I mean... All my friends are girls, none of them are faithful, and they all swear they love their man. I don't necessarily think it's truth. Also, although I've never cheated, I can't imagine cheating on a man I still loved.
Rodney Mills all my friends are girls and all off them ARE faithful. Nope can’t be in a relationship if I’m cheating. Just leave, there isn’t a point. Jmo
Glen CoCo im not angry! Im trying to get women to see the truth about life and that they are not the victims! They are told that they have no power and that men have all the power! When a beautiful woman can walk into almost any room and get the most powerful men in the world fighting over her!
What I said I was speaking for a certain kind of toxic individual. It's completely shitty to stay with someone simply so they don't move on that's messed up because 9/10 The one trying to keep you in those situations aren't even being loyal
Shae Bubblegum once you understand the advantage a woman has in terms of mate acquisition then this makes sense! If a man and a woman both break up with no prospects, all of her suitors will be lined up in front of her face and in her DMs! Most guys have to put in work! So if a guy lets a girl go without securing another girl, she will almost always beat him to the punch!
Whoever is reading this and you feel hopeless, lonely and not recognized. There is hope for you. You will overcome and a time is coming when people will look up to you. Just dont give up
Dr Shrimp Puerto Rico 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣well that’s lie for me. I been chasing and getting ghost , rejection and name calling. Lawd but I tell myself every time it’s just one time and move on. 😂😂😂😂
Not all women have a back up plan when she breaks up with a man she's been through alot with. 9 times out of 10 he was her everything and she didn't want it to end.
Exactly. A lot of times she has given her all till the point of losing herself and now she just wants to be alone, have a peace of mind and heal herself. When a woman leave you for herself, she won't come back.
Whenever they speak about things they obviously mean in general. Whether their statements are true is a different story, but they clearly don’t mean ALL women
And sometimes we just fall out of love with each other. I was with a guy for 5 years and we broke up because we realized we loved each other but we weren’t in love with each other.
Anyone doesn’t like being ghosted that’s pretty common sense. Rejection and Ghosting are two different things. Ghosting is simply Disrespectful , and Cowardly as a Woman or Man.
It's not cowardly if you know the person will cause injury, cause drama, start stalking, or be clingy. In that case, ghosting is self-protection. Like the guy in this video said, the person might use slick words and moves to get you to stay.
@@natashadickson4819 uh, that kind of person would do that crap IF you ghost them. The least you can do is tell someone the truth and if they can't accept an honest explanation that at that point its on them.
@Jamilla Dobson Honey, yes! Tell them we're keeping our options open and see how they react. I swear they come out the woodwork with all the reasons why they think we should be exclusive. They asses know that by us keeping our options open, and not exclusively dating them, a better suitor can come along and give us what they can't. That's why they like the idea of locking down a woman that they aren't even married to, and many have no plans on doing so ( cough.... cough MGTOW). The women/young lady ends up wasting youth, beauty years, fertility and most of all.... TIME. Then they pinned it on her and say she should've known better at a young age or that all she dated was players and pretty boys.
Every man wanna suddenly act like they have sense and step up when you're dumping them. In that moment they become who you wish they were all of the time which leaves me like... hmmm okay so you know how to act right you just choose not to.
@@burnthrust Trying to change someone and asking them to adjust unhealthy behaviors is different. He's asked me to change certain things and I've complied so...
Exactly! I don’t buy the “ I’m going to change and improve my behavior” As far as I’m concern , I let the next woman in your life see the new result not me , boy bye.
I think this is the first time I seen an episode without Jeannie 😥 Also, men ghost women too. Its not only women. Some people are just not good with confrontation.
I understand how being ghosted could hurt anyone... But you gotta look at the bigger picture... You have a chance at a new start with someone better...
When a woman breaks up with a man, it isn't always because there's someone else. Sometimes it's just cause she's tired of putting up with his bull-crap and wants to end it. And as Adrienne said, at that point, she's already gave him wayy too many chances as it is, let you drag her heart through the mud, and she's finally at the place where she's done. At that point, it may not have anything to do with her finding someone else. It has to do with her finding herself.
@john smith I just said ok when I got dumped or ghosted and then found ways to distract myself from the hurt or went to therapy. You can't force someone to love you.
