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  • @RainbyFIN
    @RainbyFIN Před rokem +940

    Fun story; A guy in school when I was 14 probably told me I "didn't count as a girl". I was offended at the time bc I felt like I should've been more girly but now it makes me so happy. Son of a bitch was right lol

    • @he1pppp
      @he1pppp Před rokem +58

      My sister told me that my side angle with my glasses on make me look like a nerdy guy Im now non-binary and I wish to be more androgynous but I can't

    • @Montesama314
      @Montesama314 Před rokem +112

      "HA! You look like a BOY!"
      "SHUT UP, YOU--no, wait, keep talking..."

    • @echofromafar
      @echofromafar Před rokem +27

      As a fellow afab non-binary person I can just say I extremely relate to this

    • @player4283
      @player4283 Před rokem +19

      I'm afab agender transmasculine person and few years ago when I was like 15 this one guy in snapchat stated that "wow you actually sound like a girl" after a voice message I sent him. apparently my voice sounded more of a guys voice before and in that voice message it sounded like a girls voice. I was furious that he said that my voice was like a guys voice, but now I'm actually really happy about my voice, it sounds androgynous or more of a masculine than feminine.

    • @rainboworange
      @rainboworange Před rokem +11

      Same from the other end of the spectrum! not being manly enough to be on any sportsball team. *sigh*. we can meet in the middle now for a nice non binary high five!

  • @Montesama314
    @Montesama314 Před rokem +1653

    "Your sexuality is not... STRAIGHTforward, excuse the pun."
    I will not excuse it, Noah. I will embrace your pun. I will shake your pun's hand.

    • @bruhseriously9297
      @bruhseriously9297 Před rokem +38

      i will love the pun for what it is

    • @ArtButNoArt
      @ArtButNoArt Před rokem +22

      I will hug and embrace the pun

    • @SkidTheDumbFox
      @SkidTheDumbFox Před rokem +18

      Puns keep me alive:D

    • @rainboworange
      @rainboworange Před rokem +10

      also yes, this statement is very true. everything is weird, nothing is clear to anyone, where the hell should i know what i liked deep down, i suppressed everything to appear normal. gimme a few years....

    • @JustAGamingBurrito
      @JustAGamingBurrito Před rokem +7

      Worship the pun 🙇

  • @frankhooper7871
    @frankhooper7871 Před rokem +233

    As a cis gay guy now in my 70s, what boggles my mind is the amount of transphobia still around in the LGBTQ+ community. Hey, people - this is exactly what we gay guys & gals experienced in the past!

    • @TheArtBunch
      @TheArtBunch Před rokem +1

      @Ville no one likes you

    • @banana_awoofy9790
      @banana_awoofy9790 Před rokem +27

      ​@NotVille_yeah i'm pretty sure their dad is dead at this point,since their like,65 years older then you

    • @robo1513
      @robo1513 Před rokem +17

      @NotVille_ I hope your father comes back with the milk soon, so you can stop saying that 😐

    • @sand_eater101
      @sand_eater101 Před 11 měsíci +12

      @NotVille_pov: projection

    • @girlwithbuzzcut
      @girlwithbuzzcut Před 11 měsíci +16

      @NotVille_ Saw you comment on Keara Graves’ channel too. Do you just go around CZcams looking for LGBTQ+ content to hate on?

  • @aztralsea
    @aztralsea Před rokem +300

    "This is more enjoyable than being called slurs" is a great descriptor

  • @nonexistingvoid
    @nonexistingvoid Před rokem +160

    I still remember the day my son threw all his skirts and dresses out of his room, stating: I don't want any of this ever again!
    So I looked through my old clothes and found some old Stuka trousers and band shirts, gave them to him, and asked him: So "tomboy" or "boy"?
    And his didn't hesitate to say "boy"
    I said "okay" and put all the clothes her threw out into a bag to give to someone who could use them.
    No need to make a big deal out of it, though it did feel like a waste to throw out clothes we literally bought a week earlier (which is why I prefer gifting clothes instead of throwing them in the bin)
    He still didn't feel comfortable coming out to me, after that, so I gave him space to find the courage to tell me.
    And now, a few years later, I sometimes even forget what the name we gave him at birth even was.
    His new school only knows his new name, and exclusively uses he/him pronouns for him.
    Petty much everyone except for his transphobic grandmother calls him by his new name (he tries to avoid her, because he's terrified of her finding out and going on another anti-trans rampage, having seen how she treated his de-trans dad, and how she constantly insults and even wishes death upon my son's friends for being trans. and of course she's all "why doesn't she like me anymore" instead of realising she's a horrible person that no one actually likes.)

    • @williammiller6330
      @williammiller6330 Před rokem +21

      Hey. I'm glad you're supportive.

    • @confusedscreaming24
      @confusedscreaming24 Před rokem +20

      Wow. Ur such a good parent. God I wish my parents were like this, u seem to just have been so calm and chilled out about it! I hope more parents become like u

    • @robo1513
      @robo1513 Před rokem +14

      your son sorta reminds me of myself except I have a transphobic father instead of grandmother. My dad's kinda awful and wonders why I avoid him even though he constantly talks about how "Ben Shapiro says trans people suck and he's right." My moms really good though and truely sees me as her son. You're a really good parent though I'm glad you really love your son :).

  • @Will_jj
    @Will_jj Před rokem +636

    As someone who’s in high school right now, it is indeed terrifying lmao. The amount of times people have shouted “suicide squad” and “show your cuts” at me in the hallway is uncountable, purely because I’m trans. And just the fights with classmates (literally in class, while the teacher was listening) about whether trans people should be allowed to do top surgery.
    Yeah, it’s something

    • @mariebourgot4949
      @mariebourgot4949 Před rokem +55

      I am so sorry for you, waht you describe is awful and nobody should have to live through that hate. I don't know what to say except that I don't want you to feel alone and think that there is no hope. I really hope that you have some form of support in your life. And if you agree, I send you big virtual hugs.

