Step-By-Step What Happens When You Ignore A Girl
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Should you ignore a girl? Does it help or hurt your chances with her? You'll learn the psychology behind ignoring a girl and what effect it has on her level of interest in you. Because doing what comes naturally doesn't always work, and doing the counter intuitive sometimes does.
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If you treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan.
Facts
That's a good one
That’s tuff ✊🏾
Very true
And then sh*t hits the fan.
I can attest that women are attracted to men that other women find attractive. I recently was dialoguing with two women. The lady that I really wanted to date ignored my request for a first date. So I ask the another gal for a date. But, I sent the text to the wrong women. When the women that I really wanted found out I was about to date someone else she ask be for a date. Now we are dating pretty steady. So men do ignore the women between dates and make yourself desirable to other women and see what happens.
That’s so funny because I’m the total opposite. I NEVER go for the guys all the other girls want. I don’t want those guys at all…I find the “Diamond in the rough” type guy that most other women overlook. Not saying they’re not good looking or well built (cuz they are) but they’re not the kind of guy women swoon over. But the guys I like have this *thing* I can’t quite put my finger on it, but they’re just a little different. Special in their own way and not like the others. It’s this innate thing I feel from them. That’s what really attracted me to them…But I know what you’re saying is true for a lot of other women because the MINUTE I start liking one of these guys, all the sudden a bunch of other women will start to want him. They could’ve ignored him for months but the minute they see me giving him attention and attraction, all the sudden they pay attention to him. It’s pretty sick actually. So yea some women are absolutely like that, but then there’s other women like me who are the complete opposite.
It's kinda manipulative, don't you think
Why must humans make everything so damn complicated?
Is it some pathetic courtship ritual, or something
Stop with the mind games
Stop with the tedious chase and just get on with it
I usually "ignore" women because I think I'm too dense to know that I'm getting hit on.
Nobody would even speak to me for any reason anyway, so I don't have that problem 😊
I constantly think that women are hitting on me and I keep being solid wrong. I still play the game, for one lucky hit makes up for a dozen misses. Staying in the game, awkward to nine, nice to one. Go for it, brother
This is 100% true. Keep the excitement going. It's a relationship saver.
Ignore women and they ignore you. I just had an example. One women expressed her interest to date me. We wrote and made long phone calls. She was pretty anxious. But I lost interest and stopped answering her messages. And she stopped writing messages within two days. And never wrote again. Simple.
@@marguskiis7711keep talking body
So the big question now is, what is the best response to text her when she says something like "you're a bad texter"? Rule number 1 would be don't apologize or explain, but maybe instead, suggest that you're better in person and use that to arrange a first/another date.
She (Jammie) : you're a bad texter.
my reply: Is this always works for you?
She: what!
Me: To get men to meet you in person! stop using these silly tricks jammie, i knew you were into me ;), but keep your feelings in control girl.
And to a bit for charming after a minute or a couple of seconds just reply: "And yes i miss you too" This reply must point to her text "you're a bad texter".
She knows you are messing with her, but playful arrogance works like a charm guys. Happy dating :)
@@funnyanimalvideosshow7780way too much texting
"I wasn't asking for your opinion"
"Maybe I am, but maybe so are you, apparently it just doesn't match up. Whom would you like to slap in the face? Tell me your dirtiest secrets and I'm sure we will match up there..."
If you are ugly: Women couldn't careless about you ignoring them. This ignoring strategy will only work for handsome men
Exactly
This is true.
Unfortunately true... 😂😂😂
True!!! 😂
Women have told me I'm handsome but don't want to date me
This is why I chose the path of solitude, I'm sick and tired of women's childish games
But ignoring a women that has other good options can also backfire…if she thinks the initial connection is lost she could move on to someone who she has good communication and banter with.
Exactly.
Nah. I’m a girl, and if I am into a guy I can wait years for him even if I have options. I could never forget him even though he’s ignoring me.