How many guys have you gone on dates with simply for an ego boost and attention? I'm sure you have done that a lot more than whatever the bad boys have done to you! Women are the gatekeepers of sex! They pick and choose which men get to have babies! This is power! Yet society tells you that you are the victim of some man! You actually chose that man over 100s or 1000s who expressed interest in you weekly! So when you end up with a player, you subconsciously knew it and that is what triggered your attraction to him over everyone else! Imagine being a man! Women at their equivalent percentile of attractiveness are able to have sex with men above her level! As a result, the women think they are out of a man's league when they are not! Men pursue these women and get rejected over and over again until one says yes! Even if you are a player and have 3 women! You likely had to get 9 rejections to get those 3 women! So the next time you come with this men have it easier crap, you and other women need to stop being so narcissitic and put yourself in a mans shoes!
Had that conversation last week with a loser who came back cause the last girl he dated was toxic. I was so direct about why he would never work out with any other girl and he got defensive playing the victim that I am being negative when he changed. If he changed, it will show with his actions not words.
Many idiot and simp men cannot handle the truth. Yet, they must know the truth. Women as well. Being direct, even if that means that they dont like the truth, must not hold you back
You know when they say that the longer you’re with your partner the more you start to look like them. Jeannie is really looking more like Jeezy as the days go by 😉
@@bsbgirl85 your mean and stupid to like Amanda it was so much better when she wasn't there and it seems you like her more then Tamara and Tamara is way better and more popular than she will ever be
@@laurencameron3150 learn to spell first before you want to talk crap it's mean not man and was I talking to you in the first place no so just shut up and I will say anything about Amanda I want because what are you going to do about o right nothing so just shut up ok
I’ve had to ghost a couple of men for my safety. I had an ex come up to me while on campus and try to choke me bc I left him. Men are more violent with rejection .
Needed to be reiterated though because women are just not good at saying "look, I'm not interested." From a man's perspective, it is beyond better you just telling me "no, go away" than you leading me on with the "I'm busy" or "we'll see" texts or even just stop associating with me all together just for me to see you that night with your new boo on instagram. If a man can't handle rejection, that's on him, but don't get nobody hopes up and wonder why men turn bitter lmao
@@ErrisOfficial Sometimes it is a matter of safety though, on the part of the woman. Some have even been killed for rejecting a man's advances / interest.
He spoke so much truth.. saying that they hate anything being done back to them.. also about over the phone thing because some men get crazy when you break it off
I actually did what I called "social experiments" on guys I was into or dating to see how invested they were in me. These were the guys that would text me sporadically and always take forever to respond. I would finish a conversation with them and then I wouldn't initiate a new one. If it took longer than three days for them to respond, boy bye! Saved me a lot of time that I would've wasted on some loser.
He spoke facts! Never meet in person to breakup. I advise the same thing to my friends that are going through relationship issues. When you meet in person, you give that person the opportunity to do something as simple as touch your hand while they’re speaking. Body language and sweet talking sways opinions. In-person may be the more mature approach but a lot of the time in breakups you are letting go of what is literally no good for you. It has to be a hard split.
This was sooooo refreshing and Bravo to everyone who asked for a mans perspective on this ‘issue’. I loved the honesty of a Real Mans point of view; (paragraphs) “we don’t like when you do to us what we do to you! Then we pull out ALL THE MOVES TO MAKE YOU STAY” Slow 👏🏾 Clap 👏🏾 💯
This is a good conversation ~ and although their speaking it in a innocent place Please keep in mind that this can end up in a very dangerous situation because unfortunately people have and really hurt in some cases have lost their lives of wanting to be up front of leaving someone
I’ve always dated with the intent to marry. I always gave guys two weeks of my time and if I don’t see a glimpse of possibly during those two weeks then the relationship is over
Men are the ones that ghost, women actually communicate and try to know what went wrong ( in the disguise of wanting closure). Also trying to seduce a partner when they want to breakup is wrong and will come back to bite harder and deeper - let them go when they want to, don't try too hard.
Ella Skills Exactly. The first and only time I've been ghosted sucked and it has affected my last 2 relationships since. The moment the cupcake/honeymoon faze starts end I automatically started to assume the guy has lost interest and he's going to ghost me with no explanation. Its become a new insecurity that I've never had before and don't even know how to get over😞
FACTS, Adrienne!!! We neverrrrrrrrr want to do it. But we’re pushed to that point!!! Even tho I’ve felt that way with every guy I’ve ended things with, I don’t regret it later!!!! Lol. None of them were good for me.
I love they can discuss any topic peacefully, intelligently and maturely on this show even when they have conflicting views✨👍🏾 And by the way, where’s Jeannie Mai? Much love to her and every host of the real💕
Yeah then all the sheep get in the comment section and turn the topic into men murdering women.. smh. Immaturely, unintelligently (stay on topic, no one wants to be killed in any situation) and contentiously.
