clear pretty face like everyone else.
Inosuke Hashibira I honestly understand where you’re coming from, my acne was at its worst from 15-17 when I was still at school and it was awful. One important thing to remember is that no one has ‘perfect skin’ - sure some people have it worse then others when it comes to breakouts but everyone gets them!! I promise you that are beautiful inside and out and that you are worth so much more then your acne ❤️
@@illusionalmistake7251 i'm just getting into 6th grade. my auntie said that forehead acne is that preteen thing so
@@illusionalmistake7251 yeah my low self esteem could never
@@inosukehashibira7598 Everyone has at least one issue they are insecure about. While you notice their "clear pretty face", they are more worried about their hair they think is frizzy, their nose they think is too big or that their body isn't in good enough shape. Every person alive of every age has a part of their physical appearance which don't like and worry about themselves.
Her acne is not even that bad. People really are so mean, they better never had experienced acne themselves to be this rude and ignorant.
I smell facts
Its really scary posting ur bare face on the internet like that . Like if i did it 6 years ago people would probably freak out at how my face looks,i mean students at my school already did but i'm fine now and quite realize that their opinion doesn't really matter.
I watched her back then and her acne was bad actually. In the video it’s not that bad but it’d be really bad some days
“She’s not a f*cking Happy Meal”
Love this.
right
I have been bullied most of my life and one thing I stand by is that I have never left a hate comment no matter who the person is. That makes me feel good ❤️
Bless you ❤
💙💙
The weird thing is
SHE IS GORGEOUS and if they can’t see that then they really need to get thier eyes checked
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i’ll never understand how people get satisfaction out of putting other people down.
They can. The people who say those things high key hate themselves and take out their lack of self esteem on others ESPECIALLY those they are jealous of.
The thing is deep down they know she is beautiful that hate is just coming from their insecurity
C. Watson exactly and I don’t think those people realize that 1: hate comments especially on Instagram are allowed to be reported and taken down, for bullying and harassment and 2: if God forbid someone ever committed suicide due to comments like that and they took screenshots....once the police get involved those people who left the comments could actually get arrested, and if they had sent threats online...that’s considered as a criminal offense.
I mean, it's a subjective opinion but even if you don't think she is pretty doesn't mean one should actively comment to put them down.
I've had people tell me I look hideous because of my acne scars. One time someone said "I could take a vodka shot in the dent in your forehead". (I have some acne pockmarks). statements like that just reinforce the already self negative thoughts people with acne or acne scars face. It's like, the negative words in our own minds are reinforced by other mean people. You are beautiful, with every imperfection do not let MEANIES GET YOU DOWN.
I am so glad you over cake that situation and how can people even say that?
casually cruel You are beautiful, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
Don’t listen to them. You are gorgeous!
I hope you are doing well, and have moved away from that pain. Blessings be hon to you and yours.
Unfortunately people will always find something to criticize... I never had bad acne (of course I struggle with pimples- but not many), nonetheless I struggled with an eating disorder many years ago and I realized recently that loving my body, my imperfections and myself the way I am...made me STRONGER...and less caring of what other people think of my body!
Your imperfections are your STORY and I personally love my imperfections and scars more than anything else...because they made me the woman I am now!
You are beautiful 💕don't let anyone tell you any different
the world needs more of people with thoughts like Hyram..
This is false advertisement - "The only way this makes sense is if you view women as object", Thank you Hyram, that right there is the problem in society today
Things that are so triggering and that are not ok to tell someone with acne:
-Have you tried to wash your face?
Note: majority of the people with acne DO wash and take care of their skin. It just doesn't want to cooperate.
-Have you tried starting a skincare routine?
Note: As stated above, many of people with acne are deeply insecure and try at all cost getting rid of it. So most likely they do have a skincare routine.
-Have you tried going to a dermatologist?
Note: I've personally wasted hundreds of dollars with a dermatologist and nothing seems to work. Keep in mind that many people can't afford to go to a dermatologist or don't have access to one and that shouldn't be any of your business.
-Have you tried cutting out dairy or going one a diet? Maybe going vegan will help.
