We need more imperfect men to be transparent for those who may be going through similar situations or are at a point in their lives where they need guidance. Thank you brothers for the honesty and great content.
Totally Chris. I recall the Pastor at a church I attended would invite the men and young men every third Sunday out to his vacation property. We purchase fish on the way and then when we got there we would cook it. It was an amazing time for fellowship, food and friendship. Then we got down to talking and I would hear stories of infidelity, abuse, you name it. As a young man, it was the most powerful experience I've had with a group of men. I so miss that experience. It was far impacting than me going to church. This podcast today reminded me of that experience.
@@releasedexpressions Those experiences sound powerful brother, maybe you can carry that torch in your own way. I try and mentor young men or just young adults in general whenever I'm given an opportunity. Kings raising Kings!
It took a lot to say this! I have MUCH respect for him! Would love to see a son, I’m sorry movement where fathers get real with their sons and restructure Gods idea of the role of the father ! Much appreciated may God continue to bless you both!
Love how he went back to the exes apologising and praying for them, that was a serious prophetic action. Not only did he heal the wound that he created, but he stood in the gap for the other men who caused them harm. You stood in the gap for the male seed my brother!!! May Christ enlarge you everywhere you go.
As a divorced woman who was also married 20+ years this was so good. This really spoke to me . I’m so grateful to be in a place of wholeness. Single and whole. Celibacy is such a beautiful thing for me. Getting to know yourself after a divorce is a beautiful thing. We as human beings have made so many mistakes. We have had influences in our life that wasn’t the best people to have in our space. But when you can reflect, release, become a new person that’s the joy that God desires for us. Healing, Forgiveness, Repentance is very important to be a New , Happy, Whole person . This was awesome 👏🏽! Blessings to these two men and everyone whom can relate. It definitely blessed me. Old things have passed away, a new Creature was Birthed! Gerry story blessed my soul from speaking about his childhood to where he is at right now. It’s a Shaking and Shifting in the Atmosphere. God makes ALL things NEW
He who conceals his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them will find mercy. Proverbs 28 v 13 This is the essence of this channel. It's breaking viewers' and guests bondages and chains. Grateful 🙏🏽
Wow. All I can say is this episode is so LIT. My husband left me for another woman 6 years ago and I had so many questions about how could he physically step out on our marriage. This episode gave me a lot of closure in trying to understand the mind of a man who cheats on his wife or partner. Now I actually pray for him because I know that he was broken and he probably does have shame and regret.
As a single woman still on the dating scene. It is so refreshing to see and hear men doing the work on themselves. I now have hope that there are men who want to be better. So as a woman it encourages me to continue to prepare myself for HIM! Because if we be honest often times we pray for the things and people that we are not prepared for. #FATHERCONTINUETOPREPAREME
Awesome talk. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest about your journey. The ‘Dear future wifey letters are going to come to pass with God being your helper. All the best to you and your guest.
Latterras you are so honest and confident in your honesty, and showing true vulnerability in discussing these kind of issues, to bring healing not only to yourself but to others and we really appreciate you so much for setting the standard. ❤
God has truly done a work in me. The ability to become transparent started back in 2010 and now people are witnessing the full manifestation for such a time as this.
@@DearFutureWifey You allowed God to do the work in you and as such many are receiving their healing and deliverance through your obedience it's so powerful. I have been sharing your work on my platforms so that the men in my circle and far and wide can tap into your ministry. Many of our brothers really need this so that they don't continue to bleed on us. So many are hurting and hurting us along the way and it takes someone who has surrendered to God for this work to even begin. We are blessed and grateful that your ministry is transforming lives. Many of the men in UK need this and its a blessing that we thr sisters can learn what is going on and how to support where we can. May God continue the great work he has began in you. We appreciate you sir. 🙏🏾
Hello Latterass this spoke to me in so many ways, as I have hurt many women because I was hurt, but God has allowed me to heal and has blessed me with such an incredible woman and as a result he has given me a opportunity to love again. I have learned and I am learning so much as I am on this journey myself. I have been watching your show and it has been a blessing to me. If you ever do a show on past work that men has done on themselves I am a sinner that has seen the grace of God on my life and if you ever do a show in my area I would love to share my story perhaps I can be a blessing to someone I wish you much success in all that you do God bless
I smiled so much at the end of this when he said he is writing ✍️ letters now. Man just one episode has changed this man for the better. Good job Laterras. Thank God for you
THIS was real accountability. So often we hear men talk about how they changed for the woman that they wanted, but take no accountability for all the women that they broke in the process. I really appreciate this brother’s vulnerability and personal accountability.
This here is pure accountability and as a woman who was cheated on in marriage ending up in divorce....22 yrs later still single, it is so difficult to find a good mature man. The culture is just changing with you men being vulnerable like this and it is healing to hear this🙌🏾 God bless you as you empower other men/women to come out and make a change!
Healing all over this place... shackles coming off our emotional ankles. We're journeying to freedom with each episode. Praise God! 💯🙌🏾 Thank you Mr Fisher for being transparent🙏🏾. Thank you both ❤
What an AMAZINGLY TRANSPARENT episode from both parties. Found myself getting upset at the truth of how men think when dealing with a phenomenal woman. It’s terrible to think, that there is absolutely NOTHING women can do to be seen by a man they may love oh so dearly. God help me in my journey in life. GREAT EPISODE Latterras!!! You’ve done it again!!!
This episode really reflects why healing is so important. The saying once a cheater, always a cheater exists because people make the same mistakes because they didn’t take the time to heal. Thank you for always keeping it really with your guests and yourself.
Laterras i can never say thank you enough for this platform and the way God is using it to bring healing to his people. God bless you my brother.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is probably one of the best discussions from a man about relationships, and being honest, I have ever heard in my entire life!! Thank you for being obedient and giving of yourself, and being completely open and vulnerable. Women long to listen and understand men from this point of view. You have truly ministered to me, and I pray God blesses you eminently and abundantly. I am trying to understand and heal, which has helped me, so thank you and God bless. And this platform is fantastic! I pray God to bless it with much success!!