@@ezomikpaell4995 good to know
@@ezomikpaell4995 and what make you being into a guy so much, that you will want him even after years?
no, that means she isn’t the one for you since the beginning, the one will reach out, even if she has more options.
there is no guy better than you, don’t forget that, you have to believe it, gl bro
Hahaa! I actually received the “you’re the worst texter in the world” the other day 😆
She likes you
@@TrippAdvice I agree. Downside is that she has been working out of state for her Aunt for the past week and a half (we haven’t met yet, dating app, but shown proof that neither are catfishing)
She returns the 23rd
@@emptysoul2757 "Working out of state for her aunt" Sounds like she is better at playing the hard to get game then you are.. 🤣 j/k!
@@emptysoul2757 don’t invest too much in that bc you’ll likely be disappointed
@@TheLace ohh.. it was bad, man. Real bad
Some people won't stomach this but it's true!
And this ONLY works if she's already attracted to you. If you're just an average guy, if you ignore her, it doesn't set you apart from all the other guys and make her attracted. She probably has so many guys she's talking to that in a day or two she doesn't even remember who you are.
This tactic also may destroy her feelings to you, if she attracted
@@janecross2262 Unless the guy is a 6'2" millionaire, the guy probably doesn't have to worry that she's attracted to him.
@@janecross2262 ignoring on purpose to get her attracted is the worst thing you can do, i ignore women only if they don't give me what i want, and i don't actually ignore them i'm actually done with them in my mind i will never text her ever. If she says dumb excuses to not go out with me i give the benefit of the doubt twice, if she keep doing that boom ignored forever, the majority of the time i never hear or see them again which means she wasnt interested at all and would've been a waste of time pursuing, than the rare times when she contacts me after few weeks i completely lost interest and usually just invite them at my house if she comes good if she doesn't cya. Some people say that your attentions is your currency and you don't spend currency if you don't receive anything in return it's a scam otherwise
@@BloodyHeck one of the worst comment i have ever seen
Ignore women and they ignore you. I just had an example. One women expressed her interest to date me. We wrote and made long phone calls. She was pretty anxious. But I lost interest and stopped answering her messages. And she stopped writing messages within two days. And never wrote again. Simple.
I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I've been ignoring Jennifer Aniston since the 90s and she's still not dating me.
Maybe she's still on a break 😂
😂
That’s a good one.😂
😂😂😂😂😂
This works on girls not women. I had someone try this on me and I was instantly unattracted to him. Never spoke to him again.
Cuz he did it wrong
And you probably wasnt atrracted to him anyway.
Lol. Facts
You forgot to add that doesn’t work on all women. Cause I met guys who tried this tactic on me I laugh and move on. When they reach back I never reply till they give up.
STOP THE GAMES
Sadly it works !
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I had this exact thing happen. Long distance. Girl and I would talk but since it was a long ways I figured why bother I would just stop talking for a month at a time. Finally she couldn't take it and flew out to visit and basically jumped me in the driveway. She told me it drove her nuts that I'd talk and then she wouldn't hear from me. She said it "pissed her off" but we know that it wasn't in a way that she'd walk away.
High Value Man 🤐
I am doing it right now😅. It attracts. All my vision change from dating
I ignore most woman that messages me. Most I’m not interested in, and I don’t feel ready for a relationship at the moment
That turns them on...
Biologically, women are attracted to confident masculine men. Chase, and she WILL run.
Thats why majority of women are attracted to drug and alcohol addicts a lot.