    • @cherryflavor_
      @cherryflavor_ Před rokem +44

      I mostly relate to this. I’m not out in high school (which I commend you for) because the students in my high school will literally make racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. jokes all the time. Additionally, I’m non-binary so no matter what I try to do to make my dysphoria decrease, I still feel either masculine or feminine. Sometimes I wish I were cis-het just so I could fit in with my peers. Stay strong!

    • @CalmedCChaos
      @CalmedCChaos Před rokem +45

      I’m FTM and used to use the male bathrooms until I got attacked 6 different times for going in there and was almost set on fire once (he had a lighter?) and I went to the nurse the last time cuz pain, and she said I can use her bathroom (there’s a bathroom in the nurse’s office) whenever I wanted
      So.. don’t use the male bathrooms anymore

    • @Imactually_spiderman
      @Imactually_spiderman Před rokem +14

      Oh yeah one of my trans friends did something like that, but then he moved so now I'm sad because now I can't talk to him😭

    • @AnUmbreonNamedRaire
      @AnUmbreonNamedRaire Před rokem +20

      I'm in Australia, so it isn't too bad, but I'm still scared. You're not alone in this. When you're queer, you're family. There's so many of us fighting for things to get better, I have to believe we will

  • @qazasdr7014
    @qazasdr7014 Před rokem +415

    As a trans girl, I can say that about 90% of this video is very relatable to me. I actually did identify as non-binary for a couple of months because I was afraid that I would be disappointing my family if I tried to properly express my identity. I feel a lot better now, and I was very surprised about how accepting my community is, especially since I live in Charlotte, NC, where I have to use disabled bathrooms at school to avoid breaking the law. Also, I am a massive fan, and my only regret thus far is not getting a ticket to see the show in Greensboro.

    • @calamityjean1525
      @calamityjean1525 Před rokem +13

      "...my only regret thus far is not getting a ticket to see the show in Greensboro."
      I'm sorry you didn't get to go this year, but he will probably be back next year, maybe you can go then. Noah has too many fans in the USA to stay away for long. I went to both last year's and this year's shows and they were both great.

    • @matheohno
      @matheohno Před rokem +20

      I’m a trans man but I’ve also identified as nonbinary and a demiboy for quite a while when i was 15, because i also thought it would be easier to process for other people even tho I’ve known that I’m a boy since i was 4 years old and what trans means at age 12 but i didn’t accept it for myself until i was 15 but i came out as nonbinary as a compromise then as a demiboy and then at 16 as a trans boy. even tho my family and everyone was supportive i still thought it would be easier for them if i identified as nonbinary. But I’m glad i didn’t came out to my entire school as nonbinary when i identified like this because especially when everyone was 14-16 they made fun of nonbinary people a lot. So I’m glad i only came out as a trans boy at age 17 at school when everyone in my grade was 16-20. And yeah I’m 18 now and out everywhere and I’m almost a month on testosterone

    • @taiyouscandalous1175
      @taiyouscandalous1175 Před rokem +6

      @@matheohno I'm glad that your family was supportive and congrats on the testosterone!

    • @ratmilk123
      @ratmilk123 Před rokem +8

      ayyy another transfem noah finnce enjoyer! happy to see it, and happy you found yourself! i went thru something very similar

    • @eliotb.1219
      @eliotb.1219 Před rokem +6

      trans dude here and i also originally identified as non-binary. in my case tho it was moreso due to internal biases my parents instilled in me. it didn’t help that i’m generally a feminine guy and i like makeup and dresses and pretty things so it took a while for me to fully accept that i’m actually just a guy. much happier now! would be happier if i wasn’t 5’2 but you know, i lost the genetic lottery in more ways than one lol

  • @anaeelstarnin4358
    @anaeelstarnin4358 Před rokem +2267

    The level of transphobia going around everywhere is so depressing D: but at least we' ve got trans youtubers like Jamie and Noah cheering us up !

  • @casper-the-unfrendly-ghost
    @casper-the-unfrendly-ghost Před rokem +223

    I just remembered a really trans moment I had as a child
    I was like eight and visiting someone in the hospital (for context at the time I had a boy haircut I begged my mom for) and the lady at the front desk said to my mom "oh your son is so cute I love his haircut" and as we were walking away I told my mom "she thought I was a boy" and my mom said "yeah do you want me correct people when they do that" and I just said "I.. don't know" then we just went on with our day she didn't realize I was trans until like five years later when I was like "hey umm by the way I'm a boy I think"

    • @Victoria_Huot
      @Victoria_Huot Před rokem +19

      Awwww that’s cute. I wish I had such experiences as a child. I was too scared to explore my gender and so I just spent my whole days daydreaming about being a girl since I didn’t have the courage to make it reality.

    • @thediscodevil0949
      @thediscodevil0949 Před rokem +8

      When I was a kid, a bully in primary school called me a boy because of my blue glasses (pointlessly gendered, lol) and I was just like, “Thank you. :)”

    • @brookybtv3011
      @brookybtv3011 Před 7 měsíci +5

      I remember whenever I used to play with people on Xbox Lives (like, example, friends of my friends that I personally didn’t know) a lot of the time people used to think I was a boy because I had a lower voice than most AFAB people and it used to make me really happy and I loved it, I never understood why until 2021-ish when I realized I was a guy.

  • @nyx1642
    @nyx1642 Před rokem +399

    As a trans teen growing up in America right now, yeah, it's terrifying. My therapist took all mentions of me being trans out of her records for my safety. But I have a really great group of really queer (and neurodivergent) friends and I'm so glad I have them. My friends, and trans people on the internet, whether they're content creators or people I talk to in comments, give me hope for the future. Maybe not much hope, but we've just gotta cross our fingers it's all gonna be okay. Especially as a minor who can't really do much. I really appreciate your videos Noah, it's nice to see that there's a future out there for me.

