Not sure if everyone knows this but in most cases, when someone puts something in your drink the ice will no longer float, so always get ice in your drink if someone gets it or hold it for you
If you don't know, about 13 girls were allegedly drugged and sexually assaulted, and also a first year from the same university good killed in a street assault Seriously, I am student in a college in the City of Toronto, and looking at what happened, I was discussing this with my peers, and we all are so damn angry at it all, like it hurts to see what's happening
Other advice for people going to parties. - Make sure someone who's not partying knows where you are. - If you can bring your own drinks do so. - Never drink the house juice. Stuff is basically poison. - Have a code word with your friends so that you don't have to explain difficult situations in front of strangers. - Don't go to far from the party. Crazy things can happen when no one is around.
I'm a guy and I have offered to hold drinks for girls or whatever and whenever they say no, it's like. Yeah that's probably a good idea, i totally understand
@@25fadeaway you know, having people around like him gives us comfort in a club and you just wanna tell him not to do that? Guys like him actually let us trust someone.
i’m glad you feel for us - if you want to do something that’s gonna have a positive effect then make sure to hold your male friends accountable! if they’re joking about something that can perpetuate sexism & rape culture, telling them that it’s not funny/asking them why they think it’s okay can make such a big difference. we need more men who are willing to stand up against toxicity, because sadly men with those opinions rarely listen to women if we’d stand up against them :(
@@hih1590 i would if i had any 🤣😅 I currently am only friends with a small group of the lgbtq community members, and a heterosexual woman, so... No problems there xD
And also , the "ice not floating " is cap , I did an experiment with my freinds were we saw if it will not float or not and guess what it floated , normal drink floats and drugged drinks float.
I mean..what did you drug it with? Not doubting the information is correct, just wondering about the specifics of your experiment and the accuracy based on how it was performed.
I think you might be right because when you add a substance of powder into it or something, the ice would theoretically sink to the bottom right? However, when we add sugar to a drink, the ice doesn’t sink to the bottom does it? So I think it depends on how much density the substance you’re putting in the drink has. Which means it’s not really reliable to see if the ice sinks or not.
Also, spending an extra few bucks on a new drink rather than letting someone else hold the drink IS WORTH IT! If you don’t want to carry your drink into the bathroom, dump it out. Simple. If you left your drink sitting and you’re suspicious, dump it OUT!! Your safely is worth more than an 11$ drink.
Can we talk about how we need to be 18+ to have pepper spray on us? Like girls under the age of 18 are more likely to be in danger most of the time. Like we out here acting like there’s isn’t pre-teens who walk to and from school (that on its own is dangerous)🙄
Hi bring a mini hair spray it hurts like hell and it's not illegal you will find it where the traveling section trust me share this BC this could save your life trust me
My mom gave me a pocket knife when i was walking to school in a new city i was 12 and my mom told me about rap and all that bad stuff that happens to girls at a young age and i am thankful for that cuz i know what to do when something happens i will know what the person is trying to do i don't know about pepper spray tho
Her advice is good for women and girls from different ages. This one is more targeted to late teens to early 20's people or even older (but mostly older know the rules).
I understand why some women are afraid of men i mean if the situation was right i a man could get scared over a tall hooded man walk by or a man walk behind me but me personally who is kinda tall but never wears a hood and always smiling have been called a: "sex offender rapist pervert etc" just by Walking by some girls. I ger that ur afraid but probably best to keep it to urself
There have been some cases where another girl Walking by heard and yelled at em cus u cant just yell that. Especially when im Walking with my 9 year old brother
There have been some cases where another girl Walking by heard and yelled at em cus u cant just yell that. Especially when im Walking with my 9 year old brother
I remember this girl shared her story. She was in her cousin's house for some party and there were a few boys who came over. At one point, a boy asked this girl to try the drink in the freezer, she did it. She said the last thing she remembered was her walking down the lawn and then just falling on the ground. And I think, the rest you already know 🙃
One advice for girls no hate or judgement towards anyone ❤please don't drink more than 2 shots... its not good for your safety or health..these incidents has been happening all over the world...
