I feel like as soon as Saidee said her decision she felt there was a huge weight lifted off her shoulders! Saidee your mum is so supportive in whatever your decision you made, you don’t need to worry about disappointing her, she loves you as long as your happy she’s good. Love the hair new lease on life will make all the difference. Congratulations on your decision and wishing you the best of luck 😘
i genuinely watch this channel because of the nurturing aspect of tiffany as a mother. i didn’t grow up with a super charismatic mom so seeing it in every video from her makes me feel hopeful for my future as a potential parent. appreciate your words and encouragement ❤️
I know this is comment is old, but same I didn’t grow up like them, even tho I still love my family, sometimes it was so hard. I also hope for my future kids😊
She looks great with the bangs! Love how she's finding her own style and trying new things. I hope being back at public school turns out amazing for her. Good luck, Saidee!
At 26, seeing the previous video and an update on Saidee’s decision has healed part of my inner child. I think I grew up not very confident in my own decisions because my mom was definitely a fixer instead of just a listener, and I’m always grateful for everything she’s done, but as an adult I’ve had to learn to be confident in my own decisions in some tough ways. I’m still learning every day. I hope everything works out in public school (I know I’m sort of late since this was last year 😂) and I hope this moment in Saidee’s life gives her the confidence to trust her decisions and her feelings.
What a wonderful mom!! Letting her make her own decisions!! That is so so so awesome of you! You were so supportive! And I’m so happy for Sadie and I love her bangs they suit her so well! Good luck Sadie I’m sure you’ll do great!!
You did a perfect job in answering her and letting her be in control of her story. However, there seems to be some underlying anxiety/ OCD?/ control? issues that are making her internal world miscible. I think a very honest conversation about what her internal world is really like would help. Those kind of issues can cause someone to use substances to help control their internal battles. I really think she needs therapy to teach her how to cope with the things happening. Perhaps checking her hormone levels wouldn't hurt either. She is very close to tears a lot. I know the public school might seem to be what she needs but the place won't matter if she doesn't have the skills to just be at peace internally.
Your “everyone is writing their own story” is one of the greatest explanations I’ve heard; what a beautiful moment, thank you for sharing! God bless to both of you and enjoy your chapters!
Wow! Tiffany is always so calm and kind when she has a talk with her kids. I’m inspired by that. Saidees choices are her choices, this is heart melting.
I really hope that SaiDee will found out who she really is. I'm supportive in her decisions, and hope that being at public school helps her in any way. I really love this family because their mother is so supportive of every child and is always there for them. My parents are always working so I have to watch my siblings most of the time. We don't have a lot of money, so we can't get the bigger house, or the lives we have always wanted. I really enjoy seeing people that don't have to deal with this kind of stuff. They should always be grateful that they get to experience life better than most people ever could. Especially with such a big family. My parents have a hard time with only 5 kids, but 16! My parents couldn't ever imagine 😭
@@NotEnoughNelsons Thank you so much. I try to keep up with your videos but I have a lot of school and things to catch up on, so i'm trying. I love you and your family so much.
Something my mom told me since I was a little girl probably starting at like 5 or 6 was that there are mean people in this world and unfortunately you can’t change that. I was bullied relentlessly as a kid for being “overweight” even though none of my doctors were ever worried about my weight. It is such a painful thing to deal with and can make us think badly about ourselves and our bodies. My mom always said “There will be people who bully you and there is nothing you can do or say to make them stop. But you have the power over your own mind. Don’t let mean kids affect who you are. Because at the end of the day you have to live with yourself everyday and not the other kids.” This has stuck with me for my 26 years of life. I’ve stopped caring how others view me because at the end of the day I’m the only person who has to spend 100% of the time with myself. Hope things got better for Saidee! She is going to do big things one day!
Sadie I was the same when I was deciding whether to move schools last year. I am super indecisive and I always doubt my decisions but I went with my gut and I think it was the best decision for me. you will never truly know what the best decision will be but you have to trust yourself and make what ever decision you make with confidence.
Loving the bangs! I also love the metaphor for the way that everyone writes their own story and not wanting to hate a chapter because you feel like someone else wrote it.
I felt so relieved for her when you said what she needed to hear, the way she needed to hear it. Letting go of the fear of making a mistake or the wrong choice.
This might be my favourite video of all! Watching Saidee articulate her feelings and work through what virtually all teenage girls think and feel was very brave. I love the analogy of writing chapters and not tearing out the pages of the rough parts so that you can learn from them for later chapters. The bangs?! Amazing! They frame her face beautifully!