Amazing! This episode reminds me of how AMAZING my God is! He truly leaves me in awe of His grace and mercy! The way He is healing men through this podcast leaves me speechless!! To Him be ALL glory, honor, and praise! Laterras, you are an example of what opening yourself and allowing God to have His way looks like! I pray that this episode reaches men who need to know that they can change if they surrender and allow God to change them! All praise to You Mighty God!
Let me start by saying I am proud of the both of you for being so transparent on this episode, it spoke volumes to me. Thank you... It made me see and understand when a man who has made mistakes, acknowledges his wrongdoings, is remorseful and is no longer looking for fleshy fulfillment or the approval of cynic people... Smh...🙋🏾♀️ How beautiful it is to see God step into your life, right in the middle of your mess and bless you with another chance to get it right. And how God save you from your self and change your whole prospective & outlook, healing you from your core to the outer, now that is so beautiful and wonderful, as only God can do. I pray that the both of you find your future wife and you get another chance to “Have and Hold Her.” Please continue your journeys to seek God first and his grace and mercy will forever be sufficient in your lives. Now your new identity is “ Godfearing Man” continue to walk in that and finish the work on yourselves. Trust me, the best is yet to come. In Jesus mighty name, Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
I’ve learned that when you cover sin you won’t prosper!! Mentally, emotionally,your money won’t prosper! Sin not only blinds you it weakens you more and more!! When you are chosen you have to be pruned. God knew we would fall that’s why He sent this wonderful blessing of GRACE! Took me a long time to get that! My fall was allowed so that I would understand that the sin I was in was in me but hadn’t been activated. I can now walk in love towards myself!! And use this to help someone else.
WHAT A POWERFUL PODCAST! Showing that God can humble and heal you right where you are...and in the process take you back to apply balm to the hearts of the many hearts you have broken so that they too can be healed and move on. Laterras would love to see Gerry Fisher back on the podcast to see how his journey is going. Praying that he stays the course. Praying that maybe the young lady who led him to you...maybe God can reconnect them. This podcast was healing for so many women. Thank you.
This podcast is so beautiful. It confirmed something the Lord showed me in a dream a long time ago. My ex appeared in a dream I had, prior to the dream when we were in a relationship; he was very jealous and did not want me with anyone else but he didn’t do what was necessary to keep me but in the dream he told my spouse to be; “treat her the way she should’ve been treated” he walked away and then past away about a year or so after. This confirms how he was finally releasing me spiritually. My God 🙌🏼 Overall you are bringing such a strong message. Thank you, as a woman I am learning so much. God bless 🙏🏼
I did not expect to cry during this episode, but I needed those tears to fall. Watching Gerry become vulnerable and exposed regarding cheating on his wife and in other relationships, dug up the root of the bitterness I have felt for my exes. In this season of my life, I am working through the pain of what I have experienced so that I can become a clean slate for the man God has kept just for me. This episode has truly helped me to see that my prayers to be healed within will happen not just for me but for them as well. I applaud you both for being bold, open, and transparent. I pray that you will continue to do the work that is vital for the transformation of lives for the Kingdom. This message was not just for the men who have cheated or continue to cheat. It was also for the women who have experienced the pain of their consequences. I will be praying that this episode becomes viral. There is true healing deep within the lessons learned here.
We never really understand the compliment it is to have and to be a friend. He called us his friend. I'm so elated that you all have friends you can be vulnerable with, and have the heart to guide and uplift your friends. God bless you both. May He grant increase for your faithfulness. May He bless you with a NEW energy and the desires of your heart, in Him. May He show you His love through the Lov'ers He has selected for you, daily.
What an amazing podcast. I’m a divorcee six years in after a 40 year marriage. It has made me as a woman take a hard look at myself and repent. Sometimes when we’re in pain, we are not considerate of the pain that we may be exacting on another or sometimes we don’t care at the moment. I guess when you think of the scriptures in the New Testament regarding the woman who was brought to Jesus and Jesus said until the crowd “let him without sin cast the first stone“ none of us are sinless. Thank you again. I will share this with others as I believe it will bring healing and hopefully ignite the process of restoration to man and women. FLD, Columbia, SC
Such a beautiful episode and I pray it is going to liberate a lot of people cheating. I love it when men open up.It brings freedom and breaks chains. Integrity is key to freedom and inner peace. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes! Speaking life into our off spring breaking ALL generation curse. 🙌🏾. The fact that he went back to those woman and pray with them was a blessing. When our kids call us out on our wrong it is really a self check in the mirror saying what in the world am I'm doing. I too have been called out by mines and change immediately. It is hard to forgive ourselves. I had that issue in the 2.0 of me BUT I am a 3.0 of me because of God and I love this 3.0 of me. I loss friends as well but I was totally fine with it because I love God more and he is/ will put the right people in my life. This was yet another great video!
Forgiving yourself is so hard. When he said he buried some stuff alive and had to bury it again properly….maaaaannnnn that almost took me out. If that wasn’t a word for me!!
It’s so good to see men doing the work. When he apologized to those women he laid the foundation for for his deliverance. It is my prayer that God will continue to bless him and give him the desires of his heart.
All I can say is 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏, Watching this for this time today even though this is replay. To me every replay is A New Play, New beginnings, a whole new you. The New Paul, The New Ruth, the New Beginnings of Loving myself, My children, and others. This was lit as always🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Prayers for this Brother and all the Brothers who are going through this same Transition.
Laterras, I AM LOVING THIS SERIES. It is providing MUCH NEEDED KNOWLEDGE of the SACRED MARRIAGE VOWS. “To HAVE & To HOLD”… To come together to be vulnerable, intimate, to fulfill his need, not to deny… Gerry, your prayer for your Ex was so powerful. Another one for Dear Future Wifey Quote Hall of Fame: “A KING GOES for a QUEEN…and A KING can IDENTIFY A QUEEN…” ~ KING Gerry Fisher Thank you Gerry & Laterras for being so transparent.
This is really a dope episode. Really enjoyed it. It spoke to a number of questions I've had over the year. Thank you Gerry for sharing those stories. Laterras, you are giving so many men, including myself a voice that once was broken from past traumas, missing rites of passage, and the wounds of warriors fighting to simply stay alive. This episode reinforced the importance of men helping men. Thankful for you brother. Be encouraged. Keep pressing. Always a pleasure to watch each episode.