    • @skate_fast_eat_trash9430
      @skate_fast_eat_trash9430 Před rokem +28

      Yeah, fellow trans teen growing up in America right now. I’m honestly scared as hell but I really hope it turns around.

    • @hakelevtov1977
      @hakelevtov1977 Před rokem

      @Ville Looking at a comment that essentially says "I can't have any written record of me being trans because something very bad might happen to me" and deciding to say "fatherless" says a lot about you. P.S. I'm trans. And guess what? I have a dad. And a mom. Neither of them are trans or part of the LGBTQ+ community. You can't just become trans because of something like not having a dad.

    • @nyx1642
      @nyx1642 Před rokem +18

      @Ville Actually I do have a dad, unfortunately. He's just emotionally abusive :)

    • @hakelevtov1977
      @hakelevtov1977 Před rokem +11

      @Ville Are we sure what's not the other way around?

    • @hakelevtov1977
      @hakelevtov1977 Před rokem +8

      @Ville Are we sure what's not the other way around?

  • @ratmilk123
    @ratmilk123 Před rokem +268

    Trans girl here! I know about 99% of your audience are trans guys, but your shit has helped me a lot too and I'm sure other transfem people as well! Keep it up my man

    • @Naomi_best_
      @Naomi_best_ Před rokem +38

      Cis girl here. Am very happy about what youtubers like this are doing for the community.
      Lots of love.
      You go girl👍💅

    • @kittycat3638
      @kittycat3638 Před rokem +9

      nice name and pofile pic

    • @Victoria_Huot
      @Victoria_Huot Před rokem +10

      Same here, that content is amazing and even though it’s not that relatable it makes me feel less alone. I only know one person who is genderfluid and except that I’m the only trans person I know.

    • @puflem
      @puflem Před rokem +11

      Cis (but bisexual 💅🏻) girl here.
      Welcome to sisterhood! One of us, one of us...

    • @arobauer
      @arobauer Před rokem

      I hate to tell you this. You're not a girl but if you are and you believe all this BS don't why don't you try competing or having one of your friends! Lol competing male sports because in your little tiny war to mind that would be fair. The problem is it's not fair because you lose every damn time. You're sick. You need mental health. Please please please go get some mental health for yourself

  • @luwjeans
    @luwjeans Před rokem +294

    every time i watch noah my day instantly gets a little better

  • @louse-man
    @louse-man Před rokem +156

    'HELLO UNDERACHIEVERS'
    my day is immediately healed

    • @SB9vids
      @SB9vids Před rokem +4

      Same

    • @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening
      @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening Před rokem +5

      This just fixes my day no matter how bad it’s going

    • @HyperNovva
      @HyperNovva Před rokem +7

      My device earlier this week at 3 AM: HELLO UNDERACHIEVERS

    • @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening
      @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening Před rokem +6

      @@HyperNovva Omg I should make it my alarm in the morning, good day every day

    • @HyperNovva
      @HyperNovva Před rokem +6

      @@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening OMG YES THAT'S A BRILLIANT IDEA
      however no it's not like I had to wake up at 3 AM that day, I just didn't go to sleep yet because I was binge-watching Noah's videos

  • @mochilee9715
    @mochilee9715 Před rokem +273

    Hey Noah, Im a gay trans guy and I have really bad anxiety around my gender. Sometimes I have panic attacks about it and watching your videos always helps because you’re so much like me it makes me feel validated. Thank you for doing what you do your videos are hilarious ❤

    • @GamingKingdom91
      @GamingKingdom91 Před rokem +9

      Omg...im gay and trans too ❤

    • @chrematisai
      @chrematisai Před rokem +6

      Me, too! And I'm 36 and married - it can be done, I promise ❤

  • @Ari_Wil
    @Ari_Wil Před rokem +110

    My partner is in the military in the US and we're both trans. The fact that we have no control over where we're located as all of these anti-trans bills are being introduced and passed is so upsetting and honestly I'm kind of terrified.

    • @Victoria_Huot
      @Victoria_Huot Před rokem +8

      I’m sorry to hear that. Stay strong ❤

    • @chrisrubin6445
      @chrisrubin6445 Před rokem +6

      If you have anykind of sympathetic, or even just pragmatic people in the chain of command, they might be able to help. For military personell to fear state persecution for something immutable, its not only a morale issue, but a readyness issue, and if anything is sacred in this counrty, its military readyness.

  • @Mark-The-Void
    @Mark-The-Void Před rokem +80

    As a trans man whose family doesn't support your channel is a big comfort for me. You've helped me so much. Thank you so much Noah

  • @lonelyblob
    @lonelyblob Před rokem +52

    I came out to my mom as non binary by sending her a meme on whatsapp, she didn't respond but we ended up talking about it face to face and she was super supportive :)

  • @Lylo-mj8ek
    @Lylo-mj8ek Před rokem +29

    I'm 61 and I am so sick of all the hatred! I was 18 through the late 70s early 80s and didn't have the balls to come out because of the hatred. I am so blown away by you and your amazing self you are a true inspiration ❤ . Much Love and Respect. And I Love your Music.❤ Peace

    • @yesgood-theNoBadarchive
      @yesgood-theNoBadarchive Před rokem +2

      omg, so glad you're out and hopefully accepted now. lots of love from the lesbians!!

  • @hbaisley2147
    @hbaisley2147 Před rokem +37

    I was in a lesbian-seeming relationship with L when I was in high school. Everyone would say we were lesbians and it felt so wrong. I would correct them and say I wasn't a lesbian, but an "L Lover". Eventually we both came out as trans. Turns out we weren't lesbians, we were gays, lol!

