WHY MEN HAVE MORE POWER OVER US with Power 2 Youth Guests Joyce Nakato & Zaitun Nabateregga

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  • ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
    Join us today as we continue the #16DaysOfActivism with Power 2 Youth guests Joyce Nakato & Zaitun Nabateregga.
    They break down the power inequality that still exists between men and women and how society needs to come together to uproot this ginormous cause of gender based violence against women.
    Share this video with 10 whatsapp groups of your family and friends to help us end gender based violence against women and girls once and for all.
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  • @bumploveug
    @bumploveug  Před 7 měsíci +7

    ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
    Join us today as we continue the #16DaysOfActivism with Power 2 Youth guests Joyce Nakato & Zaitun Nabateregga.
    They break down the power inequality that still exists between men and women and how society needs to come together to uproot this ginormous cause of gender based violence against women.
    Share this video with 10 whatsapp groups of your family and friends to help us end gender based violence against women and girls once and for all.
    Video credits:
    Production: Garage Group
    Set: Golden Tulip Kampala
    Outfits: Fashion Episode
    Shoes: Shoe Puzzle
    Hair: Zuri Luxury
    If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who needs to watch this and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one.
    Follow us on:
    Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug
    Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove
    Twitter x.com/bumploveug?s=21&t=f7BjwzY0LgF9aFD9dcXAbg
    #16DaysUG23 #Power2Youth

    • @kobusingyejoan7484
      @kobusingyejoan7484 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Thank u ladies for this show but I think we need to have guys on this gender based violence

    • @Charlotte-990
      @Charlotte-990 Před 7 měsíci

      Ms Zaitun prophesied over Rachel...

    • @angelumwiza329
      @angelumwiza329 Před 6 měsíci

      Hy bumplove how do I get to your dm

  • @annajohannes5455
    @annajohannes5455 Před 7 měsíci +79

    I work for the UN and we are always exlporing platforms to create awareness on our programmes , most often we host workshops or print materials, I’ve realized playforms such as bumplove are a great modern way of creating awareness. This is a disruptive and innovative way of collaboration between traditional institutions with digital content. I enjoyed the episode provided by USAID the other day. My ladies, this is great work! Next host topics on malaria , malnutrition in children, gig economy, innovation etc , well done to the geustspeaker.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 Před 7 měsíci +28

      Bambi. Just tell UN to come and sponsor us for content breaking shows.. Suggest topics with your chest 😂

    • @janephernsozisambaga2753
      @janephernsozisambaga2753 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I am praying that this gets more likes

    • @josephinenalwoga2337
      @josephinenalwoga2337 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Eh I wish you knew how commandant is this show💪
      we aren't the same since bumplove👌

    • @Charlotte-990
      @Charlotte-990 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@janephernsozisambaga2753😂😂😂 I thought you were going to say, I'm praying for Pumla

    • @Deedor72
      @Deedor72 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@pumlanabachwa8668adding my voice to this call @UN 🙏🏽👌🏾

  • @Callmehildaglosh
    @Callmehildaglosh Před 6 měsíci +15

    Zaitun has been an amazing guest on the show

  • @judithwagaba
    @judithwagaba Před 6 měsíci +5

    I love this guest... Her humour is 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @christinemetzner4567
    @christinemetzner4567 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Madam Zaitun u a whole vibe , u a so articulate & very professional ,like u said u were Bodywise clear so u a Brainwise God bless yr work .Parliament needs such women walai.

  • @sanyuissa4591
    @sanyuissa4591 Před 6 měsíci +3

    hey bump lovers,I wish power to youth could reach Teso cause the violence that is there is for world cup

  • @giftanyijukire4000
    @giftanyijukire4000 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Zaitun got vibes banangeee 😍😍😂😹 she’s a muganda version of Miria Matembe….. btw as we’re still in the activism please bring us Matembe

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 Před 6 měsíci +5

    One can never overstate the influence of norms and culture on GBV. I used to work for a Norwegian crisis center which dealt witn cases of GBV, and almost 90% of the cases were from African and Arab immigrants! It was clear that cultural norms and religious beliefs had alot to do with it.
    So, many thanks to the guest for clearly atticulating and bringing awareness around the correlation there. So grateful for you all hosts of Bump Love. You're doing an invaluable job.