SaiDee looks so grown up with her hair like that she looks stunning 😍😍 Also I think she made a great decision and I like Tiffany’s words about how parents can scribble in the kids book. I hope SaiDee likes her clothes and choice!! Sending our love 💖
I was tearing up listening to you talk about looking back at the story you have written and knowing why chapters are there. I feel like I could see a glimpse into SaiDee’s future being able to look back at that moment and how amazing her mom was. Seriously, you are amazing. Thank you for this. And thank you SaiDee for being willing to share, I know this was a tough experience. I hope I can take this page from your book and try to be better about how I communicate with my kids. Especially as they get older. Would love to see more about how you connect with your kids and develop the kind of relationships where they can talk to you ❤️
SaiDee I’ve been praying for you . You are beautifully and wonderfully made by the Lord He will continue to walk with you .Love to all the Nelson family
Thank you Tiffany for healing this part of my inner child. As a mom now, although i have many years before my baby is a teenager, thank you for giving me such amazing tools for the future ❤
She is a people pleaser. It's a hard road to travel. She will find herself with time and find what an amazing, beautiful person she is. Much love my girl, im so proud of you!!!!
She looks so relieved and content with her decision! So happy to see her happy! And always remember there’s another option if you don’t end up liking public school again. That always makes me feel better knowing I’m not stuck with a decision if I’m unhappy with it 😊
We are here for you SaiDee! I love how your mom lets YOU choose what is best for you. When people bully you all you do is just smile and nod and not say a word. It works every time no matter who it is. Stay a strong young women! :)
I'm not done with the video but I just wanted to say that watching this videos about this situations has been like therapy to me. It's been so healing to listen to these open conversations.
Those bangs are absolutely GORGEOUS GIRL!! Bangs really round off a girl and frame the face beautifully. Sometimes a new look can really freshen up those perspectives and can give you motivation to do better or have a mega glow up or even something simple like cleaming out your wardrobe 😂 But on a more serious note, I found this video and I think that Tiffany is such a great mother and she lets her children know that she is okay with whatever they choose and lets them know that it is their life and she is just here to help them with whatever path they choose. ❤ 🤍 💙
I know this video is really old but I praise you for handling it so well! I haven’t heard the best about Not Enough Nelsons but I’m kinda addicted to family channels so wanted to give it a chance - and honestly, I’ve binged hours worth of videos and I don’t see what the problem is. Sure, you may be a strict religious family, but I think that the way you raise your kids will shape them into stand-up, comfortable characters. Again, I know this video is old, but I don’t think that pulling her away from the bullies was the fix to the situation. All that does is teach her to run from her problems. She has to stand her ground, and fix herself from within. What you could’ve done is have a talk with these girls’ parents (because it’s a possibility that THEY don’t know how their kids are treating other people, and hopefully they would sit down with them and teach them the damage of words). But that doesn’t heal SaiDee - so from there, you need to help her build herself back up. Therapy is an option if she absolutely needs it, or YOU can help her raise her confidence (**EDIT: I wasn’t finished with the second half of this video when I started writing this, but now that I’m watching it I see that you’re already helping her with this and teaching her that everyone’s taste is different so she shouldn’t change herself to satisfy one group of people, because then there will be other people that don’t like it and it will be an endless loop. GREAT PARENTING! I’m definitely going to take these lessons with me for my future children). It sounded like these girls were body shaming her? So maybe teach her that these girls may have taken it out on her because they have these misconceptions of unrealistic beauty standards (thanks to our society) and maybe they don’t feel all that confident in THEMSELVES? So they decided to take it out on SaiDee, which is never okay, but just like you try to do yourself - teach SaiDee to step out of her own shoes. (**another edit because you also touched on this a little bit but definitely think you should emphasize this more if you don’t already!) Overall, I watched all 3 parts to this and I’m proud of how it was handled and I’m proud of SaiDee for being able to recognize her internal issues and speak out on it. I’m going to check out the more recent videos after this one, but I hope that she’s feeling more comfortable and happy with herself. ❤️
So glad SaiDee has come to a decision on her own with the support of her loving family. I hope in time. She will come to realize that she hasn’t screwed up anything and will become more comfortable in herself and her decisions. It’s easy to see she is a smart girl with a sweet soul. She has such a beautiful smile and I hope she keeps showing it.
Tiffany is always there for her kids and I love that . She is also always teaching her kids very important lessons. She is such an amazing mom. Good luck and have fun Sadie
i was so relieved to see a Mom really listen and not insert themselves all over what a child really wants. That is what leads to depression and self harm. The greatest part was when she said she could change her mind. That is so important. Well done!
Leave the old times behind and bring the new memories up because that’s all that matter ❤️❤️good luck and were here for u and got bangs looks so pretyy
What a great beginning to a new chapter!!!! I think God has a plan for everyone and I’m so glad Saidee and mom determined the path that would be next. I know how hard it is trying not to disappoint your parents but it sounds like if you talk it out and communicate, things will work out. What matters is the amazing support you feel for each other. I’m so happy for Saidee! I can’t wait to hear how public school goes for her. I had the same chapter as Saidee and had to switch schools and it was the best choice ever. Thanks for this update. Love the bangs!!!!
