AUDC: DO NOT Talk to MY Child That Way! (Season 1 Flashback) | Lifetime
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- Lexine's mom Maria snaps at moms and dancers alike after Abby calls out her botched front walkover in this clip from Season 1, Episode 1, "Let the Dancing Begin". #AbbysUltimateDanceCompetition #AbbyLeeMiller #DanceMoms
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Who knew one mistake could cause a whole argument
Mariela Singh it's not aldc , it's audc
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Did you not see the huge argument on Dance Moms after Maddie forgot her solo? or the fight when Nia's headpiece came loose? In the dance world big fights are often caused by mistakes.
Casual Ellie crazy dance moms on another level as Christi said about Jill once 🤣
Ikr
I understand what the other mom’s we’re trying to do but they overstepped by calling her out in front of the kids. Escalated the situation and made all the kids upset
tREXrules27 💯
tREXrules27 she was telling her daughter if they go home she shouldn’t be disappointed
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She puts her daughter under so much pressure
I disagree
Why a mom would discourage her own daughter? Kristie is the best mom in this show for me, I love the way she supports her girl.
Hetyele mine is Asia’s mom but idk her nake
@@lorelaip7916 Kristie is her mother.
I can kind of understand her POV though. I do the same thing for myself sometimes. Expect/prepare for the worst so when it doesn't happen, you're pleasantly surprised.
"It's okay, we're going home" could've been changed to "It's okay if we go home. It's not the end. Don't stress yourself out."
I disagree. It is better to prepare your child for the bad so then they are expecting it and if the bad happens they don’t mind, but if you tell them they were great and might win and they don’t that would cause some kids to get mote upset. She never said “we are going Home your bad”. She kinds said that it is ok to go home. The other Mums overstepped their boundaries
Hetyele she wasn’t trying to discourage her daughter she was trying to tell her it’s ok if we go home
maria is right tho, your child does not always win and they’re not always going to be the best. sometimes it’s okay to just be like it’s fine it’s not your day.
you don't tell your child that they're going home though, and on top of making her kid upset she snapped at another child who also became upset..
@@katewilkinson3640 It's a psychological thing that actually works pretty well depending on the person. If you expect/prepare for the worst but do better than you're pleasantly surprised by the outcome.
It makes people work harder because they are prepared for the worst and if they fail even though they worked hard, than they're alright because they weren't fed with false promises. Just an "it's ok if we go home. Dont stress"
s s but what does that tell your child? If it gets to hard quit? Try your best, make a mistake and go home? It’s teaching your child to be a quitter. I get she’s shielding her, but change your words.. make it seem like you’re encouraging her. Smh.
the thing is, it was one critique. front walkovers are extremely common in dance, and you just don’t tell your child “you’re going home” after someone critiques you on that. abby is a dance instructor, it’s her job to look at people’s dancing and tell them what they can fix. maria completely took away any chance for lexinne to win the show, she discouraged that kid so much, and i really felt bad. no mom should take their child out of an environment like that where they can really learn, just because their child made one mistake.
@@jasmineh.3002 Then*
If another persons child tried to lecture me on my parenting you better believe i would shut her down real quick.
Righttt🤣😂🤣😂
Exactly that's what I saying don't no child run me that's fa sho
EXACTLY! A child needs to stay in a child’s place you don’t jump into grown folks business
But you have no right to shout at or shut down the child the same way you're saying she has no right to lecture you cause she's little. There are boundaries with other ppl's children, you can talk to her mother about parenting her kid to not butt in but to scream at the child yourself when you and her parent's aren't even close is out of order.
@@briannaturner7662 it was her business because it was her mom but yea she was going too far
I love how Kristi was positive and supported Lexine
I may be in the minority but I side with Maria in this specific situation. She tried to walk away and they have her cornered in an alley talking about her parenting? Different kids need different types of motivation and she stayed respectful towards the other mothers while they did not return it.
Exactly. I was the same way.
Expecting/preparing for the worst actually helped me work harder and prepare myself mentally if I ever did fail. When I didn't...i was extremely happy.