  • @annexhion5343
    @annexhion5343 Před rokem +90

    my mother literally had to drag it out of me, I simply could not bring myself to come out to her and she knew it. then I had her pretty much tell the rest of my family for me. the only people I came out in person to were my mom and very close friends. I could not imagine coming out to my family with a joke lol

    • @SylviaRustyFae
      @SylviaRustyFae Před rokem +10

      I came out to my biofam last actually heh, and since everyone else id come out to didnt care; i just didnt care one iota if they disagreed with my existence. They didnt in the end, but it was very freeing to go into it knowin that id have a plethora of ppl supportin me even if these ppl decided to hate my existence

  • @Burning_Soup
    @Burning_Soup Před rokem +50

    Hey i started testosterone about a month ago and i just wanna say thank you for helping me understand that being trans was ok and i was not the only one feeling like this. Hope the bigots suck a toe and thanks for helping me come out!

  • @mothmanwantssoup1010
    @mothmanwantssoup1010 Před rokem +66

    When I began to socially transition, it was very smooth and subtle. Honestly, I was bullied a ton more before socially transitioning. Now for some reason, I feel like I’m untouchable. I also have GAD so it’s very interesting how confident I can be when I’m allowed to be out around my peers.

  • @CalmedCChaos
    @CalmedCChaos Před rokem +40

    As a trans man in high school, the amount of times I was attacked in the men’s bathrooms (6 in a row, last time was almost set on fire, one time had water poured on me) made it so I had to use the nurse’s bathroom. So yeah, scary.

    • @dinosaurs_rule
      @dinosaurs_rule Před rokem +11

      I'm so sorry that happened to you.

    • @CalmedCChaos
      @CalmedCChaos Před rokem +6

      @@dinosaurs_rule its alright, it’s been a few months now so 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @dinosaurs_rule
      @dinosaurs_rule Před rokem +5

      @@CalmedCChaos Still though, that's awful. I'm really glad that it isn't happening to you at the moment though. People really suck sometimes.

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +5

      Carry pepper spray or a taser

    • @CalmedCChaos
      @CalmedCChaos Před rokem +8

      @@jacineyatrakos3149 i actually did! I still do. One of the last times I used it & I got suspended while the guy got lunch detention, so I only used it once.

  • @elstarnor4628
    @elstarnor4628 Před rokem +53

    The first time I stood up and told a group of people who I was, they called me brave, and now I'm freaked out and terrified to directly tell anybody else.

    • @eliotb.1219
      @eliotb.1219 Před rokem +12

      sometimes coming out really can feel like you’re being patronized. similar to disabled people just living their lives and getting these comments. nobody enjoys it leave us alone

  • @alex_is_back17
    @alex_is_back17 Před rokem +21

    I recently came out to a girl on my sports team as non-binary and she told me she’s transphobic, this video really made my day! I’ve been going through a rough patch in my mental health and being able to have this community really helps. ❤❤

    • @a_cats
      @a_cats Před rokem +12

      @Ville_x I care + I have a father + I hope you live a happy life and become more accepting of people that are different to you :)

    • @Naomi_best_
      @Naomi_best_ Před rokem +8

      ​@@a_cats same.
      I give all the best wishes and am happy you feel better.
      It'll be okay, you are valid.

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +7

      @Ville Maidenless

    • @alicebthegachaweirdo8378
      @alicebthegachaweirdo8378 Před rokem +1

      ​@Ville_xYou're probably fatherless. And motherless.

    • @acutechicken5798
      @acutechicken5798 Před rokem

      @Ville_x cope and seethe loser

  • @bubblestheguineapig
    @bubblestheguineapig Před rokem +18

    "i was like 'hell yeah, where are my facial hairs'... no but still, where are they? wHeRe ArE tHeY?" - noahfinnce 2023

  • @riverofchaos13
    @riverofchaos13 Před rokem +93

    Off topic but my mom got me some men’s flannels today (I’m a closeted trans guy) and she unknowingly gave me so much gender euphoria

  • @sandymandy6486
    @sandymandy6486 Před rokem +43

    I'm in high school right now and I'm trans. I'm from America and thankfully I have seen a lot of good experiences in school. So while my home life isn't the best and I have not have any medical help my school life has helped me a lot with my dysphoria and my sense of self.

  • @cjstarzz
    @cjstarzz Před rokem +12

    There’s this dude in my homebase who said “Females are dishwashers and since you used to be a female would you be a broken dishwasher or a trans dishwasher?” I really wanted to punch him in the face but I just awkwardly laughed it off. 💀

  • @butterflypooo
    @butterflypooo Před rokem +21

    Aww, being asked if u r someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend sounds like one of the nicest ways to come out to someone.

  • @Bruhidkeither
    @Bruhidkeither Před rokem +215

    I’m not trans but I love you content Noah keep up what your doing ❤😁

    • @angryasfuck6662
      @angryasfuck6662 Před rokem +21

      That's what they all say. Give it a few months and you'll be joining the trans ranks like the rest of us lol

    • @Bruhidkeither
      @Bruhidkeither Před rokem +33

      @@angryasfuck6662 Lmao I’ve been questioning for a while though so maybe, but for now I think I’m fine as a girl lol

    • @samanthatowne6046
      @samanthatowne6046 Před rokem +12

      Same I’m not trans

    • @okayimdone8290
      @okayimdone8290 Před rokem +10

      Based username 😌

    • @Bruhidkeither
      @Bruhidkeither Před rokem +7

      @@okayimdone8290 Thanks man 😊❤️(I call everyone man so sorry if that bothers you)

  • @damonnlakes
    @damonnlakes Před rokem +28

    Thank you for making my day
    They amount of transphobia going around right now is terrifying to me, especially living in a republican state and this helped me forget about it for awhile

  • @ratsoks
    @ratsoks Před rokem +69

    u know it’s gonna be a good day when noah uploads

  • @FutureMint
    @FutureMint Před rokem +93

    I came out w/ a meme, luckily my sister reacted positively and she was like "oh cool, what's your new name & pronouns, and does everyone in the family know?" And then we moved on to a different convo 💀

    • @Nortarachanges
      @Nortarachanges Před rokem +23

      Bless her ^_^

    • @Victoria_Huot
      @Victoria_Huot Před rokem +4

      I came out to my family all at once with a text message and it was both the scariest moment of my life and the happiest moment of my life. Everyone was so supportive. I came out to one of my friends face to face but I was too ashamed to say anything even though he knew there was something I wanted to tell him so he had to guess it lol. Accidentally came out as bi too because he guessed that and I was like well yes but no

    • @FutureMint
      @FutureMint Před rokem +2

      @@Victoria_Huot Well I'm glad it went well!!