Tiffany you need to be a counselor. You give so much great advice, not only to your kids but me!! Saidee you look amazing with bangs. It matched your personality and style! Have fun at public school!!!!😀
Saidee remember, you're not an adult yet and screwing up is part of the process! It sucks, but everyone does it whether you see it or not! I went to college and had no idea what I wanted to do, I took 4 years to get a 2 year degree! I felt the same way, but I had to remind myself that no matter how slow I was, I still kept going and THAT is what matters. Love ya
Best wishes in public school Saidee! Being a teen is hard, being a teen girl is really hard. Just remember that no matter what, let your inner beauty shine through.
I have made many bad mistakes in my life, but I don’t regret them. Because is learned from my mistakes, and it taught me many lessons. It makes you, you.
I’m from South Africa. Almost all schools here, public and private have uniforms that I know of. I find it so interesting that only the private schools require uniforms in the states. We have a few schools that let you where whatever you want or have more relaxed uniforms (like just a collared shirt and jeans). Hope Saidee is happy in her new school. I for sure know that schools can really make you feel unmotivated or depressed if you aren’t in the right learning environment. I believe this is a good decision for you. Also just want to say to Tiffany, it’s lovely to see such an understanding mom that allows her children to write their own chapters in their book of life. This is not something you see all the time, but you really parent your children well.
I’m watching this so late (doing some binge watching backwards ❤️) but SaiDee is so articulate with her feelings. Even in the other videos on this topic, she does so well with explaining her feelings even though you can tell it’s hard for her. I’m 24 almost 25 and I can’t even do that as well as SaiDee. Super proud and incredible mom to back up a healthy way of expressing your emotions ❤️
Hey nen fam!! I have two questions, when are we gonna see preslee’s haircut, in the haircut video u said she would get something different and you would film it at some point, are you still doing that? Also when are we gonna see the new intro because I’m sooooo excited because you guys do such a good job with them!! I love all the videos you guys make, your my favorite channel!!
Saidee looks amazing and I absolutely ❤️ how her bangs frame her face. Have an awesome time in Public School and remember it’s your opinion of you that matters most. Own your choices and rock them with confidence.
Tiffany I have to commend you for how you handled such a hard conversation with SaiDee! The analogy of chapters was so perfect. I hope this next chapter for SaiDee is better than the last - but if it’s not, the good news is her book is not finished, and has plenty of more chapters to write 💕
Saidee!!! I LOVE THE BANGS ❤❤ I'm a bangs girl from way back -- love, love bangs. They just give a girl that finished look, and you sweet girl look amazing! I'm just seeing this video so you would be in Public School for a few weeks now, and I hope all is going well. Honey, trust me....those mean girls you dealt with end of last school year, are big old Zero's. (And I know how mean that sounds) They have not been hugged enough at home by their parents and pick on others to make themselves feel better. Please dont let them have power over you, by making you act and make poor decisions that will affect you. YOU are Beautiful, Smart and a kind Young Woman...just be you. Middle school IS hard, find something that let's you be you and the rest can go pound salt. Being you and doing things that make you happy will show all over your face and make others want to be around you.....and all of a sudden you will notice the Mean Girls have become something that cant affect you. Make smart decisions, not because you're afraid of messing up (because we all do that) but because in your heart and Gutt you know what is the right thing to do. AND if you're unsure, shoot....excuse yourself from the conversation call your Mom, or Kenn or Kass or heck Jainee - you dear girl have wonderfully strong role Models to help you and guide you when You're unsure of yourself. I had a Bully in the middle years, and you know what - after I found my own strength and didnt let her have any power over me - she seemed to fade into oblivion.....She resurfaced in HighSchool a little, but guess what? She wanted to be my Friend because I found me and was confident in all I'd done and who I was as a young woman. It's amazing how once you find your confidence, you'll find friends that are like thinkers and who want to be around you. A Bully is a Bully because they are Terrified inside that people will see their flaws, faults and shortcomings. Start your own little club.....even if it's only a casual one with just a few friends. There is strength in numbers and even just that one Bestie, where you have each other's back, can make all the difference in the world. Be well sweet girl, and just be you....mean girls be damned. And if all else fails, try and grab a little footage on your phone of what's happening....Bully's, when confronted with truth and Evidence, back down, get expelled and end up loosing respect and friends. Do be fearful, BE FEARLESS! ❤❤
What people says, thinks or the "Labels" doesn't matter unless you believe it's true. Know your worth! YOU ARE AN AWESOME PERSON, What matters is what we see ourselves and how God sees us. That's what we have to believe. AND..... YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD. YOU HAVE A GREAT FAMILY. YOU HAVE A LOT OF SIBLINGS/BFF FOR LIFE. I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT! Believe in yourself. Whatever school you choose. Always remember, YOU ARE WORTHY, YOU ARE ABLE and YOU ARE BLESSED!!! I hope this helped. I know some people who also struggled with this kind of issues and I also struggled back then but I realized that nothing and no one could ever help us with what we're going through if we don't help ourselves. So let's start believing and keep in mind that WE ARE A CHILD OF GOD! 🥰🥰🥰
This video makes me tear up, to see a mother support their children no matter what, to be able to have these conversations with a teenager and be honest, be supportive, be caring, be able to let them walk their own walk and write their own story, Tiffany, you are doing incredible things! ❤
I think Sadie will look awesome with bangs. And yes I have heard that book my teacher actually read that whole entire thing to my class and it really changed the way everybody thought and I stand by that book today.😍
The love Tiffany has in her eyes as she's listening to SaiDee talk warms my heart. I love how loving you are with all of your kids. I would love to have someone look at me like that when I am talking.