This podcast is a gift to men. I can't say that I have seen content like this anywhere else. It's the transparency for me. The candid conversations and honesty are enlightening and I hope more men can get the help they need from simply hearing other men's testimonies.
powerful...I am applauding you both for the things you have learned...freedom is everything....forgiveness is key...when you love yourself first you can love others...spending time with God shows you who you really are and allows you to shed your past and open the door to your future you are both amazing men God bless your futures💝
Its amazing how God connects the dots for this amazing ministry. This episode was very healing for me.. Broken relationships are hard on the offender as well.. I pray everyone that sees this episode is able to extract something that will make them better! Bless You❤
I am shook, just yesterday I told myself I need to make room for my new name. I'm not a person who names themselves several different times, instead it was in my spirit to make way, leave a little room for a new me in my life. The altar analogy was spot on as well, as I am actively trying to be less focused on old altars the old or typical me would have been focused on to allow room for a new personal & spiritual mind. Thank you for this message!
It help me so much I dealing with that right now my husband walk out abruptly I came home from church he was gone so this powerful CONFIRMATION from God is amazing I will be praying for them and all of us thank dear wifey podcast this show help soooo much with my situation
This is what I love about this podcast. Discussing the things that isn't talked about. So refreshing to hear these stories. It brings so much clarity and understanding about the things we go through. We're all a work in progress on our journey of becoming who God has called us to be.
It's never to late to STOP the cycle in the guest's son. Being that he needed healing, and love from his father. Doing the work on himself even after his infidelity was essential to breaking the cycle, and generational curses as Mr. L said turning them into generational blessings is a pathway to being "whole".
I really love your honesty, your podcast is helping me to somewhat understand how it is that my father loved my mother but always cheated. My parents would spend hours conversing and my dad would blush everytime he looked at her. I want to be married someday but I have never been in a relationship to know what that's like. You're really helping me very much, thank you!
Wow! As a woman married for 30 years and experiencing divorce because he would not stop the infidelity; today God has opened my eyes to his pain. I always looked at it intentional and today I release him and the pain for me and my sons to God. I did not truly understand. I’m so sorry for our black men that don’t get that approval. I’m so sorry that they are unwilling to be venerable. I’m so sorry that they do not know how to communicate. I did not know all of this either. I was willing to learn. I had to stop the emotional pain because he would not. I am so glad that I have found this additional help for my recovery from betrayal and divorce in these podcast. My heart leaps for joy and new revelation from God! God bless you and your guest for being LIT!!!!
How blessed can one be to realize how your podcast is touching people and changing them. Bless you and May you continue touching lives across the globe. Thank you for everything
Wow, your guest apologizing to each them caused him to heal even more but I know it took strength, and courage. That's what it takes to be "truly" whole and healed completely.
As a woman who has experienced heartbreak too, this series will go down as one of my favourites so far. The healing and comfort it brings just hearing another man talk so honestly and candidly about this. Its mega. God bless you both!!!!
I am speechless. This is an amazing episode and anyone who is in a relationship should see it…more than once! Thank you both for your transparency and for revealing yourselves to minister to others! I’m so emotional right now!
This was SO good…it’s good to see people(especially men) make mistakes, and recognize the mistakes, feel bad for the mistakes and eventually change their ways! Keep it coming! It’s good to see people in their brokenness for others to know they can move forward and be better! Love it…👏👏👏
I really enjoy the "Dear future Wifey" podcast. Thank you for being transparent and thank you for allowing others to share their journey to freedom from sexual bondages. You're one a kind! Blessings!!
Powerful 🙌🏾 What a blessing to experience this level of transparency from men who have grown from the errors of their immaturity!!! I'm learning to dispel the notion of "once a cheater, always a cheater "🙏🏽#Transformation #Puttingthetoysaway👍🏽
This was refreshing to hear. Men able to admit and understand what they’ve done wrong. Making the choice to do and be better is absolutely amazing. It gives me hope that my husband is out there preparing himself for me as I am on the same preparation journey. What a blessing ❤️
This was amazing! Powerful lessons here. Many issues we face in adulthood begjn in the home with our parents and guardians... The need to feel loved, appreciated, approved and accepted. We start doing things and becoming less than we were meant to be just to compensate for what we lost or missed out. This podcast always reminds me to keep working on myself in this journey and that God is my why. Living intentionally and transparently. "God can't heal what you conceal." - Laterras (2021). I might end up writing a book right here because of the lessons I keep remembering. 😅😅😅 Thank you for another great episode! It's great to hear from the men what causes them to cheat and how it actually makes them feel like afterward. 🤝
This was so good!! It made me know that I am doing the right thing praying for who God has for my life and kept wolves in sheep's clothing away from me!!
It's OK to connect the dots of some of the causes of our negative behavior, some of which stems from childhood. But what makes us strong men and women is picking ourselves up and taking accountability going forward to right our wrongs and live enriched lives that honor God and others. Thanks for the podcast. I enjoy all of them, but especially the ones with singles like me.
This was a beautiful transparent episode. I pray God continues to strengthen you and heal you brother. And thank you Laterras for your obedience and openness in letting God use you to bless so many other people like myself. God bless you 🙏🏾
Powerful segment, the part when he said he went back to mom hometown and released some stuff is what got me. I moved to Texas 7 years ago from Flint, Mi. I was divorced almost 2 years ago. I just had a chance to go back home and on that trip it was laid in my Spirit to go lay on the land where I grew up and release somethings, issues I had dealt with. I am so grateful to have heard this podcast in confirmation to what The Creator is doing in my life. So grateful this brother is choosing to heal and be better for the next woman. Thanks always great encouragement on this channel.
This is absolutely amazing. I pray every man who is ready to accept the lesson of his past, repent and press forward into his healing in the mighty name of Jesus Amen 🙏🏽
Wow this spoke volumes! Jerry really opened his heart & his soul by being transparent. The fact that he went back to right his wrongs was mind blowing to me. There is usually a stigma when it comes to counseling but I am so glad that he wants to dig deep to be the man that God has created him to be. Many blessings to you Jerry and I hope other men will learn from your testimony. Latteras keep allowing God to use you! Your podcasts have enlightened me very much 💞
Great podcast! Powerful! Let me just say, I appreciate the transparency from both of you. I wish that more men (and I'm sure some women) understood this concept on the front end, prior to the damage being done. Honesty is always the best policy. I can only speak as a women who has been through some things, but men do not understand that the truth followed by an apology (genuine) goes a long way. Not only does it allow the person affected by your actions to make an informed decision, it allows you to let go of the guilt, shame, and veil of dishonesty. Thank you for the enlightenment on marriage vows too. I've never been married, but I will take the advice of looking at vows as an oath. It's important to understand something and not just recite it out of tradition. That makes perfect sense, lol.