    • @Victoria_Huot
      @Victoria_Huot Před rokem +6

      @@FutureMint thank you! Only person who cares is my dad but he’s delusional and kind of weird so like idc

    • @yesgood-theNoBadarchive
      @yesgood-theNoBadarchive Před rokem +2

      w sister

  • @esr1412
    @esr1412 Před rokem +21

    The people that says high school are your best years... I think those are the school bullies. Once it's over, it's downhill for them, while everyone else thrives.

  • @east_coastt
    @east_coastt Před rokem +18

    Thank you for talking about the lesbian thing. It IS hard to leave one community that you ‘grew’ up in to join another

    • @Lana_ra1n
      @Lana_ra1n Před 8 měsíci

      Same is so hard to go from lesbian and a cis women and then I realise that I am a straight trans man, like lesbian flag was my Comfort and now what🥲even tho trans flag is also realy nice🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

  • @St4rrySk1
    @St4rrySk1 Před rokem +10

    Aw thank you, I recently realized a now-previous friend is transphobic and this honestly cheered up my day

    • @susanleslie6178
      @susanleslie6178 Před rokem +3

      That sucks. I'm not part of the community, but also had to end a long friendship over religious bigotry. So hard. 🫂

  • @aforkinsoup
    @aforkinsoup Před rokem +9

    I’m straight + transmasc and have gotten so much bullying cause of my presentation and dating life and your videos have been a bright light in a dark time of my life. thank you for making your content noah :)

  • @mossgoblin3492
    @mossgoblin3492 Před rokem +21

    15:56 Ok but I literally did this. I sent the meme of the funky wizard saying “swiggity swirl I’m a guy not a girl” to my family group chat.

  • @wen_and_only
    @wen_and_only Před rokem +8

    I’m a sensory seeking neurodivergent and I love how binders feel lol, like a strong hug

    • @user-dg3ug7ny5d
      @user-dg3ug7ny5d Před rokem +3

      ​@Ville Are you offering to be our father then? Or would you rather be fathered yourself because you definitely have issues too if you're going around being rude on purpose. I'm happy to be your daddy, baby boy 😘

  • @daimondfire1881
    @daimondfire1881 Před rokem +13

    the way your roommate went about asking if you were trans is one of the sweetest things i’ve ever seen❤️

  • @Kosuke_Matsukito
    @Kosuke_Matsukito Před rokem +44

    9:37 OMGOMG I feel this to my CORE. Everyone always assumes I'm just Lesbian.. like no. I'm a boy. Stop.

    • @Kosuke_Matsukito
      @Kosuke_Matsukito Před rokem +13

      I'm also Bisexual.. My bf is trans as well and everyone just assumes we're a Lesbian couple.. 🥲

    • @Kosuke_Matsukito
      @Kosuke_Matsukito Před rokem +14

      Not to mention the fact that I like more feminine clothes.. Like Idc if I'm trans. I'm a boy. I'll wear what I want 😗😗

  • @ZombieInvader
    @ZombieInvader Před rokem +13

    The nonbinary frustration of not being a shapeshifter/ when my body dysmorphia butts up against my gender issues. I don’t look the way I want to as a femme but I’m too curvy to look masculine or androgynous.
    I went shopping with a guy friend to buy him a suit and I started crying in frustration because the dysphoria and dysmorphia just hit me.

    • @ohleander02
      @ohleander02 Před rokem +4

      I feel the first part of what you said so hard. ❤

  • @elijahsamuel8177
    @elijahsamuel8177 Před rokem +15

    My girlfriend was the first person I came out to as trans she used to call me “sad boi” as a joke but it make me elated and I used to binge trans CZcamsrs at the time so she just kind of popped the question one night before bed I give the most unconvincing “nooooo” and rolled over and went to bed like a month later I’d accepted the fact I was trans and wrote her a letter 😂

  • @user-mc9zi6vf6r
    @user-mc9zi6vf6r Před rokem +13

    Noah: “i'm sure you’re tired-“
    Me: “yes i am!”
    Also Noah: “of transphobia”
    Also me:”Oh oh! Y-yeah I'm tired of that too!” 😅Forgot to let people finish speaking

  • @judgingcat2306
    @judgingcat2306 Před rokem +10

    When you were talking about how binding has affected your breathing I was like "I know that" and then I took a deep breath for the first time since I've had my mastectomy (2weeks ago) and I was shocked of how different it is. I can breathe 😅😂😂

  • @Dbmajor7
    @Dbmajor7 Před rokem +25

    Really needed this right now mate, things are tough, but you give me hope. Have a good one, everyone

  • @WhereNajaDoesStuff
    @WhereNajaDoesStuff Před rokem +3

    Hey! I'm a non-binary teen who's probably on the spectrum at a single-gender high-school who deals with transphobia... nearly every day from certain classmates (who go out of their way to do it and then claim we're friends ten seconds later), and looking up trans memes can often make me question who's really in the right.
    I think I'll stick around for a while. This seems like a good channel.

  • @stone7220
    @stone7220 Před rokem +17

    Yeah the height disphoria is real. I'm 6'3" and around 230 pounds and several people have described me as being built like a house lol. Thankfully I have pretty wide hips and a fairly tight waist, so hopefully estrogen will be able to make me have a beautiful hour glass figure.

