When a relationship is not defined, see what happens.

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 254

  • @REETAMSHELIA
    @REETAMSHELIA Před 7 měsíci +233

    The joy I feel when I see a new video from the WINLOSSSS😂
    THANK YOU FAM!

    • @EstherNwaopete
      @EstherNwaopete Před 7 měsíci +4

      My joy is more than yours💃💃💃💃

    • @nancyneksala6571
      @nancyneksala6571 Před 7 měsíci +1

      My joy is more than you both😂💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 sometimes when I'm walking I beg for a place and stand to watch the video immediately I get the notification😂😂😂😂
      But I'm a silent viewer though

    • @ikeblessingchidimma4388
      @ikeblessingchidimma4388 Před 7 měsíci

      Yoh! Is extreme...😍

    • @priscilladella4767
      @priscilladella4767 Před 7 měsíci

      Me too😂

    • @miriammoore4568
      @miriammoore4568 Před 7 měsíci

      Same here. If I came on to look for something and I see a new video, that something always has to wait 😅

  • @olabodemoyinoluwa9163
    @olabodemoyinoluwa9163 Před 7 měsíci +163

    Lol... I was expecting the "I picked you up from the gutter" line and I wasn't disappointed😂.

  • @teeyvlogs
    @teeyvlogs Před 7 měsíci +124

    The Winlos keep getting younger in my eyes..... It pays to serve God and also follow God's purpose for your life.... I appreciate your consistency and it's always a blessing 🙏🏿

  • @victorojodu446
    @victorojodu446 Před 7 měsíci +57

    I love that line..
    "So all my investment are gone"😂😂😂
    Thank you the Winlos❤

  • @couragetiawon5331
    @couragetiawon5331 Před 7 měsíci +253

    First to comment 💃💃
    Edit: Relationships should be defined from the beginning, don't accept Help from People who don't make their intentions clear from the beginning
    God bless the Winlos

    • @angelnkue5710
      @angelnkue5710 Před 7 měsíci +2

      😂

    • @chiny315
      @chiny315 Před 7 měsíci

      Right 💯 👏 👏

    • @tonyeidatoru611
      @tonyeidatoru611 Před 7 měsíci +3

      But the thing is, sometimes the person may not have had the intention of marrying her from the beginning

    • @oluwabukolaoluwaseesin191
      @oluwabukolaoluwaseesin191 Před 7 měsíci +7

      She asked what he wanted, and the guy said NOTHING. She has no fault whatsoever.

    • @marthangafor6414
      @marthangafor6414 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Indeed. I think it should even be a written, legally binding agreement.

  • @akanwuhcarine4602
    @akanwuhcarine4602 Před 7 měsíci +26

    This is what brother Matthew was doing to a sister in the choir. Getting gifts and seeing this sister off after each choir rehearsals but he didn't make his intentions known. The day another brother in church proposed to this sister and she accepted his proposal. Brother Matthew passed out😂😂😂and when he became conscious he started running the sister's name left and right😅Brothers please receive sense from this short movie. God bless the Winlos for this masterpiece🙏🇨🇩

    • @PreciousAye
      @PreciousAye Před 4 měsíci

      wow am watching from Congo🇨🇩🇨🇩 too

    • @SharonMakena-fg1dk
      @SharonMakena-fg1dk Před měsícem

      Allow me to laugh.
      It also happened to my friend the other day

  • @glorytv9292
    @glorytv9292 Před 7 měsíci +67

    That you assisted someone should not make you think you are entitled to anything in their lives.
    Nice one 👍👌👏thank you the Winlos

  • @godsmasterpeice5508
    @godsmasterpeice5508 Před 7 měsíci +48

    This is so true, just because you trained someone doesn't mean you should marry him or her forcefully. Na wah! We see this things happen all the time.

