Absolutely agree with you and Suzanne is doing great work for Women. I cant believe how "stay at home mum/ Homemaker" was not even an option growing up/ throughout my schooling. And how frowned upon it was when I ended up chosing that path. It does seem to be shifting thankfully.
Thank you for saying it 🙌🏼❤️ So many young women strap themselves down with debt and a career and later regret not having the flexibility. Other young ladies are discouraged in their desires to stay home with children, even though that is a natural God given desire to be a homemaker and mother.
It’s definitely not a popular thing to say, but it’s been on my heart for over a year. I have seen it over and over again, and it’s avoidable if we let everyone know that your career won’t define you, but your family will. 💕
When I was looking into gardening, I realized the importance of this right away. If the garden is an overgrown weed patch that’s burned up by July, I need to seek other advice! 🤷♀️ Thank you for watching!
I hope you had a lovely Mother's Day!!! 🥰 Could you link your graham cracker recipe and Suzanne's CZcams channel? I tried searching her name and can't find her. I even search through the Spill Over! Not sure if it's the algorithm or what 🤔🤷🏼♀️
Thank you for the comment! Somehow my entire long description seems to be MISSING from this upload! I’ll fix it asap and let you know when it’s back up.
It's all in the description, but here is a copy/paste to make it easier! I often think of adivce for the next generation of mothers, and today I wanted to take a minute of your time to share what I feel are the most important themes, values, and tricks that have changed my life, with each additional child. Join me as we discuss where to live, what is important, and how to thrive in your role as a mother. @SuzanneVenker: www.youtube.com/@SuzanneVenkerAuthor @TheSpillover: czcams.com/video/1zuLwSOLjZs/video.htmlsi=Xs2zfjna9wSPIAZL Marshmallows: downshiftology.com/recipes/how-to-make-homemade-marshmallows-paleo/ Graham Crackers: www.culinaryhill.com/homemade-graham-crackers/
Involving! 😮 I do agree. I did NOT do it. I did try. But i am a Control Freak, when it comes to Work. I double and triple Tasks simultaneously. Saving energy and time as i go. Standing and watching a child trash my kitchen, the schedule or my energy, was so grating on my nerves! I would try to assign a task, such as dishes? Then go do my work. I knew ahead, i would be doing those dishes again, after child went to bed! 😊 My standards are way too high, for half washed dishes! **i made a bad Mom. I made a better Second Round Mom, because it was 20 YEARS later! Lol And a great Grandmother for my grandson! I still had high standards, but was not Working out, so more Time to allow some Trashing to happen.... The honest assessment of it all? None of them turned out well, so my Changes made NO difference! Zip!
We have the kids put their dishes in the dishwasher. I often have to rearrange, but they put them away in the morning. My motto is “done is better than perfect.” Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and thank you for watching!
God sent my little girl to me when my husband and I were in college/working and were not expecting her. We decided I would stay home with her and I have felt like such a failure. I had thought I had done all the research to train her to eat, sleep, play well, and grow up in God’s commandments. But it has been a learning curve for sure 😁 My daughter did have a bit of medical stuff that I didn’t realize at first that made things challenging in regard to nursing, sleeping, talking, etc. She is nearly One years old and we have come a long way. They are a lot of things I will probably do different with the next one. Mostly, I don’t want to freak out about every little thing and worry that I am doing the wrong thing. I asked everyone’s opinion and switched my mind a billion times, that was exhausting and unfruitful. Your video almost brought me to tears. I wish so desperately to improve as wife and mother, as well as a daughter of Christ. Also, I would love to move back near my family, they are wonderful. I have felt quite alone in this city my husband and I moved to. But God is always faithful and continually working in me and my marriage. All glory be to God!
Absolutely agree with you and Suzanne is doing great work for Women. I cant believe how "stay at home mum/ Homemaker" was not even an option growing up/ throughout my schooling. And how frowned upon it was when I ended up chosing that path. It does seem to be shifting thankfully.