Jasmine H. I would rather that than someone like Elisabeth that seems to have been told she is perfect her whole life (judging by the few videos I’ve watched).
Yeh
I side with maria, but, when she yelled at the kid with blonde hair (im sorry i dont know her name) that was pretty wrong.
no they had to get out of the curtains cause or else they’ll be too loud they all went together
i dont like this because they know English is not her first language and she prob didnt mean it like that but it wouldnt be lifetime if they didnt do the most over nothing.....
Imani Adams Or... she did mean it like that. Asian parents are tougher
@@daria5846 She wasn't being a discouraging tiger parent. She was saying it's okay if they get sent home. Like trying to tell her she wouldn't be disappointed. The mothers took it the wrong way
@@queenmari9636 exactly
@@queenmari9636 did you see the full episode? she was discouraging her daughter all week. it was sad.
@@marissaurias5116 How was it unacceptable?
She's just an Asian mom and that's how we are raised.
Thank u, I was looking for this comment
Felicia Chiang me too.....
Luukia KANEHAILUA me too.....
Mhm she’s Filipino
Macoroniyu ! Well, she/he might not be American tho? Maybe Canadian, English, Italian, Mexican, etc
perfect example of “Asian mums vs Westerner mums”
It might sound disheartening, but idk feels like most of the mums are always thinking their kids are the best. Which leads to them being cocky
Exactly 👏
No that just makes your child more sad and it won't really do anything
@@whoreheyisaicon3096 you don't know how Asian parenting works then, I was raised more stricter than this so💀
호피바이러스 first of all no one cares and second of all you can do thing with something small. This was an opportunity of a lifetime and she. Said that her daughter wasn’t good enough
TruEee frrrr
As a child who grew up with a mom who was mentally abusive, I would have loved it if some adult had said something to my mother about the way she was talking to me. It would have given me hope that someone had loved and cared about me. My mom would defend her ways and gaslight me into saying that I liked her ways too, but in the end, it would have saved me years of therapy.
I dont think she was being abusive in this case. She was preparing her daughter mentally for the worst situation.
Every child is different and her child prolly feels less upset when she expects the situation before hand.
So I dont think the other moms had the right to say that to her.
But if she was spotted being abusive towards her daughter and then these mom's stood up to her then I respect and agree with them for that.
I hope you are in a better place, far away from ur mom now.
@@aabiram.a.z5645 there’s a difference between preparing for the worst and discouraging them. she was psyching her daughter out and discouraging her a lot. it’d be different if she just said it this time but she had a bad attitude and put it on her child.
@@oliviaaa3096 Finally someone said it, I hate Maria and will always hate her.
2:02 the way she says it sounds like a toddler
Bruh have any of these moms met a Asian parent...
Rainey Brain ikr!
Why was jordyns mam doing that she was like her mom said “ok we’re going home” like no she said it’s ok if we go hime
I loved kristie and Jordan’s mom. Kristie is so supportive even when Elizabeth was getting bullied by vevette.
the thing she was doing is right she was preparing lexine for the worst possible so she does not get upset
I like how Christie acted calm and comforted all the kids but didn’t judge anyone’s parenting
Me as an Asian: typical.
Same but black
Same but Russian
Why is Asia so tiny , cute and adorable here she made my heart melt
Tahlia's Toy House she was 6 years old on the show
guys its just pinoy parenting. my parents will tell you the truth and you just accept cause you know its true. lexine's mom wasn't discouraging her but actually preparing her
Lol speaking from a Filipino family just because you grew up being taught that way or how they parent you doesn't mean it applies to every kid (meaning you still got to understand the nature of your kid and not always do it your way) just like how Maria or Kelly misunderstood how they should parent or handle Lexine because some parents may not know their children very well. My parents are prideful and doesn't allow opinions and go crazy for the stupidest things. Some relationships are just toxic.
ikr like not everything is going to be sunshine and rainbows
When Lexi fell I didn’t even notice I was watching Asia the whole 😂
Asia looks so cute when she’s just standing there with her mom 😂
It’s the same song as the group dance “widows” from dance moms season 8!!