They say the most beautifuliest person is an ex in the arms of the next... The most important thing is that we live we learn and grow.. when we know better we should always choose to do better.
Going back to refresh my memory of this Vow series & as you 2 talked /ministered about Saul receiving his new name on the road to Damascus. New fresh revelation 💡looking forward to my new name. 🙏🏽 😊
Listen listen listen, you are really really making a difference out here. I watch your videos to help me coach my male client's and I'm seeing so much growth in them. Thank you so much for BEING OBEDIENT TO GOD🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏿❤️
This is my first time seeing this channel. I know GOD sent me here. As a woman I am on a journey of single hood and being celibate. I always wondered if there are men out there really doing the same. This so amazing to see and hear. Prayers to everyone on this journey may GOD continue to give us all strength in our weakness. 🙏🏽❤️
I'm so grateful to have found this podcast! It gives me hope in many ways. Thank you to you and your guest for your openness. It's awesome to witness what God is doing in your life and in the life of others. God bless you!
This was sooooo good 😌 This is a real testimony of how ministry truly works. You and Essence was just being yourself, operating within your individual gifts and through your experiences and sharing, the Lord was able to draw this man and start him on his healing journey. Hallelujah 🙌🏾
Many blessings to this man that chose to be open, honest, and vulnerable. I pray that he comes to accept the things he cannot change, make peace with the past, and forgive himself and let it go. Be healed!
My friend ,you have done it again! Just when I think you have had the best show! This one right here! This episode touched my heart and caressed it. My God! The vulnerability. The truth. Bondages and yolks have been broken in both the lives of women and men. I always have wanted to hear the male perspective. You gave it. He gave it. The Saul to Paul experience. Praying for a God fearing man takes a whole new weight! Thank you so much for providing this space us to heal. Tell Gerry thank you!
This episode was so hard to watch because of the emotions shared. I could feel the pain through the honesty. Thank you to both of you. It truly shows that humans are spiritual beings. What we do affects our spirits. I just thank God for this episode. I've learnt a lot. ❤️ God keep you all
As my eyes fill and my wounds continue to drain, the full understanding of knowledge is power is coming through in this podcast. What I'm learning now I wish I knew way back when. Reformation of a man is stronger than reformation of a woman. Cause He leads so his queen can follow.
This series is really going to bless and help so many people 🙏🏿🔥. So many people say vows without actually thinking about what they are saying or knowing what they are getting into. God bless you for your Obedience!
Amazing episode! We truly never know who will touch us that end up being our breakthrough. I applaud Gerry on his courage to do what was right within his life. Not forgiving yourself will eat you alive. At the end of it all we have to not just be present but connected…Not just recite, but make an oath.
As a woman who’s going through a divorce this episode was a bit triggering. So hard to listen to, because if felt like I was reliving the pain of being cheated on. But this was also so good to hear two men being honest about their experiences.
Same. But he's a serial abuser. He's fresh out something and guilt ridden. The fact that he's on this show points to his strong need to "correct [himself] publicly" , the begging of his ex, and calling all the others ...but I've been with this kind of guy before. Hate to say it, he won't change. He's reading all these comments getting the praise he wants to feed his ego. His unseen actions will determine his effort. This public correctipn ain't it.
We need more imperfect men to be transparent for those who may be going through similar situations or are at a point in their lives where they need guidance. Thank you brothers for the honesty and great content.
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Hey Chris😏
Totally Chris. I recall the Pastor at a church I attended would invite the men and young men every third Sunday out to his vacation property. We purchase fish on the way and then when we got there we would cook it. It was an amazing time for fellowship, food and friendship. Then we got down to talking and I would hear stories of infidelity, abuse, you name it. As a young man, it was the most powerful experience I've had with a group of men. I so miss that experience. It was far impacting than me going to church. This podcast today reminded me of that experience.
@@releasedexpressions Those experiences sound powerful brother, maybe you can carry that torch in your own way. I try and mentor young men or just young adults in general whenever I'm given an opportunity. Kings raising Kings!
It took a lot to say this! I have MUCH respect for him! Would love to see a son, I’m sorry movement where fathers get real with their sons and restructure Gods idea of the role of the father ! Much appreciated may God continue to bless you both!
Love how he went back to the exes apologising and praying for them, that was a serious prophetic action. Not only did he heal the wound that he created, but he stood in the gap for the other men who caused them harm. You stood in the gap for the male seed my brother!!! May Christ enlarge you everywhere you go.
Amen!
As a divorced woman who was also married 20+ years this was so good. This really spoke to me . I’m so grateful to be in a place of wholeness. Single and whole. Celibacy is such a beautiful thing for me. Getting to know yourself after a divorce is a beautiful thing. We as human beings have made so many mistakes. We have had influences in our life that wasn’t the best people to have in our space. But when you can reflect, release, become a new person that’s the joy that God desires for us. Healing, Forgiveness, Repentance is very important to be a New , Happy, Whole person . This was awesome 👏🏽! Blessings to these two men and everyone whom can relate. It definitely blessed me. Old things have passed away, a new Creature was Birthed! Gerry story blessed my soul from speaking about his childhood to where he is at right now. It’s a Shaking and Shifting in the Atmosphere. God makes ALL things NEW
I'm Samuel by name I went through your profile picture and I like what I saw are you single ?
Can I have your gmail to text each other and get to know you much better than this , I'm much interested in you
Amen
Amen and thank you for articulating my thoughts 😊
I pray this comment for my mother and father. They desire companionship so much after divorce, they are doing things they didn’t raise us to do.
He who conceals his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them will find mercy.