  • @durotemy8410
    @durotemy8410 Před 7 měsíci +55

    I was going to get a godly lady a valentine gift and I told her about it, but i thought she was been too serious cos she asked me about the reason why i was going to get her the gift.....but the winlos just taught me that giving of gift should be defined.....oya make i go write 100 paragraph on why i want to get her the gift....Don't ask me if i admire the lady cos i definitely admire her

    • @ehllarpearl
      @ehllarpearl Před 7 měsíci +16

      That’s a good woman😊 any other would just collect and collect

    • @durotemy8410
      @durotemy8410 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@ehllarpearl hmmm thanks ma

    • @mesganar5231
      @mesganar5231 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@user-xg5rt6kk4b😂😂😂

  • @chidinmaprecious7475
    @chidinmaprecious7475 Před 7 měsíci +28

    It's not by force to pick someone up from the gutter 😮
    God bless you team! ❤

  • @baronsenkwe4768
    @baronsenkwe4768 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Copied: Our giving and help to others should be without expectation or receiving anything in return. Thanks,have learned a lot from this video❤❤

  • @pamdachung8733
    @pamdachung8733 Před 7 měsíci +26

    Relationship definition is very important to be neglected.
    What is free-willed should be out of benevolence not with another intention.
    If there is, state and define it.
    Thanks for this message, God bless you

  • @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632
    @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632 Před 7 měsíci +17

    Do good without any agenda in mind. Thank you for this Winlos.

    • @Anoah02
      @Anoah02 Před 6 měsíci

      That's kinda unpredictable. You might genuinely not expect anything in return at the early stages but as time goes on, you may begin to feel the need to get something out of it. That's where communication comes in. Don't hesitate to make your intention known as soon as you make up your mind about your ROI😅.
      No assumptions, Christian brothers😂

  • @paulegharevba2874
    @paulegharevba2874 Před 7 měsíci +55

    419K subscribers so far😂,.. heading towards 1M this year.

  • @debbytemmyy
    @debbytemmyy Před 7 měsíci +91

    "Angel" demanding for ROI 😂😂

  • @preciouschizim5985
    @preciouschizim5985 Před 7 měsíci +15

    Thank you Winlos, it is very important to define the relationship from the beginning.
    Also, there's a huge difference between showing kindness and investment. If you are investing, that's business (if possible sign agreement)and you are entitled to your Returns but if you are just being kind, do it as into the Lord, the reward usually comes from another source. Let's all Know the difference oh, it's important.
    God bless the Winlos.

  • @danielleisblessed
    @danielleisblessed Před 7 měsíci +8

    Only the good salvation is free… folks give with the expectation to receive and it is so sad!!
    My soul is always blessed, more grace to the Winlos family 🙏🏾♥️

    • @a_k3730
      @a_k3730 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Salvation is not free. God expects you to serve HIM.

  • @promising2660
    @promising2660 Před 7 měsíci +17

    I just read a comment. She was not hawking pure water because she had no taste. No condition is permanent and mighty oaks grow from little acorns. Many millionaires and billionaires in the world today starved at one point and some did all kinds of job. She asked him his intentions and he said it’s free. If he had mentioned marriage she would have refused it knowing that the downfall of a man is not the end of his life, the Lord who created her will definitely bring a true destiny helper. She has taste and that’s why she did not take to prostitution or their so called hook up. She has Taste and that is why she was not ashamed to make money the right way no matter how much she makes a day. Anyone who will take advantage of another person because of helping them will receive a curse from Heaven instead of a blessing. I am thinking she will have to locate him in the future when she is financially stable and pay him back his money as a LOAN. She has class and she sure has a taste. She is a lady of substance. Thanks The Winlos for life lessons loaded videos. Love your family 😊❤️

  • @MYFATHEREMMANUEL
    @MYFATHEREMMANUEL Před 7 měsíci +12

    WELL PRESENTED... THIS IS BECOMING TOO COMMON IN OUR SOCIETY. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE IN THIS THOUGH; BE SPECIFIC FROM THE START, GIVE IN TO THE REQUEST OR ANYTHING ELSE? THIS CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS IN REAL SITUATIONS.

  • @Truths-techlife
    @Truths-techlife Před 7 měsíci +7

    Stop the friendly thing and define your relationship clearly ❤

  • @OlatundeO1
    @OlatundeO1 Před 7 měsíci +20

    School fees is not bride price.

  • @barbarawilliams527
    @barbarawilliams527 Před 7 měsíci +4

    There's no right way to do a wrong thing.. This lady that the man helped in this story knew this and that's why she refused to marry him, She was honest by telling him that he was not the husband God has for her. Good she has the sense to wait on God. She'll be glad she did. Gret video. Thanks for posting it.