  • @amazingmary8805
    @amazingmary8805 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Pumla🎉❤thnx Bumplove ladies...help talk about Narcisists! Tufa😢...have one who may hv overcome it

  • @takanjane7527
    @takanjane7527 Před 7 měsíci +5

    To me in simple terms i would say educate agirl child and empower her. It will reduce the GBV by atleast 50%. i believe

  • @marionsenkomago8269
    @marionsenkomago8269 Před 6 měsíci +8

    This episode reminded me of my beloved father..when handing us over at the introduction ceremonies he always says 'muwala wange mukuwadde mubulungi tokuba tobonyabonya,am not like other parents that burn daughters beds,ekitanda kye wano kisigala wo era wekiri'❤ thankyou ladies for such an informative episode

  • @christinenakazzi280
    @christinenakazzi280 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I got 30 minutes to fear men😂😂 before I started watching this episode as a single 20fine year old, I'm here to appreciate bump love honestly I wouldn't be this informed if it weren't for this channel.

  • @irenem7739
    @irenem7739 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Thank you Bump love...please can you include topic on narcissism in marriages and relationships.

  • @kanisakisakyewanyama459
    @kanisakisakyewanyama459 Před 7 měsíci +3

    All I can say Bump love has taught me alot but among it has taught me to be an "INTENTIONAL MOM" my dear this may look small to others but ever since I choose to do better I see🤔🤔Thank u ladies

  • @martinanagasha3665
    @martinanagasha3665 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I have never knelt for my father. I will never kneel for any man.

  • @user-do8gz3ju6r
    @user-do8gz3ju6r Před 6 měsíci +2

    zaitun i love you, come back again please, have learnt way soo much, kuddos

  • @nuwasiimagloria2625
    @nuwasiimagloria2625 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Zaituni thanks for educating me. I had alot to learn, unlearn and relearn when it came to forms of violence.
    Cheers to our smart bump love ladies.
    This video has to be shared enough is enough

  • @sunshineheaven1802
    @sunshineheaven1802 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Thank you ladies for this one. Imagine being here feeling really smart and then we find out we have all abused and have been abused unknowingly and knowingly. I will never be quiet when it comes to violence, I will do my part and then the choice is yours. I am sorry to everyone who has had to endure violence. Power is good but its misuse is the issue.

  • @jackynambatya
    @jackynambatya Před 7 měsíci +4

    Wow Rachel..best summary writer👏👏👏

  • @zionruby
    @zionruby Před 6 měsíci +2

    I run Kaka Amua Initiative CBO in Busia County and would really wish to get in touch with Power To Youth . Our mandate is to Nurture Adolescent Boys and Young Men bridging gaps and disconnects created by absence of Positive Role Models .
    This was such a meaningful engagement. Very simplified and insightful.
    GBV has never been easy to unpack like Zaituni did.
    Power!
    #16DaysofActivism

  • @espilajackie9598
    @espilajackie9598 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I love this conversation how I wish my country people in Kenya 🇰🇪 could listen to this

  • @lucyfnakiyegawamala7892
    @lucyfnakiyegawamala7892 Před 6 měsíci

    Zaituni was an excellent choice of guest. Very eloquent& clearly unpacked Gender & the rootcauses of GBV (power& power norms)

  • @sarahkahinju321
    @sarahkahinju321 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Awww thanks bump love, i love Zaitun she is so eloquent👌

  • @monicamutani8145
    @monicamutani8145 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Yippee didn't miss this one, this campaign should have more days.Y'all looking gorgeous

  • @Phionah7083
    @Phionah7083 Před 7 měsíci +6

    It seems everyone has experienced gender based violence in one way or another so let's work together to fight this thanks to you ladies for always giving us an opportunity to learn 👏👏👏

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine Před 7 měsíci +9

    Loved this episode..Zaituni was so interesting to listen to.. Indeed emotional abuse is so bad because it's harder to even realise it's happening

  • @marynayebare8101
    @marynayebare8101 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Wabule most of us have faced or caused violence unknowingly. Thank you great ladies for educating us

  • @angelumwiza329
    @angelumwiza329 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Advice is a proposal, not an instruction. you decide what you do with it

  • @nsiimentacathy3676
    @nsiimentacathy3676 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I can't believe I have had to fight on my own, in my home/marriage, such that I break some of this misuse of power, power misuse hiden in the norms, pressure from society, in order to have some harmony in my marriage. Imagine if all of us got to do better😮😮the whole society will be clear❤

  • @user-uk8pz5ed2f
    @user-uk8pz5ed2f Před 5 měsíci

    The Bump Love ladies have done it again!, thank you ladies kudos to the guest speaker Zaitun for the insights and well elaborated ways of GBV. I hope our brothers from the west are listening in(not to point a finger) but these men have no regard for women at all but again like the ladies pointed out, information and teachings should be put out their even to the most remote areas of our countries and yes working with church leaders can be very effective. With love from kigali.