Proverbs 28 v 13
This is the essence of this channel. It's breaking viewers' and guests bondages and chains. Grateful 🙏🏽
"A King goes for a Queen, and a King can Identify a Queen" -Gerri Fisher 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻‼‼‼‼‼POWERFUL
That podcast with Essence is the gift that keeps giving.
Wow. All I can say is this episode is so LIT. My husband left me for another woman 6 years ago and I had so many questions about how could he physically step out on our marriage. This episode gave me a lot of closure in trying to understand the mind of a man who cheats on his wife or partner. Now I actually pray for him because I know that he was broken and he probably does have shame and regret.
As a single woman still on the dating scene. It is so refreshing to see and hear men doing the work on themselves. I now have hope that there are men who want to be better. So as a woman it encourages me to continue to prepare myself for HIM! Because if we be honest often times we pray for the things and people that we are not prepared for. #FATHERCONTINUETOPREPAREME
I agree! This is so refreshing to hear that men are working on themselves as well. Very encouraging!
Yup!
Awesome talk. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest about your journey. The ‘Dear future wifey letters are going to come to pass with God being your helper. All the best to you and your guest.
Read “THE POWER OF LOVE GOD’S WAY” by Kevin & Winter Williams! I changed my mindset about dating an courtship! Big difference
@@tonicole2561 Indeed it is…. I looked for this book but could not find it. Where can I find it?
Black FOLK therapy/counseling is a MUST for singles, the engaged, and married people. #godisgood
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Im Always educated and encouraged with the Future Wifey content. Keep growing in Grace and bringing Us into the conversation ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Latterras you are so honest and confident in your honesty, and showing true vulnerability in discussing these kind of issues, to bring healing not only to yourself but to others and we really appreciate you so much for setting the standard. ❤
I know right!
@@winfridahbanda5739 absolutely 💯 we need more Christian men like this.
God has truly done a work in me. The ability to become transparent started back in 2010 and now people are witnessing the full manifestation for such a time as this.
@@DearFutureWifey You allowed God to do the work in you and as such many are receiving their healing and deliverance through your obedience it's so powerful. I have been sharing your work on my platforms so that the men in my circle and far and wide can tap into your ministry. Many of our brothers really need this so that they don't continue to bleed on us. So many are hurting and hurting us along the way and it takes someone who has surrendered to God for this work to even begin. We are blessed and grateful that your ministry is transforming lives. Many of the men in UK need this and its a blessing that we thr sisters can learn what is going on and how to support where we can. May God continue the great work he has began in you. We appreciate you sir. 🙏🏾
Hello Latterass this spoke to me in so many ways, as I have hurt many women because I was hurt, but God has allowed me to heal and has blessed me with such an incredible woman and as a result he has given me a opportunity to love again. I have learned and I am learning so much as I am on this journey myself. I have been watching your show and it has been a blessing to me. If you ever do a show on past work that men has done on themselves I am a sinner that has seen the grace of God on my life and if you ever do a show in my area I would love to share my story perhaps I can be a blessing to someone I wish you much success in all that you do God bless
Stepping outside marriage - “You feel a spiritual tearing in the covenant”. My word. 💔
Facts
I smiled so much at the end of this when he said he is writing ✍️ letters now. Man just one episode has changed this man for the better. Good job Laterras. Thank God for you
Almost broke me down to tears.
THIS was real accountability. So often we hear men talk about how they changed for the woman that they wanted, but take no accountability for all the women that they broke in the process. I really appreciate this brother’s vulnerability and personal accountability.
This here is pure accountability and as a woman who was cheated on in marriage ending up in divorce....22 yrs later still single, it is so difficult to find a good mature man. The culture is just changing with you men being vulnerable like this and it is healing to hear this🙌🏾 God bless you as you empower other men/women to come out and make a change!
Healing all over this place... shackles coming off our emotional ankles. We're journeying to freedom with each episode. Praise God! 💯🙌🏾
Thank you Mr Fisher for being transparent🙏🏾. Thank you both ❤
What an AMAZINGLY TRANSPARENT episode from both parties. Found myself getting upset at the truth of how men think when dealing with a phenomenal woman. It’s terrible to think, that there is absolutely NOTHING women can do to be seen by a man they may love oh so dearly. God help me in my journey in life. GREAT EPISODE Latterras!!! You’ve done it again!!!
This episode really reflects why healing is so important. The saying once a cheater, always a cheater exists because people make the same mistakes because they didn’t take the time to heal. Thank you for always keeping it really with your guests and yourself.
Laterras i can never say thank you enough for this platform and the way God is using it to bring healing to his people. God bless you my brother.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I appreciate that
Break through episode for men. Testimony is the greatest example that God can change and bring you through anything. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
This is probably one of the best discussions from a man about relationships, and being honest, I have ever heard in my entire life!! Thank you for being obedient and giving of yourself, and being completely open and vulnerable. Women long to listen and understand men from this point of view. You have truly ministered to me, and I pray God blesses you eminently and abundantly. I am trying to understand and heal, which has helped me, so thank you and God bless. And this platform is fantastic! I pray God to bless it with much success!!
Amazing! This episode reminds me of how AMAZING my God is! He truly leaves me in awe of His grace and mercy! The way He is healing men through this podcast leaves me speechless!! To Him be ALL glory, honor, and praise! Laterras, you are an example of what opening yourself and allowing God to have His way looks like! I pray that this episode reaches men who need to know that they can change if they surrender and allow God to change them! All praise to You Mighty God!
Let me start by saying I am proud of the both of you for being so transparent on this episode, it spoke volumes to me. Thank you...
It made me see and understand when a man who has made mistakes, acknowledges his wrongdoings, is remorseful and is no longer looking for fleshy fulfillment or the approval of cynic people... Smh...🙋🏾♀️
How beautiful it is to see God step into your life, right in the middle of your mess and bless you with another chance to get it right. And how God save you from your self and change your whole prospective & outlook, healing you from your core to the outer, now that is so beautiful and wonderful, as only God can do.
I pray that the both of you find your future wife and you get another chance to “Have and Hold Her.” Please continue your journeys to seek God first and his grace and mercy will forever be sufficient in your lives.
Now your new identity is “ Godfearing Man” continue to walk in that and finish the work on yourselves. Trust me, the best is yet to come.