Ghosting is the worst, i was in a 7 years Relationship, and she decided to ghost me.... at first i got worried, i didnt know if she is ok. 3 years later she tries to find me and trying to apologize and want to get back together! saying she made a mistake. HELL NO.
Nyxeriz ghosting after 7 years?! Who does that?! Do you mind me asking, did they try to break up with you before, were there problem, or was it 100% out of the blue to you?
@@sweetpeaj1952 which it did to her, she got into relationship, got cheated on like 4 times and one was of a married man. and i never once cheated on her because i had believed i found my one true love... guess i was wrong about that love.
As a guy when I get ghosted I don’t view it as a hit to my ego lol Thats such small thinking. If someone’s not gonna care enough to message me back I’m gonna let you go and not stress it if/when you wanna try and come back. I think most grown adults are capable of this, it’s annoying, but it’s also universal lol
I have been ghosted more times than I can count. I hate it and when it happens to me I feel very much disrespected. The last time I was rejected the woman was direct but at the same time respectful of me. It was amazing. I felt great afterwards and subsequently felt a lot of respect and admiration for the way she handled it. I could tell she felt awkward going through it, but I really respected her for mustering the courage for being honest.
0:42 YES! I think back to how I ended my past relationships and each one I was honest and simply said it's over. No ambiguity. I explained in clear and defined ways why, allowed them to have their final say and that was that. Never looked back. But in terms of ghosting, there isn't one man...not one, that I would think would care if I didn't respond because I assumed they 1. had other women in their lives so I was just one of many or 2. was so insignificant that they wouldn't miss me. I had a guy I went on dates with last year (never led to anything) that I ghosted, tell me he was hurt by that. He admitted he thought there was a connection. There wasn't on my end.....not even remotely. I felt good knowing I allowed him to have his say so he had closure.
Here an idea (unless it’s already established).... love love love Adrienne’s olive blouse!! I want it!! The show should have their outfits online available for purchase whether it’s the real brand or even a similar affordable outfit for every episode. Just a suggestions... I’d love to get that olive blouse😬
I dumped my ex over text when he told me that he felt I shouldn’t wear a sleeveless shirt because my arms weren’t toned enough and he still went and messaged me that no we are just on a break. 🤣 like no we are broken up.
I had a guy ghost me TWICE then come back a month or two later like it was nothing, and he had the audacity to be mad when I ghosted him back. We went on another date and next thing I knew I just didn’t want to talk to him anymore and did what he did to me. We live 20 minutes apart so I still see him on occasion when commuting and he always rolls his eyes like a little drama queen.
Men hate everything we do to you being done back to them. Ain't that the TRUTH.🤦🏾♀️ 1:33 my ex-husband did this but WORSE. And didn't even have the NERVE to tell me to my FACE. Went online. talked trash but couldn't tell you one class that I took when we were together. 🤦🏾♀️ The meanness in the world will always shock me. But I've been called mean names Because I DEFEND myself to lies, deceivers, and hateful people. 🙄 I wish I we're still in my naive bubble but the Lord brought me through things so that I could grow. It's hard not to be vindictive to people after realizing that so many people are SO vindictive. I know it's not right and I will stay strong and continue to walk in faith. However, if I had known when I was 17 what I know now, my life would be completely different.
Never under stood this concept of a 'back up' dude. If I leave you theres a reason that has nothing to do with any one else. I've always been single and not dating after a break up. Gotta take a break for yourself.
Most women ghost backup dudes! Men who they never wanted to really have sex with to begin with! Then men ask them out on a date, plan the date, pay for the date! Meanwhile the chick is thinking about the guy she is currently, previously, or hoping to have sex with! She ghost the guy because she knows she was foul and can't deal with the guilt!
Rachael i guess I shouldn’t have used the word backup dude. Rebound guy is a better word! Women go out with a lot of men who they aren’t sexually attracted to just to get their minds off of the player/bad boy who is hitting it! So the majority of ghosting situations by women are with men they new they didn’t want to have sex with to begin with! So they basically wasted this guys time for an ego boost and then ghost him so she doesn’t have to deal with the fallout of her narcissistic behavior!
Rachael the guy doesn’t know he is a backup dude! The woman is usually in a non committed sexual relationship with another man and is going on dates because the other guy she really wants is out with other women! Or she broke up with a guy who she isn’t over! As a man you don’t know this because the female doesn’t tell you this! You think you are going on a date with a woman who is interested and you were dead on arrival! This is why the chick ghost! You weren’t her first choice to begin with and she knew it before she went out with you! So she ghost the guy to avoid dealing with the guilt caused by going around crushing dudes just to feed her own ego! Its a lot easier to kill a man with a drone strike than to look him in the eye and stab him in the heart!