Note: What you eat can have an effect on how your skin will be BUT it is not exactly the solution for everyone. Besides that, many people can't afford to go on specific diets or are economically dependent of someone and don't want to sound ungrateful for what they are provided with.
-Have you tried "x" product?
Note: struggling with acne for years I've tried about every product out there. I might have quite a few to try but keep in mind that a specific product will not work for for everyone and not all skins are the same.
-If you didn't have acne you'd be so gorgeous.
Note: I don't even have to go into why this is wrong. Many of us are and SOOO insecure and already hate ourselves so that will just make it worse. Thank you so much.
well said thank you
I understand all of your points, except the recommending x product one. Why we can’t do that? I know not everyone would get the same result from a product, but if i know or heard some product is good, i’d love to share it. I have some skin problems and i would welcome product’s recommendation.
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Game One I get your point, me and my friends always talk about new products we’re using and recommend them to each other, but when someone that I’m not really close to recommend me a skincare product, I feel kind of ashamed like “omg they noticed that my skin is terrible”. (Sorry about my English, I’m Brazilian)
Story of my life 😂 been struggling with acne on/off for 13 years, I find it so intrusive when people quiz me on what products I use and if I have I tried x routine etc. But mostly I figure they are just trying to help. I usually respond with something like "it's a working progress, I'm going to carry on taking advice from my dermatologist, but I'm happy in my skin regardless". If they carry on I just tell them I don't want to get into it.
Hope this helps someone and sending love to my fellow acne beauties 💖
*"She's not a f**king Happy Meal."*
Don't know why but that specific one got me. I especially hate comments that say something along the line of "Catfisher" and "This is false advertising" or "This is why I have trust issues" just because someone likes to dress up or put on makeup.
You're right, Hyram.
*We're not f**cking Happy Meals.*
Although nuggets are *chefs kiss*
ikr i get so mad when i see those comments
I love how Hyram is helping perfect everyone's skincare routine and making us humble and respectful.
hyram: Brad help me!
Me: dying of laughter😂😂😭
“Why be mean when you can be nice?” So true. But you can also just be QUIET if you’re incapable of being nice.
THANK YOU! amen to that.
Yesss! It's so easy to just say nothing at all.
does anyone remember when that vid was trending years ago??
YES!
Yes yes yes
JoeyIsKing yep
Nope lol
Yes
“she’s not a BURGER”
I cracked up. But you’re so correct. I love that you are so positive and uplifting to others and you call out the haters. 💕
yeah i was like, who tf says she’s a product
We need to keep hyeam protected at all costs, he’s too pure for our human society these days🥺❤️
This comment section makes me want to go back to it when I feel bad about myself. Thank you guys so much for being so sweet💜
I'm so proud of you for coming this far, you don't know me but just know whatever happens I love you, stay safe
Candice Stocker thank you su much for taking time to say this. Love you too 💋
Even on tik tok I’ve seen those “expose videos” with girls wearing makeup and not wearing makeup and the comments are like, “that’s illegal”. Why does it matter if someone wears makeup or not? People wear makeup so what. If it makes them feel confident why do you care so much?
Yea - you don’t buy makeup to look exactly the same people need to understand :/
Some people don’t understand that woman dress up for themselves and not for other people’s attention. It should be common sense.
True wis yessss
Sonya Robinson exactly!!!
What I also find annoying is that some people tend to think we wear makeup for a significant other. Not true, women and men wear makeup because they purely want too. And some don’t wear it because they don’t want too. It’s people choice
saying that your hate towards someone is just an "opnion" doesn't make u any less of a bully. mark it.
I can’t believe someone has the audacity to say these things, every men, women, girl, & boy is beautiful, they are God’s creation and if u wanna make fun of it go ahead, u will pay the price afterwards
don’t forget my non-binary pals! and i agree!
No, I didn’t cry..... I’m just pretending to be a water fountain...
😂😂 i’m using this with my friends now lmaoo
Max 0.0
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Lumina650 HELP WHY DID I FIND THIS SO FUNNY?!