That last one is so true. Because thinking about it not one of my guy friends would even care about me holding my own drink. They wouldn't offer to hold it for me it wouldn't even be a question. So if you think someone would get mad because of that then clearly they aren't just a friend.
For the last one, I was in a fist fight and my best friend was walking buy. Same with my partner. They saw the fight and I won then came over asking if I was ok. I had a scratch, about .5 inches and they said I needed to be careful and nicer to people. This dude was drunk and tried to fight me, how am I supposed to be nice? Let them hit me?
even the bartender shit is not good, my gf told that one time a dude tried to buy her a drink, so she noticed the bartender putting something in her drink and apparently the bartender is working with him. poeple know him but he preys on girls that dont know him. So be even carefull from the bartenders too.
I wish girls didn't have so many rules just to stay safe and alive but thank you so much for letting us know these tips I don't know what I would do without them
@@17MrLeon men shouldn't have to protect women they should just not harm us and I know that not all men are like that but some are and I've had a traumatic experience so I think that Feminists shouldn't have made that rule
PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS BECAUSE THIS WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE. if you're walking alone and a woman asks you if you need a ride home. DONT DO IT! I listen to true crime alot and I have heard of so many children and women being killed because they think if it's a woman they'll be safe. That is 100% false. You do not go into anybody's car no matter the age, gender, or race. If they are a stranger they are danger. Please stay safe.
Omg I won't lie if I never saw this message, I'd prolly accept it coz it's a woman driving and i'll probably think that I'm safe😭 Thanks a lot for Saying this!
I know damn well I haven't been to a club my whole life and never will but I really appreciate you for voicing this out because this NEEDS to be said (sadly)
How about staying home to drink. If that isn't an option then if you do go out drink bottled water. Im an older gentleman and I tell my son all the time don't drink in a place you feel is unsafe or a place where you have to drive to get home.
As a trans man, i have been on both ends of the spectrum. Its disgusting to me how _as soon_ as i represented more masculine, all of a sudden i wasn't in nearly as much danger. Obviously its not all men, but a LOT take for granted how privileged they are. Stay safe girls/feminine respresenting!
If it was a hot 6 ft tall guy with abs and boy band hair would you have felt creeped out and took off running? Men hate when women call guys creepy but usually that just means he's unattractive to me.
@@RawrieAddicted that's a lie. If Leonardo DiCaprio or Idris Elba is checking you out he's not a Creep. There's data to back up if a dude is not attractive he is automatically viewed as creepy. If a 6 ft tall Channing Tatum is checking you out trust you me you are not thinking that he's a creep
Oh some one was coming up to this girl and said hey girl your tag is sticking out and touched her neck as if she was gonna put it back in for her and she was like ok thanks and then later at the party *she was 16* she starts feeling sick like she’s going to pass out so her friends where like come let’s go home then but she had seen on her tiktok or somewhere and said no let leave some other way and so she went to the hospital and apparently the girl had something on her hands when she pushed the tag back in apparently they where going to kid nap her at her car *this is not to scare you but just stay safe*
When I stepped into my teens and started partying the first thing my mom taught me was about drinks any type even water. Never and ever drink it if anyone gives it to you.
I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm a guy and I've seen this kind of thing once in a while at bars. To tell you the truth I really don't blame them.
Heres advice for anyone: If you live in a somewhat dangerous area and you carry a bag with a keychain and keys on it, for the love of god almighty get one that is easy to take off and put it on an INSIDE ZIPPER in your bag, it can really prevent getting robbed/mugged
My anxiety makes it when I leave a drink I’m afraid to drink it even if I am positive it’s mine I just don’t wanna take the chance of accidentally drinking someone else’s drink.
Okay so just my opinion and I want you guys to know this but whats more effective then educating women on how to keep themselves safe, is creating safe spaces for women. A better use of time would be to educate others, women and men, on how we can create a world where women/feminely presenting individuals can be safe and treated with respect in all situations. This information is still important to know for the short time, but it will not do anything to work and to change the damage being done to all women across the world. Remember to stay educated, and to teach others with the same passion you use to protect women.
Incase you were wondering what happened to the one girl, she had someone buy her a drink, and not long after she drank it she felt sick, she went to the hospital and less than 24 hours later her whole body was paralyzed.. someone ended up lacing her drink. Luckily she’s fine now but yes!! Please stay safe!