    • @nope31697
      @nope31697 Před rokem +13

      Soon you'll get the "model height" comments instead :)

    • @stone7220
      @stone7220 Před rokem +9

      @@nope31697 OH, you right!

    • @William_Nowin
      @William_Nowin Před rokem +1

      Feel you I want my wacking my head on door frames rights 😔

  • @Olive_TheAlien
    @Olive_TheAlien Před 4 měsíci +3

    Hi, I’m a closeted 13 year old trans guy and I wanted you to know that your videos have really helped me ❤

  • @phoenix2965
    @phoenix2965 Před rokem +67

    needed a laugh rn thank u noah :) 🏳️‍⚧️

    • @Phoenix-33SG
      @Phoenix-33SG Před rokem +5

      Ayy, another trans Phoenix :D

    • @phoenix2965
      @phoenix2965 Před rokem +4

      @@Phoenix-33SG omg slay we’re the coolest - hope you’re doing good mate :)

    • @Phoenix-33SG
      @Phoenix-33SG Před rokem +4

      @@phoenix2965 I'm having some hard times lately but it's getting better. I hope you are doing great on your journey and life in general and wish you good luck :)

  • @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening

    People assume I’m a lesbian too, as a gay man, that is kinda the worst thing.
    You in high school sounds a lot like me right now too
    I love the timeline, my dysphoria began when I started going through puberty, so it’s literally perfect.
    I’m 5’2”… platform shoes forever!
    I came out to my parents impulsively during an argument about why trans is a sin… 0/10 would not recommend…

    • @hakelevtov1977
      @hakelevtov1977 Před rokem +9

      Oh man yeah that's not a great way to do it (through no fault of your own). I hope you're okay now.

    • @chrematisai
      @chrematisai Před rokem +2

      Oh, man, that's rough. *Hugs* if you want them. Also, 5'2 trans kings unite!
      (Though I'm really 5'1 3/4 - what's a quarter of an inch between friends, really 😂)

    • @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening
      @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening Před rokem

      @@chrematisaiomg that’s literally my exact height, I rounded up 😂

    • @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening
      @WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening Před rokem +1

      @@hakelevtov1977I’m fine at the moment, still a bit rough, but things are decent.

  • @mamawearemeantfortheflies

    coming to watch this after watching the last two videos of ty turner and crying my eyeballs out... i really need the trans memes rn.

    • @dandelion_16
      @dandelion_16 Před rokem +2

      I can always recommend One Topic At A Time if you need more. It's a tough time alright.

  • @kittenmarkie
    @kittenmarkie Před rokem +16

    As a nonbinary person I feel gender envy towards kpop idols regardless of their physical gender. But mainly I'm envious due to their body shape. How thin waisted they are. It makes me try to be healthy and exercise so I can have a smaller waist. Not as small as them but to where I'm comfortable with my body.

  • @jaytheidiot79
    @jaytheidiot79 Před rokem +5

    The attack helicopter joke is making a comeback at my school, so this positive trans video was extremely well timed. Thanks Noah!

    • @jacineyatrakos3149
      @jacineyatrakos3149 Před rokem +4

      Treat them like they're not human, then when they complain say oh but you're an attack helicopter you're not actually a person

  • @robo3463
    @robo3463 Před rokem +16

    The amount of gender envy I get from Gerard Way is unbelievable

  • @Lexxhorrors
    @Lexxhorrors Před rokem +7

    "Jump around with a bunch of gay people , or trans people or even people who just like music " me - i got to do that

  • @chaosfellow7407
    @chaosfellow7407 Před rokem +6

    Fun fact: women's and men's sports were separated by the government because women were doing better than men and the patriarchy felt threatened.

  • @Imetwurld_
    @Imetwurld_ Před rokem +8

    As a straight cisgender Nigerian I dont understand y people care so much if some one is trans . Like y do u hate some one for something that as nothing to do with u .I try to understand but I can't understand y people care .so annoying how some people make being transphobic their whole personality 😅 Me personally I enjoy watching Noah's videos ❤❤❤love from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @literaltrashpigeon5570
    @literaltrashpigeon5570 Před rokem +5

    Hah, I'm a bit opposite of the icky-binder chat. I love mine...too much. Turns out, it hugs the anxiety quiet. Yep, now I swear by the weighted blanket.

  • @wa_akii6873
    @wa_akii6873 Před rokem +3

    being trans in highschool now must be terribly hard, im cis & bi and most my classmates are homphobic/transphobic. I literally said one thing in class that was like “trans ppl should be able to live the way they wanna” and im still being bullied abt it. Like im not even trans I just said trans ppl deserve rights and its just horrible- can’t imagine how a trans person would survive in my school.

  • @sillyysillyy
    @sillyysillyy Před rokem +16

    whenever I see noah post my entire week gets better honestly

  • @neverice9047
    @neverice9047 Před rokem +20

    i introduced one of my friends to your music recently and now theyre obsessed with it so thank you 😭

  • @cartowheel
    @cartowheel Před rokem +20

    I get the sexuality thing! My partner and I have been together since before I realized I was transmasc (and we both identified as girls), so although both of us are pan and genderqueer, we still have our identities intertwined with the wlw community. It's weird sometimes bc I still have this kneejerk explanation of 'oh I'm a lesbian' and have to remind myself that I'm a guy now lol
    I also have been obnoxiously trans and genderqueer on Facebook, even though I never post ever, at all, except to crawl out of my cave to post about trans issues, mainly to educate those in my life, but to weed out the queerphobes

  • @das._.nullhorn
    @das._.nullhorn Před rokem +6

    ,,Picture this: You‘re neurodivergent, trans and you have sensory issues“
    I‘m not picturing, I’m experiencing xD
    (Also your videos are sooo comforting to me in every way possible, thanks for your content

  • @blightflier
    @blightflier Před rokem +28

    u just made my day so much better :)

  • @tea3309
    @tea3309 Před rokem +6

    "What if you wanted to be flat, but your ribs said pain"🤣 That one seriously got me.😂

  • @fghsgh
    @fghsgh Před rokem +26

    It's interesting that you described your bottom dysphoria getting less bad as you got older because it was completely the opposite for me. I was somewhat okay with it before but since i started E ive been crying myself to sleep every night.