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SOME THINGS TO DO TO HELP:
- instead of phrasing “how to get rid of X problem” try “ restore health and balance of skin when X happens” or “how to help your skin take care of itself when X happens” (not that catchy of a title but that’s the direction to move toward)
-show/ talk about pores of skin
Pores aren’t normalized, we have blurring filters and pore blurring makeup
Why is having pores a flaw? That’s literally what skin is... it’s porous like a sponge and absorbs the environment and what you put on it
- show/ talk about normalizing discoloration/ hyperpigmentation/ unevenness/ redness
Skin isn’t just one color! It’s hundreds if not thousands of colors!
- if you’re gonna show us your skin, show us! And NOT APOLOGIZE for being too close or self deprecating
I hate when beauty gurus are all like “okay now that I’ve brought you in SUPER close to my face, ugh sorry now you can see everything ugh so gross” and their head doesn’t even take up the entire frame and they still look blurred and flawless... like I wanna see the 5x magnification mirror zoom on your face, basically showing what actual skin looks and not being ashamed of it
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Also Hyram,
I just wanted to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for noticing AND caring about the issue of perspective when it comes to skincare AND wanting to shift it to be positive! The entire beauty industry is built up from tearing down consumer self esteems. As a result, we are constantly buying to “fix” what the industry advertises is “wrong” with our skin, hair, and body- when in reality what’s “wrong” is just what’s HUMAN.
All in all, I think you are such a wonderful human for caring about this issue, and so many other issues (let’s go Merch with A Purpose!) I am so happy you have a platform and that you want to use it to bring about so much positive change in so many different ways! :)
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I hope he sees this. You put it really well.
Agreed! Very well said!
He needs to pin this at the top. So well said 👏
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When I had horrible cystic acne, you really helped me so much. I would watch them crying. Now I watch your videos for fun because you're such an honest kind person.
You know he cares when he says nothing about the makeup wipe protect him at all costs
I feel like the people who tell women (or anyone) that wearing makeup is false advertising, are probably jealous and arrogant at the same time. Horrible combo. They think they are better looking naturally, but are jealous of the other woman's makeup skills, which they think make her falsely look better than them. That's the only way it even makes a little sense to tell someone that imo. Even then it is till very mean.
Makeup is ART
@@Dinitrate fr
I didn’t even know ppl rlly said things like that, especially when their makeup is RLLY gud
I know it’s just like doing your hair or putting on perfume
Its so unnecessary imo, make-up or not let people be. No one knows their story behind the make-up, different for everyone. I just started wearing make-up in my late 30’s, foundation i mean. I just enjoy the ritual, enjoy the flawless look it gives me and all the eye shadows that pops more icw foundation. But i do enjoy my no make-up face as well, only wish i found out about the power of makeup sooner😄 It’s art and if it makes you feel better, Why the f not!?
Everyone is beautiful,
She can’t control how her skin looks like, she’s tried her best. She can’t change how she looks, she’s so pretty!!
he is so kind and pure... it melts my heart
I think it would be really cool if you made a video that addressed all the different parts of an acne journey and how to deal with them. Personally, I have experienced everything from cystic acne to fungal acne to acne scarring. It would be amazing if you made a video that not only addressed products that would help but also just breaking down the science and exploring the mental health impacts of acne.
*"But they don't hit as deep because I already hate myself."*
I was expecting him to laugh after that, like it was a joke; but when he didn't I got super worried. Please don't hate yourself, you are a precious human being. No one is perfect and you have done so much to help the earth as it is.
This worried me too. @Hyram please don’t hate yourself as that would break my heart.
amennn
@@IsabelRuiz-ld7dg7:49
It's just his sense of humour, I'm sure he's okay but if not we're all here :)
oh my god, yes. he normally makes comments like this & laughs, but here...
The worst thing to me about my acne - and I’ve had it for 12 years now - is unsolicited advice. Especially because most of the time it comes from people that get like one tiny pimple every two month that they’ll complain about for two days straight.
Like I have tried every single skincare routine and diet on the planet, have been on accutane, birthcontrol and antibiotics but they‘ll be like „You should put toothpaste on your pimples to dry them out“.