I love your videos they always make me happy and brighten my day I love how your so positive and your videos are always fun to watch don't let anyone bring you down you are beautiful and nice just the way you are !:)))
I would share this but I’m in a Finland school since I’m from Finland so my class girls don’t know so much English and my sis just told me I overgrown from their child style kinda😅 Btw ur so positive and caring I luv u❤
@@edenbos6976 I don’t know why you think it’s funny. My heart got broken because they were my best friends who promised they’d sit with me but they ditched me
@@averyspalding7505 oops, I’m sorry I didn’t mean to respond to your comment, I meant to respond to the comment below you. But honestly, them not sitting with you at lunch is really not the end of the world. If they continue to ditch you, you should get other friends, but it’s really not the end of the world
True my brother is 23 I’ll be 22 in October and when we go out together he literally is my coat hanger , walking purse( meaning If I didn’t bring my purse he will carry my phone lipstick , etc) and body guard .
A few rules I think every person should follow no matter your age and especially if you’re a girl because this type of stuff is just so much more common if you are. 1. Get home before sundown and/or 9pm if you’re at a party. If you’re walking or biking or something after sunset, make sure you are with at least 5 friends and/or family members with a mix of genders. 2. Avoid partying with strangers altogether. 3. Doesn’t matter if you trust your friends, WATCH YOUR DRINK and do NOT get drunk. Remember it’s always okay to say no. 4. Set up an emergency call system to auto-dial authorities on your phone with a simple command (like you click the volume button 5 times to auto-dial on mine) and always have it in reach and accessible if you are alone in any given situation. I personally always hold my phone with my thumb just lingering on the button inside my pocket where it’s not visible and has a lesser chance of dropping. 5. ALWAYS dress modestly if you are going out (there are exceptions, but this is just in general). For example, don’t wear short skirts and crop tops to a supermarket. It’s not about fashion preference and freedom, it’s about keeping yourself safe from perverts who will attack you while you load your trunk with groceries. 6. Do not walk around with headphones on if you are travelling alone unless you are in your own car (with the door locked), and do not play on your phone or distract yourself with anything if you are taking the bus and there are very few people on it. 7. Carry something you can distract someone with. Guns and knives and even pepper spray can easily be turned on you if the prosecutor gets the upperhand. Get an alarm keychain and/or pin to blast super loud sounds. It’s difficult to silence them in a hassle, and you can pull the pin unnoticeably. Even if it’s 3am and no one is in hearing range, it will still delay the assaulters and give you a chance to escape. 8. If you are living alone, try to make it look like you do not live alone. This literally can be done by simply placing a pair of *used* work boots at the front door along with your normal shoes to make it seem like people are constantly coming and going. I suggest products of the opposite gender to make it more obvious. 9. Install a webcam (or multiple) on the outside of your house and don’t get one that isn’t waterproof and isn’t equipped with night vision. Set an automated alarm system for trespassers when you’re not home and/or it’s night and you’re asleep. If your friends are going to be popping in during alarm hours, tell them to call you beforehand. They shouldn’t have access to your home anyways. If you have a passcode, it’s not for them. If you need a trusted person to check on the house while you’re away for a while, give them a copy of the key and make sure to get it back when you get back. 10. Locations, off, always. Exceptions are people responsible for your safety like your parents and/or spouse (assuming that they aren’t the ones you’re in danger from). NEVER post your exact whereabouts on social media unless you’ve left it already. On vacation? Do not post anything till after you return home. Hanging out at a local park? Wait. Your address is private at all times to everyone. If you’re meeting up with someone for an interview, go to a cafe or something. Selling something on Kijiji? Transaction completed right outside the local drugstore! And honestly the list is endless, but these are just some really crucial ones.
I’ve literally had a habit of putting my hand over my drink since I was 11 like it’s a good habit to have but not at 11 like I shouldn’t know what it means I was told bye my parents to ‘ keep my drink safe ‘
I literally love you girly. You're so confident, selfless and caring.