SaiDee. You are so beautiful. Being a teenager is so so hard sometimes. I barely feel like I survived. Good job making a hard decision.You CAN do hard things and you are braver and stronger for it.Your bangs look AMAZING!!!I LOVE IT SO SO MUCH!!
I’m currently in public school, I fell pretty much the same as Saidee in private. I got bullied multiple times, teachers helped me as much as the could but the girl is still at me. I fell like I’m not myself in school bc all the parents had to vote if we should have uniforms or not, and they choose uniforms. I don’t like the uniform it’s all dull. Good luck Saidee!
Everything happens for a reason saidee. One door opens another one closes. I love your bangs makes your facial features pop out. 😍 I would be your friend
SaiDee I LOVE your bangs/fringe it really suits you. You’re a brave young lady and I wanted to wish you all the best after your decision. I had a feeling you were going to choose public school and you looked so relieved when you finally said it. Good luck girl you got this x love from England 🏴
She looks amazing with the bangs I love them on her❤️ and I think she will love public school!! School will be better because Jesus will walk right beside you Saidee!
Sadie is seriously worth it she’s the best person I swear I don’t know why people are so rude they need everyone to always to be nice no bullies seriously
I feel like as soon as Saidee said her decision she felt there was a huge weight lifted off her shoulders! Saidee your mum is so supportive in whatever your decision you made, you don’t need to worry about disappointing her, she loves you as long as your happy she’s good. Love the hair new lease on life will make all the difference. Congratulations on your decision and wishing you the best of luck 😘
Why u spell mum like that
It's mom
@@syniahthomas977 not in England, we spell it with a U.
@@bry261994 Same with Australia 🇦🇺
@@bry261994 same in Australia
i genuinely watch this channel because of the nurturing aspect of tiffany as a mother. i didn’t grow up with a super charismatic mom so seeing it in every video from her makes me feel hopeful for my future as a potential parent. appreciate your words and encouragement ❤️
Right? She so caring those kiddos are so lucky.
I know this is comment is old, but same I didn’t grow up like them, even tho I still love my family, sometimes it was so hard. I also hope for my future kids😊
Omg SAME
Yeah, they are really lucky to have a mom like Tiffany.
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She looks great with the bangs! Love how she's finding her own style and trying new things. I hope being back at public school turns out amazing for her. Good luck, Saidee!
The only thing about this comment is i just started the video 😩
@@leighabressman5851 same they spoiled it :(
@@ZJSK1TTY i just wish i didn’t look down
Bro you spoiled the video if your the top comment don’t spoil it
I love how the whole family is supportive of every single person in the family and loves them for what they have
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i agree because i think they all support because most of them are adopted and don’t want to upset the other
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At 26, seeing the previous video and an update on Saidee’s decision has healed part of my inner child. I think I grew up not very confident in my own decisions because my mom was definitely a fixer instead of just a listener, and I’m always grateful for everything she’s done, but as an adult I’ve had to learn to be confident in my own decisions in some tough ways. I’m still learning every day. I hope everything works out in public school (I know I’m sort of late since this was last year 😂) and I hope this moment in Saidee’s life gives her the confidence to trust her decisions and her feelings.
What a wonderful mom!! Letting her make her own decisions!! That is so so so awesome of you! You were so supportive! And I’m so happy for Sadie and I love her bangs they suit her so well! Good luck Sadie I’m sure you’ll do great!!