Anyways, thank you so much Hyram. Acne is controlling my life and I’m trying so hard not to give a shit about what people think about it anymore. Seeing you and other creators trying to normalize it helps a lot.
*Letting go or not giving a shit does not mean stop caring. It means you should stop trying to force others to.* And if they still bother you, just carry a fork. When they start talking shit again even if it ain't about your acne say *"thank you Lord for this meal I'm about to have"* then charge at them. They may think your crazy but at least they'll stay away after that.
Im not trying to take away from ur point cuz like, no one should comment on ppls appearances like that, and im not trying to discredit your experience or b mean in any way... But if someone who has only one or two pimples is giving u acne advice, maybe that means it's good advice?
@@Mualskii I'm sure what they meant was that not alot of people understand the real meaning behind having bad acne when the other person just has small once a month breakout. It's can be offensive when someone looks at you and says "You know what would help with that acne-" and give advice when it's so obvious that they don't understand.
Basically, when someone isn't asking for advice then they shouldn't and should try to refrain from giving their opinions/advice.
I'm not saying it's completely rude or out of line to give someone advice. It may be good advice but it's most of the time something that the person already tried many different times and many different ways.
True. I can relate to this on a personal level, and I'm sure a lot of people do too.
One teacher on my school once told me:
“Your acne is caused by satan. Pray to God and get close to him, and it'll go away.”
Miss, excuse me what the fuck. I am *very* offended right here. So you're telling me that I'm not taking care of my skin? Bitch you have no idea how much effort I put into my skin's current state.
Also there's zero relation between skin problems and get close to God!
Sooo frustrating! I'm just a teenager and my acne is hormonal, leave me alone!
Lol, no if you only deal with one or two pimples I can guarantee you the advice you'd give to someone like me with extremely oily, Sensitive!, acne-prone skin due to hormones is the MOST USELESS THING I HAVE EVER EXPERIENCED. Mind you, if it comes from a place of love, I always openly listen. But most of humanity seems to be terrible at giving advice.... "You look awful, you should wash your face!"
Everyone's skin is different and all we can do is learn what the different products do to OUR particular skin and improve our skincare routine. I have an 8 step routine before bedtime and 6 steps for the AM. Mixed with periodic retinol, facials, and AHA mask. And I sometimes will still get a couple of pimples. If I don't wash my face ONCE, it punishes me lol. And, alternatively, I have friends with super dry skin that could shower once per week and their skin would not care lol. So i don't feel qualified to give them advice and I always take their advice with a grain of salt.
I’ve struggled with pimples and acne since I was about 11. I’m now 17 and my skin is still very red and usually covered in acne. I used to hate it, sometimes I still do, but your videos actually helped me to love my skin a lot more. I no longer spend hours trying to scrub away my acne. I’ve had people say horrible things to me as if it wasn’t normal, but it is. Your videos helped me understand that I need to take care of my skin and treat it well no matter whether I have acne or not. And that over stripping, over exfoliating or popping pimples won’t make it go away, and it’ll probably just make it worse in the long run anyway. I’m definitely only just starting to accept my skin the way it is, but you have 100% helped me to do that. Thank you.
I wish I had Hyram when I was your age!!! Take care of your skin lovely ❤️ you’re on the best track you can be on
I’m old.
But this video brought back memories of my acne teenage days and the insecurities and shame that come with it. I’ll never get why people would be so mean.
"Why be mean when you can be nice" should be everyone's daily mantra. I, like you, think the best of every one. It is very sad to see how awful people can be and it's hard to not let it affect my own mental health. You have a beautiful soul and the world is lucky to have someone like you in it. Please keep making videos! You help people more than you know. :)
I dont understand how people can be so terrible. It took me a while to realize that when people say negative things to me, the issue is with them and not me. If anyone says something mean, i just reply with “how can you say something like that” or “why would you say that” and you can see the embarrassment in their eyes.
it's sad, what has society become. we always have high expectations for not just other people's skin but other things as well such as singing, dancing, acting, etc. but if you are being hated on, just know that most of the times, its their problem, and not yours. You are a special person that is loved by friends and family. Ignore the haters.