  • @ruthharrietmusana1552
    @ruthharrietmusana1552 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Thanks Bump Love Ladies for always making awareness over things we usually fear to air out
    You making us strong and stronger teri kuddamu kunyigira mwana wa muntu munkukutu atleast Kati tulina awokutandikira

  • @AgenongaJoy-so9ks
    @AgenongaJoy-so9ks Před 7 měsíci +3

    The combination of Pumla , Manuela and Zaitun 🔥🔥🔥🔥Ladies you make me happy

  • @nankingabrenda7612
    @nankingabrenda7612 Před 7 měsíci +4

    In my opinion as we strive on making this better,equal awareness should be emphasised on the boy child as well.Coz one shall not raise their girls well as manuela quoted and sends them out to men who are literally ignorant about the dynamics.
    The roots have to be uprooted by providing necessary information to the male as well.

  • @nabidigido3765
    @nabidigido3765 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Ladies leero muyitiridde today's topic was woooooow .Watching from Massachusetts, Boston. Thnx so much for the good ideas.

  • @travonnelynda
    @travonnelynda Před 6 měsíci +2

    I witnessed GBV at some point in my life, there's this statement men always use to make their wives leave work, " I am able to take care of you and the kinds, no need to stress. Just sit home and take care of the kids." Then poor woman stops working only for the man to start the violence in the name of you're because of my money 😢😢

  • @jamilahndagire3605
    @jamilahndagire3605 Před 7 měsíci +10

    😂😂😂😂😂I love zaitun. When she said nali clear, I died 😂😂😂

  • @mutesifatima1373
    @mutesifatima1373 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks bump love the show was much more informative
    I have a campaign that's coming up early next week
    You dont know how you have equipped me thanks so much to zaitun i have learnt alot

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine Před 7 měsíci +3

    Agree with Pumla about mental illness being used as an excuse...it even adds more stigma to people with mental health challenges...it's all about power dynamics

  • @nsiimentacathy3676
    @nsiimentacathy3676 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Zaituni ali bulala😮😮😮there is power in every word that comes out of her mouth

  • @AkelloOliverSandra-ho8sk
    @AkelloOliverSandra-ho8sk Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have loved the power relationship to GBV

  • @feliciatumusiime44
    @feliciatumusiime44 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I already love this lady guest 👌👌😍

  • @joanitahnalubwama905
    @joanitahnalubwama905 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Zaituni and Joyce thank you for educating me with all that knowledge,thank you bump love

  • @natashakimberly2131
    @natashakimberly2131 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Hehehehe I love zaitun so much!!!

  • @namulindageorgette.m6243
    @namulindageorgette.m6243 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Bambi guy behind the camera. I just love the way am educated and informed now aboy GBV. I walk with my head high coz no one can step on me now. Thank you so much bump love🙏

  • @LillianNamara
    @LillianNamara Před 7 měsíci +2

    The guest has been the best ,,,, we love you Zaituni

  • @flaviakamahoro4353
    @flaviakamahoro4353 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Banange this week thnxs for surprising us again

  • @presht5596
    @presht5596 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you ladies for the episode. It has reminded me of some violence that's not sexually based but denial of girls education in the name of girls shouldn't go anywhere beyond a certain class or level of improvement. So sometimes that violence comes from relatives that sell them off for marriage including women. Then also don't we have room for improvement. For behavioral change for the men and for the women. Apart from leaving options, maybe we should have organisations talking to the men about how to treat mother's, women, children better. We do appreciate this effort put in to the advocacy in these 16 days. You outdid yourselves.

  • @privilegedewah765
    @privilegedewah765 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you bump love.This was an informative episode.l am watching from Zimbabwe and l have realised that our patriarchal society needs a shift to stop GBV.Lets change the narrative

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Oba the translations in luganda are so dope.
    It kinda directly translates the message.
    The vibe on the show is so high and the ladies blended in well

  • @estherjoynimurungi4237
    @estherjoynimurungi4237 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Please Madam Zaitun is such a vibe!🤣🤣🤣🤣 Such a good episode. For sure enough is enough!