  • @emmyblessed
    @emmyblessed Před 7 měsíci +16

    Angel wanting to marry his helper? 😂.... God bless the winlos

  • @matnat3844
    @matnat3844 Před 7 měsíci +20

    In uganda we say ...teli alumilirwa nga talina kigendelerwa

  • @ahneekasamuel3943
    @ahneekasamuel3943 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I love you The Winlos...I have stopped watching other movies since I started watching you guys am really learning alout

    • @lilcourt1844
      @lilcourt1844 Před 7 měsíci

      Me too, I love their movies, wish I could watch only their movies and no others.

  • @Servant_David_Son
    @Servant_David_Son Před 7 měsíci +3

    This is why it's good to always know why and to be honest from the start. You say it's for nothing, then you are angry.

  • @ucheadjai5557
    @ucheadjai5557 Před 7 měsíci +15

    I came early😅😅🎉
    I knew it was going to turn to that😂😂....Just cause you helped someone now means they're entitled to marry and they'll now start saying fear women😂.

  • @mishamandudi75
    @mishamandudi75 Před 2 měsíci

    Mawa!!!
    This should teach us all to communicate effectively. Some people just help because they are good people and have no romantic intentions. Every helper is not our husband or wife. Some are just helpers.
    Also, don't force anyone to marry you just because you helped them. You'll cry because the love won't be real.

  • @Ikhuoria_Favour
    @Ikhuoria_Favour Před 7 měsíci +1

    I just love the Winlos and how they make realistic and relatable videos with high impact.... more grace to the Winlos ❤️❤️

  • @ikeblessingchidimma4388
    @ikeblessingchidimma4388 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Very educative 💯❤
    Relationship should be defined from the beginning and the benin-ging😅

  • @debbytemmyy
    @debbytemmyy Před 7 měsíci +11

    We start in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh Před 7 měsíci +5

    Wow!
    This is for me 100% .
    But I stood my ground, because I know what I want in life.
    Very controlling and arrogant and I hate it,I 100% know what I want in life. And I know God's will for my life.thank you so much.

  • @jonassikaona562
    @jonassikaona562 Před 4 měsíci +3

    This is very true. There was a lady I sponsored through secondary school, when I told her that I will be getting married she became mad on and said I waisted her time and she wished I married her.

  • @PreciousLartey-in8db
    @PreciousLartey-in8db Před 7 měsíci +6

    Thanks!

  • @margaretkobusinge3148
    @margaretkobusinge3148 Před 3 měsíci

    I really like watching the videos from these good people of God. They really teach alot

  • @gigilove63
    @gigilove63 Před 7 měsíci +1

    So true! Say what you mean and mean what you say:

  • @euniceabban8992
    @euniceabban8992 Před 2 měsíci

    I love these couple and their acting ❤❤❤

  • @idhugweshulamite466
    @idhugweshulamite466 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The joy of seeing a new video from the winlos🎉❤God bless you the winlos.

  • @pastormoyo
    @pastormoyo Před 7 měsíci +4

    Almost did the some thing but I come out in those thoughts when I see that the girl still insist that she feels nothing about love , it hurt me but I had to except & swallow my pride , now we are still friend we are still talking , still helping her family . I learn something as Aman. When we want to help , a lady while we are searching who to marry , we should not mix

  • @spiritualeducationministri1727
    @spiritualeducationministri1727 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Even using such help as a condition for a marital relationship from the beginning is wrong.

  • @TheH42G
    @TheH42G Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow 😳 he really should have been honest about how he truly felt!

  • @maureenmary_mallya
    @maureenmary_mallya Před 7 měsíci +8

    All his investments have gone like that..😂😂

  • @user-pl3te6gg9p
    @user-pl3te6gg9p Před 4 měsíci

    I am a lady. It not only lack of definition of relationship. It's a mostly HOW HE HANDLED THEM. ACTUALLY in reality he has a fair headstart and a better chance as the benefactor if he had handled himself well. Genuine humble kindness goes a long way. After all.....even though not marriage I am sure she and her mum would have thanked him maybe prayer maybe later in life,........you never know

  • @marytublu8390
    @marytublu8390 Před 6 měsíci

    Their acting is soo on pointy💯💯💯🙌❤ love you guys

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh Před 7 měsíci +1

    I have even download it so I will stand my ground the more,thank you.....