“ You don’t understand”
That’s how we Asians work. I really agree with all the comments here. It’s prepare for the worst and sCrEaM
Oh I loved Asia, she was such a little pocket rocket!!! Gorgeous young girl and amazingly talented kid!
The other parents need to mind their own business
Jordyn probably should stay in her lane. All of the parents should just worry about their own kid.
Morgyn Herd agreed she should not have criticize lexines moms parenting, just disrespectful,
She was trying to help she was just a little girl
How she gonna be like don’t talk to my child while she’s trying to talk to another child?
Jordyn mom was amazing in the show. Always honest , supportive and never pretended to be nice to those she disliked
I honestly want to punch you. You really don't understand that Maria was just trying to prepare her daughter she on the other hand wanted toget into others business
Brooklyn Skye Thank you. I was waiting for someone to comment on how rude Jordyn’s mom was. Maria wasn’t even doing much, It was unacceptable how Jordyn’s mom told Maria how to parent.
@Daisy_playz Gacha ....bruh
English ain’t their first language, and Maria didn’t mean what you think she did at all. Failure is a learning experience for a kid, and a parent is there to play their role and show their child how to accept it.
Brooklyn Skye I want to punch you. Aside from this little situation she was good. So go off pooh
They are all good but they should learn how to respect theirself
“i don’t even scream at my child like that” she wasn’t even screaming lmao. like not even close
I feel bad for Maria tho. She just said “we CAN go home.” It’s just Asian parenting that no one will understand.
It’s not your daughter so mind your business.
Period
The other child was lecturing with her hands all in Maria’s face about her parenting. That to me is extremely disrespectful especially coming from an Asian household. If a child was to criticise my parenting techniques I would quickly shut her/him down as well.
Period.on 2:02 is so disrespectful like this is a parent conversation not kids
last time i was this early kenzie was a mouse
Alexis Perezchica last time I was early Jill wanted Kendall to play Rosa Parks.
😂😭
I still can’t believe Kenzie is so grown now 😭❤️ they all are
Y’all this is the Asian house hold, be prepared for your emotions.
y’all really have never seen and Asian mom before 🤣
That is not the song they danced to lolll i watched this show faithfully when I was younger i know every song and dance
I Fell Bad For Lexine (Maria's Mom) Cause She Wanted To Do What's Best For Her When She Saw Her Cry
Maria is lexine’s mom
Literally she’s being nice. It hurts but with an Asian parent it’s normal and good honestly. All she was trying to do was mentally prepare her, telling her that it’s ok to go home. Because it’s not the end of the world and she shouldn’t get her hopes up because it would make her more upset. She did her best dancing, she should be proud and ok the go home knowing she did her best.
Guys this is how Filipino parents act it’s normal for them to yell like that it’s just our personality Lexine specifically said stop I don’t like this and the other girl just kept talking so the mom was like stop talking to her please she doesn’t like it!!! At 2:02 you can clearly see the other girl tryna say something and lexine says just stop and the mom goes I know why can’t u just.... and when the other little girl continues to talk she say to shut up because he daughter doesn’t want to be talked to
Jasmine Sksksk it doesn’t matter if it’s asian parenting doesn’t mean that it’s right. You can’t just tell your daughter who worked her butt off that she’s going home asian parenting isn’t always the best sometimes you need to try something different
Stamilton yea that’s also true but I’m just stating facts
Jasmine Sksksk oh okay I respect your opinions
Stamilton yeah I’m Filipino and trust me... what Jasmine said is PURE FACTS
Hanz popthorn38 hahah only Filipinos will understand 🤭😂
Maria kinda had a reason to get stressed with Jordan cause it was Jordan entering a conversation for parents so she has a right to
@Tay JMN How?