You did a perfect job in answering her and letting her be in control of her story. However, there seems to be some underlying anxiety/ OCD?/ control? issues that are making her internal world miscible. I think a very honest conversation about what her internal world is really like would help. Those kind of issues can cause someone to use substances to help control their internal battles. I really think she needs therapy to teach her how to cope with the things happening. Perhaps checking her hormone levels wouldn't hurt either. She is very close to tears a lot. I know the public school might seem to be what she needs but the place won't matter if she doesn't have the skills to just be at peace internally.
Your “everyone is writing their own story” is one of the greatest explanations I’ve heard; what a beautiful moment, thank you for sharing! God bless to both of you and enjoy your chapters!
Wow! Tiffany is always so calm and kind when she has a talk with her kids. I’m inspired by that. Saidees choices are her choices, this is heart melting.
Thanks so much!
I thank it would be good for her
The way mom respond to things is remarkable! Being a mom, I’m learning to have patience like her
Tiffany is such a wonderful mom!!❤🎉
Sadie is so beautiful it is so amazing how Tiffany takes care of all of her children
She looks so much happier now that she going to public school and her bangs look awesome. She looks like a model now.
I really hope that SaiDee will found out who she really is. I'm supportive in her decisions, and hope that being at public school helps her in any way. I really love this family because their mother is so supportive of every child and is always there for them. My parents are always working so I have to watch my siblings most of the time. We don't have a lot of money, so we can't get the bigger house, or the lives we have always wanted. I really enjoy seeing people that don't have to deal with this kind of stuff. They should always be grateful that they get to experience life better than most people ever could. Especially with such a big family. My parents have a hard time with only 5 kids, but 16! My parents couldn't ever imagine 😭
Love you Kater_ade. It sounds like you are an amazing sister to your siblings and a great help to your parents. Thanks so much for watching!
@@NotEnoughNelsons Thank you so much. I try to keep up with your videos but I have a lot of school and things to catch up on, so i'm trying. I love you and your family so much.
I cannot believe how beautiful her hair looks, I think she has great instincts. She looks so happy too.
I think so too!
Something my mom told me since I was a little girl probably starting at like 5 or 6 was that there are mean people in this world and unfortunately you can’t change that. I was bullied relentlessly as a kid for being “overweight” even though none of my doctors were ever worried about my weight. It is such a painful thing to deal with and can make us think badly about ourselves and our bodies. My mom always said “There will be people who bully you and there is nothing you can do or say to make them stop. But you have the power over your own mind. Don’t let mean kids affect who you are. Because at the end of the day you have to live with yourself everyday and not the other kids.” This has stuck with me for my 26 years of life. I’ve stopped caring how others view me because at the end of the day I’m the only person who has to spend 100% of the time with myself. Hope things got better for Saidee! She is going to do big things one day!
I love that mom and the family gave her that extra confidence boost before going back. GOOD LUCK SAIDEE!!
Sadie I was the same when I was deciding whether to move schools last year. I am super indecisive and I always doubt my decisions but I went with my gut and I think it was the best decision for me. you will never truly know what the best decision will be but you have to trust yourself and make what ever decision you make with confidence.
This was such an important conversation between mom and Saidee. Two wise women🥰
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Loving the bangs! I also love the metaphor for the way that everyone writes their own story and not wanting to hate a chapter because you feel like someone else wrote it.
I felt so relieved for her when you said what she needed to hear, the way she needed to hear it. Letting go of the fear of making a mistake or the wrong choice.
This might be my favourite video of all! Watching Saidee articulate her feelings and work through what virtually all teenage girls think and feel was very brave. I love the analogy of writing chapters and not tearing out the pages of the rough parts so that you can learn from them for later chapters.
The bangs?! Amazing! They frame her face beautifully!
SaiDee looks so grown up with her hair like that she looks stunning 😍😍 Also I think she made a great decision and I like Tiffany’s words about how parents can scribble in the kids book. I hope SaiDee likes her clothes and choice!! Sending our love 💖
Thank you!!
I was tearing up listening to you talk about looking back at the story you have written and knowing why chapters are there. I feel like I could see a glimpse into SaiDee’s future being able to look back at that moment and how amazing her mom was. Seriously, you are amazing. Thank you for this. And thank you SaiDee for being willing to share, I know this was a tough experience. I hope I can take this page from your book and try to be better about how I communicate with my kids. Especially as they get older. Would love to see more about how you connect with your kids and develop the kind of relationships where they can talk to you ❤️
SaiDee I’ve been praying for you . You are beautifully and wonderfully made by the Lord He will continue to walk with you .Love to all the Nelson family
Has anyone else noticed that the title is all in capitals. LIKE THIS. But the I's are lower case. LiKE THiS.