If you give her all the love and priority, she will friendzone you even after years, that's what happened to me. The girl whom I truly loved and she also loved me, had 7 years of relationship, but she friendzoned me she said you're too perfect guy you deserve better 🙁
I once took 4 days and she called to ask if i had silently dumped her and then i said i was busy ever since then i been the power house 😂😂😂😂
My girl told me jokingly she felt like picking a fight with me because I don't give her enough attention lol
I somewhat "ignored" this old coworker (let's call her Sarah) who apparently found me annoying. She's a bartender at my old catering job, and whenever I approached her or a fellow bartender, I would tell the same joke, "I'll have one large beer to help me get over my ex-girlfriend." One time, she said to me as I approached, "John, I don't want to hear it." A week or so later, I was approaching her coworker, and from the distance, Sarah said "John" in a stern voice. So yes, I was annoyed and since then, I didn't really interact with her. Went from outgoing to quiet. Sometimes she'd say hi to me when we saw each other, and I would emotionlessly say hey. I think a few times she would ask me to do this favor/task and I would just nod my head. Once or twice she thanked me and I didn't respond. I left the job, went to work in this cafe in the same building, but came back for this one particular service. The catering crew were REALLY desperate and reached out to me. In the ballroom, I made eye contact with Sara, who was only a few feet or so from me. What's funny is she _approached_ me; she could've just acknowledged me and went on with whatever. I know I would've. She asked me how I was (to my slight surprise), said she heard I switched to the cafe downstairs, asked me if I liked the job. Curious to see how she'd react (considering her past signs of not liking me), I told her I didn't plan on coming back to catering, and yeah, she did seem a bit surprised: "You're not coming back?" I remember saying "I don't think so" in a slightly disgusted tone of voice. But that wasn't it. That month, at a bar, Sara put her hand on my arm to get my attention and gave a slight wave. I just gave a slight smile and brief, still wave and went forward to catch up with friends (it was crowded). So it's funny...she approached me when I temporarily came back and reached out to me at the bar.
I kinda agree kinda disagree… It’s true no woman wants a simp type guy chasing after her like a puppy dog and agreeing w everything we say… that said, if you ignore me or act completely unimpressed I’ll immediately lose attraction. Part of my attraction is feeling the man’s attraction towards me…The secret sauce is to let her see that you WANT her. You have eyes for her . She doesn’t have to even question that. But for whatever reason, you don’t come running at her full speed. You hold back a bit. When we KNOW you want us, but still kinda hold back that’s what captures our attention. Acting blasé like we’re just another girl won’t work for a lot of us. There has to be that high and low, yin and Yang. It’s really so simple yet most men don’t see it: All guys have to do is go pick up a romance novel or two. Notice the parallels, they’re all the SAME. Know why? Cuz it’s like hardwired into our biology to want exactly that no matter how much we try to deny it. In the romance novel the man is so overcome by the female all he sees is her. He’s damn near obsessed w her-But he always has to hold back for whatever reason or try to keep himself away from her despite his desire. So she’s utterly confused and ends up thinking of him all day long. Salty and sweet, you need both for attraction. Too much sweet gives me a toothache lol. Too much salt makes me think you don’t want me and I move on. Just find that balance and you’ll be way ahead of most men in the dating scene.
Every time you hear the word IGNORE on these kind of videos try to understand it like Indifferent rather. It implies knowing when to know when not to show too much interest w/o projecting the I don't care about you vibe that you are referring to.
@@josesantana770 I get what you’re saying but the feeling of “indifference”is not attractive to many women. Like I said, when you know that a guy is REALLY into you but he holds back, that’s what really *gets* us, and what drives us crazy cuz we’re like…WHY?? If I catch even a whiff of “indifference” I’ll lose attraction 💯. It has to be totally confusing like “I KNOW he wants me 100% so why doesn’t he come after me? Why is he holding himself back?” That’s what causes the mystery (and what causes us to fantasize the most). And when I say we know the guy wants us I don’t mean because he necessarily verbalizes it. I mean because he gives every sign and every cue that he wants us, but then holds back a bit and doesn’t pursue head on. Like he has major *self control* (which is strangely attractive to most women btw).
@@whitneyangelie3682 isn't it holding back a way of indifference when you are not certain of his feelings or intentions?