I'm sorry for doing this, and you have the right to hate me, but....:
You're*
@@olliecrayford LMAO
Same she laterally changed my entire life❤️🥰🥰
*You're
@@olliecrayford wow...thanks
Not sure if everyone knows this but in most cases, when someone puts something in your drink the ice will no longer float, so always get ice in your drink if someone gets it or hold it for you
omg I didn’t know this!! I will definitely be adding this to my list of safety rules
underrated comment^^
Can u please explain why.
Omggg okk
@@chloetailleur4769 aw thank you
Just want to help
If you don't know, about 13 girls were allegedly drugged and sexually assaulted, and also a first year from the same university good killed in a street assault
Seriously, I am student in a college in the City of Toronto, and looking at what happened, I was discussing this with my peers, and we all are so damn angry at it all, like it hurts to see what's happening
Oh gosh, praying everything is better? I'm not fully aware of what happened but I hope they are ok
You murdered Bellatrix so I wouldn’t talk Molly
@@blastorange2460 ok theres a time and place to say that potterhead :)
@@vecnasmother9813 more like pot head, fr who be making this jokes in a serious video
@@p4rfait_g1rl fr
Other advice for people going to parties.
- Make sure someone who's not partying knows where you are.
- If you can bring your own drinks do so.
- Never drink the house juice. Stuff is basically poison.
- Have a code word with your friends so that you don't have to explain difficult situations in front of strangers.
- Don't go to far from the party. Crazy things can happen when no one is around.
Please add if you look away from your drink, leave it
@@Thepotatoz. I once left my drink/hid it but was still kinda scared so I just ditched it
I therefore don't attend parties 👍🏼
I am most scared about drinks and yea i agree all of this
I see lore olympus right there
I'm a guy and I have offered to hold drinks for girls or whatever and whenever they say no, it's like. Yeah that's probably a good idea, i totally understand
Dude just don't offer. Don't put yourself out there like that
@@25fadeaway omg! How toxic can you be?
@@dexie3849 how is that toxic?
@@25fadeaway you know, having people around like him gives us comfort in a club and you just wanna tell him not to do that? Guys like him actually let us trust someone.
@@dexie3849 I said don't offer to hold their drinks. I didn't say don't be around. Him holding drinks like a cup holder it's not good for him
This is so sad that this video had to exist ):
As a guy I can't imagine what you're going through, and I feel quite bad myself for some reason
Please don't feel bad i am sure you are not those creeps who we are talking about
Thanks :( makes me feel good when i hear guys feel the same way
Don’t feel bad it’s just that people can be such creeps and it’s not fair for girls it is not nice to grow up to
i’m glad you feel for us - if you want to do something that’s gonna have a positive effect then make sure to hold your male friends accountable! if they’re joking about something that can perpetuate sexism & rape culture, telling them that it’s not funny/asking them why they think it’s okay can make such a big difference. we need more men who are willing to stand up against toxicity, because sadly men with those opinions rarely listen to women if we’d stand up against them :(
@@hih1590 i would if i had any 🤣😅
I currently am only friends with a small group of the lgbtq community members, and a heterosexual woman, so... No problems there xD
And also , the "ice not floating " is cap , I did an experiment with my freinds were we saw if it will not float or not and guess what it floated , normal drink floats and drugged drinks float.
Scientific experiments have to be proven multiple times by others and you
I mean..what did you drug it with? Not doubting the information is correct, just wondering about the specifics of your experiment and the accuracy based on how it was performed.
I think you might be right because when you add a substance of powder into it or something, the ice would theoretically sink to the bottom right? However, when we add sugar to a drink, the ice doesn’t sink to the bottom does it? So I think it depends on how much density the substance you’re putting in the drink has. Which means it’s not really reliable to see if the ice sinks or not.
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
Also, spending an extra few bucks on a new drink rather than letting someone else hold the drink IS WORTH IT! If you don’t want to carry your drink into the bathroom, dump it out. Simple. If you left your drink sitting and you’re suspicious, dump it OUT!! Your safely is worth more than an 11$ drink.