    • @simonbenjo8950
      @simonbenjo8950 Před rokem +6

      It was the same for me, now I've got bottom surgery 2 weeks ago and am still in hospital due to infections etc. BUT it was the right decision. I think, what was really hard for you and me were our hole body matching slowly our gender, but our bottom area did not. Stay strong! You are never alone

    • @fghsgh
      @fghsgh Před rokem +4

      @@simonbenjo8950 Congratulations! Hope your recovery is relatively smooth.
      Ahhhh I'm so looking forward to this. Still gotta wait two more years though.

    • @simonbenjo8950
      @simonbenjo8950 Před rokem +4

      @@fghsgh But you are getting there, i wish you all the best!

    • @coderamen666
      @coderamen666 Před 9 měsíci

      Lol as for me hearing about what E does makes me conflicted and gives me reverse bottom dysphoria like I'm ok with it now how it is and I don't want that to change.

  • @meet.jonathan
    @meet.jonathan Před rokem +3

    as a trans guy struggling with huge height, voice and overall body dysphoria and depression atm this made my day tysm noah

  • @audreyd859
    @audreyd859 Před rokem +6

    I'm so glad you're making this content because I send them to my trans-nephew who is in high school right now... In indiana! it's awful. Thank you for what you're doing!

  • @clancy1269
    @clancy1269 Před rokem +2

    ive had so much difficulty being proud of myself and my community as a trans kid, but then i remember like "im a pioneer and im the next generation of these people" and its up to us to speak out and change shit whether we like it or not; Noah's such a great figure of this community and im glad to be able to fight this battle for our basic human rights alonside yall : )

  • @r4ven198
    @r4ven198 Před rokem +3

    omg I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and thought they were super entertaining and NOW, WEEKS LATER i realize you are one of the artists of “(Not a) love song” that I’ve been listening to all day long on Spotify ??
    edit: “no point pretending” is also fire

  • @king.yoshua.of.spades
    @king.yoshua.of.spades Před rokem +10

    Watching this while wearing my first binder! Love you Noah, you make my days.

  • @irish_gal
    @irish_gal Před rokem +7

    I currently identify as a cis-girl but recently i have been questioning stuff and its just so hard like my pronouns are she/her but like they/them just makes me feel something and i was watching your video the other day were you said you told your mum when you were younger "you no when you dont want boobs" as she said no and everyone in the comments were agreeing and i was just reading them like "THIS ISN'T A CIS THING TO DO🤨" like i thought everyone was like this and i have just started to accept my sexuality and now this 😭

    • @irish_gal
      @irish_gal Před rokem +4

      Like sometimes i want a bigger chest but then other times i will have like a mental breakdown because i can't deal with them like when my mam gave me my first bra i just cried and didn't wear it 😀

    • @acutechicken5798
      @acutechicken5798 Před rokem +1

      @Ville_x We know you are. You don't have to brag about it. Sheesh. Maybe if you had a father he could raise you to sapience.

    • @acutechicken5798
      @acutechicken5798 Před rokem

      @@irish_gal gender fluid perhaps?

  • @ashvander7864
    @ashvander7864 Před rokem +3

    I found your channel recently and as a bisexual trans guy who is also autistic/adhd, i relate to you SO MUCH and honestly I'm like so surprised I hadn't found your channel sooner, especially since you were recently on tour in Seattle, WA my state! (but I found out after the fact) But I'm so glad I found your channel and can't wait see more fun chaotic videos from you!

  • @ars0n_66
    @ars0n_66 Před rokem +7

    me who thought i was lesbian because i didnt feel straight turns out im just a trans gay guy

  • @Alex-rm8jw
    @Alex-rm8jw Před rokem +14

    TRANS MEMES WOO. Let's GOOO

  • @selma_el
    @selma_el Před rokem +5

    I love that your reaction videos always end up very story-timey ! Keep doing those, they're very entertaining and informative at the same time🤍 have fun on tour !

  • @FinnPethybridge
    @FinnPethybridge Před rokem +10

    Your videos keep me going in a time with alot of transphobia not only from my family and people at school but just overall in society. You give me hope for my future. Thank you Noah :)

  • @finnisqueer
    @finnisqueer Před rokem +6

    My 5'2 gremlin ass going after 6'2 trans women and being mistaken for their child constantly because I look like jus a lil guy
    height dysphoria cannot control me

    • @homosapien7316
      @homosapien7316 Před rokem +1

      WE ARE THE SAME PERSON LMAO I AM SMALL AND MY EX GF WAS A TALL TRANS GIRL

    • @finnisqueer
      @finnisqueer Před rokem

      @@homosapien7316 Someone asked me if I was old enough to do my job today, I asked them how old they thought I was and they said "15?" ..I'M 23 JUST BECAUSE I'M SMALL DOESN'T MEAN I'M BABY AAA

  • @E.S.H_MESH
    @E.S.H_MESH Před 22 hodinami +1

    When he said "I would get so frustrated I would have meltdowns about it I would sit in bed and be like ✨ahhhhhhhhhhhh ✨" got me rolling on the floor laughing

  • @WerstoftheWorst
    @WerstoftheWorst Před rokem +6

    Well I'm genderfluid in a fairly conservative part of the United States, and I will say that there is a lot more hope for us than the internet makes it seem

    • @WerstoftheWorst
      @WerstoftheWorst Před rokem +7

      @Ville actually both of my parents are happily married and have both been wonderful and caring people, not everyone is queer out of trauma