  • @giftanyijukire4000
    @giftanyijukire4000 Před 7 měsíci +3

    My say on why most women go back even after being beaten i think it’s coz women our love is more of emotions. We’re meant to be taken care of, loved and pampered which at times land is in troubles. We get so much attached and forget ourselves that you feel you can’t live without that sheep buh hun i promise you, you can thrive without one mistreating you. Women let’s learn self love banange, moment you learn it eeeh that man won’t have all that much power over you coz he really knows you ain’t settling for no sense.

  • @user-jd6sv4ci1i
    @user-jd6sv4ci1i Před 6 měsíci +1

    Gosh. She's brilliant 🎉🎉

  • @NabatereggaSumayya
    @NabatereggaSumayya Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for the shows. I suggest one day u also discuss about GBV against men. Especially married men because I think they also suffer in silence. Thanks

  • @rebeccanamara7073
    @rebeccanamara7073 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Waaaw, Zaituni is a whole vibe.

  • @mary_puffin
    @mary_puffin Před 6 měsíci +1

    Had to come back and say thank you for another lovely and informative episode. Both guests are doing great and commendable work. I'm Bible-believer myself and appreciate the pragmatism in recognizing the power that men have been given by God, but also the responsibility they have to use it wisely and productively. Women have their own unique influence and power as well. But banange, Zaituni and her curveballs. 🤣

  • @komugisharitah4088
    @komugisharitah4088 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much bump love, this is educative
    I request that next time you teach us about feminism in marriage
    Thank you

  • @brendadawa4165
    @brendadawa4165 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you bump love for enlighting us this is a good source of information for us. There is also financial abuse which most women dont know they are facing. This narrative of power dynamics needs to change

  • @akatukundafidra3838
    @akatukundafidra3838 Před 7 měsíci +8

    oh what a nice week ,two episodes in a week. thanks bump love for the series on domestic violence

  • @jannetmuruka123
    @jannetmuruka123 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Zaitun is too informed and really inspiring

  • @kanisakisakyewanyama459
    @kanisakisakyewanyama459 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I envy Zaitun's daughters inlaw. imagine having a mother inlaw that wise

  • @Deedor72
    @Deedor72 Před 7 měsíci +3

    OMG thanks Bump love for bringing the guests. I literally sat on yhe edge of my chair to listen to this informative conversation..Great job ladies🙏🏽

  • @feliabis4510
    @feliabis4510 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Eyes 👀 opened, people go through alot.I salute those who take care of people around them.be it a sister,brother, child, friends,relatives and any human being around you.lets stop GBV.🕺🕺🕺💃💃💃We all deserve to be happy.

  • @brejet
    @brejet Před 7 měsíci +4

    Thank you Bump love for these two knowledgeable episodes in one week. May God Bless You ladies.🙏

  • @dinahB
    @dinahB Před 7 měsíci +6

    So bump love has graced us with another episode, thanks alot❤❤

  • @verovlogs3588
    @verovlogs3588 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Nabachwa thank you for representing. Am also of the same clan.

  • @edwidgeankunda6863
    @edwidgeankunda6863 Před 7 měsíci +3

    You are the best ladies, thanks for such topics am sure many are learning, bigup all of you a special hello to KEMI ANGIE

  • @user-rz7ds7yb2p
    @user-rz7ds7yb2p Před 7 měsíci +5

    What a beautiful week, yaaaay🎉🎉 two episodes 😅thank you bump 💕💕

  • @patriciadeguire1236
    @patriciadeguire1236 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Pumla, you are wiser than your years. You captured the concept of submission accurately. You articulated it simply but so profoundly and deeply.

  • @lornatwins9944
    @lornatwins9944 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I was today years old when i understood violence

  • @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz
    @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz Před 7 měsíci +4

    Wow thanks again for yet another informative and educative conversation about GBV. Thanks to the guests for sharing with us 🙏🙏

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today Před 7 měsíci +4

    Power dynamics also change depending in the situation. Some children have power over their elderly parents because they support them. Money can change that dynamic, unfortunately.
    Reminds me of the story of Joseph and his brothers and shift in power dynamic. The only difference is that he did not misuse his power. He instead used it as a blessing. Lord, teach me to be like Joseph.