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
Can we talk about how we need to be 18+ to have pepper spray on us? Like girls under the age of 18 are more likely to be in danger most of the time. Like we out here acting like there’s isn’t pre-teens who walk to and from school (that on its own is dangerous)🙄
in my country it’s illegal for any age
Hi bring a mini hair spray it hurts like hell and it's not illegal you will find it where the traveling section trust me share this BC this could save your life trust me
@@thespaghettiolockdown3415 I’ve heard of this and now I know for sure, thank you 🤍
@@yasi169 np this will help U trust me but np it's fine luv to help
My mom gave me a pocket knife when i was walking to school in a new city i was 12 and my mom told me about rap and all that bad stuff that happens to girls at a young age and i am thankful for that cuz i know what to do when something happens i will know what the person is trying to do i don't know about pepper spray tho
I think I’m to young for this channel as I am an early teen, but I still appreciate this advise for the future! Thx
I understand but please remember these i am also an early teen but i got catcalled at 11 and inappropriately looked at 12
@@animeboysbereal2951 oh well nothing like that had happened to me so I’m good for now
@@Willow12866 don’t worry I’m also an early teen. I’m turning 13 in april 🙂
advice like this is good at all times. the first time i got checked out by someone was when i was barely 13
Her advice is good for women and girls from different ages. This one is more targeted to late teens to early 20's people or even older (but mostly older know the rules).
Thank you for this girl this is so important!!! I’m all for men’s rights but people need to understand why some women are always in fear of men!
I understand why some women are afraid of men
i mean
if the situation was right
i a man could get scared over a tall hooded man walk by
or a man walk behind me
but me personally who is kinda tall but never wears a hood and always smiling have been called a: "sex offender rapist pervert etc" just by Walking by some girls.
I ger that ur afraid but probably best to keep it to urself
There have been some cases where another girl Walking by heard and yelled at em cus u cant just yell that. Especially when im Walking with my 9 year old brother
There have been some cases where another girl Walking by heard and yelled at em cus u cant just yell that. Especially when im Walking with my 9 year old brother
@@demidiu7808 I can’t keep things like that to myself. I know men who are adept of women as well but my comment was specific to this post.
@@demidiu7808 what are you saying? Lol
This is just really scary. Nobody deserves to be put in situations like this. :(
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
I remember this girl shared her story. She was in her cousin's house for some party and there were a few boys who came over. At one point, a boy asked this girl to try the drink in the freezer, she did it. She said the last thing she remembered was her walking down the lawn and then just falling on the ground. And I think, the rest you already know 🙃
actually i don't know
Also don't put your drink down, don't let it out of your sight, keep it in your hand, it might be weird but take it to the toilet with you
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
@@storiesmylife4059 awesome thanks for the info
One advice for girls no hate or judgement towards anyone ❤please don't drink more than 2 shots... its not good for your safety or health..these incidents has been happening all over the world...
You deserve so much more hype for what you do. You helped me to get through a rough patch and I am feeling better than ever now! Thank you so much!
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
There was a hair band that doubled as a drink protector on shark tank, don’t remember the name of it, but it’s pretty cool.
and there is cup condoms
Nightcap is the reusable drink cover scrunchie
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
That last one is so true. Because thinking about it not one of my guy friends would even care about me holding my own drink. They wouldn't offer to hold it for me it wouldn't even be a question. So if you think someone would get mad because of that then clearly they aren't just a friend.
My mom told me this once and that you should be careful with any drinks left unattended in public places
For the last one, I was in a fist fight and my best friend was walking buy. Same with my partner. They saw the fight and I won then came over asking if I was ok. I had a scratch, about .5 inches and they said I needed to be careful and nicer to people. This dude was drunk and tried to fight me, how am I supposed to be nice? Let them hit me?
Exactly lol tf, nothing wrong with defending yourself, forget what they said since that's kinda dumb that they said that imo
It is an act of self defense and therefor, is reasonable
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
WHEN ARE WE GONNA EDUCATE THE BOYS ??
What do you mean by that?
Why don't you give that same energy to cardi b. Who drugged men in and stole their money. I will wait here patiently for your response
When will we educate girls that men don't have to change just for woman
@@Hades-gz8kt this has fuck all to do with men drugging and taking advantage of women
@@25fadeaway That’s also fucked, but not as common as men drugging women and raping/sexually assaulting them.
even the bartender shit is not good, my gf told that one time a dude tried to buy her a drink, so she noticed the bartender putting something in her drink and apparently the bartender is working with him. poeple know him but he preys on girls that dont know him. So be even carefull from the bartenders too.