@@dilloncoyne3283 ok and then she has the right to be shut down then. She wanted to insert herself into an adult’s conversation so she got treated like an adult 🤷♀️
@@jacquelinebrown2372 JUST BECAUSE SHE'S WRONG DOESENT MEAN YOU YELL AT A CHILD! ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S NOT IN YOUR FAMILY! KIDS HAVE A VOICE FOR YOU KNW! RESPECT YOUR ELDERS BUT RESPECT THE CHILD TO!!!!!!
@@dilloncoyne3283 in what world is it ok for a child to tell a mother how to parent her child please be fr🤣
It doesn’t matter. She was talking to Levine trying to comfort her
2:02 just look at Jordyn (idk how to write) she was scared
Literally all of the time: moms need to stop poking their noses into other mom's kids lives and business
The music is the same music that was used in the dance “Widows”
It want right for the little blond girl to try and argue with the mother. How would you like a little girl criticizing your parenting?
Sahana Harsha Jordyn said like "be nice please your daughter is crying"
Sahana Harsha and to lexine she said its okay
Lexine’s mum was trying to mentally prepare her in case she goes home but it just came off wrong to the other mothers! but i honestly think lexines mum is so harsh on her daughter sometimes and just needs to be more supportive if she wants her child to succeed!
Lexines voice is so cute!😍😍😍
yeah me too same.
Lexi mom seems like a good mom.
I think to an outsider it doesn’t look good what Maria was saying like I don’t think she should of said it so definitively, maybe just making sure her daughter knew it was a possibility and why.
I’m all fairness Maria did say I’m sorry when Jordyns mom said hey hey hey and was giving out to jordyn she was like ok I’m sorry not a lot of people do that so cut her so slack
Really? The other moms needed to mind their business. They started a screaming match, when really, just find the girl later by herself and say great job!
“The tumbling that’s a trick, it’s not even a technique” there’s technique involved in tumbling lol.
omg she can parent the way she wants
Maria was trying to her daughter that they have a chance of going home. She was not saying her daughter is bad and needs to be sent home. When do something like a presentation you need to think on what could go wrong, not what will go wrong.
The lady in orange:can you please stop it
Jordyns mom:Do NoT TaLk TO MY ChILD LikE ThAt
Jordyn for no reason starts crying
She cried because the Asian mum yelled at her
B and W vlogs she didn’t yell at her she said can u pls stop it and Jordan was telling the Asian how to raise her child
She should have stayed out of the other's mom's business. She wasn't discouraging her daughter she was telling her that she wasn't prepared for it. That's why her daughter jumped in because her mom jumped in, but when she told the daughter to stay out the mom got mad. Kids do what they see you do.
Oh the beginning song, they used it for "widows"
Kristie is the only good mom on the show
That was my tiger mom detector!
Maria calmly speaking to Jordyn
Kelly (Jordyns Mom) : I DONT EVEN SCREAM AT MY DAUGHTER LIKE THAT NOBODY IS GONG TO EITHER
Me: *the whitest thing I’ve heard all day*
Ikr she’s such a Karen!!
If you look closely at 2:02 the blond kid was being dissrespectful to the asian mother while the blond mother didnt do NOTHING and they edited it out to make it look like the asian mother snapped to the kid for no reason
You don’t know that’s what she was doing though
"i nEvEr sCrEaM aT mY dAuGhTeR tHaT wAy" also her; "EVERYTHING YOU DID WRONG, I TOLD YOU TO NOT DO, SO ITS YOUR FAULT"
just realized the dance the same music as widows from season 8
Who though when they saw this caption it was when Kendal screams at Ashlee and Jill says “don’t talk to my child that way”
In all honesty i support the way maria was telling her kid the reality because even tho she is just a kid its right to tell them that even if they lose it will be okay
She didn’t even yell at her. The girl was jumping at them, overstepping, and needed to be told to stop
Oh my goodness! 🤯
I just feel bad for the Children! 🥺
WHO ELSE THINKS ASIA KILLED IT WITH THE SASS?
The music is from season 8 The Widows
0:54 I feel sorry for her but I also can stop laughing "ItS jUsT a TrIcK
That song is from the Widows' dance from season 8, isn't it?