    • @swaimahcerlyx5076
      @swaimahcerlyx5076 Před 7 měsíci

      Power dynamics are never constant by the way, sometimes and some areas women have more power over men

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@swaimahcerlyx5076True, true.

  • @dusingizeingabireclaudine5996

    knowledge on GBV was much needed, thank you so much for this educative show.

  • @harryice5188
    @harryice5188 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Yes like me am waiting for my husband to provide not because l chose it like that but its the society that am in that dictates that, of course not for ever but after am done with bringing my children up to a certain age n after that l can also help in providing. All l do is a full house wife's job n am loving it coz l hv not encountered any problem with it.

  • @joycecarthy5203
    @joycecarthy5203 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I’m always to share your videos on different platforms plus giving a summary and what I’ve learnt from the episodes. Brilliant way to spread awareness . Loved this one too.

  • @christinenakyeyune1263
    @christinenakyeyune1263 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much bump love for this much needed conversation. Thank you for emphasizing that victims of GBV need allies.
    That said, I cannot wait to hear what allies, especially men, have to contribute to this discourse on GBV.

  • @doriskampiire5852
    @doriskampiire5852 Před 7 měsíci +2

    What an enreaching conversation!,thank you so much ladies

  • @brendanakyayiowor4320
    @brendanakyayiowor4320 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I donot want to sound like i am taking sides but with all honesty I strongly belive Men SHOULD watch this episode. Otherwise well done ladies you have done your vey best this year.

  • @swabrahM
    @swabrahM Před 7 měsíci

    Thnx bump love.... Society, religion and culture have created space to give men power over everything

  • @victoriasanyime9910
    @victoriasanyime9910 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I really enjoyed this lady, she was so articulate and informed. She gave me a paradigm shift. Great didactic episode Bump Love!
    P.S I want to know what Pumla and Rachel were whispering about haha.

  • @Ladyzee288
    @Ladyzee288 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks my ladies for the awareness

  • @annmartha1991
    @annmartha1991 Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is so informative. Thank you ladies ❤

  • @mariagynalubwama3151
    @mariagynalubwama3151 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks you ladies

  • @justinesserwadda5746
    @justinesserwadda5746 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good narratives. Well done.

  • @kobusingyejoan7484
    @kobusingyejoan7484 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love the way Racheal explained the hall culture and religion thing ,thank u ladies

  • @christinemetzner4567
    @christinemetzner4567 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanx ladies for the Sensitisation

  • @ahimbisibweglorious9797
    @ahimbisibweglorious9797 Před 7 měsíci +2

    What a way of getting into the weekend wuhuuuu💃🏾, weldone Ladies ❤😊😊😊😊😊

  • @nyakanzidellah256
    @nyakanzidellah256 Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is Informative

  • @benitamkhori1216
    @benitamkhori1216 Před 7 měsíci

    Zaituni 👏🏼👏🏼 i love the knowledge command. i have loved this episode quite educative

  • @gloriaclare8
    @gloriaclare8 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Thank you Bump love

  • @julianavicky8026
    @julianavicky8026 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Madam zaitun is just a vibe but anyways thank you bump love for such a good and educative information ❤

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Great episode

  • @kirabo.mariam5891
    @kirabo.mariam5891 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Because it is a beautiful week with bump love 😘

  • @softskills9228
    @softskills9228 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks bump love for the two episodes in a week

  • @angel.angel.636
    @angel.angel.636 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great show as always.. but I request when you talk in vernacular please provide translated subtitles.... You are international you know

  • @espilajackie9598
    @espilajackie9598 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Behaviour change is a process...

  • @acomodiana4938
    @acomodiana4938 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Bump love....knows how to pock quest speakers.....loved Zaitun alot.....very eloquent yet extremely funny.....kept me glued.....

  • @victoriasanyime9910
    @victoriasanyime9910 Před 7 měsíci +9

    I'm 48 seconds in and I thought for a split second that Rosette was going to say 'Gender reaffirming therapist' 😅 I was prepared for this to be the most controversial Bump Love Episode ever🤣🤣🤣

  • @tinablue7662
    @tinablue7662 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Failled to catch my nap coz hv to watch this u bump love u always give me emotional support

  • @user-fm4zx4wp4f
    @user-fm4zx4wp4f Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the show ladies ❤

  • @leahnakabugo3226
    @leahnakabugo3226 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Great work Ladies