Oh this is funny... Aren't men the ones usually ghosting women? I love the irony of this. Men like to do anything they want to women but when the table is turned on them they get all up in your feelings. Maybe try treating women with respect in the first place and I'm sure it will be reciprocated.
Blue is Tamera’s colour for sure
Aine McGlynn yoooooo I was sitting here thinking the same! Like damn girl!!
Aine McGlynn *one of many* 💙
Definitely, she looks gorgeous!!!!
She is wearing purple here though
Yep
Women leave mentally before they leave physically and men leave physically before they leave mentally. Thats on facts.
Jacqueline Marie yup
Correct!!!
Facts on point!
I mean... All my friends are girls, none of them are faithful, and they all swear they love their man. I don't necessarily think it's truth.
Also, although I've never cheated, I can't imagine cheating on a man I still loved.
Rodney Mills all my friends are girls and all off them ARE faithful. Nope can’t be in a relationship if I’m cheating. Just leave, there isn’t a point. Jmo
“They always miss you but never did anything to make you stay” FELT THAT!😩
Felt that too ... been there , done that Smh. Just sorry ass , immature/childish guys .
Shanice Almeida. FACTS!
They don’t miss you they just miss having some booty
itsveronica boys ain’t crap no more💔🥺🤷🏼♀️
Mr Mime FACTS!!!!
And some men don't want you but don't want anyone else to have you either
Sena Exactly lmao he’s really trying to blame women for when we get played like what? 💀💀🤦🏾♀️
Glen CoCo im not angry! Im trying to get women to see the truth about life and that they are not the victims! They are told that they have no power and that men have all the power! When a beautiful woman can walk into almost any room and get the most powerful men in the world fighting over her!
@@brickhra is that the women's fault ?
What I said I was speaking for a certain kind of toxic individual. It's completely shitty to stay with someone simply so they don't move on that's messed up because 9/10 The one trying to keep you in those situations aren't even being loyal
Shae Bubblegum once you understand the advantage a woman has in terms of mate acquisition then this makes sense! If a man and a woman both break up with no prospects, all of her suitors will be lined up in front of her face and in her DMs! Most guys have to put in work!
So if a guy lets a girl go without securing another girl, she will almost always beat him to the punch!
Whoever is reading this and you feel hopeless, lonely and not recognized. There is hope for you. You will overcome and a time is coming when people will look up to you. Just dont give up
Thank u❤️
Thank you ❤
Thanks! I needed that
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🗣🗣🗣Men are the KINGS of ghosting and they are have horrible communication skills!!!
Ms. Beautiful I am a man, but !!!!!!!!!!
Refer only to the men YOU entertained
Where you heard that ? Women ghost men more since they’re the ones being pursued and can pick and choose from different guys
@@drshrimppuertorico8894 it's best
Dr Shrimp Puerto Rico 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣well that’s lie for me. I been chasing and getting ghost , rejection and name calling. Lawd but I tell myself every time it’s just one time and move on. 😂😂😂😂
"Men hate everything that we do to you being done back to us" That part!
Not all women have a back up plan when she breaks up with a man she's been through alot with. 9 times out of 10 he was her everything and she didn't want it to end.
Exactly. A lot of times she has given her all till the point of losing herself and now she just wants to be alone, have a peace of mind and heal herself. When a woman leave you for herself, she won't come back.
Whenever they speak about things they obviously mean in general. Whether their statements are true is a different story, but they clearly don’t mean ALL women
Women know their options because men are constantly approaching them while they have a boyfriend. This is not happening for 95% of dudes!
Bahahahahahahha, women always have backup plans
And sometimes we just fall out of love with each other. I was with a guy for 5 years and we broke up because we realized we loved each other but we weren’t in love with each other.
Anyone doesn’t like being ghosted that’s pretty common sense. Rejection and Ghosting are two different things. Ghosting is simply Disrespectful , and Cowardly as a Woman or Man.
It's not cowardly if you know the person will cause injury, cause drama, start stalking, or be clingy. In that case, ghosting is self-protection. Like the guy in this video said, the person might use slick words and moves to get you to stay.
@@natashadickson4819thank you! i was going to say that.
@@natashadickson4819 uh, that kind of person would do that crap IF you ghost them. The least you can do is tell someone the truth and if they can't accept an honest explanation that at that point its on them.
Next week on The Real:
-Why men hate being cussed out
-Why men hate being tortured
-Why men hate being stabbed
-Why men hate being castrated
V Love-Williams 😂😂😂
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Men hate when we do to them what they do to us all the time.