In Jesus mighty name, Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
There is a difference in riciting than giving an oath!!! PROFOUND...
God's hand is truly on this Podcast!!! This is such a blessing MY NEW FAVORITE EPISODE. So many gems dropped. Thank you both!
Nobody but Jesus!
I’ve learned that when you cover sin you won’t prosper!! Mentally, emotionally,your money won’t prosper! Sin not only blinds you it weakens you more and more!! When you are chosen you have to be pruned. God knew we would fall that’s why He sent this wonderful blessing of GRACE! Took me a long time to get that! My fall was allowed so that I would understand that the sin I was in was in me but hadn’t been activated. I can now walk in love towards myself!! And use this to help someone else.
Thank you for sharing, Woman of God.
@@DearFutureWifey ain’t He alright Glory to God in my church voice!! Lol
I'm Samuel by name I went through your profile picture and I like what I saw are you single ?
@@findingtruelove222 yes
@@latashakearse3567 can I have your gmail to text you and get to know you much better
WHAT A POWERFUL PODCAST! Showing that God can humble and heal you right where you are...and in the process take you back to apply balm to the hearts of the many hearts you have broken so that they too can be healed and move on. Laterras would love to see Gerry Fisher back on the podcast to see how his journey is going. Praying that he stays the course. Praying that maybe the young lady who led him to you...maybe God can reconnect them. This podcast was healing for so many women. Thank you.
This podcast is so beautiful. It confirmed something the Lord showed me in a dream a long time ago. My ex appeared in a dream I had, prior to the dream when we were in a relationship; he was very jealous and did not want me with anyone else but he didn’t do what was necessary to keep me but in the dream he told my spouse to be; “treat her the way she should’ve been treated” he walked away and then past away about a year or so after. This confirms how he was finally releasing me spiritually. My God 🙌🏼 Overall you are bringing such a strong message. Thank you, as a woman I am learning so much. God bless 🙏🏼
Wow
I am all the way in South Africa and I don't miss this for anything.
Hello fellow South African! 💃💃
Wouldn't miss it either.🌟..United Kingdom...
Hello fellow South Africans ♥️🙏🏿
Sisonke
I did not expect to cry during this episode, but I needed those tears to fall. Watching Gerry become vulnerable and exposed regarding cheating on his wife and in other relationships, dug up the root of the bitterness I have felt for my exes. In this season of my life, I am working through the pain of what I have experienced so that I can become a clean slate for the man God has kept just for me. This episode has truly helped me to see that my prayers to be healed within will happen not just for me but for them as well.
I applaud you both for being bold, open, and transparent. I pray that you will continue to do the work that is vital for the transformation of lives for the Kingdom. This message was not just for the men who have cheated or continue to cheat. It was also for the women who have experienced the pain of their consequences. I will be praying that this episode becomes viral. There is true healing deep within the lessons learned here.
We never really understand the compliment it is to have and to be a friend. He called us his friend. I'm so elated that you all have friends you can be vulnerable with, and have the heart to guide and uplift your friends. God bless you both. May He grant increase for your faithfulness. May He bless you with a NEW energy and the desires of your heart, in Him. May He show you His love through the Lov'ers He has selected for you, daily.
A king goes for a queen...I like it!
What an amazing podcast. I’m a divorcee six years in after a 40 year marriage. It has made me as a woman take a hard look at myself and repent.
Sometimes when we’re in pain, we are not considerate of the pain that we may be exacting on another or sometimes we don’t care at the moment.
I guess when you think of the scriptures in the New Testament regarding the woman who was brought to Jesus and Jesus said until the crowd “let him without sin cast the first stone“ none of us are sinless. Thank you again. I will share this with others as I believe it will bring healing and hopefully ignite the process of restoration to man and women.
FLD, Columbia, SC
Such a beautiful episode and I pray it is going to liberate a lot of people cheating.
I love it when men open up.It brings freedom and breaks chains.
Integrity is key to freedom and inner peace.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes! Speaking life into our off spring breaking ALL generation curse.
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The fact that he went back to those woman and pray with them was a blessing.
When our kids call us out on our wrong it is really a self check in the mirror saying what in the world am I'm doing. I too have been called out by mines and change immediately. It is hard to forgive ourselves. I had that issue in the 2.0 of me BUT I am a 3.0 of me because of God and I love this 3.0 of me.
I loss friends as well but I was totally fine with it because I love God more and he is/ will put the right people in my life.
This was yet another great video!
2 words to describe this episode: Transparent & Powerful! Love the community of men being formed! We all need & love to see it! 💗
Forgiving yourself is so hard. When he said he buried some stuff alive and had to bury it again properly….maaaaannnnn that almost took me out. If that wasn’t a word for me!!
It’s so good to see men doing the work. When he apologized to those women he laid the foundation for for his deliverance. It is my prayer that God will continue to bless him and give him the desires of his heart.
All I can say is 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏, Watching this for this time today even though this is replay. To me every replay is A New Play, New beginnings, a whole new you. The New Paul, The New Ruth, the New Beginnings of Loving myself, My children, and others. This was lit as always🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Prayers for this Brother and all the Brothers who are going through this same Transition.
Laterras, I AM LOVING THIS SERIES. It is providing MUCH NEEDED KNOWLEDGE of the SACRED MARRIAGE VOWS.
“To HAVE & To HOLD”…
To come together to be vulnerable, intimate, to fulfill his need, not to deny…
Gerry, your prayer for your Ex was so powerful.
Another one for Dear Future Wifey Quote Hall of Fame: “A KING GOES for a QUEEN…and A KING can IDENTIFY A QUEEN…” ~ KING Gerry Fisher
Thank you Gerry & Laterras for being so transparent.
This is really a dope episode. Really enjoyed it. It spoke to a number of questions I've had over the year. Thank you Gerry for sharing those stories. Laterras, you are giving so many men, including myself a voice that once was broken from past traumas, missing rites of passage, and the wounds of warriors fighting to simply stay alive. This episode reinforced the importance of men helping men. Thankful for you brother. Be encouraged. Keep pressing. Always a pleasure to watch each episode.
Thank you, bro! Thank you for leaving a comment and for watching. Iron sharpens iron.