I had a guy address me as "oh! That girl with lot of pimples " back in college .
I never felt this broken ever. My mom took me to dermat afterwards because I was crying uncontrollably that day
What a rude ass guy, that's not a way to adress anyone. I'm sorry you had to go through that ❤️
Someone did that to me and I thought they were my friend at the time. It makes you feel like the only thing anyone will ever see about me is my acne. But im slowly learning that its never something to be ashamed of. And I hope that you know you are not defined by your acne and it doesn't make you any less beautiful!!
@@capitalspork
More power to you. I am too learning to accept my flaws . Much love and hugs to you ❤️❤️
@@Tiffany-ov2jf
Thankyou for your kind words . It is only people like you who make this world a bit kind to live in ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hyram is such a pure soul ❤️
I remember watching this a while ago and sobbing. I went through so many changes in life that I took it out on my skin. I haven't picked it in a while but I still struggle. It's ok to have ache. You are all beautiful!!
To everybody who will read this:
You are beautiful.
You are loved.
You are important.
You are worthy.
Dont let anyone tell you differently.
Thank you ! And so are youu !❤️❤️
You Too Sweet Soul! ❤️
Thank you, its comments like this that could turn somebody day around for the better. Thank you for being that beautiful soul.
Ever since I got ance, everyone asks me, “ew what is that?” or, “you have a pimple”. like i know, please don’t make me more insecure :(
Same, I’ve always had clear skin, now I’m dealing with maskne and everybody is like “oh what happened” and I want to hide back inside my mask, like please stop pointing that out I feel bad enough on my own 🙃
Some people feel the need to have to point out that you have acne and saying “do you wash your face it looks so dirty” like ah i wash my face but like WHY do they have to point it out i know i have acne it make me So insecure.
Don’t just eat healthy but exercise too! Stay hydrated
Midnight Kpop you’re literally one of the people they’re talking about
I’m 100% percent sure you are beautiful with and without acne. It doesn’t define you and it’s totally normal and there is nothing wrong with it!!
I know it’s hard but try and ignore those people, just remember you are gorgeous as you are 💕
When he said "the sweetest person will still get hate comments" I immedietly thought of poor mollie may after love island
Bailey sarian definitely, she’s always so honest about her skin difficulties and I love her
Imagine being one of the reasons somebody hates themselves without feeling any guilt or remorse for their actions.
im shooketh yoooo 🤙🏾
im shooketh hello hello
Sad when I can relate so hard to this
I can’t believe people have the nerve to say things like that… It literally kills me
literally lol
Ikr
Same
ikr like how can someone type out mean things like that?
I heard pretty much all of this in middle school and high school. It is truly awful. Thankfully as an adult I discovered Accutane which is the only thing that worked.
That film was very inspirational. People are so rude and disrespectful sometimes
the self-awareness in this video is ASTRONOMICAL. thank you hyram, I reallyreally appreciate you!!!!!
Acne is not disgusting, having acne doesn't make you look disgusting. You can be beautiful and have acne. Beauty and disgusting are not opposites. Your value and importance does not rely on beauty.
"Have you ever try washing face with xyz soap?"
"You should cut on xyz"
"Oh my god, what happened to your face? You look so bad!"
"Just drink more water"
"I saw one aesthetician acne treatment on TV. You should try, it's only 500 $!"
You know what? The best treatment for my acne would be just a duct tape for those 'advisors'.
Preach it
Yess
YAAAAAAASS
LMFAO PREACH
Thanks for posting this Hyram. I'd somehow never seen it before. My acne was awful until I finally went on isotretinoin (or accutane) at age 28. It's amazing how little people understand about it, how they think it's to do with the products you use (I tried all of them over the course of 11 years I think! Topical products never did it, they just didn't) or what you are eating (I also tried every diet around, cutting dairy, cutting alcohol, cutting gluten, eating only organic, you name it) or something as silly as not changing your pillowcase or touching your face. Anyone suffering from acne for long enough has tried everything. They don't want advice from you, but something that they DO need to hear, is how beautiful they are. I never heard anyone say 'your skin looks great' until after my isotretinoin treatment. It did feel good to finally hear it, to hear that I was beautiful. But I have seen so many people with acne that I have thought looked beautiful too! It's true, she is really really gorgeous, and her message is exactly what anyone suffering from acne needs to hear. You're beautiful.