I give Saidee a 10 out of 10 for all of her outfits and especially her new bangs she actually looks older now. 😊
Thank you Tiffany for healing this part of my inner child. As a mom now, although i have many years before my baby is a teenager, thank you for giving me such amazing tools for the future ❤
Poor Saidee she was shaking the whole time! We love you saidee! Idk if I’m spelling it right don’t come at me! ❤❤❤
She is a people pleaser. It's a hard road to travel. She will find herself with time and find what an amazing, beautiful person she is. Much love my girl, im so proud of you!!!!
Tiffany doesn’t know this but I’m soaking up as much of her advice as I can, it’s just so good and I’m in Highschool so it really helps😭
She looks so relieved and content with her decision! So happy to see her happy! And always remember there’s another option if you don’t end up liking public school again. That always makes me feel better knowing I’m not stuck with a decision if I’m unhappy with it 😊
We are here for you SaiDee! I love how your mom lets YOU choose what is best for you. When people bully you all you do is just smile and nod and not say a word. It works every time no matter who it is. Stay a strong young women! :)
OMG TYSM FOR THE PIN I AM FREAKING OUT OMG
The bangs make Sadiee look so fab and confident!!!! Love them!!
I'm not done with the video but I just wanted to say that watching this videos about this situations has been like therapy to me. It's been so healing to listen to these open conversations.
Thank you so much!
Omg Saidee is absolutely darling with her bangs and I’m so excited for her confidence boost to go back to public school!
These videos makes our days better
Those bangs are absolutely GORGEOUS GIRL!! Bangs really round off a girl and frame the face beautifully. Sometimes a new look can really freshen up those perspectives and can give you motivation to do better or have a mega glow up or even something simple like cleaming out your wardrobe 😂
But on a more serious note, I found this video and I think that Tiffany is such a great mother and she lets her children know that she is okay with whatever they choose and lets them know that it is their life and she is just here to help them with whatever path they choose. ❤ 🤍 💙
Tiffany, I just became a momma and I hope I can be as supportive as you are. You are really encouraging me!
congratulations 🎉 you look fabulous :)
I know this video is really old but I praise you for handling it so well! I haven’t heard the best about Not Enough Nelsons but I’m kinda addicted to family channels so wanted to give it a chance - and honestly, I’ve binged hours worth of videos and I don’t see what the problem is. Sure, you may be a strict religious family, but I think that the way you raise your kids will shape them into stand-up, comfortable characters.
Again, I know this video is old, but I don’t think that pulling her away from the bullies was the fix to the situation. All that does is teach her to run from her problems. She has to stand her ground, and fix herself from within. What you could’ve done is have a talk with these girls’ parents (because it’s a possibility that THEY don’t know how their kids are treating other people, and hopefully they would sit down with them and teach them the damage of words). But that doesn’t heal SaiDee - so from there, you need to help her build herself back up. Therapy is an option if she absolutely needs it, or YOU can help her raise her confidence (**EDIT: I wasn’t finished with the second half of this video when I started writing this, but now that I’m watching it I see that you’re already helping her with this and teaching her that everyone’s taste is different so she shouldn’t change herself to satisfy one group of people, because then there will be other people that don’t like it and it will be an endless loop. GREAT PARENTING! I’m definitely going to take these lessons with me for my future children). It sounded like these girls were body shaming her? So maybe teach her that these girls may have taken it out on her because they have these misconceptions of unrealistic beauty standards (thanks to our society) and maybe they don’t feel all that confident in THEMSELVES? So they decided to take it out on SaiDee, which is never okay, but just like you try to do yourself - teach SaiDee to step out of her own shoes. (**another edit because you also touched on this a little bit but definitely think you should emphasize this more if you don’t already!)
Overall, I watched all 3 parts to this and I’m proud of how it was handled and I’m proud of SaiDee for being able to recognize her internal issues and speak out on it. I’m going to check out the more recent videos after this one, but I hope that she’s feeling more comfortable and happy with herself. ❤️
Y’all are the BEST and supportive family ever!!!❤️❤️💕💕💕
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So glad SaiDee has come to a decision on her own with the support of her loving family. I hope in time. She will come to realize that she hasn’t screwed up anything and will become more comfortable in herself and her decisions. It’s easy to see she is a smart girl with a sweet soul. She has such a beautiful smile and I hope she keeps showing it.
Tiffany is always there for her kids and I love that . She is also always teaching her kids very important lessons. She is such an amazing mom. Good luck and have fun Sadie
Saddie:: Never worry about looks, you are naturally beautiful- Just like God wants you to be.
i was so relieved to see a Mom really listen and not insert themselves all over what a child really wants. That is what leads to depression and self harm. The greatest part was when she said she could change her mind. That is so important. Well done!
@@su-rv2uq There is always a balance.
Wow she’s such an amazing mom and a wonderful person she has so much respect for Sadie and so much love and she actually treats her like an adult
I am soo happy for saidee, she did a good choice!
Its really cute her bangs!
I am wishing u a good luck at school!