This podcast is a gift to men. I can't say that I have seen content like this anywhere else. It's the transparency for me. The candid conversations and honesty are enlightening and I hope more men can get the help they need from simply hearing other men's testimonies.
Amen
powerful...I am applauding you both for the things you have learned...freedom is everything....forgiveness is key...when you love yourself first you can love others...spending time with God shows you who you really are and allows you to shed your past and open the door to your future you are both amazing men God bless your futures💝
Thank you. To God be the glory
I totally agree @ SiAdams
Thank you, this is what ministry is all about.
I had to share this with my brother, who is struggling.
Thanks again
Thanks for sharing!
Its amazing how God connects the dots for this amazing ministry. This episode was very healing for me.. Broken relationships are hard on the offender as well.. I pray everyone that sees this episode is able to extract something that will make them better! Bless You❤
This man stood in for the place of all the hurt of those other men omg 😢😢😭😭😭
I am shook, just yesterday I told myself I need to make room for my new name. I'm not a person who names themselves several different times, instead it was in my spirit to make way, leave a little room for a new me in my life. The altar analogy was spot on as well, as I am actively trying to be less focused on old altars the old or typical me would have been focused on to allow room for a new personal & spiritual mind. Thank you for this message!
It help me so much I dealing with that right now my husband walk out abruptly I came home from church he was gone so this powerful CONFIRMATION from God is amazing I will be praying for them and all of us thank dear wifey podcast this show help soooo much with my situation
Reciting VS an Oath!🙆🏽♂️
This is what I love about this podcast. Discussing the things that isn't talked about. So refreshing to hear these stories. It brings so much clarity and understanding about the things we go through. We're all a work in progress on our journey of becoming who God has called us to be.
Nobody but Jesus
It's never to late to STOP the cycle in the guest's son. Being that he needed healing, and love from his father. Doing the work on himself even after his infidelity was essential to breaking the cycle, and generational curses as Mr. L said turning them into generational blessings is a pathway to being "whole".
I'm Samuel by name I went through your profile picture and I like what I saw are you single ?
I really love your honesty, your podcast is helping me to somewhat understand how it is that my father loved my mother but always cheated. My parents would spend hours conversing and my dad would blush everytime he looked at her. I want to be married someday but I have never been in a relationship to know what that's like. You're really helping me very much, thank you!
Wow! As a woman married for 30 years and experiencing divorce because he would not stop the infidelity; today God has opened my eyes to his pain. I always looked at it intentional and today I release him and the pain for me and my sons to God. I did not truly understand. I’m so sorry for our black men that don’t get that approval. I’m so sorry that they are unwilling to be venerable. I’m so sorry that they do not know how to communicate. I did not know all of this either. I was willing to learn. I had to stop the emotional pain because he would not. I am so glad that I have found this additional help for my recovery from betrayal and divorce in these podcast. My heart leaps for joy and new revelation from God! God bless you and your guest for being LIT!!!!
How blessed can one be to realize how your podcast is touching people and changing them. Bless you and May you continue touching lives across the globe. Thank you for everything
Thank you so much!
Wow, your guest apologizing to each them caused him to heal even more but I know it took strength, and courage. That's what it takes to be "truly" whole and healed completely.
Unbury... Bury it correctly! YO!!!!!!!!! ok Jesus! My God! Let me know where to send a cake! LOL
Come on Black men… iron sharpens iron!! Rise up… prepare to stand in your God ordained space❤️ great video, great job. I’m proud of you men😃❤️
As a woman who has experienced heartbreak too, this series will go down as one of my favourites so far. The healing and comfort it brings just hearing another man talk so honestly and candidly about this. Its mega. God bless you both!!!!
Amen!
South Africa here; this is amazing!
I am speechless. This is an amazing episode and anyone who is in a relationship should see it…more than once! Thank you both for your transparency and for revealing yourselves to minister to others! I’m so emotional right now!
This was SO good…it’s good to see people(especially men) make mistakes, and recognize the mistakes, feel bad for the mistakes and eventually change their ways! Keep it coming! It’s good to see people in their brokenness for others to know they can move forward and be better! Love it…👏👏👏
I really enjoy the "Dear future Wifey" podcast. Thank you for being transparent and thank you for allowing others to share their journey to freedom from sexual bondages. You're one a kind! Blessings!!
I'm Samuel by name I went through your profile picture and I like what I saw are you single ?
This episode was soooo good. Many lessons came out of this one. All praises to God!!!
Love to see men doing their work!! Thank you for creating a safe place for many to share so we all can see and grow.
Powerful 🙌🏾 What a blessing to experience this level of transparency from men who have grown from the errors of their immaturity!!! I'm learning to dispel the notion of "once a cheater, always a cheater "🙏🏽#Transformation #Puttingthetoysaway👍🏽
This was refreshing to hear. Men able to admit and understand what they’ve done wrong. Making the choice to do and be better is absolutely amazing. It gives me hope that my husband is out there preparing himself for me as I am on the same preparation journey. What a blessing ❤️
This was amazing! Powerful lessons here. Many issues we face in adulthood begjn in the home with our parents and guardians... The need to feel loved, appreciated, approved and accepted. We start doing things and becoming less than we were meant to be just to compensate for what we lost or missed out. This podcast always reminds me to keep working on myself in this journey and that God is my why. Living intentionally and transparently. "God can't heal what you conceal." - Laterras (2021). I might end up writing a book right here because of the lessons I keep remembering. 😅😅😅
Thank you for another great episode! It's great to hear from the men what causes them to cheat and how it actually makes them feel like afterward. 🤝
I use the table setup for one-on-one and the couch for couples
@@DearFutureWifey Hello 👋 That makes sense. Thank you for explaining that.
This was so good!! It made me know that I am doing the right thing praying for who God has for my life and kept wolves in sheep's clothing away from me!!
It's OK to connect the dots of some of the causes of our negative behavior, some of which stems from childhood. But what makes us strong men and women is picking ourselves up and taking accountability going forward to right our wrongs and live enriched lives that honor God and others. Thanks for the podcast. I enjoy all of them, but especially the ones with singles like me.