And yes, I teared up too!
I remember when this video came out when I was younger. I was the only one in middle school with acne and she gave me so much hope. Love this. ❤️
Please don’t say that you hate yourself. It breaks my heart when you say that. I am an over 40 woman who watches your channel and I do not have acne or oily skin but your reviews on products have helped me more than once. You are wonderful at what you do and seem like such a compassionate and kind person. Thanks for everything you do 🙂 Much love to you!
I want a shirt that says "slapping is for the bedroom not your skincare". I love the designs though and they look super comfy.
honestly thank you for this video. I’ve been struggling with acne recently and it really gets to me. When I look in the mirror I cry because I feel so awful and gross about myself. So thank you for this video it really helped me to understand that acne is a normal thing.
Everyone in the comments being so supportive, I don't know you guys but i love you all. And I love you hyram!!! ❤💜
I just tell people who say “false advertisement” that they are really dumb if they think I was born with purple lids and red lips with highlighter that shows in outer space. Like of course I don’t look like that naturally.
I hope it is the most vibrant purple you can find :). Also, if you love makeup, just keep wearing it. It's great to feel beautiful with and without makeup!
Yeah!! Also we were born with a random face in a random body so how is that good, and the way we personalize our clothing, hair and face bad? Should your canvas stay blank? Or just paint it with nice colours and call it a painting? :D And if your canvas has spots, well then you can cover them! It’s a good solution for some people, especially if your skin care doesn’t do enough for you.
@@babykrul This a the same reason I give ppl who hate my tattoo. It's not in a very visible place, but whenever someone sees my (admittably) bright red tattoo, I say that I see my skin as a canvas. This is how I choose to decorate my body and ppl who don't like the look of it can go and look somewhere else lol.
Lol 👍💕✨
Lmao, seriously. I barely wear make-up at the moment, but it's beautiful when people do. Is it a false advertisement to go out wearing a hot pink dress or blue t-shirt, because that is exactly the same thing. No-one thinks that the purple jeans you're wearing are what your legs actually look like, so I don't know why purple eyelids or lips are suddenly a false ad.
"ur forehead looks like a dot to dot" "ur dirty" "why dont u wash ur face?" all things that have been said to me people can be horrid but dont let them bring u down u are beautiful the way u are and u dont need to change for anyone.
Your beautiful thanks for sharing! :)
OH MY GOD YES and when you see people looking at your forehead instead of your eyes.. like... I see that just look at my eyes 😑😑
People say to me “what happened to your face?”
@C h e l s e a !
I hate when ppl point that stuff out like u don’t already know!
New subscriber here! I felt that. As a person that suffers from the occasional breakouts, those statements hurt. I had acne when I was in high school from 06-10 and one year of college in 2011. I’ve been having a breakout since January and I’m learning ingredients thanks to Cassandra. I wish this community existed back then when I was in high school.
Thank you so much Hyram for using your platform to bring attention to this amazing woman. She has been through so much in the past few years behind the scenes, and she still chooses to support others, even through her own struggles.
Em, (MyPaleSkin) in the 1% chance that you will ever see this, thank you for giving me the confidence to rise above the criticism of others when I was going through some pretty bad bullying at my old school. I will be forever grateful for what you have given me. Sending love to you always and forever❤️
People say it’s “misleading” when they wear makeup. Tf do you think they have glittery eyelids and winged eyeliner naturally? But if they wear makeup they can and if they don’t want to they don’t have to they are beautiful either way :) (edit: a lot of people actually have a really good skincare routine, but their acne just doesn’t go away but that doesn’t mean they aren’t clean/hygienic :) )
"I already hate myself so...", that comment broke my heart. Hugs love
I can really relate to this... people often do not realise how effective comments like these are, whether it is on social media or in real life. I'm struggling with really bad acne too and don't even want to go to school without make up on anymore. I remember comments like: "You look sick." "Take care of your skin!" and " How can you even leave the house like that?!" It really can make you sooo unconfident and hating yourself.