Tia Rose EXACTLY
He said that
Exactly. They get clingy and constantly ask to hang out but would be upset if we did the same
Exactly.
@Jamilla Dobson Honey, yes! Tell them we're keeping our options open and see how they react. I swear they come out the woodwork with all the reasons why they think we should be exclusive. They asses know that by us keeping our options open, and not exclusively dating them, a better suitor can come along and give us what they can't. That's why they like the idea of locking down a woman that they aren't even married to, and many have no plans on doing so ( cough.... cough MGTOW).
The women/young lady ends up wasting youth, beauty years, fertility and most of all.... TIME. Then they pinned it on her and say she should've known better at a young age or that all she dated was players and pretty boys.
Every man wanna suddenly act like they have sense and step up when you're dumping them. In that moment they become who you wish they were all of the time which leaves me like... hmmm okay so you know how to act right you just choose not to.
Stop trying to change people
@@burnthrust Trying to change someone and asking them to adjust unhealthy behaviors is different. He's asked me to change certain things and I've complied so...
Exactly! I don’t buy the “ I’m going to change and improve my behavior” As far as I’m concern , I let the next woman in your life see the new result not me , boy bye.
That’s called Narcissism
@@jhoniikemp on whose end, his or mine?
I think this is the first time I seen an episode without Jeannie 😥
Also, men ghost women too. Its not only women. Some people are just not good with confrontation.
The minute you break up with a man he already has another woman he'd go to.
That's just the truth nothing but the truth.
It's much hard for a man to find a mate so it's unlikely he has someone to go to other than a hooker.
If he's a catch
@@austinking3962 if you are short, bold and no money.... everything is stuck against you.
@@NoName-sp5dp smooth criminal
well im tall. gunna start to bald soon but own a house. what ddo you think of my chances?
Jeannie look different today
Why did I think “did she? I didn’t even see her” 🤦🏻♀️😂
SHE DIDNT DO FRIDAYS EPISODE
It's Friday / chill
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i hate y’all 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I understand how being ghosted could hurt anyone... But you gotta look at the bigger picture... You have a chance at a new start with someone better...
Stephon Pervez true
They ghost us all the damn time.
When a woman breaks up with a man, it isn't always because there's someone else. Sometimes it's just cause she's tired of putting up with his bull-crap and wants to end it. And as Adrienne said, at that point, she's already gave him wayy too many chances as it is, let you drag her heart through the mud, and she's finally at the place where she's done. At that point, it may not have anything to do with her finding someone else. It has to do with her finding herself.
Every guy I tried to politely dumped acted like jerks.
@john smith I just said ok when I got dumped or ghosted and then found ways to distract myself from the hurt or went to therapy. You can't force someone to love you.
How many guys have you gone on dates with simply for an ego boost and attention? I'm sure you have done that a lot more than whatever the bad boys have done to you!
Women are the gatekeepers of sex! They pick and choose which men get to have babies! This is power! Yet society tells you that you are the victim of some man! You actually chose that man over 100s or 1000s who expressed interest in you weekly! So when you end up with a player, you subconsciously knew it and that is what triggered your attraction to him over everyone else!
Imagine being a man! Women at their equivalent percentile of attractiveness are able to have sex with men above her level! As a result, the women think they are out of a man's league when they are not! Men pursue these women and get rejected over and over again until one says yes! Even if you are a player and have 3 women! You likely had to get 9 rejections to get those 3 women!
So the next time you come with this men have it easier crap, you and other women need to stop being so narcissitic and put yourself in a mans shoes!
Block them and move on
I like a male on the show😊. Miss Jeannie
When he just sits around agreeing with them all the time what's the point.
He seems like a great replacement when one of them is out sick or something. Can they include him through media? That would be cool.
@@godbear2930 thats what these feminists want. A clown to agree and listen to their horseshit.
Directness will hurt the fragile male ego and they’ll get nasty with you sometimes.
Had that conversation last week with a loser who came back cause the last girl he dated was toxic. I was so direct about why he would never work out with any other girl and he got defensive playing the victim that I am being negative when he changed. If he changed, it will show with his actions not words.
Many idiot and simp men cannot handle the truth. Yet, they must know the truth. Women as well. Being direct, even if that means that they dont like the truth, must not hold you back
You know when they say that the longer you’re with your partner the more you start to look like them. Jeannie is really looking more like Jeezy as the days go by 😉
😂😂😂 you are funny
Where do u see Jeannie?
Lol.. is u talking bout dude?