This was a beautiful transparent episode. I pray God continues to strengthen you and heal you brother. And thank you Laterras for your obedience and openness in letting God use you to bless so many other people like myself. God bless you 🙏🏾
You are so welcome
Powerful segment, the part when he said he went back to mom hometown and released some stuff is what got me. I moved to Texas 7 years ago from Flint, Mi. I was divorced almost 2 years ago. I just had a chance to go back home and on that trip it was laid in my Spirit to go lay on the land where I grew up and release somethings, issues I had dealt with. I am so grateful to have heard this podcast in confirmation to what The Creator is doing in my life. So grateful this brother is choosing to heal and be better for the next woman. Thanks always great encouragement on this channel.
That's dope!
"When you pray for a God fearing man do you really know what that means?" This entire conversation was so good.
Wow Wow Wow… reciting what the Minister says versus making an oath… Thank you both for the transparency 💯
Amazing…. Transparent…. Soooo Refreshing and healing for both men and women 💯♥️🥰
Thank you for your Testimony!!!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us
This is absolutely amazing. I pray every man who is ready to accept the lesson of his past, repent and press forward into his healing in the mighty name of Jesus Amen 🙏🏽
this was so powerful. I sent this to several of my male friends. This platform is changing my life and I am sure many others.
Wow this spoke volumes! Jerry really opened his heart & his soul by being transparent. The fact that he went back to right his wrongs was mind blowing to me. There is usually a stigma when it comes to counseling but I am so glad that he wants to dig deep to be the man that God has created him to be. Many blessings to you Jerry and I hope other men will learn from your testimony. Latteras keep allowing God to use you! Your podcasts have enlightened me very much 💞
Accepting God, not just going to church!!! This man is speaking 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This was eye opening. Thanks for being so honestly LIT❣
Great podcast! Powerful! Let me just say, I appreciate the transparency from both of you. I wish that more men (and I'm sure some women) understood this concept on the front end, prior to the damage being done. Honesty is always the best policy. I can only speak as a women who has been through some things, but men do not understand that the truth followed by an apology (genuine) goes a long way. Not only does it allow the person affected by your actions to make an informed decision, it allows you to let go of the guilt, shame, and veil of dishonesty. Thank you for the enlightenment on marriage vows too. I've never been married, but I will take the advice of looking at vows as an oath. It's important to understand something and not just recite it out of tradition. That makes perfect sense, lol.
They say the most beautifuliest person is an ex in the arms of the next... The most important thing is that we live we learn and grow.. when we know better we should always choose to do better.
Going back to refresh my memory of this Vow series & as you 2 talked /ministered about Saul receiving his new name on the road to Damascus. New fresh revelation 💡looking forward to my new name. 🙏🏽 😊
Listen listen listen, you are really really making a difference out here. I watch your videos to help me coach my male client's and I'm seeing so much growth in them. Thank you so much for BEING OBEDIENT TO GOD🙏🏽🙌🏾💪🏿❤️
@charlenenorwood Your comment just blessed me beyond words. Wow
@@DearFutureWifey God just wanted to give you a verbal smile
This is my first time seeing this channel. I know GOD sent me here. As a woman I am on a journey of single hood and being celibate. I always wondered if there are men out there really doing the same. This so amazing to see and hear. Prayers to everyone on this journey may GOD continue to give us all strength in our weakness. 🙏🏽❤️
This is powerful, men need to hear this.
This is such a great open honest conversation. Difference in taking an oath or just reciting what someone says.
I'm so grateful to have found this podcast! It gives me hope in many ways. Thank you to you and your guest for your openness. It's awesome to witness what God is doing in your life and in the life of others. God bless you!
This was sooooo good 😌
This is a real testimony of how ministry truly works. You and Essence was just being yourself, operating within your individual gifts and through your experiences and sharing, the Lord was able to draw this man and start him on his healing journey. Hallelujah 🙌🏾
What a episode!!!! Another great episode .. thank you God for creating such open men striving to look more like you .
Bravo for another Going Viral broadcast
Many blessings to this man that chose to be open, honest, and vulnerable. I pray that he comes to accept the things he cannot change, make peace with the past, and forgive himself and let it go. Be healed!
💜💜💜 when he made the comment about leaving all the mistakes at the altar & going back to snatch back what was lost 😭😭😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
My friend ,you have done it again! Just when I think you have had the best show! This one right here! This episode touched my heart and caressed it. My God! The vulnerability. The truth. Bondages and yolks have been broken in both the lives of women and men. I always have wanted to hear the male perspective. You gave it. He gave it. The Saul to Paul experience. Praying for a God fearing man takes a whole new weight! Thank you so much for providing this space us to heal. Tell Gerry thank you!
Wow, thank you!
Thank you
This episode was so hard to watch because of the emotions shared. I could feel the pain through the honesty. Thank you to both of you. It truly shows that humans are spiritual beings. What we do affects our spirits. I just thank God for this episode. I've learnt a lot. ❤️ God keep you all
A blessing as usual !!! We’re so grateful!!
As my eyes fill and my wounds continue to drain, the full understanding of knowledge is power is coming through in this podcast. What I'm learning now I wish I knew way back when. Reformation of a man is stronger than reformation of a woman. Cause He leads so his queen can follow.
How I wished more men watched this so at least they can be better fathers and brothers
Another beautiful episode
Thank you for always😊
I know right I be sharing with all the men I know
This series is really going to bless and help so many people 🙏🏿🔥. So many people say vows without actually thinking about what they are saying or knowing what they are getting into. God bless you for your Obedience!
Amazing episode! We truly never know who will touch us that end up being our breakthrough. I applaud Gerry on his courage to do what was right within his life. Not forgiving yourself will eat you alive. At the end of it all we have to not just be present but connected…Not just recite, but make an oath.
Facts.
Very good honest conversation so much respect for you brother's grown men taking responsibility for their actions proud of you two powerful
As a woman who’s going through a divorce this episode was a bit triggering. So hard to listen to, because if felt like I was reliving the pain of being cheated on. But this was also so good to hear two men being honest about their experiences.
Same. But he's a serial abuser. He's fresh out something and guilt ridden. The fact that he's on this show points to his strong need to "correct [himself] publicly" , the begging of his ex, and calling all the others ...but I've been with this kind of guy before. Hate to say it, he won't change. He's reading all these comments getting the praise he wants to feed his ego. His unseen actions will determine his effort. This public correctipn ain't it.