  • @natayarowe4428
    @natayarowe4428 Před 6 měsíci

    Truth!. And I'm learning to denounce arrogance and remind myself of this truth! Kindness without expectations of returns - Help us Jesus

  • @Haytithoma
    @Haytithoma Před 3 měsíci

    I do not know why people make this kind of mistake. There is nothing, absolutly nothing for free.

  • @joymwenya2886
    @joymwenya2886 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love the ministry God has given the winlos ❤️ I love the winlos ❤️😍🥰💋💋😃God richly bless the winlos ❤️

  • @JaneAuma-ph3xo
    @JaneAuma-ph3xo Před 3 měsíci

    When the deal is too good think twice
    May God bless you the Winlos movie

  • @afuadankwaahowusu699
    @afuadankwaahowusu699 Před 7 měsíci +2

    They asked what they should do to repay you! You conveniently formed🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @onyewuchivictoria7178
    @onyewuchivictoria7178 Před 7 měsíci

    Really love you guys to the extend I don't miss any video you drop. Thank you for impacting in me

  • @yudellezion9615
    @yudellezion9615 Před 7 měsíci

    Very nice. Define the relationship from the beginning.

  • @CrittneyCee
    @CrittneyCee Před 7 měsíci

    this happened to me recently in a relationship we still friends but he didn’t state why he wanted to help made it seem like he cared as a friend but wanted a relationship

  • @chideraodoh5727
    @chideraodoh5727 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Always educative as ever

  • @ProfAbike
    @ProfAbike Před 4 měsíci +1

    You're her sponsor not her intending spouse... My chest! Lol 😂

  • @joanaagamah6877
    @joanaagamah6877 Před 6 měsíci

    Powerful ❤ more grace mummy and Daddy ❤

  • @Antigen10
    @Antigen10 Před 4 měsíci

    This episode is highly illuminating and apt!

  • @immanueladomgraceson2030
    @immanueladomgraceson2030 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love this video. It speaks the truth and it did so very well

  • @ogbucharles4694
    @ogbucharles4694 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow!! I love this clip.
    Interestingly, i and a friend had a great time discussing this same matter yesterday.
    More grace to the Winlos

  • @ayiyowinne4715
    @ayiyowinne4715 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Nice lesson, I love your videos

  • @isashar7949
    @isashar7949 Před 7 měsíci

    Lol at the wicked laugh when asked “what do you want from us?”

  • @arigyenancy-pr7hx
    @arigyenancy-pr7hx Před 4 měsíci +4

    Tuition is not Bride price,its not love.

  • @Meckni1282
    @Meckni1282 Před 5 měsíci

    Well,I have a contrary opinion.
    There's no permanent definition to any relationship, maybe Marriage as an exception. We've had married couples who met by arguments/disagreement, & we've seen blood Sisters who became sworn enemies.
    The main thing is for every relationship to be constantly evaluated & re-assessed,even the already defined one.
    Definition can change over time.The two parties involved would now have to decide if, & how they want to manage the evolution happening to the relationship.
    For instance,this man might actually have nothing in mind from the start,but he might later realize the young Woman to be a good potential Wife. His biggest error was he dn't re-evaluate the relationship, letting her know definition has changed & allowing her the freedom to decide how she wants to manage the new 'definition'. He had a good chance but wasted it,She would have seen him as her mentor.But his personality dn't convince her.

  • @mummytriny5204
    @mummytriny5204 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Great lesson thank you The Winlos

  • @catecate90
    @catecate90 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Oh really God help us poor people,,ooohh😢😢😢
    Is it must when you help someone you get something from them?😢

  • @PeculiarThoughts1
    @PeculiarThoughts1 Před 7 měsíci

    I look forward to your videos like my life depended on them

  • @salomeraymond
    @salomeraymond Před 7 měsíci

    Na why I no dey collect any type of gift from anybody, lol layee

  • @estherumoh200
    @estherumoh200 Před 7 měsíci +1

    And Angel said he didn't want anything in the beginning

  • @joeyannsmith5800
    @joeyannsmith5800 Před 7 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤ GOD BLESS YOU BOTH WOW ❤❤❤

  • @adunniabionahassan5855
    @adunniabionahassan5855 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Not all men help without hidden motives, the help of God will not add sorrow😅