Bae Bae's Kid it’s a joke she’s saying that black dude is Jeanie 🤣
@@-.a9942 it went over my head at first.. hilarious once it hit though! Lol
Where's our Jeannie? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
She got a sex change
@@atomknight8361 And a race change?
@@bsbgirl85 your mean and stupid to like Amanda it was so much better when she wasn't there and it seems you like her more then Tamara and Tamara is way better and more popular than she will ever be
Nicole Wade You’re mean and stupid to say what you’re saying about Amanda given you don’t know her! 🤷🏾♀️😂
@@laurencameron3150 learn to spell first before you want to talk crap it's mean not man and was I talking to you in the first place no so just shut up and I will say anything about Amanda I want because what are you going to do about o right nothing so just shut up ok
I’ve had to ghost a couple of men for my safety. I had an ex come up to me while on campus and try to choke me bc I left him. Men are more violent with rejection .
"i just want to be friends"
"yeah well your breath smells anyway"
DAMNNNNNNNNN, WHAT A SAVAGE. OH MY GODDDDDDDDD
I wonder how old she was 😂😂
Adrienne looks stunning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
javi ruiz she always looks stunning!!! We should never body shame anyone.
Omg, Yesss she does. I was just thinking this!
If you be direct people get mad and if you don't they get mad too. There is never a good way...
This was a dumb topic. Obviously no one would like being ghosted man or woman
Andrew Garfield 💯
Needed to be reiterated though because women are just not good at saying "look, I'm not interested." From a man's perspective, it is beyond better you just telling me "no, go away" than you leading me on with the "I'm busy" or "we'll see" texts or even just stop associating with me all together just for me to see you that night with your new boo on instagram.
If a man can't handle rejection, that's on him, but don't get nobody hopes up and wonder why men turn bitter lmao
@@ErrisOfficial Sometimes it is a matter of safety though, on the part of the woman. Some have even been killed for rejecting a man's advances / interest.
Sexy Homeowner accurate
@@sexyhomeowner9345 true, but leading someone on isn't cool. U can't go into every situation thinking the man is gonna attack you.
This guy knows what he’s talking about!!
OOOOOOOO...I like this. Have him on more often.
He spoke so much truth.. saying that they hate anything being done back to them.. also about over the phone thing because some men get crazy when you break it off
Shae Bubblegum He spoke his own truth lmao he don’t speak for men
If a person is acting crazy about breaking up, I'm sure they already know where u live and work. Ijs if they want to hurt u they will.
@@indianajones443 oh yes I was talking about the type that know all the details and sit outside until you come out ..
In other words, treat people the way that you wanna be treated? What a shock 😲
Yeah pretty much 😁
If men hate what they do to us, being done back to them THEN MEN, STOP DOING IT!!!
I actually did what I called "social experiments" on guys I was into or dating to see how invested they were in me. These were the guys that would text me sporadically and always take forever to respond. I would finish a conversation with them and then I wouldn't initiate a new one. If it took longer than three days for them to respond, boy bye! Saved me a lot of time that I would've wasted on some loser.
I like this brother a lot on the panel!!! He’s real and his POV is refreshing. Oh, and he’s RESPECTFUL in where he is in life now. Great job 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Whatever color Tamera is wearing is gorgeous on her! Makeup and hair everything bangs, loved tho co host !!!!
They will get over it , I get ghosted all the time,
dance4life1208 😂 same !
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They certainly will.
You are beautiful.
It happens to us all.
Oh please, men ghost women all the time !!!
August Moonlight it goes both ways
Exactly!
I don’t ghost so Idk what you are talking about.
He spoke facts! Never meet in person to breakup. I advise the same thing to my friends that are going through relationship issues. When you meet in person, you give that person the opportunity to do something as simple as touch your hand while they’re speaking. Body language and sweet talking sways opinions. In-person may be the more mature approach but a lot of the time in breakups you are letting go of what is literally no good for you. It has to be a hard split.
Awwww...that was so fun, having a man on the panel sharing his point of view! ❤
This was sooooo refreshing and Bravo to everyone who asked for a mans perspective on this ‘issue’. I loved the honesty of a Real Mans point of view; (paragraphs) “we don’t like when you do to us what we do to you! Then we pull out ALL THE MOVES TO MAKE YOU STAY” Slow 👏🏾 Clap 👏🏾 💯
If you hate being ghosted, act right.
"Just don't get ghosted" would be better advice than this lol
"you making her late to go meet the dude she about to replace you with because you're taking too long" AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHA DEADDDDDD
This is a good conversation ~ and although their speaking it in a innocent place Please keep in mind that this can end up in a very dangerous situation because unfortunately people have and really hurt in some cases have lost their lives of wanting to be up front of leaving someone
Adrienne’s makeup looks stunning!