@@josesantana770 No not at all. Holding back is a lot of times due to fear/ uncertainty on his part of how *you* feel about him so he’s weary to get too close or be too forward…Or maybe he has fear of getting into a relationship cuz he’s been burned in the past and he’s cautious and trying to guard his heart. Or he’s super focused on work/family issues etc or something else going on in his life so that he’s not in a position to be chasing a relationship. It doesn’t have to mean indifference. Quite the opposite actually. But when a woman feels a dueling energy of “I want her so bad but I’m holding back for my own reasons” it’s like a magic elixir stg. That’s when I find myself damn near *obsessed* over a man. It doesn’t happen often because most guys don’t have that unique mindset. Most guys are somewhat simple: They either come in too hot, or act too cold/indifferent. It’s the confusing complicated ones with dueling hot/cold energy that drive me (and many girls) fucking *insane* 😂 I have given a LOT of thought to this and really tried to figure out why a few certain men (regardless of looks and status) have gotten me kinda obsessed and I’ve figured out that it’s always because they give off this exact energy towards me that I’m talking about ^
@@whitneyangelie3682 for some reason you can't help defining being Indifferent as lack of interest or rejection, not necessarily. It implies establishing priorities in order of relevance at a specific time in life
What you are attracted as a woman is the fact that a man acts indifferent towards you, independently of his genuine reasons to do so (those reasons you might not know) A brief story
A week ago I went to this place where I know for ages after not going for months. The first thing I thought at the entrance was the lady bartender who is always in me face at the time to order. She is nice but she is always there. It's obvious what's going on. I've never talked to her other than to order but no matter where I am in this big place she seems aware of me. I treat her with indifference even to the point of not looking at her when I tip. To no avail.
My point, she doesn't know me or my intentions, still the fact that I act WITH INDIFFERENCE toward her seems to encourage a challenge.
1:43 You get her attracted by ignoring her only if you’re a giga-Chad
Thank you for the advice. I am in this phase right now. Hope I get you’re a bad texter soon…. I think I was the one telling her she was a bad texter 😣🥵🥵
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Good advice man I have been following you since 2018 I have learned a lot from you Tripp Thank you so much
I agree that giving her too much during the first 1-3 dates evaluation phase (chocolates, flowers, expensive gifts, etc.) is a bad idea. It looks needy, desperate, and clingy.
But I could not disagree more with the ignoring thing. The ignoring women thing only works for very attractive men and /or on a woman who is attracted to a particular man. If she’s not interested or she is not attracted, not only would she welcome being ignored, she will wholly prefer it. Attractive women want to be just as invisible to unattractive men as they are to them.
If a woman is not attracted to a man, she could not care less about his personality, sense of humor, occupation, or mental games he’s trying to play with her (i.e., ignoring her).
Lastly men need to be hyper self aware. If a dude who looks like Bredan Fraser from the Whale spots a hot 9 or 10, it is extremely unlikely that she is interested in him or would care about being ignored by him.
I got your point but ignoring a woman works and preserves you from wasting your resources. If you ignore a woman and she ignores you back so let it be. Move on because she is not yours. Let us imagine this scenario, you ignore her and she ignores. Now do you want to go back and start chasing her? You will look weak and needy. And she will have leverage over you and she may not see you as man.
@@FreeTraderFREEMAN the point of Tripp’s video is how to increase attraction via ignoring. My point is that attraction comes first and ignoring can enhance it. Women do not care about men they do not find attractive and they prefer to be ignored by fat ugly men.
Your point that ignoring an uninterested woman saving time and effort is immaterial. A man cannot totally ignore a woman but even tiny attention on his part is useless unless she is attracted to him in the first place.
@@GalvatronTypeR we all know we're not ignoring them totally. However, how can you weed out those women who aren't interested in you? Chasing them is useless on every angle. Im not needy or thirsty of having a woman around me. The one that is interested will chase me even if I'm a 4 or 5 because that's the normal order for attraction. Men's attitudes attract women more than appearances and I learned that lesson awhile ago.