Leave the old times behind and bring the new memories up because that’s all that matter ❤️❤️good luck and were here for u and got bangs looks so pretyy
What a great beginning to a new chapter!!!! I think God has a plan for everyone and I’m so glad Saidee and mom determined the path that would be next. I know how hard it is trying not to disappoint your parents but it sounds like if you talk it out and communicate, things will work out. What matters is the amazing support you feel for each other. I’m so happy for Saidee! I can’t wait to hear how public school goes for her. I had the same chapter as Saidee and had to switch schools and it was the best choice ever. Thanks for this update. Love the bangs!!!!
Where does navee shop?? Her style is so cute !
Tiffany you need to be a counselor. You give so much great advice, not only to your kids but me!! Saidee you look amazing with bangs. It matched your personality and style! Have fun at public school!!!!😀
Thank you so much!!
@@NotEnoughNelsons yeah no problem!!
Saidee remember, you're not an adult yet and screwing up is part of the process! It sucks, but everyone does it whether you see it or not! I went to college and had no idea what I wanted to do, I took 4 years to get a 2 year degree! I felt the same way, but I had to remind myself that no matter how slow I was, I still kept going and THAT is what matters. Love ya
I’m so happy for Saidee!!! You can clearly see how she feels relieved from her decision. Good luck, Saidee!!!
The world 🌎🌍 needs such supportive maamas
My God bless 🙏🙏🙏❤️ you for being patient to yo saidee
Best wishes in public school Saidee! Being a teen is hard, being a teen girl is really hard. Just remember that no matter what, let your inner beauty shine through.
Love you guys!
I have made many bad mistakes in my life, but I don’t regret them. Because is learned from my mistakes, and it taught me many lessons. It makes you, you.
I’m from South Africa. Almost all schools here, public and private have uniforms that I know of. I find it so interesting that only the private schools require uniforms in the states. We have a few schools that let you where whatever you want or have more relaxed uniforms (like just a collared shirt and jeans). Hope Saidee is happy in her new school. I for sure know that schools can really make you feel unmotivated or depressed if you aren’t in the right learning environment. I believe this is a good decision for you. Also just want to say to Tiffany, it’s lovely to see such an understanding mom that allows her children to write their own chapters in their book of life. This is not something you see all the time, but you really parent your children well.
Good luck SaiDee at public school. I know what is like being bullied. But your not letting them win and your courage and bravery is inspiring
I new the bangs would work they look sooooo good
I was so happy when kass decided to come because I love her she is so awesome
I love you guys so much ❤❤❤ Tiffany I love your hair
I usually don't like people and can't stand large crowds but you're family seems so wholesome, I'd be honored just to spend five minutes with them ^^.
I’m watching this so late (doing some binge watching backwards ❤️) but SaiDee is so articulate with her feelings. Even in the other videos on this topic, she does so well with explaining her feelings even though you can tell it’s hard for her. I’m 24 almost 25 and I can’t even do that as well as SaiDee. Super proud and incredible mom to back up a healthy way of expressing your emotions ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words.
The bangs look so good. I love that you are so brave not just switching schools but also sharing it with lots of people. I am so happy for you❤️
Hey nen fam!! I have two questions, when are we gonna see preslee’s haircut, in the haircut video u said she would get something different and you would film it at some point, are you still doing that? Also when are we gonna see the new intro because I’m sooooo excited because you guys do such a good job with them!! I love all the videos you guys make, your my favorite channel!!
Love y’all! Congrats on 1 Million! ❤️ 💕
Saidee looks amazing and I absolutely ❤️ how her bangs frame her face. Have an awesome time in Public School and remember it’s your opinion of you that matters most. Own your choices and rock them with confidence.
Tiffany I have to commend you for how you handled such a hard conversation with SaiDee! The analogy of chapters was so perfect. I hope this next chapter for SaiDee is better than the last - but if it’s not, the good news is her book is not finished, and has plenty of more chapters to write 💕
Not gonna lie, mama Nelson, I have learned quite a bit from you. Thanks!
Sadie is gorgeous!!! What a beautiful young lady - inside and out!!!!
love u guys!!!!!