Sip chip is also a product that can help detect drugs in drinks with or without alcohol.
I will be reposting this incase anyone needs one
someone told me that sometimes people pay the bartender to drug your drink for them
I really look up to her! She has been through some of the same situations I’ve been through, and gives me more confidence
I wish girls didn't have so many rules just to stay safe and alive but thank you so much for letting us know these tips I don't know what I would do without them
Well there used to be one rule which was to have a man protecting you. But Feminists wanted this so there you have it.
@@17MrLeon men shouldn't have to protect women they should just not harm us and I know that not all men are like that but some are and I've had a traumatic experience so I think that Feminists shouldn't have made that rule
@@craftypython5349 But we dont live in make belief world we live in reality. So we have to adapt.
@@17MrLeon well yeah obviously
That sounds rude but it's not supposed to be
@@craftypython5349 Thats like saying "we should not need doctors, there should not be deceases".
It’s sad people gotta talk abt this 😔 but ty for making it and sharing safety tips
I literally love you so much. Keep going girl.
PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS BECAUSE THIS WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE.
if you're walking alone and a woman asks you if you need a ride home.
DONT DO IT!
I listen to true crime alot and I have heard of so many children and women being killed because they think if it's a woman they'll be safe. That is 100% false.
You do not go into anybody's car no matter the age, gender, or race.
If they are a stranger they are danger.
Please stay safe.
Omg I won't lie if I never saw this message, I'd prolly accept it coz it's a woman driving and i'll probably think that I'm safe😭
Thanks a lot for Saying this!
Spencer is so freaking pretty!!
Honestly these are good tips for anyone who wants to go out, not just girls
And also don't leave your drink unattended. Good advice. Protect yourself ladies, this is coming from a father of 2 daughters.
This is extreme. In Hungary such things are almost non-existing. Her country has some real issues.
It's not her country it's almost every country
Share this with everyone not just girls.. thx sweetheart great job 👍
:( some awful stuff happened at the party she went to, be careful and I hope you and everyone else were ok ❤️
U are my favorite influencer, you have encouraged me to be myself and be confident, luv u girly ❤❤❤
I know damn well I haven't been to a club my whole life and never will but I really appreciate you for voicing this out because this NEEDS to be said (sadly)
How about staying home to drink. If that isn't an option then if you do go out drink bottled water. Im an older gentleman and I tell my son all the time don't drink in a place you feel is unsafe or a place where you have to drive to get home.
You are SO encouraging! Keep it up, I love your content♥️
It’s actually sad that people have to say this stuff like this,thanks bestie for keeping us safe
first, absolutely love you spencer
Thx so much for your videos!! I am a young girl with a younger sister and now we can be more safe in this world!! Thx so much!!
Thank you so much for making these videos. These videos have changed my mental thoughts.
As a trans man, i have been on both ends of the spectrum. Its disgusting to me how _as soon_ as i represented more masculine, all of a sudden i wasn't in nearly as much danger. Obviously its not all men, but a LOT take for granted how privileged they are. Stay safe girls/feminine respresenting!
Today I went on a walk, and I saw this old man staring at me creepily, so I sped up and ran all the way home
If it was a hot 6 ft tall guy with abs and boy band hair would you have felt creeped out and took off running? Men hate when women call guys creepy but usually that just means he's unattractive to me.
@@25fadeaway no he was actually creepy, he was in a less busy street where there was hardly anyone and he just had that creepy vibe
@@25fadeaway A man is still a creep regardless of his appearance.