Just the other day on Match I connected with a beautiful divorced 47-yr. old doctor in San Francisco with no kids. She said my idea of a romantic date sounded "fabulous!" I wrote back "fabulous!" and have since just let it resonate for two days now as I strategically "ignore" her. What is my next best move, if anything? I don't want her to get ticked off at me if I don't set a date soon and lose the chance at what seems like my dream woman. Your thoughts and advice are welcomed.
Ok, I connected with this guy on match, we seems to like each other, he said straight that he does not like the back and forth text messages, he prefer face to face, but he was going to be out of town for 2 weeks, and if I don’t fall in love with somebody else while he is out, is a coffee date! He left me his phone to keep the interaction by phone so he can send me pictures of the place he was at on vacation, we interacted very well for a week in half, I felt he was going to strong on me and intense, I let him know, I’m separated from just May this year, and I told him I need to use caution, which he was ok with, he is also concerned I’m not divorce yet, he asked if my ex is trying to take me back, or if he will sign the divorce papers 😂, anyways two days ago he sent me a text message, I responded after like 30 minutes, and he didn’t reply, it has been 2 days already! By the way we talked on the phone a lot, and he was asking me where I would like to go after coffee, I said well if I have to go somewhere else I prefer a dinner, and stay longer to get to know us, he said perfect! I prefer dinner too! Then is dinner date next wednesday at 7pm in this place! but after the last text he didn’t reply! it has been 2 days already! Any suggestion? honestly I had many other guys trying to connect with me on match, but I’m not interested, I like him! And I would love to have the chance to meet him in person, I don’t connect that easily with anyone 🙄. Advice?
So many guys use this strategy to cope for having low self esteem and fear of rejection. To me they are the most pathetic of all, worst than guys who actually try and get rejected, way worse. Because they are below these women yet somehow delude themselves that they are somehow better than them and "have better things to do" than talking to women. Meanwhile daydreaming about them and wishing they would approach. The worse kind, they have no sense direction of where they are.
I disagree with this advice. I'm married to a girl now who told me there was another guy before me who ignored her. I spent time with her and she loved me for it, and chose me over the dude who ignored her.
Yeah we hate being ignore, of course if there are not a reason. This games I hate them, before everything was so easy.
The approach of ignoring has to be used in a gamey way unfortunately.
Plot twist. When you really ignore a girl you'll never hear from her again.
Plot twist. If you give attention to women, she will think you are desperate.
Good to not hear from her again it lets me know I've dodged a bullet!!😉
Well, her loss, I have priorities
@@thebacheafghantoo much attention yeah is scary, it happened to me, and I really like this guy I told him, now he is not giving much attention and I don’t know what to do 🙄
Thanks lots Tripp for your nice tricks
I am not good at interacting with women but I'm sure good at ignoring them 😊
I’m so confused because this girl gave me all kinds of signs of attraction:
1. Nervousness
2. Gazing into my eyes
3. Overly friendly
4. Smiling
After that, I sent her a hint through text that I liked her and I expected her to chase but I haven’t heard anything for months. Am I crazy or are those legit signs?
You lost the mystery
@@Gbb93 What??
Once they get your validation in the short term, they bail. They've got what they want
@@derwoodhamburger Yeah, she probably just wanted validation and nothing else… some woman just like to feel desired by men and are attention whores
What is the status now? Has she ever talked to you?
Never let a woman chase you. The one who chases is the hunter and has the power. The one chased is the prey who gets eaten. A woman will dump you once she gets you.
If I’m consistently ignored. I move on
Women don't move on
Tripp, hope you’re right. Thank you for the advice
If there is no initial connection, ignore as much as you want, the woman wont care a hoot about it.
..THIS DOES NOT WORK.