Saidee!!! I LOVE THE BANGS ❤❤ I'm a bangs girl from way back -- love, love bangs. They just give a girl that finished look, and you sweet girl look amazing! I'm just seeing this video so you would be in Public School for a few weeks now, and I hope all is going well. Honey, trust me....those mean girls you dealt with end of last school year, are big old Zero's. (And I know how mean that sounds) They have not been hugged enough at home by their parents and pick on others to make themselves feel better. Please dont let them have power over you, by making you act and make poor decisions that will affect you. YOU are Beautiful, Smart and a kind Young Woman...just be you. Middle school IS hard, find something that let's you be you and the rest can go pound salt. Being you and doing things that make you happy will show all over your face and make others want to be around you.....and all of a sudden you will notice the Mean Girls have become something that cant affect you. Make smart decisions, not because you're afraid of messing up (because we all do that) but because in your heart and Gutt you know what is the right thing to do. AND if you're unsure, shoot....excuse yourself from the conversation call your Mom, or Kenn or Kass or heck Jainee - you dear girl have wonderfully strong role Models to help you and guide you when You're unsure of yourself. I had a Bully in the middle years, and you know what - after I found my own strength and didnt let her have any power over me - she seemed to fade into oblivion.....She resurfaced in HighSchool a little, but guess what? She wanted to be my Friend because I found me and was confident in all I'd done and who I was as a young woman. It's amazing how once you find your confidence, you'll find friends that are like thinkers and who want to be around you. A Bully is a Bully because they are Terrified inside that people will see their flaws, faults and shortcomings. Start your own little club.....even if it's only a casual one with just a few friends. There is strength in numbers and even just that one Bestie, where you have each other's back, can make all the difference in the world. Be well sweet girl, and just be you....mean girls be damned. And if all else fails, try and grab a little footage on your phone of what's happening....Bully's, when confronted with truth and Evidence, back down, get expelled and end up loosing respect and friends. Do be fearful, BE FEARLESS! ❤❤
We love you so much saidee!! I support you 100% with what you descision is.
What people says, thinks or the "Labels" doesn't matter unless you believe it's true. Know your worth! YOU ARE AN AWESOME PERSON, What matters is what we see ourselves and how God sees us. That's what we have to believe. AND..... YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD. YOU HAVE A GREAT FAMILY. YOU HAVE A LOT OF SIBLINGS/BFF FOR LIFE. I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT! Believe in yourself. Whatever school you choose. Always remember, YOU ARE WORTHY, YOU ARE ABLE and YOU ARE BLESSED!!! I hope this helped. I know some people who also struggled with this kind of issues and I also struggled back then but I realized that nothing and no one could ever help us with what we're going through if we don't help ourselves. So let's start believing and keep in mind that WE ARE A CHILD OF GOD! 🥰🥰🥰
This video makes me tear up, to see a mother support their children no matter what, to be able to have these conversations with a teenager and be honest, be supportive, be caring, be able to let them walk their own walk and write their own story, Tiffany, you are doing incredible things! ❤
Watching this really helped me
This story means the world to me, I feel like me and SaiDee really can relate. 💖
Sadie you look amazing with or without bangs but I’m so happy for your decisions you made well done!
I love to see people happy it just makes me really happy
I think Sadie will look awesome with bangs. And yes I have heard that book my teacher actually read that whole entire thing to my class and it really changed the way everybody thought and I stand by that book today.😍
Tiffany is such a great mom
Ohhhhhhh i been waiting for this we love u saidee whatever you chose we are supporting u
The love Tiffany has in her eyes as she's listening to SaiDee talk warms my heart. I love how loving you are with all of your kids. I would love to have someone look at me like that when I am talking.
SaiDee. You are so beautiful. Being a teenager is so so hard sometimes. I barely feel like I survived. Good job making a hard decision.You CAN do hard things and you are braver and stronger for it.Your bangs look AMAZING!!!I LOVE IT SO SO MUCH!!
I’m currently in public school, I fell pretty much the same as Saidee in private. I got bullied multiple times, teachers helped me as much as the could but the girl is still at me. I fell like I’m not myself in school bc all the parents had to vote if we should have uniforms or not, and they choose uniforms. I don’t like the uniform it’s all dull. Good luck Saidee!
I think you’ll look great with bangs saidee 💕
love the NEN FAM!
Love you SaiDee you can make any decision and I will support you though anything
Everything happens for a reason saidee. One door opens another one closes. I love your bangs makes your facial features pop out. 😍 I would be your friend
I love it
SaiDee I LOVE your bangs/fringe it really suits you. You’re a brave young lady and I wanted to wish you all the best after your decision. I had a feeling you were going to choose public school and you looked so relieved when you finally said it. Good luck girl you got this x love from England 🏴
She looks amazing with the bangs I love them on her❤️ and I think she will love public school!! School will be better because Jesus will walk right beside you Saidee!
That was a very good one on one you guys had, I'm very proud of Saidee for being brave to talk about her feelings
Sadie is seriously worth it she’s the best person I swear I don’t know why people are so rude they need everyone to always to be nice no bullies seriously
The bangs look absolutely great.
Wow the bangs suit her so well! I didn't expect at all
The Mom is so supportive!
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I LOVEEEEEEEEEEE her hair and all her outfits tbh I think I liked the last one more than the rest but I liked all off them
GOOD LUCKKKKK