@@RawrieAddicted that's a lie. If Leonardo DiCaprio or Idris Elba is checking you out he's not a Creep. There's data to back up if a dude is not attractive he is automatically viewed as creepy. If a 6 ft tall Channing Tatum is checking you out trust you me you are not thinking that he's a creep
Oh some one was coming up to this girl and said hey girl your tag is sticking out and touched her neck as if she was gonna put it back in for her and she was like ok thanks and then later at the party *she was 16* she starts feeling sick like she’s going to pass out so her friends where like come let’s go home then but she had seen on her tiktok or somewhere and said no let leave some other way and so she went to the hospital and apparently the girl had something on her hands when she pushed the tag back in apparently they where going to kid nap her at her car *this is not to scare you but just stay safe*
The fact that she literally said all this with her signature smile....😃😃Salute to u ma'am
This is just good advice for everyone, regardless of gender
ilysm ur so caring and kind and also ur rlly pretty :)
Other then the fact that I felt awful for the victims this incident didn’t even phase me because in London this stuff is pretty normal and it’s sad.
i saw that necklace at claire's
When I stepped into my teens and started partying the first thing my mom taught me was about drinks any type even water. Never and ever drink it if anyone gives it to you.
This video had really helped please do a part 2
me watching this while I never ever go to parties lol
I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm a guy and I've seen this kind of thing once in a while at bars. To tell you the truth I really don't blame them.
Heres advice for anyone:
If you live in a somewhat dangerous area and you carry a bag with a keychain and keys on it, for the love of god almighty get one that is easy to take off and put it on an INSIDE ZIPPER in your bag, it can really prevent getting robbed/mugged
I love your vids im the middel child out of 29 cousins i always watch you vids so i know what to do if something happens to keep them safe
This women right here has taught me so much about the world and I know I have some good tips for when im old enough to go places alone!
Ty
My anxiety makes it when I leave a drink I’m afraid to drink it even if I am positive it’s mine I just don’t wanna take the chance of accidentally drinking someone else’s drink.
My mom told me these things when I first went to a party and yeah it really helps and makes you feel confident in parties.. :)
Okay so just my opinion and I want you guys to know this but whats more effective then educating women on how to keep themselves safe, is creating safe spaces for women. A better use of time would be to educate others, women and men, on how we can create a world where women/feminely presenting individuals can be safe and treated with respect in all situations. This information is still important to know for the short time, but it will not do anything to work and to change the damage being done to all women across the world. Remember to stay educated, and to teach others with the same passion you use to protect women.
Thank you Spencer your like such a big sister to all of us girls ❤️
If a girl hands me their drink. They aren't getting it back. I'd probably drink it. 💀
lmfao id probably do the same
thank you so much this can help so many people
I could totally relate. I had a bad experience. Be really careful and don't drink too much.
💙💜💙 WE LOVE YOU SPENCER 💙💜💙
Keep in mind these can apply to men too. Be safe everyone!
Right! Love these tips!! ❤️
Thanks for your advice, I am officially terrified of college but at least now I'm prepared
You’re so caring and so cute
OMG you are literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my life you eyes your everything is just .... i'm so proud of you girl
Incase you were wondering what happened to the one girl, she had someone buy her a drink, and not long after she drank it she felt sick, she went to the hospital and less than 24 hours later her whole body was paralyzed.. someone ended up lacing her drink. Luckily she’s fine now but yes!! Please stay safe!
I love your videos they always make me happy and brighten my day I love how your so positive and your videos are always fun to watch don't let anyone bring you down you are beautiful and nice just the way you are !:)))
I love you vids❤️✨🍄🌼🐝
I love how you help us, but i almost never go to a party bc of that sh i t
I hope when my granddaughter gets older she is as smart about things like you are you a good role model for them god bless you and be safe
I just started watching your channel and I love it
Hey girl you're so caring .Thanks for the tips
Thanks for the tip girly! I’ll make sure
Me and my girl friends stay safe for you!!🧡
I would share this but I’m in a Finland school since I’m from Finland so my class girls don’t know so much English and my sis just told me I overgrown from their child style kinda😅
Btw ur so positive and caring
I luv u❤
Can you do some friend advice because my friends ditched me today at lunch and I’m heartbroken
Lmao
@@edenbos6976 I don’t know why you think it’s funny. My heart got broken because they were my best friends who promised they’d sit with me but they ditched me
Ask them why they ditched you, if they don’t have a good reason then find new friends.