I agree, just be real never ghost me especially when I'm genuine about how I feel about you. If you're not feeling me just say so
Justifying toxic behavior is never a good call, this is why so many majorities of people are narcissists. Ghosting is immature and childish.
Adrienne you are looking gorgeous and just glowing ! 😍
Anyone doesn't like ghosting or the friend zone
Thanks Finesse on the honesty
I’ve always dated with the intent to marry. I always gave guys two weeks of my time and if I don’t see a glimpse of possibly during those two weeks then the relationship is over
Men are the ones that ghost, women actually communicate and try to know what went wrong ( in the disguise of wanting closure). Also trying to seduce a partner when they want to breakup is wrong and will come back to bite harder and deeper - let them go when they want to, don't try too hard.
Ella Skills Exactly. The first and only time I've been ghosted sucked and it has affected my last 2 relationships since. The moment the cupcake/honeymoon faze starts end I automatically started to assume the guy has lost interest and he's going to ghost me with no explanation. Its become a new insecurity that I've never had before and don't even know how to get over😞
You are wrong, women ghost too.
Okay sunshine
@@burnthrust men do way more than women
@@sansadrake4133 it doesn't matter who do it most. It happens on both sides of the field. Contrary to what the op said.
FACTS, Adrienne!!! We neverrrrrrrrr want to do it. But we’re pushed to that point!!! Even tho I’ve felt that way with every guy I’ve ended things with, I don’t regret it later!!!! Lol. None of them were good for me.
Adrienne, you look beautiful boo. This look is everything 😍
i need that man added to the show as a permanent
PERIOD
Tamara GURL you are stunning this day! GREAT look for you!
I love they can discuss any topic peacefully, intelligently and maturely on this show even when they have conflicting views✨👍🏾
And by the way, where’s Jeannie Mai? Much love to her and every host of the real💕
Yeah then all the sheep get in the comment section and turn the topic into men murdering women.. smh. Immaturely, unintelligently (stay on topic, no one wants to be killed in any situation) and contentiously.
Lol damnnn when he said men always wanna say “who is he where’s your phone” was toooo damn true
Tam Tam look GOODT!! 👀🔥🔥
Loving Amanda's hair. Rock the puff maam 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
OMG He is sooo real! I really liked that 💪
Ghosting is the worst, i was in a 7 years Relationship, and she decided to ghost me....
at first i got worried, i didnt know if she is ok.
3 years later she tries to find me and trying to apologize and want to get back together! saying she made a mistake. HELL NO.
Nyxeriz ghosting after 7 years?! Who does that?! Do you mind me asking, did they try to break up with you before, were there problem, or was it 100% out of the blue to you?
Usually when someone does you wrong, it will come back to that person.
@@sweetpeaj1952 which it did to her, she got into relationship, got cheated on like 4 times and one was of a married man. and i never once cheated on her because i had believed i found my one true love... guess i was wrong about that love.
they always come back when the other relationship doesn't work out! don't even entertain her
Good thing you girls had a man on the panel for this discussion because now I understand a mans perspective.
wow this episode is so on point
I loveeeee this look Tamera! You look amazing!!!
As a guy when I get ghosted I don’t view it as a hit to my ego lol Thats such small thinking. If someone’s not gonna care enough to message me back I’m gonna let you go and not stress it if/when you wanna try and come back. I think most grown adults are capable of this, it’s annoying, but it’s also universal lol
I have been ghosted more times than I can count. I hate it and when it happens to me I feel very much disrespected. The last time I was rejected the woman was direct but at the same time respectful of me. It was amazing. I felt great afterwards and subsequently felt a lot of respect and admiration for the way she handled it. I could tell she felt awkward going through it, but I really respected her for mustering the courage for being honest.
I dont know who this guy is but he is VERY real about the male perspective, and honestly I thank him for that.
Loni looking like "y'all don't even know, I've been ghosted many many times" lol
It’s like men hate it when they get treated the way they treat us
If you're breaking my heart, you have to say it to my face. Respect me enough to do that.
Lmao great convo, was light hearted 😂
0:42 YES! I think back to how I ended my past relationships and each one I was honest and simply said it's over. No ambiguity. I explained in clear and defined ways why, allowed them to have their final say and that was that. Never looked back. But in terms of ghosting, there isn't one man...not one, that I would think would care if I didn't respond because I assumed they 1. had other women in their lives so I was just one of many or 2. was so insignificant that they wouldn't miss me.