The song at the beginning is the same song from "Widows" on Dance moms
That was the music for a Season 8 group dance! ❤️
Same I just noticed it too
Maria is right, parents need to teach their children that they cant always win and its okay to lose.
I love the music why can’t they save it or put it on Spotify
I thought it said “don’t take my child away”
Alot ppl are commenting on how she is tiger mom . I wanna say to that .. this is not tiger mom . Tiger mom are waaaay more strict . Again English is her first language so how she expresses to her daughter is not how it seems . Again she never anything bad to her daughter.she just said lets go home not anything malice or mad . Correct me if I’m wrong but mother is a Filipina? Filipinos usually don’t sugar coat or baby their kids but trying to teach them to be strong . Anyways she not a tigermom
Yasssss Jordyn's mama is my favorite !
This song is also used for a group dance on dance moms in s8
Love it
.... I mean that’s Asian parenting though, it’s basically tough love many Asian parents don’t sugarcoat things nor do they hold their kids hand cause the more parents do that the less they’re likely to learn. Plus Maria was preparing her child mentally. I get why the other parents are upset but that’s literally how every Asian parents are 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I don't think that Maria was saying that they were DEFINITELY going home. I think that she was trying to tell her daughter that it was 'fine' to go home then. I think that the mothers weren't used to her way of speaking and took it the wrong direction.
This mom is out of control I feel bad for Lexi the other moms were trying to help
Velma Squish The moms were trying to lecture her on parenting?? I would also be very angry if someone told me what my daughter wanted and how I was to look after my child.
Failure is a learning experience for a child, and Maria was playing the role of a parent to teach their child how to accept it.
UGHHHH i want to punch you lowkey I'm asain and it normal because not everything will be sunshine and rainbows like ughhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!! And if you were Lexi's mom you would be mad bout other parents telling you how to parent jeez!
Tell me your not an Asian without telling me your Asian. 🤣
@@user-hx9dc3xb9y exactly! Finally! And Dr Holly also post something that goes "Failure is not the opposite of success, it's apart of it".
does anyone know what’s the original song that was played on that trio? i know the song in this video is not the real one, the real one started with female laughing. where can i find the full performance ?
Maria did nothing wrong she knows her child and if she has to mentally prepare he daughter with the possibility of going home that's what she has to do. She did fall in that trunk and it could have sent them home (idk if they did go home) but he child is More important than a show
I’ll never understand how people can get involved in someone else’s parenting like this. Unless there are clear signs of abuse (which there aren’t in this situation) it is not anyone’s job to criticize the way someone raises and interacts with their own kids. Maria probably suggested she and Lexine go home and leave the competition because if she’s too overwhelmed to perform at her best, it’s better to take a loss and not push yourself further than you already are. And tbh Lexine does seem really overwhelmed here. It was a good idea to suggest leaving the competition altogether
Isn't that song they used for the group dance "Widows" in season 8?
That is the als music from season 8 from dance moms. The dance calls Widows
Why was that the most asian parent response ever lmaooo 😭, My dad does the same thing hahaha😂
The question is did she go home tho?
Tamar Perkins She didn’t
Luv Aldo and audc
@@aldcpaigehylandlover learn how to be kind to others
Sadie Tebo it’s auto correct I meant aldc
Also I know how to spell
so don’t be mean
To everyone saying it’s the song from the dance widows season 8, I thought it was too til I watched the original footage it’s a audio swap. Although this song is really nice😭😭😭
I just realized this is the same music as the widows dance last season
Yall mother’s dont get between a situation where u don’t know the child well, if the mother knows the child so well and know that the kid needs some preparation to be calmed down, then so be it, it’s the mothers choice, don’t talk when u don’t know the child more then the mother. Lexine was more stressed out bc of the moms.
Maria is unbelievable
They just need to worry about themselves tho
I grew in an Asian-Pacific Islander home and I got that tough love too.
She said it is okkkkkkkk if we go home not we are going home
This is the same song for the widow dance from season eight of dance moms