Thank you for saying it 🙌🏼❤️ So many young women strap themselves down with debt and a career and later regret not having the flexibility.
Other young ladies are discouraged in their desires to stay home with children, even though that is a natural God given desire to be a homemaker and mother.
It’s definitely not a popular thing to say, but it’s been on my heart for over a year. I have seen it over and over again, and it’s avoidable if we let everyone know that your career won’t define you, but your family will. 💕
Happy Mother’s Day! 🌸🌸🌸💐💐💐💜💜💜
Thank you! Same to you!
Couldn't agree with you more on mothers hearts are for their home! Such good advice
Thank you for watching!
Love love this, awesome advice for mothers!! I've already shared! ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing!! 💕
Spot on! I especially loved your advice about watching for others' "fruits" before asking for their input. Thank you for sharing!
When I was looking into gardening, I realized the importance of this right away. If the garden is an overgrown weed patch that’s burned up by July, I need to seek other advice! 🤷♀️
Thank you for watching!
I hope you had a lovely Mother's Day!!! 🥰 Could you link your graham cracker recipe and Suzanne's CZcams channel? I tried searching her name and can't find her. I even search through the Spill Over! Not sure if it's the algorithm or what 🤔🤷🏼♀️
Thank you for the comment! Somehow my entire long description seems to be MISSING from this upload! I’ll fix it asap and let you know when it’s back up.
It's all in the description, but here is a copy/paste to make it easier!
I often think of adivce for the next generation of mothers, and today I wanted to take a minute of your time to share what I feel are the most important themes, values, and tricks that have changed my life, with each additional child.
Join me as we discuss where to live, what is important, and how to thrive in your role as a mother.
@SuzanneVenker: www.youtube.com/@SuzanneVenkerAuthor
@TheSpillover: czcams.com/video/1zuLwSOLjZs/video.htmlsi=Xs2zfjna9wSPIAZL
Marshmallows: downshiftology.com/recipes/how-to-make-homemade-marshmallows-paleo/
Graham Crackers: www.culinaryhill.com/homemade-graham-crackers/
Involving! 😮 I do agree. I did NOT do it. I did try. But i am a Control Freak, when it comes to Work. I double and triple Tasks simultaneously. Saving energy and time as i go. Standing and watching a child trash my kitchen, the schedule or my energy, was so grating on my nerves! I would try to assign a task, such as dishes? Then go do my work. I knew ahead, i would be doing those dishes again, after child went to bed! 😊 My standards are way too high, for half washed dishes!
**i made a bad Mom. I made a better Second Round Mom, because it was 20 YEARS later! Lol And a great Grandmother for my grandson! I still had high standards, but was not Working out, so more Time to allow some Trashing to happen....
The honest assessment of it all?
None of them turned out well, so my Changes made NO difference! Zip!
We have the kids put their dishes in the dishwasher. I often have to rearrange, but they put them away in the morning.
My motto is “done is better than perfect.”
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and thank you for watching!
God sent my little girl to me when my husband and I were in college/working and were not expecting her. We decided I would stay home with her and I have felt like such a failure. I had thought I had done all the research to train her to eat, sleep, play well, and grow up in God’s commandments. But it has been a learning curve for sure 😁 My daughter did have a bit of medical stuff that I didn’t realize at first that made things challenging in regard to nursing, sleeping, talking, etc. She is nearly One years old and we have come a long way. They are a lot of things I will probably do different with the next one. Mostly, I don’t want to freak out about every little thing and worry that I am doing the wrong thing. I asked everyone’s opinion and switched my mind a billion times, that was exhausting and unfruitful. Your video almost brought me to tears. I wish so desperately to improve as wife and mother, as well as a daughter of Christ. Also, I would love to move back near my family, they are wonderful. I have felt quite alone in this city my husband and I moved to. But God is always faithful and continually working in me and my marriage. All glory be to God!