    • @LemonAid82
      @LemonAid82 Před rokem +3

      @@WerstoftheWorst Its a troll im pretty sure

    • @WerstoftheWorst
      @WerstoftheWorst Před rokem +1

      @Ville gender fluid meaning I really don't care about any gender and will express myself in whatever ways I feel like, which are inconsistent. There are some days where I am a very masculine person and other days I am very feminine. I don't want to be put in a box of one or the other

    • @WerstoftheWorst
      @WerstoftheWorst Před rokem

      @Ville we can be friends, sorry for being aggressive it took me a few days to get your fatherless joke

  • @mlee2774
    @mlee2774 Před rokem +23

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
    This is video was more enjoyable than being called slurs

  • @sunshineflicker6120
    @sunshineflicker6120 Před rokem +7

    "Turns out I do like girls, and I was just really scared of boobies" AASFGDHJFGDDFGHJKL

  • @prageruwu69
    @prageruwu69 Před rokem +10

    god im envious of trans people who got percieved as their current gender identity when they were younger.

    • @depressionpie4859
      @depressionpie4859 Před rokem +6

      I was going to make some sort of agreement but your username sucker punched me in the gut

    • @LilyZigzagoon
      @LilyZigzagoon Před rokem +2

      I freaking love your name prageruwu but yeah for a little while i was gender as female when i was a kid until my parents made me cut my hair

  • @castingstorms
    @castingstorms Před rokem +9

    As a shorter cis guy I understand the height thing everyone in my family is 6'2" my mom and me 5'8" 😅

    • @monsterzombun558
      @monsterzombun558 Před rokem +2

      Omg my family's the same! Dad and brother 6'1" and 6', I'm 5'8" although I did go through very early puberty and it pains me every day knowing I could have been taller :')

    • @kickyourhead1910
      @kickyourhead1910 Před rokem +3

      Give me your height!! pls

    • @castingstorms
      @castingstorms Před rokem +1

      @@kickyourhead1910 haha anytime I have a few platforms you can borrow

    • @kickyourhead1910
      @kickyourhead1910 Před rokem +1

      @@castingstorms how much height do they give you?

  • @EnbyGhostFin
    @EnbyGhostFin Před rokem +6

    thanks so much for making videos, they help me a lot, the usa is just a dumster fire right now, i'm so glad your videos are here to cheer me up ❤

  • @matheohno
    @matheohno Před rokem +5

    My sexuality gender journey was like: straight girl,bi girl,lesbian girl, nonbinary lesbian, masc lesbian girl but tomboy, nonbinary polysexual, demiboy polysexual, trans masc demiboy omnisexual, aro/ace demiboy, omiromantic polysexual trans man,panromantic asexual trans man, aromantic gay trans guy, aro/ace trans guy, abrosexual panromantic trans guy, pansexual trans guy, unlabeled trans man, bi trans guy with preference for women, straight guy, unlabeled trans boy but when someone asks me i say bi or straight

  • @Sooooooooooooo_many_orphans
    @Sooooooooooooo_many_orphans Před 8 měsíci +3

    I don't have a binder yet (transphobic family) but when I do I am excited and terrified because I am ADHHHHHHHHHHD like- how will I function???????

  • @juliabraun5964
    @juliabraun5964 Před rokem +5

    I pretended to be a boy on animal jam and accidentally catfished some random 7 year old girl so you’re not alone Noah ✊

  • @tissydoll
    @tissydoll Před rokem +5

    I really relate to how you thought you were non-binary but then realized you were a guy because I was non-binary last year and am now a questioning trans boy :D

  • @TaKeThAtDePrEsIoNo_0
    @TaKeThAtDePrEsIoNo_0 Před 4 měsíci +2

    As a trans person living in the US, it scares me how our rights and gender affirming care can just be ripped away, going with a fight, but away

  • @averagetransboi
    @averagetransboi Před rokem +2

    As a neuridivergent person with sensory issues, constriction and pressure actually make me more comfortable. I used to walk up to a friend and go "break my hands" to which he would just squeeze my hands until my anxiety went away

  • @KaitLynnHt
    @KaitLynnHt Před rokem +20

    I get it. I was bi before and after coming out as trans, but I went from a bi "girl" who kinda liked girls to but definitely had a preference for boys, but dating straight men always turned out a disaster. Now I'm a bi man who kinda likes women too, but I still definitely prefer a man, but now it makes much more sense why my relationships with straight men were awful and I the men I usually fall head over heals for ended up being gay.

  • @WhichDoctor1
    @WhichDoctor1 Před rokem +4

    it is weird being gay and trans. Like the first time i ever had someone hit on me in public was really early in my social transition when I had shaved my beard off and started to wear nail polish and womens jeans and stuff, i knew i wasn't cis but was still working through my feelings and kinda identifying as enby. And this guy who was a regular at the shop i worked at started getting really friendly with me, and eventually one time he plucked up the courage to give me his number. And like, I was really flattered, but also. I like girls. I had a girlfriend at the time. And that kinda make me feel uncomfortable dressing androgynous, because i realised that people would just assume i was a gay guy. But i wasn't gay

  • @jackson-sh8mg
    @jackson-sh8mg Před 2 měsíci +2

    "you don't have to imagine, I know why you're here" dang man, didn't have to call me out like that chill

  • @PantzOnPawz
    @PantzOnPawz Před 11 dny +2

    New comfort CZcamsr unlocked
    Noah if you are reading this
    Never
    Ever be controversial

  • @nintendold
    @nintendold Před rokem +6

    whoa, you wanted to be 2 guys named Peter, 2 guys named Parker AND one of those was named BOTH Peter AND Parker?

  • @swk258
    @swk258 Před rokem +7

    The "just torture" one cracked me up.

  • @Lkat.
    @Lkat. Před rokem +1

    2:46 the “you don’t need to imagine, I know why you’re watching” was the most validating call out I’ve ever gotten.