I had a guy I went on dates with last year (never led to anything) that I ghosted, tell me he was hurt by that. He admitted he thought there was a connection. There wasn't on my end.....not even remotely. I felt good knowing I allowed him to have his say so he had closure.
Keep that man on that show he seems like he would REALLY keep it real
Here an idea (unless it’s already established).... love love love Adrienne’s olive blouse!! I want it!! The show should have their outfits online available for purchase whether it’s the real brand or even a similar affordable outfit for every episode. Just a suggestions... I’d love to get that olive blouse😬
I dumped my ex over text when he told me that he felt I shouldn’t wear a sleeveless shirt because my arms weren’t toned enough and he still went and messaged me that no we are just on a break. 🤣 like no we are broken up.
I had a guy ghost me TWICE then come back a month or two later like it was nothing, and he had the audacity to be mad when I ghosted him back. We went on another date and next thing I knew I just didn’t want to talk to him anymore and did what he did to me.
We live 20 minutes apart so I still see him on occasion when commuting and he always rolls his eyes like a little drama queen.
TribeeQueen men have extremely fragile egos and I love to hurt it. They also hate being ignored and ignoring them is one of my hobbies 🤣🤣
I always wanted the real to have at least one man panelist. Its refreshing...
This was a cute discussion, I liked it.
Love green on Adrienne!
He should be part of the show frfr😂💞
Look at finesse telling the truth. ‘We don’t like things we do to you being done back to us.’
I think women feel the same way, no?
Men hate everything we do to you being done back to them.
Ain't that the TRUTH.🤦🏾♀️
1:33 my ex-husband did this but WORSE. And didn't even have the NERVE to tell me to my FACE. Went online. talked trash but couldn't tell you one class that I took when we were together. 🤦🏾♀️
The meanness in the world will always shock me. But I've been called mean names Because I DEFEND myself to lies, deceivers, and hateful people. 🙄
I wish I we're still in my naive bubble but the Lord brought me through things so that I could grow. It's hard not to be vindictive to people after realizing that so many people are SO vindictive. I know it's not right and I will stay strong and continue to walk in faith. However, if I had known when I was 17 what I know now, my life would be completely different.
Adrienne looks AMAZZINNGGG
Never under stood this concept of a 'back up' dude. If I leave you theres a reason that has nothing to do with any one else. I've always been single and not dating after a break up. Gotta take a break for yourself.
Most women ghost backup dudes! Men who they never wanted to really have sex with to begin with! Then men ask them out on a date, plan the date, pay for the date! Meanwhile the chick is thinking about the guy she is currently, previously, or hoping to have sex with! She ghost the guy because she knows she was foul and can't deal with the guilt!
Rachael i guess I shouldn’t have used the word backup dude. Rebound guy is a better word!
Women go out with a lot of men who they aren’t sexually attracted to just to get their minds off of the player/bad boy who is hitting it!
So the majority of ghosting situations by women are with men they new they didn’t want to have sex with to begin with! So they basically wasted this guys time for an ego boost and then ghost him so she doesn’t have to deal with the fallout of her narcissistic behavior!
Rachael the guy doesn’t know he is a backup dude! The woman is usually in a non committed sexual relationship with another man and is going on dates because the other guy she really wants is out with other women! Or she broke up with a guy who she isn’t over!
As a man you don’t know this because the female doesn’t tell you this! You think you are going on a date with a woman who is interested and you were dead on arrival! This is why the chick ghost! You weren’t her first choice to begin with and she knew it before she went out with you! So she ghost the guy to avoid dealing with the guilt caused by going around crushing dudes just to feed her own ego!
Its a lot easier to kill a man with a drone strike than to look him in the eye and stab him in the heart!
Tamers is 🔥
Poor Tam. See people really don't understand how one thing can stuck with a person for years.
Oh this is funny... Aren't men the ones usually ghosting women? I love the irony of this. Men like to do anything they want to women but when the table is turned on them they get all up in your feelings. Maybe try treating women with respect in the first place and I'm sure it will be reciprocated.
Adrienne! Looking gorgeous 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
Tamara that hair and that outfit...she looks goooooood!!! I miss her being on the end and seeing her shoes & outfits.
How did dude look to you?..
Loving adrians outfit and hair today. I want this shirt! Lol
Adrienne has a very cute Latina Audrey Hepburn vibe going on, and I’m living for it!
We hate it because it's rude, immature, and childish. We don't have time for stupid socially inept games.
Gotta love Amanda because she is a thinker
love him, great vibes
I LOVE THIS GUY
I love that Amanda and Tamara are doing the twin thing again today
i like this guy, hes transparent
Aww that guy was so mean to Tamera! Love the blue on you girl 💕💙