But, to every person out there that is struggling with acne, body weight or other issues, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL! All of this is normal and you will get over it!
Late to the video, but Em was the first person I identified with. She got me into makeup and brought back my confidence while still telling me that I was not alone (my skin could not relate to other beauty youtubers at the time so I really appreciated her). I got a shit ton of unsolicited comments in middle school/my family in regards to my skin and I would drape my hair in front of my face so people couldn't see the huge and plentiful cystic pimples I had. I even developed BDD in regards to my face. I do feel better (about a good 50% better - I try my best) about myself and my skin has improved (I'd really like to thank research and birth control for helping my hormones that contributed to my cysts). I don't think that could have happened without Em and this video. So happy she is back!
5:59 why that makeup wipe didn't trigger him😂
I just wanted to settle the mood of people don't come at me❤
rafey354 mini mentos I know I was waiting for that😂 but I understand why he didn’t say it
And the time stamp is 5:59
@@ashby1001 he he thanks I edited it
I just love Hyram. I truly can’t imagine why he doesn’t love himself, as he is such a kind, smart, and caring person. I love how he didn’t hold back, and decided to react to this video. The internet needs more people like Hyram. Ps- Hyram if you see this, I’m OBSESSED with your new merch. Congrats!! I plan on ordering a phone case very soon💕💕
Hyram you are an old soul *pressed send too soon* thank you for your compassion. It’s contagious
“Do you wash your face?” Always gets to me, it hits deep and brings back memories to Middle/Elementary school. I remember I used to cry for having so much acne especially at such a young age like 8 or 9, and kids my age weren’t even getting a single breakout. One time during recess I remember this one boy said “look at her face that’s so gross, don’t have that” to like other kids and I was just like “um.....” like that really hurt me. But you know i never went for perfect skin, rather getting to a point where I felt comfortable. My acne has really now improved, so so much especially with watching your videos. So thank you 🥺
I still can’t get over how he sits on his knees 😭
Kerriann Herlihy he does????
Jojo yes. It was in his living in Hawaii video I’m pretty sure
Kerriann Herlihy yes! On his Hawai vlog he mentions how he films kneeling down 🥺
Yes lol and you can tell that he does in his older videos :)
Bro I cannot how is he not in pain ☠️
As a girl who doesn’t typically wear makeup for a lot of reasons, I have a lot of internalized misogyny to battle about feeling like I’m better somehow because of it. I admire pretty makeup, but I don’t always understand why people feel like they have to wear makeup cuz I don’t feel that. I don’t always have a good first thought, but I’m working everyday to undo that and have a kind second thought and never comment on someone’s appearance unless they’ve asked and to be kind always.
I love your honesty and I'm sending you lots of 💜 We all have both the darkness and the light in us and pretending it doesn't exist only delays our personal development. I'm old (probably to you as I'm 38) and there are so many people my age who aren't able to be this honest with themselves yet. 👍
Most girls wear make up cause they enjoy it. They think it is fun and likes how it makes them look. They don’t feel the need to or feel they look bad with out it.
i struggle with this too!!
Wow this actually made me cry🥺❤️❤️
I completely stand for everything Hyram said. So many people can be mean and evil on the internet for no reason. It makes no sense because all it does is mentally hurt the person they target. It’s ridiculous. This girl is beautiful and doesn’t deserve any hate. Hyram is the nicest person who cares so much.
That "has she ever washed her face" is just killing me
I used to have bad acne and my friends told me "are you washing your face?" and those shts made my confidence fall down
Those type of comments drive me up a wall 🙃
Why didn't you throw your friends away
tbh, my friend just look at me and make a disgusted face, when i ask whats wrong she said it was nothing. tbh if she doesn't really meant it, it still kinda broke my heart a little lmao
@Soniya Kabdwal tf? are you okay now tho?