  • @user-bk1uc3xz9g
    @user-bk1uc3xz9g Před 7 měsíci

    Relationship should be defined from the beginning 😊

  • @yesbossgfx9566
    @yesbossgfx9566 Před měsícem

    😂😂omo make person just jam me like, come tell me sey Eh go see me thru life not school o, lifeeee😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @convinemukidanyi864
    @convinemukidanyi864 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Relationships should be defined

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for this valuable advice. Your videos are always a blessing. 📌💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💥💥🙏🙏🙌✨️

  • @patriciapatrick4743
    @patriciapatrick4743 Před 7 měsíci

    Defining relationships.,..... learning, thank you so very much

  • @prosperityfrancis4807
    @prosperityfrancis4807 Před 7 měsíci

    More grace and wisdom

  • @getrudekabo7030
    @getrudekabo7030 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Very true 🔥 the relationship should be defined

  • @topeoladimeji5288
    @topeoladimeji5288 Před 7 měsíci

    The counseller i beautiful
    Message learnt
    God bless the winlows

  • @MiriamNantomah-iv8dq
    @MiriamNantomah-iv8dq Před měsícem

    Wow🙏 great lesson learnt

  • @latanyapowell2397
    @latanyapowell2397 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Nothing is for free I met someone as I am here in the U.K. I met someone and he gave me his bank card and I refused it

  • @user-zk5vw1hd1h
    @user-zk5vw1hd1h Před 4 měsíci

    Great massage

  • @OyehanEsther
    @OyehanEsther Před 7 měsíci

    Wow, defining my relationship 💎

  • @user-ic9ji4iv2p
    @user-ic9ji4iv2p Před 7 měsíci

    Nice one The Winlos. Keep up the good work.

  • @Preshdee04
    @Preshdee04 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Deep message ❤

  • @charitynosakhare3813
    @charitynosakhare3813 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this is awesome message

  • @user-hw5sy4ti4z
    @user-hw5sy4ti4z Před 7 měsíci

    'All my investments has gone' off me 😅😅😂😂.

  • @evangelistcarabarrett7426
    @evangelistcarabarrett7426 Před 7 měsíci

    Please define all relationships from the beginning and save yourself from disappointment embarrassment, etc

  • @johndosa6816
    @johndosa6816 Před 7 měsíci

    The problem is most people don’t ask.

    • @humblemureithi
      @humblemureithi Před 7 měsíci

      In this video, they were very clear, haven't you seen? They asked clearly what the man wanted from them but the man lied, and if not lying, he changed his mind later. So asking or not asking is not a problem.

  • @epyorulinuswilliam1429
    @epyorulinuswilliam1429 Před 7 měsíci

    Very amazing family ❤❤❤

  • @odongocollinceodhiambo3153
    @odongocollinceodhiambo3153 Před 7 měsíci

    Lots of love from Kenya.

  • @faisalsimbwa-bo3oh
    @faisalsimbwa-bo3oh Před 7 měsíci

    Thank U for teaching us God bless U.

  • @angelamaramwidze1574
    @angelamaramwidze1574 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks the winlos love your education videos

  • @olusolaemmanuel9753
    @olusolaemmanuel9753 Před 7 měsíci

    I am blessed. Thanks winlos🙏

  • @CathrineMapandiwa
    @CathrineMapandiwa Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you the Winlos

  • @lilliangabriel7560
    @lilliangabriel7560 Před 7 měsíci

    😢😢some men embarrasses Girls in the middle of church like this .Guys let’s make the point of help be help don’t expect anything.Ok if uve found am worthy to get married to u then bring it in the other way but helping doesn’t define marriage

  • @EketeAnnabel
    @EketeAnnabel Před 5 měsíci

    Yes o u guys nailed it this time thank u my ppl

  • @samsongloria
    @samsongloria Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you Winlos

  • @samueldavid9487
    @samueldavid9487 Před 7 měsíci

    I just remembered oga pastor, sir pastor...😅 If you know you know
    🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️

  • @tola.a
    @tola.a Před 7 měsíci

    "Towards the university" after seeing her hawking😂😂😂

  • @Kudicomics
    @Kudicomics Před 7 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤ from area one nigeria sending love ❤❤❤❤❤ from this side