Looks good, but the last time I just thinking that she really didn't like me because I always texted nice words to her but she didn't reply however always saw her smiling at me, but one day I saw her too much snob and chose ignored her, and responded very bad too sad and hurt
Ignore women and they ignore you. I just had an example. One women expressed her interest to date me. We wrote and made long phone calls. She was pretty anxious. But I lost interest and stopped answering her messages. And she stopped writing messages within two days. And never wrote again. Simple.
My dads behavior fucked me up severely Because he had diagonosed apd and treated everyone like garbage . I stopped worrying about women in my mid twenties. Im nor six five but i do have blue eyes and a trust fund and guess
What?
They dont want to get to know me well enough to find out about the trust fund. 😂
I personally like the Dennis Reynolds method😂😂😂😂
Thank you my friend
He is incredible
This video is tremendously rich in content! Awesome
old friend was hurt me and since than she is always ignore me and time to time we text but not any more and I post and photo that I’m in the country and she now want to know if I came so I ignoring her now as well to let her taste her medicine the how long and also how can I make her more interest about me because if I said that I’m not in the country then she gonna lose interest she just curious to know if I’m there I didn’t hear from her almost a year ago
After 2 yrs She avoid me on social media and ask for Break up.. Why!!😰😰 She won't want msgs from me..
But how much should you ignore?
He said "attracted to each other in different ways " put a line under this sentence dude...
This is where men get confused and trapped
Ignore
I don’t agree, I only go for guys who give me attention. Once he starts ignoring me, I bounce
Lol ignore people to make them interested in you sure okay kiddo. You want women to know that your interested grow a pair of balls and tell her. If she rejects you be a man an accept it cause if your interested in dating then you're gonna get rejected alot.
look, it works but remember all girls different G
Based.
Its not a big deal. I have been getting so used to being ignored by women over the course of the past 5 years, that the boomerang is coming back now.
I intentionally avoid looking women in the eyes at all cost, and even if it happens that i make accidental eye contact, my stomach is immeditalley turning almost litterally upside down.
I have cruised singlelife on autopilot for so many years that i can not be bothered investing two micrograms of energy in women, anymore.
Women only exist with the sole purpose of playing with my feelings, giving a quintilion mixed signals, make fun of me, and finally dump and ghost me.
The feeling of being geniunely wanted by a woman must be a nice feeling for those of men who actually have the skillset regarding women.
But i couldnt care less anymore. I did come to terms that im cruising said singlelife on autopilot, till the day i check out from life.
Love works for all other men on mother earth, just not for me.
Signed
YmerMorten
25-05-2023
Be a man! At least go abroad and find a partner
how about on ldr?🇵🇭
I’ve ditched numerous men in early dating for ignoring games. No chasing no asking questions they’re out. If you like her show her, chase her. When your game backfires don’t be so butthurt, you had your chance. (I do have more masculine energy I’m not a ‘nicey nice’ fluffy kittens type)
This is all bs at the end of the day and applies to low-quality or average men. If you’ve set your life up in such a way that they intuitively know you can get any girl you want, you can do whatever you want. That’s been my experience and dare this guy to challenge me
Would you hire a contractor for a job or invest in someone who doesnt invest in you or ignores you, no, never. You show you dont invest time and effort you are not worthy of any in you, its called balance.
Now you tell me lol
Summary of video: just move on lol
No thanks 😅 I payed for this bs to some other guy
She’ll completely ghost u dude 😂
Nah
Bad video.
Tripp you missed a Major point in this video !!!! I'm disappointed. When the girl says "oh you're a bad texter"... you didn't tell us what to do next 😐😐 So 6 minutes of watching, and no answer and no conclusion 👎
Nothing to do. Just say “i know I’m the worst” and then ask her out 👍🏻
@@TrippAdvice ahhh see im with you now! Should of put that in the video amigo. Thank you for replying though, wasnt expecting that
Bro get to the point
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how about on ldr?🇵🇭