Same 😭
imperfections makes you perfect
PERIODT
Idk if i hate or love your name and picture lmao
BRUH YOUR PFP😂😂😂 !
LMAO
go off hon
ur pfp makes me very uncomfortable
I have had the worst adult acne the past few weeks, and it’s definitteellyyyyy been effecting my self esteem. You posting this video is such a blessing to me, thank you so much 🥰
i love your soul. your words scream volumes of your character and your heart. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
"Why be mean when you can be nice?" This is such an important problematic you put out there, thank you so much ! I was bullied all my school life since kindergarden for like anything: my curly hair, my glasses, my weight, my clothes... I wasn't a bad person, I didn't do anything to be treated like this, but people liked to be mean towards me, or making fun of me. Due to this I never had self estime and always felt that I was the problem, that I had to change to be loved by my classmates. But I realise after that it wasn't my fault. Sadly certain people like to be mean towards other for no reason, and it needs to change.
I hope my english isn't to bad, love from France!
I hope you have a lovely day and you have recovered and showed those who have hurt you who is boss
@@cutecupoftea7736 thank you so much for your lovely comment!!
You didn’t deserve that at all :( I hope you’re surrounded by better people now who value you.
Wow. I’ve been insecure about something or another since I was 8 or so, and I was never even been bullied. I can’t imagine what that was like for you. Your strength is beautiful.
Side note: Your English was great. 😊
@@kendrahaman3839 Thank you for the compliment ! And I'm glad you haven't experienced bullying.
The people that clicked thumbs down just had tears in there eyes because Hyram is so sweet and seeing him upset hurts their heart 💔
I love this video and the message it's sending. I've struggled with acne my whole life. I'm in my early 30s and I feel like I'm only just now getting to a place where I feel comfortable even leaving the house with less than a full face of makeup. This pandemic has sucked in a multitude of ways, but it's given me more time to come up with a real skin care routine and also to spend more time seeing myself without makeup and without the constant pressure to look "presentable"
I want to say thank you for your content and your message and the signal boosting you give to other creators that build people up instead of tearing us down. You're a lovely human being.
This video I saw when I had huge problem with acne. And she helped me so much. She encouraged me. I am glad you posted this video. ❤
“Why be mean when you can be nice?”
D - m o n e y ALDC true
This- just this- is so mean. I remember being told when I'd just hv ONE pimple being told from my friends "you hv a pimple right there, and there, and ur forehead" or " hv u ever used proactive" or " try a facemask" or "just POP THE PIMPLE" I'm like "you don't think I've tried any of those?!" So I grew up wanting clear skin but then I realized, no skin can rlly be perfect. Having "perfect" skin wld be impossible to get and even more harder to maintain. Acne is normal, it's great if u want to help with acne to feel more confident but NEVER to meet someone else's praise. "we all need to learn to love ourselves without the approval of others"-Melanie Martinez
I get one pimple and my cousins tease me. They want to poke it, touch it and what not!
Exactly! The worst is even people close to you can sometimes comment things like this, not even intentionally but the thing is it’s become normal to see things like acne as something bad when it really isn’t
You're way to sensitive.
@@pinkimietz3243 excuse me? many people struggle with acne everyday and i can tell you from experience that its so hard to deal with it. And who gave you the fucking right to call someone sensitive when theyre struggling with something so difficult?
Pinki Mietz um no. Just stop. r u trying to say that u wouldn’t feel hurt if any of your close friends or family members pointed out things that you feel insecure about? It’s not a good feeling. So pls don’t call someone sensitive.
This make me cry too. It is so powerful. Everyone is different and everyone is beautiful. I have such sensitive skin, and I struggle with Psoriasis, when I would have a flare up, I would get so many horrible comments like that, as my worst areas are my face and scalp xxxx
negativity makes me sick. not only with acne but on the internet in general. i've been struggling with both problems and i really needed this video. i tried many products who only made it worse because what matter nowadays is money. now i can only afford a cleanser that u recommended and i feel bad for not using anything, it makes me feel dreadful because i cant do anything else about it. but there are more important things than my face. ur the "influencer" i admire the most. thank you hyram.