@@averyspalding7505 oops, I’m sorry I didn’t mean to respond to your comment, I meant to respond to the comment below you. But honestly, them not sitting with you at lunch is really not the end of the world. If they continue to ditch you, you should get other friends, but it’s really not the end of the world
my only friend in 6th grade left me for the more popular kids. I would talk to new people and you'll make friends
You are awesome good job you always make sense thanks
First yay I love your videos
Love you girly thank you for sharing the word 💝
Your amazing thank you for warning people 👍👍
Always keep your eyes on your drink. If you look away, don’t drink it
I also beg you to do another one of these!
You give such great advice. Thank you sm. You look like Camilla Mendes btw
I’m a guy, and I learned from this. Thanks
Love the necklace btw!!!
I'm an introvert and I hate parties so if I ever have a friend that likes parties I will definitely tell them about this.
Omg I love her necklace
True my brother is 23 I’ll be 22 in October and when we go out together he literally is my coat hanger , walking purse( meaning If I didn’t bring my purse he will carry my phone lipstick , etc) and body guard .
A few rules I think every person should follow no matter your age and especially if you’re a girl because this type of stuff is just so much more common if you are.
1. Get home before sundown and/or 9pm if you’re at a party. If you’re walking or biking or something after sunset, make sure you are with at least 5 friends and/or family members with a mix of genders.
2. Avoid partying with strangers altogether.
3. Doesn’t matter if you trust your friends, WATCH YOUR DRINK and do NOT get drunk. Remember it’s always okay to say no.
4. Set up an emergency call system to auto-dial authorities on your phone with a simple command (like you click the volume button 5 times to auto-dial on mine) and always have it in reach and accessible if you are alone in any given situation. I personally always hold my phone with my thumb just lingering on the button inside my pocket where it’s not visible and has a lesser chance of dropping.
5. ALWAYS dress modestly if you are going out (there are exceptions, but this is just in general). For example, don’t wear short skirts and crop tops to a supermarket. It’s not about fashion preference and freedom, it’s about keeping yourself safe from perverts who will attack you while you load your trunk with groceries.
6. Do not walk around with headphones on if you are travelling alone unless you are in your own car (with the door locked), and do not play on your phone or distract yourself with anything if you are taking the bus and there are very few people on it.
7. Carry something you can distract someone with. Guns and knives and even pepper spray can easily be turned on you if the prosecutor gets the upperhand. Get an alarm keychain and/or pin to blast super loud sounds. It’s difficult to silence them in a hassle, and you can pull the pin unnoticeably. Even if it’s 3am and no one is in hearing range, it will still delay the assaulters and give you a chance to escape.
8. If you are living alone, try to make it look like you do not live alone. This literally can be done by simply placing a pair of *used* work boots at the front door along with your normal shoes to make it seem like people are constantly coming and going. I suggest products of the opposite gender to make it more obvious.
9. Install a webcam (or multiple) on the outside of your house and don’t get one that isn’t waterproof and isn’t equipped with night vision. Set an automated alarm system for trespassers when you’re not home and/or it’s night and you’re asleep. If your friends are going to be popping in during alarm hours, tell them to call you beforehand. They shouldn’t have access to your home anyways. If you have a passcode, it’s not for them. If you need a trusted person to check on the house while you’re away for a while, give them a copy of the key and make sure to get it back when you get back.
10. Locations, off, always. Exceptions are people responsible for your safety like your parents and/or spouse (assuming that they aren’t the ones you’re in danger from). NEVER post your exact whereabouts on social media unless you’ve left it already. On vacation? Do not post anything till after you return home. Hanging out at a local park? Wait. Your address is private at all times to everyone. If you’re meeting up with someone for an interview, go to a cafe or something. Selling something on Kijiji? Transaction completed right outside the local drugstore!
And honestly the list is endless, but these are just some really crucial ones.
Hey ik I am late to this video but can u do more safety tips for girls
I’ve literally had a habit of putting my hand over my drink since I was 11 like it’s a good habit to have but not at 11 like I shouldn’t know what it means I was told bye my parents to ‘ keep my drink safe ‘
Love you. Thanks for the tips
Love your hair 🤩
I just sent it to my best friend I hope it works
Ur soo pretty u look like camila mendes